Unrealistic Expectation When Dating In The Dominican Republic

So I felt the need to make this video because I get a lot of messages from men asking me about finding a woman in DR or relationships with Dominican women and even men who currently have relationships with Dominican women but not sure if she is being honest in their relationship. A lot of times I see guys going about dating women in Dominican Republic the wrong way. The last thing I want to do is offend people but I just want to be honest with you as to what I'm seeing and why some are not getting the results they are looking for. Enjoy!
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[@gnosticsabaton4975]

Norberies, I met a Dominican woman online and this October we'll be married for 5 years now. She's a good woman. She never asked me for money and each I went to see her in Puerto Plata, she always took care of me.

[@NorberisR]

This is great. I don't think it's impossible to find a good woman here. I honestly think it's easy. Congratulations.

[@luisannav]

I'm a dominican woman and dating older men has taught me that no matter how young you are they can be more immature than you. I'm in my 20s and from my experience I can tell that not every man is emotionally prepared for dating younger women, they're always affraid of you being young and pretty. I'm proud of being latina and I take pride on my curves and skin. I would love to have someday the peace of a healthy relationship based on respect, a ton of love and trust.

[@NorberisR]

👍I agree with you 100% sometimes it do not matter the age. Some people doesn't matter what age they are they are not mature mentally or emotional.

[@The_Judge300]

I think you are 100% correct that many men are not mature and secure enough to have a relationship with a younger woman. But that goes for women too. When I was 23-25, I lived together with a 18 years older woman and she struggled with the same as the men you talk about. She was so insecure about herself and worried about me wanting women younger than her. At the end her insecurity ruined our relationship. It stressed me out so much and poisoned the relationship so much that I got enough of it and left. Before I never cared about the age difference in my relationships. It never had an impact on who I dated or had a relationship with. The same goes with ethnicity I have lived together with women from 20 years younger to 18 years older than me. And with with women of european, latin and african decent and culture. But now at 54, I have found that very few woman at my age and down to about 12-15 years younger than me are of any interest to me. I find few of them attractive and most are to mature and old at heart. The very few I find attractive at that age, both in looks and mind, are usually taken for life. I think many single men at my age feel the same and many single men at my age only cares about the age and looks and wants to find a 23 year old supermodel. So, the competition for younger women that prefers older men is very big😄 Being the relaxed realist I am, I expect to stay single as I am not desperate enough to take whatever is on offer and instead focus on other aspects of life till maybe the lighting strikes and drop the dream woman on my lap😄 I hope you very soon will find what you seek and live a very happy life with a man that loves you and respect you a lot.

[@garybrown2204]

Thanks for sharing

[@garybrown2204]

Ok lol

[@jacenbequette4825]

Haha well thats me 😂i love dominican women 💘 so natural and they know what they want in life 👍

[@prophetofrage8124]

I'm about 14 years older than my Dominicana and I'm blessed that she doesn't want to come to the United States but she wants me to move to Dominican Republic. She does want to get married but I'm in no rush to get married. She understands that.

[@spooksishim]

Did you start of with a long distance relationship what were some of your challenges

[@bertram4411]

I think the video should of been titled "simps listen up." LOL

[@NorberisR]

LOL😄.

[@tymr.t3645]

Thanks. On point for breaking it down. Great video ☺ Much respect and admiration for putting this video together. Great analogy 👏

[@NorberisR]

Thank you very much. I really appreciate it.

[@BlackDragonNationalPresident]

Just found this channel as I was considering travel to the DR. I absolutely appreciate this very valid points. 🙂

[@NorberisR]

You're welcome. And welcome to the channel. I hope you enjoy the content.

[@wclarke9683]

You are on point and great suggestions. Hope the public follow your recommendations. Bless.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you👍.

[@billsmith510]

This was,, by far, the best presentation on the subject. JEVI, Todo bacano. Muchísimas gracias.

[@NorberisR]

De nada😅. I see that you are doing your work with the Dominican words.

[@ChasExplorz]

You have such great energy. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@TroyKing-King]

Great video. Thanks for keeping it real! Very helpful.

[@NorberisR]

You're welcome 🤗

[@cardarroblackmon5672]

I’m happy you’re back to these videos. This what made this channel popping

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. Yeas I will do more of this type of viedeos.

[@andymorris5102]

Wow I’m glad someone finally said this. Cause I thought I was crazy. AMAZING video you hit all the points. Thank you for uploading this video. #TheREAL!!!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you very much.

[@blackbeauty2321]

Blessings my sister excellent video . Keep up the good work. 👍 I've been watching your video for a wile now . I remember when you was in Miami starting off with teaching people how to cook Dominican dishes.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you, yes you have been watching a while.

[@clytchan]

I loved this video and the topic. Very informative; excellent advice! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@millie_dozdat4u2luv]

THANKKKKK YYOOOUUU !!! Talk your talk Norberis ... all valid points .

