ObGyn Reacts: ICONIC Sex Ed From My Texas Childhood

[@susanheld]

Me looking at the title: "I can't believe she remembered anything about her video, the only thing I remember from mine was a uterus pancake"

[@emilieloveskiwi]

The only thing I remember about mine is a black and white outlined drawing of a woman's body.

[@dietotaku]

i don't think we even got to watch a video, i think they just told us we'll bleed once a month and handed out pads

[@SewardWriter]

I didn't get sex ed.

[@taliaasims]

@@dietotakuthat’s what I remember 2004 😂

[@taliaasims]

I wasn’t born in 2004 I was in 5th grade then. I’m 30 now. To give context 😂

[@lisalu7343]

True story: I started my first period at a friend’s house (in the 80s!). My friend had her mom help and later the entire family INCLUDING the brother that was 2 years older and popular (die) came into my friend’s room to “welcome me to womanhood”. The embarrassment 😊.

[@ashleysmith5001]

Oh no! I would have been talking to my about personal boundaries.

[@NathalieCwiekSwiercz]

Oh no, I would have been DED

[@TheCalucita]

I've moved to a different continent for less 😂🥴

[@EmblaWanderer]

OH. MY. GOD. The whole family united with one purpose in mind: trolling 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sa_na_26]

So embarressing at the time, but makes great memories and laughs today 😂

[@arcticxabyss]

that uterus pancake actually looks kinda hard to make. not gonna lie. 😂

[@wildsheepc]

You can tell by the curled edges and lack of grease on the cooking surface that the 'pancake' was made elsewhere, and probably went through a few hours of shooting once plunked down on set. 😆

[@3DJapan]

​@@wildsheepcYes I was noticing that they didn't actually show her pouring it and then it looked dry.

[@michellemahoney8126]

I thought it looked more like a uterus crepe😂

[@iamthamon1]

If pancake art is still a thing I hope the person that will do this is female however that would be a challenge like no other😅

[@arcticxabyss]

@@wildsheepc that and I'm sure it probably looked kinda odd when it was made the first time.

[@LittleBlue001]

This was the video I watched in 4th grade. I remember the pancakes. I do remember that once I got my period at 14 a lot of women told me about their first period. My poor grandma had never been told about periods. She got hers at school and snuck out and walked home because she thought she was dying. She was living with her grandparents. Her grandpa was the only one home and had to tell her what was happening. He was really kind to her and explained she wasn't dying and sent her to the store to get what she needed and put it on his tab. The lady at the store showed her what to get and how to use it. This was in the late 1940s. I was so glad I didn't get mine at school.

[@hannahk1306]

This sounds horrific! I genuinely don't even remember getting my first period, except a vague memory of my mum explaining that the brown discharge in my knickers meant it was coming soon. Then, my next period memory is discussing them with a friend about a year later. I think it was probably the fact that I actually had proper information from school before I started, so there's no traumatic incident embedded in my memory. Although, I did have some horrific periods later on so maybe they just overshadowed my first one! 😂

[@Nan-59]

Wow, what a story! Just think of all the girls throughout the ages that all of a sudden start bleeding and have no idea why.

[@dietotaku]

it wasn't my first one but i do remember getting my period unexpectedly while at school and having to spend the entire bus ride home with my jacket tied around my waist so no one would see the huge blood stain

[@MHSMagicLuver]

My mom (who is 50 now) also thought she was dying because she wasn’t taught about it. So she made sure we knew early.

[@LittleBlue001]

My grandma told my mom early so she wouldn't be scared, and my mom told me when I was 8 for the same reason.

[@AmberKelly82]

My sex ed in 1995 in Texas ( 13 years old) was just them giving us a care pack of pads and deodorant. I became a mom at 14. I can't believe their sex talk didn't help lol. Teen pregnancy was so prevalent in my smallish town that they had a school just for teen moms that had a daycare in it. I started that school when my baby was 6 weeks old. Edit to add: they also told us about abstinence, even saying we would die if we got pregnant. I was extra terrified when I got pregnant 😢

[@KxNOxUTA]

Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry you and the others went through this. You'd think ppl would notice there is a problem, when teenage pregnancy is so common you've gotta organize a whole separate school!! What in the heavens what that mess of a community????

[@pixelapocrypha]

What, you're telling me that telling a bunch of kids not do something didn't work? Color me shocked lol. ETA I feel you on the terrified of pregnancy thing. That never went away for me, I don't know that I'll ever be able to go through it because of all the fear mongering abstinence only teaching instills.

[@AmberKelly82]

@@KxNOxUTA you would think so! That same school is still going and my son is 26 now. I have 3 kids, I took it upon myself to teach them sex ed because it's still not being taught as far as I know. My kids are all grown now so maybe things have changed. But I highly doubt it 😔

[@AmberKelly82]

@@pixelapocrypha I know, right??!! Who would've thought only teaching abstinence would backfire? I ended up getting married at 15 and having 3 children by 22 years old. I'm 40 and a grandma already...Birth control should be readily available instead of fear mongering smh.

[@utej.k.bemsel4777]

One shouldn't think that USA is a first world country!🤦‍♀️

[@xxlamortebellaxx]

This is the one my school showed. I always found the pancake part a little uncomfortable. And to this day every time I make pancakes I think of this

[@susanheld]

Me too! It turns out this video is my Roman Empire lol

[@jayare6804]

We all burst out laughing when the mom perfectly poured the reproductive system. 🤣 Even our teacher was like, "yeah just go with it."

[@ashleysmith5001]

@@jayare6804 I also thought that too when I watched it. I sat there and wondered, how did the mom make that so perfect on a whim?

[@kristinzastrow6910]

I remember this too lmao 😂 and think of it when making pancakes

[@ChrisSunHwa]

Haha! How appetizing!

[@karri8998]

When the dad said congratulations when the girls walked in I thought he was congratulating her one getting her period like the mom did. I was dying inside for a moment for the girl, lol. I liked how in the end she was excited to tell her mom. I was horrified and did not say anything and bleed everywhere as no one had talked to me about periods in any detail. You mama Doctor Jones are going to be that mom at your child's party if one of their friends gets her period at your house. So glad those guys tracked down your video. It is so funny that some poor soul out there who collects pancakes videos is going to look at that and be mortified, so great!

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Nothing wrong with the Dad knowing though!

