Nobody Cares

[@FixFaxx]

love this quote: ''You can't embaress someone who is self confident''

[@hobodios]

My ego after reading that quote 📈

[@marcierex4547]

my ultra ego when its my turn to sing: bro I'm gonna go wild with it!

[@drz616]

But you definitely can, that's how confidence gets taken away from people. It's a nice quote but not true at all

[@FixFaxx]

@@drz616 confidence isn’t some feeling that comes and goes, no confident person just gets insecure because they’re insulted or in an akward situation, they simply accept it. In a way you could say that stoicism and confidence go hand in hand.

[@Dan_Kanerva]

@@FixFaxx egos are not like strenght levels on a videogame , where the one with the bigger number always beat the lower levels . If a confident man makes a mistake and people with lower egos remind him of said mistake , this can affect the person regardless... and good example is how Jenna Marbles (the biggest woman KZbinr also called the female Pewdiepie) stopped doing videos just because a few whine babies on Twitter insulted her over comedy sketches 😒

[@duckluck3755]

I love how as you get into the tenseness of the microphone being passed to you, you pair that with gameplay of you going down into the cave. However, after you explain the "embarrasing" moment, you pair your realization with you coming back out of the cave. Really nice subtle storytelling there. Outstanding content btw.

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you I appreciate it :)

[@daichi7989]

Dayum, now that you’ve mentioned it 😮

[@davitucsonn2243]

as if every experience is a cave waiting to be explored, may it be a dangerous one or, a lushy one (in minecraft terms!!!)

[@jexusdomel5194]

Thought the same thing, he could have just put gameplay without consideration, but with just a bit, the video became way better

[@jacobmacias766]

@@flowstatevideo English teachers when the main character sneezes

[@F1zzyUp]

Just so you know, you saved my life. I was lonely and had 0 friends. I felt completely alone and was considering ending it all. However, when I came across this video, I began to improve myself and started talking to other people. I also started working out at the gym and taking risks. Now I have 5 close friends whom I can trust, and a wonderful girlfriend. Thank you so much for changing my life.

[@flowstatevideo]

That's amazing, keep it up

[@wisp1740]

​@@flowstatevideo bro could care less 💀💀

[@cryocoma]

@@wisp1740 damn honestly... you kinda strike me as an incell.. you know the type of person that will take in information and never use it a day in his life.. the kinda person that complains that he is lonely but does nothing about it i cant tell if your using the main lesson of the video as an ironic quote or what not but yeah... its still scummy nun the less. so go outside or idk find someone that means something to you cause from what I'm reading a lot of people do care. this man literally changed someone's life and honestly it hit home for me to gotta love the incompetence of 12 year olds on the internet whom think they are literal gods and can form a concise and complex opinion based on the little knowledge they manage to grasp.. the pure idiocy and ignorance is what's driving me to waste time out of my day to belittle someone that has been wasting valuable oxygen and time from others edit: HOLY SHIT IM DYING XD i dont even remember commenting this but im getting cooked fair play internet also.... dont take anything of what i say seriously... its all satire in my mind and doesn't reflect how i feel currently (and yeah,,, i went a bit far with it) gg's and im kinda sad that yt removed the dislike button cause i want to see how many i got

[@mariagil2170]

​@@cryocoma Hey I get his or her comment might be calloused and wrong to you. But to respond by calling him a bad name won't fix anything. Maybe you could've said "I don't think that's true" or something.

[@wisp1740]

@@cryocoma dude I don't know if you're really being fr cause it honestly looks like you misinterpreted my comment really out of proportion. I was making a simple joke and you act like I was saying something awful. It wasn't meant to be serious or taken serious and I think I made that pretty clear. Its kind of ironic you're assuming I'm an incell and writing a whole paragraph based on a few words I said while hating on people who form "a concise and complex" opinions based on "the little knowledge they grasp." I mean I really can't tell if you know whats a joke or not and if you did, why are you taking it to heart? It wasn't meant to hurt anyone or to really hate at that, it was just really for fun but you go out of your way to tear it down and start projecting. Not everything is meant to be taken seriously so calm down and stop being sensitive.

[@mrlegitimate1238]

Love the channel one of the few who consistently makes me stop what I'm doing to watch.

[@flowstatevideo]

That's awesome I'm glad to hear it :)

[@Spestly]

Man spoke Facts rn

[@FireClawPlayz]

Fr

[@mrlegitimate1238]

@@flowstatevideo thanks for taking the time to reply means a lot keep up the amazing content

[@christiantaylor1495]

That's why you should turn your phone off and focus. Sounds like FOMO. Social media destroying your attention span.

[@midnight6274]

Stumbled across this video at 10pm on a friday night expecting something wildly different, this is amazing

[@flowstatevideo]

Appreciate it!

