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Norwich City Football Club

Norwich City Football Club

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@Fev333r
@Fev333r 10 ай бұрын
"Well, that was worth it." Staying around a little longer just to see the game.
@jasonwyrick3413
@jasonwyrick3413 7 ай бұрын
That hit home for me as well. I talked myself out of it to go to a football match last fall and my supporter family took me into their arms as I fought for my life and I won!
@It14f-37
@It14f-37 5 ай бұрын
​@@jasonwyrick3413 I finally found out it DOES get better. If someone is going through the same, keep good habits, even though you don't feel like, I swear the clouds will go away and it will be sunny again!
@zacharynguyen7286
@zacharynguyen7286 5 ай бұрын
Hope everyone doing good and staying safe. If you need to talk to someone or need help, there are people who care. Sending support and hearts. ❤️❤️❤️
@PauloHenrique-bx7ft
@PauloHenrique-bx7ft Ай бұрын
@@It14f-37 lier.
@DrMargaretRutherford
@DrMargaretRutherford 9 ай бұрын
I've talked to many who identify with what I term '"perfectly hidden depression" and this football club has depicted it so tragically and so well. Or I've talked with their widows, grieving parents, or shocked and confused friends. And I teach this to mental health clinicians: the question shouldn't only be, "Do you feel suicidal?" but, "If you were hopeless, if you were thinking about killing yourself, would you tell anyone?" The answer would be "no." And that answer offers a tiny but important clue. Thanks so much to Norwich.
@reedchampagne7632
@reedchampagne7632 9 ай бұрын
I teach nursing students and our curriculum requires us to push the prioritization of asking patients if they are having suicidal tendencies or thoughts. I really really like how you worded that there and I will be passing that along to my clinical students. I participate in Movember every year and exactly what you said is something that explains the rate of suicide amongst males. Thank you for that and what you do.
@DrMargaretRutherford
@DrMargaretRutherford 9 ай бұрын
@@reedchampagne7632 I'm delighted to be helpful.
@Cybersue22
@Cybersue22 3 ай бұрын
I call it being a "Functioning Depressive". This really is an accurate picture of someone with depression, l hid mine for many many years and no one suspected anything.
@DKK1N9
@DKK1N9 Жыл бұрын
The subtle hints of him projecting questions, asking him how he has been, so that maybe he can be asked how he is doing. But also giving his belongings to him before he left, really makes it more emotional and true. Great message to everyone about mental health.
@bootstrapbill98
@bootstrapbill98 Жыл бұрын
yeah I only noticed that the second time watching it and it's genuinely startling how obvious those things seem in hindsight, whilst being so easy to miss at the same time. a beautiful representation of how differently depression can present, and how that whole "it's never the ones you'd expect" thing has some truth to it
@desireelato5231
@desireelato5231 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I learned this in nursing school, and didn’t even pick up on those subtle points in the video. You’re absolutely right! The unexpected resonated with many people including myself.
@Grave_Walker.
@Grave_Walker. Жыл бұрын
Also the fact he reacts worse to bad things and over the top to good things is another one
@outtaframe7241
@outtaframe7241 Жыл бұрын
I do it… but I never get asked back. Or if I do I lie or say “bad” and they laugh it off like I’m joking
@preetdeepsingh111
@preetdeepsingh111 Жыл бұрын
Hey @@outtaframe7241 how are you doing, mate?
@jmanzew4146
@jmanzew4146 Жыл бұрын
The first time you watch it, the ending blindsides you. If you watch it a second time, you see all the hints; him constantly asking how life has been for his buddy to ask the same, him stating "well, I hope things are better outside of the football," and him finally leaving behind his prized possessions with his friend. Powerful storytelling.
@deeptimitty8895
@deeptimitty8895 11 ай бұрын
Friend should have asked the same in return
@easyybreezeyy
@easyybreezeyy 11 ай бұрын
Yes!
@sanjefff
@sanjefff 10 ай бұрын
⁠​Adding on to this I feel the video conveys that his friend was unaware of his other friend’s personal life and never really made an effort to check, not because he didn’t care but more so because he never understood the context behind his other friend’s gestures or actions. All that other friend wanted was to be happy :/
@rouskeycarpel1436
@rouskeycarpel1436 10 ай бұрын
@@sanjefffI think the quiet guy was struggling too(he just showed it).It’s hard to be super inquisitive and caring into other people’s lives when you yourself are visibly being bogged down by the demons you’re facing
@rouskeycarpel1436
@rouskeycarpel1436 10 ай бұрын
Also at the end of the last game they watch when the guy on the right says “wow that was worth it” he probably already made up his mind to commit suicide but decided to wait to see if Norwich would win more game before he did the deed.Norwich winning gave him the peace of mind to go through with what he did(also giving his friend the scarf)
@MikeCornwall
@MikeCornwall Жыл бұрын
How is it that despite billions of pounds of taxpayer money, our government can’t produce something as authentic and meaningful as this. Incredible message, Norwich. Thank you and well done.
@DJMorley18
@DJMorley18 Жыл бұрын
They can’t even afford to put adequate mental health support in place, probably why they don’t put messages out…
@stokiem
@stokiem Жыл бұрын
Because they do not care about you and actively make money off of your depression, disgusting but ultimately true
@brandonbergh2585
@brandonbergh2585 Жыл бұрын
Takes heart, not money. Lots of people in the government forget where their heart is.
@robbie3367
@robbie3367 Жыл бұрын
Simple politicians are out of touch with normal folk
@themightypotato3857
@themightypotato3857 Жыл бұрын
bc your money goes to countries who don't appreciate it and have their worst citizens flood ours.
@samdiggly4292
@samdiggly4292 Жыл бұрын
My brother committed suicide 3 months ago I found him and I never saw it coming. We are American football fans and for the first time in 25 years I went to the home opener without him. All the fans around us noticed that he was not there as my grandpa has had those seats for almost 60 years. We laid down my brothers Steelers jersey and everybody knew. They all gave their apologies.