[@NorberisR]

Thank you❤.

[@GeorgeSeeAll]

Good talking points. "Don't expect to get, what your not willing to give." by someone else.

[@NorberisR]

Yes, exactly.

[@krhodessch]

I end up feeling n the Dominican Republic as a companion traveler with someone. I absolutely fell in love with the country. I have returned to the country several times just to get away from the chaos here because I find it so relaxing there for me. I never went there looking for women but ended up meeting a Dominican woman in the airport here in the US and we are now dating. Although I never went to the DR for women, I did notice and was attracted to DR women’s overall view of life and importance of family and home. I got to see it in a different way because I wasn’t looking for a relationship and I have never visited a resort or tourist area. I always resided in the community areas where Dominicans actually live. You are so right about learning the culture. The relationship that I have now is absolutely great because even though she lives here in the US, understanding her culture really has allowed our relationship to blossom. GREAT VIDEO!!!

[@NorberisR]

❤ absolutely love to hear that.

[@bertram4411]

A video lonnggg overdue. You are right on target with every point. I never understood the unrealistic expectations.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@Rohawk009]

Once again great video you are so right you must spend time there to be able to meet a good woman not only that but you must learn about the culture from the music, food, language everything because you will be lost if you don’t and like you said you MUST PUT IN THE WORK.

[@NorberisR]

👍.

[@anthonybruce706]

Thank you for very sound advice and beautiful comments Nob .....

[@NorberisR]

My pleasure!

[@DATINGSURVIVALGUIDE]

I was in the DR in May to take a look at a small community project I sponsored (I have a cousin who moved to the DR 28 years ago and is now director of a mission organization in the DR). Maybe because I'm not a jet setter, bar/club hopping kind of person, and not on the market for a relationship, I found that I bumped into so many nice ladies of various ages and socioeconomic groups (doctors to working class to poorer class). I got so many great interactions on video that I've only scratched the surface on editing. But anyhow, let me see if you agree with the following suggestions regarding your recommendation for a guy to move there: 1. try to start learning Spanish (I found even with my bad Spanish, - people appreciated me at least trying) 2. examine & critique what you bring to the local community (don't just look at what you can get out of the community); if you're concerned about and involved in the local community, you gain trust & respect and people may want you to meet their eligible friends or relatives. 3. If you're not a settled emotionally mature traditional person yourself, stop looking for a wife who is traditional as you're bound to mess up some lovely lady's life.

[@NorberisR]

Yes, all those points are valid.

[@dmac5808]

I lived there off and on for the past 12 years and your assessment is pretty accurate.

[@DATINGSURVIVALGUIDE]

@@dmac5808 I was back in the DR in December; while there I sponsored a daytrip to the capital for a group of University students from the La Vega province associated with the mission I support. They were all such well behaved young adults; I was truly impressed with them.

[@titeofcpt2867]

Good Video. Your so right about the Competition on both sides. Compatibility Matters

[@NorberisR]

👍, yes it is.

[@mindlesscay143]

Nothing but facts spoken! Great video, Norberis ❤️

[@NorberisR]

Thank you❤.

[@alistonwilson5544]

I have been watching your channel and following you for the almost two years. This is the best video you have posted. I have been visiting Dominican Republic for many years and it’s the country I love visiting more than any other country. Everything you said in this video is 100% correct. Keep posting your videos because they are very informative. I have learned so much about the Dominican couture from your videos and I thank you and your husband….Keep up the great work and hope someday to run into you and your husband.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you very much. And will continue doing the best we can. We enjoy doing what we do.

[@dexterballard4889]

I just love the way you break it down, the truth the whole truth, and nothing but the truth !!!

[@NorberisR]

So help me God🤣😂

[@beatrenegades]

Very insightful video, the best one I've seen you make.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you very much.

[@JESUSISLORD7777]

GREAT ADVICE NORBERIS 👍👍 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THOSE INFORMATION ……. I REALLY LEARN ALOT…… I APPRECIATE IT……. ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN SOMETHING NEW……… AND YOU’RE RIGHT TO WAIT WHEN THE PERSON MOVE PERMANENTLY TO DR AND HE OR SHE CAN KNOW THAT PERSON BETTER ; AN BETTER RELATIONSHIP IS TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH THAT PERSON IN ORDER TO SEE IF THAT PERSON IS GOOD MATCH FOR HE OR SHE……. ENJOY THE REST YOUR DAY 🌹

[@NorberisR]

That is not that difficult to understand. Thank you, enjoy the rest of your day too.

[@bladerunner27x]

Great video, really digging the editing cuts 😂👏🏾👏🏾.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@lesliewalker4178]

Love this, excellent advice thank you 😊

[@NorberisR]

You are so welcome!

