Nyab $20,000 Kav 2 Week Xwb 03/09/2022

[@kuvxwb9466]

I dislike people who set high standards for their kids when they’re liam liam. Tsis paub txawj muag li os.

[@nengyang209]

This is the result of a rush marriage….may this be a lesson for us all.

[@PM-oe5mk]

This story is a perfect example of what can happen when you rush into a marriage without really knowing the good, the bad, and the ugly of the person you want to marry.

[@jenchan17]

I agree

[@jsbsbjsnsn10]

Ttt@@jenchan17 v6y4

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

I never liked the idea of bride price and dowry in this day and age, but that money can go towards a house, a nice vacation or whatever’s convenient!

[@logankue9627]

The same thing can be said about extravagant weddings and that's not including the dowry.

[@MoonlightGuardian9]

Same can be said about the wifes family wedding gifts and money.

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

@@logankue9627 I have also never liked the idea of lavish weddings but I won’t judge ppl that want an expensive wedding bc they can do whatever they want. I just don’t like the bride price and dowry ordeal bc it has been problematic for many centuries.

[@logankue9627]

@@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711 what kind of problems are you referring to specifically?

[@logankue9627]

@@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711 If you're referring to the problem in the story. The problem was a beyond the dowry. The woman would've left on her own accord. Without the dowry the groom's side would've been left with nothing. Even if the "refund" was paid in full the guy and his family was still hurt. If you ask me it's a matter of principle more than anything.

[@ntsuabxyooj7629]

Haiv zoo heev os sib txhawb thias os 👍👍👍🌹🌹💐🌹🌺🌹👪

[@houayang7219]

She doesn't deserve a good Men like you she'll regret in her life later

[@suzannechang6704]

Neb khub txij nkawm no ces hlub ntxov hlub rov Xwb ,tej niam tej txiv los muab zoo siab dhau qhov zoo lawm ces thiaj li muab txoj kev uas nej cia siab no rhuav kiag tsis tas li los nej twb tsis noog txog tus ntxhais keeb kwm ib qho li ,nej tsuas xav tias yog ib tug ntxhais kawm ntawv siab Xwb ces yuav zoo heev lawm no ,tab sis nej yuam kev loj heev li os ,,

[@MissPeachie]

They should have given back at least $15k out of the $20k. It was a blessing in disguise that she left you. Imagine having kids with her, she would probably make you pay for child support and alimony so she can support her other man. She was going to leave anyways so better to do it early in the marriage than later.

[@hdhdjdjvdhdh3554]

Ppppp

[@whatheck6797]

Be thankful that there’s no kiddos involved nor were ya married long. God was watching & protecting you. Happy you found someone to love you back at the end.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Brother. Lesson learned. Next time, ask around before you marry the person, hluas nkauj or poj nrauj. Someone somewhere knows something, that's the hmong community. Dnt jump into marriage.

[@cneyxiong55]

She doesn’t deserve to be with you. You should be happy for your lost.

[@kawakiyang7049]

20k goddammit I want my REFUND, I be Hella mad af

[@ItsYou2]

They hid her past so they should refund something back. Smh how embracing......

[@wamengxiong3294]

Lawv aw nyb rau lub neej tiam no tsi hai tu laus tu hlua li nawd yog ke niam txiv saum txaj saum chaw yu tu ua txiv tsi paub txog txoj ke sib hlub saum txaj saum chaw ces poj niam yeej tsi khesyu li lawm nswj cov phooj ywg aw

[@DejNtab]

Hmoob lub neej uas muab tej tub-ntxhais hluas rab qau thiab lub PIM (PAUM) coj los muag noj muag haus txhua lub neej ntawm txhua xeem Hmoob txhua tiam txhua zaus thiab txhua lub sij hawm thiab UA PLAUB ntug...muag pes tsawg zaus los tsuad lub PIM TSEEM zoo AIM, tsoob thiab TXIAG nrog zuaj nws 2 lub mis nruj nreem thiab PHEV txuas NTSOS ZOO NYOB TSHAJ PLAWS!

