Not Treating Mommy-Dearest

[@kamwilliams5541]

“Girlfriend or wife?…..Are you married, or aren’t you?…No, then you’re not his wife, you’re his girlfriend.” I’m done! 😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@shankeaglaspie3101]

Me to

[@lashundavis156]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@PriscillaJDavis]

And she stands there smiling as if she has a ring and a marriage! Pitiful!

[@jenniferodessa5998]

LMFAOOOOO me and my hubby over here dying

[@jenniferodessa5998]

@@PriscillaJDavis Lmfaoo

[@tan_ya_]

Ladies stop calling your self a man's wife if he hasn't married you.

[@kerrywhite5253]

THANK YOU!!

[@highlander666]

It's pathetic

[@LovelyCeee]

Exactly! Wow 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ProjectPaula]

It's embarrassing!

[@hera_avria9265]

Right!

[@SpiffyPenguin]

"adults don't go to their mother's house" - HUH? That one caught me off guard lmao. I don't care how old I get, if I need help I know my mother has my back and if she needs me she knows I have hers.

[@BrownBamaGirl8]

Yeah that was dumb people have to move back with their parents for all kinds of reasons. And it's not always because they're slacking. It be a crisis or anything.

[@neisci]

The judge is actually correct. You don't go back to your mother's house specifically to bring nothing but chaos and confusion. They knew how she is, if she's crazy and confused, at least, she's crazy and confuse as her own home. They should have figured it and stayed away, they had no business being there.

[@jpwhataboutit]

My son is ALWAYS welcome in our home, whether he is 25, 45 or 65. That was ridiculous. I think she spoke without thinking. I can't imagine Judge Milian turning away any of her three daughters. EVER!!

[@neisci]

@@jpwhataboutit If she's coming to her house with a boyfriend on her bag doesn't like her ,might as well. And they called the house nasty.

[@flo-dd5sw]

Right! It's smart to run to love and not so called friends. There's safety in a loving mom's home. She isn't. The judge is very privileged and lacks understanding to the average person.

[@nicolescott4134]

A shopping cart?!? Girl go get one from Walmart they got plenty 🤣 I wouldn't want anything to do with her!!

[@poshpearls23]

You know the family is dysfunctional when the plaintiff is suing over a $60 grocery cart. I'm thinking there's drugs or something involved, because there is no way she is mad over that. Crazy.

[@stephaniearroyo4344]

I don’t know for sure of course, but I see a women with mental issues and generational curses. He is trying to break them and she’s not allowing because she feels he think they are better because he’s doing better for himself. That all I see. Of course just how I see it.

[@kia0802]

Oh no it can be mental issues. My mother kicked my sister and brother out of her house because they were cleaning out the fridge and threw out her birthday cake. The cake was old and moldy and she was angry enough to put them out over. I wouldn’t put it past her to sue them over that cake if they were old enough. Some people are just THAT ridiculous

[@so_many_women_so_little_ti2833]

I agree with you. Maybe because his father not in the picture to teach him to respect his mother because no one taught him that only when he needs help he comes crawling to his mother. And where his gf parents why they didn't ask them for help? If your mother not good enought for both of you then go to her parents. (I'm sure they kick them out too).

[@cyyrious]

Sometimes it could be principal not saying this is the case but I seen ppl sue for less.

[@Pgschool37]

It seems like a lack of mental health treatments on both sides as well. I say on the son's side because he didn't just find out his mother was like that. Who decides to leave a place when they're supposed to be laying low? Putting his family at risk for whoever they were hiding from.

[@Sonboy210]

The Defendant is so right, I hate it when people say you have one mom or one dad, "but I come from a disfunction family" and his so right for him to feel the way he feels! I still l pray for him cause I know it hurts!

[@ciarraleone2040]

People don’t understand how lucky they are to not deal with things like this. A lot of people don’t have functioning families that are positive and uplifting. I hope they can work this out because even if it’s not perfect family is family.

[@pshuga1234]

Exactly. Most of the comments I read still on the marriage part that has nothing to do with the case. Everyone doesn’t come from households that are like the tv families we watch. I come from a family where I don’t get along with my mom and her sisters. It’s heartbreaking and it’s not easy not being close to the person who birthed you. Especially when I’m super close to my children.

[@mdr1833]

I totally agree!! Parents need to earn respect like everyone else. I wrote my parents off years ago and that was the happiest day of my life!!💃💃💃💃💃

[@pamelahaze3211]

Being a parent doesn't excuse $hit behaviour...

[@papalegbasson2447]

Sad! Mom don't realize that this type of hate will only make her health issues worst.

[@J.Anita24]

Yes!

[@niftynic115]

Plaintiff reminds me so much of my mom whom I have zero contact with. The way she refers to her granddaughter as her 'her child' is really all I needed to hear. "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"

[@moquilla1]

It’s not her grandchild….it’s that ladies child. He isn’t the father of the child. They are playing house.

[@sensual2kizz613]

@@moquilla1 EXACTLY!!!! and when she start acting up on him he's going to come running fast to mama

[@chriscarson1256]

She is not the child’s granddaughter.

