Officially saying goodbye

[@judypell6701]

Hope all your dreams come true. I have to admit I am still holding out hope that you and Isaac refind your love and you continue to raise Ember in a loving home. If there is anything that happens in this the whole u tube community will blow up with cheers . ❤

[@normagwenwatson5767]

I hoped for that too. Ember needs both parents.

[@LilyBecca]

If I was a man and I found a woman like Jaylene, I would not want to let her go. As a female, if I found a man like Isaac, I would not let him go. I'm 49 years old, and I've learned a lot about love. My biggest lesson was that the passionate super physical love with all the highs and lows is not the best. It's not sustainable. The most important thing to me now is someone who is kind. Someone who you enjoy talking to. Someone who supports your hopes and dreams and lifts you up. I lost the passionate love of my life 24 years ago, and it still hurts, but the loss that hurts the most is the one I left because I was bored and our relationship wasn't exciting enough. He was kind, and he believed in me and my son. He always told us we could achieve anything and never put us down. I enjoyed talking with him and spending time with him. I felt safe, and I felt loved, but it wasn't exciting. I look back, and I was a fool to have left him. My current partner is not kind. He constantly puts me down and barks at me. I can ask him if he had a nice say, and he will snap at me. He often picks up dinner for himself and our daughter, and they sit there and eat together in front of me. When I pick up dinner, I get something for everyone. It's so bad that I once had a stranger on a flight with us write me a note and pass it to me as we were exiting the plane. In the note, this stranger told me that nobody deserved to be treated the way I was being treated and that he admired me for keeping a smile on my face for my daughter. Thank you for listening to my Ted Talk. I just hope that maybe this helps someone to see that lasting love is so much more than what we think it should be when we are young.

[@Debbie_T_FL]

I totally understand what you are talking about 😢

[@ashleyhum22]

I can understand this. I also know now that it is perfectly ok to be alone too. Yours is a good example of how one can be lonely while surrounded by people, while fulfilled when alone. I hope you find peace away from that scenario. 💟☮️

[@doulacoach6801]

Lilybecca, i am truly sorry for your pain. Perhaps seeing a counseler would be helpful? You dont need to be the victim of your circumstances or of bad past decisions. Jayleena is trying to do her best life & its none of our business what she desides to do with her life. We as followers of her channel, only see a small bit of what really goes on in her relationship. It really not about us. Or our place to judge her.

[@catherinegrace2366]

Please leave. I know it’s hard but don’t stay in a relationship like you describe. PLEASE! Your children need to NOT see their mother demeaned. Please.

[@wilmafallon8712]

@Lillybecca . Yes leave him he doesn’t like you or love you , probably jell of too . He will leave eventually if you don’t move first . He that is unkind to you doesn’t love themselves or you, he using you until he meets someone else . Life is too short to be miserable. 🙏

[@pannis72]

I knew the day was coming but I can’t help but to be sad. I was really praying you and Isaac would be able to come back together :( Having said that, you look really happy. Can’t wait to see what your next rig is.

[@lifechanges557]

I was hoping the same. They just seem so well suited for one another. Makes me sad, But.. maybe they just both want different things in life. It does happen. Ember still has great parents who Love her. But it is sad none the less. Love both Jaylena and Isaac. I wish them both the best.

[@heathermachala7623]

Same...but you never know. Congrats on the sale j

[@karenhernke281]

I was hoping, too, but I get it.

[@NicoVanZyl-v8x]

Nico💞😗🤗💓

[@greenacresbloom]

With the rigs you all have built, you've enabled so many other folks to follow their adventures. Hopefully one day soon you both follow yours.

[@abbe1abbe156]

I'm so proud of you and Isaac for not fighting online like some people do when they break up. I wish you both and your little girl the best. 🎉

[@ReallyBarb]

My parents split when I was 3, I still remember it, my world was never the same, there is a bond of feeling safe in your parents arms that is lost when they divide your world, it will affect her forever, I'm almost 70. You never feel safe and confident again, you continue to worry who will leave you.

[@annadaurie2435]

My daughter is 40, and she still has that feeling of not wanted by her dad. If I could do it over again, I would have worked harder on my relationship.

