Off The Record: Should You Have Kids While You're Still Young?

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@PaulOrong 5 ай бұрын

These Dudes are about to fall into a trap.......Bart Kwan. LMAO

@kiarademoner 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@GYSMelanie5 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@pettypoppen 5 ай бұрын

In my 20s my mom was proud of me for not having a teen pregnancy, now in my 30s, she told me she wished I had a teen pregnancy so she could have been a grandmother 😒

@ellentran96 2 ай бұрын

Parents who never allowed us to date through all the years of school and then expect us to be married and have children right after 😅😒

@bbbt8090 12 күн бұрын

It's a lose, lose lol

@jojojojoseph 5 ай бұрын

As an accident child, I'm really mindful of protection 😂

@TheGr8erPurpose 5 ай бұрын

Bruh my two nieces both beat literally the strongest of contraceptives, any form of protection all down to IED lol abstinence is key With the first they swore they’d be more “responsible” but lol boom 1 1/2 years later comes their second, to each there own, but I believe there are no such thing as coincidences, blessings they are. You are a blessing :) no happy little accident here I believe

@kiarademoner 5 ай бұрын

I had my first baby at 23. Best thing ever. I’m 33 and my daughter is about to be 10. And I take my kids to do a lot of the hobbies that my husband and I like. My youngest is almost 3 and he’s finally getting the hang of traveling constantly and being out all the time.

@joelester9541 5 ай бұрын

Had my daughter at 21 she is almost 16 and I agree the fact we can share interest is definitely the best experience

@kiarademoner 5 ай бұрын

@@joelester9541 yes it is!!!!!

@TheGr8erPurpose 5 ай бұрын

Praying and waiting on a godly husband, I’m 23 now.. but I believe in Gods timing! Thanks for sharing, nothing weird or nothing obscene about going that way at such age. You both were called to be mothers and I’m glad you are enjoying and learning from all the experiences. Preparing myself for that season.. I suspect it will be BUSY.. busy as an understatement.

@kylehawkinlee7304 5 ай бұрын

crazy how we got Tulsi Gabbard on the show before Nick’s wife :(

@Luis-cp2ls 5 ай бұрын

Before GTA 6 as well

@ryanimay 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@ntstoner559 5 ай бұрын

I had kids at 20, now I’m 23 with 2 kids and I love it😊

@keanu4489 5 ай бұрын

I’m 23 with 0 kids and I love it 😍

@ntstoner559 5 ай бұрын

@@keanu4489 no lie I’d love it too but I would trade nothing for my kids lol. Best thing to happen in my life

@emmanuelb1622 5 ай бұрын

4:14 for bart throwing shade at tiff and casey 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@valeriamedrano7870 5 ай бұрын

how do yk?

@nobody-n9s 5 ай бұрын

Now we know his anger is more towards tiff and not Casey😅

@roflkappater9358 5 ай бұрын

@@valeriamedrano7870 bart and david has made remarks of a certain ex member not showering before and tiff has also mentioned she doesnt shower for a few days because casey asks her not to for sex/pheromones lol. Bart narrowed it down even more here unless its a coincidence with someone else.

@cyberkid27 5 ай бұрын

Immediately thought of that too😂😂

@jk4115 4 күн бұрын

@@roflkappater9358 ayo not showering for a few days for this reason is crazy

@nobody-n9s 5 ай бұрын

It’s so interesting how everybody is so mind blown by Nick being with his wife since HS. He seems like a sensible, levelheaded man who’s patient and doesn’t like to rush things! Bart, Ryan and Joe on the other hand seem like they used to be impulsive and not rational compared to him

@dontdoitmike5289 5 ай бұрын

People always look at relationships like they have to find someone that’s 100% match for them. That’s not real life, it takes real communication to be able to actually compromise and grow together. You keep looking for what’s perfect in your mind you’ll be single forever because you got your nose all in the air like you’re so perfect

@cindyrichards869 5 ай бұрын

I love this topic! I had my first kid at 20. I’m 40 now and my oldest is going to be 20 in a couple of weeks. It’s definitely a different dynamic than most parent kid relationships cause we listen to a lot of the same music and often get mistaken for sisters. I married her dad when she was 3 and we’ve been happily together for 23 years now. It wasn’t easy. But we’re very much still in love with each other.

@kiarademoner 5 ай бұрын

I saw little Cans editing videos in one room 😂😂😂😂😂

@kmoov90 5 ай бұрын

Simple answer is no. All the guys I knew who had kids at a very young age were struggling back then and still struggling now.

@pervysage4934 5 ай бұрын

Main thought as an only child, when my parents died I feel alone. Having siblings must be such a blessing

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

lol these impromptu topics/episodes are impressive and too funny. This was either before or after Subin and Jesus showed up to film I believe. Thank you for recording and uploading this vid.

