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@wokery3 жыл бұрын
Special deal 4 bisexuals
@chn1dy1703 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow bisexual intellectual
@Kiwiii_Love3 жыл бұрын
I'm questioning and I think I might either be bi or omnisexual. But I might also be asexual? idk. I'm defiantly not straight.
@CJmummy3 жыл бұрын
I’m bi myself :(
@bendyalien3 жыл бұрын
I AM :)
@BulgariaEnjoyer3 жыл бұрын
"people were like, ah, a dude" "and i was like, crazy right" -noah 2021
@gabby42913 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual….. WELCOME OFFICIALLY TO THE COMMUNITY WE LOVE TO HAVE YOU HERE 🏳️🌈💓💜💙
@Peachessssss133 жыл бұрын
Yes
@cjbr08273 жыл бұрын
Yes
@greysonholtz3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@anonymousarmadillo98003 жыл бұрын
yes indeed
@crackers39783 жыл бұрын
Yes :D
@AlatheD3 жыл бұрын
Noah is suddenly a 12 year old boy "b0oB!" It's cool, Noah. My partner is trans and since getting top surgery they are suddenly much more comfortable with being attracted to women, even physically, like being more comfortable with bOoBs in general. 🙂 So I think sometimes not having to worry about what's "off" about your own body means you can appreciate it on someone else's body.
@danone24143 жыл бұрын
I think this makes sense idk
@dma93-ch3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, that's so true. Boobs made me cringe before top surgery, because seeing them made me "feel" mine. My "preference" for men is becoming more and more insignificant as my transition progresses.
@paranoid-v3q3 жыл бұрын
Dude, what's worst for me is that as a transmasculine, dating a guy automatically means you're not a guy. Legit, if you are in a relationship with a man, people will consider this as a straight relationship and my ex saw me as a girl even though I was known as a dude to him for some time until we got together. And I am still kinda insecure when a male-crush appears in my crush list because people will not consider me as a man. It sucks, man. Especially when your friends you knew for a long time does not reconsider.
@AlatheD3 жыл бұрын
@@paranoid-v3q Dude, I'm so sorry that happens to you. Especially from someone who knows you as a guy. That's just rude. Don't let someone else's rudeness dictate your actions, be you. (I know it ain't easy.)
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
Mutilated women are not men.
@freddirogers37453 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for bringing up the whole " oh I'm not attracted to non-binary people " thing cause after I accepted that I'm non-binary I was like who the hell is gonna have a label that includes me other than pan people.
@izzygrooves25143 жыл бұрын
bisexuality in general includes nb! i haven't finished watching the video, but i get really stressed out that people don't realize when i say i'm bi i'm saying i'm attracted to all genders aaaaaaaa
@aahsvhral3 жыл бұрын
i'm nb too, my bf uses he/they and he's trans, but he's not sure if he wants to identify as nb or male, i'm not really sure about my sexuality and neither is he, we just like each other, i think i'm demisexual but that's difficult to label
@sish99123 жыл бұрын
@@aahsvhral seems complicated 😵💫
@sish99123 жыл бұрын
@sewer~rat that’d depend on whether sexual attraction is based on sex, gender identity, or gender expression.
@justmanbunisfine3 жыл бұрын
sewer~rat asexuality doesn't in the same way
@ClericOdie3 жыл бұрын
Omg! You saying that you sound gay even when talking about girls is 100% me. I have friends that refuse to believe I'm pan because everything I say sounds gay, even when it's in regards to members of the "opposite" gender. 🤣
@caffeinateddog71203 жыл бұрын
Role call for all the people who felt little to no romantic attraction through out most of their childhood | \/
@AGayNamedRural3 жыл бұрын
Tentative like because valid, but never actually got the chance to even think of romance due to closeting, so...maybe? XD
@nickmoyes70753 жыл бұрын
Still don't as an adult :)
@PGOuma3 жыл бұрын
Kinda different but similar But when you LOSE that romantic attraction *screams in Frayromantic*
@tovekauppi16163 жыл бұрын
I’m ace/aro so yup. Still don’t feel any romantic (or sexual for that matter) attraction to anyone in my mid 20s.