[@milosauce915]

ik i was expecting it to be a dude yelling at me that nobody asked

[@sleepygirlmimi]

wow i also found this at 10pm on a friday

[@floss5733]

i ALSO found this at 10pm on a friday night WITH rain thats crazy

[@_FredsRightHere__]

Woah,me too dude! And with rain.

[@Lemonadee771]

Love how there's no bullshit anywhere. No obnoxious intro or outro, just a simple story. Nice!

[@changedmynamee]

dude it’s not 2015 anymore. KZbinrs don’t have those cringey 3D intros anymore.

[@xbrokio]

@@changedmynameeman ngl i lowkey kinda miss those simple days tho

[@Jyukenmaster95]

@@changedmynamee they still do...thats why people watch some content creators in 1.5x its not about attention span; its about dialogue-fluff

[@batoobdx]

This is actually a great concept you did right there: chill gameplay, while telling a story because watching someone play eventually gets repetitive or boring, but right now this is perfect. I like it a lot and expect it to continue!

[@postmasters6453]

weekly slap vibes

[@christiantaylor1495]

Watching someone play gets boring? I watch 4 hour long Minecraft videos with no commentary and don't get bored.

[@GalliumYttriumThespian]

@@christiantaylor1495 ok. very cool. you’re veryyyyy special.

[@brandillio16]

videos like these murder your attention span, no matter how good the moral is

[@christiantaylor1495]

​@@brandillio16 Exactly. Notice how they think it's a new concept as if LeafyIsHere wasn't once the fastest growing channel on KZbin for doing the same thing.

[@sporent]

these vids are so chill! i expected the audience for this niche to be really small but i've been pleasantly surprised

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you!

[@xirofinn]

Wow, ive never really seen a Video that motivating, ofc ive seen videos trying to tell me what self esteem means. But not one video conveyed this message as well as this video. I hope this video finds its way to as many young people as possible❤️🔥

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! :)

[@rusti9195]

Top tier glaze

[@chef-turtle4278]

​@@rusti9195trippin

[@poofyfox6751]

@@rusti9195 What the fuck is wrong with you, grow up

[@Arti27YT]

@@rusti9195 Lowest tier child

[@tec9b8]

This type of content could be revolutionary in the Minecraft community. Keep going. I believe in you.

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you I appreciate that

[@jackknifevideoworks]

why? because it's not related to minecraft in any way?

[@tec9b8]

@@jackknifevideoworks no because it’s peaceful and there’s no upbeat attitude. It’s like listening to a friends story

[@ItsKaysu]

I 100% agree, this type of storytime is AMAZING

[@Kenajovski]

i love your pfp

[@nickinoko]

I really needed this positive wholesome vibe, it’s a reminder that true happiness is and can be all along inside of you😌

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! That's very kind :)

[@sunstone_xd8977]

​@@flowstatevideoI 100% agree, thanks dude this helped so much❤ I have a lot of anxiety just going outside thinking everyone's staring at me so just a reminder that nobody really cares is super useful👍🏾

[@caroro.2210]

This is from someone I knew, who always told me: "Feeling cringe about something is what kills your motivation to do that thing. Don't let it get to you, be yourself."

[@ae19188]

Loved the chill-style video and the effort you put into it!

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! :)

[@revurhb9231]

Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

[@robbomax]

amen brother

[@robbomax]

@@avangardismm amen brother

[@hen618]

nope, jesus is fake lol@@robbomax

[@alkimia1791]

I needed this dude. I'm always just so anxious about what other people think about me, and while this doesn't make that feeling go away completely, it does make me feel a bit better

[@CausingChaos.]

I want to share something with anyone reading my comment right now: Courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s the mastery of fear. Its saying to oneself, “wow, that thing really scares me. I guess I’ll just go ahead and do it anyway though.” Anytime you’re anxious or fearful about doing something, don’t try to stop fearing it, learn to control it. Even the most courageous and bravest knights are fearful of not returning to their families. They still press on though, because they eventually learned to control their fear after enough time. Next time you’re anxious or afraid, don’t tell yourself it’s not scary, embrace that fear, accept it, and try to push past it. Learn from the scariness, and question why you’re so scared. Then, you might just overcome it. Hope this helped anyone reading this..

[@alkimia1791]

@@CausingChaos. It helped me 😁

[@pleasegoawaydude]

@@CausingChaos. It reminds me that I'm useless and I shouldn't be alive.

[@Nikita-hp1tp]

@@CausingChaos. Thank you so much, i really needed this, your comment was really helpful!

