You posted this literal 6 min ago which means you're going there in 9 mins..Best of luck! 🖤 Tell me how it goes 💕
@Pujarxy2 жыл бұрын
Good luck gurl💕
@shelbybrown042 жыл бұрын
@@cloudxarepretty he’s on his way to pick me up now haha and I will do :)💕
@Mickeymous7174 Жыл бұрын
Revision notes 1. Never plan the first date (don't ask him to go on the first date) 2. Look presentable(nails, stains, perfume) 3. Be Mysterious 4. Do not do anything intimate. 5. Do not obsess over him.
@bluebellbeatnik4945 Жыл бұрын
lol I asked him out for a drink and he said yes. the rest I agree with.
@Poisedblood2 жыл бұрын
As a medical student I save this video for future bc I am currently focused on upcoming exams date lmao😭😂
@kalkidanthings Жыл бұрын
Same
@ann-nicolep42518 ай бұрын
So relatable
@Kaya-hi4pg3 күн бұрын
So it is universal 😂
@kiwiwooq2 жыл бұрын
For rule #1, I 100% agree. I was in a very serious long term relationship and this was my first mistake. I consider myself as an independent and strong women so at that time I asked him out. But overtime, I kept thinking what would have happened if I never asked him out. That was the beginning of this insecurity that I never thought I would face. Well as you can assume, that relationship did not last at all. Now I know where I went wrong lol. LADIES, LADIES, LADIES your dream guy will come to you. If somebody is showing a hint that they like YOU, trust me, THEY WILL COME TO YOU. Keep up the feminine energy ✨✨
@smashh1092 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜
@beingaesthetic74022 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I totally appreciate it
@ashalmenezes2048 Жыл бұрын
I violated the Rule 1, what do I do?
@raunaknarayan4092 Жыл бұрын
Basic rule of life: if you want something good in your life then just sitting back and waiting for things to happen miraculously then thats the worst strategy you can use. My wife asked for the date… she was waiting for a very long time for me to make the first move I was in delusion that she has a boyfriend, if she would have never asked me we would never be together, she is a very strong woman
@thelonercoder581611 ай бұрын
agreed lol. Sorry but if a woman shows no interest in me by never approaching nor starting convo, im going to assume she's not interested and will not ask her out on a date.
@moviesnmoscato9 ай бұрын
She's not saying never approach or never start the conversation. She's specifically saying "ask for the first date". I believe in showing interest, and then letting him make the next move from there
@raunaknarayan40929 ай бұрын
@@moviesnmoscato Boys already have a lot of things to deal with on priority (way our society is structured) don’t play so many games or you may stay single forever.
@penneysalvo28853 ай бұрын
Eat before you go on a date..don't be hungry and order a meal that's affordable
@tasnimaesha59402 жыл бұрын
GO girls GO!!!! All solid facts GIRL! Love you so so much sis
@ilajyrwana63742 жыл бұрын
I get motivated alot watching her videos and hearing her povs. As an impact of her video I become automatically productive and positive as a girl.
@Nimeshaa2 жыл бұрын
Awww that’s nice to hear ❤️
@PauLina-ji6io6 ай бұрын
I‘m shocked nobody disagrees with her in the comments… Like wtf. This might work for a certain kind of relationship but not for any kind…
@hanariaz7842 жыл бұрын
I know its weird….but please give us tips on long term relationships.(currently in a long term relationship) What to do and what not. THANK YOU GIRL… I LOVE YOUR ADVICES.
@soothing_focus3 ай бұрын
Yes pls
@carmenamy12310 ай бұрын
Nah, either person could ask first, it takes courage to make a move on either side
@asmrbyamily3 ай бұрын
fr both sides are waiting and hoping the other person will ask😭
@thesaltypineapple766310 ай бұрын
I totally agree with being feminine and having the guy ask you out, which is what I would have wanted but the guy I’m into is kind of a wimp so I had to casually ask him out
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
Why date a wimpy guy? Sounds like a lose.
@Nightmare_-ix7dk4 ай бұрын
Set rules for betas , break rules for alphas perfect example if she wanted to she would.
@infinitetimer272 жыл бұрын
1:00 He ask me on a date and he said I could pick the place. I pick Applebees because their is nothing else I could think of. 😅 may I add, this is the first time we both have ever dated so.
@HJ-rj6lx Жыл бұрын
I already broke the first rule.😥 please wish me all the luck in my relationship guys . I really really like him.
@buse8068 Жыл бұрын
Me too sis :))) don't worry
@Unhappysunshinez8 ай бұрын
Yeah me too
@Liebah116 ай бұрын
Fucking right girls it happend with me too
@Bac2025-j3z5 ай бұрын
i asked him for the date😂😂😂😂
@Ryon-qy3jk4 ай бұрын
!!! I asked him on day so I broke the first rule!!!!