[@BreezyBlank]

Same. I thought that too

[@BreezyBlank]

@@RedRoseSeptember22but it is kinda weird (in my opinion) for the dad to know to the point he’s like “congratulations” before the own girl’s mom & dad probably even know. Lol. Plus she might not want him to know. It doesn’t matter if it’s normal, not all people want their business being told to everyone without even asking permission. If I were the mom, I would’ve offered to let her use my phone to call her parents or tell her I’d call them (or text them) if she would rather that instead. And I would most definitely let her tell the people she wanted to tell. I wouldn’t have told her friends even if one was my own daughter, I’d let them have their own convo (like they did in this video), and if I wanted to tell my husband, which is her friends dad, I would’ve said, “Is it okay if I tell Mr. Drexel?” (Or what have you.) Menarche is a complicated time for a child with a lot of hormones fluctuating and emotions, and so much. I would want him to know only if she wanted him to, or I had permission to tell him, seeing as he’s the friend’s dad, and not her own father. Even if things are normal, some people would rather have their business kept private especially concerning something new or possibly sensitive to them, and some people prefer to tell others things themselves- they wouldn’t want people talking on their behalf. It’s better safe than sorry. It’s also just the respectful thing to do, especially when you don’t know if she has past trauma, etc. Not everything needs to be shared with everyone around them/every person in the same house as they are/every soul within a 25mi radius, the second it happens 24/7. Lmao 😂

[@jessyg17]

I really thought that was what the Dad was saying too

[@daniellespencer5026]

I THOUGHT THAT TOO!! 😂

[@maryhulen7277]

I had no sex education in my public school. If I ever asked my mother, she’d tell me to read the Life Cycle Encyclopedia. It was treated as something embarrassing and to not be discussed. It was a totally different story for my daughters. My periods were so awful that I was grateful for menopause.

[@ushere5791]

ugh--yes, i was told to read life cycle library when i had questions. all those books, which were great for what they were, gave me was a mechanical understanding of what was going on...not an organic, people-based understanding...which was what i was trying to ask about.

[@dietotaku]

yeah i wonder how MDJ would feel knowing that they don't do sex ed in school in texas anymore either. i had sex ed in 5th grade, but my daughter just finished 5th grade and they never had a sex ed class at all. no discussion about puberty or anything. and she's already gotten her period, i can only imagine what kind of carrie moments are happening in the homes of uptight christian conservatives who don't want their children knowing anything about their bodies.

[@Loralie571]

Same - and my Mom was as nurse. Treated more as a laundy issue than anything.

[@desirosethorne4429]

​@@nitsannachtom6660And today that book will probably be banned because it's "inappropriate" for children and contains "sexual content" I don't understand how teaching someone how their body works, why it happens, what to expect, and what to watch out for is wrong.

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

You didn’t miss much. They only talk about periods to girls because of deep misogyny in this country.

[@durabelle]

When the mum sent the dad to the shops I first thought it was just an excuse to get him out of the way so they could talk about "girly stuff" in peace. Was very surprised when he returned with the pads, and it wasn't a big deal after all! (Although maybe he was still sent away on purpose too, would probably be way more embarrassing for the girls to have a friend's dad present on a period chat.)

[@cggc9510]

My dad gave me the sex ed talk. He was a nurse. Still weird as hell. But I learned a lot and it was still much better than this video. We watched it too.

[@raeandringa7260]

Having him leave to give space, but still be involved via purchasing period products, seems like a solid middle ground!

[@sharonwiller]

I got my first period days before I was to visit my best friend who moved up north. I almost didn’t go because I was embarrassed and didn’t know how to handle it. Her mom reassured me she would help take care of me and helped me get necessary sanitary products when I ran out (I was with them for about a week and hadn’t packed enough). I’m so thankful for her mom and mine for encouraging me and being there for me during such a vulnerable and big step in my adolescence. If I hadn’t gone on that trip then I would not have been able to make our last life long memories together before she passed.

[@Nan-59]

Awww. Lifelong friends are certainly treasures! ❤❤❤

[@SanniSandyBunny2000]

😢 I'm so sorry 😔😞, my condolences.

[@lindaarmstrongjackman9788]

I figured Mrs Drexel is a nurse. That would likely make that girl feel more comfortable to talk to Mrs. Drexel. These girls already know more than a lot of Republican lawmakers. As a retired nurse who graduated in 1974, I think this is a pretty good video. My daughter would have been about the same as these girls 👍👍

[@omiai]

i started puberty really early (aged 8) and although i'd read up on it and spoken to my mum about it, the whole thing was mortifying to me (and i had a lot of bad experiences surrounding my period at school), took me into my late 20s before i was comfortable discussing it with anyone. once i was staying at my grans house overnight, and got my period, so i'd left a little blood on the sheets, but i was too scared to say anything to her. but obviously she saw it, and she very kindly took me to the bathroom and showed me where she kept her pads, she didn't have period pads, as she was in her 80s, but she had these bigger incontience pads, and she said i was welcome to use them whenever i wanted. this actually turned out to be really useful, because my periods were so heavy, normal pads were basically useless, so my mum would get some of my grans pads, and that made things to much better. but it was so nice of her and she didn't make me feel guilty for dirtying the sheets or anything. my gran was a lovely woman anyway, but this made me love her even more.

[@ChrisSunHwa]

She sounds like a wonderful lady. 🥰

[@caterscarrots3407]

Oh my gosh, using an incontinence pad as a menstrual pad, I have a similar thing, but the other way around. My periods are relatively light, but my bladder leaks more when I'm on my period, like I very rarely leak when I'm not on my period, but when I'm on my period, I generally have at least 1 day of bladder leaks. I have legit peed out a full bladder's worth of urine into my menstrual pad before because yes, my bladder leaks sometimes just get that bad on my period. It absorbed it all and I of course changed it right afterwards. So my menstrual pads, which aren't really designed with fast flow in mind, double up as incontinence pads.

[@BroccoliAndCheese01]

I would have let wolves maul me before going into the house to talk to my friend’s mom about periods.

[@MsPeabody1231]

😂😂😂😅

[@barbaramadvin4068]

For the most part I agree with you. There's only one friend's mom I who was open about talking us girls about womanly things. She was an RN at a ob/gyn and would make sure we knew at 13 what not to do to end up pregnant. I didn't even feel comfortable talking to my mom about this stuff. Learned most things from my older sister.