[@sportedits856]

@@pleasegoawaydude bru u matter buddy :C

[@ICEDNOTBLENDED]

This mindset has helped me so much. In late middle school I realized that I remembered the embarrassing things I’d done through my life, and how someone that saw me do that might see me and think how silly I looked. Then I thought of all the people I’d seen do embarrassing things, and what I’d think of them if I saw them. And hardly anyone came to mind, and those who did were usually my friends, and those who weren’t I didn’t think anything poorly of them. So what would someone think of me if I were to stumble over my words during my presentation? And this made things so much easier. I became so loose in front of crowds. Stage fright is still a thing, definitely. A phobia is an irrational fear, you can’t get rid of that with a mindset. But there are some things that can be solved with a mindset. This outlook of “they won’t remember, only I will” doesn’t just apply to the stage in front of a crowd, it applies to a stranger on the street, a customer in your store, a coworker in the break room, a family member at the reunion. Conversation comes so easy when you can say anything and not be worried about being judged the rest of your life, and you get to practice and become better at conversation, too. It’s a skill, and I still learn every day. Now I’m in my third year of community college, my class knows my name and who I am, that I’m not afraid to blurt an answer or give a little speech, and the people in my life appreciate me in general. People don’t care about something you don’t care about, so when you stop caring about the conversation, and start caring about the people, they’ll do the same for you.

[@Millatarra]

Your content, what you're doing is super uplifting, inspiring and you should know it.

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! :)

[@natalkasowa8703]

Polska

[@revurhb9231]

Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

[@alang.2054]

​@@revurhb9231 sorry I'm muslim

[@anonymous8737]

@@alang.2054 alhamdulillah

[@theaustinvalentine]

Listening to this video has really helped with my self-confidence, thank you so much. Your content always inspires me to be a better person :)

[@flowstatevideo]

I'm glad to hear that! :)

[@CausingChaos.]

I want to share something with anyone reading my comment right now: Courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s the mastery of fear. Its saying to oneself, “wow, that thing really scares me. I guess I’ll just go ahead and do it anyway though.” Anytime you’re anxious or fearful about doing something, don’t try to stop fearing it, learn to control it. Even the most courageous and bravest knights are fearful of not returning to their families. They still press on though, because they eventually learned to control their fear after enough time. Next time you’re anxious or afraid, don’t tell yourself it’s not scary, embrace that scariness, and try to push past it. Learn from the scariness, and question why you’re so scared. Then, you might just overcome it. Hope this helped anyone reading this.

[@x_potato4081]

@@CausingChaos. thats deep man, thx

[@someonesomewheresomehow]

@@CausingChaos.uh yeah. also something kinda unrelated because i struggle a lot with paranoia that took me a time to figure out is, fear is ok. its not do not fear, its dont be afraid to fear. cause you are gonna fear.

[@DaMapleSyrupyToast]

You have no idea how much this helped me rethink so many of my embarrassing moments and just move on. Thank you. btw what is the modpack you are using for the survival clips?

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you! Modpack is Better Adventures+

[@scarrow3203]

This was an amazing video. I don’t see many KZbinrs who are as honest as you were to this degree, although there are always a few, and it was nice to just listen to you speak about a funny and wholesome story. I think the message was super important, and despite it being as simple as it sounds, it is still something a lot of people don’t fully take in when they hear it regularly. Thank you for this, keep up the good content :))

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! :) I appreciate that

[@revurhb9231]

Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

[@xler3441]

God sent His only Son to die for us on the cross so that we can get into Heaven and then God raised His Son from the dead on the 3rd day. Please search for God with all your heart and you will truly find Him

[@boywithbali3830]

@@flowstatevideohey I know you might not reply but do you have a degree in psychology it j seems so interesting how you’re able to go into Such deep topics. , thank you

[@leviehrhardt913]

The story about singing was kinda irritating. He could've just said no.

[@stparm]

As someone who struggles with social anxiety its really nice to just be reminded of how much people actually care about the things you do, sometimes i get stuck in bad ruts but this little reminder certainly helped a ton,.ive also seen many other videos of yours and found them incredibly insightful keep it up with this absolutely outstanding content!

[@qwertymehta8342]

I also have social anxiety, the thing is that I would WANT to be able to go up on stage. Like, I WANT to be extroverted and I try to be but I can't bc I always start trembling n shit

[@mrzukunft]

​@@qwertymehta8342Maybe you can try your best to accept yourself for who you are, whether you manage to overcome your social anxiety or not? 😊

[@seup123]

​@@qwertymehta8342same dude i just never get the right words to say so when anyone talks to me im just like ok which feels horrible lol

[@dragicmagic9870]

I have social anxiety too, but I just don't find this type of inspirational content helpful at all. Anxiety is mostly a physical response, it's not something that you can just get rid of by thinking positively or whatnot. I physically feel uneasy in many social situations regardless of whatever positive thought I may be thinking.

[@MachinaOwl]

@@dragicmagic9870 The idea that there's nothing you can do ironically makes anxiety worse.

[@snoopie6436]

My friend once said "People don't care as much as you think they do", it's the simplest thing but it has stuck with me for years now. To this day when I feel super self conscious about something I think about what he said.

