Old fling love | Talks with Tony

[@toriyt2714]

It just hit me and I don’t know why. We stay in these relationships past the expiration date because we have never experienced a real relationship. A lot of us would answer our own questions if we had a greater experience to compare it to.

[@stargoldqueen5894]

Definitely onto something there.

[@Glamrocs]

So true

[@QueenSamiyah]

Omg Amennnnnn

[@soulRegal08]

Yep. That is what I learned in my last relationship.

[@sharicebryant8149]

Very true!!! I’ve only ever been in situationships so i can def relate.

[@aphroditanyc]

‘A person who has nothing to do wants to do it with you’. That’s the type of person you want to stay far away from!

[@sullivancountydays]

Say it louder for folk in the back.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

AMEN

[@jewelsafire6844]

Most soul ties are made from the fear of being ALONE. Beware of men who "come through" when you're vulnerable. He isn't there for you. He's there for himself. It's best to finish old business before starting new business. Clear head works productively with a clear heart.🧐❣

[@NekeishaWise]

Gems 💎

[@stargoldqueen5894]

Right on

[@mileyroe4877]

Love this

[@Kellergirl]

I agree.

[@tonid773]

You ain't never lied. So True

[@Pinkdiamond12]

Reuniting with old past love usually doesn't work out. Move forward.

[@Princessofimaginiation]

Why?

[@Kellergirl]

I agree. Don't look back...you aren't going that way.

[@mwright0428]

Facts- if exes reach out it’s usually because your low hanging fruit. I have 2 exceptions or dating exes. 1) HS and it was a good relationship but you both went off to college and lost touch or 2) if there are children involved

[@shutit4024]

Facts

[@DaintyDré]

Tony ain't letting us have NO free time today 😆 These notifications been going off since 7am!!! Lemme grab my computer glasses, my good eye is no longer at this point.

[@cherh]

😂 the good eye tired huh?

[@nikkinicole625]

😂😂😂

[@Glamrocs]

Lol 😂

[@neya292]

For real! He said (not really) take all these videos bc when I am on break- I'M ON BREAK! LOL

[@KrystleLaughter]

The strong connection is not mutual or you would have married him instead. Ladies, we have to get better at reading men, and stop wasting time. This is why I wrote: He Doesn’t Love You If... & Love Yourself First. Another great video Tony.

[@monikalaney5782]

m nm nkjjkkn JBL n.v kkl.

[@brandyfrancis1]

I’ve been abstinent for 11yrs, a believer, a Nurse, 35 yrs old, no children, never been married… I hear the same thing “Abstinence is not special. That’s old fashion. People not doing that no more. But you will make a man happy some day.” 🙄lol

[@fuzzypants101]

I loved reading this. I’m 24 and have been abstinent since 23. I’m comfortable waiting until God brings my husband. My friends roll their eyes 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@brandyfrancis1]

@@fuzzypants101 keep doing what you are doing… don’t give up! The pressure is real, but God is the realist! His way is the best way. It may not feel good to our flesh but it will work together for our good in the end. 🙏🏽💖

[@fuzzypants101]

@@brandyfrancis1 🤍🤍

[@liahknowsbest5092]

My testimony: I was 4 years in and got the same backlash. I failed weak to a man who presented himself as everything I needed and wanted. To find out he was a lesson I was being tested (I failed). A year later I'm healing and see things differently. I appreciate you, sis you are breaking generational curses, you are making what's unbelievable; believable, you know your value, you're worth, You are chosen and you will be completely happy with what GOD presents to you😉👏🏾🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏾🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏾

[@suzannaflores1164]

Yet they complain about a women's body count. Do you honey and find your husband with integrity. All the best to you.

[@SimplyFitwithJay]

Tony hitting us back to back with the videos 😄

[@peaceful_and_blessed2879]

Yessss!! 🙌🙏🏻😎

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Yessss

[@jacquelynlinn1505]

Praise God. I need all he’s got to give!!

[@tiffineyena7001]

Iknw right. I can't keep up.

[@Breanne_M]

He’s going on vacation next week, so he’s trying to dedicate as much time as possible for us. I love it.

[@karamelbuttafly3624]

It's literally TonyTv for me.