[@vlmellody51]

My mother was brought up to think that talking about sex and the bodily systems that are involved was a mortal sin. It made discussions on those issues incredibly stressful for her. I learned about menses from an article in "Young Miss Magazine". It was really interesting and informative. I left my copy of it in the bathroom open to the beginning of the article for my mom to find. She read it and came scurrying up to me, telling me to read it and to come to her with any questions when I was finished. (I wanted to know what a menstrual cup was. They weren't readily available in 1972.) Within a couple of months of having my periods, I declared that menopause couldn't come soon enough for me. My flow was ridiculously heavy, and I had terrible PMS before it started and migraines afterward. Thanks for the video, MDJ! It was a lot of fun! ❤

[@pricelessprebolus]

I honestly wish we watched something that brought up discharge. My mom accused me of being sexually active because of just regular discharge, so that was fun and I started doing my own laundry.

[@Cait491]

How did your mom not know that was normal? I'm sorry.

[@pricelessprebolus]

@Cait491 I have no idea. My only guess is that maybe something about mine was different from what she thought was normal, and she just jumped to conclusions.

[@KatMTeach]

I really wish this too because I was paranoid that I had an std in like 6th and 7th grade even though I wasn’t remotely sexually active. I was terrified to ask anyone because I was so embarrassed. I would go to the bathroom at school just to wipe and my teacher would ask why I had to go so much and I just felt so scared and alone! I so wish someone told me that was normal!!

[@kearstinnekenerson6676]

I’m so sorry about that as a mom of a teen daughter I am so sorry that happened

[@Lainlein]

When I got mine I thought I was incontinent 😮

[@no-ah3185]

They actually provided many more tool than you gave them credit for. They demonstrated how to broach the conversation with an adult who isn’t your parent, with friends and with a parent. These are often conversation young people find themselves unsure about how to start. Of course it depends on how the topic is relayed to them at home or school, but it is nevertheless still very helpful.

[@toxicginger9936]

I definitely saw this in 5th grade health class. Core memory unlocked! And YES! We totally got that kit in school.

[@meganryle08]

It makes perfect since that this is what they showed us in our Texas elementry schools. Just enough information to make sure you dont panic when you get your period, but not enough that you actually inderstand the reproducive system.

[@LilJbm1]

Do you need to understand and know at that age when you shouldn't be having sex? Knowing your own body and that it's made for making and carrying children should be enough until you are old enough and have life enough to be doing the deed. I'm all for kids knowing risks etc but I'm definitely pro abstinence

[@LeafHuntress]

@@LilJbm1 You should scroll a little bit lower to the comment of @AmberKelly82 to see what an uninformed comment you just made. Please educate yourself a bit more on what actually works & what doesn't.(hint; that'd be abstinence)

[@spiffymouse3848]

​​@@LilJbm1Having knowledge isn't some key that unlocks sex. Kids either will or won't have sex regardless. The only difference is that the ones who will would be more educated about preventing STDs and pregnancy.

[@BreezyBlank]

They also showed us this in NC

[@BreezyBlank]

@@LilJbm1well that’s completely idiotic. YES YOU DO. You are literally part of the problem. Telling kids not to have sex and teaching abstinence-only, to be celibate til marriage, purity culture, etc, is proven NOT TO WORK, and NOT TO PREVENT TEEN/CHILDHOOD PREGNANCIES. Jfc 🤦‍♀️. We may be humans but we are still animals. Menarche signals that a body is now a maturing body, and one that will be able to soon support life soon, or at that moment (some people have gotten pregnant before their first period, because they just happened to have sex during their first ovulation, where if they hadn’t of had sex, they would’ve had their first period two weeks later.) People mistakenly think you cannot get pregnant until you have already had your first period, due to this outlandish myth. But anyways, the only thing PROVEN to prevent teen pregnancy is to teach where babies come from, teach them about puberty and periods and changes in one’s body during those, teach about male and female sex hormones, teach them about reproductive health, teach them how babies get there (not just that they get there BUT what is needed to occur to create life), teach them about birth control and birth control methods and the efficacy of each one, teach them about safe sex and how to prevent STDs/STIs/pregnancy, tell them where they can go to get free condoms, teach them how to properly use a condom, teach them how to track cycles/periods so they can easily keep track of what’s going on and see an issue when it arises or maybe be able to put two and two together especially if they have other symptoms as well, teach them when they should ultimately go for testing for sexually-transmitted anything and where they can go, teach them about women’s health and cancer screenings and when the first one should be for each unique situation (what age) and all that, oh and that there’s also 3 holes down there (on average at least-barring something congenital, etc) and which hole is for what… many women say they had no idea they had 3 holes til they were an adult! Which is absolutely unacceptable. Do you like misinformation? Do you like teen pregnancies? Are you pro-life or pro-choice?!? If you’re pro-life and think that cut and dry about shit, then you’re an evil person. What, do you wanna withhold info hoping people get pregnant but they cannot abort bc of laws, so then there are babies popping out everywhere instead of proper sexual education being taught?! Because abstinence is a joke. You’ve heard about soaking, which is something within the LDS church and community, right?! That’s the lengths these kids to thru. Smh. Sex is normal. Just because we are smarter than other animals and can talk and all, doesn’t mean that we don’t have the same primal instincts and needs that occur in other animals…. Because guess what? *WE DO!* If teens were taught the truth and not shamed it would help. That’s backed by evidence-based medicine and studies, etc,… It sounds like you HAVE A LOT OF EXCUSES. A lot of excuses to where you want to blame everyone except who should be blamed. Students are children who are being led by us adults. It 100% our responsibility to teach them appropriately. It sounds like you WANT teens to get pregnant as a PUNISHMENT for not abstaining from sex. And that’s messed up as hell. It’s cruel. How about teach them well? With the truth? Oh that’s right, how dare they be smart enough to fully understand what they’re doing, so they can make actual informed consent when it comes to sex and things of the like?! How dare they question us and not listen and follow blindly?! “If they had just listened and never had sex….” Oh fuck out of here with that blaming ass bullshit. Be a better adult and role model. And please don’t have kids of your own!!! ❌🙅‍♀️🆘 You’re despicable. And clearly don’t understand the human body, brain, or anatomy or you’d be smarter than that. Babies and STDs/STIs shouldn’t be used as punishment, EVER. GTFOH, such ignorance is ludicrous! And to think… you are proud of that?!! EWWW FOR REAL! 🤢🤮🤧🤭

[@msjkramey]

I got my first period at a sleepover with my best forms at my grandmother's house, so she barely had anything, just one ancient bulky pad. I had gotten PMS-like symptoms about a month before, so my mom thought it was coming then and had talked to me about it, but she hadn't gotten me supplies to carry around yet. I remember it was so much "blood" that it actually woke me up from how uncomfortable it was My little sister on the other hand, used tampons right away and didn't tell anyone that she had it for months because she saw all the fuss made about me getting it and she wanted none of that lol

[@hannahk1306]

I was fully expecting this to somehow be a different uterus pancake video 😂 This was surprisingly good for the time and place, but definitely a little slow to only cover the basics of periods. However, it was the start of Mama Doctor Jones so we can thank it for that!