[@GROCK619]

Yes it's a shame

[@cyndegruver6520]

You don’t miss what you have until it’s gone. Some just have to live to learn!

[@CarrieJo5916]

That's not true in my case.

[@Jcap644]

Not to mention growing up in a van. Brutal!

[@nativestand1]

Mixed emotions are like a beautiful quilt. All the pieces add a richness and memory. Stay authentic cause the universe is with you and you are with the universe. Peace.

[@yorkiemom209]

I wish you, Isaac and Ember all the love and happiness that this world has to offer. Such a perfect little family. It will be sad to see you apart, but I am routing for each of you. You van was so beautiful, but I am sure the new rig will be beautifully remade with your unique talent. I wish you the best. Blessings to your little family.

[@lindatemple5454]

It’s a chinook and I can’t wait to see it, praying you get it on Tuesday and look forward to the next video, so exciting.

[@sylviabibler3036]

Ember is a doll baby! So cute helping Mom w/the build.

[@kathyanderson1509]

Its a Chinook Van. I glad you sold your van. Wishing you safe travels. 😊

[@melman8r]

Very sad to hear your family is splitting up. Van life seems to be a dream and not the best option now that you have a child.

[@rosearnold1220]

You look so good! I love the hair cut! Your working out is paying off. Congrats on the van! I can’t wait to see your next project. Happy for you❤

[@BarbaraFerenzi-c6s]

It's sad to see your Sprinter van go, but I know it's in your best interest. This is wonderful, Jaylena. I remember the camper you showed, but not the name. I look forward to more information and details.

[@dnonya5208]

I'm not sure what happened between you and Isaac but I was always hoping and praying that you would stay together. I hope you both find what you're looking for. Congratulations on selling your van and good luck with your next one.❤❤

[@paulajones9956]

I feel so sorry for Ember, 😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

Why? No adult should ever project their negative feelings or judgement onto a child whether its a blog or verbal. Look at your words. Why do you chose to add "guilt" and more stress onto Jaylena and Issaic? WHo are you to make judgement on a relationship and decision between 2 adults?Supporting and nurturing the childs' parents to co-parent is beneficial and a positive approach. Grow up girl.

[@anitadeckard1216]

Who bought your rig

[@GeminiJourney1111]

Wow!! I thought my life was constantly changing…we are neck and neck…😂 you have been through so much in such a short time…life is forever changing and we don’t always know what’s to come?! Continue to EMBRACE change “where the four winds blow” you will find your place! Bless you, Ember and the 2 meowzers.

[@alicechristenbury309]

Hard to hear your sweet little family are parting ways. I know both of you will do everything in your power to make sure Ember has time with both of you growing up. Much success on your next chapter.

[@MsLori-BassGirl4Life]

I don't think they should. I think its a big mistake n once u moved non u cant go back. U cant fix things n itll never go away once it's done. Ive done this twice the second time not by my choice n diff person. I've been alone now for a yr off n on with him. You cant change what happen after. I wish it never did. I didn't want this to happen n I still fully love him but I can't even lookbat him the same. But mine did alot of inexcusable things during n after the fact. Things I know u both would never do. But once you have crossed rhat lin4 feelings change ans u can never no matter what u do get them back the same. Once he's been or you have been wirh anyone else it will never ever be the same. So please take your time live for you but don't take forever because I don't want to see yous make the same mistakes I made or he made to me. I mean ya all can always go back but once ya been apart so lomg or on your own so long it's not the same either. I think u have a beautiful thing both of u n I think your family is an amazing team n i think this place is having a bad negative affect on you both. I would pack this place in n get the hell out together before making any rash decisions. The way I see u two together how he looks at you. I think this is one hell of a bad mistake. But hey this just my opinion ans i want to see u both happy. Sometimes we get bored where we are and with ppl ans we need our adventures and time alone and we just need more. I think that's one of these times. I sure hope u take ot slow n make sure you know what you really are doing. As for the van well you always did build put a nice rig and i cant wait to see what ya all got going on next. Usually when a car or truck gives me butterflies or makes me do double takes. That buggers coming home with me n ive always gotten what I wanted n i cant remember when I said that n I wasn't looking out in the driveway with it. I got a plan too n im leaving where I am. Just not sure if it's spring or winter. I get bad winters in ontario ans i sure am not prepared but Id like to be alone in my won rig and I need ro be prepared. I'm gonna try videoing it ans upload it to fb under a channel just for my travels. Not sure how that'll go but we will see. To new beginnings and old but new beginnings. Crossing my fingers over here for you guys. ❤❤❤

