The $20,000 wedding bride that only lasted two weeks
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@kuvxwb94662 жыл бұрын
I dislike people who set high standards for their kids when they’re liam liam. Tsis paub txawj muag li os.
@nengyang2092 жыл бұрын
This is the result of a rush marriage….may this be a lesson for us all.
@houayang72192 жыл бұрын
She doesn't deserve a good Men like you she'll regret in her life later
@PM-oe5mk2 жыл бұрын
This story is a perfect example of what can happen when you rush into a marriage without really knowing the good, the bad, and the ugly of the person you want to marry.
@jenchan172 жыл бұрын
I agree
@jsbsbjsnsn102 жыл бұрын
Ttt@@jenchan17 v6y4
@MissPeachie2 жыл бұрын
They should have given back at least $15k out of the $20k. It was a blessing in disguise that she left you. Imagine having kids with her, she would probably make you pay for child support and alimony so she can support her other man. She was going to leave anyways so better to do it early in the marriage than later.
@hdhdjdjvdhdh35542 жыл бұрын
Ppppp
@whatheck67972 жыл бұрын
Be thankful that there’s no kiddos involved nor were ya married long. God was watching & protecting you. Happy you found someone to love you back at the end.
@ntsuabxyooj76292 жыл бұрын
Haiv zoo heev os sib txhawb thias os 👍👍👍🌹🌹💐🌹🌺🌹👪
@cneyxiong552 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t deserve to be with you. You should be happy for your lost.
@hmoob-usalauj39342 жыл бұрын
Brother. Lesson learned. Next time, ask around before you marry the person, hluas nkauj or poj nrauj. Someone somewhere knows something, that's the hmong community. Dnt jump into marriage.
@DejNtab2 жыл бұрын
Hmoob lub neej uas muab tej tub-ntxhais hluas rab qau thiab lub PIM (PAUM) coj los muag noj muag haus txhua lub neej ntawm txhua xeem Hmoob txhua tiam txhua zaus thiab txhua lub sij hawm thiab UA PLAUB ntug...muag pes tsawg zaus los tsuad lub PIM TSEEM zoo AIM, tsoob thiab TXIAG nrog zuaj nws 2 lub mis nruj nreem thiab PHEV txuas NTSOS ZOO NYOB TSHAJ PLAWS!
@wamengxiong32942 жыл бұрын
Lawv aw nyb rau lub neej tiam no tsi hai tu laus tu hlua li nawd yog ke niam txiv saum txaj saum chaw yu tu ua txiv tsi paub txog txoj ke sib hlub saum txaj saum chaw ces poj niam yeej tsi khesyu li lawm nswj cov phooj ywg aw
@ItsYou22 жыл бұрын
They hid her past so they should refund something back. Smh how embracing......
@hmoobkatemiddleton-not37112 жыл бұрын
I never liked the idea of bride price and dowry in this day and age, but that money can go towards a house, a nice vacation or whatever’s convenient!
@logankue96272 жыл бұрын
The same thing can be said about extravagant weddings and that's not including the dowry.
@MoonlightGuardian92 жыл бұрын
Same can be said about the wifes family wedding gifts and money.
@hmoobkatemiddleton-not37112 жыл бұрын
@@logankue9627 I have also never liked the idea of lavish weddings but I won’t judge ppl that want an expensive wedding bc they can do whatever they want. I just don’t like the bride price and dowry ordeal bc it has been problematic for many centuries.
@logankue96272 жыл бұрын
@@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711 what kind of problems are you referring to specifically?
@logankue96272 жыл бұрын
@@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711 If you're referring to the problem in the story. The problem was a beyond the dowry. The woman would've left on her own accord. Without the dowry the groom's side would've been left with nothing. Even if the "refund" was paid in full the guy and his family was still hurt. If you ask me it's a matter of principle more than anything.
@suzannechang67042 жыл бұрын
Neb khub txij nkawm no ces hlub ntxov hlub rov Xwb ,tej niam tej txiv los muab zoo siab dhau qhov zoo lawm ces thiaj li muab txoj kev uas nej cia siab no rhuav kiag tsis tas li los nej twb tsis noog txog tus ntxhais keeb kwm ib qho li ,nej tsuas xav tias yog ib tug ntxhais kawm ntawv siab Xwb ces yuav zoo heev lawm no ,tab sis nej yuam kev loj heev li os ,,
@95leefamilychannel332 жыл бұрын
Wow so sad for you brother! She’s regret it one day. Good luck!