[@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib4677]

#Yog kiag li Maiv xyooj zaj nkauj Hlub ceev ceev tau kev seev😂

[@charlesher.9508]

Wow cas hauv ntiaj teb no yuav muaj tej tug ntxhais zoo li tus no kuv ntseeg lawm hais tias koj yeej yog tus poob peev vim mus khaws luag qub thiab poob 10 txhiab dawb2 coj los puag pw ob week xwb los kuj ho txhob tu siab thiab muab xav tias vim yus g paub thiaj yuam kev tau ob week li ntawv ho zoo dua poob tsheej 40 tawm phav li cov mus poob rau cov ntxhais tim ub g au dab tsi los no mas. Hehehe mus yuav laib xwb lub neej yuav g txog twg niaj hnub no ntse twb npam2 nkawv qhov siab phem dag koj yog g tuag siab g tsim nyog los yuav koj tau ob weeks.

[@ellysavaj5656]

To let someone love you that much and go through all that trouble just to turn around and leave without a word, that’s cold.

[@chaovang4022]

Twb tau nws lub veg 2 week thiab 10 txhiab lawm zoo tshaj ntev mam khiav ces tsis tau dab tsi

[@95leefamilychannel33]

Wow so sad for you brother! She’s regret it one day. Good luck!

[@missysmart8620]

Zoo siab koj nhriav taus ib tug hlub los nrog koj uas neej kom sov siab lawm thiab os.

[@tsis-k-koj]

The elders have the saying "pom nquab ya tsis pom nquab zes" goes for both parties. You have to date and investigate at least a year or 2 to know how they really are before getting married.

[@xayvuestorychannel7491]

Zoo heev li os

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov hluas nkauj es kawm ntawv siab siab ces yeej liam li no ntag hos...

[@jenchan17]

Keep this video and good sharing. Will she went back to her ex. Later her life is not getting better. It will become worst. Not to rush getting married. 😐

[@chiamoua7084]

Neeg tsis yuav poj thaum ntxov hyob laus 2 ces tus twg Los kheeb luag qub xwb ces kawg li Los mas tiam no na pab tub siab kawg .

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

It’s ok. She will regret it later

[@kellyxiong8739]

Bad in laws. I can't believe your in-laws hid the truth from the start, and the mom blamed when you called and asked around. Dont be sad. It's a blessing in disguise that she ran away.

[@nynyhawj1017]

2 weeks better than 3 tag kis! 😁

[@wamengxiong3294]

Nej paub lawm los kuv twb pom dua los lawm cob niam txiv e tawm rooj plawv e sib tuav tes raw ma yeej tsi kav laus

[@Zeb1245]

Bridal endowment fee (bride price): groom’s side gives money to the bride’s family. Dowry: bride’s family gives money/assets/property to groom’s side. And Jesus Christ! 10k+ is the average bridal endowment fee for traditional Viet and Chinese families (and even higher if the family is famous). I hope that most Asian cultures step away from bridal endowment fee like the West have done with the dowry practices that was commonly practiced before the 1900s.

[@pojnom5724]

Agree. I don’t wanna pay for dil nor want money for my girls. 😆

[@lmao54321]

Yeah we like the meeka way now....where the wife side pay for the wedding haha

[@Zeb1245]

@@lmao54321 it don’t exist in the Asian culture unless you married a South Asian woman

[@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711]

@@lmao54321 lol! Good luck trying to find a babe whose family run like that. Meska ppl these days go half and half for the wedding, unless the women comes from a wealthy family where her dad covers everything.

[@aher01]

I think there can be a misconception of how you want to interpret the bride endowment. I truly believe it’s not consider it selling off your daughter but gaining a son and your son in law showing appreciation for you raising his wife. I have 3 girls and my daughter is married out of raise her husband gave us a monetary gift as a Thank you for raising her for him. We didn’t ask him but it was a sign as respect. Every parent has their opinion on how they want to broach the subject..

[@Justerrificthoughts]

She didn't even have the courtesy to say bye or give you an explanation. She deserves to be with a criminal. Total B.

[@laxiong9922]

Brother, Poj niam lub siab, yog nws hlub koj tiag ces nws yuav qhia txhua yam rau koj. Yog nws tsis hlub koj tiag, ces nws lub siab zais hauv pug qab thus hiav txwv. Txhob tu2 siab rau koj lub neeg tag los. Koj twb tau $10k rov qab. Koj twb tau puag nws pw tau 1+ week. Feem coob tau $-0-, los tseem rau foob los yog raug kaw.

