VLOG: Road Trip to EC | Lumi meets his Grannies | I Need A Hug 🥺

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

You did your best and that's enough! We love you for your authentic self. You are enough! Nozi, our parents went through so much trauma which inevitably lands of children. It's the generational struggle for disadvantaged groups like our black families. At some point you have to choose you - your wellbeing, your now family. We are the "too kind" people who end up depleted because we prioritise others first and our needs last. To make it, we have to CHANGE and be OK with prioritising YOU. The beginning of your BECOMING is the awareness and I think God brought Lumi for exactly that. Do what you can and God will do the rest! Unfortunately you can't be the BE ALL for mother dearest. Everyone needs to do their part, including managing their expectations. A colleague once said that because the parents divorced, he became a clutch for his mom and fulfilled his father's responsibilities. It's quite a heavy burden and we need to charge this with our children. Please take care and be comforted that you went above and beyond for your family and that's enough. Change is not embraced by most but the change is very necessary and beneficial even for parents. On the side note, as uncomfortable as it may be to confront your elders, bullying must be called out for what it is. Nawe ungumntu!

[@luxartesian8971]

Amen. This change will help them both learn to “leave and cleave.” They must in order to allow themselves and their parents to grow.

[@user-ve7ke9pj2z]

❤ thank you. Yoo guyz😢 this is therapy for me ryt now❤

[@nobathembuhlatana-maqetuka6134]

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[@yandie_z]

❤❤❤

[@portiandlovu1209]

l 100% agree❤👍💯💐

[@mulalonemasetoni8924]

Setting boundaries is actually harder than people think, especially if you are dealing with Africans parents. keep enforcing those boundaries it will pay off

[@leratodyani1586]

True!!!

[@Sweetness_g]

Yhooo it’s a battle with my mom! 😭

[@NwabisaSodawe]

Hayi abazali bayafana shame😢

[@paballomotse7554]

True she should enforce the boundaries and stay consistent with them

[@sibongilechabalala9435]

This is so relatable to most of us. And parents are not aware that this could actually end a beautiful relationship between a child and their parent. You're an amazing aunt to Lutho❤

[@matsepoprincess9353]

Ow sorry Nozy banjalo abazali

[@matsepoprincess9353]

Zoba ngathi awumhloniphi xa uthetha naye

[@Sebongile_Baloyi]

I want to thank my mom for never being entitled to me taking care of her. And always being appreciative of whatever I can do for her.

[@triciakekana]

Exactly hle...😊

[@boituchoma1632]

I love this for you sis, but sometimes we are tone deaf to people's experiences because we can't relate.... Read the room sometimes please sis.

[@thembekampati6898]

Tjhoooo me too hey..this is very sad.

[@xolisilendlovu6349]

Same ey😍 I wish all mothers can stop being too entitled 😪, that puts so much pressure on kids.

[@lebomohasoane8633]

My mom too,I’m so greatful

[@msm5887]

When you said “umntanam” i totally felt lo “I’ve never been so happy in my life”… I love you Nozi, you deserve all things beautiful. Lumi came at God’s perfect time and YESSSSSS NGOWAKHO BABY GIRL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. Lutho is very pretty, the dimples 😍😍😍😍😍😍. God bless you Nana

[@asasgqolana7574]

Lutho is SOOOOOO beautiful 😭❤️

[@yonelam9513]

Right!mhle sana ubaby girl❤

[@lusandapeteni3470]

Very❤

[@Chidzy.M]

Way toooooo beautiful sana🥺🥺🤌😭🔥

[@phathiswa_T]

She’s soo beautiful ❤️😍

[@nokopoyana4591]

Yoooh Nozi, my husband and I were having this conversation 2 days ago just before his trip home. We were talking about how our parents and siblings back home have sooo many money expectations when you go home you must literally be loaded and it's so sad because asizugoduka ngoku because of that. My husband was reciting a story about how he walked in ehletywa zi siblings zakhe a while back besithi ebesiyaphi xa engenamali ngeloxesha already he has done more than we had budgeted for qha kufuneka everytime kukho into efunwayo iphume kuye it's really sad but ke kuyedlula Sana and God knows how much you do and uyongeza...abazali bethu the older they grow they become kids and unreasonable don't let it affect your mental health too much uLumi needs a strong and happy mother brush it off sisi uphinde uthathise...sending you hugs❤❤❤