[@roz9738]

I really needed this. Great video, flowstate. Just subscribed.

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much! :)

[@snaildad193]

Something similar to this happened to me in high school too, and seeing how quickly everyone just forgot about it and moved on was so uplifting and did wonders for my confidence. It taught me that being who I want to be and owning my strangeness is way more important than trying to conform to everyone else, because at the end of the day people aren't gonna remember me anyway. Might as well stay true to myself. Awesome video!

[@SCPCB]

nice video

[@18rocksthegames78]

I’ll remember it forever, but no one else will Except for my friend but he doesn’t count

[@k23211]

Love from Switzerland man keep those videos up

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you so much!

[@yssukram]

i cant explain how much i enjoy these videos, your videos make me happier and the vibe is so wholesome, this slow-paced vibe is the best way to end my day

[@flowstatevideo]

I'm glad to hear it :)

[@gigabyteone4001]

I'm not sure If I can even describe how much these videos mean to me, having somebody with similar feelings and stories that I can relate my experiences to means a lot to me. I'm extremely self- conscious pretty much everything especially my looks. Anyways, I had a similar experience to you in gym class, I'm too emotional to go into detail but it was traumatizing, causing mental issues I still inflict on myself today. I just wanted to put it out there and say that these videos you make give me hope and confidence to continue in my life, and I'm on a path of healing and am nearly a completely different person (in a good way). Having somebody to relate to means a lot to me, Thank You Update I guess for those who care (I Doubt there's many): My life has completely changed, I've met people and have become a great person from where I was before, I have a friend group now! after so long after my original one disbanded pretty much, I haven't been able to get over it until now and now I've moved on and met new friends. I've started to improve my health and am focusing on school much more, I couldn't be happier. I don't want to say that this video was the only reason that led me here because it wasn't, but It definitely spark something in me, To those who are going through a tough time or just want to improve themselves, It's never impossible, just take it one step at a time and eventually you'll look back amazed by how many steps you've made

[@GamingTaylor]

I would argue that sometimes avoiding self-damaging situations like these can be rewarding in itself. In high-school I was forced to take a speech class, one of the major projects for this class was to lip-sing to a song for a minimum of 3 minutes.... I was the awkward shy guy who did not even listen to music, but I did have a 4.0 GPA to keep my parents happy. I tried to find the slowest song I could find and tried my hardest to remember the lyrics. The day of, I watched as other people made complete and utter fools of themselves. I watched all their dignity leave their souls as I cringed harder than I have ever cringed... I then had a realization.... I have more dignity than this... for the first time I am going to say "no" to this ridiculous school program and take the F test grade. I am going to go home, let my parents get upset, and then go to sleep knowing that I did what was best for my mental well being.

[@Vizeff]

This hits so close to home. I had a period in my life where I was always overthinking situations like this, and now a few years later both my siblings are experiencing the same thing. This helps cast a light on how stupid it is to think it's the end of the world if you experience something similar to what you experienced.

[@abulletant1147]

Same for me, take example for 9th grade, Riverdale. I've been overthinking some worksheets for agriculture class.

[@antagonist_in_a_bag]

this is possibly one of the best things I could have watched at 12:53 in the morning while about to go to sleep

[@nono-mt3uf]

sup

[@simonwegebro735]

5:13 lol

[@H.KILLER]

bruh I feel that I did have my share of embarrassing moments...or so I thought because compared to this one mine moments are nothing it really feels bad when you think about these moments and then you start feeling it in your nerves like you stretch your hand everytime you think about one and so on but it really hits you when you realize that nobody even cares nobody even remembers these moments except you thinking about them even after years and now I feel that I'm little bit more sociable with poeple and a little bit more confident about myself like if I was your place of course I wouldn't sing but I would've been honest and just handed the mic but you were brave enough to take the rest and forge on without caring about the results thanks for the vidoe dude, definitely helps :)

[@NikZapp]

To be honest I didn't expect this video to make me cry... yet it did. I learned the same thing as you, but way later. Now I'm regretting that I didn't do things I thought were embarrassing but now I know: they aren't. Be yourself, no matter what others may think.

[@p1vat255]

I honestly resonated with your message in an emotional way, like damn. I'm so oddly insecure about small things about myself, like how my hair looks, etc, and I always think people are looking at me in school. My friends always tell me that I'm good, I look good, nothing to be insecure about. This video helps a lot, nobody really cares. Everyone is all fixated on themselves, not you, they may look at you once but they'll forget about you in seconds. This makes me believe it more though, that nobody truly cares, so thank you for putting me into this more positive mindset.