[@lesleyhughes3174]

😮​@@MsLori-BassGirl4Life

[@paulamorris3138]

​​​​​@@MsLori-BassGirl4Lifethey want other people. They aren't compatible. Leave her wild. And Isaac can also be free to have what he wants. He's been a great provider and hard worker. She wants to be free. Let her. She can now hang with Samantha lol

[@Running_with_Faith]

My guess is that Chinook Cascade that you have been dreaming about & you mentioned a few videos back. If it is....can't wait to see it! Hope it's an easy rig to drive that has all the comforts of a tiny home/apartment on wheels. Congratulations on the sale of the van.

[@suef1490]

I'd wanted a chinook for years, I settled for a camper van, and now that i'm getting older, I can't get in or out of the van. L o l time to sell that, too.

[@cinandrews]

Congratulations!!! I commend you and Isaac for how you are handling coparenting! I look forward to seeing both of you as you begin new chapters. I have been with you for so many years. Way back in Texas. I have watched you grow and become happier than I have ever seen you. I rarely comment, but had to wish you all the love and support I can from all the way from Arkansas! ❤❤❤❤

[@dawncollins7613]

Chinook Rv

[@HughMadBro]

Was thinking that also 😂

[@sandrafergueson8155]

I love how you and Issac co parent! Congratulations 🎉 on the sale of your van!

[@ribbleslipscomb5171]

I hope, as always, that you and Issac get to your happy place. ❤❤❤❤❤ Love and Peace to your family.

[@JohnD-t1k]

Congrats Jaylena just want you three to stay happy... You three as a whole or not, you are all very special people to us in Gatlinburg.... Good luck

[@TeresaDavis-jg7ho]

Congratulations! You must be so proud of yourself!🙏🙏🙏😊

[@DanielLaPointe8864]

Yay on the sale! We can see the wonderful job on the build, very meticulous. That must have made a difference for them knowing the quality and effort put into it. And Happy to see the beautiful smiles!

[@juliepesch8417]

I’m so freaking excited for you guys!!!

[@gabba5423]

Congratulations Jaylena you deserve the best.

[@assiahinarkansas]

Congrats Jaylena🎉🎉🎉 So happy for you❤

[@joaddington9890]

Congrats! You will find another one that you will like more! I pray you all three of you!

[@paulamaddox2148]

I'm waiting to see if you keep this one. Lol

[@sharon7181]

Happy for you on selling the van build ! They got a good van ! Chinook RV .

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

Jaylena, No judgement. The relationship between you and Issaic belongs to both of you. That's reality, not filmed for entertainment. Go fly with the strong wings you have and always be safe!❤

[@sherrismith5258]

I love your bangs. So pretty!!!!

[@pinkywilliams8063]

Prayers coming your way

[@mielesutter4159]

I don't play guessing games.

[@lucillehjort971]

Congratulations! Dreams coming true for both of you. I was hoping for you and Isaac being together too. You are such a nice family and can do more easier together.

[@recessivegenius6630]

I have a 1973 Dodge Chinook 18+ that I am renovating. They are super cool for sure.

[@sheilacaine]

Congratulations. I’m excited for your next journey. ❤

[@albrightfs]

So happy for you! BIG changes and you did so amazing on that van.. New owners should be so excited to own it..

[@GROCK619]

Its a shame y'all couldn't work things out..!!.. but good luck in your new adventure

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

It ain't your life.

