WE’RE BOTH BOTTOMS?! ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP...| NOAHFINNCE

[@oliverharris60]

“The autism is just like, ‘I need a little box, for my little socks’ which I have” I love this video 😂

[@Elientjepientje.]

Asking who the top or bottom is in a gay relationship feels very similar to asking lesbians who the man is in the relationship.

[@Spidertheidiot]

It's also such an invasion of privacy that 9/10 times is unwarranted like?? People will be discussing it in the comment section of gay men when the video was just them like on a wholesome date or something it's weird.

[@haleyandrews74]

​​@sewer~rat and also super bad for straight people like who says the woman isnt the top with a man 👀

[@Johnsmith-mw6pt]

Noah has a vagina😂😂😂 y’all are so confused it’s unreal

[@MustyUnderboob]

They're not in a gay relationship. They're in a hetrosexual relationship.

[@leviathan3116]

@@MustyUnderboob they’re literally both men how is that heterosexual?

[@lavenderstarzzz]

"U Fight over who is the curly haired one" *"I'm black"*

[@emma.newbound]

"He's not like other girls." "He's a boy." TOOK ME OUTTTT

[@An0PUP_7]

9:46 time stamp in case anyone wants it lmao

[@User_Sleeps_alott11]

Corry: What's the point of going to a place with new people if you don't meet people? Noah: Free snacks, free drinks, the few people that you do like and know. Noah is saying what I'm thinking!

[@Mulletbutch]

I’m a lesbian and I def agree with Cory about top/bottom roles. I can only speak on lesbian dynamics but I definitely feel like we correlate being a top with butchness and being a bottom with being a femme. It’s weird and heteronormative! Would love to hear Cory talk more about this!

[@pinkforguys]

definitelyyy

[@jdb101585]

The problem is the assumed correlation of gender norms with sexual preferences, not the sexual preferences!

[@MustyUnderboob]

Their whole relationship is "heteronormative." It's a guy and a girl, FFS.

[@faithpearlgenied-a5517]

​@@MustyUnderboob They're both bisexual you fool 😂

[@faithpearlgenied-a5517]

​@@MustyUnderboob Also, you know very well they're not heteronormative, that's why it triggers you 😂

[@DeclanSocial]

Your explanation of needing structure and hating change cause of autism but also being super chaotic and impulsive cause of ADHD was so relatable… Really makes doing things difficult cause I want to be adventurous/spontaneous but I’m also like STAY ON SCHEDULE. Can’t wait to see you in America! Have safe travels.

[@spacereaper666]

​@Ville excuse me?

[@mariemoore4997]

I really don't like the way they widened the Spectrum for Autistic people who don't have any major symptoms and I get labeled so easy because they like to stare at twinkle lights for longer than most people.

[@oliverharris60]

I have only been diagnosed with ASD but have a lot of ADHD traits, and I find that creating a schedule can actually be really relaxing and helpful in itself, even if I don’t manage to follow it

[@vmpkai]

noah and corry are out here looking stunning as usual

[@soup6430]

Well of course

[@Kosuke_Matsukito]

Fr tho

[@luciacarpio9162]

@Ville who

[@nat_rom2580]

​@Ville where's a she?

[@soup6430]

@Ville_x I see no “she” am I blind should’ve gone to specsavers 😩

[@percycooper934]

"i need a little box for my little socks" another quote i have added to my quotes about being autistic

[@flynn4411]

the assumptions at this point are just headcannons

[@incandescentglow222]

HELP LMFAOO 💀

[@ahuman2709]

smiling for 17 minutes straight, you two make me happy haha

[@thecorlorlesspig1993]

*17 minutes bi

[@mariemoore4997]

So jealous of them.,.

[@missnomer2442]

"oh omnipresent... slay" is like my favorite thing ever, and I love you two, you're so mood.

[@DrakeDraco2000]

What I'm getting from this is people think Noah is a mess and too ADHD and anxiety-driven to function, and therefore assume Corry must be The Adult and The Caretaker. And every one of these Q&As is the two of them pointing out that Noah can function on his own, Corry is being put on a pedestal (because we see only what little of his personality he's carefully cultivated and released for consumption), and that both of them are chaotic which is why they're a couple in the first place.