@LegendaryHeroponRiki
@LegendaryHeroponRiki Жыл бұрын
My condolences
@samdiggly4292
@samdiggly4292 Жыл бұрын
@@LegendaryHeroponRiki appreciate it I dig the Batman pic
@YaBoyDrew623
@YaBoyDrew623 9 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing okay bro. Always keep that tradition alive ❤❤❤
@denib4677
@denib4677 9 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you feel
@HunterConsolmagno
@HunterConsolmagno 8 ай бұрын
im sorry for your loss. i hope your whole family heals
@JohnJohn-gb4ij
@JohnJohn-gb4ij Жыл бұрын
I am not easily moved and usually people think i lack emotion , but this video when it ended made me cry like a baby. I guess it hit a sweet spot.
@nb3721
@nb3721 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Fleeto2006
@Fleeto2006 Жыл бұрын
My god
@Celticmusicman
@Celticmusicman Жыл бұрын
Same.
@testemail-qg7qw
@testemail-qg7qw Жыл бұрын
same ...
@TheAmiciteCreative
@TheAmiciteCreative Жыл бұрын
Same here. Never easily moved to crying but they did their job in making this video, powerful and poignant. They got you attached to the 2 people on screen really well. Then when it's ending 😭.
@johnmanfc2883
@johnmanfc2883 Жыл бұрын
Not even a Norwich fan but this made me gain so much respect for the club
@Coldplay-FanPage
@Coldplay-FanPage Жыл бұрын
i know, i am mufc fan.
@thztan7492
@thztan7492 Жыл бұрын
Agree
@OakTheDestroyer
@OakTheDestroyer Жыл бұрын
You really had to say you weren’t a fan? WTH dude
@ranikeuleers2256
@ranikeuleers2256 Жыл бұрын
I never heard of this FC and I respect them now
@Theuglyconcretefinisher
@Theuglyconcretefinisher Жыл бұрын
Is this even real? Genuinely asking. I like the message but doubting the authentication
@JansenVienna
@JansenVienna Жыл бұрын
I am one of the funny, always positive guys. I was diagnosed with depression and am struggling with it. Not even my wife noticed until I opened up. There are people who care and will help you. Take the first step, you have nothing to lose. As a friend, ask how someone is doing. Your gut feeling is often there for a reason. Small actions can have huge impacts.
@fleamcbaggins3087
@fleamcbaggins3087 Жыл бұрын
Ive taken that step several times n ive had enough. There r a lot of ppl out there, family included, that r just faking the funk. They dont really want to know what ur going through. They just want to pretend that everything is okay so they dont have to address anything that doesnt involve them. I love ur outlook n can appreciate that things worked out fer u... Not everyone has the same support system
@nicolasmontiel9604
@nicolasmontiel9604 Жыл бұрын
good luck bro we love you
@garethludowich3768
@garethludowich3768 Жыл бұрын
​@@fleamcbaggins3087 it's when you reach out via text etc and make the effort and they don't respond and when it's too late you always hear them say why didn't they tell us what they were going through
@oldb12
@oldb12 Жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel down listen to Fade to Black from Metallica. That song keeps me going. Try it, buddy.
@SuperintendentParklaneManor
@SuperintendentParklaneManor Жыл бұрын
I hope you get better … positive people are need it among us…best regards 🙌.
@sprites4ever482
@sprites4ever482 11 ай бұрын
As someone with 10+ years of major clinical depression, I can't begin to tell you how accurate this portrayal is. Most people legitimately can't tell that you're miserable, and you don't want to bother them with it. Especially when you've made bad experiences with trying that.
@LautaroTessi
@LautaroTessi 3 ай бұрын
I had depressions when I was a teenager. I did a lot to get rid of them, it took a lot of effort and therapy. Validation of close people's opinions about me helped me a lot. When I say "validation" means you have to stop toxic traits and self esteem about yourself and paying more attention to what your family or friends say about you. At the end of the day, if they wanna talk or stay at your side, it means you are more worthy than you think.
@sprites4ever482
@sprites4ever482 3 ай бұрын
@@LautaroTessi Nobody wants to talk to me or stay at my side, even my family treats me with minimal attention.
@clintonevans2226
@clintonevans2226 Ай бұрын
​Many teenagers who describe themselves as depressed are often experiencing intense sadness, frustration, or situational stress rather than clinical depression. True depression is a persistent and pervasive mental health condition, distinct from temporary emotional reactions. What they are experiencing may stem from a lack of coping mechanisms, a need for emotional support, or identity struggles. Mislabeling these feelings as depression can diminish the understanding of the real condition and the importance of addressing it appropriately.
@sprites4ever482
@sprites4ever482 Ай бұрын
@clintonevans2226 TEN PLUS YEARS OF MAJOR CLINICAL DEPRESSION. Don't you dare understate what I've been through!
@SilverlandgmodTV
@SilverlandgmodTV 3 күн бұрын
This is so true. I always have a really hard time telling therapists when I am really struggling because when I was a teenager and did that a (in hindsight terrible) therapist wanted to have me committed and taken out of school.
@edw4543
@edw4543 Жыл бұрын
So proud of our football club and this message.
@ekwi
@ekwi Жыл бұрын
Congratulations, you can be proud ;) greetings from Poland.
@DanieleRicci78
@DanieleRicci78 Жыл бұрын
Be proud, my friend!! Greetings from Florence, Italy. 💜
@carsyourdaddrove
@carsyourdaddrove Жыл бұрын
Very proud today of our football club.
@thegameofeki9264
@thegameofeki9264 Жыл бұрын
Once a yellow… 💛
@coliniconnor944
@coliniconnor944 Жыл бұрын
We’ll said , and well done Norwich City FC , wasn’t expecting that ending and really brings home a message.
@SlymeCat
@SlymeCat 10 ай бұрын
Notice the one who struggles with reality/depression is the one who engulfs himself in the fantasy world of sports more so than any of the other fans. That was his escape. Sports are powerful, but not as powerful as the message this video delivers. Well done!
@kevinschuster8169
@kevinschuster8169 9 ай бұрын
This happens not just with sports though, same for video games or actually any other hobby, its somehow when you really feel bad you try to do the thing you liked or were good at.
