5 Things You Should Never Do During The Talking Stage || GirlTalk

[@Mickeymous7174]

Notes: 1. Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. 2. Do not give him gf or wife privileges 3.Do not complain(don't give a shit) 4. Do not prioritize him 5. Do not talk about him to other people.

[@hildahjohnsons]

Thank you for this ❤

[@leiajones852]

I talk about him to other ppl and I just started like checking in on him more in a way bc I want him to know I care lmao. I wouldn’t call it prioritizing but it could lead up to it in the future. I think nothings wrong with showing you’re serious about that person but hey I guess that ain’t cool these days.

[@tempejkl]

as a man: 1. Seems about right 2. Yep 3. You should give a shit, but not too much of a shit 4. Yes 5. Depends

[@Chrzysztof]

"Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. " - horrible advice to be stuck in situationship or FWB. We as a man don't give a f... If you don't play "relation" card we will see and date other girls.

[@eslileisberg]

​Fax@@Chrzysztof

[@Amy-rr9bl]

Why did I see this after the fact I just did most of these 😭😭

[@lyhouy5307]

after seeing all these type of vid now i wanna js go on n ghost him 😔

[@dhaybarr]

Right

[@Notme811_you]

You gave him money too 😭😂

[@dorito3624]

FOR REAL 😭😭

[@uwuloveliness9987]

the universe knew you weren’t going to listen, had to put salt on the wound to make you remember for next time with this video 😂

[@kajalrawat7434]

Hats off to her mindset, found something real and bold in this fake world🌟✨

[@Obaid90]

That’s toxic what are you talking about

[@leiajones852]

@@Obaid90 lmao

[@aletek205]

As a male watching this I am a little bit confused….Some advice are very good : like first and last one; but you have to be very careful when you use them. The dating life for me is basically trying to do things that attract women: dress good, having a grooming and skin care routine, workout but also trying to showing intent, be funny, make her feel safe around us. And for women it basically go like this: 4:35, don’t over do it. You need to understand that mans are considerate valuable when they do a lot of things and they are very good at it, imagine having a boyfriend with a jacked body, with a solid job, that can cook, play and instrument, speak more than two languages, he has his own house, car and he keeps studying to be more acculturated and also he understands you, makes you feel safe and good with him…sounds cool right? So how you can have a man like this if you keep showing him that you don’t care or pretending you don’t care? Say no when he is trying to take you in his life (going out with his friends, ecc) or never try to meet his schedule….you are dating him, so you are interested, be genuine and show it; man like teasing, maybe two or three times, I have a lot of things to do and I am not gonna waste my time on a woman that likes to play with my time and life, I am already reserving her time so girls don’t play hard to get, he his going to disappear in one moth or less, and don’t think he does it because for him you were a girl to kiss or more for one night, he leaves you because you played hard to get. Guys will chase you that much only if you are his only thing going on in his life, and I think that is a bad thing. We like balance, we like chasing you but if you like him back show it, male are more insecure than you think and becoming confident and also valuable takes time, a lot of time, we are not going to spend it on a girl that shows no interest in us.

[@laibamubeenali7350]

She is giving advices to girls that are not in relationship because girls overthink so much and assume so much things that aren't even real and when the reality hits or the treatment from the other person is not what they thought would be then they get hurt and that's why these advices are needed and these are not for the girls that are in a relationship for long time or atleast more than a month

[@aletek205]

@@laibamubeenali7350 yeah but she said if you want a real relationship, one month or only dating is not a real relationship....

[@laibamubeenali7350]

By that she means if you really want to know who really wants to get serious with you because there are so many guys out there telling you that they wanna get in relationship with you and they are not even serious about that relationship it's just a time pass for them it's pretty normal so one should be cautious to not get hurt and by chasing she didn't mean to become hard to get even when the guy is damn serious, giving importance and time and etc

[@laibamubeenali7350]

That would really be stupidity to become hard to get when someone is really making time for you making efforts for you.

[@aletek205]

@@laibamubeenali7350 as I said in my comment: the first one and the last advices are very good, I tryed to explain that you can't abuse with them, this is a video that can be very miss-interpretate in my opinion.