[@babalwasithela8099]

Well done Nozie nd Skhu! You guys did exceptional for Lutho's matric dance. Some kids that have both parents couldn't have such moment, couldn't afford the outfit ,but you guys made sure that Lutho has everything that she needs. Kwande apho nithatha khona

[@maryjanemofokeng8038]

MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

[@lauranhiwatiwa9832]

This one hit different! A mom who is never wrong, no matter how wrong they are, always the victim, toxic, my heart goes out to you. I know how you feel

[@sinothilebuthelezi7878]

It’s the fact that Lutho can’t even seriously lie about blocking her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@zimkithareikeras7577]

Pastor and his wife are a perfect example of “umntu ongena apho angafunekiyo khona”…. Our parents break us daily and it’s not an easy topic, I’m glad you opened up sisi. Many are in the same or similar situation, and it’s just hard 😢. Much love from Norway 🇳🇴

[@rendanirasivhetshele8777]

I think they want her to pay tithe and they expect her to have more money

[@INFJ_9]

“Our parents break us daily” I felt that to the core....kunzima and so wrong of them to do this to us worse they are our parents for crying out loud 😢

[@sinokwandasandisile9380]

OK furniture online ln

[@AkhonaQokolwana-bw3lt]

Lutho's smile..She's soo adorable!

[@pfdintwe]

Those dimples😍

[@NompheloMfundisi-dw4rw]

Say it again ❤️❤️

[@kholofelomoremi6979]

You know what?! So so many of us can relate and I’m glad you’re sharing it as real as it is. Going home is mad expensive. If it’s not the expectations, be it silent or shared it’s the guilt of not doing this or that even when it’s something you hadn’t planned. It’s a lot Shem. Thank you for keeping it real

[@olonah]

I got so emotional because I know exactly what you are talking about. Your mom’s approach is exactly like my mom’s, always right and always the victim. She overlooks what I do for her, especially when I do something for myself she will always say that yena akanakwa. So in 2021 I was unemployed and there was a month I needed her help financially (she is a teacher) and all she did was complain and never helped me, I have since learnt to be selfish and I’m fine being viewed that way.

[@princesszweni7653]

oh yini guys this generational emotional abuse has to end here. yhu umgodi ongagcwali

[@Boitumelo_Lephaka]

This is my mom😢

[@Naizabae]

Be selfish sis yooo reka fela. 💞

[@NeneShabangu]

My mom used to be like that. I spent years using taxis while working because I couldn’t do anything for myself. 80% of my salary was spent on her and my siblings. Until I learned to say NO!

[@vuyisekakani7375]

Sounds like my mom😭

[@its20104u]

Nozi don’t even stress! You are doing well. uMama needs to find her own happiness. You can give her R100000 she would still complain. It’s not even about you. For me my mum stresses me I IGNORE! If she is fed, well clothed, has food on her table and a roof over her head then life continues. As for the pastor’s wife block or ignore as well. Sorry sis!

[@andypatos186]

Wow guys we need prayers.😢😢

[@zimkhithastuurman6555]

So true. Thats what matters qha. Has long she doesnt sleep hungry qha

[@sylviarathele5507]

That "i've never been so happy mtanam" part had me on tears❤️🙏.

[@asemahlemaliza3971]

Same😢

[@nomhleuyapo]

the BEST!

[@MmachueneS]

This makes me emotional because people are so entitled and ungrateful. I personally appreciate your vulnerability, you are narrating a story of many. This is why some people just choose solitude. Some homes are toxic yeyiiii!! Side note: you look so beautiful mmagwe Lumz 🥰

[@Litha_Mosoloane]

Being a mother suits you Sis'Nozi🥺😍

[@zeem6414]

Black tax is real, and it's depressing. I feel you sisi

[@Boity_Lehihi]

And it's a very painful habit from parents to us as kids😢😢😢it is very unfair.. the more you do things for them.. is the more they want from you.. it never ends..