[@bobate6030]

WE WOULD BE SO MUCH HAPPIER IF we didn't allow our emotions/feelings to lead our decision making in relation-ships. So hard, but it will save us from so much pain .🙏🏾

[@sullivancountydays]

That would make woman--men.

[@bobate6030]

​@@sullivancountydays Don't misunderstand, I never stated we should get rid of our emotions and feelings. We just need to control it better and stay less out of our head. And see things for what it is, not how we want it to be.

[@starrababy31]

@@bobate6030 agreed. We need to do without “emotional thinking” and use logical thinking

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

I really really love how Tony gently tells us that we need to observe our appearance. Our beauty. How we need to self evaluate ourselves. Our looks. So gently so delicate.

[@phyllisdickerson9071]

Class is in session, ladies!

[@cherh]

👩🏾‍🏫 present!

[@suzannaflores1164]

It is!

[@IamKarryanne]

You ain't never seen a women with sense leave a good man. -TG

[@DaintyDré]

The last letter was like "Tony I met a guy for 3 days, and it was perfect!!!! We truly loved eachother, until one day he wore Red and I didn't like that, so he left me, was I wrong? Please help...... 😂 like girllll .... now you KNOW

[@IshanaeS]

This comment is taking me 😭😭😭😂

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“After coming to some clarity in the middle of my sleep, while I was dreaming, I decided to cut ties.” TG 🤣🤣🤣

[@sullivancountydays]

He has a great following in comedy if the coaching thing don't work.

[@laneys2030]

Old fling love is old for a reason you got to know you deserve better. 22, 18 and 16 that is interesting hope she sets good example for her girls so they know not to allow anyone to treat them any type of way and stop giving chances to men who don't deserve it.

[@stylesxtwo3100]

You is kind you is smart you is important 😂

[@andthnwat]

Appreciate you and all you do to educate and minister to us. I pray you and your family continue to be blessed.

[@_zina9054]

Tony is blessing us today 🙏

[@tiffineyena7001]

"You ain't never seen a woman get rid of a good man." Tony Gaskins I know that's right. Finding a good man is like tryn to find unblemished fruit in the produce section at the grocery store. Lol!😁

[@tinajones4506]

Listening.

[@meateatertoveganish2032]

I said whattt and another one💃💃loving the back to back videos

[@wol3335]

I have been enjoying them too😊

[@2BROTHERS969]

God bless you my Brother, I appreciate you and all your videos that you are sharing to schooling these women/lady/girls showing them how a thug and a family man is TOTALLY different!!!!! .. I'm a single dad and I am one of your everyday watchers, what I have to do is, flip the content over that you are sharing , from a men manipulation too a woman and being manipulated DAWG!! these women are being drawn to these commercial rappers and fake thugs with $$ and think they are the real man... You has showed me that there is two sides to every coin... God bless you and your family.. keep it coming brother!!! 👍

[@shegotstandards]

Sis, once a man ghost you let him remain a ghost!😂 keep moving forward💃👉👉👉👉

[@Ashley_Banks]

Thank you so much Tony for the videos. I appreciate your time and effort.

[@crystalmarcia2614]

It’s the consistency of the back to back videos here lately for me lol 🙌🏾💯‼️

[@nacoyarussell185]

The “techy” lady is also telling these men too much of her business. Although we’re waiting until marriage, we don’t have to tell men that. Actions speak louder than words 😉 I personally wouldn’t be french kissing them either.... I don’t know where their tongue has been 🤮😂🤣😂

[@Girlintheewild]

Okay! What you said Ms. Nacoya!

[@Chicarene22]

Thank you for all of these videos today!

[@Glamrocs]

Ready

[@qscott888]

Here for it.

[@bregettewashington4669]

Tony you are so mature and experienced keep up the good advice you keep it real and very honest person

[@maynesoulution4617]

Go to Home Depot or Lowe’s during lunch hour and weekends. You’re Welcome!😊

[@Justdessah]

Lol

[@ysmithriley]

@7:28 The brain remembers things better than they ACTUALLY were. SO TRUE! You're only knew his REPRESENTATIVE back then and not WELL!