@nigelbottom4962 жыл бұрын
Aroflux here and yep
@ClericOdie3 жыл бұрын
In regard to the actual topic of the video, this makes me happy. That you're able to share this stuff. Sexuality is more fluid than we will ever realize. Added to being trans is definitely a challenge as it's even more confusing. Looking at your female celeb crushes, though, you definitely have a type. Don't get too hung up about the internalized stuff like caring about the height difference. Like you have an insecurity and that's fine. If you find someone that you like regardless of that insecurity then great, if not, that's fine too. It's your life and your sexuality. What you're attracted to is fine. You can have all the preferences. What people don't get is that the only problem is when you're a douche about your preferences. Like you put others down for not meeting them. You're not a bad person because you don't find someone attractive because maybe they have a mole in an odd spot. Telling them that's why would be the bad thing. But you like who you like
@lizzieeverlyn44943 жыл бұрын
Still sexuality isnt fluid for everyone. Some lesbians will never be interested the slightest in a man and some guys wont ever want to start a sexual relationship with a woman. And thats fine too. Im just saying this because so many people try to take others sexualities away from them by using this as an argument :)
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
You can't make a man by starting with a woman and subtracting. Women who have surgeries or hormones are still just women.
@lizzieeverlyn44943 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 you‘re just embarrassing yourself
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
@@lizzieeverlyn4494 women with mastectomies have not gotten closer to being a man. They're still just a woman who had their breasts removed.
@tresestrellas88812 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 And not all trans men do mastectomy, because not everyone has dysphoria about it, you just don't know about it, you don't know anything, you don't live it or feel it, you're just a failed fool who can't see people being who they really are, but people like you don't really matter, they're just useless people
@midnightrain32403 жыл бұрын
Oh my g o d thank you because this is very similar to what I'm going through right now- guy, 19, identified as gay for years, realising I'm not gay and I'm bi but I'm still more attracted to men and still for some reason so uncomfortable about discussing my attraction to women and it makes n o sense to me but I've felt this slight guilt over it recently, because I've been kinda like "well surely your sexuality would have fully developed years ago so you can't be bi and to call yourself bi is disrespectful to actual bi people" and honest to God this has been the most helpful thing because its the first time I've realised it's- not just like that? So um thank you so much
@brendaleelydon3 жыл бұрын
I think we can get hung up on it, because being gay isn't just an orientation - for many, it's also an identity. If I (a cisgender woman) consider myself a lesbian, am involved in the lesbian community, but realize I also sometimes want to be with men...can I still be involved with the lesbian community? Will I be shunned, and if so, then what, because I certainly don't feel comfortable in the 'straight community' as it were. There are plenty of people who identify as straight, yet sometimes enjoy relations with the same gender; they just mainly identify with the 'straight lifestyle' more than the queer community. I think it can be a bit harder for gay people to admit they sometimes are attracted to someone of another gender, as there is a lot of support in queer communities for other 'outsiders', but a feeling that if you're straight-passing, you're, like, taking resources you don't 'need' anymore?? It's kinda hard to explain. Bisexuals not feeling welcome in queer spaces is definitely not all in their heads. Anyway, yeah, being gay is usually (but not always!) about your social identity in addition to what kind of people you may want to play nekkid with, so it can be very shaky to navigate if you have a very defined gay identity. But you're absolutely right - it's just not like that. It's far more nuanced than many people want to admit!
@kay_37053 жыл бұрын
It’s ok for your sexuality to shift and change! Labels are just a way for us to figure out where we are in a given moment but don’t let them limit you
@raapyna85443 жыл бұрын
Bro, some people realize their sexuality in their 20's, 30's or later. You are developing as a human and even if sexuality is something innate, most people are not super self-aware from a young age. You don't become an adult and then suddenly stop character development. People learn new things about themselves their whole lives. I recently learned that there are people who discover they have adhd in their 70's. That's something you have from birth and affects your whole life (too) and yet you could be oblivious to it.
@addyhammerr3 жыл бұрын
its honestly so nice to hear someone talk about their bisexuality in such an honest way, so as a fellow bisexual person, thank you Noah.
@white.and.lavender.blossoms.3 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian, I agree that 🌈🌸💗✨g i r l s✨💗🌸🌈
@cloudbur3 жыл бұрын
✨ w o m e n ✨
@katwood71203 жыл бұрын
What about ✨6'3 mixed race trans girls✨?
@user-co8sc4fj4h3 жыл бұрын
@@katwood7120 i think that hello i'm still single??? 🙏 /hj
@greysonholtz3 жыл бұрын
@@katwood7120 still a 🌈🌸💗✨g i r l✨💗🌸🌈
@jordanthunstrom42873 жыл бұрын
@ Kat Wood still a 🌈🌸💗✨ g i r l ✨💗🌸🌈
@Pavelscribbles3 жыл бұрын
I literally am having this exact same moment too 😭 Girls are so 🖤 Boys are so 🖤
@KJ12343 жыл бұрын
Same. I like both. Why do I have to pick! Lol
@datfatrat71353 жыл бұрын
I discovered I’m bi like 3 days ago and I agree girls r hot
@datfatrat71353 жыл бұрын
Lmao I just realized technically ur the first person I came out too. Internet strangers are easy.