@laurencarpio310 5 ай бұрын

Life was hard having 3 kids by the age of 21 but now I’m 37 and have a 2 yr old grandson and get to enjoy my life. And I get to keep up with my grandson

@jaguy4u2 5 ай бұрын

Bart, once again with the LEGENDARY one liners 🤣🤣🤣😄

@sheenarosea94 5 ай бұрын

I got pregnant at 21 graduating college and I’m 28 with 4 of them leeches 😂😂 love them tho

@danielboachie 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@sheenarosea94 5 ай бұрын

@@danielboachieif it helps been with the same guy since 19 and we’re married now with our family of 6

@danielboachie 5 ай бұрын

@sheenarosea94 That's lovely, I hope to have that in the future. Stil can't help but laugh at u calling em leeches tho 😭😭😭😭😭

@Msdeanna.angela 5 ай бұрын

I had two kids with my high school boyfriend we’ve been together since 05’ and had our son at 21 & now we have a daughter who’s 2. Kind of started over again but happy I’m in my 30s and can still enjoy life and look forward to even more freedom as our toddler grows up.

@BenBro1651 5 ай бұрын

D.I.N.O is dope! That needs to be a thing! Dual Income No Offspring

@laflaf125 5 ай бұрын

There's already the term DINK = dual income no kids

@bi-va1466 5 ай бұрын

My friends and I were just talking about this, this weekend

@karinaserah 5 ай бұрын

This is a fun conversation. Everybody is vibing. 😂

@auju123 5 ай бұрын

My parents really took their time with their family. My oldest siblings being 8-9 years older than me having them at 20-21, I come along in their early 30s, and then my younger siblings 8-9 years later in their 40s and I see such a shift in childrearing in each group of us lol. I mean… we’re all fucked up in some way which makes me not want kids at all (and that’s okay) but it’s been eye-opening to see that shift as they’ve become more financially established with age, less strict in some ways or more strict in others.

@thomaschristopherwhite9043 5 ай бұрын

LOL! Kalyne's face when Bart was talking about his mom getting hit on. She's having ptsd flashbacks of all the corny pickup lines thrown her way.

@mablelinchow 5 ай бұрын

Oh oh oh..10:20 mark. Is nick...about to be direct and forthcoming?!?! Lol

@paintproduct2332 5 ай бұрын

I love these talks, and I also love how Bart got so happy hearing nick talk about leaving California.

@JetLagRecords 5 ай бұрын

JustKiddingNews, This is fantastic! I subscribed because I love it!

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

Welcome to the JK community.

@GYSMelanie5 5 ай бұрын

Welcome home!

@FigWidIt 4 ай бұрын

20:02 Can walking in like "Du Ma" 😂😂😂

@karl22high1996 5 ай бұрын

Now we need to hear Nick’s relationship from his wife!

@jimmymoua 5 ай бұрын

I have some friends who had kids in their 20s and yes their kids are older now but they're also still living with their parents because they didn't set themselves up financially before having kids. They're either going back to school now or are just working blue collar jobs. I still stand by my choice of waiting until my 30s

@SavlAdd-on 5 ай бұрын

Nick talking about his parents makes me smile cuz they sound just like mine lmao gives me hope ngl. Been a long time jk fan but nick has slowly become the most relatable jk member fr.

@ChrisEckeard 5 ай бұрын

Have kids and have them asap. Don't wait. Do it and do it now. Who to have kids with is another harder question.

@BotheredBrute 5 ай бұрын

4:30 who is Bart talking about

@daisydiaz7460 5 ай бұрын

Tiff and case?

@martinacvetkovic2825 5 ай бұрын

You already know who it is

@seewendy1 5 ай бұрын

Hade our son at 24 my husband 25, my husband and son are best friends, then hade twins at 30 and they are 9 know, and they are chill, yah it’s hard but kids are cool especially as they get older. My husband and son have the same hobbies.

@javonbrandon 5 ай бұрын

I'm 27 now I have three years left before im 30 maybe kids later

@GYSMelanie5 5 ай бұрын

I am not Jewish nor a Mormon 😂😂, and I was just plain stupid and thought I knew everything, and I ended up being a teen mom, really, really young. Now my kids are in their 30s. If I could go back, I definitely would tell that little girl absolutely not. Also, yes, Can, I watch all my grandchildren, lol.

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

As I see it, having kids is almost like what it says in wedding vows...To have and to hold, to love and to cherish, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part.

@barbcoil1 5 ай бұрын

I had my kid at 25 and now that I’m 41 and she’s 16, I’m glad I had her at that age. Not too young and not that old either. I dont have to worry about retiring late to support her in college. 😅

@eringutsch 5 ай бұрын

Wasn't planned but had my oldest when I was 22. She's 17 now and we have 2 more girls. We're very lucky in that we knew we found the one we wanted and THEN had kids

@jairb7130 5 ай бұрын

Beautiful episode lol

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

As someone who had a child at 18 yrs old; which wasn't a planned pregnancy; I will say somewhat it depends on the person's maturity level and the person's ability to see the realities of what taking care of and being responsible for the care of a child takes. It saw me growing up fast in taking responsibility for the care of my child and all that entails. My kid's father was a few years older than me, and he bailed by the time my kid turned a year old, not wanting to take responsibility for the child we created together. His loss though. My kid is a true blessing. And one day while I was out on a walk with my kid, I had a teenage girl say to me, "oh, your baby is so cute. I want one." And I said, "no, you don't". I said this for two reasons. First off, the girl who said that to me had just asked someone else to buy her cigarettes because she was under age so she couldn't legally buy them for herself. And secondly, because though yes, my kid was cute sitting all happy in his stroller, yet that is only part of how babies can be. Basically, I was told by one of my sister's friends who also had kids, that "you don't know the true test of being a parent till your kid pukes on you and you still have to cuddle and console them." And lord that sure proved to be true.

