Off The Record: Popular Misconceptions About Attraction!

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Special Thanks to Our Guest & Friend:
Kalyne Lionheart
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Cast:
• Hosted by Ryanimay
• Commentary by: Bart Kwan, Joe Jitsukawa, Nick Dunn, Anthony Lee
• Edited by Candy Edits: www.candyedits.com
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[@StrawHatBaka]

I know JK had it's ups and downs but the current videos being uploaded bring back memories of why I liked JK. Sharing funny stories and experiences and laughing at each other's stupidity.

[@devonlynch8766]

And the frequency of being posted. Three videos a day is awesome!!

[@ssenluong17]

These episodes have been better and better. Nick makes the show tbh

[@Gibgabs]

Honestlyyy

[@taic.1336]

FAXX

[@potassiumlover3991]

Nick is reviving the spirit

[@dankboidonk]

Nick, anthony, and ryan

[@geobuksun]

the kalyne+ryan duo is amazing, but i gotta say Nick's been bringing the heat lately. i def pull my eyelids like Bart 23:20 now when I have to convey surprise in a conversation.

[@kennycastillo5313]

Yess I agree nick kills it every episode but I love the Kalyne and Ryan duo such a fun dynamic with everyone

[@WillPak]

Been watching JK since middle school, still watching after graduating high school. It’s cool to see everyone transform and grow together! I love you JK y’all r rly like a second family to me as I got to know each of you guys

[@jk4115]

23:54 the silences on this channel are always so funny

[@supratrd900]

I'm just an average Asian guy in my eyes, At times i've had women who were attractive approach and talk to me who i thought would never even talk to me. The thing i learn is different women are attractive to different things. You're not going to be everyone's cup of tea.

[@Daslickflip]

Especially if they like coffee

[@iscratchmybutt]

the easiest times I’ve had approaching attractive women have been when I think nothing of it and just talk to them asking about info I need or just being friendly without being all like hey i want to holla at you

[@ayabeihere]

Hell naw! You can't just end it like that when Bart asks "what about you guys"?! Better be a part 2! Make it happen mudda Joe!

[@sxhxlzxb]

My homie spent ALL his savings on a sports car, can’t even drive it cuz he ain’t got enough for the plates… I told him a regular car would’ve been just FINE

[@icephoenix1932]

It's the difference between the male gaze and the female gaze. I read somewhere that if men and women were asked to pick the more attractive out of Thor and Loki, men would generally pick Thor and then be super surprised when the women mostly chose Loki.

[@AstarionWifey]

Correct ✅ Loki just got that smoldering vibe

[@marceltheory]

those 3 seconds of silence 😭😂

[@Jiminie53421]

I remember learning in a psych course that men are more willing to date a woman that they would consider a 10/10 in terms of physical attractiveness and women are less likely to date a man that they would consider a 10/10 in terms of physical attractiveness It’s an interesting idea to think about

[@dsjfnskjsdfbjdsbsksbfjk]

I agree. When a guy is super objectively attractive I honestly don't fancy him. Idk just a turn off. Maybe its something like too perfect or maybe coz I subconsciously regard them out of my league but idk🤔

[@TyrantTiger85]

@@dsjfnskjsdfbjdsbsksbfjk you clearly are a jealous hater 🤣

[@r.c.7779]

We don’t like dating men more attractive than us, we don’t want people looking at our man and thinking he can do better

[@harsh3948]

@@r.c.7779 how about thinking he can do both? 😏

[@jairoabarca8969]

I only knew one person who all the girls liked, a friend of mine I knew from middle school and onwards girls used to follow us home all the time trying to talk to him, he was a very genuine dude like they way he acted around us he acted around the girls at school. People would label us the rocker kids or whatever, but he was a funny guy and girls from different social groups would look for him and try to talk to him. He was average height fairly good looking guy but there was not a day were a girl didn’t ask me about him since we were friends. It wasn’t until high school came around that I had transferred into the same high school as him 3 weeks into the school year and I was waiting in the office for my classes with another pretty girl. I reunited with my friend and he was the same as he was in middle school, funny and very genuine to everyone. 2 months later I was walking in the hallway and I saw her and over heard her talking about him that she thought he was really nice and wanted to get to know more about him. Months passed and I asked him about it but the girl didn’t end up approaching him. It’s a given that some people aren’t going like you but being genuine and not putting up a front or being overtly nice or trying to be somebody else can take you a long way. People can kinda read your character and feel your vibe and it’s a lot harder trying to be someone else and genuine at the same time.