[@jansomo]

im really annoyed that mom's attitude wasn't checked. i grew up with an abusive mother, i don't care if "she gave me life" i didn't ask to be born, but i deserve respect, and the people i love need to be respected too!!!

[@alvaneshaowens1898]

Wow I felt this ‼️

[@t-timetv1986]

Wow powerful words.

[@leogoddess3863]

You get it

[@gilyatone]

Perfectly said

[@volb9817]

Exactly!!! I KNOW what the son is going through. Tho my mother is no were near as crazy as this woman, she doesn't understand respect. Respecting me as an adult. When you love them it's really hard to tolerate their behaviors but trying to work things out and make them understand. The judge lacked understanding. I feel she didn't get the full picture.

[@butyoucancallmesam]

Ummm... If the mother violated the restraining order, the police should be called on her. It's like the judge is defending the mother.

[@paulma222]

Right!

[@ellisisland4902]

It's called being the bigger person and recognizing an old crazy woman when you see one. I wouldn't punish her for that. Block her. It's that simple.

[@brenda1934]

I think the girlfriend was being petty. She said the mother violated the restraining order by calling her. Its as simple as hang up and block her. Her son must really dislike his mother to let his 'girlfriend ' send his mother to jail twice.

[@Pr0jectbb]

Stg I said this

[@mariahrivera23]

@@ellisisland4902 yeah but you can’t be lenient with someone who keeps pushing boundaries

[@tnicoletnicole]

Your son is dead to you over a shopping cart? She’s nuts. He is the way he is because of her.

[@yolandac9334]

Because he called the cops on her 🙄

[@brenda1934]

I don't think that her son is dead to her because of the shopping cart. I think the shopping cart incident was the final straw, in years of incidents between the mother and her son.

[@eveja9783]

please don't be so hard on the mother, he and his girlfriend are both disrespectful, going to his mother's house and talking about it's nasty, No, clean it up. Ungrateful. then she talking about she is his wife, girl don't get me started, why you think he didn't marry you? please!!!

[@cynthiapolk8560]

@@brenda1934 no

[@leslieburleson391]

She wants control over her sons life, the girlfriend is a good person and the Mom is jealous

[@emwr222]

PEOPLE FILE LAWSUITS OVER ANYTHING THESE DAYS!!!! 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@debbiecameron6574]

It’s shameful and it’s a waste of court resources! (And I’m talking about real small claims courts not a tv show but this is why these tv shows exist, lol)

[@shannonbrophy3687]

I'm so blessed that my mother would never put money before her love and commitment to me. Imagine having a parent that discards you over a shopping cart, its absolutely outrageous.

[@the4cqueen148]

Hello! They dumped their kid on her and made her miss Dialysis! And then had her arrested. Where is her sorry ass sons comment? Just throw the both of them away.

[@Aries-tx3zz]

And a son that is disrespectful to his mom AND judge is Right! Hunh

[@kaylee3867]

That's good for you but everyone family matters are different and really no one is no better than the next

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

You know it's more to this than a shopping cart right. I don't know if it's drugs but they probably come from a family full of abuse.

[@Nini_473]

It's the mfkn PRINCIPLE!

[@PetalsXPages]

The mom really has issues . Praying for them

[@Hope-zt6ug]

Me too 🙏🙏🙏

[@kaylee3867]

Yes alot of underlying mental trauma but I hope they forgive each other before it is too late

[@scrillscrill1099]

Surely if "she is suing for $59 and needs it to buy a new car" something is wrong.

[@angxlafeld_8567]

@@scrillscrill1099 no girl a cart

[@eleanoraquitaine2966]

Mama is tired of being treated like shit by her son, tired of the insults, the disrespect, the assaults. Her son and his "wife" have been treating her like this for a long time. Honor thy parents and your relationship won't end up like this.

[@adeanelson3201]

I sometimes get frustrated when judge Milian acts like something is crazy simply because she herself wouldn't do that. The fact that she was basically like 'oh I don't knooow- you locked your mom up, maybe you are a theif' annoyed me so much. Clearly his mother is not your mother. Clearly he grew up different and circumstances are different. CLEARLY they don't interact the same way you and your mother do. And then to say 'i don't know, grown ups don't move in with their mother's was again super shady and condescending. Just because you would never doesn't mean it doesn't happen in the real world

[@alyssahamlett]

can totally agree she does this alot only understandING what her experiences have seen..just cause I don't act that way doesn't mean others dont

[@manthony777]

I don't think she loves our people, imo.

[@kingphred]

She has a serious bias issue. Especially when its black ppl. Not saying shes racist i jus think she has issues putting her feet in blk ppl shoes.

[@nae80West]

Perfectly stated. The judge was all on the wrong road with this.