@rebeccabarker11522 жыл бұрын
I turned bi like three months ago lol and I don't want to be straight ever again😘😜 Lets go pink purple and blue 💗💜💙
@moonbugria3 жыл бұрын
my reasoning behind preferring the label bi over pan is that to me bi means being attracted to multiple genders whereas pan means being attracted regardless of gender. so i prefer the term bi because gender definitely still influences my attraction
@annakatw3 жыл бұрын
Well said👏
@raymonds92433 жыл бұрын
I mean, the idea that gender must play a factor to bisexuals, therefore pan is the solution is a little biphobic (I'm not saying you are, I'm saying that definition is, and whoever made that definition DEFINITELY is)... sure gender may play into it for you, but that's not the case for a lot of bi people :/ just thought I'd point it out as it's a common misconception of bisexuality as a whole and it gets really frustrating to hear💀
@mandachris71463 жыл бұрын
Yes. And most definitely includes trans in bisexuality.
@kalki30603 жыл бұрын
isn't that being omni? i feel the same as noah but i used to identify as pan.(now i identify as omni) i don't know why the term pan is considered biphobic could someone explain
@lewinwild81553 жыл бұрын
@@kalki3060 yeah I also identify as omni for this reason, but also bi and use it more for convenience. I think above the person is saying that assuming that bi can't mean "attraction regardless of gender" is biphobic. Personally I think if someone said "I'm bi and for me that means attraction regardless of gender" and someone else was like "no it doesn't" that could be biphobia. But I usually see gender as being a factor or not as the distinction between bi and pan definitions, so I can see how they'd come to that assumption. Personally I think it's fine so long as we stay open to new things and believe people when they tell us about their experiences and labels.
@persistenturge3 жыл бұрын
hahaha Noah I love you. "I feel like I sound gay even when talking about boobs."
@samfinneas83993 жыл бұрын
"I feel like I still sound gay even when I'm talking about boobies" legit, I'm a bisexual, transmasc enby and I feel gay towards everyone. Even though I'm not a guy, I feel gay towards guys, even though I'm not a girl, I feel gay towards girls (though it still kinda feels dysphoric) and I am non-binary so I obviously feel gay towards other enbies. It's very confusing to explain to people that don't get it, but it makes sense to me.
@geminiwolf00773 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, this totally makes sense to me!!! I couldn't put it into words. I always imagined being in a relationship with a woman, man, or enby in a gay way. I just, straight didn't really feel right for me. If I was in a relationship with a woman, it'd feel gay to me. If I was in a relationship with a man, it'd feel gay, too. Or with an enby it'd still feel gay. I am non-binary and bi/pan. So, really any relationship will feel gay to me.
@chrisgrimstad99853 жыл бұрын
the way I related so hard
@mikuenjoyerXD2 жыл бұрын
Im a bisexual cis woman and i feel gay for my boyfriend and im not sure why
@samhasi22873 жыл бұрын
I do actually remember in those kinda like slowly coming out as bi videos u made, when u said if im 90% into men and 10% into women im still bi. Dude that helped me figure my shit out so much n its actually one of the first things i talk about w/ someone who wants to talk about maybe they think theyre bi. I already know how much it helped me n two of my friends. Anyways yeah jdbskzn tyvm :)
@brendaleelydon3 жыл бұрын
Right?! It's so rarely a 50-50 split; it usually is weighted more in one direction than the other (& even that can flip sometimes!). You can absolutely consider yourself bi even if you only like another gender 5% or 10% of the time! (It's also okay to have the same feelings but still decide to identify as gay)
@kylefletchers63663 жыл бұрын
same that really made me feel super valid and more comfortable w the label :)
@datfatrat71353 жыл бұрын
Yea when he said that I was like “shit I’m totally bi” but I feel like a lot of people don’t think girls who are mainly attracted to guys are valid so not looking forward to that.