[@buzz_bzuzz]

As someone with suspected undiagnosed autism, hearing you talk about experiences, and watching your mannerisms makes a lot of sense for me and my struggles.

[@sand_eater101]

I also am suspected undiagnosed autistic. It’s very noticeable and part of my struggles, so it’s not “oh I have one little thing here and another here”. No there are very strong indications and I’ve researched a fair amount. My autistic friend also says they’d be surprised if I wasn’t autistic because I check off a lot of symptoms in their eyes as well I’m terrified as coming across as wanting to be trendy because that’s not my intention at all, so excuse my profuse reasoning- just wanted to say I highly relate and can understand where you’re coming from, and that you’re doing great🫶🫶

[@RandomLeopardcorn]

@@sand_eater101 I'm in exactly the same place. I had a slight suspicion ever since I first heard about someone I used to be friends with being diagnosed with autism a couple of years ago and realised I had a lot of similar traits to him. Then about a year or 2 ago, another friend was told he could have autism which led him to getting a self referral form to a diagnosis and that's when I started researching for months and realised so many things in my life made sense when I compared them to autistic traits. Now, I've finally finished filling in the referral form after a year of research and self reflection and hoping I can be seen for a diagnosis. I hate that people are now thinking it's just a trend because of tiktoks and stuff or accusing people of faking when it's such a struggle with your identity and everyday life. But I'm glad that the information is more easily accessible now so people us are able to realise who we are. I don't really know what my point was, but I can definitely relate and related to some of the things Noah said in this video. Like the needing to be organised or I'll forget everything and lose the structure in my life.

[@caden4858]

luv me some lil suspected autism i was tested in person at a hospital for 3 weeks straight but they couldnt figure it out cuz of my selective mutism- but they r getting some diff people to test me (but less in my face, not fullon in a whole building for it lol) so woo lmaoo

[@lazekozuya]

i love how both of them are chaotic and there is no polar opposite its just an blended vibe

[@oxfordisacoyote]

Corry's opinions on the whole top/bottom thing is exactly how I feel. There is no point in needlessly labelling myself and boxing myself into a group that's literally just about sex positions

[@jdb101585]

So, you must be verse then. For those of us who aren't, it's important to talk about.

[@oxfordisacoyote]

@jdb101585 I'm not, actually. It's more a thing about the effects that social media has had on these things. Having bottom jokes thrown around to make gay people feel belittled isn't helpful to anybody unless it is a strict kink

[@jdb101585]

@@oxfordisacoyote Depends on the joke. There are great jokes about being a bottom and then there are "jokes" about bottoms being "the woman/lesser partner". There's a difference. It's still important information for people to know. I'm a bottom, I've dated another bottom, it didn't really work. It probably wouldn't work out with a true vers guy either, because I don't like to top. Sexual preferences are important to openly and honestly discuss.

[@oxfordisacoyote]

@jdb101585 oh yeah, absolutely, I just don't like that it's such a huge deal, and that people assume which role you take based on nothing but appearance or interests, or tone of voice

[@jdb101585]

@@oxfordisacoyote I do occasionally find it funny when people assume...because with me and my bf, they're always wrong! It does come with the same biases that they try to assign to us individually....but honestly, I think that's why we should talk about it more. To break the stereotypical assumptions that they make.

[@anabelroutledge]

You guys together is just everything! Like I just imagine the fox and the hound type of energy. Just have the chaos that comes with both and together it is borderline unreasonable. Thanks for doing this videos because they really are such a good laugh

[@friendlywiki4863]

I want more videos with him is lovely go see u both together ❤

[@temimah649]

These two are honestly relationship goals

[@shadesofcallum]

T R A N S 4 C O R R Y

[@_-_X_-_]

And they slay again XD Am I the only one who finds solace in Noah's videos? I mean, whenever I'm feeling really shitty, his videos cheer me up. Without him I might not exist anymore

[@dinosaurs_rule]

That is an extremely relatable statement. You're definitely not alone with that :)

[@the_alien_1239]

ahh same

[@star_chaser_f]

Sameee, noah is everything to me

[@mariemoore4997]

Wow that's a little extreme but if it keeps you alive please don't stop watching.