@kawakiyang70492 жыл бұрын
20k goddammit I want my REFUND, I be Hella mad af
@charlesher.95082 жыл бұрын
Wow cas hauv ntiaj teb no yuav muaj tej tug ntxhais zoo li tus no kuv ntseeg lawm hais tias koj yeej yog tus poob peev vim mus khaws luag qub thiab poob 10 txhiab dawb2 coj los puag pw ob week xwb los kuj ho txhob tu siab thiab muab xav tias vim yus g paub thiaj yuam kev tau ob week li ntawv ho zoo dua poob tsheej 40 tawm phav li cov mus poob rau cov ntxhais tim ub g au dab tsi los no mas. Hehehe mus yuav laib xwb lub neej yuav g txog twg niaj hnub no ntse twb npam2 nkawv qhov siab phem dag koj yog g tuag siab g tsim nyog los yuav koj tau ob weeks.
@lovetoplaywithyou35302 жыл бұрын
It’s ok. She will regret it later
@jackieyunan48992 жыл бұрын
Cov hluas nkauj es kawm ntawv siab siab ces yeej liam li no ntag hos...
@ellysavaj5656 Жыл бұрын
To let someone love you that much and go through all that trouble just to turn around and leave without a word, that’s cold.
@kellyxiong873922 күн бұрын
Bad in laws. I can't believe your in-laws hid the truth from the start, and the mom blamed when you called and asked around. Dont be sad. It's a blessing in disguise that she ran away.
@xayvuestorychannel74912 жыл бұрын
Zoo heev li os
@laxiong99222 жыл бұрын
Brother, Poj niam lub siab, yog nws hlub koj tiag ces nws yuav qhia txhua yam rau koj. Yog nws tsis hlub koj tiag, ces nws lub siab zais hauv pug qab thus hiav txwv. Txhob tu2 siab rau koj lub neeg tag los. Koj twb tau $10k rov qab. Koj twb tau puag nws pw tau 1+ week. Feem coob tau $-0-, los tseem rau foob los yog raug kaw.
@tsis-k-koj2 жыл бұрын
The elders have the saying "pom nquab ya tsis pom nquab zes" goes for both parties. You have to date and investigate at least a year or 2 to know how they really are before getting married.
@missysmart86202 жыл бұрын
Zoo siab koj nhriav taus ib tug hlub los nrog koj uas neej kom sov siab lawm thiab os.
@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib46772 жыл бұрын
#Yog kiag li Maiv xyooj zaj nkauj Hlub ceev ceev tau kev seev😂
@wamengxiong32942 жыл бұрын
Nej paub lawm los kuv twb pom dua los lawm cob niam txiv e tawm rooj plawv e sib tuav tes raw ma yeej tsi kav laus
@chaovang40222 жыл бұрын
Twb tau nws lub veg 2 week thiab 10 txhiab lawm zoo tshaj ntev mam khiav ces tsis tau dab tsi
@Zeb12452 жыл бұрын
Bridal endowment fee (bride price): groom’s side gives money to the bride’s family. Dowry: bride’s family gives money/assets/property to groom’s side. And Jesus Christ! 10k+ is the average bridal endowment fee for traditional Viet and Chinese families (and even higher if the family is famous). I hope that most Asian cultures step away from bridal endowment fee like the West have done with the dowry practices that was commonly practiced before the 1900s.
@pojnom57242 жыл бұрын
Agree. I don’t wanna pay for dil nor want money for my girls. 😆
@lmao543212 жыл бұрын
Yeah we like the meeka way now....where the wife side pay for the wedding haha
@Zeb12452 жыл бұрын
@@lmao54321 it don’t exist in the Asian culture unless you married a South Asian woman
@hmoobkatemiddleton-not37112 жыл бұрын
@@lmao54321 lol! Good luck trying to find a babe whose family run like that. Meska ppl these days go half and half for the wedding, unless the women comes from a wealthy family where her dad covers everything.