@shwetaphansalkar25252 жыл бұрын
Nimesha just keep doing videos on these topics...you explain it so well and you have valid points❤️
@nolife82098 ай бұрын
1st rule is such a bs if you want him, go get him! bruh u shudnt have to wait for him to ask u out if it feels right for u to ask him out! and as a women, i LOVE to plan dates. and my boyfriend enjoys it, he is always up for whenever i randomly say "hey we shud do this/ go there someday". and i had also planned our first date lmao, and he was up for it. just do what u want and feels right at that moment, no need to wait around due to these bs rules.
@sharanya1817 ай бұрын
Right like wtf is that advice
@Aloo3712 жыл бұрын
Im not going on a date but I definitely needed these advices as my relationship is falling apart due to my extreme attachment.
@beingaesthetic74022 жыл бұрын
Please don’t show extreme attachment. It’s not only ruin your relationship but also it will destroy you. Give yourself priority first trust me
@samiajerry94312 жыл бұрын
After wedding u look more gorgeous 😍
@rathnayakasalma87962 жыл бұрын
I'm still single and I feel like I'm still not ready to have a relationship or dating...But I'm watching this vedio whenever it will be helpful to me😊 Nimesha my sister you are my motivation girl...Thank you so much and love you so much💓
@hikkkies Жыл бұрын
For me I feel like its so earthly and natural to date someone after having them in our life as a friend prior to date or being around a circle of friends for some time..Its so familiar about eachother and no anxiety or too attached of the outcome ❤.. 😊😊
@madhu4662 жыл бұрын
Hey namesha, I'm also one of the brown girls, wanna say I love your facial features . Girl you're always there to heal me up whenever I'm at my lowest phase , I love the way you use your hands to express your words. Love from India ❤
@Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss2 жыл бұрын
She is making valid points here
@englishliterature8581 Жыл бұрын
You know sometimes I think if we gotta pretend or hide so much from the person we're aiming to spend our life with, then what's the point meeting that person in the first place? In my opinion, before anything else we must be genuine because that's something this world is currently deprived of. 😊
@mickeyythabeast4 ай бұрын
“Do not bring that 50/50 bullshit into this channel”… IMMEDIATELY SUBSCRIBED! 😂🤌🏽🫶🏽
@ilmanaw1322 жыл бұрын
Youuuu loookkk damnnnn prettryyyyy 🥰🥰 so obsessed with ur videos gurl 😍😊
@purplediary92602 жыл бұрын
he asked me for a date, and we will go tomorrow.. so i think i passed rule number one...😁 and i got the right video on the right time love you sis😊
@riyakaria6192 жыл бұрын
I love this series!!! 💁♀️
@shelleykris30 Жыл бұрын
Being a female is just a gender my mom told me if you want them that bad if he makes you happy you should ask him it's your life you're choice don't listen to her it's your life if you don't mind to ask him do it women should have love in there future I never been asked in my life if I want to go on date so if you don't ask the guy may not know you care that much about him so it's your choice your life My crush asked me out first but you still have a choice us Women should find love like every body else if you want to Women be strong just go for it women work very very hard to find a lover and respect
@monday27564 ай бұрын
Wow. Love everything what I heard ❤. Thank you !!!!
@Rivaiye Жыл бұрын
Me literally on the first date: *sees him* "okay when do we want to marry and how many children do we want" 😭 why am I like this
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
It's a natural feeling but be wise and control yourself. You'll scare him off and ruin the process of his pursuit.
@Anonymouss_992 жыл бұрын
I looovveeee your perspective on being high value woman ❤
@mahayaqub1572 жыл бұрын
girl looks exactly like a doll 😫❤
@dancewithme74352 жыл бұрын
I love how u tell exactly what I wanted to hear thank u ❤️
@Karinalakhia2 жыл бұрын
Nimesha you helped me moving on from my ex thank you so much
@zuuzuumahad3118 Жыл бұрын
I'm late but happy for u❤
@nabamitaghosh1134 Жыл бұрын
❤love you nimesha !!!! Your woman arge is 🎉🎉🎉amazing
@roopshukla51502 жыл бұрын
How to manifest a loyal, trustworthy basically an actual MEN ... Nd dude i swear you're really the queen nd you motivates me alott
@rimshahashmat26296 ай бұрын
love you Nimesha, this video matches so well with my mindset 🤌✨
@VanessaEnciso-fd4mg3 ай бұрын
I'm actually going next week 😂kinda excited..thanks uploading ❤
@noone_____2 жыл бұрын
Though I'm single and never going to get into a relationship. But still watching it, because I like Nimeshaa
@Kepe77714 күн бұрын
YOU DON'T CHASE YOU ATTRACT...TRUE... JUST LOVE THAT❤❤❤
@Sunlovesbangtan2 жыл бұрын
But I think splitting the bill is a good thing, why depend on someone else to pay for you? It will hurt my self esteem (personal opinion)
@garfield48822 жыл бұрын
Then you'll keep attracting broke ass man who would want you to split the bill always
@Sunlovesbangtan2 жыл бұрын
@@garfield4882 I don't feel , splitting the bill is a broke thing it will respect my dignity.