[@lumnandimiya]

The worst scenario of black tax is if it’s coming from inlaws 😐

[@user-yr2mo6jm5f]

Oh marn ngxesi Nozl😢

[@BridgetteDube-fv9ci]

Now I understand why your man is always making you laugh, he knows what you are going through ❤️❤️❤️. Don't feel bad mama

[@officialsamanthaa_]

I can't get over how adorable Lutho is... ngathi una 14 sana ushishi😍🥰

[@NompheloMfundisi-dw4rw]

Adorable girl I wish to see her more ❤️❤️

[@tumelotherapyaesthetics8658]

All we can do is change the narrative for our children and correct our parents mistakes by the way we raise our own. This was so heart felt

[@rachelthupetsi5308]

Today at work I was telling them the same

[@yolobangani5755]

Fully agree. It's so sad though, we somehow have to protect our children from the same people whom one would assume is a safe place.

[@ziyandarini6628]

So true..thts all we can do

[@leratosebetoane8333]

I felt it too😢

[@yondizuzo9444]

💯

[@LifewithHadiyo]

By being vulnerable, you’re healing some of us who are experiencing the same thing but have nowhere to share….thank you. Phepi Nozi….

[@dudumalapane4880]

So true 😢

[@MusaNgqabishe]

True cc❤😢

[@YourRegMom]

Spot on

[@asandamtambeka6740]

I know how u feeling mntase... Mna kunzima nokugoduka sometimes bcos imeko yaseKhaya ifana nalena yakho... Sad part ihv siblings who are not even bothered bona yiSituation leyo... Yhuuu... NOZI kuninzi Shame😢

[@macyblom5719]

Hi Nozi you are not alone alot of us going trough that

[@ovayovavazini]

The way Skhu looks like his mother... What a beautiful vlog sisi thank you ❤❤

[@nqobiledludla9145]

Yoh Nozi 🥺🥺 As a new mom of a newborn I sympathise with you. It’s already exhausting being a new mom now I can’t imagine feeling so emotionally drained from such an experience. Askies sisi 💕💕💕 Thank you for sharing and being raw with us. Some wouldn’t have even posted ukuthi it didn’t turn out the way it did. Siyabonga for taking us through your journey.

[@Concon957]

I can feel your pain Nozi, nothing is as painful as knowing that you do your best but people don't see it, worse your own mum, hugs to you sis.

[@babalwamadolwana2614]

High expectations on your normal salary plus your own family,worst part traveling is expensive so much.

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

You need to set boundaries on family Nozi.. worse part you are a mother now , you have the biggest priority

[@user-oi8en6gr9q]

Yes the is no other way, than to set them. She does alot already, has her own responsibilities now kwanele sisi❤

[@nombusomazibuko4269]

Hey Nozi, I’m also going through the same,best option is to love her as she is and have boundaries ❤The bible says “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23).

[@Astridah_M]

Oh Nozi❤ thank you for being so real and unfiltered. Honestly your experience is so relatable. Our parents need to ease their expectations and start being appreciative and considerate. You did more than enough, your are generous and your big heart is evident. Sending you a big virtual hug 🫂 No need to apologize for being yourself and raw, you are human and I appreciate your vulnerability as most of us are reminded that we are not alone in times when we experience the same.

[@gracemoshesh7598]

Your vulnerability and honesty is unmatched. You are so courageous, strong and pure. Thank you for letting us in and godspeed for you always. You're an inspiration to so many of us. We have your back Sis, stay strong.

[@ThembekaH]

Black tax is causing so many people to fall into depression. God bless you for all you do for your family Nozi and Skhu

[@dot510]

This life is making us fall into depression. It's as unstable as a hurricane, cause even if you not taking care of anyone you still depressed. Sometimes it's even better to care for someone.

[@phozisanciya729]

No need to apologize Nozi. Proud of the authentic human you are. May God comfort you man, He knows how hard you work for your family.