[@thaoprincess]

Wow what kind of bull crap is that??! Only 10k back. Bad in-laws.

[@JohnLee-rz3bj]

Better than 0

[@nancymoua4982]

xav kom cov niam txiv tiam tshiab no hloov txoj cais ua tshoob ua ko txhob sau nqi kim kim thiab tej niag poj laib yawm laib tsi reliable. ua neej twb tsi nyog qhov lub tshoob loj loj.

[@HaibTshajHaib]

Xum nrauj thaum tshiab zoo tshaj.

[@hmongremark2686]

Koj xaiv xaiv ces zaum no koj thiaj tau ntxhais paiv los yog koj xuas xuas ces zaum no koj thiaj tau tus ntxhais poj ruas.

[@leevue7803]

Niag poj laib ntawm nyiam kom muab nyaim kom caj dab ntsuab tag ne ces koj tsis nyaim ces nws thiaj khiav lawm

[@Fromspam09]

10G refund. I would have made them give back 15G back.

[@OK-cp2sp]

c'mon even Walmart has a better return policy, 90 days full refund, chyna made products. hmong girls in US are damaged goods, i guess restocking fee do applied at highest fee.

[@Fromspam09]

@@OK-cp2sp LOL, yog!! :P

[@zhangthor912]

Shocking! All the similarities. I hate to be prejudice but this behavior must be inherent to this particular clan or what. Speaking from personal experiences.

[@hlubforlife]

When buying used things, they're "As-Is". There's no guarantee that it's going to be good. In your case, you're NOT the first one to break her virginity. Somebody did. Like the saying "first timer always the BEST".

[@souayang5360]

Tus niam tais ko yog niam tais xiam hlwb xwb es yus tus ntxhais twb tsis tsim txiaj los tseem yuav ua ib lub tshoob loj2 tsau thiab txaj muag dhau os

[@kevinher4010]

Qhov tseeb tiag koj tus poj niam ntawd thaum tsis tau yuav koj nws twb tau mus nrog nws tus hluas nraug laib ua niam txiv txaus nkaus es muaj menyuam tsaub. Yog li thaum los yuav tau koj, koj yog ib tug tub txim txiaj tsis txawj hlub nws saum txaj chaws li nws tus hluas nraug laib ces nws thiaj xum muab koj tso tseg.

[@amazinggrace8136]

Was a 20k wedding supposed to had given you a more successful marriage?Lol

[@denamoua7262]

In usa you lucky if you get any $ back.in laos if girl initiate divorce she is obligated to give full refund back to groom.

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

Funny. Bachelor xwb es qhuas tias nkawm ntaw siab siab lol

[@nagseeaggerrsst1667]

compared to now, its not but back in the days, bachelor degree means a lot.

[@pojnom5724]

😆

[@flickeringfire7098]

Nyab kawm ntawv siab siab, tabsis twb tsis paub qab teb qaum teb nyob li cas🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 mus nyob ib lus Zos txawv xwb tsis tau paub lawm. Ntse heev ntse heev! 👍

[@leevue1920]

A bachelor degree is not easy. It is something to be very proud of. Why would you say that? You probably don't even have one.

[@MissPeachie]

@@leevue1920 I agree. Any degree or certificate is an accomplishment. It means you have perseverance to make it to the finish line.

[@xaiyang7366]

Tsim nyog lawm laiv cov yawg yuav ntxhais xeeb ntxwv nas ua ib zaug neeg xwb yeej tsis phem nawb nyiaj khwv tau niam mos ab xeeb ntxwv khwv nyuab heev li os

[@alexjohnson9499]

She's just into the bad boy type. 10k+ lesson. Could be worst.

[@MrsKervang]

Wow she made Kim Kardashians 72 days marriage to Chris look like nothing 😆

[@lisjaylie4827]

Love is patience, no need to rush love, live your life, and let love find you in unexpectedly ways. Because if it's ment to be thankful she/he will be the one. Because it'll grow and not complicated.

[@ScarletQue]

Yup. I dated my hubby for 15 yrs before married him.

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

Ntshai dhau qhov nyab $20,000 es tsi kav tsawg hnub

[@fongvang3259]

Nyab $20,000 kav 2 weeks xwb. Ha ha ha ha! Ntxim hlub tas tas.

[@159nightangel]

These days, our hmong girls are worse then other race.