[@mathematical_theology]

😂 at all the gifs in the video. Especially “she belongs to the streets” hilarious. 😆 great informative video. I personally wouldn’t take any woman serious if I’m not around her everyday. At least in the long term. I also agree that once you get there you have to become accustomed to the change in environment. That’s why I want to re learn the language. I used to be conversational while in college years ago but I lost it because I didn’t practice after college. Also being to the island every year since 2013 I’ve noticed that the best way to find a good mate is by introduction from friends or association. Because they have an intimate knowledge of both you and the person and can have an idea if it has a chance to work. Another thing I noticed is that Dominicans in general don’t take foreigners seriously if they don’t attempt to learn and respect the language and culture. So initially there’s a stigma attached to “dating” gringos. 😅 which is completely understandable. At the end of the day water seeks and finds its own level. So if you are used to dealing with good women you will attract good women. The reverse is also true. I’ve always been in “vacation” mode and never seriously considered dating there. Don’t get me wrong I always show a woman a good time because I like beautiful things and experiences, but now that I’m going to be relocating there in the near future I will consider getting serious. Because Dominican women are 🔥 🤷🏽‍♂️ Again great video Norberis! Peace!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. And I also appreciate your comments. You made some good and valid points and you understand that if you want to be serious you need to make some adjustments.

[@KAnetworking]

@@NorberisR 💍😍❤️😘

[@benjaminbarnaby7116]

I like this video you are very right some great points

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@tamarabaez479]

I personally think that everything you said was very true 👍 I really like how you explained everything like the exception of the women in D.R. not every women are attracted to rough looking men or unkepted men great video.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@myronblack8197]

100% facts… thanks for making this video 👍🏾

[@NorberisR]

You're welcome.

[@JermiahCrawford21]

Loving this video, great advice as always.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@JermiahCrawford21]

@@NorberisR You're welcome

[@whodatdere]

Preach Norberis! Good video!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@gj0628]

Great advice thanks

[@NorberisR]

Glad it was helpful!

[@silkysmoov44]

Hola Norberis. I like your perspective. In fact it’s spoken like the true champion you are. Me personally being an avid traveler to the DR I’ve had some good & bad experiences dealing with Dominican woman but I can honestly say the good outweigh the bad & hasn’t stopped me from visiting or planning to relocate their

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. We can't let the bad experiences to stop us from finding or wanting what we looking for.

[@silkysmoov44]

@@NorberisR that is so true

[@stevenfisher2804]

Great advice, Norberis!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@__k3nergy]

This video was a good eye opener. I plan on staying in the us, but I will have a HOUSE in DR. I’m gonna start visiting late this year

[@NorberisR]

👍🏼

[@gilbertoconnor8573]

That was a beautiful video,,I do hope some folks will learn from your presentation and correct their bad habits.chow

[@NorberisR]

I hope so too. Thank you.

[@gilbertoconnor8573]

Instead year between Feb to April I was in Puta Cana , Bavaro and surrounding area the purpose of my visit was explotory and to make connections with new friends, it was a great experience. Sometime at the end of this year I am planning to relocate permanently in DR, I will reach out to u for further advice..your presentation are to the point..I have view other channels some of the host are not too honest..adios..

[@darryl3643]

I visit the DR a lot and I've had good and bad experiences. There's def a lot of chapiadoras but they are pretty easy to weed out. You just gotta go with you gut. If it doesn't feel right then 9 times out of 10 its not. A lot of men want "traditional" relationships but don't want to do traditional things too. I mean if you expect a woman to cook, clean and "serve' you then paying bills and stuff like that is going to come with the territory. I've had some super chapis and liars that left a bad taste in my mouth and I've met some really good woman and we just didn't work. But one thing men should realize is if women in the states don't want you then why would a dominican woman want you? If you can't get an 8 or 9 in the states then don't expect that in the DR lol

[@NorberisR]

Exactly.

[@moneylineparlay105]

This is definitely not true.

[@themanthemyth7950]

About the 9s and 10s here or in any other country IF you are not up to par financially. When you have bread you can get those kinds of women, not saying cats without paper can't get that with their mouth piece, but how can they do this her when most don't even know how to carry out a basic convo in Spanish without using a translator smh.

[@Gigaover]

My experiences beg to differ. I definitely have it a lot easier in the DR than the states. Women in the States have much more unrealistic standards and inflated egos. Women in the states often demand very superficial things that dominican women don't care about such as having a large instagram presence. There are a lot of guys that can't get anything in the states but they can get something in the DR. She might not be a 9 or 10 but it's something.