[@LankyMidget-eh4wh]

This is actually so true, when I was about 13 about to turn 14, we had this performing arts class, and this was like 2 months deep into the school year so around November time, and as a warm up exercise the teacher made us get into a circle and she picked one person to do a certain dance move and the person who was selected could then decide what dance move you would have to do after they completed their dance, so you had to select a person and a dance so for eg. I pick Max and I chose the floss off fortnite, you know that type of thing, so a few people went up and did their dances ,selected people and then their chosen dance moves, but this guy in my class gets picked and is set honestly quite a easy dance, something short, so he completes and looks around and selects me, and what did he select for me to do? The worm. I have never ever done the worm up until this point, so immediately being a quite quiet teenager I was thinking "oh no, oh god no please" so I walk to the centre of the circle get on my stomach and begin doing the dance, very very poor performance I must say and I see everyone is laughing, and yeah looking back I was a bit embarrassed, but now Im 17 I look back and laugh about it and I'm glad I did it in a way cause it was just a bit of fun, I think a few people jokingly said to me nice dance moves, we'd both laugh and then move on and that was it.

[@just_a_mango]

Those videos are really my favorites, and the concept is perfect too. Slow/calm gameplay, while telling us something a story or something you went through, this is really relaxing. Congrats on 30K subscribers btw, you deserve it 😄

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you very much!

[@AidanChickenNugget17]

His videos are just so calming and relaxing to watch. Helps relieve stress.

[@DCI_Mage]

I know, I have been rewatching these videos so much.

[@Simply_King]

He hearted my comment, causing me to well visit this video again, after a whole year. I can’t stop to think how true this is tho. I saw this video before my high school 11th grade end of the year party thing. It was just a graduation ceremony for the 12th graders. And so, everyone had their own part and I was up there unwillingly. My job was to take the nations flag and brag about it bcs I did and no one else did blah blah blah. They gave me a paper to read and memorize on the last day. Me knowing that I would be on stage for the FIRST time in front of hundreds of parents and relatives of the school, memorized it. And so the next day, at the party when my turn came, I literally forgot on the second phrase. I stared at my hand that was holding the flag thinking what the hell was I about to do? I’m in front of everyone, the ceremony started like hours ago, they are expecting words blah blah blah. I stressed out. With the mic in my hand close to my mouth I turned to look at the teachers that were beside the stage and went “I uhh… well forgot.” Immediately everyone laughed. I felt embarrassed ofc and well we ended it there. I don’t know maybe it was to sooth me out or to kill the embarrassment but all my friends even random people said “You seriously brought joy to that boring party of theirs”. Now I come to think of it, no one really cared. They all probably forgot to this day. I always stressed out about stages, always ran away from implementing my self to people. Never came to realize how foolish I was. But damn that was one experience lmao. One core memory.

[@flowstatevideo]

Yessir I read every comment. Thanks for sharing

[@jcbt11]

That was so beautiful, you've really changed the gears of my mind.

[@Bongbongo]

not the dreamybull pfp ☠☠

[@Artromex]

I randomly got recommended this video, and it really sorta spoke to me to a personal level. The atmosphere that you create is just so nice and calm. Never knew that listening to a random guy would help out so much and be so reassuring in a way. Keep it up!

[@Ben_R4mZ]

I started singing Karaoke on a weekly basis a little over 2 years ago. After a couple months of practice and totally butchering several songs I started to get recommendations from other people on what songs fit my voice and style. Once I found my niche of songs I excel at singing, I gained a ton of confidence in my ability to sing anything people wanted (provided i knew the song). Some nights no one claps, and other nights i feel like i have the bar in the palm of my hand. But no one outright hated me for singing. In fact, one of the most common bits of feedback I've gotten was "that was amazing, i could never do that", something *I* used to say back before I started. Keep going, and if you bomb, there's always next time ❤

[@bigbuba5212]

I'm trying to do "embarrassing" things, they aren't actually embarrassing but just normal things I'm nervous to do due to my extreme social anxiety but in doing that I've started caring less and less about if people care or not because chances are they do not And I have never found myself caring about what other people did either

[@clover9725]

extreme social anxiety i know it i cant even go out to throw the trash, im at that level already still going to work still going out to the bank and all and still wishing to die everytime i do i want to have a normal life, talk to girls, dating, making friends but at the same time i just want to stay in my room sleep all day and just watch movies or play games far away from anyone, school crushed my soul all my friends ghosting me at the same time 3 years ago made it worse

[@TheNathanator]

@@clover9725 hey bro, remember, the fake ones leave the real ones stay, you just gotta find the right friends. It sounds like you're making a good effort to get out and fight your social anxiety, respect to you for that. As someone who used to have social anxiety, my advice is to not be so self-conscious. Like, no, the way you're standing in line isn't gonna lead to someone laughing at you with their family at the dinner table. Best of luck to u bro, hope you fix it and get better 💪

[@Varaga_82]

The shear fear I felt for you hearing the start of that story. I literally felt it in my body. It’s really…really hard for me to have a different mindset about fears, how people think about me. Your point is completely right, unfortunately I myself don’t think enough tools to work out my negative thoughts. Im just starting therapy, and your video made me realise that I want this mindset as my goal. I want to think in this way about life. I’d be much better off. Great video

[@danonimo22]

Its been some time when I told myself "nobody care". I used to be scared of everything I did in front of others. The bright light of "nobody care" is it will help you to do what you like without worring that others have something against you. But the dark side is that the more I tell myself "nobody cares" the more I realize how lonely I've become.