@ramadamming8498
@ramadamming8498 8 ай бұрын
It is ok to have a healthy distraction or hobby but when it is like addiction and you live totally through it and cannot do without it can be used as a mask
@yoyo2598
@yoyo2598 7 ай бұрын
This video absolutely Floored me. I thought it was just going to be some cheesey video but now I’m thinking about it days later and calling all my friends.
@kevinkenmanceraperez8765
@kevinkenmanceraperez8765 6 ай бұрын
​@@yoyo2598 call all of them, and tell them the meaning they have for you. I have a friend that tell me that all the time and make me feel better when I think in this fake door
@rorymarrow514
@rorymarrow514 Жыл бұрын
I lost my best friend 5 years ago. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of him. Thank you for this video and its powerful message.
@HannesC.
@HannesC. Жыл бұрын
Keep on fighting guys! Kind regards and hugs from Dortmunder junges 🖤💛❤️
@SamiAnsari-w3c
@SamiAnsari-w3c Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss lad he’s proud of how far you’ve come.
@samcresswell8293
@samcresswell8293 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss❤️🥲
@gabrives10
@gabrives10 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. God bless you.
@JustDeacon
@JustDeacon Жыл бұрын
Sending you Love & Luck x
@RoaringReptiles_NY
@RoaringReptiles_NY 9 ай бұрын
This needs to be seen by so many
@teachertommyt
@teachertommyt Жыл бұрын
Such a powerful video, hit me even harder the second time I watched it 💛💚💛
@Baljeet2005
@Baljeet2005 Жыл бұрын
I love you Tommy t, such a kind heart❤
@FalseNeon
@FalseNeon 11 ай бұрын
yeah the first time you just see 2 men and one not that much emotional, but the second you can notice that the sad is getting better just before his friend go away
@mrworld454
@mrworld454 10 ай бұрын
Me too. I literally teared up 😞
@xJust2Deadly
@xJust2Deadly Жыл бұрын
This is the best mental health ad I have ever seen in my entire life.
@AdaptorLive
@AdaptorLive 11 ай бұрын
Everyone involved in making this video is an absolute ****ing hero.
@V1G1LANTEK9
@V1G1LANTEK9 11 ай бұрын
Cried like a baby to this. My mother constantly worries about me. I tell her everytime. "Mom i tell you my sadness as it comes. You need to worry about the ones that are smiling." im already bent and bruised, im flexible and move with the pain because ive dealt with it for a decade. But those that smile and ignore it because they cant process it are the ones we need to protect because if you dont bend you WILL break.
@Imagine_Baggins
@Imagine_Baggins 10 ай бұрын
Well said.
@Thinkbirth
@Thinkbirth 10 ай бұрын
"Mom i tell you my sadness as it comes. You need to worry about the ones that are smiling." such an insightful comment. Well done you for being honest and open. That's the safety valve for life. Wishing you all the very best
@freemansteinslab
@freemansteinslab Жыл бұрын
As with real life, it's the second watch that hits hardest...when you realise there were signs there...the fact he was trying to communicate...and then the way he gave away his scarf...the "Nah, you keep it mate" and the shoulder hug was his way of saying goodbye, followed up with the "That was worth it", like he was hanging on for one good game, like it was his "Shampoo and Conditioner" moment. So moving and powerful! Everyone needs to see this! Thank you Norwich FC for producing this! Especially with men in the UK, we are so still instilled with the "Stiff upper lip", "grin and bear it", "man up" and "grow a pair" attitudes, that we don't talk to someone until it's too late. Talk to people...make sure they are doing ok...it can make all the difference, even when they seem ok 😢
@evan_harding
@evan_harding Жыл бұрын
Well said mate - spot on! 👏🙏
@eldorado852
@eldorado852 Жыл бұрын
Also, the fact that the guy on the left seems as if he wouldn't care, but in the end is visibly mourning the loss of his friend.
@JerKKeR
@JerKKeR Жыл бұрын
For me what really broke my heart was him saying "I hope things are better outside of football" which was a clear "I'm feeling horrible, I hope at least you don't feel the same way" it was both a sign that he cared a lot about his friend but also a cry for help
@ad9aggie
@ad9aggie 10 ай бұрын
Not just in the UK mate, it's the same here across the pond.
@marymcauley
@marymcauley Ай бұрын
People say it’s different for women but not in my experience. Most women I know myself included can’t tell anyone how they’re feeling when it’s actually serious like depression. I’ve only been able to tell a select couple way after, once I’m feeling better and more “together” again. I think depression by its very nature often hides.
@Cr7suii7939
@Cr7suii7939 5 ай бұрын
A star burns the brightest before it dies
@spudmedlen9900
@spudmedlen9900 Жыл бұрын
I won't even lie I was watching this half way through thinking 'It's making it clear the guy on left is depressed/anxious but I'm more like the guy on the right and wouldn't it be nice just for it show a video showing the other side of the coin'.. soon as he placed the scarf down for him I balled my eyes out. I'm a 25 year old lad just starting counciling sessions for my depression and other stuff, but most people have no clue because around people I can't stop talking and seem to have mounds of energy, thankyou Norwich FC. From the bottom of my heart.
@hidingbehind7256
@hidingbehind7256 11 ай бұрын
The guy on the left clearly seems depressed and anxious as well. I think it's sad both ways
@elyssathena
@elyssathena 5 ай бұрын
@@spudmedlen9900 I am a girl so it’s not exactly the same but I was also the VERY happy/hyper person, for a very long time I was depressed at about 18 I started begging people to help me, to see me. Nobody did, nobody believed me. “ that’s not what depression looks like.” “ girl you’re not depressed. I literally cry all the time.” “ my mom is depressed. You’re not.” I heard it all. I slowly became a miserable monster version of myself. That pretty happy girl is gone. I’ve tried to commit twice and was in the psych ward last year. I’m really struggling. I really don’t wanna be here anymore.
@Londubh
@Londubh 5 ай бұрын
​@@hidingbehind7256in some ways the cheerful ones have it harder, because no one thinks to ask them.