@garfield48822 жыл бұрын
@@Sunlovesbangtan Then you'll never find a man who's ready to lead and take charge. You'll always find men who need to be taken care of.
@garfield48822 жыл бұрын
@@Sunlovesbangtan you need to believe that you're worth his time, money and energy. And him providing for you is actually the bare minimum.
@Sunlovesbangtan2 жыл бұрын
@@garfield4882 ok as I said personal opinion
@manpritkaur99442 жыл бұрын
Very well said good advice 💯👌🏻❤️
@dancewithme74352 жыл бұрын
My first date actually went amazing even tho I was the one who planned it . Even tho the relationship didn't last long my first date was exactly how I envision it be so I am so grateful... The only advice I can give is that do what makes u happy that's the only way you are not going to regret doing it
@TJ-wb6je2 жыл бұрын
Now you know why it didn't last long. If a man doesn't initiate plans to see you he's not that interested in you.
@jennifernyarko6779 Жыл бұрын
My date was canceled a while back ...glad I'm watching this now
@narutomagar Жыл бұрын
Thanks nimeshaa Di all the rules were accurate to the point
@btsgalaxy63152 жыл бұрын
Gurlll Me who's never been on a date But still watching it because of nimesha But thank you for all the tips U are really like my elder sis for me ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@simarvishwakarma6193 Жыл бұрын
Ily gurllll❤ you're a good advisor
@bubba283 Жыл бұрын
I love this, I'm a guy who just went on a date with a guy for the first time, I was so nervous someone would catch us on date that I knew
@anjalipaswan64092 жыл бұрын
More videos like this please 🥺👉👈❤️
@shamriaquoreshi32982 жыл бұрын
ahh why didn't you post this video one month ago. I went on a date with this guy and did everything the things that you forbade to do in this video. Lomg story short now he says he doesn't want to be with me. He says that he doesn't want to be romantically involved with me . He wants to be friends with good terms. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
@lakshmipriyam96002 жыл бұрын
I liked your long hair version ❤️ than that before 2 years... It really suits u sis😍
@celebcounter10075 ай бұрын
2:57 ..dude i love this gurl ❤❤❤ ✨✨✨✨😂😂
@echomridha46942 жыл бұрын
6 November my exam will be start. And 4 novembers i am watching "tips for first date" 😂😂😂😂.Though its not for me but i love watching your video 😅😅😅😅😅😅.Wish me best of luck for my exam nimmy😘😘😘😘.
@dancewithme74352 жыл бұрын
all the best 😂
@gracesplace3449 Жыл бұрын
So pretty 😍 Girl where were you before I made a fool of myself 100 thousand times before 😳
@RezaRahimzadeh-kx2db8 ай бұрын
Well said, but girl has to be honest and tell the true if asked
@nishatiwari54106 ай бұрын
You are too good Nimeshaa❤❤❤ love you
@lakshmibishukarma976 Жыл бұрын
My crush said yes to go on a date with me guys😢😢😢 if you have any do's and don'ts please let me know😚
@uci11112 жыл бұрын
i never had a boyfriend i’m 18 lol i feel bad sometimes 😢
@aditisharma69512 жыл бұрын
Bro I'm 20
@Fg456622 жыл бұрын
@@aditisharma6951 hm. Indians m. To chlta h yr😂 I m almost 22 and still haven't gone
@aena59952 жыл бұрын
@@Fg45662 dude sem 💀😢
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
You have time..
@Aradhyagurjar8652 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nimesha you r my favorite😍💕 one
@Namiha-2 жыл бұрын
Keep shining babe❤️😘😘
@sashaenglish27558 ай бұрын
I love your message ❤️ Let men be men. In a world where men feel they can't be men cause women are equal.. Bollocks.. We love men just the way they are and treating a woman like a princess and taking her/ asking her out and paying for the date is a good thing not a bad thing.