@aher012 жыл бұрын
I think there can be a misconception of how you want to interpret the bride endowment. I truly believe it’s not consider it selling off your daughter but gaining a son and your son in law showing appreciation for you raising his wife. I have 3 girls and my daughter is married out of raise her husband gave us a monetary gift as a Thank you for raising her for him. We didn’t ask him but it was a sign as respect. Every parent has their opinion on how they want to broach the subject..
@nynyhawj10172 жыл бұрын
2 weeks better than 3 tag kis! 😁
@159nightangel2 жыл бұрын
These days, our hmong girls are worse then other race.
@m.muaslis69022 жыл бұрын
Your statement is irrelevant. Not ALL Hmong girls are worse than other races. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@logankue96272 жыл бұрын
It's a matter of perspective and expectation. They only seemed worse because of your expectation. I'd say Hmong people have become more westernized or modernized, but I wouldn't necessarily say one is worse than the other. Take for example I'd say there us an increasing number of Hmong men who don't know how to butcher pigs or cows.
@nkausaeteurn59292 жыл бұрын
@@logankue9627 True. Can’t hold standards and expectations for one gender when the other gender can’t do the expected Hmong duties.
@leevue78032 жыл бұрын
Niag poj laib ntawm nyiam kom muab nyaim kom caj dab ntsuab tag ne ces koj tsis nyaim ces nws thiaj khiav lawm
@maivlee822 жыл бұрын
10G refund. I would have made them give back 15G back.
@OK-cp2sp2 жыл бұрын
c'mon even Walmart has a better return policy, 90 days full refund, chyna made products. hmong girls in US are damaged goods, i guess restocking fee do applied at highest fee.
@maivlee822 жыл бұрын
@@OK-cp2sp LOL, yog!! :P
@m.muaslis69022 жыл бұрын
Definitely her loss.
@zhangthor9122 жыл бұрын
Shocking! All the similarities. I hate to be prejudice but this behavior must be inherent to this particular clan or what. Speaking from personal experiences.
@hmongremark26862 жыл бұрын
Koj xaiv xaiv ces zaum no koj thiaj tau ntxhais paiv los yog koj xuas xuas ces zaum no koj thiaj tau tus ntxhais poj ruas.
@nancymoua49822 жыл бұрын
xav kom cov niam txiv tiam tshiab no hloov txoj cais ua tshoob ua ko txhob sau nqi kim kim thiab tej niag poj laib yawm laib tsi reliable. ua neej twb tsi nyog qhov lub tshoob loj loj.
@xaiyang73662 жыл бұрын
Tsim nyog lawm laiv cov yawg yuav ntxhais xeeb ntxwv nas ua ib zaug neeg xwb yeej tsis phem nawb nyiaj khwv tau niam mos ab xeeb ntxwv khwv nyuab heev li os
@MrsKervang Жыл бұрын
Wow she made Kim Kardashians 72 days marriage to Chris look like nothing 😆
@chiamoua70842 жыл бұрын
Neeg tsis yuav poj thaum ntxov hyob laus 2 ces tus twg Los kheeb luag qub xwb ces kawg li Los mas tiam no na pab tub siab kawg .
@souayang53602 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tais ko yog niam tais xiam hlwb xwb es yus tus ntxhais twb tsis tsim txiaj los tseem yuav ua ib lub tshoob loj2 tsau thiab txaj muag dhau os
@RasamiMoua2 жыл бұрын
❤
@kevinher40102 жыл бұрын
Qhov tseeb tiag koj tus poj niam ntawd thaum tsis tau yuav koj nws twb tau mus nrog nws tus hluas nraug laib ua niam txiv txaus nkaus es muaj menyuam tsaub. Yog li thaum los yuav tau koj, koj yog ib tug tub txim txiaj tsis txawj hlub nws saum txaj chaws li nws tus hluas nraug laib ces nws thiaj xum muab koj tso tseg.
@jenchan172 жыл бұрын
Keep this video and good sharing. Will she went back to her ex. Later her life is not getting better. It will become worst. Not to rush getting married. 😐
Wow what kind of bull crap is that??! Only 10k back. Bad in-laws.