[@gilyatone]

She needs to widen her world lens

[@inukoko2012]

I’m sorry I have to disagree with a judge as far as adults might having to move back in with their parents…….my mother raised me to be very independent and responsible but at one point in time I was struggling however I never told my mom. When she found out she was upset and told me if I ever needed her financially or if I ever needed to move back in with her it didn’t matter how old I was she’ll always be in my corner. I would never want to do that but at least I know I have a loving mother that will help me when I’m really in need. So just because an adult has to Temporarily move back in with their parents doesn’t make them less than anybody else. Sometimes people fall on hard times and need help I don’t see the issue with that.

[@so_many_women_so_little_ti2833]

You are lucky you have mother she might be educated, has enought money but not all mothers and in this case the mother she might never been in school. Don't be fooled by his well dressed maybe his father not around to teach him how to behave and respect his mother. And she didn't turn her back on them she took them in her house but they didn't apprecaite her and I'm sure his gf parents did the same to them otherwise why didn't they go to her parents for help if she's the problem? to all men if your mother and gf/wife they don't like each others, then don't bring them with you when you visit your mother leave them in the house or at the mall or where ever. And if your mothe house dirty bring some house keeper to help your mother cleaning her house. Just appreciate what she did for you when she was pregnant of you, deliver you, fed you spent money in educate you and raised you.

[@nae80West]

No. there is no issue with that at all..i've had my own place for years and im over my grandparents and moms house WAY more than my own... so much so that i give them a little money for their bills too...i just like being there and they like me being there too.

[@leogoddess3863]

@@so_many_women_so_little_ti2833 No real mother would say "he's dead to me" over a shopping cart. The Mom wasn't crippled or fragile, she seems very able bodied to me. Walked in and out of that courtroom just fine. If I can clean my house pregnant with twins, then so can she. Maybe if she didn't spend so much time being hateful, her life would be better. A lot of you need to learn how to read a person's energy. Her energy is so hateful, and I felt it immediately.

[@JaheimsStrugglingHairline]

Definitely with these times. I haven’t lived with my mother since I was in my early 20’s right after I finished my undergraduate degree. I left at 23 and have not been back since. But my mother and stepdad would let me back if I need to. I’m 28 in a relationship and a law student but if I have to go back im not less than. Nor is anyone else

[@inukoko2012]

@@JaheimsStrugglingHairline I moved out in my early 20’s as well. I agree w/everything you said. Whenever I decide to have my own kids I will be the same way w/them.

[@jackiewelch85]

When they brought up the roaches, all I could think about was judge Mathis saying "So yo mama house is NASTY?!" 😂😂

[@J.Anita24]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mdjones7006]

😆 🤣 😂

[@vanillapudding9471]

😂😂

[@K_Cole0128]

Right me too.. and him turning to her to ask her if she’s nasty! 😂😂😂

[@voiceslikeagoddess]

Why do I feel like this case should have been given to Judge Mathis?

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

Crackhead momma

[@jasmom4782]

😂

[@KPbouj]

Nah he would have gave the mama $5k 😩

[@leogoddess3863]

Judge Mathis would have side eyed the girlfriend at first, then ended up tearing the Mom up when he got the full story.

[@VettGirl66]

Agreed🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dbabies82]

The defendants did NOTHING wrong in this case. You can tell mama is abusive, a liar, and ignorant asf. They tried to blame everything on the gf, make it seem like she needs to tone it down concerning the bf and his mother relationship, but she did nothing wrong. lol Literally zero wrong except defend herself, and even then, her bf was the one who said call the cops.

[@ronalex3002]

💯

[@rubyewiggins4926]

Let me guess, you're a mother in law of someone you don't like

[@krystal2157]

@@rubyewiggins4926 wym? It seems like the exact opposite is the case

[@phlushphish793]

Especially when she HATES her so much she can't resist knocking her!

[@jen-a-purr]

Even the judge was mad at the couple lol She’s biased Bc the mommy has kidney issues like her daddy did

[@lashaun333]

That's why she's probably sick....too much anger and hate built up inside

[@dabriahbrown506]

This! People just don't understand...

[@c3servicesofatl]

You may be on to something.

[@phlushphish793]

If people would only turn to Christ, they'd find the love to forgive. I see the son just shaking his head, walking away & saying 'I guess I have no mom, now.' Sad.

[@erik15th]

@@phlushphish793 Christ can't cure any disease. You nor anyone else has ever seen it happen. That lady is mentally sick!!!!!!!!!

[@sabett198x]

All this over a shopping cart? Clearly there’s more to the story, but disowning your son??? This lady has so much anger it’s unbelievable. Didn’t she say she’s on dialysis? Life is too short ppl!

[@ckells]

I totally agree with you. Way too short. Some ppl are so ungrateful . So sad 😞

[@kellysykes822]

Exactly. I'm on dialysis. I would definitely be dead without my kids

[@vuanitahaslam4492]

Yes it is

[@vuanitahaslam4492]

@@ckells I agree

[@jagirl281]

I think it was more rhe son took the gf side against her and she is fuled by hurt snd anger. I would never have my mother arrrsted much less twice

[@whitechris720]

I think a lot of people misunderstand a dysfunctional family situation. When your grown and moving past the disfunction. You can't repair the relationship. You just open the door for drama. You can sabotage everything you worked for.