@a_chill_bot21803 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if this is a common experience among transmasc people. I myself am an afab boyflux bisexual, and had a similar struggle with my sexuality. Being so uncomfortable with my own "womanhood" means that it's odd to accept that I like women. I'm very new to accepting my identity as a trans person as well, so thinking about being the man in a straight relationship also felt disingenuine to myself a year ago as a bisexual "girl," which made me doubt if I was actually bi and I feared I was just trying to conform to the expectations of guys to like girls. However, if I think outside of societal pressures, I am confident in my bisexuality and preference for men. I'm glad that you've also figured it out Noah, it was nice to hear about a similar experience.
@mollypeters1233 жыл бұрын
hey i think i’m boyflux!!
@a_chill_bot21803 жыл бұрын
@@mollypeters123 Awesome! I thought I was a demiboy for a while but then sometimes I didn't feel like anything and sometimes I feel very much like a guy, so it's tricky to figure out. Best of luck to you man!
@actually_afton3 жыл бұрын
i'm a boyflux too :DD
@a_chill_bot21803 жыл бұрын
@@actually_afton Cool! It's nice to see people like me : ] -Felix
@jasperchappel93793 жыл бұрын
Boyflux gang!!
@enikocsaszar28743 жыл бұрын
Ohmygod when I first questioned my sexuality it was like: Am I gay? I mean if I was a guy, I'd be into guys, so that makes me straight right? And now I'm bisexual and non-binary so y'know that's fun
@swampfae83093 жыл бұрын
The "somehow liking men in a gay way" before knowing you're trans thing- I just- I felt that
@Lesiosaurus3 жыл бұрын
14:54 from an asexual person who’s questioned about this a lot “ooo pretty person” attraction for me is like looking at a beautiful painting. I look at it and see the fine brush strokes, the sun shining through the leaves of the tree, the bird flying above the lake, and I feel happy and pleased looking at it, it makes my brain feel good but that’s it. It’s nothing more than a happy or satisfied feeling you get from looking at art.
@jasperchappel93793 жыл бұрын
I think you just confirmed my lack of attraction to women. I definitely see pretty people who I perceive as a woman like a gorgeous piece of art and a possible friend.
@shotosgrandma59372 жыл бұрын
Hi other ace!
@saulcontrerasOfficial3 жыл бұрын
"Oh pretty person!" - NoahFinnce 2021
@Eva-ng3zb3 жыл бұрын
noah ur glowing we luv the energy
@essenceweebkittyx33 жыл бұрын
Ahh your QnAs always make me happy, they are very informative and entertaining, being a cis female bisexual myself it's always nice seeing other people's experiences/feelings towards their bisexuality; Proud of you for figuring yourself out and being more comfy with your sexuality! =] 💗💗💜💜💙💙
@meah96023 жыл бұрын
i’m bisexual but i’m not out rn everyone thinks i’m a lesbian and when i tell them i might be bi they always say I CANT PUCTURE YOU EITH A MANNNN
@luciagarcia48203 жыл бұрын
Noah: *makes a long honest video telling his entire life and sexuality story* Me: ... wait, does that mean I have a chance? 👀 jk, welcome to the bi community 💗💜💙 someone will teach you to cuff your jeans and you can grab your doc martens on the corner over there don't forget to train your peace signs ✌🏻
@rebeccabarker11522 жыл бұрын
😛😛😛😛
@44faithy413 жыл бұрын
The part abt how your attraction to men didn’t feel straight, and how you felt like you liked men but in a gay way, that’s kind of relatable, and excuse me if I’m making a false equivalency here, I’m a straight trans girl and my attraction to men never felt gay, I really like hearing that someone went thru something generally similar
@saralindholm7903 жыл бұрын
I'm bi and have experienced a lot of "confusement" in my days but, of course, for completely different reasons. It's always so nice to see someone finding them selfes regardless at what age or circumstance they do so. Also, you are really cute and it would be so fun to go to one of your concerts but I live in Sweden so we'll see I guess
@cory_and_co3 жыл бұрын
"clear your history, which i know you're good at" wow Noah, we get it, we clear our history a lot, but you didn't have to call us out like that man
@Thatbro09873 жыл бұрын
Im in love with the way Noah uses "bro" in his sentences
@finnxrobbie3 жыл бұрын
I'm still in the stage of: I'm not able to date anyone, because I'm literally the worst person when it gets to relationships with people, because I need so much time alone. I just don't want, that anyone has to deal with my shit. It makes me feel quite lonely, but at the same time I think it's great, because I don't get into toxic relationships. But I have a crush on a girl so bad. We were best friends when we were kids and now we don't see each other very often, tought I wish we could. She was the reason I found out that I was pan. I never came out as that. For a long time I thought that I'm only attracted to guys, but I've realised, that for me, gender just doesn't matter. But as I said, it doesn't really affect my life, because right now I'm not able to get into a realationship. (I think, this was my therapy lesson for this week. Thank you for your attention.)