[@clajlov]

Hi Jaylena, happy for you on the sell of your van..😊 On to the next journey.... I received your book, Awesome read. Congratulations. Some more to cross off , " I can do bucket list "

[@debbieherman6040]

Always keeping us in our toes jayelan. Keep up the good work. Love all your creative designs and can wait for the travels

[@freedomdove]

Congrats, Jaylena!! I'm glad your van found a happy home. 🙂

[@jujugypsyjourney3826]

There ya’ go!!! CONGRATULATIONS!! How exciting!! That Chinook is YOURS & you KNOW IT!! 😂👍💕✌️positive affirmation~ So be it ~ 😊

[@annhayes8149]

I’m so happy for you!! 😊

[@midnightchannel111]

I see this so often these days, people doing the right thing but not at the best time. Its like everyone has forgotten the way of happiness, theyre doing things backwards, theyre not taught anymore. So. It must be said: Go on your personal "journey" BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS. Once you have a child, YOUR LIFE DOESNT BELONG TO YOU ANYMORE if you are an ethical and moral adult. You are supposed to do all this "journeying" * before * you have children, * then * find a mate who agrees with your view of life so you are both there for each other, first, a solid union. And then, a solid union and foundation for the children. It's not fashionable at all to say what I am saying I know but I've begun to think thqt young people actually do not know this anymore. Someone must say it and IT IS TRUE. Children need stability and NO CHANGES. It is hard enough to he a child without having to support the changes your parents have decided to make because they didn't make these changes before they had you. The worst thing for a child, of course, outside of the obvious (poverty, starvation), is to live with people who are miserable. So it is good the these two people, who chose to have this child, are now "going on their journeys" since they didn't do it before. So what they are doing it good. But this is all backwards, "journeys" are for before you have kids.

[@lilymurzivargas4980]

What's meant for you, won't miss you! I just found the perfect rig for me and the logistics of getting it to where I live are crazy, and somehow, it's all working out ! Trust the process and if it isn't this rig, then something even better is coming your way!

[@anthonymoreno1578]

It's always hard on the children.when both parents are needed

[@LeaveHerWild]

She has always had both her parents and always will.

[@vickiekasafirek9096]

Very happy for you. Hope everything works out for the best.

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

Their lives will work out for the best! It's their right to chose their own life and journey.

[@Renee406Mt]

I'm sending peace to you, Issac and Ember. It will be sad to see you apart I'm always wishing you'd stay together. You both are beautiful people, beautiful parents and wishing you every happiness. I'm not sure about what your buying 😊 but congratulations on your sale ! A new beginning ❤❤❤

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

Hey, seek professional counseling if you can't get over your sadness, seek professional help.

[@Renee406Mt]

@BrendaFainsbert-q7h My goodness what a cheap person you are. I realize I shouldn't be responding but your the one that needs counseling wishing you peace with your bitterness.

[@stephennowicki7158]

Good luck! You look super happy! 😊

[@sharonb.9128]

Great video. I’m sure it was a weird day being happy to move forward at the same time saying goodbye to something you designed and created makes that more difficult. I HOPE you get a Box Truck. The channel Nomad Brad has absolutely sold me on the form factor. So much room with a small footprint considering. Check him out he’s selling his rig and you and Issac could make alterations in no time.

[@velmad5dilbert344]

Happy for you luv. You deserve the best. Good luck.❤😊

[@brazosvalleysoaps]

I'm praying for you as always! So exciting!

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

One life. One adventure. Its your life. Fly, enjoy and be safe, my dear!❤

[@anacleta424]

Yes but she has Child now and couple years she be going to pre school. So yes she better get a house or apartment 🎄✌️🎄

[@roaminb3488]

It's good to see a smile on your face for a change.

[@TinasCrazyLife]

Congrats on the new journey. You both seem to be great people. Sometimes it works sometimes or doesn't. Life keeps going either way. You have to be happy with yourself inside first and foremost.

[@patriciahagedorn5694]

It's a Chinook. Please be sure there are no serious issues. You don't want to spend a fortune on a new engine or transmission which could be a problem in older RV's. Take Issac with you to check it out and test drive it. I like that it's bigger and gives you and Ember more space. I hope you like living in an RV full time. Best of luck in whatever decision you make.