[@I.am.Mrs.Mathers]

Amen 🙏🏼. Sad but true

[@Ongelique]

yes! totally agree!

[@SunShine-tr5cw]

Exactly. Sometimes the only way to not have to deal w the toxic drama & possible childhood trauma you have to cut ppl off for you to keep your sanity. I know I did & amazingly as soon as I did, my life, my own mental health, etc.. drastically improved.

[@Cougar4u]

Yeah the mom is clearly the issue. Poor guy had to be raised by her.

[@RobinKrystalIreland-vg1mt]

I agree with you. You need to keep toxic people out of your life.

[@flo-dd5sw]

Something is wrong with the mother. Our kids can come home for safety or if life happens. Everyone is not privileged.

[@badgurl5758]

When my husband & I moved in together after 2yrs, his mother acted like I broke up her marriage. She acted more like his lover than a mother. That mother & daughter inlaw jealousy is REAL!

[@erynjefferson111]

@Tiger Bandaid it’s so unfortunate and disgusting.

[@ellisisland4902]

Yes. Parents act out when they're children start to be happy with other people. Things change and time and resources go to partners and the growing pains start. I wish parents would just be happy for their kids and let them live their lives instead of trying to remain the center of attention. If you're that in law please stop. All you do is create problems for your kid's house.

[@TSR228]

It’s weird

[@TSR228]

@Tiger Bandaid wow you made something so common about race 😂

[@vickyserr]

@Tiger Bandaid trust and believe it’s not just a black mother-in law thing. It’s a mother and son thing it’s all races unfortunately. It’s not a race thing

[@katrinav.7011]

I'm so lucky my mother in law was a lovely woman. May her soul rest in peace 🕊️

[@merc80ss]

Major issues within the family dynamics. My family had our own issues but my mom always cared and loved her children. Sadly not all families are like this. Hope they work it out in the future.

[@naowright9308]

Same here. My dad passed away recently and my mom is working and has always worked to keep us together as a family.

[@thatsassyrepublican]

“They took your shopping cart” I’ve heard it ALL now

[@alainab9067]

Mental health check is needed

[@Tatielyse]

The judge had a lot of sympathy for the mother until the recording.

[@phlushphish793]

I'm noticing she's biased towards people like herself, especially women.

[@blaq_betty]

@@phlushphish793 and older people

[@Mimi197-f2z]

NO WAY

[@shelocsher2396]

I know these ppl are not in court over a shopping cart 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@delenareed9731]

Totally unbelievable 😯😯😯

[@nae80West]

😂

[@kiahesharagsdale5206]

I played the beginning 3 times cause I thought I was tripping 😂😂😂

[@tifaniyamcclintock2050]

Gheddooo

[@K_Cole0128]

Yes .. they absolutely are and the principle.

[@mellvee]

Any mother that would say their son is dead to them over petty crap like $60, grocery carts, canned food, their girlfriends, etc., is vile and gross. She seems a little unhinged, tbh.

[@psychicladyg9415]

It's not over that. She went to jail cause he called on her!!!!!!!

[@phlushphish793]

@@psychicladyg9415 She went to jail for assault & breaking a restraining order.

[@phlushphish793]

Plus, what if he makes her a grandchild? Guess they're outta your life too, huh?

[@jamesde74]

This lady sounds like she’s suffering from mental illness and the son may not know how to recognize the signs of that but he should look into getting her help instead of trying to even the score so much

[@meechee2too754]

@@psychicladyg9415exactly. Her son is disrespectful. He shouldn’t be able to disrespect and rely on her

[@ellisisland4902]

I believe him when he says his family is dysfunctional. He's probably exhausted dealing with it and is ready to move on with life. Seems like his girlfriend isn't causing him as much grief as his mom but I wouldn't have gone so far to have her arrested. That seems heartless.

[@dbabies82]

How was it heartless? She kept hitting the girl. lol What was they suppose to do? Accept the abuse bc she's old? Nah, there's consequences to ones abusive actions. She deserved to be in jail for a few days.

[@latarareed7321]

@@dbabies82 💯 exactly

[@ellisisland4902]

Didn't she say she called the police not because she was hitting her but because she violated the protection order by calling her? Block her. Don't have her arrested. And if an old woman kept hitting me I'd LEAVE. I wouldn't call the police on her.

[@the4cqueen148]

He and the girlfriend could've easily moved to a hotel instead of dumping their kid on the mom & making her miss Dialysis. They're both pathetic leeches.

[@TSR228]

You can’t assault ppl

[@VampyAnji]

The mom is Crazzzy. I cannot imagine treating my son and his wife this way. Mothers: When your sons grow up, ✂️ the cord!!

[@nannynewsviews542]

Definitely not his wife....but I agree the mom may be set in her ways. But also the son should cut the cord....and support himself

[@badgurl5758]

Amen Sis 🌟

[@LovelyCeee]

@@nannynewsviews542 thank you for correcting this person. Girlfriend until he marries her.