@evelynchew9590
@evelynchew9590 4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you are getting help - sending all the best wishes, thoughts and prayers. You mean something and you are worth while. ❤
@TheGreatSalsaMan
@TheGreatSalsaMan 2 ай бұрын
Robbin Williams was one of the kindest loving actors that comes around once in a generation. Nobody knew he was struggling with severe depression because he hid it so well. Depression affects us all differently. I personally can’t remember a time when I was genuinely happy and don’t look forward to anything in life at this point. People just think it’s part of my personality that I’m just defaultly stoic and quiet all the time. People always associate depression with staying home locking yourself away from people and having no connections but it goes much deeper than just that.
@Indian-sh2xz
@Indian-sh2xz 9 ай бұрын
Depression is like any other illness and it should be treated before it kills you. People should not feel embarrassed to share with their loved ones that they are in depression and if loved one indicates he’s in depression take it seriously and act on it. We all are in this together so let’s help each other
@keithw.cohick
@keithw.cohick Жыл бұрын
We lost our son Camden two years ago to Suicide and this video is so powerful and truthful.
@HOLLOW_RAVEN
@HOLLOW_RAVEN Жыл бұрын
😢
@adzhaz
@adzhaz Жыл бұрын
,😓
@craigernstzen2372
@craigernstzen2372 Жыл бұрын
I am very sorry about this. I can't imagine that pain. Strength to you and yours.
@currentmood9568
@currentmood9568 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss Keith...
@iliarezai6768
@iliarezai6768 Жыл бұрын
Rest in peace 🕊️
@sushantsukhi
@sushantsukhi 10 ай бұрын
I am the guy on the right of video. This video made me cry like baby everytime I watched it. They are really spot on qith this ad and earned a norwich fan. I try to be happy outside but I am broken inside. When I say "how are you?" I expect someone to ask me same in return. I say positive things hoping everything will be alright. It just HOPE that keeps me going. Giving away your things is also sign of leaving the world. This type of video should be displayed in every corner of the world. Absolute masterpiece!
@LBR_Bounty
@LBR_Bounty 9 ай бұрын
How you been man?
@sushantsukhi
@sushantsukhi 9 ай бұрын
@@LBR_Bounty I am good man. Thanks for your concern. People like you make this world a happy place.
@bobm128
@bobm128 8 ай бұрын
Hey brother, I can sympathize with your post. For the longest time, I did what I could to make sure the people around me had a listening ear or a reason to smile. I was the one people came to for advice or a smile. Inside, sometimes I felt great, mostly I felt like a joy imposter because that’s not how I felt. I keep asking myself what’s the point of having to buy a house, take a job I don’t like because of needing money and on and on. What I’ve come to realize is what I keep asking myself is, what’s the point of me? Like you, I maintain by looking to future possibilities - hope. Intellectual reasons like, people around you love you, you matter to your community (I’ve done a lot of community organizing over the years), you’ll hurt the people around you if you go, etc. are good but it’s how I FEEL that’s the issue. I’m a smart guy and know these things but being smart doesn’t “fix” my feelings. I’ve started opening up to some people who are close to me about some of my “darker” feelings. It’s so not easy but it’s something I am doing, using resources outside of myself, because I’m hopeful I’ll start feeling I have a point to myself. Big virtual hugs. B
@sayless00
@sayless00 8 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing well brother 👊
@neland
@neland 7 ай бұрын
Hey buddy. I care and I hope you're having a good day. Reach out if you need anything. I fight the battle too.
@stuartives8111
@stuartives8111 10 ай бұрын
My dad and I have been season ticket holders at Norwich for 20 years. Sadly he passed away in Oct from a brain tumour. The prospect of going to the football without him has been hard. All the Norwich fans around me have been great and I don’t feel alone. Thanks to them, Norwich for the mental health awareness and RIP dad.
@juliocruz2945
@juliocruz2945 7 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss Stuart. I lost my dad in 2017, we used to go to the stadium to follow Corinthians here in Brazil or even watching at home like all the time. It is not the same without him but my brothers and I kept the tradition and now my young 5 year old boy is also part of it. I like to think that in a way or another he is with us.❤ I hope you and your family are ok. Cheers from Brazil !🙏
@ky.castillo
@ky.castillo 5 ай бұрын
@@juliocruz2945 im sorry to hear about your father. im sure he would be very proud to see you continuing the tradition with the next generation :)
@juliocruz2945
@juliocruz2945 5 ай бұрын
@@ky.castillo thanks for the kind words mate :)
@Jackaboy1476
@Jackaboy1476 Жыл бұрын
An F.C… it took an F.C to make what has to be one of the most powerful mental health videos I have ever seen. There is a reason it’s been viewed so many times, cause it hits the nail on the head. An F.C did this, not a gov or a college… an F.C… thank you Norwich. From all of us.
@TheGreatSalsaMan
@TheGreatSalsaMan 9 ай бұрын
The big difference is one cares about fixing serious issues and one doesn’t. Take a wild guess which is which…
@alastairalpaca5754
@alastairalpaca5754 Жыл бұрын
Powerful message needs to be shown everywhere
@michaelshannon9169
@michaelshannon9169 9 ай бұрын
As a lifelong sufferer - don't be so sure that by opening up things get better, you quickly find out who's got your back, which is often very very few, and who doesn't which may come often as a shock. Those who don't understand depression will sound like ppl from the middle ages - all kinds of notions and silly ideas about you start to emerge. Best of luck.
@JoseRamirez-rq2gj
@JoseRamirez-rq2gj 4 ай бұрын
Yes, even some people might try to take advantage of the situation but I think that you should seek help with some profesionals.
@barbarahasse627
@barbarahasse627 2 ай бұрын
When I told my father (84) about my severe depression in the summer, he just said he had never had "anything like that". He put it down to his way of life and his beliefs. It was up to you whether you had depression or not. I tried in vain to explain to him that it was a potentially fatal illness, like many others. For him it always remains the same: If you have depression, it's your own fault! But we sufferers are already full to the brim with guilt!