@nesy50413 жыл бұрын
Lol I feel the same about relationship, and I'm also pan
@GR4V3YRD3 жыл бұрын
Felt that first part
@PGOuma3 жыл бұрын
@@GR4V3YRD sameeee
@Julia-rh5rf3 жыл бұрын
Your eyes are so pretty, wtf 😩🛐
@Firespawnable3 жыл бұрын
At 8:00 I LOVE that when he shared a list of female celebrities he's attracted to he listed women who are different races 💕 not only just white women 🤣
@rye70803 жыл бұрын
yay! im glad you get to be your true self and be honest with us! Love you Noah
@juliabogajo3 жыл бұрын
Idk why youtube algorithm brought me to your channel, but it's been more than a year and I ain't mad about it. It's so refreshing to watch people who are unapologetically themselves, it's encouraging
@Eliii_ii3 жыл бұрын
Hi Noah, I wanted to thank you for this video. Over the last two months I have been questioning my sexuality. A little info: I'm a 14 year old girl and I always thought I was straight. In the last few months I have realised that I am bisexual. I've realised that I've had crushes on girls before, but I always thought that I just wanted to be like them. For example, I had a huge crush on Mulan, but I always thought I just wanted to fight like her and kick men's ass like she does. I'm also much more comfortable with the label bisexual than omnisexual or pansexual, although I am attracted to non-binary people too. You really say all the things I've been thinking over the past few months. Thank you for making this video, it encourages me to be more comfortable with my sexuality and to come out to my friends and family one day. Eli
@marcusmitchell89503 жыл бұрын
Heres a question, HOW ARE YOUR EYES SO BLUE. THEY'RE SO PRETTY IM JEALOUS
@Harrison_J_T3 жыл бұрын
You said you couldn't think of a specific non-binary person but Cara Delevingne who you mentioned earlier in the video as a celebrity crush identifies as genderfluid so you'd already confirmed your attraction to nb people (and that they can look like anything, not just androgynous) without realising. 😊
@anaisabelpais73893 жыл бұрын
8:01 And Miley Cyrus
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
Noah is a woman, and women cannot be gay men. That's homophobic. She's bisexual or lesbian. She can't be gay.
@Harrison_J_T3 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 And you are a fucking transphobe. Also plenty of women use the word gay to describe themselves.
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
@@Harrison_J_T Noah is not a man. She cannot be a gay man. Saying she can is homophobic. Noah is a woman who has mut1lated herself with surgeries and hormones.
@Harrison_J_T3 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 Enjoy being on the wrong side of history. I'll just continue reporting you. I am queer so I know what is and isn't homophobic.
@jajdhck3 жыл бұрын
So proud of you!! Welcome to the family my fellow bisexual 💖💜💙
@gabbyt50693 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual, I appreciate you talking so freely about this. You definitely just gave me a whole shitload of confidence. 💗💜💙
@rttingat70493 жыл бұрын
"It is okay to question your identity" I needed to hear this today, thank you ;-;
@random-21413 жыл бұрын
I actually realized I was pan when I came out as trans! I definitely agree : getting more confident about your identity helps you to figure yourself out.
@mandachris71463 жыл бұрын
Bi includes trans
@random-21413 жыл бұрын
@@mandachris7146 I- didn't say the contrary?
@3_racoons_in_a_trenchcoat3583 жыл бұрын
My respect for Noah: 📈📈📈📈📈📈📈📈📈📈
@airguitarist86333 жыл бұрын
Same
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
Noah can only be bisexual or lesbian. As s female, she can never be a gay man. I'm glad Noah stopped lying by saying she's gay.
@3_racoons_in_a_trenchcoat3583 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 noah is a boy, us he/him
@middlemarch55073 жыл бұрын
@@3_racoons_in_a_trenchcoat358 Noah is a woman. She her
@3_racoons_in_a_trenchcoat3583 жыл бұрын
@@middlemarch5507 noah is a trans man.
@bdhesse3 жыл бұрын
Personally, I like the definition of bisexuality as liking multiple genders but have a gender preference (such as preferring guys/masculine people) and pansexuality as liking multiple genders and having no gender preference.
@lainanoelle82833 жыл бұрын
As a fellow bi person, it just kinda makes me a little frustrated when people ask things like “how do you know you’re attracted to a girl and not just like her aesthetic?” Well idk you just know the feeling you have is more than that. Idk to me it just kinda seems like they don’t believe you. Not saying these people meant it in that way tho.