[@lindabenny4454]

I started my period while at a hospital out-patient appointment back in about 1969. I was with my dad & the only toilet paper in the hospital was Izal which was like tracing paper! I told my dad & he gave me his unused hankie which was cotton. Luckily for me we had always been able to talk about stuff so I wasn't embarrassed. He made it all alright.

[@katrianem2124]

Aww this is so sweet

[@Am3lia77]

That’s so cute 🥰 My dad always buys pads for me

[@mellie4174]

That's true chivalry there! What a wonderful dad!

[@jourdyngroman]

that is so unbelievably sweet and wholesome

[@KxNOxUTA]

We learned that you're the most adorable OBGYN nerd out there and that's EXACTLY what we love about you! Thank you so much, you were so sweet!!!

[@blugreen123]

It totally makes sense that they guys from Found Footage Fest could get their hands on it! I just want to say "pancake sex Ed video" is an awesome phrase!

[@sandreaandrea]

That video is 100% better than what I remember watching in 5th grade in 2000. The narrators for the video I watched were birds, and my gym teacher ended up confusing me further by saying we were lucky to have pads with adhesive, because she explained she grew up with those pad belts with the clips, which I had never heard of before then. lol

[@tinkeramma]

I had a video with birds too. I already knew everything being taught which was good because I'd have been confused by the birds.

[@MaineCoonMama18]

I had a book called The Care & Keeping of You from American Girl. It was the perfect way for me to learn about periods and body changes because I didn't have to ask someone my questions. When I got my period, I just grabbed a few of my mom's tampons (the kind with no applicator, that was a learning curve).

[@tinkeramma]

I got this for my oldest daughter after we'd had a lot of conversations about periods and puberty. She really appreciated having a trusted source to learn more and it covers all sorts of things from hygiene to mental health. There's even a part 2 now for girls who had already started their period. She and I just talked about it recently and she agrees... it's about time to pass it on to her 7yo baby sister.

[@KiboSanti]

That book was my sex ed experience, too! My mom was just like: "read this, ask me if you have any questions". I didn't have many questions until a few years later, so I think it was perfect for the time

[@Panda72021]

Yup, that was a large part of my sex-ed/puberty education. Of course my mom was super casual about things and we had previous conversations about puberty, periods, and how to use sanitary products. So I felt pretty well covered. Then endometriosis announced itself and things got complicated all over again. And I had to educate myself on that, which was much harder.

[@katekine1992]

Omg I had this too!!!!

[@beabee_taylorsversion]

OMG! I have told the story of seeing this video to so many people and they look at me like I am nuts! I saw this in 96/97...I knew it actually happened! Core memories unlocked, I am dying.

[@midoriya-shonen]

You know, I think the most important thing this video teaches is not any of the actual facts it presents about periods. It's the attitude the characters have towards them. The teens and parents are so casual and open about them, and treat it like a normal part of life, because it is. They know they don't have to be ashamed or feel gross about it. This is great behavior to model for kids, and I'm glad this video took the time to make itself feel nonchalant instead of big and scary.

[@CaptainNamikaze]

When that music started I expected it to turn into a musical as well, it had that kind of vibe to it. 🤣 PS it had a lot of good information and most importantly, no shame. I remember a lot of girls at school being ashamed of their periods and others making fun of girls who had it, which I always thought was asinine since these girls were experiencing those changes as well.

[@laughingalltheway8399]

I absolutely saw this in elementary school in WA. We even had our own period party where we all brought in some sort of treat to share and then we used those treats to build models of the reproductive system. My teacher was...creative. haha!

[@nellieharper2572]

MDJ: I'm... not sure how you could have learned much from this video but it was fun. P&G: -made a period centric educational video during a highly stigmatized time, to the best of their ability to normalize the experience of periods - am I a joke to you? MDJ: ..... Yes, but I appreciate you none the less lol

[@pleasestopscreaming]

Yeah but when have periods not been stigmatized? They only in the past year stopped using blue liquid in pad commercials 😂

[@asympti2185]

I had what I thought was fairly decent sex ed, but this video taught something I didn't learn back in the day (about the clear/yellowish discharge you can get before you start getting periods), that would have saved me half a year in 7th grade thinking I had cancer or something.

[@rachelkristine4669]

P&G is notorious for not recording everything. Example? The soap, Guiding Light. They have NEVER made it available on disc. It's sad. Best soap ever made! 😢

[@exnedu1738]

Oh my god!!! This uterus pancake has haunted my dreams for 20 years!!

[@Khunai.]

Oh my gosh this is awesome! I'm so glad you found the video! Who knew maybe giving kid some decent (although sparse, they did good when they provided information) information on the way things work would define their entire career 😛 I love that you got this little hit of nostalgia today. You're by far one of my favorite doctors on the internet.

[@toyyatoy]

Ps, mamadoctorjones, it was your videos that made me comfortable enough to get my recommended preventative treatments and I just had a radical hysterectomy due to cancer. So, good job! Also, camping in the actual woods by a lake, I was 12 I think, I woke up middle of night to my mom yelling, our dog barking, i was dead tired I thought she was yelling about squirrels. I walked out of my tent with a flash light, she’s pointing to the trees where a 3 foot long trail to the beach is. I walk to the head of it, and at the other end of 3 feet was a bear. I looked at it, saw it was just getting into our cake container, and I turned around, told my mom, “it just wants the cake, it’s fine.” And went back to bed 😂🤣😂🤣 I am now 28 and have 19 rescue animals of various sorts. Me and nature are one 😂

[@acoelomate2984]

Man I so appreciate them talking about discharge; that was the one thing I was never taught about and the only context I heard about discharge in was with std’s so for the longest time I thought I might have chlamydia despite never having anything close to resembling sexual contact 😭😭😭

[@kathleenuclear]

THIS IS WHAT I WATCHED IN 6TH GRADE!!! there was a big joke about who in the family ate the uterus pancake

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I didn't start my periods til I was 18/19yrs old, my younger sister started hers before me, I asked her for advice!! I had no fertility problems like the doctors thought, I had 6 kids.