[@javonjamayal]

*girlfriend lol

[@Aries-tx3zz]

But YOUR son can mock and laugh at you in court..hunh?

[@emilyremington7216]

As someone with a monster in law sometimes the man wants to cut off his weird mother, its like she wants to be with him.

[@vt-yp7yq]

It's quite prevelent in today's world, every race, religion, and creed. When mother's make their sons 'their man', in all aspects except for sex, this is what happens when husbands or boyfriends are not in the picture. Until sons have the cajones to put down boundaries, this will continue. It's disgusting imo.

[@MsTruthhurts007]

Does anyone remember Monster in law with Jlo and Fonda was a good film.

[@emilyremington7216]

@@vt-yp7yq I totally agree! But i can only wait in good time for her to really overstep.

[@leogoddess3863]

I have a monster in law too, and this triggered me. The judge was so wrong with SEVERAL points. You have to live it to get it. You get it. We get it.

[@bobbyjefferson1973]

They are not married.

[@gogoscorner1111]

I'm so happy I get along with my mom. This is sad.

[@Babybop83]

You know she old school when she brings the paperwork out in a bag. 😭 She definitely reminded me of my granny. 😂

[@kaylasimone2461]

This is so sad. Life is too short. Love and respect your loved ones.

[@alejandra6951]

Some moms don't deserve respect. Same for family.

[@mkm6783]

She needs to love & respect her child as well.

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

Crackhead or mental case

[@sophiadavenport3959]

respect is earned not given

[@Yupthatsme3333]

@@alejandra6951 Factssss

[@damnnerves24]

Mother or not. You don’t have the right to put your hands on anyone. I wouldn’t have called the police and had my Mom arrested.. I would’ve left to keep the peace and respect in the family and more importantly, keep my girl and kid away from where they’re clearly not wanted! Sad case for $60 and the airing of dirty laundry on both sides! 🙈

[@so_many_women_so_little_ti2833]

I agree with you in every things you said except they didn't say that her grand child/s not welcome. I'm sure she loves then to the death.If my mother and my wife have issues I will keep my wife away from my mother but I will come and visit her aqnd make sure she's ok and have enought food and bring someone to help her to clean her house not say her house dirty. or only when you are in trouble you come crawling to your mother asking for her help. After what she did for you from the day you become Embryo until you become a big guy. Shame on you big son. I don't plame her when she said "He's dead for me"

[@andystephens9022]

She should be charged! Nobody and I mean nobody as the right to assault people

[@blabbinglobster]

I have never understood why people who are not married use the terms 'husband' and 'wife' and expect others to do so, too. At worst, it's very deceiving and at best it is confusing as hell.

[@JT-ds8gh]

Or fiancée when there is no ring or date. Shackin up.

[@BellaKayeLLard]

Or an ex family members as Uncle, Auntie, Niece, Nephew, etc 🙄

[@roslynhawkins1475]

My ex fiance called me his wife in front of a few of his family members and I proudly said, I am NOT his wife, we aren't married. If people want the title, get married.

[@ebonyeyed08ti]

Well, if you live with someone for 5 years or more then you're common husband and wife .

[@theindiejurnee]

@Tiger Bandaid I've heard that lots of times. If they feel like that person is their husband or wife, they will correct people when they don't use those labels. And will get mad if you don't.

[@Elle253]

I’m surprised the judge even let this case get into her court room it’s really just a family dispute that went too far.

[@AnneOhn123]

Marilyn needs to stop shouting like a banshee... and stay out of their problems.

[@emo72387]

Because at the end of the day it's a tv show that relies on ratings. Drama sells.

[@emo72387]

@@AnneOhn123 then they shouldn't bring problems to her doorstep then

[@gtsound12]

She loves the drama. It’s good for ratings. That’s why she takes on these petty cases

[@naiadolling]

The producers pick the cases, not Marilyn.

[@nixonsneverendingthoughts2824]

Lady if you don’t grab a Walmart cart and go on bout yo bidness

[@krystingrant6292]

Ok tf

[@justbusiness01]

If you’re son is a user and you raised him. Who’s really at fault? 🤷‍♀️

[@randaismail2054]

The son’s fault. His mother didn’t buy his drugs and forced feed it to him. My mother raised me and all of my 5 siblings and only one of us grew up to be a user. It’s wasn’t cuz of the way my parents raised her it was her choice to use. If it was the way my mother raised her then all of her would have been users.

[@notsocommon5652]

@@randaismail2054you must be her child that was on drugs. She said user as in they use people not use drugs smh. Please people just say no.

[@randaismail2054]

@@notsocommon5652 what are you even talking about 😂😂😂

[@notsocommon5652]

@@randaismail2054 you referring to drugs when his mom was saying he use people

[@K_Cole0128]

I could be anybody’s fault. Children learn from people outside of the home too.

[@babiifrshj07]

About the roach thing- My grandmother (may she Rest In Peace) lived in a low-income building in Far Rockaway, and she was super clean and OCD about her little apartment. There still were roaches because it was a building issue. Sometimes it's not the person, but their environment. Treating a house is different than treating a building or several connected units for roach (or other insect) infestations.

