Nrauj Koj Tag Kaj Kuv Siab Lug. 5/18/22

[@jouavue6514]

Tus viv ncaus aw qhov koj ua thiab koj xaiv yog kawg li lawm os, kuv yog ib tug coj li koj thiab os, koj tej lus yog tshaj plaws li peb cov poj niam hmoob mas tus ntsib kev txom nyem zoo li cas los muaj li vim yog cov ttsis muaj peev xwm thiab cov raug tsim npaum cas los peb tsis ris siab li os viv ncaus aw.

[@asianbeauty9962]

Sim me neej no yog muaj lwm tiam mam yeej tsi yug los ua Hmoob tej ntxhais li lawm os Hmoob aw. Thov peb cov niam txiv hmoob pab hlub peb cov ntxhais thiab os. Txhob ua li zaj no os. Chim siab thiab mob siab tiag tiag li os. 😭😢

[@johnbarron4843]

3:20

[@karthor3396]

Niam laus aw koj zaj neej neeg no mam hais tau yog tshaj li os kj yuav txiv ces yuav tau mus ua luag qhev dua xwb o xum nyob ib leeg nrog yus tej me nyuam thiaj yog yus txoj kev kaj siab

[@wisteria4550]

That’s a strong woman. Men think we women are useless without them but it’s the other way around.

[@SierraANDcelica]

Not me, I always respect women and side with you women.

[@canhly5926]

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[@jeff4823]

Some men. Some women.

[@สุรภานิตย์อดุลย์]

@@canhly5926 ะอเ,เ

[@krupaneeleechannel5142]

Niam laus aw...thov koj pab nias txhawb kuv thiab os kuv nyiam koj cov dab neeg heev mloog txhua txoj li

[@colleenchan9872]

Peb cov niam txiv hmoob uas nyiam yuav ntsej muag thiab coj cai mas sij neej no lawv yeej tsis hlub los sis pab peb cov ntxhais hmoob li!!! Yeej yog li koj hais txhua yam!

[@txivyawghmoobchannel8571]

Koj Tham tau zoo Nyob kawg lawm mas

[@tsawbthoj3528]

Kuv lub neej ces zoo Li Zak dab neeg no ntag os nyiam ntsiab teeb aw

[@diannaxiong693]

May bless you sister aw...Thov qhuas koj txawj xaiv tau txoj kev zoo taug lawm mog thiab tus tswv yuav nrog nraim nej cov niam tub mog.

[@heysoniher]

You are correct, sister! You can’t depend on anyone but yourself. When your husband cheats on you and your own parents don’t support you, you have every right to do what is right for you and your children. They will love you because they see your struggles raising them. You’re one of the few who choose freedom over heartache. Good for you!

[@todayistheday3161]

I applaud you for being such a strong independent woman and mother! Hmong culture is incredibly insensitive to the struggles and hardship that the women go through. At the end of the day, what they say don’t matter. It’s just words. All you have is yourself and your children.

[@chuelor179]

Koj tsis nug nws moo. Tab sis cas koj ho paub paub txog nws kawg thiab nab?

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Txiv neej muaj coob kawg tabsi yus txoj kev kaj siab tseem ceeb tshaj

[@maivang5775]

yog kawg peb cov hmoob ces yeej coj tus niag cwj phem lim hiam zoo li no los tos peb cov ntxhais hmoob rau tsm txom zoo li niam hnub niam no los. mas

[@youaremyfriend1474]

Thuam mlooj tag Xav qauj lawm xb o kv lub neej ce kv nrog kv tus txiv ntsev neeg thb nws muaj kv ntsuj rau hau lawv kos taws li ko xb o

[@lavang3143]

Koj yog ib leej niam uas tswj koj lub siab Tus tshaj thiaj tau chaw zoo ib qho yog cov me nyuam zoo thiab

[@leexiong5741]

Hmoob cov lus ntuas mas yog cov lus ntuas dev thiab npua mus ua neej. Tiam 21 who care about these lus ntuas ntawm cov hlwb 75?

[@jackieyunan4899]

Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov tau zoo nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...