[@dancerdancer313]

Thanks for all the gems Tony! I really appreciate all the work you do. I really like this new shorter format where you answer multiple letters! 👍🏽💎😃

[@Rahkiya]

He needs his own segment t.v. Show or something! Cuz his messages be so insightful, compassionate and Helpful, I can see the whole word healing with messages like this.

[@stephaniew4848]

Ooh my man nor myself BET NOT go backwards!!🤣😅💜💜fr

[@bobbyhill8486]

"Finder? Dumble? Plenty of Sharks?" lololol that sent me

[@ChristianLancaster]

I’m not the only one

[@bregettewashington4669]

Hi Tony you are so on point very positive person

[@julianacheriza1575]

Omg when ever he said “singing on the microphone” I die😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 never gets old!!

[@sullivancountydays]

It always amazes me that ppl say the marriage isn't working but continue to have kids.

[@leespicey6948]

Could be the fear of having children by different parents

[@marlenethornton490]

You is smart, you is kind & you is important. 😂😂 😂 No offense to the letter writer, TG is just crazy😂😂😂

[@_zina9054]

Yea you did this one already

[@drmaryeproctor9636]

Thanks for sharing, blessings!

[@jacquelinecmarketing7654]

Tony, these haters cannot tell you how to charge for your professional services….. what you should do is go up to at the very least an even $1000.00. I really think your under valuing your courses! Your message is so powered by and through God! I really appreciate your message you are one of the only Life coaches that preach fornication is a sin! Thank you again. God bless you and your family!🙏🏾😊💯

[@sherriecampbell6914]

No ring , no fling

[@neya292]

Y'All just Tony's face in the thumbnail had me cracking up! I know there is some foolishness! P.s. not laughing at any person's pain, just simply Tony's humor which is educational and edifying as well!

[@2BROTHERS969]

My kids mother abandon me and our 2 kids and her other 3 kids from her prior husband... We Haven't heard from her in 8 months. Please feel free to reach out to me my brother...

[@madzbadz]

Thank you Tony for being so consistent with your videos 💯✨I be listening to these “talks with Tony” in my headphones at work😂

[@dashafenty9969]

Here .

[@vchild]

I missed a few videos but I'm getting caught up. I love bingeing your videos on my morning walk

[@jaenorth2654]

Listening

[@DD-mg2se]

Sis you're strong..pregnant and flirting. Pregnancy is a whole lot already but I do hope all ends well for you.

[@vanessachambers697]

Be Blessed 😊

[@InsideSophiaM]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@JenniferThomas-ze8qf]

Tony you have been helping me grow by understanding the mind of a man much as I can. I've been trying to help the women around me make a change to be happy in this life but they are so suck with society rules of how things always been smh🤦‍♀️ I guess I'll just save myself and come back if needed 🤷‍♀️

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you are rolling out the videos . Am trying to catch up with you on watching lol 😂 😂😂 Be Blessed and your family.

[@CrazyCandy5]

Im going to write to Tony and get advice in my current situation.

[@Justdessah]

What them eyebrows doing...What them nose hairs doing...you is smart, you is kind...😂😂😂🤣 Thank you TG!!

[@gigibrown_wright]

Took me out 😂🤣😂🤣

[@stargoldqueen5894]

Right about 2nd emailer; reminded me of some of my exs. Who in here is also an introvert?

[@justbu3797]

👋

[@jenniferthompson5146]

I am but I still get out on the weekends, dancing and doing meetups. No matter how busy I feel, I know it is a must to socialize, especially as I desire marriage.

[@misscleanful]

Tony G!!!! You had me cracking up in this one!! 😂

[@misskaykayRSA]

The lady who wrote “back” as “bike” is a regular listener 😂😂… she knows exactly what she’s saying….

[@CrazyCandy5]

Thanks Tony for your insight. I needed to hear it. The tech girl story got me crackin up but you well said tony well said. I hope that girl takes your advice.

[@Britt-q1q]

Hold up what kinda stride Tony doing 😂

[@tiffiniforiest6428]

You is strong, you is smart, you is kind.. 😂😂😂

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

How did i miss this one??? I'm ready now though!

[@topazgraham2643]

Yippie...Another video!👏🏾👍🏿😂

[@samanthaharris5404]

Tickling your nose with a feather 😂😂😂😂 I’m crying 😭.