[@paige4128]

Too true! I moved into a spankin brand new apt, freshly painted, etc., and it STILL had roaches due to the building in San Francisco. That poor manager tried everything short of dynamiting the unit😂. He was such a nice guy, but at the end of the day I was out of there in one month. I just can’t live with roaches.

[@nikkid4890]

Many adults need to stay with their parents for intermittent periods of time. It is between the parent and their offspring, and no reason to shame anyone for that arrangement

[@lyricberlin]

what good is a restraining order when a judge berates someone for following it? No wonder they aren't worth the paper they are written on.

[@marthaarciniega8244]

I agree

[@vickireynolds4055]

Take the damn cart, lady!! Use it until you get what YOU want!! And, get your meds adjusted!!!

[@jjim5745]

Out of all the episodes of the People's Court this is the saddest most pathetic one I've seen.

[@MzLady78]

The mom has issues...deep rooted issues. No matter what the son says or does for her it will never be good enough. Sad she doesn't even claim her grandbaby 😪

[@widowrumstrypze9705]

I feel terrible for her son. I won't lie, I have some pretty serious issues, but I am *so* grateful to jy son for EVERYTHING he does to help me. We had to put down our cat 3 days ago. Mango was 19, and my Companion Animal. He had a fabulous life, and a beautiful crossing., and I couldn't have done it without my son's help. The private cremation, along with the engraving on his urn was freaking expensive, not to mention the weekend after hours rates (the people were amazing, though, no complaints, there!). My son paid for everything, but my sister and I are reimbursing him half the cost because I brought him up to not be a BUM, by leading by example! He insists on paying my phone bill, but I buy that amount in groceries, and make dinner for he, his gf, his younger bro & his yb's fiance once a week, and I hope it offsets the cost a bit. I always make a pie or cheesecake, too, lol! Sorry for babbling, I'm trying to get used to him not sitting next to me as I type 😔

[@naynayjones9166]

His girlfriend kids is not her sons kids......because he claims them, he feels she should but until they are married then it technically ain't her grandkid

[@MzLady78]

@@naynayjones9166 oh okay...I thought it was their child together

[@caroldouglas8574]

@@naynayjones9166 I think it’s their kid but the mother is petty

[@karenallenbrown7588]

The mother did tell him not to bring his girlfriend around. Why didn't he go where she stayed. It was the girlfriend children not his

[@NLSDoll]

After the judge said she was his gf not his wife was hilarious! Her face said it all😅😂

[@finally97]

This is what a toxic family dynamic looks like. Praying for peace for the generations to come from this family.

[@nkosikadzi6273]

The judge didn't do justice on this one. She took the mom's side all the way. 😒 Please just do your job and stay away from family issues

[@frayfray2807]

Super sad how common these types of families are, coming from one...I can only empathize. No one picks their family, some get lucky, some get a bad deal and some can't be happy no matter what...but you can pick your friends and surround yourself with positive people. You're a product of your own environment.

[@fionadarlingb]

This is deeper than a shopping cart... I can see the hurt and rage in the mom's eye as she express her feelings towards her son in the end.

[@phlushphish793]

Maybe she'll see how she looks to the world when she sees herself on TV.

[@notsocommon5652]

Yeah her son husband divorced her and she upset

[@dabriahbrown506]

It seems like the judge was really advocating for the mom just because she was "his mom". No ma'am. Toxic is toxic I don't care who it is. I think he's doing the right thing by handling his mom from a distance because until she does some self-work and realizes that she's a part of the problem their relationship will always be toxic. Create boundaries and stand on them I don't care who it is. You can't repair a relationship with someone who feels like nothing they do is wrong and it's not their fault, parents included.

[@phlushphish793]

Yeh. My friend had to go to marriage counseling. He said the counselor told him a relationship is a bridge both parties build from their side to meet. You can do all you can for your side, hang big signs & blinking lights on it, etc. But if the other party doesn't build their half, it's still just 1/2 a bridge.

[@vellabella1]

omg, pay her $60 and move on. Geez!

[@phlushphish793]

The mom was just being difficult. Wouldn't tell them what kind of cart.

[@kerrywhite5253]

He said he could have given her $60. Why didn't he do it before court then. He talked about her apt being dirty,and yet he found it clean enough to run there when he needed her. Why didn't Mr. I am a working man take his family to a hotel. And the girlfriend needs to keep quiet and let him handle his mom and their problems.

[@shelocsher2396]

All of what u said!