[@alexandragen888]

I’m 34 year old over here. I wish I had someone like you to advice me when I was young. What a clever big sister you are ❤. Such a sweet personality. And I’m addicted to your videos. Never ever let anyone to dull your light.

[@delizas1968]

It's my first time being in the 'talking' stage so I needed this thanks😭

[@juniordesrosiers2463]

" It's easy to move on than trying fix a situation you no control over"

[@tatamic5771]

i dont want to brag or anything, but hear me out, not giving a shit is the main reason i have many admirers- they literally start thinking that they don't have any effect on you, and when that happens they try harder to get your attention and care back, and that's not playing hard to get or anything, its just like she said being mysterious and ignorant (not so much like, just be normal) so that they dont get any clues or hints on you having a crush on them, act like how you are with every other guy, normal and just go with the flow♥

[@Marauder-eu9om]

Do you think this will work after you show them you care? Like ive been talking to this guy an you're absolutely right that when we don't care they care a lot but I do have strong feelings for him but I never showed it. But recently we had a huge issue , and we stopped contacting each other, although he tried to contact me initially I didn't really respond well and I finally reached out to him after 5 days (because I didn't wanna lose him) and after that I felt that he's not really putting as much effort as he used to and this is deiving me crazy and i tried putting effort. Because I appeared so damn desperate and I feel embarrassed now. So I don't know if it's possible to get back if I pull away or stop reaching out.

[@namjoongavemejiminsjams1284]

I would more than love having a best friend like Nimeshaa She is so motivating ... so mature...so beautiful ... YOU GO GURL!!!!! I love you PERIODT!!!💜

[@pratimabudhathoki6487]

You are an amazing 😍

[@kyra2009k]

Same!!! 💖💖

[@namjoongavemejiminsjams1284]

@@pratimabudhathoki6487 Gurl you too💜💜

[@namjoongavemejiminsjams1284]

@@kyra2009k ikr!!!😩✨

[@namjoonstolejiminsjams]

Your usernames are soo simmilar 😭😭

[@_apoorva_07]

"I couldn't care less about what they like or don't like" gurrrlllll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@cirv248]

Omg the advice on not complaining is top tier! ♡ thank you girl!

[@shaheenbegum5814]

This is so helpful and its like sharing tips with our girl besties. Thanks for sharing Nimesha! You slayyy queen ✨✨

[@josephperna2081]

So many of these things are not going to get you women nowhere. She acts like she understands the male mindset. And if 4:34 wasn’t a red flag about what her mindset is like.. idk what is.. ladies seriously don’t take advice from the internet.

[@Krullfath]

Let me tell you something, men don’t want to play any fucking games or manipulative mind tricks, we just want an equal and healthy relationship in which both partners love and respect eachother. All of us need to be more straightforward and direct with eachother and express what we want, don’t like or are going to do in my humble opinion ofcourse

[@Krullfath]

Although I must agree with you on the fact that you shouldn’t be making out if you guys haven’t determined what your relationship is

[@catcries]

these gonna change my life from now on!!!! you’re the real queen 🤍 thank you sm

[@edhaaaa]

Mine to. Power to us💪

[@life_goes_on_and_on]

She's the older sister we need❤️. People do address me as an independent and intelligent woman in world, books, academics, work but m an immature, inexperienced child when come to people, society, relationship, friends so this is my first step learning these things

[@harshita6668]

Omg Nimesha this is such an eye opener and i'm definitely gonna make sure i take care of these things in my next talking stage cus i've f'ed up pretty bad in my past ones. Love youuuu!!!💗

[@calmcatto]

Bruh my ex once literally told be they were "TRYING TO LOVE ME" like bro Y TF DO U NEED TO TRY?!?! LOVING ME IS NOT HARD. I was 17 back then and I remember being heartbroken but I cut off all ties with them. Always remember ur worth. Nobody should have to try to love u. If they have to try they are NOT THE ONE!!!! LEAVE!!!

[@cv7212]

Clearly you haven’t been in a long term relationship. Love isn’t raw emotion that’s pumping endorphins 24/7. Relationships are work, keeping the love alive is work, if you aren’t matching his effort of work you’re just showing you don’t care.