@SaruCharmed3 жыл бұрын
I like the definition of bisexual as being attracted to "both the gender that is the same as your own AND genders that are different from your own"
@MediocreAtBesd3 жыл бұрын
i swear when u said list of celebrity crushes my brain went ZENDAYA
@airtehe56153 жыл бұрын
Proud of you Noah!
@enya033 жыл бұрын
normally when people come out i say i’m so proud of you for discovering something about yourself but it feels so weird saying that to someone i look up to and admire so much who’s older than me but still congrats for finding a better label :)
@detectivepinkerton32583 жыл бұрын
Hello Noah! Also congrats on figuring it out!! Sexualities are something else entirely that the cishets won't get
@helengkahn26073 жыл бұрын
Haha I'm in the same stage of my bisexuality. I was first confused, then hesitant, and now I know I'm bi but it's still uncomfy to talk about haha.
@brody12163 жыл бұрын
As a trans guy who *currently* IDs as a gay but who is in the "wait do I possibly like women too??" phase-- I am comforted to see that we share some celebrity crushes (zendaya, willow Smith, Cara delevigne!) Also, props to smacking that Bi erasure out the window, love that you are getting comfy exploring different labels :'' '))
@nao.nline193 жыл бұрын
now this whole video was so relatable and i love you for saying all that. i feel a little more secure now. i’m a really hesitant, still in the closet, non-binary person (born a female) that was “attracted” to guys their whole life. later i came to the conclusion i didn’t want to be WITH them but BE them. then i found out i was attracted to girls “only” and now i’m thinking “hm maybe i am attracted to guys but can’t accept that because of all my insecurities” - the insecurities being that i wish i had their body. since i’m nb it’s all not so clear for me since i like being masculine as well as being feminine. but i can’t imagine being with a guy that see’s me as a fem girl. well. i should probably try getting more comfortable with my identity first lol
@lorzzzy26203 жыл бұрын
i can so relate to this! thanks for making this videooo and btw. i just realisted how fricking georgeous your eyes are like wtf!?
@RandomPlasticChair3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Pseudopup3 жыл бұрын
.・゜-: ✧ :- Testosterone doesn't change your sexuality, it makes you comfortable enough to explore your sexuality -: ✧ :-゜・. ( 8:38 ) For 3 years, I thought I was Aromantic & Asexual. I recgonise now that that was majorly due to trauma, but that still doesn't invalidate being aro/ace, y'know? Then after starting T & growing more comfortable w/ my body, I realised I do indeed experience romantic & sexual attraction. Yay comfortably exploring !!
@LinguaPhiliax3 жыл бұрын
Yay! Another one! We need more open bisexual men please!
@kileekeeniiuuier23983 жыл бұрын
Noah has tall person energy
@reillymiller15413 жыл бұрын
I've honestly also had so much confusion when it comes to my sexuality... I'm glad you found a label that fits you. I identified as bi since June of last year, but I'm just super confused at this point, might be something to do with asexuality but ill have to think about it more. anyways thanks for sharing this video with us
@hEllioum3 жыл бұрын
no questions, just happy and proud of you to be more comfortable with yourself! cheers for that! :)
@Qussy3 жыл бұрын
i found out i was biromantic when i found myself wanting girls to find me attractive. strange way to find that out, but it worked out lol. and then i came out as non-binary. and once my family explained "the dirty" to me, i started to think a lot more about it, and how incredibly *uncomfy* it can make me feel. and now i finally feel good about my sexuality/gender. thanks for coming to my Ted Talk
@Ayden_iris8 Жыл бұрын
Was anyone else mesmerized by his purple/crystal blue eyes
@attackontitan14423 жыл бұрын
That’s fine Noah! Your amazing no matter what
@mainemellow3 жыл бұрын
this is the first time i’ve watched Noah’s videos. i’m not shocked that Noah is bi, i’m shocked that he’s british.
@finch43092 жыл бұрын
i feel like ur point abt the whole “t changes ur sexuality” myth is a rly good one bc i’ve experienced smth similar without going on t. like before i came out there were points where i would even question if i was just fully a lesbian, but now i very much like guys as well. sometimes u just need to get to a point in your life where you can work your gender out and then you realize something about your sexuality once youre feeling more comfortable with yourself
@cearasmith41413 жыл бұрын
Okok I love this topic and this video but let me just say, 75% of the time I was focused on his blue eyes because they are soo pretty!