[@lulianjuliuswassbach]

Oh yeah, he's my comfort KZbinr. He helped me so much with figuring out that I'm trans too

[@joninahgiersdorf-thompson774]

My goat is in labor so I'm sitting out here with her watching Noah and corry

[@NOAHFINNCE]

omg hope it went well!😊

[@joninahgiersdorf-thompson774]

It did she had 4

[@joninahgiersdorf-thompson774]

@ThimblesMcBimbles thank you it has been a tough kidding season but this is the only mom so far with no complacations

[@remingersoll3936]

I felt super called out by the wrist-covered in bracelets thing 😆

[@pushumonster]

At that point cleaning and reorganizing is a special interest for Noah ! Kinda wish I could relate... I spend hours enthousiastically planning my organisation on paper and then never start :)

[@mikelmontoya2965]

I'm also an autistic ADHD'er, I get the "to be organized or to not be organized" struggle lol

[@nightmareboss]

Hi Noah. You’re an amazing inspiration to me, and myself! I love everything you do. Keep on doing what you do best. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! Have a good day.

[@b.e.a.n.s_]

To you AND yourself lmfao /lh

[@HyperNovva]

I want to like this comment but I don't want to ruin the 100 likes!

[@Sofia-th1fz]

To who now? 😂

[@PRIDEBENSON]

"He's not like other girls, he's a boy" 💀💀💀💀

[@SaruCharmed]

I kinda agree with you about tops and bottoms. Would love to see a video about that btw. But at the same time, it is important information for sexual compatibility as some people really prefer to just do one or the other.

[@bluedog1337]

you two are so cute together it makes me so warm

[@jessegrant8469]

Can Cory please so a video on genders for gay men (like top/bottom, or even some of the 'tribes' like twink or bear). I would love to see a deep dive into those sub cultures and why they're used. It's interesting to consider, especially because there is so much variety in what it means to be a man. Saying you're gay doesn't specify much about who you'll date, so are these terms helpful? Idk I'd love to hear Cory talk about it.

[@buzz_bzuzz]

You could also do your own research…

[@notcorry]

@@buzz_bzuzz but then they wouldn’t hear me talk about it

[@wondertyzipp8260]

Genders for gay men? 😂 ah yes my Gender is bottom 😂

[@tylerphuoc2653]

@@wondertyzipp8260 he/him/hole type of energy

[@mariemoore4997]

Or neo genders for they confuse me my little cuz says they're nb demi boy huh

[@offow5085]

when cory said hes MEAN ingeneral i would tell anyone who doesn't belive him to go and watch THE SCI GUYS lol

[@jaeisnotdownbad]

this dynamic is everything 😭😭😭

[@sharkarts378]

You guys both make such cool content! I love Noah’s necklaces and Noah’s content in general! He teaches a lot of people about lgbt and makes entertaining content and I can’t believe those people don’t like Corry! He’s very smart and teaches science to people around the world on his podcast! You guys are super cool

[@mariemoore4997]

I didn't know that they diss on Corey they are jealous.

[@sharkarts378]

@@mariemoore4997 ikr Corry is so cool

[@lees_act]

Lowkey love you guys, you ALWAYS manage to make me laugh even when im in a horrible mood. I hope you get the chance to come to Australia one day so i can meet you, that would be awesome. Love you!!!

[@melissabarrett9750]

It'd be a massive honour to meet these two

[@AlexanderHam7]

I bought tickets and vip for your USA tourrrr, I’m so excitedddd!!!!

[@fredmichaels418]

Corry reminds me of a shirt I saw recently : " I keep trying to ' Idiot Proof ' things but , The Universe keeps making BIGGER AND BETTER IDIOTS ! " As long as you keep Trying , there's still Hope Corry ! 👍🌹🌹

[@superdrwholock]

I really don't know another way to explain it but I love that thing you both do when you pretend to be arrogant and swish your head around it makes me laugh

[@finnisqueer]

The thought of Noah having curlier hair than Corry made me laugh, just cause I've had someone come up to me and go: "You must have black relatives because your hair is sooo curly!" - I'm whiter than white, what the fuck do you mean?? Lmaoo

[@the_mothermold]

It makes me smile to just see how you guys' relationship is so chaotic and fun. It always makes my day to watch your videos, Noah, especially the assumptions about your relationship videos. 😊

[@bunji_beans]

Holy shyt.. Corry is so right about top/bottom being genders for gay people! It's so obvious that I'm aghast I've never realized it before. Especially as a side, I feel like I should've lol What weirds me out now though is that I recently found out that non-gay people use top/bottom to describe their relationships now too which I'm confused about. Like I understood dominant/submissive to be universal, but I always understood top/bottom to only refer to penetration. I have mixed feelings about this because I understand that language evolves, but part of me feels weirdly possessive about the terms which is even weirder since like I said, I'm a side.