[@Silvestersyndrome]

I swear this is it. I did this I completely ignored this person who was once my priority .. We used to talk daily and me literally used to press on the fact that we keep up conversation . But then I got tired and just stopped. Now he is the first person to watch all my updates within a minute everywhere on socials doesn't matter if it's important or not for him. Yes she is really speaking truth

[@ashley684]

Yes! They always start to care when we stop! Happened with my plans yesterday with this guy I’ve been seeing. He didn’t take our plans seriously up until I went and found other plans. Ain’t no body have time for all this

[@Marauder-eu9om]

So will it work if we stop reaching out? I just wanted some advise 😭 I did a big mistake of reaching out to him when he didn't. And now I feel he's taking me for granted. He's not putting the same effort he used to ever since I put the effort.

[@aross5234]

What’s funny is male dating coaches say the EXACT same thing, so we’ll just never get anywhere 😂

[@IVvOOvVI]

That’s why you don’t follow those coaches

[@random-yf2hq]

Omg why isn't anyone talking about how pretty this grl is !?

[@sumitanag6452]

Hlww nimeshaa ..... Pls talk about your wedding, new life,and as a married person how are you doing??? Please we are waiting for this....

[@citygirl4157]

I literally did each and everyone of these things in our 4 MONTHS TALKING STAGE🤡🤡🤡and then he said he's not emotionally ready for a relationship

[@anu2694]

Nimesha with long hair just wow 🥰☁️

[@christopherrivera9154]

As a guy this is true this just make you seem easy even if you ain’t you’re gonna end up getting your feelings hurt by how he’s gonna react to your behaviors

[@pastelmoon2705]

i'm seriously in a talking stage😂and istg as I consider you as my sisterrr i have the same mindset like you do😂♥and thankyou once again for guiding us so well💌

[@Ameli481]

Omg I'm in the talking stage and i needed this so much !! Much love ❤️

[@shy.v3]

considering that I only attract talking stages this is so usefulll THANK YOU

[@sumitracharlu1786]

Need sooo many more girl talks like these🥺❤️

[@preetivrao8976]

nimeshaa with long hair>>>>😩🙇‍♀️💫💜

[@pxllxvii]

You are more than an elder sister to me This girl talk is very helping want more like these.

[@melloyella05]

She gathered my soul with the first 3 I been doing this the wrong way...time to unlearn some things.

[@sanjanamn3870]

Can we appreciate how beautiful shes looking😍 Half through the video i just kept looking at her 💕

[@artfeine]

can I pls take a moment to appreciate on how freaking gorgeous she looks :( It makes me wanna look at her for hours... and this video was very very helpful, thankyou sm love

[@buxmaheen]

You're the best big sister anybody could ever ask for!❤️

[@moazzamashakeel2765]

Thissss. Omg this video is such a life savour. For someone like me who’s grown up in desi household and is fucking naive and did all of the opposites OUR BB told us. GURLS LEMME TELL YOU IM A DIFF PERSON AFTER WATCHING THIS!

[@bommabhargavi]

Your video pops up right when I need it the most and coincidentally on the topic that I need the most. Loved it!! More power to you.❤️

[@anjalipaswan6409]

OMG Nimesha your eyes are so gorgeous 🥺❤️

[@vibes6878]

You look so beautiful after marriage like that snack wifey goals

[@life-is-here]

This video provides great advice for women looking to start a serious relationship. It covers five key things to avoid before dating, and is definitely worth watching.