@JohnLee-rz3bj2 жыл бұрын
Better than 0
@alexjohnson94992 жыл бұрын
She's just into the bad boy type. 10k+ lesson. Could be worst.
@fongvang32592 жыл бұрын
Nyab $20,000 kav 2 weeks xwb. Ha ha ha ha! Ntxim hlub tas tas.
@lisjaylie48272 жыл бұрын
Love is patience, no need to rush love, live your life, and let love find you in unexpectedly ways. Because if it's ment to be thankful she/he will be the one. Because it'll grow and not complicated.
@ScarletQue2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I dated my hubby for 15 yrs before married him.
@Justerrificthoughts2 жыл бұрын
She didn't even have the courtesy to say bye or give you an explanation. She deserves to be with a criminal. Total B.
@amazinggrace81362 жыл бұрын
Was a 20k wedding supposed to had given you a more successful marriage?Lol
A bachelor degree is not easy. It is something to be very proud of. Why would you say that? You probably don't even have one.
@MissPeachie2 жыл бұрын
@@leevue1920 I agree. Any degree or certificate is an accomplishment. It means you have perseverance to make it to the finish line.
@denamoua72622 жыл бұрын
In usa you lucky if you get any $ back.in laos if girl initiate divorce she is obligated to give full refund back to groom.
@hlubforlife2 жыл бұрын
When buying used things, they're "As-Is". There's no guarantee that it's going to be good. In your case, you're NOT the first one to break her virginity. Somebody did. Like the saying "first timer always the BEST".
@magicalunicorn58532 жыл бұрын
This guy is a bit chauvinistic and he did only like her for her looks in such a short period of time. It’s not her fault that he never slept with anyone or had a girlfriend. So she had a relationship before him but he’s going to hold that over her! Ridiculous. If it was a male, won’t matter but because she’s a woman? Double standard. He rushed into a lifelong relationship without know her. She thought she was going to get over her ex by marrying him. Neither loved each other because they never had a foundational based, a vision of life together, a love that was the same.
@hlh93932 жыл бұрын
Tiam 21 no tsis ntseeg cov tub / nyab. Peb hais tsis tau lawv. Cia lawv mas mus them los ua credit them. Zoo los yog lawv phem yog lawv.
@nragxyoojchannel72652 жыл бұрын
Ntshai dhau qhov nyab $20,000 es tsi kav tsawg hnub
@toosay2002 жыл бұрын
MaoDay twb yog MaoDay na, ua cas cov niag OG ntawm tseem pheej yuav hias meej moj meej moj quav dev dabtsis na?! Shiaj tiag2! What a f'ing disgrace!
@kristyxiong41402 жыл бұрын
You seem to be a nice guy! Come to me & I’ll teach you what Love is. I’m single & free. No need to rush or get into marriage. Just be good friends, hang out, companionship, & then when life is ready for us, anything goes lol. J/k Glad you found true love in the end. Everyone has to learn before they can grow wiser.
@diannaxiong6932 жыл бұрын
Yuav yuam kev maum meb ces zoo li no ntag los mas.
@huexiong3942 жыл бұрын
10k better than nothing
@yingvang12762 жыл бұрын
Your in laws shou pay back 3/4 of it not just half. They hid the truth and 2 weeks of marriage is nothing.
@mayas082 жыл бұрын
Goddamn!
@Mloogzoo2 жыл бұрын
20k.... 10k per week. Expensive.
@sileighty852 жыл бұрын
Basically he paid 10k to sleep with her for 2 weeks
@tusiabmoua91692 жыл бұрын
TXHOB TU SIAB OS MOG.....KOJ TUS NYAB KO NKIM NYIAJ XWB OS.... CAS TSIS MUAB $15,000.00 KOJ TUS NPAUJ KO XUM MUS NOJ QUA, HOS TSIS XUM NOJ XUA, NIAM TAIS NKAWD UA TSIS NCAJ RAU KOJ LAWM........ TIM KOJ HOM YUAV SAI 2, KUJ MUS NUG ZEJ ZOG MOJ..
@leepaoyang56702 жыл бұрын
Maum dev liam2 ko kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm ntawm koj lub neej mus mas