[@kornyman5187]

I love this, you nailed it, everybody is stuck in their own little world. You are just a side character in their story and you rarely if ever, take center stage in anybody's life that isn't a member of your own family.

[@coww6114]

I just like how genuine this feels, it doesn't feel as if it was for clout, he was just genuinely sharing his stories and helping people.

[@Cyphon]

Thanks for this bro, really encouraging for some of us who are very self conscious about looks/outside appearance, so knowing that difficult or anxious moments make you feel better in the end is great

[@a.j.laponsie9226]

This is something that a lot of people with anxiety, particularly social anxiety, need to hear

[@wakeupLUCE]

would've really appreciated this video coming a liiiiiiiiiiittle earlier in the school year -- really would've taken the oomph out of a couple of embarrassing moments, haha. thanks for another great video, always look forward to hearing what you have to say when it's a commentary! :)

[@flowstatevideo]

Ah true! I'm thinking about doing a video over the summer might try to time it with all the people going back to school/college, and I appreciate that!

[@jtbonline2071]

At midnight tonight, this is pretty much exactly what I've been needing to hear for a while. Thanks for putting this out with a story that can be related to, I hope to catch more from you. Thanks a ton, dude.

[@Dioritus]

Dear flowstate, I've got 2 reasons why I should say thank you to you: 1. Thanks to your modpack I'm able to enjoy my favorite childhood game once again and this is a big deal already since it really helps a lot when I sit down after a tiring day and just chill and play. 2. These short videos you make, I think they help me think positively and I really need that now. Also, I can't believe how you just appeared out of nowhere 2 months ago and now you have like 32 thousand subscribers. So just continue what you're doing, it's good.

[@dailyuser6960]

You are literally the voice in my head, everything you've talked about in these type of videos so far have been, what I like to call them, shower thoughts. They're like my form of meditation when I'm doing something autonomous, just me talking to myself minus the talking part, and seeing them in this manner makes me happy.

[@johnmadden8077]

Just came across this channel, and this hit deep man, and the nostalgia of the game, hitting me in my feels. I hope you win the battles you don't tell to others :)

[@gr1ntz631]

This channel really soothes me ngl, I love your whole style of gameplay and music and just personality. You may be one of the only creators I would happily watch for hours on a livestream while I work or something. I hope you grow big and can give a positive influence on thousands more people than you already have.

[@witheesoul]

i'm glad i stumbled across this video because my mind somehow always tries to remind me of something stupid/embarrasing i have done in the past. this "nobody cares" attitude might be rlly helpful to feel more comfortable in our own bodies sometimes. tysm for this video!

[@Chamarel]

This is so true, I've been in a similar situation where you're asked to get on stage and introduce yourself. I always get up and do it because I know I have nothing to lose.

[@leiji7554]

You just popped in my recommended randomly. I did not know who you were until five minutes ago. But this video really helped me realize that I should just be myself and I shouldn't be so nervous or self-conscious about everything I do. Thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

[@Lerxn]

As a person that had almost the same story this helped me alot, especially when i get reminded of the singing i get so embarrassed, now it doesn’t bother me anymore. ❤

[@Valtsu404]

Just found this channel, and I'm truly blown away how good this content is. It is like therapy. Thank you.

[@tipsyGnostalgics]

the scenery and atmosphere in this video is lovely, thank you so much for this :] have an amazing year, you deserve it

[@flowstatevideo]

Thank you!

[@maskenbub]

this is absolutely my comfort video. whenever i struggle i come back here and enjoy the advise because it helped me a lot. i don't know if you'll read the comment because the video is already a month old. thank you man

[@That0neCrow]

Thank you for this, the soft background music, the genuine message, I just needed this today. Keep it up :)

[@PerfectNarwhal]

This is one of the most important lessons I learned a few years ago. How one thinks other people view them really takes a toll on one's mind, so once I got past this problem and realized that things will move on without people really remembering about you, life began feeling so much more enjoyable and less stressful. Those embarrassing moments even eventually turn into stories you can tell and laugh at in the future :)

[@seanrose5363]

You got a gift that not many people have bro. You can make people think deeply about life through a screen in less than 10 minutes. I just appreciate the way you effortlessly flow through the script paired with the calming gameplay. Keep it up you’re gonna blow up.