[@vibes6878]

That newly married beauty 😍

[@LydDee]

I went out with this guy 3 times and already on the second date he wanted to change our plans (even though he was the one to propose to go out). And for no good reason! He just wanted to attend an extra dance class out of the blue🥴 I told him that if it's really important he can go but we will have to reschedule for next week as I had other plans the upcoming days. He admitted openly that it wasn't that important and since I'm not available the upcoming days, he didn't wanna wait for a week. I made it clear that it's not nice to bail when you have plans with someone if there's no urgency. Eventually he called me mean and strict for setting boundaries instead of going with the flow😅He insinuated that I nagged😅 So my question is, did I really nag?! I just explained I don't like it when people change plans. In overall I never complained that he took forever to text back (up to 24 hours!), never pressured him into anything and gave him space to pursue me at his own pace. (Well, at the end I got tired of him flaking out, so I ended things)

[@btsot769]

Woah look at your glow up after marriage You were so pretty but now you are glowing

[@Divadrive03]

You're getting prettier everyday💕

[@fergiescherzinger]

ur looking so gorgeous in this video , i could watch you all day

[@bobisolano3161]

You lost me at "he needs to ask you to be his girlfriend". ...The sooner women leave this state of mind, the sooner they'll finally achieve Equal Pay and Equal Treatment. Understand tje difference between bein treated like Princesses and being treated with Respect.

[@mysticpanda1642]

Nimeshaa I’ve never met u but ur officially my bestie, older sister and guardian angel 👼 😭🫶

[@bharathipalanichamy3330]

Is this really happening🙄🙄 Nimesha, you wouldn't believe what am gonna say. I again manifested your video to see whether the thing is really happening. Is this just a coincidence or my wish is really getting manifested🙀🙀

[@Kaju-_-Katli]

Which one plz share the link

[@shlokasuthar4969]

I always would think that she hasn't posted in a while n BAM he posts!

[@ishadi]

Girl has a different look now😍

[@manonita__basak]

Ok so after marriage u really look mature n gorgeous.. Long hair sits really well on u

[@pppaaattt4671]

I agree no manipulation here. It’s excellent advice (sometimes we need to hear) for a potential successful relationship. Just liked & subscribed.

[@Shainigope]

Nimesha your makeup was on point loved it......❤🧿🧿🧿🧿❤

[@gods_fav_child]

IDK if anyone feels this, there's something really attractive about her 😲

[@L3NN0XX]

3:41 & 5:31 average men deserve nothing but "Queens" deserve everything mindset☕️

[@Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss]

Gurlllllllll u soooo pretty U get prettier every video

[@laneatianathasha935]

sʜᴇ ɪs ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ɢᴏʀɢᴇᴏᴜs ᴀɴᴅ ʙᴇᴀᴜᴛɪғᴜʟ ᴅᴀʏ ʙʏ ᴅᴀʏ💖👑

[@zarmeen971]

Hey gurl....we need a Q n A video about the whole story that how your wedding gone ....the new life with hubby....your new hair ...... everything ..... please make a Q n A video ....by the way you look so beautiful 😍😍😍💝💝💝💝

[@chamainjayesekara5387]

Nimesha ur a life saver girl ♥️ I needed this topic so much n got the advices .thnks love

[@balasultan862]

you 're the big sis everyone wants in their loving ❤️

[@gxyuwu]

omg you should've posted this 2 yrs ago😭 then I wouldn't have messed up my first relationship 🥲

[@abhtv13]

You look kinda different in this video. It's a good different. I mean you are looking sooo beautiful, pretty. I cant take my eyes of you girl🙈

[@rosh237]

Omgg you look sooo pretty!! The glowwww😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@qc3006]

Ladies, some of this advice isn’t optimal if you want a bf/husband. For example how can you expect a man to want to make you his girl without him having experienced those qualities from you…it’s like buying a car without test driving it. Now I will say you should practice discernment with the men you do choose to do that with as there are a lot of men that will just use you, but that can be spotted fairly easily.

[@Rajeshkumarsharma1910]

5:25 i loved her expressions ❤😂

[@sanya144]

My gooooodddd she's looking sooooo pretty 😍 💕 glowwingggggg and these long hair💯💯💯💯💫

[@rinirajesh430]

i was admiring her beauty in this whole video ,she is so GORGEOUS!!🥰😍☺

[@Notme811_you]

Thanks big sis. I’m new to the dating scene but he already thinks I’m too into him. 🤮

[@anujaloganathan]

Legit advice. Seriously amazing 👌

[@Kalaithegreat]

Long hair suits you very well. Looking gorgeous and stunning 😍😍

[@riaaaa02]

nimmm whatttt?! youre looking soooo pretty in this video. that glowww>>>😍

[@fasol5375]