[@leggyegg2890]

That’s so fascinating!! If you don’t mind me asking and if you’re happy to answer - did drs have any theories as to why you started so late if you don’t have fertility problems? Or was it just one of those random things?

[@jelatinosa]

You are so lucky. This is how it should be.

[@dreaminginjapan]

Wow that’s incredible! I’m so jealous!! Mine started when I was ten 😭 and on new year’s eve no less

[@summermazur3064]

When the friend's dad raised his mug and said, "Congratulations", I thought he was referring to the first menstruation, and that Mrs. Drexel had spilled the beans! 😂 🥞

[@dempseydoodle2010]

I missed out! I was in a christian school so the only thing we learned about sex was that it was bad and we shouldn't do it. The closest thing to this video I remember seeing in the 90's was an episode of "Blossom" that I think they had a cake where they drew a uterus on it and talked about 1st periods.

[@LittleBlue001]

Blossom blossoms episode 2. She imagines Phylicia Rashad is her mom and she uses icing to demonstrate the menstrual cycle on the cake. 😆

[@missnaomi613]

@@LittleBlue001 I wish I could remember that episode...

[@LittleBlue001]

@@missnaomi613 The episode is on KZbin right now. Not the best quality, but still watchable.

[@ezekielrayfield1512]

as a conservative Christian, I think the main problem with a lot of abstinence based sex education is that it doesn't go into the biological, pragmatic or statical detail of why sex outside of marriage is bad and kinda just has this single-minded sex is bad and don't do mindset that leaves alot of people confuse about sex and they end up making bad mistakes out of ignorance.

[@captainmorgan514]

I went to Catholic school and we were shown this 😂 but also abstinence stuff

[@AndreaD.]

I got to watch a horrible video from the 1960s in the early 1980s! It showed the pads that had the belts with them! Thin maxi pads were a MAJOR development in my young teenage life! Be thankful for that you got to see this video!

[@magathax1587]

Oh those belts with the untrustworthy little hook thingies. It was almost easier to get the pads from the machine and just safety pin them to your underpants. And adhesive strips? Awesome. The only thing better was the day I discovered ibuprofen, when it was finally approved for use for cramps.

[@pleasestopscreaming]

My mom told me about the belt contraption!

[@rachel8623]

My mom told me about the belts. I am so grateful for adhesive, especially as I’m not a tampon fan.

[@Hippiechick11]

When I was in 6th grade, we had nuns teach sex Ed. Which meant they had us watch a film that was scientific and yet not really telling us anything. This was in the 1960s. Wish I'd had your videos during my teens and early 20s. Keep up the good work!

[@brendalong3852]

I started in the 60's. No one talked about it or told me much, if anything, about menstruation. For years I missed everything my first day as I flowed so hard nothing could contain it. I was told this was normal. I joined the military at 18 and was placed on the pill to regulate and lessen the flow. Then I underwent test to make sure there was nothing wrong. By the time my daughter went through puberty we had a plan but she never had a problem. I do believe she saw this video in school.

[@beckiehubley5798]

I waited a few months because my periods were really light the first 3 months. The first normal period, i told my mom i had to buy tampons. My daughter started using tampons right away, she actually practiced inserting a tampon months prior to getting it...despite me telling her not to. She switched to a cup a few months in.

[@felixhenson9926]

oh damn, she tried putting a tampon in when she wasn't on her period?

[@dietotaku]

omg, my mom was the one who wanted me to start wearing tampons, but i was so terrified and confused i made HER put it in the first time. like i was getting a gyno exam lol. it was uncomfortable and felt like my body was trying to push it out, and i still have that feeling when i try to wear tampons today. i just stick to pads and period panties/swimwear.

[@Reticence9zen924]

There's an obs and gynae PA/physician assistant Diana in the Pink on KZbin and her menstrual hygiene video on products said she wishes period pants were around when she first started cause it would have been easier to just put underwear on as a preteen rather than worry about pads etc.

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

@@MHSMagicLuver It's technically grammatically correct. I KNOW there's an official job-title "Physician Assistant", BUT without capitalizing it to deliberately clarify (since there's really no rule insisting on it) she's describing an assistant TO the physician or physicians, and apparently (according to the post) there appears to be more than one Physician... SO more or less, she's THEIR assistant, thus the plural possessive, Physicians' rather than Physician's... BUT the apostrophe (and the poster) has done NOTHING wrong. It really CAN work either way, but as long as we're delving into grammar nazism here, I'm game to split hairs... OR do you actually have something FRIGGIN' USEFUL to add to the thread??? ;o)

[@Reticence9zen924]

Edited now. :) Only some medical schools in the UK offer a PA course so most Brits won't have heard of the profession. It's not a common supporting role to doctors here either; GP surgeries have nurse practitioners and pharmacists with prescribing rights to help them usually.

[@kmichelletaylor]

I am waffling about sharing the uterus pancake with my med school class - we're studying Reproduction and these videos are great!

[@LeadTrumpet1]

Yeah, Proctor and Gamble were responsible for those kits. I also got the kit in 2000. This is the only sex ed my district covered. That and pictures of STIs in high school health. New York State doesn’t mandate comprehensive sex education so my ultra conservative district had the viewpoint that “sex doesn’t exist” and therefore didn’t cover anything beyond puberty except for HIV/AIDS (that was a fun one for them to explain without mentioning sex). We also had a teen pregnancy problem while I was in high school.

[@saralynn518]

I know the excitement of wanting to watch a video from childhood to see if it still gives you the same joy! It does and it doesn't lol. I need to find "Read All About It" and watch that again!

[@mollymccann5043]

I ALSO saw this one, central Virginia, 1994ish. The only part I remember is the dad bringing home pads and "Well, yeah, he's the one who went to the store." Zero recollection of pancakes or the sleeping outside. And yes, we got the purple box.

[@ChrisSunHwa]

That was... actually kind of sweet. They were all so supportive.

