(Not) coping with change

[@matthewhughes3749]

First of all gem I know it's tough but to get back to the person you want to be your going to have to be brave and so things like this weekend away I know it's hard and stuuf I'm here for you I know what it's like to not want to face the world but I am sure if you try and do social things overtime you will find it easier you have to face those fears head on hun I believe you can do it and the thing with your mum I know it's hard but you made the right decision and it will make your relationship with her better I really believe that

[@chrisshaw1643]

I really relate to and understand this Gem :) all of it. There was a time I liked moving home when I was younger. Now? I'm anxious about any sort of change at all. I've kept to myself for years now :( I know what you meant when you say you beat yourself up over it. But it is what it is and it's not your fault :) Beating ourself over it adds fuel to the fire! Can be easier said than done though I know

[@judithlight1111]

You could plant vegetables...or being creative in your garden...painting whatever.Nice to have a garden.Your video isn't boring at all♡

[@TheLittleBluePot]

Sorry for the late reply Judith. I hope you're ok. Thanks for your ideas, I like the idea of being creative. Sending hugs lovely. Take care x

[@Olly-1995]

Hi Gem, I cope with change okay 😊, that’s okay my pleasure 😊, change can be hard! for us all, but it how we cope with it that matters, I’m loving the new house, it’s beautiful, with me it takes a couple of days for change to sink into my mind then it’s fine

[@TheLittleBluePot]

Hi Oliver, thanks for understanding, change is hard. Things have got a bit easier since the move which is great. Sorry it's taken so long to get back to you. Thanks for all your support. Take care dude. Big hugs x

[@sweetooth1967]

I understand how you feel theres an old saying you can go to the other side of the world but you have to take yourself with you i only associate with people with anxiety i carnt cope with people i like to hide away its like you take so much then you feel exhausted angry and anxious id hide for a while no people no parties just peace and quiet till your strength returns people with anxiety and mental illness operate differently change is a massive thing i carnt cope either great video gem hugs xx

[@Julia-LArt]

Hi Gem, I was wondering if you like animals and if so are you allowed them in your new pad? I can imagine you in that lovely garden with a sweet natured rescue pup. You'd always be busy, never alone and they are so funny.. and very healing. You can do so much in your garden as it looks so private.. yoga, crochet, play with a pet, plant some flowers etc. You said a lot of very positive things in this video, despite not liking change, which I understand is unsettling. Maybe try to hold on to all that you said : lots of visitors, nice neighbours, wonderful shower, and it will just take a bit of time to readjust. I'm amazed by your place, and none of it was a mess, you only moved last week! Please try not to be so hard on yourself, I know it's easier said than done, but from where I'm viewing you are doing so well and that was a genuine smile at the end too! I'm sure in time your bond will be even stronger with your mum and this space has come at the right time in your journey moving forward. Lots of love and hugs, Julia xx Ps. I hope your weekend was less anxiety provoking than imagined. 🌸

[@Elkablues]

I validate your feelings but maybe try and practise gratitude. Moving house wont change the difficulties you face. Happiness is a massive goal and not necessarily realistic. You have family friends and a partner. You are going away you drive a car I presume.. I have none of those things. I dont say this to minimise your problems but you live in a big house and you wanted this for ages in your videos. I understand it's hard but please try and remember that you have a lot more than many other people. You keep saying you are a mess and it's very negative talk. Maybe make a gratitude list. I have been made homeless and I have 1 friend and no family. Your Mum is still there change is hard.. we just have to accept it. And try to have accepted over things. It will be hard and scary but you are very fortunate and you are stronger than you think

[@Julia-LArt]

Gem, are you ok?

[@TheLittleBluePot]

Hi Ju Lia, how are you? Sorry for not replying sooner. Thanks for your message of concern when I didn't upload a couple of weeks ago, I'm so sorry for not coming back to you. I hope you are doing ok. Sending massive hugs. Take care x

[@sheelaanwar3061]

Hello my dear sister if you don’t mind me asking how old are you?😌

[@TheLittleBluePot]

Hi Sheela, thanks for watching the video and for commenting. I'm 36, can't bloody believe it. Hope you're ok sister. Hugs x

[@sheelaanwar3061]

The Little Blue Pot Thanks for the reply dear sister .wow you don’t look that old.May The Almighty bless you and guide you to the path of success .Ameen😌🌹

[@judithlight1111]

Dear! I hope you got my message on twitter♡

[@TheLittleBluePot]

Sorry for the late reply, I'm afraid I didn't get your message. Did you send me a direct message or tweet? Hugs x