[@aphiwemzondi7]

Yhuuu im looking at that! ♥️♥️♥️

[@zaziwendimeni]

Not me going to check prices of washing machines on takealot . Nozi I am sorry for what you are going through sisi wam. Here you are apologising and if only you knew how much I personally love this vlog. You’re vulnerable, relatable and touching many hearts sisi. Speaking to your mom who has her ways set indeed will not help. The only person you can change in this situation is you cause you’re responsible for your inner peace. “Givers need to set limits because takers rarely do.” Setting boundaries will most certainly rock the boat, however it must be done before it leads to resentment. Your best Nozi is enough, infact you do exceedingly and above which makes me so proud. None of Mommies complaints are your fault. Resistance and upsetting things will be said about you when drawing the line in establishing healthy boundaries. It comes with the territory and let them be so long as Nozi’s internal dialogue is in control. It’s not an easy step to take sisi. Keep shining 🌟

[@Wyntah888]

I’m glad you have a brother who expiriences your mom with you,I feel sorry for anyone who’s an only child going through such severe black tax.Thanks for sharing

[@Ggf44]

😢 words can’t accurately explain iswear

[@ncisept5900]

But parents usually target one child

[@verasixishe4393]

@@ncisept5900 Exactly! The good, hardworking one who seems easy to manipulate.

[@marthasquire7527]

So true, 😢😢

[@asivegaxa9788]

@@ncisept5900 yhuu! So true and the irresponsible one kuthwe "yho ai uyamazi lowo into yakhe yeyakhe" as if wena unyanzelekile wenze yonke lento uyenzayo

[@thobekarolosi2112]

Skhu is so blessed to have a wonderful wife and a great mother to his son. I love the way you bond with Skhu's mother, she is so sweat. Love you gal ❤

[@virginiamaseko6449]

My mom never asks from us, we do things when we can help and that’s a blessing on its own. My husband sort of set boundaries with the in-laws side, he never does something that we cannot afford at the time. When we can help we help and I feel blessed that we don’t have that much pressure. Sending virtual hugs to you Nozi❤

[@UBuntu_Bam]

Oh Nozi, oh Nono Uxolo baby. 🥺🥺🥺 Thank you for your ‘rawness’ and always being authentic. I know how taxing Black tax can be, and unfortunately because of the heart you have, you’ll continue pouring out of your cup despite not being appreciated by those you selflessly give. But I want to remind you that ‘Blessed is the hand that giveth’ - May the good Lord open wide the windows of heaven and pour out a blessing over you and your family that you may not even have enough room to receive it.❤❤❤❤Love you VERY much. Please spend this on yourself- no one else, not even Lumi.😊

[@NozibeleQamngana]

Thank you so so much!

[@sii_tsuki]

uLutho looked stunning for her matric dance the car and the dress was a combo that was communicating, thank you sis Nozi you are so authentic. And I'm sorry about what you're experiencing with your mom set boundries even when its uncomfortable for your sanity

[@bridgettehondo2899]

I hear you sis Nozi. it’s heart breaking when family starts taking advantage of your generosity. Thumbs up for leaving the place for your sanity. God sees everything He will not leave you nor forsake you

[@maphanganomcebo4584]

One thing I love about you is that . Your vulnerable shame . Your authentic and raw .

[@Skolong_sa_lenala.]

The cheering up from other pupils is so beautiful ❤❤

[@phendulwamadikane6014]

Oh my word Lutho is so adorable I love her smile 😊

[@preciousnhlabatsi2513]

Sis Nozi you are too kind,As for me that damn Pastor and his wife,I would have left them traumatized,they would definitely need a therapist after.

[@patiencevhulade1754]

😂😂😂😂This reply, I also need your liver

[@preciousnhlabatsi2513]

@@patiencevhulade1754 Awa Cc people like this are very problematic,they think theyknow everything.Even Mama had complained to them,they should have ask Nozi what is going on Mama is complaining about this and that.Just they have that relationship with Mama doesn't mean they can talk shit to Nozi.