[@jinmushui1soul]

Agreed. I think there's still some value in stating what kind of sex you like. Still, it's somewhat problematic when you reduce yourself or others to sexual behavior and whatever gendered signifiers get attached to it. As a side who is black, the amount of weird gender shit projected onto me when I say I'm not tryna do all that (or just in general tbh) is wild.

[@bunji_beans]

@@jinmushui1soul exactly! It's the whole culture around it and hierarchy attributed to it that makes it similar to how society treats gender

[@jimileecrawford7731]

Yeah, but I'm a bottom even before my transition, I was a bottom to both men and women.

[@haleyandrews74]

top bottom does only refer to penetration its just that not all straight women are bottoms and not all straight men are tops

[@bunji_beans]

@@haleyandrews74 thanks for clarifying that for me!

[@dominiqueeden]

“I need a little box for my little socks” is the best and most relatable thing you’ve ever said. 😅😂 (9:14)

[@jaytheidiot79]

Noah you are so amazing, your videos never fail to cheer me up, and I can’t believe that I’m going to be seeing you while you’re on tour!

[@doctorbepis]

A Sci Guys episode on the top/bottom as genders thing would be awesome!!! I kinda wonder if astrology signs are used similarly, but more by wlw? I tend to get slight social dysphoria over it (oh you're a bottom / that's because you're a [sign]) and it feels like an absurd thing to get dysphoric over. But why assume things about me as a person based on arbitrary and even unchangeable information?? also heck yeah, looking forward to the concert in my city

[@lookintoforever]

I hope they stay together forever but if not no judgement. I dig them

[@Mutantthefurry]

You two would be PERFECT for a podcast... oh i just remember that Corry has one xD

[@g.jaundy]

i relate to the organization thing but instead of adhd getting in the way its depression making it so i can't be arsed to clean and organize shit

[@louie3157]

Noah is giving massive Tism energy today

[@josephcassar1340]

Noah and Corry with another great video XD I was smiling for 17 minutes straight. What a great way to finish my day!!

[@isaakdramheart7597]

Gosh this is so funny cause I have asperger syndrome, ADHD and OCD which is why I organize everything but in the chaotic way. Like people think that I am messy person but this is MY CHAOS and I CONTROL IT

[@ryker1256]

I bought tickets for your tour in America Last night! and I got the VIP package, can't wait to meet you Noah!!!!

[@meepmorpmix]

You are so lucky! That's incredible!

[@DeclanSocial]

Ahhh that will be fun! In a brief moment of ADHD impulsivity, I got a general admission ticket. Too scared to actually do the VIP package… Talking to people in person is scary😅

[@siiiriously3226]

"he‘s not like other girls - he‘s a boy!"

[@mjpeanuts]

Haven’t seen a Noah video in a little bit and I’m so happy to be back😭

[@pandasforeverprayingforukr4834]

Same 😭❤

[@salsaidek]

Hi Noah! I love your content so much and recently I’ve had a lot of gender disphoria…. Do you have any tips? ❤❤❤

[@vivienmansbach2390]

can’t wait to see you in berkeley!!

[@planetaryg0]

UR VIDS TOGETHER ARE LIKE S TIER CHAOTIC HUMOUR LOL ILY

[@BeingBoringx2]

You guys are awesome. Thanks for the laughs!

[@landosampson9928]

“-i’m black?” 🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣

[@achilles8075]

i didn’t know you terri were still together that’s so cool😊

[@juniperfox1064]

how are ppl hating on corry cause they are thirsting for noah, instead of appreciating the banter they have as a couple?? smh

[@renbaker5124]

Lol the part of Corry saying why Noah is a baby is all just autistic traits

[@ushsjajswkskw]

i would love to learn Corry's opinion about top and bottom stuff ✌✌

[@kylewambot2664]

Gurrrrrl 😂😂😂😂 it was @7:22 for me. My kind of vibe all the time all the way

[@_geno_]

honestly sometimes me and my friends do use tone indicators irl 😭 it’s mostly just being like “is that slash neg or slash pos” and its just a way we’ve gotten used to asking if we’re joking or not and shit