@NoOne-rc7nb3 жыл бұрын
2:35 BRO I AGREE SO MUCH WITH THIS I WAS ALWAYS THE "strong handsome prince going to save his princess" 😭😭😭👏👏👏
@ghost-g1m3 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy man welcome to the bi community! here we cuff our jeans, unbutton our flannels, and be indecisive!!! 💖💜💙
@someoneofimportance64593 жыл бұрын
You just described me and I'm not even Bi- *identity crisis*
@beatricefox9373 жыл бұрын
When I first started watching your videos, it was because I wanted to learn about the LGBTQIA+ community (at that point I just thought I was a weirdly passionate ally). Now I'm learning more about myself.
@brody12163 жыл бұрын
Important to note too that sexuality regardless of label can be inclusive of nb people!! Loved your take on this. I've always identified as gay but frustrated that people assume that means I'm strictly attracted to *binary* men
@seto7493 жыл бұрын
The assumption is probably part of an attempt to de-gay us.
@Pseudopup3 жыл бұрын
I've been following you since the green day tr*mp cover days. you've grown so much - we love to see it bestie.
@danielpacheco6123 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to see you, as well as the channel, Grow! You're always a fresh breath from some of the worlds crap
@underhypedandoverrated3 жыл бұрын
9:21 I don’t know why but I found this so funny. Thank you for sharing about bisexuality Noah, it is much appreciated for people who are questioning/ want to know more
@madisonlane51693 жыл бұрын
as an asexual I’m happy for you but I totally can’t understand lolll happy you’ve become more comfortable with yourself noah!
@beckypotato32953 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you figured it out and feel comfortable with your sexuality! I've been questioning mine for like 2 years now, and it's been exhausting. It wasn't until a couple weeks ago that I (finally) talked about it with some LGB friends that they reassured me a lot about it. One of them told me "you don't have to put a label on it" and that has given me so much peace of mind. I used to stress so much about trying to find a label, but ever since I took my friend's words at heart, I feel so much more content with how I feel. I'll keep exploring, and maybe one day I'll have an answer, but I no longer care if I don't. Being "label-less" makes me feel the most comfortable at the moment. We all have different journeys, and that's okay!
@whatsernamew3 жыл бұрын
Hi! Bi girl here. I related with a lot of what you said. We have the same girl crushes. And I can confirm: girls do kiss better.
@iateyourdog6173 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the bi community
@vanessam2920073 жыл бұрын
2:40 when i first had the thoughts of being with a girl, i always was thinking if i was actually attracted to them or if they were just hot and eventually came to terms that it was more then just me thinking they were pretty
@j4d3ynn3 жыл бұрын
So glad you found yourself!!!
@yuupkips3 жыл бұрын
im bisexual and gender fluid 🤚
@TaraBryn3 жыл бұрын
This is funny. I'm a trans woman that until recently identified as straight, and I can relate to a lot of what you said here. And i have a theory in the whole bi/pan thing. For me at least, since bi is liking two or more genders, and pan is where gender doesn't play a role in who you're attracted to, that just doesn't sound right for me, because I'm like 80% guys and 20% girls...obv gender is playing some kind of role there, and it doesn't mean we're not attracted to enbies. Plus, when it comes to girls, I'm more demi sexual. It was several months from the time i started questioning my sexuality (for the third time, since i ID'd as hay before it realized i was trans, and then straight) to the time i finally accepted that i was bi, and kind of what hit the nail in the coffin for me was that i could eventually see myself living the rest of my life waking up next to a woman, whereas before, i absolutely couldn't, and naturally sex would go along with that. So for me, when it comes to women, developing an emotional connection is *almost* a necessary precursor to me having sexual desire for them (of course there are exceptions...*cough* Angelina Jolie *cough*). Also, for me, i feel like estrogen did definitely play a role in shifting my sexuality.
@Goldlucky133 жыл бұрын
also found myself liking boys but in a gay way in my younger years
@Jay-jw2xr3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing up being more attracted to men as a bisexual. I do feel that, but have invalidated myself on that. I've just known that I've liked men for so long, that I'm just more used to that. Women are nice and pretty and yes... But I am very much Bi, and also have labeled myself as a demigirl. Based on feelings because I'm not trans.
@sleepiegore22563 жыл бұрын
*realizing i can go by whatever I feel comfy with and what other people thong dosent matter* 🤯
@dang1099 Жыл бұрын
I feel like not being sure is a requirement for being bisexual. It seems like a large majority go through this phase at one point questioning whether they are straight or gay.