[@kaciewanh1986]

Nrog koj tusiab tau tus txiv siab dub💔. Tabsis zoo siab uas tau lub neej kajsiab hnub no nrog koj tej menyuam lawm.

[@pliayang783]

Tu sab tas peb moob siv lub tswv yim phem le ko coj lug duag peb cov ntxhais tuab co lug selfishness cim puab tau ib pob nyaj lawm tsis xaav thim rov lawm. Moob dlev npua cai txhaj coj hab qha miv nyuas le cov lug koj has ko xwb. Tab sis zoo sab koj yog ib leej zoo nam hab txawj xaav. Thank you for your strong leadership for your children and for those women that need to stand for themselves. 👍👍👍😁😁😁

[@cindyskenderovic6806]

I'm in it with you sister aws, koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os. Koj cov lus qhuab nthuas zoo heev li os tus viv ncaus aws, kuv zoo siab tshaj uas tseem muaj tus neeg zoo li ko los qhia qhov tseeb txog hmong lub neej coj tsi ncaj ncees rau peb cov poj niam hmoob thiab ntxhais hmoob.

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

In life we always have choices. I’m glad u found your happiness.

[@shuyingvang8970]

Koj hais yog thiab tab si raug Tsis tas. Koj tus txiv tsis ncaj rau koj tsis yog vim cov lus uas Neej tsas ntuas koj. Yog nws tus yam ntxwv. Koj saib koj cov Neej tsas wis2 lawm

[@kichang1005]

Very strong woman.

[@xeexiong6908]

Tus sister koj zaj dab neeg no koj hais yog tshaj li lawm os

[@Behappy-mj4xc]

Yog kawg li os.... Peb cov uas txiv tsis hlub no los txhob tu tu siab thiab

[@roseanimetor8157]

I give a lot credits to all the divorcees, they all are strong women.

[@phem55]

Tus vivncaus koj xav li kuv niam thiab, yog lub ntiajteb no muaj cov vivncaus li kuv niam neb xwb ces yeej zoo xwb os..thov qhuas koj os mog, you are a smart woman that’s what I call it..

[@vwjanonomous]

Dang all these hmong people have the same life they all cheat or get cheated on divorce and one of the parents wanna come back for the kids at the end. Hear 1 hear them all.

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Now Moob enjoy body more than any things!….ua neeg xwb tiam 21th!

[@sayyenglnt2618]

ຄິດແນວນີ້ຂອ້ຍຊີໄປຮຽນກໍເກັ່ງໆໆໆ ສູ້ໆຕົວເອງ ສູ້ໆ

[@nkaujhmoobtwmzeej4940]

ntaus lus raum dhaus lawm os

[@touyang3403]

Tu siab kawg! Tus niam tsev zaj no tsev tswv cuab kev kawm poob qab.

[@wildnorthchannel101]

Kuv yog ib tug txiv neej kuv kuj dhuav poj niam kawg thiab tiag .

[@xaihlub34]

Cov niam txiv hmoob es hlub tub xwb tsis hlub Ntxhais ces yog thaum yug tau es yog ntxhais xwb ces thov muab pub rau cov neeg ntshaw ntxhais , cia lawv mam hlub.

[@xeevnploojxyooj2376]

Ua taus niam ces zoo. Tab sis txhob khav , Muaj 3 yam khiav tsis dhau 1. Kev laus 2. Kev mob nkeeg 3. Kev tuag Peb yuav tau raug xwb thiaj tag

[@tinatang8649]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@misstaytay9694]

AMEN SISTAAAAA!!!

[@minecraftboy2676]

You are so correct sister!!!! Us women should learn from your words and lesson!!

[@maipha8560]

Wow, I guess this mom learned this lesson too late in the game. The minute you enter this world, that's the start of you trying to survive and learning to be independent. Sadly, far too many parents don't care or know how to teach their children this skill. Your parents are not going to live forever, learn to be independent early on. Plus it's ok to be a rebel especially when it comes to how you want to live your life.