[@enrique55455]

This is one of the best videos and it came from a Latina, 👏🏽👏🏽my experience, in 2019 Dec I was at a bar in Puerto Plata Malecón, speaking with a black American, he said to me “you have a beautiful family, my Dominican wife, her sister and sister’s boyfriend, I told him we live in UK, I’m not Dominican but Cuban, He asked how did we meet I told him, we were introduced at a family party on one of my trips to Santiago De Los Caballeros 8 years ago by her cousin, my friend who lives in UK near me. The conversation was long and led me to think about the differences in culture, attitudes, approach, expectations, the image being portray by you tubers is detrimental to the DR and it’s visitors, I told him my wife is a University graduate like myself, but she’s a Bioanalista graduated in the DR and also the UK, He actually believes that most Dominicanas are like the women he associates with in Sosua. I’m not saying all black Americans are like this so be calm with you replies.

[@victorallen3049]

Great video and great advice

[@NorberisR]

Thank you

[@clevelandgarrison2108]

Thanks for insights!

[@NorberisR]

Glad it was helpful!

[@magictouch4427]

Great advice

[@omarburton1715]

I think what Noberis said is true, and I believe her commentary muy bien 😊 gracias

[@NorberisR]

De nada🇩🇴🙏🏾

[@GroovJunki]

People worry to much and just need to enjoy life and learn to love being alone for a minute. It’s to much in the world to see. If it’s mean’t for them to have someone..it will happen. Stop trying to impress and change image, if someone love you they will love you as you are and what you have and can share together

[@NorberisR]

100% agree.

[@Carlosperez-ms6wl]

17:16 doing the same thing expecting different results . As always great video great information.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@dtcunningham1257]

Norberis I hope al lis well. Thoughts come to my mind when I think about the message in this video. When you have a chance ask your husband what it means when a person says “a closed mouth doesn’t get fed.” Basically a person can’t know what another person really wants unless they are told. I cannot count how many Dominican women I have met that said to me “yo no pido por nada!” or “todos los hombres saben lo que las mujeres necesitan.” If closed mouths don’t get fed how can an “extranjero” from another culture know what a Dominican woman wants and needs unless she tells him? Since “todas las mujeres no son iguales” women are different with varing wants and needs that are not always clear on the surface. My point is similar to the one I made earlier, sometimes the extranjeros problem in the Dominican Republic is ingnorance. Sometimes we just don’t know and we either need someone to teach us or we have to learn the hard way through experience. Keep up the good work!

[@NorberisR]

Yes, thank you. And yes we have a similar saying to the close mouth don't get fed. I understand the meaning. Great point though.

[@beltwaymotor]

Everything makes sense. Thanks ☺️

[@NorberisR]

You are welcome. Thank you.

[@kevindela3371]

Hola Norberis. Gracias por esta. I think alot of comments are made in humor, not necessarily wanting to date woman in the videos. Not all but some. As someone who has and is dating Dominican woman I absolutely agree it would be essential to spend much time with that person before you can even consider becoming serious. Problem is most of us don't have alot of time to spend in country if you are still working. I myself do not want to wait until I retire so I try to make friends here and there. You never know where it can lead in the future. But you are right to not consider a long distance friendship as more than what it is

[@NorberisR]

Yes, I agree.

[@pamhase7005]

You are a very smart lady and you explained all of that very well!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. I appreciate it.

[@davidtv-official5417]

Hi Pam

[@armahvincent7176]

Hi Norberis, great awareness information! I just began to follow you. I'm actually planning a trip to the DR in a couple of weeks, specifically Santiago Domingo and will be staying at the renaissance. This will be my first trip visiting; just a mini vacation for 4 days. I'm just going to check it out for the first time and maybe have some fun. I heard a lot of good things about the people and the culture of the DR to which I can relate, because based on what I'm hearing from some friends the culture is (ALMOST) similar to the African culture. If not, then I stand to be corrected. However, I have lived partially in Africa before where my mother was born. The culture and tradition there is awesome. Anyways I'm traveling alone, single and hoping to find a long lasting friend and perhaps we can take it to another level. Please give me some ideas like places to go and people I can meet and trust etc. lol!

[@NorberisR]

I recommend check out my Dominican Culture playlist or go back and look at my recent videos. I show you places I recommend and things to do.

[@chrissystewart6268]

Tell me more Teacher Nerberis & how you been doing I'm refocusing on getting my GED ( High School Diploma) I want to come to 🇩🇴🇩🇴 so bad I keep having these dreams 😴 😪 coming to 🇩🇴 can't wait to come teach me more about having relationships with 🇩🇴 & I want 🇩🇴 friends so I can stay in contact & when I make friends from The D.R. I never want to lose no contact with them neither losing my friendship with them . I love how you explain about relationships with Dominicans in your videos always count me in I always want to know the dos & don'ts especially dating & having relationships

[@RaySmith79]

Great video because this video can apply to every country dudes try dating woman in.

[@NorberisR]

I agree.