[@kat_the_mouse]

Noah just malfunctioning at 8:08 made me CACKLE we are so similar istg

[@dchong5763]

Noah "I'm here with corry" Corry "AHHHHHH"

[@JustAnotherYoYoEr]

I'm dying at the fact that go piss girl is not commented on, it is literally the funniest meme on the internet and to this day I still laugh 😂

[@lobaetoile8440]

I find very strange that people wanna label you guys as "bottoms"... Do people assume if you're a "nice guy" or open minded and not you know, toxic, that you must be "a bottom"?? It's weird logic.

[@cameronroe8070]

i love your videos so much i've been watching them while i recover from top surgery, thank you so much

[@CyberShadowZero]

I can’t wait for new music from you I absolutely love all your songs they filled my playlist and they are pretty relatable I can’t wait to hear new songs from you!❤

[@goldenbreeze2315]

0:3 you know a video is gonna be good when something relatable happens in the first three seconds

[@ronniemarczewski3654]

You guys are so funny and cute, Noah has great hair and dimples, and I'm drunk. Hope to see you in the US

[@wondertyzipp8260]

lol same

[@quatzxice]

My assumption is that you're each other's favourite person. Love it.

[@Rosaria-xs3pp]

I am diagnosed autistic and have a high chance of being ADHD, I am exactly like this, it rly funny to watch someone think my mind, love it 😂😁

[@daisylove6853]

i literally love you guys sm

[@Fish.exe.]

I’m in the process of getting diagnosed with autism so I get it.

[@femke3868]

When do we get a Europe tour????🥰

[@foxnova6646]

Omg you guys answered my question about if you guys listen to Noah’s music. I was not expecting you guys to answer 😭

[@sicilykentner9775]

Duuude my autistic self was think that Noah was being way to relatable before he said “yeah pretty sure I’m autistic” 🤣

[@samanthagutierrez-cy8jy]

Noah has to vlog this tour because I can't be there. 😢😢😭😭

[@elizabethirvin9954]

“Im black” 😂 wheezing

[@ghxst_rileyx]

Would 100% love to see Corrys take on the top and bottom thing 🤷🏻

[@mosshealy3280]

Half of this is just exposing Noah’s autistic traits and I am living for it

[@wen_and_only]

You can tell the assumption was dead right based on how much they argue afterwards lol

[@idk78244]

The smack at the end really brought the whole thing together- I'm not even joking

[@robotboy3104]

"top and bottom is gender for gay men" damn I never thought of it that was but he's so right

[@LucieTalks101]

Hi Noah I think you are cool and you have helped me a Lot thanks

[@wolfonthesteps]

I'm autistic and possibly ADHD and most of Noah's experiences are like mine.

[@robynserena9921]

Hearing baby like 20 times got funnier after every time you said it again

[@liamjenkins9016]

Literally throughout the video I was going… hmm that’s kinda like what my autism makes me do. Then he pulls out I think I’m autistic and I cackled. The audhd is strong in this one. U and me both.

[@Whatnow797]

Nita comment na Kiswahili juu why not..nawapenda Noah na Corry.

[@flow-anime]

8:31 I understand Corry my mother is the same but when the organizers come she reorganizes and rearranges the house

[@nanatoto5994]

High fps noah is trippy to watch

[@Auggie26]

This whole video is Noah having audhd (same honestly)

[@bigv1993]

I feel like Corry's Scottish accent isn't as strong. Love the channel. Peace ✌️ love 💜 happiness 😊

[@tiredoftryin]

They way he was like im black...its me

[@antbandd]

you two are awesomeee

[@key1526]

Half the time when Cory is talking about Noah he’s just listing autistic/adhd traits: hyper-organized, makes noises instead of talking, forgetting to do things, etc 😭😭😭

[@DanWhyte]

Every single time I ever hear Noah state that "I was a girl'. I completely forget that he's trans and my brain goes haywire.

[@virgoinvogue]

omg corry was so out of pocket for the “he’s not like other girls” comment ijbol

[@trollkid4680]

Love you guys can’t wait to see you on tour Noah!

[@Fjazmin__https]

Would love to see you in concert❤❤❤