[@valeriereinhard2790]

This was the video I watched!!!! My mom actually borrowed it from our local education service district so we could all watch it at home, and she laughed so hard! We were all bewildered watching what we all now refer to as “The Pancake Video”. So glad you covered this weirdo video. Hahaha

[@jessicalay6553]

I’m so happy you found it! This just radiates excitement and satisfaction!

[@Tanya_Steyn]

I had my first period at a sleepover at a friend's house. I woke up covered in blood, literally. She had an older sister that helped me, at least. Is not a fond memory though because I got mocked by the brother.

[@Am3lia77]

That must have been horrible!

[@robynpupello863]

Yes...this is the one I watched in 5th grade!!!

[@toxicginger9936]

SAME! Core memory unlocked.

[@wodentoad1]

My sister sent me this. This video haunted our nightmares since the 90s. Thank you!

[@oreonighthawk]

You just unlocked a core memory for me I completely forgot. Our school's sex ed included the pancake video. And it was notorious enough that we all referred to it as "the pancake video" and you had already heard about it from students in the grades above you a few years before you finally saw it (maybe in 5th or 6th grade?). Love this channel!

[@Rockas360]

My mom did something similar when I got my first period. We had a coffee date between women with my older sister. Still love that memory even if I'm trans/transitioned

[@ChrisSunHwa]

🥰

[@ThatsSoRaechel]

6:24 this actually unlocked a memory for me. I had a period start during a sleepover (not my first) and it was a ridiculous, Carrie level amount of blood and I was more angry than embarrassed. I was convinced that I had knocked it on jumping on the trampoline. 😂

[@dawnk777]

I got my period in the 70s and remember getting a box with pamphlets too. That's when they just started coming out with pads that had adhesive strips so you didn’t need the belts. I remember walking to the store to buy my own supplies.

[@sadfaery]

I feel left out. My schools didn't really have any sex ed videos. I vaguely remember learning about eggs and sperm and the uterus, but that's kind of it. My mom gave me a 4-book set of books about puberty that HER mother gave her when she reached puberty (literally the same books passed down, not updated versions of them). She gave them to me around 1988 I think. She got them from her mom around maybe 1972? They included a reference to period belts that used to be used to hold pads in before they had adhesive to stick them to your underwear. They were SO out of date! You know what I never learned about in any form whatsoever until I took an anthro course on human sexuality in college? The existence of the c l i t. My anthro class was the first real sex ed I ever had.

[@scherre]

This video was maybe a bit light on the more biology/science side of explaining periods but it was definitely great about making it clear that it's a normal thing and you don't need to be embarrassed or keep it a secret. And the dad buying pads so casually along with the rest of the items was really great to show it's not just a "womens" or "girls" thing to manage, needing menstrual products is as straightforward as needing more maple syrup and nothing to get worked up about. I know in my school, when we watched these types of videos, we were always separated into girls and boys which only served to reinforce the idea that knowing about our periods was not something we should ever subject a poor boy or man to.

[@haliehope7067]

i remember this one. we didn't get a kit, but we did crowd around and make jokes about the pancakes. like it was so strange that our teacher was more upset that we were so fixated on the random pancakeness than anything else. it is exactly how i remember it. i was like going beat for beat with it. and it is still so cringe.

[@yourfuturewaifu9061]

This is how I remember it. Good times.

[@misstressfoxtail05]

Pretty sure this is the one they showed at my school. When she pulled out the kit, right before you said something, it unlocked a memory in my head of getting one after my teacher showed the video.

[@probably_notbob5794]

I am thoroughly impressed with both Karen and the found footage guys in their efforts to find this!

[@iambri127]

I GOT SO EXCITED WHEN I SAW YOU POSTED THIS! This was the video they showed us in elementary school. I remember beforehand one of the girls started going around saying how their sister had told them about a mysterious "pancake movie" they were gonna make us watch and it was like this big deal to everyone. Like "I wonder when they're gonna make us watch the pancake movie. How gross do you think it'll be? What do pancakes have to do with anything???" lol. This really brought me back. Also yeah I think they did give us a period pack after watching this. In our school at least. I remember having a little box like that with tiny pads in it and a booklet about puberty. And the only thing I remember from the booklet was a section called "Hair, hair, everywhere!" Which became kind of an inside joke with my siblings for a while.

[@aliciabrinkofski386]

This was my high school sex ed video. I remember it. I'm not crazy.

[@AnnaReed42]

I'm impressed at Karen's and your dedication to tracking this video down. Definitely a cute video, the dad buying pads was such a nice touch 🥰 I used a tampon on my very first period, because I got it while on vacation and I wanted to go swimming.

[@terrynorton4561]

My mom was also way to embarrassed to talk about my period and coming of age. I was dragged to a presentation at the local middle school while I was still in elementary school. Also, I was NOT excited about having my first period at all. I was excited about menopause and not having to deal with that ever again.

[@rachaelcahill3035]

when I was 10, in 5th grade, we were supposed to have our first sex education, which would be exclusively about puberty, no "sex" or intercourse mentioned, similar to this, but my very conservative grandparents (whom I was raised by) refused to sign my permission slip, because they believed it was going to be graphic and "expose me to sex" (little did they know someone under their roof, someone I was supposed to trust, was doing that already years prior). So I ended up missing out on that. not even a full year later I got my first period (i believe the medical term is "menarche") and I legitimately believed I was dying, because while periods were mentioned in my home, they were always brought up in a mocking tone, and with no real explanation of what they are, so I had absolutely no idea what to expect, or that they were normal, or what happens during them, until I went into the school bathroom thinking I needed to have a bowel movement and saw blood all over (I have been a heavy bleeder from the get-go). I only found out what a period really was from the school nurse, who made me feel like an idiot, and was chastised by my grandma who also made me feel like an idiot and shamed me for ruining my clothes. This is what happens when we "leave sex education for the home". Vulnerable children get abused, uneducated children get traumatized, and studies show that lack of sex education also causes a rise in teen pregnancies. We can't "leave sex education for the home" when so many homes will refuse to educate in the first place, and many just don't know how

[@magathax1587]

This is a wonderful video. I think it has just the right amount of information. I also think it could be shown to the whole class, including the boys. (Because after all, sometimes THEY will be the ones going to the store.) I'm really old, and I never got this info in school. I remember they put all of us girls in the multi-purpose room and tried to start the projector, but the film kept slipping and falling out of the sprockets, so eventually they gave up and we never did see it.