[@ronicakuntes9562]

Wena you are me mose 😂😂😂

[@conversationswithsandiey6983]

😭 the last part got me! Maybe it’s because I relate! May your supplies never ran dry! Also I am never skipping ads again🥹 happy 2 months to baby Lumi! You are such a great Mom! God bless you!

[@yvonnemaciko3768]

That’s what we call a vlog😅 it has its highlights and twists along the way…. Thank you for sharing it all…. I’m sure the minute you went in and looked at those adorable little eyes of lumi 🫠 , he was the light that lifted your heart . Mamie all I can say, what you doing is more than enough, you doing a pretty damn good job. I love you! Stay blessed, stay healthy

[@bayolisemanjezi3501]

Akamhle Lutho,I love her dimpled face🥰🥰😍

[@Wyntah888]

Those cute dimples run in the fam ❤

[@katlehoselwadi]

Lutho is so cute - love her dimples 🥰

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

She's just adorable baby doll

[@LifeWithSiEl]

Well done to the two of you. Sending love and light, family expectations are hectic.

[@stuurmanave]

Oh kodwa you are the best aunt ever😊Lutho is so blessed akamhle mntana ka makazi😍😍

[@anelissabrown2424]

The way Skhu's mom was staring at Lumi though🥺🥺

[@melody_BW]

It's beautiful. She was taking him in 👌👌👌

[@Aviwe.Ntsundwana]

When she starting singing😥😥

[@AcwengileMzimkulu]

She was so in love with her grandchild❤️love it🥰

[@nellyonamolah9731]

Kids really do bring joy 🥹 and they can try you when they’re old enough 🙆🏻‍♀️

[@mmaborekamogelo1818]

Virtual hugs to you Sis Nozi ❤ Gentle Reminder: You are doing more than enough and good sees your heart ❤️

[@refilwemarobela3247]

Thank you for sharing your families and your vulnerability with us. Stay strong for you,hubby and your bundle of joy. You can only do so much ❤❤

[@user-re4ns6ut5n]

It's the manipulation that gets to me, the sneaky behaviour of playing a victim. I can relate Nozi, I know all about what you are going through. Our parents need to do better kodwa yaaz😔

[@saintsinclair]

It's called Borderline Personality d/o, these people manipulate, they are victims all the time. Kuningi! Children who's parents are bordeline go through the absolute most.

[@anatisohum7079]

All can say is SORRY Nozi. I understand you, its ok to feel that way. Love and light to you and Skhu❤

[@lesegophateng1417]

Sending you lots of love and hugs Nozi. I understand where you're coming from; the reality is that no matter what you do it will never be enough. The only thing you can do to remain sane is continue to assert your boundaries. I pray that all the love and warmth you send out to the world comes back to you and your family a hundred fold ❤

[@kaybeekaybee2874]

So relatable. Thanks for your transparency and authenticity. And here’s my hug sissy🤗!

[@candidtalkswithlauvena1835]

😢Seeing how you are treating your niece made me so emotional, and you cardling your baby made me worshipping God within my spirit. I'm busy watching and it is so beautiful. I wish you all the best dearest ❤❤❤❤

[@basetsanamokobo374]

Yoh this reminded me of how selfless and open-minded my mom was with me. From before I turned 18, we would sit down to have a conversation and she'd always listen to and value my opinion, even when it wasn't so easy for her to do so at times. She never asked for money and when I gave (Because I had to) , she would say no a couple of times before she took it. I'm so glad she knew how much I appreciated her for this before she passed on. I'm also so sorry that so many people did not experience this with their parents. I hope we collectively change this reality with our own kids.

[@tebogomkhwebane8727]

You are one of the lucky few ❤

[@asivegaxa9788]

May her beautiful soul rest in peace we need more of her emhlabeni bcoz wow

[@hangwienembaleni]

My mom is also the same❤ I appreciate her for being there for me always

[@dineomotshoeneng1976]

I can relate Nozi. I've learned to be open and honest about my limitations. I cannot deal with toxicity, my mental health is above everything. I pray you realize you are doing well and raise Lumi(and the others that will follow) with enough love to break the generational curses. I live for myself and children's well-being

[@phindilegwala258]

You are so authentic and the stories you are telling are real for most of us. Sometimes this authenticity is needed for us to know we are not the only ones going through these emotions. Well done, you did your best. Travelling alone is expensive.