@Dextamartijn3 жыл бұрын
Good for you bisexual is the best I came a year ago at 42 it is a lot easier now then when I was young I'd say I'm more to guys then women. But in my twenties I was more into girls. New subscriber young man
@GR4V3YRD3 жыл бұрын
What's funny is that ever since i was like eleven, Everytime i had a crush on a guy it felt gay? And when i liked women it felt straight? Lol. But the reason ive never been in a relationship is cuz even tho i identify as non-binary transmasc i still look like a cis female irl so knowing someone has a crush on me it feels like they only see me as a girl and that sucks.
@sophiebuchhansen2723 жыл бұрын
Yo I realised that on a wall close to the bus station in my town somebody wrote “proud underachiever crew” I look at it everyday since I take the bus everyday like I just think of you every time I look at it
@flamingkitten13 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear your explanation of your Bisexual experience. You basically described being a 5 on the Kinsey scale, predominantly homosexual and only incidentally heterosexual. More people need to hear how even labeled sexually can be spectrums.
@SolevrenArt3 жыл бұрын
all my lgbt friends and i say "we are gay" even though there only a couple guys in the group. Like when a college building watch asked why we were all going to the basement we were like "to have a seance because we are gay." we were actually just dying hair in the big sinks
@mandachris71463 жыл бұрын
Gay isn’t just men. Some terms are umbrella terms. Like queer. Like I’m a bi queer woman. With a woman preference (including trans women as they are woman)
@SolevrenArt3 жыл бұрын
@@mandachris7146 yea most of my group is nonbinary falling and one trans nonbinary guy
@californiatowntaylor1303 жыл бұрын
I am bisexual and when i saw this advertisement i had to watch this. I lobs you. You are so attractive ❤❤💯
@Ankorshark3 жыл бұрын
Hey Noah! I’m a trans boy and came out to my mum recently. She completely supported me but won’t let me get my hair cut short until I know how to style it correctly 🥲. I wanted to get it cut like yours, but can’t find any videos on how to fix it like that. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk, I’d love if you could help
@therainbowziege23173 жыл бұрын
Well, that depends a lot on your hair. Personally I just need to blow dry my hair, maybe sometimes use some hair wax or whatever. When I got my hair cut short, the hairdresser told me how to maintain it so yea, perhaps seek some professional advice? Idk
@Ankorshark3 жыл бұрын
@@therainbowziege2317 Alright thanks! I’ve been trying different products but I’ll ask when I get it cut :)
@therainbowziege23173 жыл бұрын
@@Ankorshark Good luck with it
@Eli-wd5hv3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I’m a trans guy that has been dealing with sexuality issues big time and seeing others deal with the introspection … it really helps me to figure myself out. Thank you this helps a lot.
@milahosh3 жыл бұрын
Well I am quite confused since half a year cause a friend of mine (who is trans and gay) pointed out that I gave off gay/bi vibes (for several reasons which I guess are partly stupid, but not all of em). It's nice to hear you talk about it because although I had doubted it, there probably is this bi part in me trying to jump out. It's just such a constant confusion, it doesn't feel like it matters or I would ever come out or something. Whatever Okay this got way too long lol. This was a random urge to type stuff into the comment section. Little unnecessary but who cares. Also NOAHS EYES look SO PRETTY in this video!!?!!!
@Urfav_white_girl3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you for being bi I have never run into a actual bi you tuber yet so thank you (✨I’m bi too✨)
@ellenkarlsson94902 жыл бұрын
1:47 Noah: *Lists all the childhood crushes I'd forgotten about* Me: *Gets overwhelmed with embarrassment and nostalgia at the same time*
@hopecohran210 Жыл бұрын
Your eyes are so blue they’re almost purple and I love them!!!!!!
@keitan80933 жыл бұрын
Felt like I needed this video tbh. I’ve been questioning my sexuality recently and now I’m 99%sure I’m good thinking of myself bi :)
@nightmarefuelfanita93433 жыл бұрын
I'm of the sexuality of bi aswell! And also mostly into men! (Also Just recently discovered tour Channel and i really likes tour content,keep It up man!)
@noahfox1793 жыл бұрын
12:26 "im attracted to nonbinary people but cant think of one" 8:17 miley cyrus has come out as genderfluid.
@eugenebell31723 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Noah. It explained a lot to me being a gay man. I was always curious about you but now I know you as a person much better.
@LGBTR3naissance2 жыл бұрын
Praise you 100% for being so open and not hesitant about it. Thanks so much Noah for sharing your personal stories, they really mean that much to all of us.