[@aisha691]

This was really sweet

[@ezamona]

lol when Anthony hugged Joe so cute

[@amiihearts33]

I freakin lost it at 17:44 🤣🤣🤣 then again with nick’s laughter edit 🤣

[@Pharaoh_The_Great]

Lol Anthony was like “yeah… umm… nah!” Then got up and left 😂

[@warrenwen4742]

Yo this episode was fkn hilarious. Almost died of laughter. Happens once in a blue moon that I’ve seen the smirk on death face from laughing so hard

[@karl6679]

Off The Record is the best of JKN. Feel like everyone has fun telling stories.

[@liizzset]

What!? Anthony walked out instead of Bart!? Lol 😂

[@maximustitan8171]

Loves these episodes as always.

[@thedouglaspodcast]

15:42 aww joe that’s not true!! Years ago, you slid into my DMs 🤣🤣🤣 we actually messaged for a few years I’m pretty sure! And if I remember correctly, they were great convos lolol. You’re a super interesting and unique person tbh. Definitely the type of person you either like or don’t. I feel like I’m similar in that way so I just get it! And also, I feel like you’re the epitome of genuine. You are who you are and you dgaf what anyone thinks 🤣 you seem like you’d be the exact same off camera, as you are on. And *THAT* shit is rare af.

[@H.S.H.M.]

Lol oh shit!! Joe getting exposed lool

[@ivyyang7752]

Dude, Ryan is hilarious

[@AmiaCurulli]

Love what Anthony was saying about people that get excited when they know someone. Thankyou for putting it that way ant

[@Sweettormentt]

YESS istg everything they said made sense during middle school 😂 like Joe said, guys would randomly start fighting each other and the girl would be all "teeheheeh" giggling with her other girls, and the guys are all like 😎 yeah it worked 😂😂

[@extra4542]

Bruh the zoomed editing on Nick laughing 🤣

[@willcee4966]

I get impressed from name dropping

[@SingALilify]

Bruh that pause had me dying 💀 🤣 😂 😭

[@ClownAl3n]

Top 2 episodes for me all time

[@desireeoliva5541]

I need more stories from all the guys lol

[@marktasico]

23:50 all the guys be like uhmm this is that one shitty timeline in the multiverse where girls don't approach guys. 🙄 ahaha

[@Antigonex]

LMAOOOOO the editing i cant

[@CainCorvinus]

I have a, problem? where I treat literally everyone the same. I may give very specific people more attention. But at the end of the day it don't matter if i've known you for 5 minutes for 15 years. I treat everyone the same.

[@shaggyguy662]

I treat and see guys and girls the same..which is human. I never saw girls at casino, grocery store or park until recently. I thought that just the way how they act🤦‍♂️

[@NuUnlimited]

>Me being authentic when I first meet someone Months later "ya know when I first met you I thought you hated me"

[@CuongChanster]

Visual effect of Bart on a bike was funny 🤣. Guys doing macho things to attract mostly men. That's why i played house with the girls. Always the "dad"

[@modern362]

We need a prt 2 for anthony 😄

[@marcchesley3731]

I am a new subbie I really enjoy you guys

[@SuperSaiyinIan4]

“I don’t know anybody” 💀💀💀 I died laughing

[@onka3895]

🤔My problem is that I don't know how to be anything other than myself. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Everyone is always like "you're so animated and expressive" or "you're so weird" And I get offended like 😡 "I'm fuckin' normal as shit"... While finishing the tail for my handmade werewolf costume. 🥴🐺🤷🏾‍♀️

[@yaya5tim]

23:46 My ATF loooool

[@CFWB14]

That little Joe-Luna moment LOL

[@Two_Wheel_Therapy]

Oh people can say worse than no.

[@snkrsbar]

so I should stop telling people that I know you guys now LOLOLOL.