[@tastemypie1]

💯💯💯

[@roymaddocks3184]

Her apartment wasn't too dirty when she was looking after the girlfriend's child

[@dbabies82]

And the girlfriend did ZERO wrong. So far, I haven't heard 1 thing in the case that was her fault. The lady kept abusing her and she kept accepting it. It was the boyfriend who finally called the cops and encouraged her to get the protection order. So it's odd you all are putting blame on the gf when she literally did zero wrong in this case. She was just there telling her side of the story. She was the victim of everything. Y'all want her to be quiet so she can't share her story of abuse??? lol Yall are odd asf. Watch the case... They tried to replace her cart and was willing to replace her cart with the exact same cart. They weren't going to buy something extra extensive for someone who was just assaulting them. They wanted nothing to do with her after things blew up and had a protection order out against her, so was doing everything through the cops. They needed a picture of the cart to do an exact replacement, but the cops wouldn't give them a picture. So they picked any cart. And... she never had a receipt for her cart for them to give her the money for it. It wasn't until way after everything blew up that she bought another cart and claimed the cart cost $60. This was way after the restraining order and them seizing contact with her. Y'all forgetting all of the details and nick picking what you remember to support the abusive mother. It's obvious the mother is crazy, especially assaulting the girl several times in front of people for zero reasons. She deserved everything she got, and she should have sat in jail for a few days. It sounds like she's turning old and senile. And sounds like they can afford a hotel/motel, but why waste the money when family was near... family that they took time off and stayed with before, while she was sick, so they can take care of her? It can be true that she's nasty with roaches in her home. It didn't sound like they brought all of their stuff with them, only a few things. So not hard to clean up a room and stay in it for a few weeks, until their home is situated.

[@flo-dd5sw]

You all don't listen. They didn't steal it in the first place. They were trying to be peacekeepers by replacing something they weren't responsible for. They had no idea how much hers costed which was a courtesy buy. It must be a cold day in hell when family cannot go to a family member's home....some of us are close. The mother invited them there btw. The mother assaulted that lady twice as she stated she didn't like her. The mother may be suffering with a jealousy problem, mental issue, or just may be nasty anyway.

[@soloseraphimheartsong3710]

What happened to make this situation so bad that you need to come on TV for $60.00? More than anything I think this situation is just sad.

[@vanillapudding9471]

She’s petty and have always been like that.

[@soloseraphimheartsong3710]

@@vanillapudding9471That might be true unfortunately.

[@johnnythao]

Yeah, this family is totally Dysfunctional, because their feelings towards one another is all over the place, plus I think the Platiniff's hit that "Crazy" phase in her life.

[@Aries-tx3zz]

Yes the family. Why some blaming only the mom.

[@alexisvalere4095]

For my daughter, its her sister-in-law that is crazy jealous. She's mad that her brother is with my daughter and that they have kids because she has some sick twisted emotions over her own brother, which is totally inappropriate. The problems have been going on for YEARS now and I just hope that my daughter's sister-in-law can get out of the way!

[@Sunshine134chick]

She really doesn’t like the wife 😂

[@shelocsher2396]

*girlfriend

[@JustLikeAFlower]

@@shelocsher2396 *fiancé

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

This was heartbreaking to watch and triggering. I'm praying for them. 🙏🙏🙏

[@VirgoCali89]

Honor your mother and father, I think a lot of people forget that

[@CarolJenkins-l7o]

The Bible doesn't say honor your toxic mother and father that woman is very toxic

[@BriannaF930]

That lady just said her son is DEAD to her and y’all think HE’S the problem?! Just bc she’s the mother she can be disrespectful? Please 😒

[@thatsassyrepublican]

What is it you’re missing ma’am? A screw?

[@lilo4399]

A note from Jim Morrison - could this story get any more loopy? After the roach infested patty cakes..... 😂

[@annettearellano3487]

When I heard $59 I thought I misheard until I saw it on the screen... They don't have better things to do with their time

[@robbbietheim2096]

Your wife is walking around with a brand new Louie Vitton handbag and you couldn't afford a motel room for a few days 🤣 🤣

[@alyssahamlett]

that shit is not real...

[@dbabies82]

It doesn't sound like they couldn't afford a room. Sounds like it would have been more convenience to stay with the person they stayed with before, seeing how she was sick before and they stayed with her for a while to take care of her. I'm the same way. My first stop would be going to my mother's home if something happens with my home, and I'm def not broke. I'm the one paying all of my mother's bills. Convenience doesn't mean broke.

[@lorirogers9304]

Probably a knock-off bag

[@روجر-ث7س]

I made up my mind about them when I heard she was suing for a cart 🛒 🤣 🤣

[@14kchang]

The poet Longfellow once said that "a torn jacket is soon mended but harsh words can bruise the heart of a child."

[@bethclark9319]

She is showing signs of dementia and is sad that her son doesn't want to know, or he is just plain selfish. My mother was showing signs of that. I quickly took charge, and she was adequately diagnosed. When she has her sundowners about her personal items. I tell her it is either broken or that I must clean it so she can stay healthy and not die. It is hard and sad to see your parent having a mental break. This episode made me cry. He is a selfish son; he should try and help her instead of calling her crazy and getting the cops involved.

[@violeta8626]

This judge is absolutely ridiculous justifying violence!!!!

[@cynthiaprice3528]

It never ceases to amaze me how people talk down on someone else’s place but want to stay there, and try to run it too. If she has such a nasty place with roaches why in the hell did he take his family there! That’s crazy and to put his mother in jail 😮 Maybe she has a mental illness and he should be a little more respectful to his mother for sharing her space.