@crosstim94
@crosstim94 Жыл бұрын
I was 17 years of age when my father lost his battle.. We were both kopites, as he passed his passion down to me from a early age.. Not a day goes by without me missing him, especially singing YNWA with him at kickoff on gameday.. The one thing he always wore all the way until the end was his smile and his empathy.. I had my suspicions, and tried to show all the love I could for him in the end, hoping I could heal whatever he wasn’t telling me about.. But his wounds weren’t mine to heal, and he lost his fight. This really hits home, as my dad always sang the loudest and roared the highest at our last match together. It’s always the brightest stars that hides the biggest shadows. To everyone sitting alone with their dark thoughts.. I love you, and so do so many others.. Please reach out, and I can ensure no matter our intrests, differences.. Then we’ll make sure you’ll never walk alone!❤️
@_oldmanjoel
@_oldmanjoel Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, and my condolences
@waynehaughton1425
@waynehaughton1425 Жыл бұрын
👊💪👍
@Meleftnut
@Meleftnut Жыл бұрын
Sending love brother thank you for sharing that
@crosstim94
@crosstim94 Жыл бұрын
@@_oldmanjoel Thank you for the taking the time to read mate❤️
@crosstim94
@crosstim94 Жыл бұрын
@@Meleftnut Thank you for taking time to read bro❤️
@bigwoodenhead
@bigwoodenhead 11 ай бұрын
Sometimes the people close to you ask how you are because they need you to ask them back.
@geeksplosion
@geeksplosion Ай бұрын
yeah...yeah they do. ....just now and then would be enough. don't need to really even care....just ask. Please ask.
@dinnyfingerbottom1010
@dinnyfingerbottom1010 9 ай бұрын
And for those of you struggling in canada, the government has an excited new program!
@catwoman8861
@catwoman8861 9 ай бұрын
Oh my word. This really needs to be shown on TV.
@WHU63
@WHU63 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Norwich. I travelled to work with Harry for 20 years. He loved a laugh, he loved a drink and he was a massive Leeds fan. In December 2019 he took his own life. He was the last bloke id have ever thought of doing that. You can never tell. RIp my old mate.
@AdamB8791
@AdamB8791 Жыл бұрын
@dadavore7968
@dadavore7968 8 ай бұрын
I offer my condolences
@officialheathercombseardrp559
@officialheathercombseardrp559 11 ай бұрын
As a survivor of 4 familial suicides, I thank you for this!!
@Guuts
@Guuts 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@SamanthaOhara-r6l
@SamanthaOhara-r6l 10 ай бұрын
❤🤗...Don't give up ..🙏..keep life going ..
@nioh2732
@nioh2732 Жыл бұрын
Arsenal fan here, i struggle with depression and anxiety every day for the past 4 years, i almost lost my battle this summer, but i keep fighting, you are never alone, dont be scared to open up. To anyone reading this, i love you, and many many others do as well, keep that on your mind.
@amraj1784
@amraj1784 Жыл бұрын
Have a great day and keep moving forward!!❤
@nioh2732
@nioh2732 Жыл бұрын
@@amraj1784 thanks man, you too, one love 🫶🏻
@BehindTheScreens25
@BehindTheScreens25 Жыл бұрын
One cure mate. Stop being an arsenal fan. Makes you feel a whole lot better! I’m joking, obviously. Hope you feel much better soon.
@nioh2732
@nioh2732 Жыл бұрын
@@BehindTheScreens25 haha man, love the banter, thanx dude 🫶🏻
@nibirchowdhury
@nibirchowdhury Жыл бұрын
​@@nioh2732I hope you win the league this season cheers mate❤🎉 Beware of spurs for the title race😅 ( can't believe I put spurs and title in a same sentence)
@JackB_Music
@JackB_Music Жыл бұрын
Song is called ‘Minimal Piano’ by The Story Shop and Phil Larson.
@crazylegs84
@crazylegs84 Жыл бұрын
This video gave me goosebumps and cry. Almost a year ago to the day I was this man, happy on the outside and depressed inside, I was found in bed in tears just not knowing how to explain how I felt or even why I felt it, but everything felt hollow. This video is so important and so is the talk around it. If you’re struggling, please try and talk to someone, anyone. It will be hard, you will struggle to find the words and you’ll probably even try to convince yourself that what you’re saying/feeling is wrong, but it’s okay. People who love you, will still love you even when you’re struggling. One year later and I’m in such a better place, I’m even able to help people who have depression because I now understand so much more about it. It’s a battle but one that is so worth coming out the other side, so good luck to you, you can do it.
@robpalwrites
@robpalwrites Жыл бұрын
Well done for fighting through and also using your experience to help others. I had my own battle like this from 2019-2021, but films like this bring back the memories clear as day.
@waynehaughton1425
@waynehaughton1425 Жыл бұрын
💪👊👍
@JustDeacon
@JustDeacon Жыл бұрын
Sending you all the Love & Luck x
@JansenVienna
@JansenVienna Жыл бұрын
Lots of love mate ❤
@carsyourdaddrove
@carsyourdaddrove Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing.
@nampamom
@nampamom 8 ай бұрын
It absolutely breaks my heart that it took us this long to realize how much so many men are hurting.
@mistertwister2000
@mistertwister2000 7 ай бұрын
My SO was absolutely shocked at how many friends I’ve lost before having met her, I can only hope we help encourage those struggling to open up and provide them the help they deserve.
@emmanuelochi212
@emmanuelochi212 6 ай бұрын
It is a societal norm; men are not allowed to cry; men cannot feel pain, etc. Now we know the reality
@It14f-37
@It14f-37 5 ай бұрын
​@emmanuelochi212 neither men nor women like to see a man that's too emotional. We keep it all to ourselves. Luckily I'm very cold and rational, the 'expected' mindset of a man. But if some day a depression or a wave of big problems come, I'll probably try to fight it alone and if I lose....
@deew6625
@deew6625 Жыл бұрын
Goosebumps. Reminds of Robin Williams the comedian . Nobody saw that coming.. had to watch the video 4 times. Video of the century .