[@DanSlaughter85]

AFAB here i laughed so hard at the heating pads can relieve cramps thing. I do think that more conversation about the level of pain that is normal is a great thing. For me i was always told they hurt so I thought it was normal and couldn't believe my mom and sister were just going about their day in this pain like it was nothing. Now im on Hormone blockers (republicans im 38) and my life has never been better. 💙 keep doing what you do MDJ you helped me realize I needed a doctor's help.

[@catherinepattersonmcelroy8336]

Oh yea, I remember those starter kits. That's a deep memory lol. I'm happy that you found your pancake video! Please tell me you made one now 😂

[@BrandiPettit]

I remember student teaching and the kids would talk about "the pancake video" that they watched in Elementary Health!!

[@ellierickelman7119]

This was absolutely the video I remember watching in 4th grade in Iowa! When I started teaching 4th grade myself in the same school district in 2014, we watched the SAME video the first year! 😳 Luckily the next year, the school nurse got a new video from Always.

[@themushroommonarch]

Yours was so much nicer than mine. We had the shame talk and was told to hide our periods at all costs. We also weren't told that we had a vaginal tube. So when I got older and found out about sex through fanfics. I thought they would enter the uterus.

[@yourlocalmarvelfan6211]

I love how Karen's editing made the sex ed video thumbnails came out of MDJ's mouth when she started talking about them!

[@JenniL-25]

You should check out "Where Did I Come From?" (1985). This video was infamous in my high school. ( They show it to the Juniors every year. ) awesome example of chaotic 80s/90s sex ed. (Which was still being used as curriculum when I was a junior in 2001/2002)

[@brinagotsued]

The video was better than expected, from an information standpoint.

[@daniellethomas9966]

Omg!!! I have been hoping you would find this one since you started doing this series! I also watched this in the 6th grade and my friends and I all referred to it every time pancakes where mentioned 😂.

[@brittanyengland4063]

I have told people for years about this video and everyone thought I was crazy! I'm going to have to show my daughter because she didn't believe me. From Michigan and would have watched it in 99.

[@bethwoodward9437]

OMG, core memory unlocked! This was the video my school showed us in maybe 4th grade. They separated the boys and the girls, and at the time we only got to see the “girl” video. I don’t think they started teaching us about male puberty until the following year, but apparently some of the girls in my class were already starting their periods. But yeah. Uterus pancakes. They apparently existed once upon a time in 90s sex ed. (Though I’m going to hazard a guess that, based on the hair and styles in the video, it was actually made in the late 80s.)

[@ender_moon1381]

The only reason i didn't panic when i got my first one at 15ish was because some of my younger sisters got theirs a year or two before me, it was also confusing why mine never became regular but theirs did. Also at the time i was just mad because i had the "I'm the oldest so I'm supposed to do everything first, and be the best at everything." mindset which was at best not discouraged and at worst encouraged by my parents.

[@emilieloveskiwi]

12:05 Why did you expect her to start singing? Because Dr. D has you conditioned. 😂

[@brianagates613]

I wish I had this video growing up. I went through all of these changes on my own because it was taboo in my family. I wasn't even comfortable talking to my sister about this (I taught myself how to use pads). The basic information would have been so helpful in making me feel like what I was going through was normal. For those just starting their periods if the pain isn't manageable with normal pain meds please see/talk to a doctor. I have endometriosis (causes heavy bleeding and cramping) and it took 15 years to figure out because I didn't say anything and had no medical history of period issues.

[@ladyginger6215]

I remember watching this video in elementary school. Oh my goodness. I love that it was found at a pancake film festival.

[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

I don’t remember sex ed in school and my family sure didn’t talk about it. I got my period while my mom was in the hospital and had to listen to both my grandmothers tell me how it was in “their days.” I hated it.

[@tinkeramma]

I remember the whole conversation with my Nana after my mom told her. Nana: I hear you're a woman now. Me: Yeah. Nana: Sucks, doesn't it? Never another word. It's one of my favorite memories of her.

[@gingersun535]

My parents are pretty repressive when talking about bodily functions at home. We had health class in 5th and 6th grade at the Catholic school I went to and I seem to recall it was a good overview. Imagine my surprise (and well, the awkward!) when our Methodist church decided we had a lot of pre-teens (like 7) and needed a refresher. Who volunteered to teach it? None other than my dad... must say, absolutely mortifying.

[@nataliemcmanus113]

Omg😂😂the cheesy 1980’s produced health videos are classic! So glad you found it🎉as a child I was in some of these type of videos so it brings back so many memories. I was at school & went to the nurse cause I thought I was dying as well😂I was younger than the age this is taught so I was clueless. One of my favorite authors and her books were so realistic Is “are you there God? It’s me Margret” now it’s in a movie so recommended for girls & boys at this age. When my son had his classes teaching these things he came home so red & looked so shocked for a few days. He was very quiet and I could see his mind was just churning all the info for a few days. Very glad you found this!❤

[@adria89]

I got a kit in the 4th grade back in the 80s and my mom kept the sample products since I didn't need them yet 😂

[@yellowiris123]

This is one of the best, informative videos for young people I have seen, especially considering the time. It was factual, honest and to the point yet seemed caring. I just wish my school had shown a video like this. I don't remember anything being shown until high school but maybe my memory is failing me.

[@randischneider23]

We had gotten called into a classroom as like 9-10 yo girls to talk about periods.... But of course I was an overachiever and had started my first period a few days prior. Simply put, I thought I was dying because my mom never talked about it and we hadn't talked about it at school yet

[@marliisayarberry1809]

My friends and I almost thought we were crazy and remembered the video wrong, especially when we couldn’t find it online! Thank you for finding it!!!!

[@ashleysmith5001]

I remember watching this video in 5th grade.i have noticed that some people remember getting the kits. We all were in a separate room from the boys 😂. I got mine at 13 and my mom called some of her friends and told them. I ask her why she did that? She said she was proud that I was growing up to be a woman. The music in the video is so nostalgic. Love you Doctor Mama Jones

[@ace-of-bats]

THE PANCAKE VIDEO!!! They showed this to us in fifth grade back in, like, 1993. Can't watch to watch!