[@maimoua1371]

You are a strong hmong woman .yuav tau xyaum ua qauv zoo li koj Es hmong tej niag dev bua cai tsuj caij 3 cov ntxhais thiaj yuav txawj tuag zuj zus mus os mog God bless your family

[@Loves_GodSR]

Strong woman! Love it. And those kids too. Wish mine were.

[@kristyxiong4140]

I sooooooo HAAATTTTEEEEE stupiddddd OG's that sooo traditional and would rather allow their son or daughter to die instead of save them when they are going to die in their relationship/marriage. Hate these kind of life and people so much. Even now with my parents, I tell them exactly how I feel now whether they like it or not. I feel no remorse or sympathy for anyone who doesn't deserve it, especially the OG's that are super traditional.

[@jiaxiong8991]

I agree with you 100%!

[@leejmuam1]

Omg the struggle. But that's so dangerous leaving your kids by themselves if not adult around.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov txiv dev liam zoo li no ces cov niam tsev ruam thiaj tseem yuav xwb nawb...

[@leelaiyah789]

Koj niam koj txiv yug yeej tsis mob plab, quav tawv tseem mob dua. Yog neej tsa phem npaum ko kuv muab lawv lawb tsis khuv xim li.

[@bchang227]

Me, too! I've done it before. Kuv siab tawv heev hos.

[@leelaiyah789]

@@bchang227 Good on you!

[@yiahawj4789]

Thov txhawb koj li ko mas peb poj niam thiaj tsis poob ntsej muag

[@Ntxhi67]

Hmoob tej laus tej niam tej txiv ntuas lus paj huam xwb yog leej twg txhais yuam kev ces coj mus xav yuam kev. 2022 no teem muaj cov niam thiab txv lub hlwb tseem yog 1975. Tabsis cov coob pauv tag lawm lawv coj kev cais qhuab ahia tij tub tej ntxhas mus ua neej lawm. Glad you're a strong woman. God bless you, your family.

[@beevangyang4053]

Strength is given to everyone who is ready to receive.

[@mskatvang8721]

Good story sis! 👏 Stay Strong 💪

[@minili837]

I love how this woman think. She is so strong and so smart. Such a great exemplary woman for other women who are in a tough situation similar to this.

[@MaiProject2024]

What a strong woman and mother!

[@cutepets-acau5234]

Nyob zoo os phooj ywg

[@kaoxiong6148]

The moment a boy decided to get marry he is no longer a boy but a man. Same goes to a girl. They each must help out each other to have a successful marriage with children. Example, a man must take the initiative to lead his family and love them. He must help with household chores and discipline the children. He must not let alone for his wife to do all the cookings and chores. He must not abuse his wife verbally or physically. He must protect and create a loving environment for them. This a father’s role…sister, I admire your courage to stand up for your right and freedom from such a bad husband/father. Wish you the best and happiness…😩👍🤠

[@สุเนตรแซ่ยะ]

Thov qhuas txog tus niam tsev no lub tswv yim zoo koj ua raug lawm

[@hlubyang4072]

Peb ruam peb xwb neej tsa yeej qhia yog tab sis peb tsis paub siv...lawv ua tub sab lo neej tsa yeej qhia tias cia lawv tub sab xwb koj txhob tub sab nawb...peb ruam peb txiav tsis tau lawv lo lus xwb

[@yinglor8962]

Nej hais tsis yog lawm os..yog cov neej tsa uas hais tias koj mus lawv hlub koj ces koj nyob yog lawv tsis hlub koj ces khiav rov qab tuaj no mas siv tsis tau nawb tus niam tsev aw..koj tsev neej tsa twb yog cov coj zoo lawm os

[@samhmong1521]

She won't be happy either....once you go ....go all the way....shame on him.....

[@douayang2163]

Tiag ntag !!! Lam hais kom lub siab loj xwb pob?

[@minecraftboy2676]

That's why you never go back to love and care about your parents when they are old and useless and it is their karma when their sons end up putting them into a nursing home or senior housing. Good for them!!

[@ScatteredYO]

What a strong-willed woman! Bravo to you.