[@muchit3629]

@Norberis - great solid advice. The one thing you did not touch on is the need to learn Spanish. What is your thoughts. For a successful relationship both partners have to speak a language with a degree of proficiency. I think both the woman and the man have to dedicate to learn each other's language to prepare for when they meet each other's friends and family. No family or friends will want to use google translate five years after you met them, that shows laziness. Also about women wanting money, if you meet a woman who has no job the man should expect she will need assistance. We all know minimum wage in most developing nations is around $300 from Asia. Africa to Latin America so off course it makes sense that your partner will need some level of assistance.

[@NorberisR]

I believe both needs to learn each other's language to make it work. Both need to learn about each other culture if it is real relationship.

[@larryhardy5253]

So my experience is to meet anyone that meets my spirit. I didn’t go to the Dominican to find love but I just happened to meet a beautiful lady 19 years younger. 54-35. I liked her a lot but I just built on the relationship after several visits and traveling. I actually don’t look 54 more like 38 so we kind of fit. To be honest she is beautiful but I was looking for a beautiful heart. She Carrie’s herself like a woman of like 46-48 so to me it was a good fit which is maturity. I have worked extremely hard on my relationship with her and I am about to get married. Trust is big on me and I feel very good about that I truly do. I send money of course but we spend a lot of time together. I come and go like every two months for 14-20 days I am a relationship guy so I know the work is put in with my fiancée. It’s a little more with me I am financially able to be in her life every day pretty much. I am like a family member because I go so much friends think I live there. I do believe in any relationship you have to put in the work. For me it has been good extremely good. We are planning to get married and she wants to come here but I will keep the apartment down there.

[@NorberisR]

This is awesome. Thank you for sharing your story. More people need to speak on the positive experiences they have here.

[@boganmoto3803]

Great video Norberis. I'm married many years to a Dominican girl. She is my world. People are people everywhere in my experience. Good and bad people are in every country and every culture. Good point about aligning expectations when traveling overseas - you'd think these things would be obvious. If you want a great woman, you've got to work on you and be the best version of yourself that you can. You'll then attract like minded women. Anyway, my two cents.

[@NorberisR]

Yes, I agree. Good point.

[@glenn87654]

I have visited the DR about 20 times, never was looking for a model (8/9/10) an average girl (4/5) is fine. I always treated my girlfriend with kindness, faithfulness and respect. After a few months there other boyfriends became obvious to me. So Dominican women think infidelity is okay for them. Even though I put in time, effort and trust.

[@user-zl8zs6jj7i]

Norberis is so beautiful and I love her accent.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@themiseducationoftheameric7407]

Intelligent and to the point, with no fluff.

[@NorberisR]

👍.

[@franklinbrown5860]

Very good advice

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@kmack4191]

Thank you that was very good information

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@kmack4191]

I'm thinking about coming there in a couple of months what do you To show a person around I have been there before but I see the same old stuff

[@NorberisR]

Sorry, I don't do tours😢.

[@proteusxl9814]

Love this video✌❤. Best relationship I've been in was with a dominican woman 🇩🇴🇩🇴. Truly mind blowing. I was Truly in love a very epic, beautiful relationship with a dominican woman.

[@odianabauvoir356]

Was? What happen, if you don't me asking.

[@NorberisR]

Good to hear. ❤.

[@proteusxl9814]

@@odianabauvoir356 she came to America to start over. Her husband in DR was cheating on her. She moved to America with her two kids. Her family got involved when they found out we were dating. I'm a black man and her family wanted her to try again with her ex husband. As Ian that grew up with no father. I understand where she is coming from. I have no problems with her trying to make her family work. Her two boys and their father I wish her and them luck. Now on present she has been coming to my apartment to bring food. On that note I take it her giving me food and some attention. Her ex must be up to his old tricks?

[@PHDaGoat]

I’m learning Spanish now and I’m coming next months I know it’s gonna take a couple of visits to find the right one. I’m 47 and I’m realistic 😂😂

[@NorberisR]

Awesome, I know you're excited. Is this your first visit.

[@PHDaGoat]

@@NorberisR yes it is and I’m not unrealistic 😂😂. I need a change of pace from the US my friends been telling me about it so I decided to finally take a trip

[@NorberisR]

Well I'm sure you will enjoy yourself. It's a beautiful country with a lot to see.

[@techconic5613]

Everything you said make total sense especially dating, its best to date a local then when you move in that country so both parties can see each other everyday and learn the local culture.

[@NorberisR]

Very true.

[@jaws2003]

I like these points. Especially about the online and age gap points. I stopped dealing with women online and my interactions became 1000 times better. Knowing Spanish has gotten me further. As for the age gap I don't go under 25. I'm currently 37. Typically though I deal with women 27 to 41 in the DR.

[@NorberisR]

If you want better result you have to make changes and adjustments.

[@jaws2003]

@@ryanortiz2648 Damn. Just saw this comment. I'm not opposed to 30 either. I believe the older they get the better when it comes to maturity.