[@akhonandende3081]

Skhu’s mom🥺she has my heart

[@MommyLindo]

Watching the last part of your video made me so emotional, especially because you are always such a jolly person. I know exactly what you are going through first hand. Unfortunately sometimes whatever we do to please our parents will just never be enough and trying to make them understand "talk to them" is sometimes received as disrespect. This is why I usually tell people that we can never change our elders behavior no matter how much we try, they've lived like that for all their lives, the only thing we have control over is how WE react to the things they do and as cruel as this may sound, for our own sanity, sometimes distancing ourselves from them while still providing for them to our ability is what one needs to do.

[@Kereng.M]

Sending you a virtual hug Nozi! Don't apologize for speaking your truth hey, you are the one who knows how far your budget can reach. You did the best you could do and that was good enough!

[@MISS_Ntuli]

Parents can be toxic sometimes, Sending hugs Sis'Nozi 🥺🥺🫂

[@nosiphobangura6118]

That is true. 😢

[@qawekaziklaas1619]

And understanding their trauma is soo draining bandla ai ai 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@AK-LU]

​@@qawekaziklaas1619you can say that again dear...draaaaaaaining

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

​@@nosiphobangura6118Very true

[@bongigarane4399]

Parents can be frustrating coming to finances. I thought it was only me, I really now understand sibaningi. It's a lot mabakhula. And nje economically things are tight. It's a lot honestly

[@poomieswazi5201]

Parents! If I can start telling my story I will cry for 40 days and 40 nights.. I relate Nozi

[@user-yv6oc5sq9q]

I completely understand how you feel. You did your best, and that's enough. I love your authenticity. That's one thing I love about you. I hope you feel better.

[@preciouschishimba6380]

Been a mom suits u sis nozi lumi is growing fast want u feeding him,his so adorable 🥰💞

[@chibetrucking6635]

I love listening to isi'Xhosa so beautiful to hear even though I don't speak nor understand love all the way from Angola☸

[@noluvombali6911]

Virtual hug to you Nozi. Just know that you are doing your best and giving your all

[@kearabilwesegotso8099]

U r young yet such an inspiration Nozi, yhooo! U handle wat life throws at us with so much grace. I'm definitely ur sister but yet hv learned a lot 4rm u. 💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@mphokutoane5300]

We appreciate this kind of content sis... glad to know we're not the only ones going through black tax, no matter how much we try, it's just never enough for our families... may God help us to be better parents to our kids, that we don't feel obliged to their money, because wow! We're going through alot

[@julietsithole9930]

I can relate to this experience. You are not alone and I’m glad you shared. Don’t apologise. You have paved a way for most of us. We are in this together. Your mental health comes first indeed❤

[@inathi1329]

Sending hugs and love❤🤗. I know from experience how painful it is going through this with a parent. You don't deserve to be treated this way. You do so much already. And you have a little one on top of all this. The thing that has helped me in this situation is to cut contact with my mother because without fail everytime i spoke to her she would ask me for money. She always has a list of things she needs paid for and never asks whats going on with me or if im even coping, let alone have a roof over my head. I only speak to her when i go home and even then i limit how much i interact with her. It will never stop unless you put a stop to it as painful as it is. It will bring you more peace and keep you from feeling like you're losing your mind❤. People will probably judge you for it but it doesn't matter, you come first. You've already given everything you have

[@nangamsofani6143]

I'm so heart broken by the end of this story 😢😢 Phephisa Noz ❤❤❤

[@kaydeeofficially3181]

Hellos mama thank you for blessing us with a lovely vlog ♥️ Cute Lutho

[@kerilengzungu8703]

You're one of a kind. God bless you ❤🙏🎉thank you for the thought provoking vlog.