@calmcatto2 жыл бұрын
Okay but not oversharing is so important. Once I went on a date with this girl and we were having those "deep talks" ye know and then she really ended up crying and it got so awkward :/// And if ur lesbian/bi/pan/queer go ahead and ask the girl out. One of u have to and she/they might be too shy to ask so just do it LMAO.
@PoojaGaur-c1s Жыл бұрын
I m seriously in love with ur thoughts ❤
@deihnu81907 ай бұрын
love your advice 😘😍
@Hafsatunnesarekmuna Жыл бұрын
I'm going on my first date at 1st November, I came to rewatch... It'll help me soo much😭
@ip3931 Жыл бұрын
God, I wish I could relate to the privileges of young women my age and younger like you! I don't even have afamily or friends never mind a date never mind a partner! You're so young and have achieved so much! I cannot relate at all! How on earth do you have it all!?
@swardahiremath35675 ай бұрын
I am literary learning things for you before going on a date
@sukanyasadhana7 ай бұрын
Thanks for this 🥺🥺🥺
@ghondii_2618 Жыл бұрын
The way you said "Split the bill" 🤣🤣🤣 OMG!!
@tagalogtutorgen3 күн бұрын
The guy asked me for a meet up.. I didn't answer yes but the other day I follow up and suggest a place where we can go which is a public place... So we will meet after 2 days .
@Anna-zu9cq10 ай бұрын
On the first tip I already realized that I messed up. I asked him first cause he’s taking FOREVER to say something about meeting up, but he acts like my boyfriend over the Texts. What do I do ?
@November22-p4e11 күн бұрын
More making detailed videos on this we talk about more topics or questions asking for him in first date?
@Lifeofshubh142 жыл бұрын
YOU LOOK SOO SOO GORGEOUS MAN😍
@unknown_too Жыл бұрын
Idk I'm just getting obsessed with yo videos 😢❤
@LegalBird369 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️😊
@rubykaur56786 күн бұрын
Thank you for amazing advice
@sivasakthithangaiah5962 жыл бұрын
Most needed at this time. Thanks nimeshaa ❤️
@nadira1258 Жыл бұрын
OMG she is such a good person ❤❤❤❤
@Namiha-2 жыл бұрын
Lemme expose a Truth..... I'm eagerly waiting for your Video..... Btw happpy married life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
@__Onss__.2 жыл бұрын
Pov : I have never gone on a date but I'm still here
@kmpwick2 жыл бұрын
Love you nimehsa, you are our Queen ❤
@KhadijaX0X07 ай бұрын
I’m so freaking delulu it’s not a date I’m jus going to a place where he’s going to be and I need him to like fall in love me with at first sight?help😭
@thepapch2 ай бұрын
If he isn't financially stable it's fine as long as he is 100% honest??? Really girl? He don't gotta tell you none of that unless the relation ship is getting serious.
@youtubedotkom62852 жыл бұрын
2:56 bestt🤣🤣🤣
@bluebellbeatnik4945 Жыл бұрын
'not sleep with him on the first date' - luckily for me, I will be on my period! God knows what he is doing.
@danilaroche11564 ай бұрын
I don't think you should sleep with anyone without a solid commitment.
@harshithasuresh1302 жыл бұрын
Hey nimishaa... We need more dating advices from youuuuu😭😭😭😭
@dulakshanasrimal17172 жыл бұрын
U become more and more beautiful day by day. Lots of love form Sri Lanka 💕😍😍
@Lanaluv042 ай бұрын
Just had a great first date! ❤
@ashubrilliant353810 ай бұрын
Going on my first date in 30mints 😊
@samanthahussain4219 Жыл бұрын
I'm going on my date today. First date everr. I'm so nervous. I like him alot. He asked out??? How the hell do that happened idk how he asked. I thought it was just me having feelings lol. But yea. In a few hours I'm going. So I'm here. Getting tips
@pmu_27232 жыл бұрын
Thnkuuu Thnkuuu Thnkuuu nimeshaaaa❤️
@Wankhededeepika1Ай бұрын
Thank you for the good tips
@Pink-fx8qb3 ай бұрын
How about he want to see me more than 2,3 times a week ? Not alway a dinner date . He want to come mine watch Netflix or for walk .? Is that normal or I just think too much ?
@fathima5774 Жыл бұрын
thank u nimesha ♥️
@radioactive69982 жыл бұрын
Stick to the FORD stuff when talking family occupation recreation dreams. That would keep the first date going for hours
@romatailor13676 ай бұрын
what if he travels 3 hours to come see you but doesn't know the area well, is it okay to guide him, he told me he was researching things to do but he couldn't find anything.
@Awkwardsmiles Жыл бұрын
Me n my boyfriend just say good night n good morning just to start our day n end our day we both are busy nowadays and he is far away from me ....