[@JAB58]

Very good content 💯 truth

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@DariusW.]

I agree with you I've visited 3 times now 4th time This December your very smart and need an women who respects me and wants me for me and wants to be married I'd move there if I find the correct women!

[@NorberisR]

Maybe you'll find her in December when you come☺️❤️🙏🏾

[@chocolatebrownbrotha6167]

Great information, I just retired and moved to Santiago Los caballeros 😎

[@NorberisR]

🙌🇩🇴❤.

[@JoeBIgLotto]

Good point well said :)

[@NorberisR]

Thank you☺️

[@samgracia4571]

I guess I’m one of the lucky ones. I found somebody over there that I had a lot in common with. I met her through her sister who lives in my neighborhood. I was widowed a year before. So when I met her she help me through some hard times. I told her that we can be friends I wasn’t looking right now I just wanted to get to know people I let it take its course. But I fell in love with her and her family. We talked for a year and then things became serious. We were like you said 20 years apart which I was concerned with. I felt like I was rubbing her youth but she assured me that she was OK with it. I guess it bothered me more than her. We’re trying to make a good life I’ll be traveling till I can get her papers and will probably Live in both countries. So talk more about the positiveAnd how we can make a good life even the word for a part. Thank you for your video.

[@NorberisR]

Congratulations, It sounds like you found some one special I wish you the best.

[@samgracia4571]

Thank you that’s really sweet

[@jayrose79]

Can you tell us how to blend in? When I went to the DR every one knew I was a American instantly 😂

[@NorberisR]

Look at the people. When in Rome do as the Romans do.

[@josephjones7336]

Great video.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.

[@caribbeanbeauty3772]

I agree sis . I myself is Haitian and I know our culture is kind of the same . Although , I’ve been in the us since i was 9 it’s not what it seems so every American think my girls in dr n Haiti just want a green card to come here and that’s not truth . Me personally in the process of purchasing a home in dr to move 😂😂Very informative video 💕 …

[@NorberisR]

❤🇩🇴. I wish you all the best in your process of buying your home and moving over here. DR is a beautiful place. Thank you. And yes a lot of people have the wrong idea of our countries just because we are consider poor.

[@kara.g.]

These are some great points! Even just being in the Facebook group for expats in the DR, I’ve seen so much negativity from foreigners who have bad experiences dating Dominicans. But these are great points. If people are looking for something serious, they should be serious about how they’re looking. PS May I ask where you get your memes? 🙃

[@NorberisR]

Thank you, it is a lot of negativity out there. And you almost never hear the good experiences, but there are out there too🤗. We get the memes from google.

[@Vic-dl7wq]

What FB group? How can I join?

[@kara.g.]

@@Vic-dl7wq There's one called "Expats living in the Dominican Republic."

[@tyreeder9248]

I am an expat and i have had all kinds of bad taste put in my mouth. So please explain how you get serious about looking. I am am serious about life in general but always attract what i feel is not on my level in any means. I have needs but really have been single for many years and it sucks 😔

[@NorberisR]

What city in Dominican Republic do you live in?

[@Dee-pj7hh]

Norberis. Relationships are not built overnight. They sometimes take years to have a strong solid relationship especially when it comes to long distance relationships. The foundation have to be built. Both people have to build trust , reliability, dependability , security etc, etc, etc. it’s not a quick thing. You made a great point though with should be obvious to every man or woman. There are certain characteristics that every women or men have on planet earth that will never change. But depending on their culture, it makes them more or less desirable to others. Your very right though a lot of Unrealistic expectations. A lot of children in grownup bodies. Real love and good relationship do not come easy. Great topic. Hope someone learn something.

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. I hope that too.

[@jaya6454]

Cool video 👍🏿 but if I go there I’m just trying to go to a beach so I can relax I need to get away for real

[@NorberisR]

Thank you.👍 good just to relax.❤

[@maninflite]

Good stuff

[@NorberisR]

🙏🏾

[@garybrown2204]

Thank you!!

[@NorberisR]

You're welcome

[@2legit2quitfitness]

Facts sis, thank you for sharing!!! I am 57yrs old and have traveled the world, I have been traveling the World since I was 21yrs old and 60 countries and 6 continents later, the one thing I have learned from my traveling the world is that a women is a women and all women want and like nice things because this is all women's DNA!!! When American men talk about American women being materialistic, they haven't traveled outside the boarders of the United States because every culture of women all have their needs. All countries are based on their economics, developed economies, transition economies and developing economies and men need to understand that women regardless of what countries, cultures and economies they come from they have needs that they are going to meet because this is a woman's DNA. Men can't change a women's DNA, embrace all women and men will be 100% alright, I have a lot of Black male friends of mine that are married to women from all continents and these women are the same in their DNA and all my friends have learned to grow their love with women from other cultures instead of trying to change their women. Great video sis, I love the DR beautiful country, beautiful culture, beautiful people, and of course, the food is bomb!!! Blessings sis🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@NorberisR]

Thanks for this perspective and sharing. This is very helpful.