[@nyaj754]

How is a judge defending bad behavior? Mom or not if she’s in violation she needs to be punished. Just because you’re somebody’s mom don’t mean you are a good mom

[@shereescott8162]

This case is ridiculous . Why? On national TV why?

[@redgurl60]

Some realtionships don't need repairing. This is one of them. I hope he and his girlfriend go off and live a happy drama free life.

[@thedopemom7697]

The mom should have been checked. Something is off about the Mother. So because that’s his mother it’s ok for her to keep putting her hands on his girlfriend? At least he didn’t allow her to fight his mom back. Praying for them

[@KennuhWayne]

Hell, I'll pay the $59 for the cart myself. Just please bring this case to a close. Jesus.

[@Lanie-sl9ne]

I was so afraid that he was gonna say she was fixing some chitterlings! Lol😅😄😃🤣😂😁😀

[@tiffanybunny5590]

It will come a day that he needs his mother again

[@maryburke7850]

They all crazy!! And the son is a hot disrespectful mess!!

[@lakeishag76]

This is much deeper than a grocery cart. They need family counseling.

[@NellieKAdaba]

💯

[@danim3714]

It’s always heartbreaking to see a parent and child like this… I hope they overcome their differences and build a better relationship

[@paulma222]

Mom is off her rocker and sad she’s alone

[@nicolebrady372]

I do NOT understand judges take on this one. You should ALWAYS be able to go to your parents when you need help. Especially when you're worried about being hurt at your home. Let's stop supporting a horrible relationship when it's toxic, just because they're your parent.

[@steelwheels327]

Makes me glad i had a great mom she's gone now , but always in my heart!

[@Pr0jectbb]

Judge was wrong for making the girl for bad for pressing charges over assault? What kinda law is this. Although I wouldn’t it’s odd to hear a judge say not to

[@ashiajohnson1740]

His mom needs his support

[@TeeBradd]

Lmao I just started the intro and I’m already dying laughing !

[@leogoddess3863]

Why was the judge so snippy with the defendants? You can literally feel the Mothers bad energy through the damn tv/phone! And the girlfriend had every right to call the cops on her for hitting her! She gave the Mom one freebie hit, the second one, CALL THE POPO baby! For whatever reason the judge chastised the defendants for that. Not very "judge like". I guess it would have been better to have a ghetto street fight? Make it make sense. I'm with the son on this one.

[@sdays59]

Because that’s his MOTHER.

[@leogoddess3863]

@@sdays59 And? Blood doesn't give you the right to act a fool and be hateful. That's why parents like that get CUT OFF. Toxic. Because that's his Mom he should take it? Yeah ok. 😆

[@cassandramae85]

The way he blamed the wife at the end kind of annoyed me. I have a feeling that issues were in this family long before he met his wife. Even if she did step aside I don't really see the mother ever allowing repair between her and her son. I really felt for him at the end when his mother said those terrible things to him. So sad. I have three sons and I could never speak to them that way. His mother seems like the kind of woman who is never truly happy or satisfied with anything you try to do to reconcile the relationship.

[@phlushphish793]

What wife?

[@jupitergonewild4933]

Mothers sons are not husbands let them go and live their lives.

[@amandafisher4706]

It really looks like the mother has signs of Alzheimers or Dementia as they are sometimes aggressive and irritated but, that's sad they had her put in jail.

[@Sunshine134chick]

Wow she not playing games she wants her $60 I hear that miss mamas not her shopping 🛒 cart 😂😂😂😂

[@celinas6261]

I don’t see why the mom shouldn’t have gone to jail. Why is the judge making it seem like she was okay For nudging her in the head?

[@NellieKAdaba]

And she's on dialysis too, she might die in jail too.

[@primabellas6856]

What a disgusting, disgraceful "mother". I can only imagine how awful his childhood must have been. I hope he's doing better now and has the love and support of a real family.

[@sosobeautiful7]

Lol I screamed, she probably walks around saying I'm not single too

[@Breakfastwithmo]

Not being a grown woman not knowing the difference in her position 🥴 You're a girlfriend UNTIL you're a wife.

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

Yesssss

[@LovelyCeee]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@alyssahamlett]

true but I dunno why people act like a title changes anything if ur man isn't shit a piece of paper doesn't make u more special

[@Breakfastwithmo]

@@alyssahamlett 😂 k.

[@JustLikeAFlower]

@@alyssahamlett exactly wives get cheated on and left out of decisions all the same

[@GrippingRaccoon7109]

I'm kinda annoyed with the judge onn this one. "Adults don't go to their mothers house.". There's alot of reasons that someone may need to stay with family. I had to because my medical issues go bad to the point where I couldn't be alone. He was getting harassed and got falsely arrested.

[@dadabg8747]

You put a girlfriend before your mother over 60 bucks.... Wow smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lydiebadji4006]

A mother always gonna be a mother there’s nothing u can replace her period 🙏