@fleamcbaggins3087
@fleamcbaggins3087 Жыл бұрын
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, its not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." ... Robin Williams
@simrenbajaj6000
@simrenbajaj6000 6 ай бұрын
He had Alzheimers
@shanafehr
@shanafehr 10 ай бұрын
I always cry whenever this ad is shared in any platform
@antreub74
@antreub74 Жыл бұрын
Well done Norwich City, for this moving clip 😢 From a Saints fan who has battled with depression, stress, and anxiety for the last 20 years
@jamesr5827
@jamesr5827 Жыл бұрын
Keep up the great work. It's never easy but it's always worth it 💛💚
@waynehaughton1425
@waynehaughton1425 Жыл бұрын
💪👊
@Rogerbrambilla
@Rogerbrambilla Жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you have been suffering. I have been going through and battling the same things, but with much less time. Keep fighting and don't give up. A hug from a friend from Brazil. 💪
@mattbirky7510
@mattbirky7510 Жыл бұрын
The Saints family is with you mate 😇 🔴⚪️❤️
@LDS_003
@LDS_003 Жыл бұрын
As a Pompey fan I’m always with you mate, hope you’re doing okay 💙❤️
@jerryg6230
@jerryg6230 9 ай бұрын
Thank You Norwich City, from a Chelsea fan. This had me pick up my phone and make calls
@rorywhyte6722
@rorywhyte6722 Жыл бұрын
Lost an old friend last year, happiest man you evet met. Always a smile, always a joke, always lit up the room. Will always feel guilty for not seeing something or sensing something or asking the right questions. Great video, thank you for doing it, from a Dundee fan.
@missbingley6048
@missbingley6048 Жыл бұрын
So sorry. Never leaves you and something like this kicks you in the stomach.
@AdamB8791
@AdamB8791 Жыл бұрын
@hotmessmissy
@hotmessmissy 10 ай бұрын
I saw this on Instagram..ni cried my tears out. Coz that was me, the guy who was cheering on people but dying everyday inside. Im just trying to hold it all together
@Radhika.here0318
@Radhika.here0318 10 ай бұрын
Sending you hugs🫂, hope you're okay.
@TalkNorwichCity
@TalkNorwichCity Жыл бұрын
SO important. Proud of my football club today.
@MurkKnight420
@MurkKnight420 10 ай бұрын
Everytime I see this it gets more sad. I'm the guy on the right, most happy one in the room the most optimistic guy you'd ever meet and I'm very energetic too. But I often wonder if I'm the saddest person in the room. I've been broken 💔 so many times and most recently was diagnosed with a cancer of the blood. I've never wanted to harm myself yet I'm not afraid of death either. I'm dying inside yet living outside...😢 I wish the best for you all, stay optimistic that's at least how I hold it together
@ironboy3245
@ironboy3245 10 ай бұрын
i'd say if you can afford it, take time off your job or quit entirely and spend some of your money. Go on vacation, start doing your bucket list. Don't spend all of it, keep enough for the treatment and a more frugal retirement, but focus on enjoying yourself and filling out your bucket list, you never know how bad the disease might be at this point i really hope you caught it early...
@buttxrontoast-7100
@buttxrontoast-7100 7 ай бұрын
Norwich, you may not be an elite level club with loads of trophies, but you did what Real, United, Liverpool, Bayern or even Barça never had the guts to do, to do something beyond football, and that makes you an even more astounding and special club in my eyes. Respect from an Arsenal fan thousands of miles away ❤️💛
@Morrisseys7thFriend
@Morrisseys7thFriend Жыл бұрын
So powerful. This reminds me of me. I smile all the time at work and people think I'm so positive and outgoing, but when i go home I cry and feel hopeless about life. No one at work has any idea.
@catwoman8861
@catwoman8861 9 ай бұрын
@theunknown8904
@theunknown8904 9 ай бұрын
Keep fighting . The grass is greener on the other side it waits you . Keep pushing 💪🏾 stay positive and u will feel it to
@wolfnoggin2165
@wolfnoggin2165 11 ай бұрын
This video is powerful because you start liking the guy, his positivity, his laughter, how friendly he is….
@kisseiichidai9709
@kisseiichidai9709 Жыл бұрын
I have been a Norwich supporter for over 10 years, cheering from Japan. And I have mental health problems. I am truly proud that Norwich's video message has impressed so many people, transcending sports and nationalities. When I saw this video for the first time, I couldn't stop crying. Please understand that everyone has their own hardships, and some people cannot express it well. And if you can, please be considerate of next to you. There are no words that can completely cure mental health, but there are always people who can be helped by just one word of your voice. I apologize for my bad English.
@michalchitty654
@michalchitty654 Жыл бұрын
Your English is great! Nice message too.
@chrisverby3047
@chrisverby3047 Жыл бұрын
Bless you. I wish you the best on your journey.
@suzbone
@suzbone Жыл бұрын
Your English is flawless, and your message truly valuable. 🙏
@kisseiichidai9709
@kisseiichidai9709 Жыл бұрын
​ @michalchitty654 ​ @suzbone ​ @chrisverby3047 Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindness.
@Yelluz
@Yelluz 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. Never stop reaching out if you need support. Your English is perfect by the way! Hope to see you at Carrow Road sometime! 🔰 OTBC
@geopunkr.216
@geopunkr.216 Жыл бұрын
All original football fans cried with this video. Have solidarity lads. Even the mate next to our seat has a need for love and interest. Greets from Greece.
@sheyonnewickramasinghe4467
@sheyonnewickramasinghe4467 11 ай бұрын
Incredible message. He was treating others, the way he wanted to be treated.
@JasonCliftJones
@JasonCliftJones Жыл бұрын
Tractor Boy dropping colours for a moment; you've nailed this perfectly. Proper class and respect, will be sharing this around.
@Viking-y3s
@Viking-y3s Жыл бұрын
💛💚💙🤍
@tammykinstrue9849
@tammykinstrue9849 11 ай бұрын
Wow! The first time that I watched it. I thought the bald gentleman was the one that was struggling. Very powerful message indeed.