[@Habeshamorena8]

The most educated intelligent response to date

[@millie_dozdat4u2luv]

Jajaja the edits are tooooo funny !

[@NorberisR]

Lol, yes my husband added those. I didn't see it until he was done editing 😂🤣

[@GHOSTBAGZ]

This year will be my first year going. I'm 35, no kids, never been married. I hope I can find something special for me & with due respect this video should have been common sense for the most part & I haven't even been there yet.

[@NorberisR]

Common sense is no longer common anymore 🤣😂. You will enjoy yourself if you come for the right reasons.

[@Carlosperez-ms6wl]

the word u were looking for could possibly be nationalist , great topic well explained . ty

[@zodiac247eb]

Women are women wherever you go..Keep it simple. There's always a chance that the player can get played on both sides male or female. Respect and treat each situation differently and don't live in a dream. Fellas we gotta put in the work and be smart doing it. Your queen is out there somewhere just set some rules for yourself and stick to them. Every woman is somebody's daughter, sister or mother so stay focused. Great topic Norberis!!!

[@NorberisR]

❤ I love the way you made it so simple. That is what I'm talking about😊. Thank you.

[@frankgrabbe6394]

I don't like dividing women into classes by number based on their looks. After all, it's about people and therefore about more. For me it's not necessarily more difficult to get together with a woman here in Europe or in the States if you try. The difference to the DR is that in many situations you don't have to do anything, the girls come to you by themselves

[@glenn87654]

Exactly, I was in the military for 25 years and learned to accept a person for who they are INSIDE and their CHARACTER!! The ladies I met in the DR only think about your finances and their body. Many like to use intimacy as a tool or lever.

[@johnblick7981]

Well say this I met my exwife at night school. There's a 5 year difference between us. It was love for me and 1st sight. She said i'm not her type LoL less than 3 months we were married nobody thought we would last. Our run lasted about 20 years and we have 4 adult children. Even though we are now divorced we have a good relationship 🤷‍♂

[@NorberisR]

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾🤗

[@clevelandgarrison2108]

She is speaking the truth about everything! Listen to her! She is trying to help you understand her culture better. Dońt send money. Save the money and plan the trip there.

[@NorberisR]

👍.

[@BlackManTravels]

Most brothas who travel to DR dont look like success or have their shit together. Women overseas find men who look like success and about something versus someone wearing basketball jersey shorts, white socks and sandals. If you want uneducated barrio chica, thats easy. If you want an educated middle to upper class women while overseas, LOOK THE PART!!!!!

[@NorberisR]

I can't add nothing to that😁

[@johnrynkiewicz1607]

8:50 Correct me if I'm wrong, but the appearance is mainly important the moment you decide to meet someone, right? However, when you get to know the guy, I can't imagine, the looks alone will make you want to be with him. Maybe, it's different in your country than in any country I know, but, from my personal experience, women want to feel financially safe, and if the good-looking guy can't provide a safe environment (financially), his looks won't help much. Well, try to pay your bills with your partner's looks ;-). Just saying. Obviously, the perfect case scenario is when he has it all, the looks, the character and the cash, but as we all know, that happens once in a blue moon, and is rather unrealistic to expect.

[@hipmoma]

great video! Talk about foreign women coming for Dominican men? ;)

[@NorberisR]

Great suggestion! I don't know much about that subject but I'll see if I can get some info

[@ManPursueExcellence]

16:50 “Western Union Papi.” I’ve never heard that before 😂😂😂.

[@NorberisR]

That is somethings very popular here.

[@mercedescheco9620]

If you need to go the slums of a 3er world country to look for love your probably a looser anyway.

[@JasonBourne-ei7vs]

Norberis, you are so right on so many topics. I am trying to take your advice and appreciate your insight. I did actually get chance meet your cousin Cris, and whether it went anywhere from this is besides the point because I still feel like we had a nice time. Maybe I am being lazy and maybe it’s is the fact that I do want a lady in her twenties who eventually wants to have a child. I say I could be lazy because I don’t take good pictures right now because I’m an Electrician and I work so much. With that being said. I propose that you and I keep in touch as I do plan to invest in real estate there in the future and would need your help finding property managers. And you speak English so well that you would help me a lot just communicating and assimilating to the culture in DR. I’d like to be able to call you when I do make plans to visit and hopefully I’ll get to know someone through you. It doesn’t have to be a binding contract that she moves to the states right away. We can just vibe and see where it goes. I disabled my Instagram again just because social gets exhausting. But i can send you pics of me to your email or whats app if that’s ok with you. But again, I’m a better vibe in real life. Maybe not the best photogenically

[@hughsmith5984]

Norberies I am very serious now about moving to the DR and finding a wife I am a businessman here in the US I APPRECIATE your content and information it inspired me to give it a try.can you give a good place to relocate.