[@babybobbiejeansmom]

Tied up by her fingers and her toes, NO HE DID NOT!!

[@ChristianLancaster]

I watch for the comedy 😩 why am I like this?

[@elizabethschilling7178]

Do you snort when you laugh? Omg, 😂😂😂

[@millicentgreen4543]

The Pippy Longstocking reference took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Phoenixishot]

This is why waiting until marriage is not what everyone thinks it is. I was an adult virgin, I also had a couple of adult virgin friends. SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE - adult virginity will have you socially stunted. After about 20, the social differences are too much to overcome without seeming different.

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

Lord why you describing me at my local grocery store HEB. Lol I be walking for the gods lol you hear me. I be feeling like my man at HEB or the gym. Point 24:48 😆

[@MichelleNagir]

Lol, HEB is my local grocery store too 😂

[@R3d694]

Same

[@ChristianLancaster]

TX

[@traywaybby]

Let’s just change “back” to “bike” we all know what that mean and it’s official from now on

[@bregettewashington4669]

Tony if a man never got married in his 60 years old its something wrong with him

[@TiaraByrd88]

Outfit look you just got off of house arrest 😂

[@sherryj738]

He laid hands on you. Dont stay with a man because of money. Work 2 jobs uf you have to.

[@bamnbamn7453]

Celie From Da Color Purple ?!?! LOLOLOL "U Sho Is Ugly !!!"😂😂😂

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

26:30 what are the three B’s?

[@jenniferthompson5146]

Brain body and brand

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

@@jenniferthompson5146 Thank you. 🌺

[@evelynramirez6390]

The tecK girl flying virgin airlines and that doesnt sang on that microphone 🎙 🤣🤣 hilarious

[@cocoj2252]

Hips looking like a car door swangin lol 🤣🤣

[@bregettewashington4669]

Dealing with a man is always drama men lie and dont want you if he never calls you or playing the field

[@ysmithriley]

This Sis starts out like she's just dating this 23-year old man. Then she drops the BOMBSHELL that she has a child with him. She and her boyfriend are ON-AND-OFF, he doesn't support her financially, and they've had physical fights. She now asks Tony what kind a man is her boyfriend? What did we just HEAR? Sis, this was something that you shoulda figured out before you had a child with your BF. There was never anything but sex between you. Gone boutcha biz Sis!

[@ShiaGirl18]

Omg! I snort when I laugh. I have to work on that. How can I correct it?

[@ShiaGirl18]

An ambivert is someone who has a mixture of introvertedness and extrovertedness.

[@tiffineyena7001]

Wait, did Tony just quote that line out the movie, The Help? And did he call Tinder offender? 😆😁

[@Dina-ti7tl]

Pippy longstockings🤣🤣🤣

[@shareewalls6032]

Did you say the gazelle stride😂😂🤣😂

[@thegoddessempirelifecoachi6298]

“What them eyebrows looking like, what them nose hairs looking like, what them teeth doing?” Lol presentation is part of your 1st impression. I bet the tech sis just needs a little bit of “polishing” and some self confidence coaching to be on her way to finding her husband!

[@2LoveJones]

Heeeey

[@cheekscheeks5840]

I know this going to be interesting 🤔

[@Samanthasuarezh]

Dumble 🤣🤣🤣

[@sullivancountydays]

Help me Holy Ghost. Now Tony putting peach cobbler on the menu.

[@Joycelang2495]

Leave that no good man,alone fall in love with Jesus 💒💒💒

[@othonnadubois7673]

BOUNCE HOUSE 😄

[@bregettewashington4669]

Never go backwards when you see the red flags move on and my ex boyfriend son's father is married and wants me back my son is 28yrs old and will never. Leave his wife really he is a mess now drinking and never have money etc don't care about him at all

[@nikkyshamz2696]

so many personality traits that can make a man stay or go........

[@halimad.6401]

"Piggy Longstocking, I meant Pippi Longstockings", lol.

[@aneshrathomas]

Ain’t no back tracking ..❗️

[@ShasellaBella]

Stay off your bike 💀💀💀

[@mingmyoung3942]

Well her marriage was bound to fall if she knew she had feelings and was talking to someone else during marriage smh 🤦‍♀️