@mcmu1011
@mcmu1011 11 ай бұрын
He's struggling too, both need help. That's the power of the message.
@ThomasGMRossetti
@ThomasGMRossetti Жыл бұрын
The creative team behind this video deserve all the praise and adulation going. This is such a good idea, and is executed so well.
@daniballard27
@daniballard27 Ай бұрын
i remember watching this for the first time and obviously thinking it was the guy on the left and once i realized it really hit me that you never know. this is such a good commercial.
@wiovelli
@wiovelli 10 ай бұрын
Even an Ipswich fan would be moved by this well done
@jd9304
@jd9304 7 ай бұрын
Never been a fan of football but I think I’ll buy a jersey just to support Norwich for putting together such a moving and important ad
@justmadeit2
@justmadeit2 8 ай бұрын
Depression cuts off any love for people or for yourself, it’s an inner torment where your mind turns against you. Life is joyless, you lose your sense of humour, you feel agitated, you may have bad insomnia too. You can lose your appetite and lie in bed all day feeling agitated but knowing that getting up doesn’t solve things. The days feel endless and when you wake at 4 am you panic knowing you have another long day to get through. You can feel terrified and that you may have to go up to hospital even if you’ve been in hospital before because the panic at how desperate you feel sets in and you don’t know what else to do. Feeling sui cidal is terrifying
@saumalyajitde2401
@saumalyajitde2401 11 ай бұрын
Something that i'm not sure people spotted is the change in jersey from the usual yellow one to the purple one. If i'm not wrong, that one is the 'sudden change in appearance' symptom. This video is incredible in the way it showcases all the signs a person is struggling. A sudden change in appearance and giving away possessions are well documented signs. I'm not really a football guy, but to the people who made this possible, hats off.
@도비이즈프리-s6g
@도비이즈프리-s6g 8 ай бұрын
와.. 너무 공감가고 빈 의자에서 눈물이 왈칵남. 진짜... 우울함과 슬픔이 너무 큰게 와서 힘든영상임
@Steveyneo
@Steveyneo 2 ай бұрын
This video hits me hard. I'm not ashamed to say it moves me to tears every time I see it.
@RecordSlowrun
@RecordSlowrun 5 ай бұрын
I don’t know why this popped up in my recommended. World Mental Health day was 10 months ago and I’m not a Norwich fan. But this was incredible.
@Hannah11_
@Hannah11_ 11 ай бұрын
Cried at this twice now.
@MattWillisVideoProductions2023
@MattWillisVideoProductions2023 Жыл бұрын
Cheltenham Town fan here, and mental health struggler for many years. This really got to me. I’m going through counselling and therapy right now as I finally admitted I needed help and I’m better for it. Well done Norwich. I hope other clubs and supporters take note. You are never alone. Always reach out if you’re struggling. Please. Don’t struggle in silence.
@fleamcbaggins3087
@fleamcbaggins3087 Жыл бұрын
The thing is, y should i keep talking when i know no one is listening?
@missmar8
@missmar8 Жыл бұрын
@@fleamcbaggins3087 you have just not found the right person to talk to yet. Try talking to many people, even strangers. Personally I find it helps. There is always someone to talk to. You've got this!
@suzbone
@suzbone Жыл бұрын
​@@fleamcbaggins3087that's the thing about therapists... they actually listen.
@elyssathena
@elyssathena 6 ай бұрын
I’m always the one cheering people up and asking how they are but I never get it in return
@jellepleune8905
@jellepleune8905 11 ай бұрын
Wow.. still a little speechless from this video. I have lost my sweet twin brother last year at age 28. He appeared to have been struggling with a depression for maybe 10 years. We did not know, and he did not find help. He only started to open up to me in his final weeks, but I was unable to notice the depth of his issues and help the person I thought I new best for 28 years of my life. Please check in with the ones you love ❤🙏
@Stzvey
@Stzvey 11 ай бұрын
Very sorry for your loss I can’t imagine what I’d do if I lost one/both my brothers
@theartistdesigner9338
@theartistdesigner9338 5 ай бұрын
Ending is good as far as telling people how to get help... but there are those that others won't listen to.
@Tiko_7
@Tiko_7 Жыл бұрын
This is the best video I have ever seen on raising awareness of depression especially in people where you would never expect it. What a masterpiece on such an important topic
@fleamcbaggins3087
@fleamcbaggins3087 Жыл бұрын
Try being the guy on the left n having ppl look straight through u n act like nothing is wrong...
@anthonyovahe
@anthonyovahe Жыл бұрын
I cry my eyes out every time I see this
@la5latic65
@la5latic65 Жыл бұрын
I’ve watched this three times, and it’s got me three times. My friend is a professional footballer who has really suffered so this hit home. Norwich City FC, incredible stuff. ❤️👏🏻
@huhavadakadabra3083
@huhavadakadabra3083 Жыл бұрын
Where does he play
@dean6370
@dean6370 3 ай бұрын
watching this again, this is the best mental health day advertisement until this second. if you disagree, argue with a wall.
@robpalwrites
@robpalwrites Жыл бұрын
Woah! This hit me harder than I thought it would. Such a great clip. Well done to all those involved in creating it.
@jakemurtagh3788
@jakemurtagh3788 Жыл бұрын
This is possibly one of the greatest, most impactful, heartbreaking and relatable pieces of cinema ever produced 1:56
@marcopatrito6113
@marcopatrito6113 Жыл бұрын
One of the best shorts (and look, I've said shorts, not ads) I've ever watched. That's what I do for a living, writing commercials and videos and contents, and sometimes I struggle thinking about how much I do not care about what I do, and how little is the impact of the things that I do and write. Then, once every couple of years, I stumble in things like this, and I remember why I've started back then. Using these tools to do something with a huge impact like this, something that actually matters, is the very sense of copywriting. I hope one day I'll be proudly signing something this beautiful. Great job for a very sensitive yet fundamental theme.