[@petgranny194]

I hope the new rig worked out. I'll be watching.

[@barbieserna7273]

So happy with your new adventure, I know your going to get something that's good to drive for you & Ember.

[@donaldjensenii4817]

Good luck on the new van

[@sandyschoonover9051]

Two cats and a toddler. Keep an extra eye on your cats. They could easily get loose and be lost with all the activity. ❤❤

[@LeaveHerWild]

The cats do great on the road🤗

[@valfunk4669]

Congratulations on your new adventure!!!!!

[@SDR702]

how much did you get for it?

[@petera.laceysr.28]

Congrats Jaylena on the sale of ur van I am looking forward to see what ur next rig is going to be sorry to see that u & Isaac r not going to be together anymore but I pray that u & Isaac will come together for ur princess Ember she will miss being with her dad but she will have u & ur cats but u guys will have a way to make it work I enjoy both ur videos I have been following u guys for a long time ur subscriber Peter A from SC ❤

[@andrewgeach5585]

I'm sorry about what is going on with you at the moment... Please all of you and the cats be safe and take care.. You both know what is best for you.. Be safe love the vids

[@filomenaregan1537]

Congratulations on the sale of the sprinter van.

[@KevinChristiansen-i2q]

Great video Jaylena

[@ClaudeMeadows-x2m]

I am apologizing for the inconvenience but I am sure you have everything in order, please let me know how everything turns out.

[@ClaudeMeadows-x2m]

Good afternoon dear

[@gibbygib764]

Yea please see if you can share the Instagram for your van. Great video. I'm guessing a class C style camper so Ember has some room to grow. But in the back of my mind I keep hearing Westfallia (spelling?). Keep up the good work. Hope things work out for you and Issac co-parenting. I've been following you since a long time back down in Texas before your 1st van. Much love for ya girl.

[@cynthiawilliamson5905]

Wow, congratulations on the sale of your van. I know you probably want to kind of cry. It’s like getting rid of one of your children!😢 you put a lot of loving care into it. I bet they will love it. I would.❤ you showed a picture of something that you were interested in. It wasn’t the exact one but was something like the one that you wanted it had more living space in it and I think that’s the one that you’re looking at and it’s not a van it say what it’s called. It’s not a truck, I can’t think of the name of it right now but I think you did show it. I’m excited for you.😮

[@curtisrennie5652]

Congratulations to the sale of your van,J it was a bitter sweet day for you 👍🏾

[@karenolson5556]

I wish you the Best of luck!!!

[@LoulouVioletCapulet]

Exciting going forward, love the bangs btw 🌼🌻🧡

[@Infinitepossibilitiesat56plus]

Good luck and I hope 🤞 you get it !!

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

You go girl! Fly! Enjoy!

[@jaynewarriner7214]

You’re definitely a brave one. a lot of determination dreams and, as you said, love went into building that van and it was gorgeous. But your same skill and wisdom will go into the next build. I’m sure of it.🍁 looking forward to watching all the changes

[@kathyalford5904]

Hello Jaylena I’m so glad you sold your van. First, just want to say that I have followed you for awhile since way back sorry things didn’t work out back then, you know we have to experience things so the next time we will hopefully learn. Ya know, some people are so lucky that the person you marry is the one, but I have tried four times and at my age I really would like to have a friend, but that would be it. I never got lucky.i have realized though, there can be other reasons other than luv that you settled for. I don’t know about tru luv. There are other qualities in people out there. And, I guess I just want to talk about your baby daddy. He seems likes such a good daddy, and he was there for you when you didn’t want to go thru it alone. I hope that you will always keep in her life, it’s very important. I know he’s going to miss her so bad. I wish you the very best, I think you have grown up a lot, but the one thing I learned was that all I need is myself, don’t wait on any man to make you feel whole, you are smart, pretty, and you can make it on your own." Don’t settle! Know body says you have to get married.you can go back to school, be able to make such a good living. So many funds for a single ladies. It won’t take that long. Do it for your baby, you’ll be glad that you did. Luv you Jalena and I’ll continue to follow you, good luck😊😊😊❤❤❤

[@dreadedscotslass]

I know! And I'm hoping and praying you get it x x lots of love and best wishes from scotland ❤

[@1biggun712]

Well jaylena, a lot has happened over the past few years. Congratulations on having a baby girl Ember. Good luck on your next adventures. Keep on keeping on 💪🤩/BIGGUN 😁

[@lori1508]

Congratulations on selling the Van.