@joeswanson733 5 ай бұрын

it's tricky but ... as long as you can afford it and the kids can live a reasonably supportive comfortable upbringing that faciliates their development. if you have kids usually on the younger end but you're struggling and they're struggling you're both just in a world of hurt. no good. but for the average person it's taking longer to get established. these days just to get your sh-t together by 30 also by the numbers is already taking a lot of of planning and maneuvering to do it that's assuming everything goes according to plan right education right career track, you find someone at the right time you're both on the same track and financial wise you're both able to do good etc etc etc.

@CuongChanster 5 ай бұрын

If you don't have dreams on traveling or anything, a kid will hold you back on. Go for it. But usually early twenty is puppy love

@robu5348 5 ай бұрын

My son was an oopsie but he’s such a fun kid! I can’t imagine not having him in my life.

@MallPeaMallCow 4 ай бұрын

I’m 36 and my oldest is 20. I can talk 💩 to him and also still be dad mode.

@chikkachinijohannady 5 ай бұрын

I actually thought of this topic recently 😂

@BackOnMyBullish 5 ай бұрын

Kalyne is so fine

@catman8623 5 ай бұрын

Yikes

@GYSMelanie5 5 ай бұрын

She's gorgeous inside and out.

@808BAMFasian 5 ай бұрын

She likes black guys

@nobody-n9s 5 ай бұрын

She looks like Bobbi Althoff

@stuckintheforest 5 ай бұрын

Barbell needs to have a Phoenix location . You need to put that triangle on the map

@alisha1377 5 ай бұрын

Would love to see Tiff on the show!!!

@Thegangsta00711 4 ай бұрын

21:45 we got that classic JK films feel 🥺

@jcfuentes1643 5 ай бұрын

I think this is the first time I've seen Joe sit alone 😂

@MCjooksingjai 5 ай бұрын

He hasn't sat alone since COVID. It seems odd.

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

I believe this is the day they were filming with Subin and Jesus. So they were probably either waiting for the guest to show up or it was after the guest left.

@aquaviii 5 ай бұрын

Yeah I was like damn never seen Joe sit alone before

@hectormendoza5660 5 ай бұрын

Was looking for this comment 😂😂😂 jk fans are amazing

@Vincisomething 5 ай бұрын

I've had fears and anxiety around pregnancy and having kids ever since i was a kid lol. I met someone recently that made me entertain the fantasy but I don't think it'll happen

@tonynguyen5771 5 ай бұрын

Where did you guys get your chairs from?

@ryanimay 5 ай бұрын

wellnewlife

@kitleongii4688 5 ай бұрын

As usual Nick wins again.. Nick for President 2024

@YovaniBinuelo 5 ай бұрын

Fookin Can !! 🤣 He’s almost at par woth Nick’s humor!! But Nick is still the funniest

@adrianhernandez8227 5 ай бұрын

why is joe alone????

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

I'm guessing this was either before or after filming with a guest. So they were either waiting for a guest to show up or it was closer to end of day after the guest left.

@dttheemperor 3 ай бұрын

Kalyne a baddie.

@leo6231 5 ай бұрын

I wanted kids but I didn't have my shxt together, at 34 still don't fully have my stuff together but expecting our 2nd now with a 2 yr old

@mzkarma6751 5 ай бұрын

thanks to nick i now use nose strips

@negiihimanshu 5 ай бұрын

12:21 ryan said damnnnnnn!!! In background... I had the exact same reaction with goosebumps here

@bethnichols2875 5 ай бұрын

That was @4:38 and that was Joe. The camera focused on him when he said it into his cup. Then Ryan laughed.

@negiihimanshu 5 ай бұрын

@@bethnichols2875 whatsup baybee

@ryanimay 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@josephreyes981 5 ай бұрын

Nick…”Soft Launch”…?

@_cynthiajanette 5 ай бұрын

can't help but think about Can making his kids start editing young is going to be this generation's forced piano lessons 😂

@Z-Ack 5 ай бұрын

Yea everybody who i was friends with growing up all either have kids and a family now or they ended up dying somehow.. literally I’m the only person out of everybody who is still single and no kids because i fucked up and put all of my eggs in one basket then that basket broke.. i do know of a few that had kids and didnt end up with the chick but that was their own faults every time for either fuckin around or being a pos person.. i had my chance and dont think i’ll ever get another in this lifetime before i am too old to raise a kid or kids. That said i really dont think that i could have been a father with how my head was and what i was doing with my life. I spent too many years depressed for dumb or no reasons so now when i have legitimate reasons to not want to live any longer it just makes things seem worse and the regrets even harder to push out..