[@feierabendt]

bro this is one of the most inspiring videos ive ever seen.

[@Aphaloria]

Thank you so much, this helped me realize that all the silly things I do, even though I might think it was stupid and embarrassing, might not be so bad after all.. 💕

[@captainwobbly7617]

I just found this channel today and have been watching a lot of your videos. Honestly keep it up. I'm 14 years old so I'm in high school (My school system is weird you spend 7 years in primary and 6 in high school) but honestly coming home and watching these videos after having a stressful few days is such a relaxing thing. You can literally talk about anything and I'll listen. So yeah keep making videos, after reading other comments I can tell other people feel the same.

[@sirflappington2484]

In high school, I had a class where everyone had to do a 2, 5, and 7 minutes speech and it made up a significant portion of our grade, then in college, there was a class, communications, where we had to give speeches and the class was mandatory to graduate no matter the major you chose. I get nervous with public speaking, but I'm fine with it, I do pretty well, but it was a learning experience to see my classmates do the speeches. Some peoples' social anxiety is really bad, and multiple times I saw people break down in tears from the anxiety. This video is one I believe is helpful for those people, to understand that people don't care.

[@bubblehead1107]

So glad u went for it man those sort of situations are what build confidence depending on how u handle it and u did it in the best way, ik that works cause i used to have horrible anxiety and now that im better i have things like last week i did something like the song on stage at my school but I volunteered 😅

[@lunasleepai]

almost made me cry even tho I knew this and have told this to myself a lot, I still struggle a lot with social anxiety and this thought that nobody cares how I look, etc. has been in my head for a while. I'm really happy I'm not the only one that thinks that way, thank you for this short and simple masterpiece ♥

[@HanzoShodaVa]

Ya know, watching this video on my final year of high school really give me a lot of confidence to do anything at school. First, I have volunteered to sing on stage for an event. (It went well) EVEN READING A STORY. It gave me the confidence to do things, that I couldn't do before. Thanks man, you changed my final year of high school into the best year that I have ever went through

[@Kessmex]

This is one of my fav pieces of life advice, love to see it being shared and I hope life treats you well

[@Crixpy_]

I loved this video. It really helped me a lot 😭.

[@flowstatevideo]

I'm glad to hear it :)

[@zViolinE]

everytime I do something embarrassing and remember it much later, I always think to myself, "I'm the only person who's thinking of this right now. And if I'm not, what does that say about the people who are? That they're so bored, they're thinking of a cringey moment that didn't even happen to them?" All humiliating things I've done in life have given me something in return, whether it be experience in social situations or fond memories, so I wouldn't change a thing about the past. It's important to remember that no matter the person, we're all gonna have those embarrassing moments. It's better to go out and embarrass yourself than to sit around, never taking risks because you're afraid.

[@g4rb]

You should make more videos of this, but if you are out of ideas you can ask your community their stories. This is peaceful asf i love it!

[@pianova2332]

This is a huge help, I have serious problems with socializing and am not good at conversation (or atleast don't think I am) and it gets so bad that I may have social anxiety. Not sure but I have a bad habit of freezing up and barely talking when I get too involved in a social scenario. This is advice I wish to take with for the rest of my life and I bet a lot of people would also like to here this. You are an everyday hero.

[@Aly23252]

I just wanna tell u man that this video was exactly what i need. Thank u...

[@evdalad2465]

I think the only reason I'm scared of what other people think is because I look at people all around me and I can't help but think bad things. So then, when I do the same, I think that they think those bad things. It's big karma.

[@fluocryte]

exactly how im feeling everyday :(

[@changedmynamee]

Everyone is very judgmental, we just keep it to ourselves to avoid conflict

[@feather314]

This video feels like it was made for me, with the Minecraft combined with the life lesson that feels so precisely relevant to my situation. I needed to hear this so bad and I'll probably come back to it later.

[@unknown_4176]

Yeah same, i realize it may be bad, but it isn't as bad as i make it sometimes

[@develrandomdankmemes7586]

it is for you!

[@PapaYosif]

what i found out about my teen years is whenever u do something but in a fun way where its obvious ur not taking it seriously people will always respect u for it and laugh along.

[@lncaustic]

Hello sir, stumbled upon this video in my recommended and I really love this type of content, the life advice stuff. I really appreciate what you're doing.

[@RedXypher]

This is by far. The best story and message I've ever heard. Really hits me :)

[@jazdoesyt]

Soon in the next year or so I'll be heading to college. Throughout most of my school years I was a very closed off and quiet kid. But what I learned from this year off is that there is no reason to be scared cause we all make mistakes, and we improve from those mistakes. So I've been planning on being more open and this video really just motivates me to do so.

[@domeniksaner5864]

really appreciate you sharing this. we need more content/people like this on this weird planet. after the first 15 seconds i could already tell that youre genuine, and that alone is already soothing enough. thank you!