@adjejeux73
@adjejeux73 Жыл бұрын
Well said, but I guess we can all make a difference, no matter what profession we re in. Too bad we often forget it.
@w1nt3rh83r
@w1nt3rh83r 2 ай бұрын
Sometimes I feel like the right guy and think of that video. Dunno, gives me motivation to push further.
@aaars2004
@aaars2004 Ай бұрын
i love that. you got this.
@Kisho7
@Kisho7 Жыл бұрын
Hey from Germany! This video is absolutely amazing. I recognised myself in the right guy and know what it’s like to show the world my best side but feel like death is better than life. It isn’t always easy but life is a gift and we need to appreciate every moment. Even the bad ones.
@fleamcbaggins3087
@fleamcbaggins3087 Жыл бұрын
It can b difficult when ur life is chalked full of character building moments. I assume it would b easier with someone to confide in but the honest truth is ppl dont care about things that dont impact them directly. Hence y ppl r soooo sad when someone commits suicide, they saw the signs but didnt care enough to help...
@andrecoxa
@andrecoxa 10 ай бұрын
Oh boy, this gets to me every time. Regards from a Coritiba fan. Curitiba, Brazil.
@chatgptrip
@chatgptrip Жыл бұрын
AC Milan fan here, absolutely loved this video 😔 stay blessed guys enjoy life ❤️
@awesomeferret
@awesomeferret Ай бұрын
This video has some of the wisest and kindest comments on KZbin.
@nathanconnortv
@nathanconnortv Жыл бұрын
This video gave me goosebumps. Such a powerful, moving message around mental health. It really hit home. The most important video I have watched on social media.
@Danny_AMP7
@Danny_AMP7 Жыл бұрын
Yooo wassup
@joshyplayz2657
@joshyplayz2657 Жыл бұрын
Ay, Nathan sup, he watched a Norwich video- yahoo!
@Iamfrequency_
@Iamfrequency_ 2 ай бұрын
Whoever came up with this advert is literally a genius.
@EinRotschopf
@EinRotschopf 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for producing this. As someone struggling with depression, content like this helps me to get in touch with my emotions sometimes. I have been to therapy, but the real work is still ahead of me.
@the.illusion_
@the.illusion_ Жыл бұрын
Arguably the best two and a half minutes on KZbin. Only watching it once doesn't do this justice. I hate the fact that i knew exactly where this was going right from the start; yet that's why this is so powerful for me. I saw myself in the talkative fan. This makes me happy that ive began going to see someone to talk to, but at the end of the day, i have a neurological condition that i need to take 3 medications for: all 3 have anxiety/depression as their top symptoms. The past years have been tough, from being the only one of my friends to not go away to college, then covid and on top of it all, im a United fan. Ive been going through tough times, but this video gives me hope that I'm not alone. Big thanks to Norwich City for making this incredible video.
@Jesus-Stuff
@Jesus-Stuff Жыл бұрын
Hello from Dallas, TX, USA! My friend, I too have a neurological condition (MS) that can cause depression. Stay strong! I found that salvation is there for all who call upon the name of Jesus! Blessings!
@marcinems
@marcinems Жыл бұрын
STAY STRONG EVERYONE , WHOEVER YOU ARE AND WHEREVER YOU ARE 🫡🙌
@cgopie1
@cgopie1 7 ай бұрын
This is in my top 5 best youtube videos of all time. A masterclass of subtlety.
@WiseMindNutrition
@WiseMindNutrition Жыл бұрын
We've lost too many people like this. We must continue checking in on our friends, and telling them we love them
@ifrm16
@ifrm16 2 ай бұрын
This video should be the most, if not one of the most, viewed videos on this platform.
@marcosmilanesromero5306
@marcosmilanesromero5306 Жыл бұрын
I'm cuban and I'm also a proud Norwich fan. Love you mates💛💚
@DiaadiaPolicial
@DiaadiaPolicial 11 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@superdyzio
@superdyzio Жыл бұрын
Is October 10th today? Because this is video is 10/10
@YozaCNX
@YozaCNX 10 ай бұрын
the most true video out there who brakes the stereotypes about mental health, make me cry every time..
@adjejeux73
@adjejeux73 Жыл бұрын
Norwich City you have a new fan from Portugal. Thank you for this ❤️
@RocketIPA
@RocketIPA 11 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching this video weekly since I found out about it, sometimes daily. I don’t know why but something about this video just helps me keep pushing. Thank you for making this. I’m sure a lot of guys like me appreciate it.
@juanfernandoavendanoalzate7532
@juanfernandoavendanoalzate7532 Жыл бұрын
I don't even know what to say, it was like watching myself in this video, it made me feel that I'm not alone. I just want to say that after living with depression for almost 9 years I finally am in my last month of therapy. Thank you for spreading the message, and if by any chance you read this and you're struggling, I encourage you to look for help, I am sure that if I could do it you can do it too!!
@JLP734
@JLP734 Жыл бұрын
but what if there is no help that can do it? what then?
@kristinperry8522
@kristinperry8522 Жыл бұрын
An old friend of mine took his life this week. This is hitting me hard. I hadn’t spoken to him in a few years, but he always seemed to “have it together”. Little did we all know he was suffering. A true wake up call to check in on people, even if you think they’re doing okay.
@suzbone
@suzbone Жыл бұрын
Deepest condolences 🙏
@jamesandrews8720
@jamesandrews8720 Жыл бұрын
Really powerful video! The ending was not what I expected... the person, who visibly looked distant and struggling was the one left! Such an important message!! Fair play to Norwich for producing such a video, from an Ipswich fan... 💙💙 rivalries aside, that was extremely worthwhile!
@NMDecember1
@NMDecember1 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I thought the same. This hit hard.
@multiverso_official
@multiverso_official Жыл бұрын
It's incredible how a commercial could make me cry so much and actually consider going for psychological help. I realize that I can't handle all this alone.
@AdamAVFC1990
@AdamAVFC1990 Жыл бұрын
This is incredible. I hope as many people see this as needs to. Well done Norwich.
@ebie4897
@ebie4897 2 ай бұрын
I cry everytime I see this advert
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