[@yervang4463]

Salute to this amazing woman of her intrepidity!! You're the greatest of a bravery of Hmong woman that I ever heard of!! Best mama..❤️❤️ May God keeps blessing and watching over you and your family. 😊😊

[@นัทธมนแซ่เรอ]

kuv yog ib tug ntxhai ntsuag niam txiv tuag lawm tab sis kuv zoo siab uas thaum kuv mus yuav txiv kuv cov nus ntuas kuv kuv cov nus hais tias nco ntsoov tias mus yuav txiv yog koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj ces nco ntsoov tias koj tseem muaj vaj muaj tsev nawb mog kuv tseem nyob ntawm no txaiv tos koj txhob ua tej yam tsis zoo nawm mog niam txiv tuag tag los kuv yuav nyob tam niam tam txiv rau koj

[@nconcokoj1080]

Tu siab tshaj li tiam no tuag yuav nco ntsoov yuav g lwj li....

[@kaher9238]

Omg so much announcements.

[@muamxischannel115]

Ca yuav ntshaw nej ua luaj vim nej nyob rau lub teb chaw meka txhawm yuav sib nrauj ta lo nej tsi txhawj vim nej muaj hauj lwm ua tsi zoo li peb nyob nplog teb tsi muaj txog hauj lwm rau peb ua peb lub luag hauj lwm ce yog ua teb xwb yog tsi muaj tu txiv pab yu lawm ce ua tsi tau thiab yog ib qho nyuaj2 kawg xav nyob rau nej teb chaw xwb os 😭😭😭😭

[@ky3079]

You're such a strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@cocopha5778]

Good story

[@payang6882]

Viv ncaus Aw kuv twb zoo li koj thiab muaj coob tug xav2 yuav kuv thiab tab sis ua ib siab tsis yuav txiv lawm dhuav txaus lawm tej zaum cov sab nraud xav tias ntshe yog tsis muaj neeg yuav yus no

[@baugiangthi2563]

zoo heev og niam tij aw

[@leckvongxai4757]

pp

[@kristyxiong4140]

Tus niam tsev tsis txhob tos tos koj cov neej tsa thiab kwv tij yuav pab koj nawb. Koj kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej nawb. Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ua tau ib leej niam zoo hlub koj cov menyuam thiab tu lawv. TAB sis nco ntsoov tias cov menyuam niam no tsis zoo li yav tag los es yuav hlub yus rau yav laus thiab. Yog dhiav tau ib tug hlub koj los kav tsij mus dhiav ib lub neej thiab hlub koj cov menyuam es seb yav laus lawv puas hlub koj. Txhob tos tib neeg qhia koj los yog los CONTROL koj lub neej. Koj yeej meem ua txhua yam kom zoo koj siab mog. Go travel and see the world sister. Don't depend on anyone but yourself. Don't ever depend on your stupidddd relatives, cousins, and families. MANY Hmong culture and people are sooooo dumbbb all the time but you can change your life anytime you want to. So happy and glad for you.

[@myprecious6751]

Sister you made the best choice. You did right and you taught your children well. Amen Sister for great reasoning and staying strong. Your ex husband has no rights or claims. Your children are not in the wrong in not wanting anything to do with him. He gave up all his rights. They do not owe him anything.

[@jiaxiong8991]

Sim neej no hmoob mas kev cai ruam tshaj plaws. Sorry but not sorry! They don’t love the daughters or value them as much as the sons. In this day and age these Hmong traditions need to change.

[@bchang227]

That's why the sons and daughters in laws don't gaf about the parents anymore. They have no where to go so they turn to their daughters. SMH.

[@masaelee8989]

Koj mas yog ib tu zooli os

[@maivang3889]

P

[@hmongremark2686]

Yog koj lub age muaj 50 or up lawm, koj cia li tso tseg txoj kev nrhiav lub neeb tshiab ntxiv vim twb tshuav tsis ntev rau koj lub caij yuav xam phaj rov mus teb chaws Laos lawm. Yog koj tej mi tub mi ntxhais los yog xeeb leej xeeb ntxwm txawm tsis hlub koj los koj cia li txaus siab hlo nyob koj ib leeg.