[@NorberisR]

It depends on what you are looking for and your lifestyle.

[@hughsmith5984]

@@NorberisR I can afford upper middle class lifestyle I am a Christian so I’m looking for a real everything great beaches and place to meet good people a home with 24hr power lol

[@hughsmith5984]

@@NorberisR i appreciate your response I’m looking to build a life business and marriage moreover to be a help to my communities whether US or DR that’s my purpose

[@NorberisR]

If you are looking for beaches cities like La Romana, Punta Cana, Samana, Puerto Plata are places to look into.

[@ckirk89]

Lol, "Da fuck wrong with you". That was hilarious. Keep sending the money fellas. Don't be ashamed. You doing it for love. 😈

[@NorberisR]

Yes keep sending the money 😅 if you are happy doing it, believe me they are even more.

[@themanthemyth7950]

Great Video Norberis. I think if a man is in the RD or any other "poorer" country, he gotta be out his sh*t in the DR as much as he about his sh*t in the USA. That's number one! So he can't be no slouch or think like that. Women in general are a great distraction and most men failures in life are directly due to how they deal with women (in general). He gotta have goals and dreams and working towards them agressively while still making enough time for another person - if they are worth it. If I have a woman who is real, I don't mind handling stuff for the home, paying for food, the bills etc, making sure she is content. As long as she takes care of home and is a real women and has the most upmost respect for her man. But what I see with most, not just the RD, the women are extremely greedy and just seem to be looking for a come-up this day and age. All ages. I think in the DR, it's greatly magnified since there are so many "Quality looking" women we interact with and are more open to "getting to know us". So don't take it personal. I think they just lack appreciation. A person can be poor as dirt, but it's little things one can do to domonstrate that appreciation. Us guys are simple creatures. I think many Dominicanas miss out on really great men due to pure greed and their level of expectations. A huge percentage of them don't ever feel they have to come out their pockets for ANYTHING at all lol, they just wanna take take take... And take some more. It just seems like a good 80% of people there, especially women don't really think long term. On another note, I do feel that it's extremely important to speak the language. As you said, you don't have to be super fluent, but good enough to have a conversation about various topics without looking at a translator most of the time - If you're looking at a translator for more than 30% of the convo, you're done. The man gotta know a little bit about the culture too, such as music, they gotta be able to sing a little something, even if it's the chorus, names of singers, etc. I don't believe any girl will be truly interested in a man who knows nothing about her culture and can't have a basic conversation in her language. Most American guys have the attitude like, "I don't have to learn sh*t, she gotta learn everything about me and learn English",which is very untrue.

[@NorberisR]

This interesting. You made some good points. Thanks for sharing.

[@angeloentrepreneur2440]

I think that it would be a great idea if you would host a dating show on your channel with single good women from Dominican Republic. It would create more flexibility for your channel and single men will become more engage because of your credibility and recommendations.

[@NorberisR]

We thought about something like this before and then we decided not to do it because of many variables. But maybe we will revisit it again. It is a good idea though.

[@angeloentrepreneur2440]

Trust me you if you can figure out a way where it can efficient you will have alot more viewers and subscribers. There are many men now that prefer to date or meet women in different countries now instead of the United States🇺🇸 . The dating culture is different now in my country many women prefer dating a man that makes six figures or more. In Dominican Republic there are many single good women that still values a man's love and respect. My point is that if you can find away to make it work even if you did a segment like this once or twice a month it will work because it is something different. 💯💯💯

[@Vic-dl7wq]

I love this topic! I agree with a lot of what you said. I think online dating only works for a small number of people in very specific situations. But overall it isn't good. I'm really trying to move to the DR. One of my fears is moving there when I'm already old. I hope that doesn't happen to me and I can move there while I'm still under 40.

[@NorberisR]

Yes I think relationship between different culture are a little difficult and needs work to make it work.

[@timothycook9471]

I find a lot of Dominicanas have a boy friend for money and a boy friend for love

[@rhondafriscia5528]

Preach, Norberis! I never would have guessed that profile pictureless dudes would get angry when they are fishing with no bait except cash. They’re pretty delusional to expect some young thing to fall for them when they have nothing else to offer BUT cash.

[@NorberisR]

👌Exactly.

[@RA-qb4gl]

Is that an airbnb you are in? I like it.

[@NorberisR]

No this not an Airbnb.

[@randythomas2888]

Great video & info. Although the perspective was things to aid the male visitor/person...it might also be a good idea/popular to do a similar video but instead from a Non-native female who seeks to develop a relationship with a D.R. male...??(perhaps the volume exists...then again maybe not)... Enjoy your content!

[@NorberisR]

Thank you. Yes I think is a good idea.