[@chayarchy]

when i was 17-18 i ended up hanging out with a childhood friend who was home from college for the summer. we'd always been close growing up so her mom was no stranger to me. i ended up getting my period and they had to take me to the store for supplies since they'd both switched to menstrual cups! i'd never heard of one so it was really cool to get other peoples perspective on how they deal with their own periods. i can't use one all the time (thanks pcos) but cups are now my preferred method.

[@jooleebilly]

First: THANK YOU! I learned so much more from your videos than either "mothers" or any (old-style) gyno or teacher or nurse. Your patients are so lucky to have you. I've got a great woman now, she's done wonders to talk to me about HRT and such for menopause. I love her. I was told when I started my first period in 1981 that periods so heavy that even a tampon and a maxi pad would only last 30-45 minutes and I was GUSHING running to the bathroom between every class was "normal." So were cramps so bad that I cried and threw up, but that came about a year later. So did migraines and huge clots when I didn't wear a tampon or didn't have a chance to grab one the first day of my period. I was sooo mortified to get my first period in school. The ONE DAY I wore a skirt. I had nothing and was far too terrified to ask anyone for a pad. (We lost school nurses in the great Purge of Proposition 13 of California in 1980.) I noticed it when I went to the bathroom to change for PE (I was bullied a lot. This time, I was glad I didn't undress in the changing room.) so I wrapped a bunch of toilet paper around my underwear and changed it at lunch. It burned and it was brown. By the time I walked home, I had bled through my thick denim skirt and my older stepsister noticed. So she marched me to my stepmonster who was SUPER excited and actually gave me a hug and said "You're a woman now!" HORRIFYING. Meanwhile, I only had 2 pairs of underwear bc she wouldn't take me shopping, or buy them for me. My stepsister either, so she just stole them. I didn't want to steal, so I did without. I had discharge (disgusting) for months before my first period, and I had to wash one pair of underwear whenever I took a shower and wear the other one. Once, my stepmonster caught me with dirty panties before I started my period, and told me it was because "I didn't wash enough down there." Yes ... yes I did. As stepmonster was a hardcore right-wing Evangelical Baptist, they were of course shameful and god's punishment for the Sin of Eve. All this time, and now I'm finally in menopause and NOW I find out all that crap I went through meant I should talk to an Ob/Gyn? I didn't go for my first appointment to see a gyno (and it was by myself once I was living alone) until I was 19 - in 1987. And the doctor shamed me for having a yeast infection (not the first time I was shamed by a female doctor about my yeast infections and periods). This particularly crappy OB/GYN inserted the metal speculum and ratcheted it open without any warning or lube or anything. It hurt A LOT. So I actually spoke up for myself and said "That hurts!" She replied "No it doesn't!" So I had to tell her a second time "Yes, it DOES!" so she barely made it any smaller and continued to tell me how bad the yeast infection was. First time to a gyno, first yeast infection. Thanks, doc. I *NEVER* had a male gyno treat me like that, only women. I have a wonderful woman gyno now, but that was back in the 80s so they couldn't even advertise about PMS because it "wasn't real" and plenty of women gynos had internalized the "ick" and "shame" factors like I did. I was so glad when yeast infection medicine went over the counter and went down to 5 days OTC. The 10 and 14 day OTC that came out first took too long to work, so I'd have to go to urgent care to get a prescription. Where I'd be further humiliated by female Urgent Care doctors. I told one that I was trying the 14 day OTC (which was a syringe full of white gunk every day for 14 days). She said "Ew, it's really messy in here. I'll try to get a sample, but I don't know. It's just really goopy." Because they had to test and prove it was a yeast infection before they'd give you the prescription 5 day gunk version. Now I hear it's just a pill. Haven't had one in a while since I gave up using the spermicidal lubricant condoms. Then I gave up sex. It was never great anyway. Or even good. I just had pointless and painful periods for 42 years before it finally stopped. THANK CHRIST.

[@ashleywaner1284]

Omg, I watched this exact video in my school as well! I barely remember the beginning as well, but the pancakes I will never forget, and I also remember the dad coming back from the store with the pads. I'm really impressed how progressive the 90s were and I went to a catholic school. 😂

[@davidsoule8401]

You watched that cute little video in school. I watched a episiotomy video in high school in the 80’s, and that was the last and only time I ever felt faint from seeing blood. Have since (22 yrs ago now) watched/participated in my son’s birth, and politely refused the cutting of the chord. Glad you were able to find this, and thanks for sharing.

[@bendeywendy8065]

These understanding parents make me laugh. When I told my mum I got my first period, she said, "Well, that's it for you for the next 30 or 40 years"!

[@angel_vii]

The volume of my scream upon seeing the thumbnail.... I also grew up in TX in the 90s and had been telling my husband the legend of the period pancake video for over a decade. Lol! THANK YOU for finding this!!!

[@nursemikole]

I remember my first sex Ed video in 5th grade when they separated the girls and boys. The very next year, I started my first period. We had to have our parents sign a consent form which my mother did. It was good info. The teachers answered our questions and my mom followed up with me too. I started educating my daughters when then saw me changing my pads etc in age appropriate terms. They started asking at 1 so my pads were Mommy diapers and my tampons were Mommy bandaids 😅. My oldest is 6 now and she will just say, Mommy is on her period. I'll get her pads and tampons. ❤

[@tinkeramma]

She may want to look into a cup also. I'm going through peri-menopause, so I haven't bothered to change, but everyone I know who's tried it vastly prefers them.

[@juliee593]

I find it so strange to separate boys and girls for sex ed. The information is useful for both of them! Segregating guys and gals is how you end up with grown men who think you can hold in a period and that pee comes out of the vagina.

[@highschoolgirl42]

I so vividly remember the pancake uterus, and I have spent years talking to my friends about it, and no one else remembers it. I have searched the internet and truly thought I imagined it. THANK YOU for your dedication to finding this!!

[@KittyK8Masterb8]

This unlocked another memory for me- does anyone remember seeing another sex Ed video and a very young Ashley Tisdale was in it? She still bad brown curly hair. I did a triple take. I think she was in a relationship with a much older boy and people were concerned for her in this short film she was acting in.

[@melissalaree]

I just want to say that as a CNM (who works in a very busy, high risk hospital environment), I really appreciate you always adding the “or your advanced practice provider” into your videos! I love you! Thank you, you make me giggle and I love your personally so much! I’ll bet you are such an amazing physician to work with! ❤