[@amazinggrace8136]

You lost. You lost bc you lived your life within the Hmong rules/laws. You were groomed to believe a lie and played a game not meant for you to win.

[@hummingbyrde]

Im disgusted at your parents and family for not providing you with any kind of support through your divorce and raising your kids alone, even telling you to drop your kids! They obviously didn’t love you. You did everything right sister by sticking with your kids!

[@a2dazgod539]

Another victim of cultures traditions and religions. The ignorance is inconceivable

[@somman9639]

Koj cov niag neej tsa tsis yog neej tsa yog niag neej ghau xwb os , cas ruam ua luaj muab nws yuam them nyiaj rau me nyuam noj kiag !

[@maicthao9692]

Tab tom tos mloog os

[@mnstk3720]

Niam ntsuab teev koj hais neej neeg kuv xav nploog ntxhua zaj li os

[@avnamo5787]

@@mnstk3720 nws cov neej neeg tsis tsuav zoo mloog. Nws hais cov qub qub nyob tim nlpog ntau xwb. Cov tiam tshiab nws tsis tsuav hais. Nej cov poj niam feem coob nyiam nyiam nws hais tabsi peb cov txiv neej peb tsis tsuav nyiam.

[@mnstk3720]

@@avnamo5787 vlm PEB yog cov laus xwb PEB thiaj nyiam nploog cov neej neeg sub tiam 21 no muaj tej ua rau neeg lub neej haj Yam Liam ces qhov twg kuj nploog tag nrho

[@dinhmua8699]

Njan laug a qhia kj tus fb rau peb es peb tkjab hu tau kj maj

[@pavualee7762]

To to koj cov dab neeh kg li o

[@jouavue6514]

Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg txoj cai yog dev npua cai xwb tsis yog ib haiv neeg coj zoo , nyias ua li nyias siab nyiam xwb, tos tau tsis nrog ntiaj teb muaj teb chaws nyob los yeej yog lawm.

[@chuelor179]

Koj tias koj tsis nug thaub moo li no. Tab sis ua cas koj ho paub paub txog thaub thiab ma los?

[@minecraftboy2676]

As a daughter borne to a Hmoob family, you have to love, respect, take care, and put yourself first before anyone because no one going to do all that for you not even your parents when you are at your worst time of your life. You are one of the strong women like my mom(rip), she never remarry after my dad passed away when she was 25 years old and just like her mother before her(rip). You have to fight for yourself and your children.

[@MissPeachie]

Lecture starts at 32:00. You are welcome!

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

You have a lot of ranting, but these are nothing new to learn. No specific reasons why you and your husband’s marriage is so horrible.

[@lovepeace9635]

Dang May, your advertisement is getting longer and longer, almost 3 minutes before your story. 🤣 Now I just fast forward, ntev dhau lawm.

[@lxklxk9551]

niam tsuab teev kv xav xa kv zaj neej neeg rau koj hai thiab e kv xav lai koj tus Facebook e pua tau o

[@seehmongstory4345]

Your story make me cry

[@TengXiong-eb8tc]

😂 haha koj tus txiv yeej ua tsis yog lawm, tiam sis koj los yeej ua tsis yog lawm thiab… vim koj tseem muaj koj quab hluas nraug yam khoom, qhov no yog qhov ua rau koj lub siab twb tsis ncaj ncees rau koj tus txiv ua ntej lawm… ha😂 neej lub siab ces yeej zoo li no xwb os. Poj niam thiab txiv neej awd….. vim neb tsis txawj ua neej xwb, tsis txhob hais tias yog tej lawv tej lus ntuas. Lawv ua neej ntev duas, yam daiv mo lawv yeej tau noj ntau dai dua koj lawm. Koj xav tias koj paub no, koj muab lawv cov lus ntuas coj los xav zoo zoo es koj thiaj paub luag lub ntsiab…. It’s just my opinion!…😂😂😂

[@nkaujhmoobtwmzeej4940]

ntaus lus raum dhaus lawm os