[@nokwandaduna230]

I totally understand mna Nozi it is absolutely draining dealing with a mother like that. I relate so much to this. Your best is just never enough💪🙏keep strong. I love you

[@kgomotsomokgetle8937]

Sending you unlimited hugs. May god continue to bless you and your family abundantly.

[@AngelNxumalo]

Oh Nozi❤ Sending you lots and lots of virtual hugs. Thank you for sharing with us, we definitely understand. We love you, you are doing more than enough and I hope you never ever doubt that. 🙏🏽

[@cleopatramdlalose-le9ml]

I have the exact same mother, exactly! You are right, you need to save your emotional self otherwise you’ll always question your efforts. Hugs!!

[@ofentsemohlala6570]

Nozi you are such a good story teller Yoh, I pay attention when watching your vlogs❤❤❤

[@thato_mofokeng]

Your best is good enough mama! You’re doing exceptionally well❤

[@dineoselepe3823]

Thank you for the vlog Nozi❤ sorry your trip didn’t go as planned these things happen & it’s okay to feel the way that you are feeling…love and light to you 💖

[@Magdeline_Buhlungu]

I’m so emotional rn 😢. Thank you for sharing sis Noz and also for being your authentic self❤️.

[@KaiSam86]

Bless your heart! Your mum sounds like a character!

[@yolandanomzanga5542]

Sending lots of love and hugs to you sis Nozi for being vulnerable. ❤❤❤. May God give you inner peace as you going through this phase

[@magahalgorre-ndiaye3267]

She is so beautiful and what an amazing aunt Well done Nozi I miss you so much don’t wait too long before uploading videos

[@MrsMaqekeza_]

This made me cry so hard. We are always trying so hard to make our parents happy but this just validates that we never will. This reminds me of my relationship with my mother. 🥺🥺🥺 Thank you for sharing Nozi you and Skhu are amazing and you are doing the best you can. Your mental health is more important honestly. At some point I asked my mother if I should rather stop working cause when I don't have an income maybe that will give us peace. Yhoooo😢 this hit me hard honestly it's too close to home

[@sheilandebele7651]

Same here😢😢😢❤

[@leratosilinga7691]

This is a beautiful and honest reflection and the experience of so many people. ❤

[@hlelelwelukhele7503]

Sisi, you are doing a great job taking care of your family and raising your newborn baby . What you doing is enough, Mama ❤. Sending love ❤️ and hugs 🫂 🤗

[@pretty23048]

What a wholesome vlog, Our Likkle Lumi is growing definitely love to see it, so proud of you guys❤ I was so happy to see our favourite girlie Imi 😊 you did such a great job with Matric ball.. I hope you feel better (sending you virtual hugs Mama)

[@maririndim5599]

We love you Nozi ❤ thanks for being raw and keeping it real ❤️❤️

[@ntsikidladla692]

A beautiful blog and a relevant blog to many of us. I'm proud of you and Skhu for going all out for your family I know the heaviness that comes with it but we always want to make our Mother's happy, kube buhlungu when they don't appreciate and want more.. God's strength sthandwa sam may God abundantly bless you and don't let your cup run dry Sisi feed from what flows from it not the inside.. Take care Mama❤

[@user-ku8lv9ji2f]

"oh mtanam" has become my favourite thing to hear you say sis Nozi😊. Much love❤

[@bongiwesithole9376]

Ncoo... baby Lumi meet his grandmother😍😍

[@niphoqwalela421]

We love you Nozi. It's one of those things where you just do what you can and believe that you are doing enough... ❤

[@lipuomothibeli516]

Feel like hugging you. Virtual Hugs. You doing MORE then even hle. I love the unity between you and your husband. I thank God that my mom understands me. I would have gone crazy.

[@philisiwevilakazi5342]

Thanks for sharing this with us Nozi and sorry for everything you going through especially from your own parent❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TumiMS]

My heart breaks for you Nozi, this is such a recurring theme you keep highlighting and it's just heartbreaking 💔

[@bongiwexulu2091]

Lutho looked so beautiful. Y’all did amazing 🥺♥️