We want your weeding vlog please girl❤

[@archangelyoonah2198]

you're the big sis everyone wants in their lives...💖

[@Rajeshkumarsharma1910]

Her mindset is so good yaar

[@chrispillay7255]

Glow up brighter than the sun, the hair looks amazing on u plus d makeup too

[@titi_dora1865]

Omg i love this kind of videos!! i love the way you see things. you're so right. more videos like this plss💞💞😜

[@thatgirlvibes799]

Okiieee she raised the bar again😂😂💀 boys we girls get matured now !!! Btw love you nimesha sm🥰🥰

[@ilmanaw132]

Youuu looook damn pretty with long hair 💞❤️ do continue it

[@vi_10]

girl you look so beautiful I can't stop seeing you through the whole vedio and the audio is just running in the back you're looking just gorgeous 🥰😍

[@indeewarimaddage8024]

you are freaking glowingggggg girllllllllllllll

[@gracehannah5977]

Beauty with Brian,Love you girl, I was following you ever since I saw your Chloe Ting's 2 week shred challenge 2020, the way you grown is owesome , thankyou for the wise words love you,love from India ❤️

[@tyeprettygirl5591]

I love this advice 😍, I totally just subscribed ♥

[@raj_from_yt]

1:09 Our mentors say don’t ask her and their mentor say don’t ask him to be bf! F*ck

[@shreyadeka17]

You are looking so beautiful ❤️ and your videos are always amazing ✨✨

[@Medietos]

Hardness is defensiveness, not self-assurance and not good femininity. RC Blakes speaks warmly, really helpfully on healing and building relationship.Also StephanSpeaks, and - John Gray. amy Kerr to some extent.3. is cruel and inhumane: EWe aren't wlways aware of what/how we do, and 2. different others are and want/need/like different things. Nobody is finished in their development, and blocking someone who is making an effort and i snice enough, withouy´t even pointing out in tactful way, telling them what you enjoy/need, or ask how come he does this or that, seems more fair. I am here to help others, not make the world cruel and hard and making men anxiuos, and sad by blocking without a word. Ugh. This advice will depopulate the earth and make us all unhappy. And hurt men get resentful ad burned towards akl women, also the friendly, reasonable ones.

[@someone.313]

OMG Nimeshaa!!!! girl, you are really looking gorgeous. You are gorgeous already, but trust me you are looking way more gorgeous than before. Honestly, I could not get my eyes off you 😍♥️♥️

[@AditiTanwar]

Girl, you are so beautiful. KEEP THOSE LONG HAIR!!

[@keerthikeerthi912]

Do a day in your life plzzzz sis💜🦋

[@mysticpanda1642]

As ariana grande said 'I ain't ur gf' wait to be asked. If he hasn't asked u in a few months then honestly end it nicely

[@JesusLightsYourPath]

I'm so glad I watched this a week after meeting him!!

[@uthpalaekanayake477]

Nimesha, can you do a video for married women as well? ♥️

[@rashmika4082]

Your long hair soo beautiful sis ❤

[@dkeith520]

This is all cap, men hate chasing women. It’s a huge waste of time and effort that can be better spent.

[@sejalwaghmare6219]

Gurl you look damn gorgeous 💞

[@dasuniudalamaththa162]

You look soo pretty today ❤️✨ Love from 🇱🇰

[@Irinnn]

O la la 🔥 Makeup looks so good on you girl ♥️

[@anshutomar9363]

Nimesha please make next video on how you visualised while listening to the height increase subliminal ,how you got the results because i am struggling with it . And what affirmations should be used to increase height in a week. Please 🙏🙏

[@reeyasahu565]

this is so helpful nimesha....you are an eye opener thankyou so much❤❤

[@muntaha9564]

Hey nimeshaa plz post your wedding pictures aur video's sis

[@SubHumanOne]

why cant my gf just teach me how to talk to her by sitting with me during a movie or something so its less anxiety

[@ties0622]

Nimeshaa seriously u help a lot🖤..... Need more advices ❤️