[@m.muaslis6902]

Your statement is irrelevant. Not ALL Hmong girls are worse than other races. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@logankue9627]

It's a matter of perspective and expectation. They only seemed worse because of your expectation. I'd say Hmong people have become more westernized or modernized, but I wouldn't necessarily say one is worse than the other. Take for example I'd say there us an increasing number of Hmong men who don't know how to butcher pigs or cows.

[@nkausaeteurn5929]

@@logankue9627 True. Can’t hold standards and expectations for one gender when the other gender can’t do the expected Hmong duties.

[@leevue7803]

Koj mus yuav yuam kev niag ntsej poj laib tuag aws ntawm es thiaj poob nyiaj

[@m.muaslis6902]

Definitely her loss.

[@diannaxiong693]

Yuav yuam kev maum meb ces zoo li no ntag los mas.

[@hlh9393]

Tiam 21 no tsis ntseeg cov tub / nyab. Peb hais tsis tau lawv. Cia lawv mas mus them los ua credit them. Zoo los yog lawv phem yog lawv.

[@hmoobthoj67]

So she a 304 huh

[@toosay200]

MaoDay twb yog MaoDay na, ua cas cov niag OG ntawm tseem pheej yuav hias meej moj meej moj quav dev dabtsis na?! Shiaj tiag2! What a f'ing disgrace!

[@yingvang1276]

Your in laws shou pay back 3/4 of it not just half. They hid the truth and 2 weeks of marriage is nothing.

[@huexiong394]

10k better than nothing

[@magicalunicorn5853]

This guy is a bit chauvinistic and he did only like her for her looks in such a short period of time. It’s not her fault that he never slept with anyone or had a girlfriend. So she had a relationship before him but he’s going to hold that over her! Ridiculous. If it was a male, won’t matter but because she’s a woman? Double standard. He rushed into a lifelong relationship without know her. She thought she was going to get over her ex by marrying him. Neither loved each other because they never had a foundational based, a vision of life together, a love that was the same.

[@kristyxiong4140]

You seem to be a nice guy! Come to me & I’ll teach you what Love is. I’m single & free. No need to rush or get into marriage. Just be good friends, hang out, companionship, & then when life is ready for us, anything goes lol. J/k Glad you found true love in the end. Everyone has to learn before they can grow wiser.

[@leepaoyang5670]

Maum dev liam2 ko kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm ntawm koj lub neej mus mas

[@tusiabmoua9169]

TXHOB TU SIAB OS MOG.....KOJ TUS NYAB KO NKIM NYIAJ XWB OS.... CAS TSIS MUAB $15,000.00 KOJ TUS NPAUJ KO XUM MUS NOJ QUA, HOS TSIS XUM NOJ XUA, NIAM TAIS NKAWD UA TSIS NCAJ RAU KOJ LAWM........ TIM KOJ HOM YUAV SAI 2, KUJ MUS NUG ZEJ ZOG MOJ..

[@Mloogzoo]

20k.... 10k per week. Expensive.

[@sileighty85]

Basically he paid 10k to sleep with her for 2 weeks

[@RasamiMoua]

❤

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Nws mag laib plev lawm ces nws yeej tseg tsis taus

[@baothao1728]

Nej twb tsis tau ntaus nws ciav nws es tim $10,000 xwb tsis fair kiag li os. Cas muaj tej tus ntxhais zoo li no thiab.

[@denamoua7262]

Quas ntxhais sau kom raws teb chaws xwb.sau ntau dhau ua rau vauv thiab cov inlaws hold a grudge rau yus tus ntxhais luag haj yam tsis hlub

[@Faifferz]

Don’t be too desperate to get married 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@shawnlee8352]

Bad guy dug her guts out better. Good guy lose..

[@logankue9627]

Well of course what happened the dude sucked, but it worked out better for him in the long run.

[@mayas08]

Goddamn!

[@yengyang9783]

Use car will not last long! So next time buy a brand new car.

[@a2dazgod539]

Ha ha ha. Let the sheeps be sheeps and the wolves be wolves. If you are a sheep, your life is going to be difficult.

[@muas7603]

Literally makes no sense… she did him wrong.

[@npavdaj]

Goooooooo queens 👸 we got a new record of 2 weeks, it’s usually just 3 toemallo brave and strong 💪🏽 and independent woot hoot 🫡