[@MyLife-og2kr]

"Your left elbow." LOL

[@FeralAkamaru]

Kalyne's new style is HAWWT !!!

[@MonaBianey446]

Lol Joe for sure said something hilarious 🤣 at 6:28 cut

[@AmiaCurulli]

Authenticity is true kalyla❤️

[@childishdreams]

6:00 made my day😭😩🤣🤣🤣

[@timtheasianinc]

Lol when beautiful women walk up to me. Like hey, 😏. I'm just like. Huh 🤷‍♂️ Or I ignore them completely. Like they definitely weren't talking to me. 😅😅😅😅

[@robertotorres661]

PART 2!!!!!

[@LandofLit]

What Bart described when the #1 chick i had a crush on in highschool gave me a compliment except i never spoke lol i just froze and blush

[@chinoskateboardv]

18:11 NICK LMAO

[@ponceasmae]

5 years ago at this job I used to work for, this dude was walking towards me and he asked for my number. And I looked at him with a disgusted face and said “eww,no” and now we’ve been married for 4 years with a baby

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

I don't know who loves Ryan more. Kalyne or Nick.

[@shiota79]

Fuckin love Nick, just gold everytime lmao 😂

[@KRAZ13CHINO]

Balling on everyone on the basketball court. Lol.

[@Calida]

Joe: "what body part do you like most in a guy?" Girl's: [lists personality traits] Joe: NO like Body Parts! Lol I've had almost this exact conversation with my guy friends too 😂

[@DjangoFatt]

I think the fear of rejection stumps guys most when they're the most inexperienced, which is usually in youth. When I was a teen, I remember being flustered around my crushes yet in any other social interaction I was the class clown often times steering topics of discussion for my peers. The older I got the more lessons I learned, one of which that they touched upon in the video was the way I view the opposite sex, when I was at my worst it was because I put them on a pedestal but similar to Bart I had some W's with girls I thought were out of my league, and it was completely based on my ability to have a good conversation and my perception changed and they were suddenly grounded in my mind thus more approachable. The less I cared about rejection the more I became comfortable with being myself, a No isn't even the worst you could get, even a rude/disrespectful No is preferable to a wishy washy non-answer in my opinion.

[@arisespeleta9194]

Good episode getting used to Kalyne

[@Ester2026]

As an Ester, I feel traumatized

[@SassquatchxMyth]

Never had a girl come on to me only dudes an I didn’t even know cuz I’m so fuckin calm cool an casual a dude askin for my number after we find out we like the same thing is nothin until you’re like three (I didn’t know these were dates) In an he’s trying to figure out is this gonna go any further

[@apollodorus4759]

@9:15 Ayyy

[@sgmcv]

23:45 I thought my laptop was lagging

[@mattpage9632]

Did they even read the article? 😂

[@sayjaibao01188]

Ryan and Kalyne vibe off each other. They got a weird chemistry going. Lol

[@Jaywin228]

It’s because he’s her friend and brought her on, he’s extra when it comes to her so she doesn’t seem as lame lol

[@d00dled00d]

Anyone else trying to figure out whats on Anthony’s arm??

[@armoniereed6704]

Saniderm for tattoos

[@healmeimhurt-.-]

LOVE💜

[@carlospandosa6598]

only real ones still watch

[@bumisenju1627]

I swear, Bart is the best storyteller 😂

[@MartyD]

I wouldn’t know anything about this 😭

[@Raptors19tdot]

bart actually have game i remember that simple pick up with jk news video were Bart n joe try to get girl's numbers in like ucla or some shit

[@elchamber]

Sometimes when they say they like someone that makes them laugh, it's a slippery slope. Some of these guys who they think is funny are bullies with weak jokes. Now, they're a red flag.

[@ModestMang]

If it’s not scary like she says then why is it that it’s the majority of men that have to make the first move…..if it’s no big deal why is it mostly one sided…..?

[@extra4542]

Kalyne feels like a regular and should be

[@OGzuzz]

That’s it. Nick is the Asian Steve!