[@freedomdove]

My advice is to have the new rig inspected. 👍

[@markweaver3352]

Why build it just to sell it?

[@tinyelephant77]

A chinook is also a GREAT choice!

[@sherrypaproski9564]

That’s awesome Jaylena finely you can get what you’ve been wanting for you and ember to live in

[@julestheagent3932]

Hopefully in good shape

[@ruthhutching1206]

Congratulations!!! Hope all works out for you...we are selling all our property and getting on the road...so next year we will be traveling seniors...Im so looking forward to it...

[@sandracarter2905]

Wow, it’s about to happen, congratulations!

[@ellyntallon2255]

Yeaaaa... the van sold woohoo on the new rig Jaylena ((~~~ + + + ~~~)) positive vibes

[@judith4158]

Thanks!

[@LeaveHerWild]

Thank you so much!❤️

[@jamesharper2998]

You can't leave we will miss you so much 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢we loved ur videos

[@JenniferHayesJVG]

She's not leaving you tube

[@jerrybrady9103]

I so happy for you Jaylena. But, be sure to get a carfax report on any motor vehicle before you purchase.

[@christinewhisenhunt]

Chinook! I saw the video where you talked about it and showed one. LOL Waiting to see what you'll do with it though!

[@venturingout4235]

Aren't you able to take it in to have it checked out to see if there is anything wrong with it. I took my car in to have them plug a device under my steering wheel that would read out what was wrong. It was free at an auto parts store in Nevada. You can check If you have it in your state.

[@hopemullins1055]

It's a right hand drive military jeep

[@chandrasutton4669]

Glad you sold the van and that the price went down on the rig you want to buy!!!😊🎉❤ Best of luck with the new purchase!!!😊😅😂

[@shelleymccrory-martines9906]

Hi Jaylena. I’m Happy you sold your van. My guess on your Next Rig: Chinook! I hope this works out for both you and Ember to have many adventures in life. Happy Thanksgiving 🦃 Soon. Love from Dallas where temps are in the 65’s - 70s.

[@southerngrits]

Been with you from the beginning of your first van. You have to do what is best for you and amber. Glad you and Issac can keep an open friendship . Choices you make are the only choices that matter for you and amber .

[@gem246]

Me too. This blesses my heart. I am praying for you. Keeping moving forward you can do it

[@kerry17]

I'll be here too. Cant wait for our next adventure (s) lol, Love you my lady bug

[@kerry17]

It's EMBER not amber. God bless

[@rhondarenepersinger7223]

Been here since way back on the ranch! I hate to see them split but she is always living others dream and not her own. Praying great things for her...and Isaac and Ember!🎉❤

[@maryjemisonMaryjay1936]

Ember ❤❤❤❤❤

[@colleenG.]

I last remember the Chinook van that you mentioned. Hope it works out for you!💗

[@ElizabethsManyAdventures]

I wish you could rent something like a chinook for a weekend and make sure it's enough space for you and Ember because I'm afraid the floor space will be so minimal it'll be so stressful to parent on.

[@BrendaFainsbert-q7h]

Life is an adventure. Live and learn. It's THEIR LIFE. THIS IS THEIR WISH AND DESIRE...Why make this your wish?

[@ElizabethsManyAdventures]

@@BrendaFainsbert-q7h She's lived and learned in vans before but she's never had a toddler in a van other than the recent one which she said was just too small. I merely gave advice from one parent to another, nothing was meant to be hurtful and I've been following her for 4-5 years, never once said anything mean so...

[@TuckedAwayHomestead]

GOOD LUCK TODAY BOO 🎉 how exciting!!!!

[@ElizabethsManyAdventures]

Speaking of following them on IG, I know the lady you sold the Peach to is on youtube, any clue what happened with that first van you had?