[@The-Legend-of-P]

I agree! It’s so nice and a breathe of fresh air to hear someone genuine and something honest!

[@CyberN-7660]

I always tell myself that it doesn't matter if I made embarrassing moments and people will just eventually forget, yet I still feel like I lack confidence. Hopefully this video would do better in helping me, thanks :D

[@stefanw07]

Really true, had some uncomfortable moments looking back a few years but back then no one cared if it was embarrasing and no one remembers. You are the only one still thinking about it. People should really see the truth: no one cares, everyone is busy with themselves.

[@PuppetThanksScott]

Thank you for this video! It's a treasure

[@Megacat99]

This warmed my heart a bit. Thank You.

[@Playingcaards]

a few days ago, I had a nervous breakdown at school, I was sobbing and wailing in the counselors room, I didn’t know what to do. Unfortunately, I’m a well known kid at my school, everyone knows me, so I was so worried this would destroy my reputation, this helped so much and just put my back on my feet now I can go back to school with confidence

[@alrodrigues1224]

Thanks man this was actually extremely helpful

[@rednaxela7875]

Never seen so many donations on a video like this before and it's totally deserved

[@xhumanoid]

A similar situation happened to me as well. One of my professor one day decided to ask the students to come at the stage and sing a song, and since I was (apparently) his favorite student he picked me up first. Even before he picked me, I was thinking about what I was going to do. I had expected that it was too likely a situation to not consider. With a similar mindset, I realized that I need not even sing an actual song, I can just do something unexpected yet intriguing to save myself from the awkwardness. He really did pick me for the first... and the last. I got onto the stage, and I was confident as to what I was going to do and just decided to roll with it. He was standing beside me, and the class was cheering somewhat, while I smiled a little and bite my fingers (habit). Then, I just started... making "aaaaaaaaa" sounds as my voice breaks into laughter every now and then. The class laughed at me, and the professor was laughing hysterically in fact. I didn't feel embarrassed however, perhaps I'd already realized what you have said in the video before, perhaps I was confident in my abilities... Regardless, there's something to learn from this story. Thank you for reading.

[@bobbobo2568]

Dude your videos are amazing. I found you by looking for some minecraft mods. But these deep topic videos are just great!

[@YOSHBAG]

Love this. Can’t waste your life fearing what others think. You gotta live it to the fullest because any day could be the last.

[@1whospeaks]

I've never been more ashamed than I have today. My one chance to preform and really show my professor my knowledge I've developed, something I've done many times and very well, and even if I wasn't confident in the language I could have done it in the language, I could have asked the right questions and found the answer. But I froze, and passed it onto someone else. I felt like everything I've been working on was worthless. I thought if I couldn't do this simple task that I'd have to do for the rest of my career, how was I going to start a family, make it big, make some income, meet new friends, make a good impression, etc. It didn't help that, shocker, I really did have no friends, and I really did make shit impressions, I had absolutely nobody to vent to, I've already disappointed my family enough so I just bottled it and put my head down. I hope you're right about people not caring being a good thing, because "relaxed" isn't exactly my nature. I don't even play Minecraft but thanks!

[@joppedekkers4261]

This kinda happened to me too. i had a broken leg so during a (forced) performance, the music teacher thought it would be nice to put me in front so people could see me on my chair, instead of in the back. Not the best experience i had O.o

[@flowstatevideo]

That's terrible! I'm sorry that happened to you

[@TylerDaSilva522]

I feel like I needed more moments like this in my life. I need to think more like this.

[@OneBasedOnion]

thans man, was feeling insecure sometimes. And this kinda helped and brought me a smile :) thanks again ^_^

[@phatho16]

Honestly, I don't know if you'll see this so I'll probably delete this comment afterwards but seriously, thank you. I was just about to go to bed and thought "A 5 minute video couldn't hurt". And well after watching it, I was left refreshed. The video was exactly what I needed to hear before going to bed. I could go to sleep with peace of mind, knowing that nobody really cares. You reminded me of who I truly am and I could not be more grateful.

[@heiloloheimir]

Can I ask what mods and recourse packs you used in this video? The game is absolutely gorgeous!

[@flowstatevideo]

Better Adventures+

[@shimmate493]

Goddamn, you've revoke one quite embarrassing moment from summer vacation 5 years ago. At that time I was quite shy during some events and because of this - missed opportunity to ask one girl out and probably cure my bashfulness. Jeez, I hate this moment but at least now I'm not so shy as I used to be, but there is still plenty of work. Thank you for reminding this to me, sometimes its hard to remember this

[@BisexualPlagueDoctor]

Honestly the “nobody cares” thing is what keeps me going, like, nobody cares enough, other then people your close with, and they don’t care nearly as much as you think, and you should just be yourself, as long as it’s legal