[@nocturnalwolf7559]

Females: what's the worst that could happen? She says no Everyone: why dont YOU make the first move? Females: nooo..... I'm too scared of rejection

[@user-ep2sm3jm1o]

That's pretty sad that we feel that way. It's definitely nerve-wracking but I still believe in shooting your shot. I've asked out a fair share of guys in my lifetime. Some said no, but at least I tried and found out their answer. If they say no, it's like having closure so you can move on

[@robinxx3902]

Kalyne’s eyes and lips is real cute

[@jonathannocon]

Wonder why there’s a clear division between the men and women in this place... 🤔 I personally quite enjoyed ask the feels but that hasn’t been updated in yonkers

[@MiniTrashCreations]

6:56 Is it that comedians are modern day philosophers, or were philosophers the ancient comedians at the time? 🤔

[@joeyleung23]

Anyone feeling the chemistry between Kalyne and Ryan?

[@Pharaoh_The_Great]

Nah more like between Kalyne and nick

[@ClownAl3n]

You only noticed now? Check all the videos of her on the show bruh. They have big chemistry but sadly Ryan is taken already :(

[@moolis]

There's a difference between attraction & arousing. What's attractive for women are the PC things like he's gotta love his mom, have a dog, earn well, etc. More than not girls will never admit they like the exciting things that makes a "bad boy" like tattoos, being chiseled, someone who will check them, a sweet talker, etc.

[@Max25670]

19:52

[@AmiaCurulli]

Do you mean your decliortage haha it’s the French term for collar bone but I can’t spell it lol

[@LujinCustom]

Wait is that Gina Darling? She looks a lot different these days. When guys talk about the difficulty in approaching (I like that term, Cold Calling) and a woman says to you, “what’s the worst she can say?” I say that her or her friends could laugh at you. Or I ask why more women don’t cold call, if it’s so easy?

[@anthonymincevich1148]

WHY IS BART BEING STRANGE ON THIS SHOW

[@thedouglaspodcast]

12:26 still this far into the video, I have absolutely no clue what “name dropping” means 😅 as a woman, how relatable khalyne (or however you spell it lololol) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thedouglaspodcast]

14:17 exactly. That’s not something you can control 🤣 another bad take girlfriend.. you coulda said that you’re most attracted to people who are authentic.. lololol

[@justindinh1074]

nick at 19:53

[@HearMeOut555]

Jk fans, do you remember the first JK video you watched? Can be from any of their channels… mine is special ingredient with Tim n Rick

[@Dackota]

Super Secret Deal where they're talking about the cuete. I was into Cholo Adventures. I remembered the mudda ass part because I was walking down the street with a friend and this strange looking Asian man asked her if she was Native American and she said yes. So he went on and on about knowing some Navajos in Arizona. When we were walking away, I was like, "he looks like this mudda ass guy." I had to go home and figure out who they were and then from there, I think it was the Pizza one with Rick...pepperoni, pepper only.

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

My Aunt's BF has a Viper. She hates it. She thinks it's impractical, loud and uncomfortable. Especially when they almost always get into an accident because people either want to race them or get close enough on a highway to take pictures. Yeah women could give a fuck less what you drive as long as it's clean and comfy.

[@jctai100]

Meh, she gave all the answers that every girl gives on the spot. Authenticity, being genuine...........lol

[@sheeshee5083]

I'm learning English with JK

[@eriklee6786]

Can someone tell us what’s going on with Anthony’s elbow?

[@BikeShorts69]

19:51 Ayoooo wtf 19:48 editor probably a simp

[@darrenkeogh7513]

Fourth

[@CuongChanster]

Dudes (me) thinks girls like arms, chests, abs, stable job with good income and not living at their parents.

[@pfcmuller1813]

First comment?

[@YovaniBinuelo]

Congrats

[@michaelperez9156]

the dancer dude definitely has a thing for Joe’s ex. also it’s weird how his ex can make jokes about Joe but Joe can’t do the same… shows how much of a man Joe is.

[@Skrillabunny]

Third…

[@AmiaCurulli]

Needed this positivity - thanks jk ❤️

[@kaz_9162]

Fell off

[@kaz_9162]

@@psymeariver dead weight?? The people that left were the only real personalities lmao. Now it’s just a bunch of testosterone

[@rayquaza111111]

First