Once You Complain You've Already Lost

[@SaffronSageAstrology]

"If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you."

[@amerkovac5247]

And what if "you" are not and you're not aware of it?

[@SaffronSageAstrology]

Amer Kovač I guess that’s the work we all have to do to be successful. Cultivate the self awareness to know. I think it works the opposite way as well where a person can be naturally excellent at their craft but they don’t know it because it comes so easily to them.

[@user-qn3ox9in1k]

Translation "If you could, you would." Ignores logistics, reality, and passive aggressive sabotaging of other people.

[@FLower13582]

@@amerkovac5247 Then you're stopping yourself

[@onelifepassport]

*So true when I realized this my life changed for the better. Take full responsibility and strive to become the best version of yourself and use all the energy on bettering yourself and not making excuses.*

[@MoveConsistently]

just like Goku :)

[@onelifepassport]

@@MoveConsistently exactly!

[@Octocat77]

Excuses on what?

[@ogbobby89]

So when I killed myself. Nobody cares

[@cristianwithnoh2951]

Take responsibility for something you didn't even do that is effecting you?

[@markettree7772]

Absolutely! You’re either “solutions-oriented” and you’re actually valuable moving forward, or you’re “problems-oriented” and as you complain, you’re just another part of the problem. Never point out a problem, instead point out areas of opportunity with at LEAST 3 good solutions.

[@acharich]

💣💣💣

[@acharich]

*Never _just_ point out a problem (I'd say..)

[@tdavis6260]

Barzzzzz!!🙌🏽🎯

[@carlosalcazar2344]

I don't understand how this shit is free!! Thanks Gary!!

[@NigelJ]

I think it boils down to acceptance more than anything. Many people complain bc things aren't the way they want them, so instead of accepting that reality, they deny it, and since it continually lets them down, they complain. Ultimately it gets them nowhere, which is why acceptance is liberating, even when we accept things we don't particularly like or want to.

[@mypersonaltestgia2704]

Exactly: it frees you!

[@NiceOCGuy1981]

And they expect others to help them because they're in a tough spot. WAKE UP!!! No one is going to help you. It may feel unfair, but that's life.

[@ShaneHummus]

That's why don't complain. Be happy when problems or obstacles arises. It's your leveling spot.

[@theofficelab]

Every time things don't go my way and I start pondering, little Gary appears on my shoulder and yells: 'Stop complaning. Do something about it. Cause nobody fucking cares!' - There's no better motivation!

[@WholeHealthConnections]

If we take the time that we use complaining to take actions towards our goals... things start to take a big shift for the better. Positivity, gratitude, patience, persistence, consistency. Let’s go!! Join the positivity train.

[@noemiphung9394]

Great talk Gary! I have applied my no complaining rule for 4 months now. It was hard in the beginning but feel like I am getting the hang of it. It has brought me joy and peace. It has given me the opportunity to see the good in every situation. Cheers to everyone trying to live the best life possible!

[@MonicaSancio]

Absolutely! Gary Vaynerchuk rocks 👏💜I love listening to the truth: you are so right & right on the money on what to do now. We are lucky to be living NOW in the greatest era, being who we are really... "Who are you scared to fail in front of?... Own it or eliminate it. Put yourself in a position to succeed!... If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you!" 🙌💜

[@melodicgod2382]

People complain so much at my school, but I feel like it’s a good thing in a way, to express what your going through inside and let it out. But yea most of the time I don’t care or people don’t care when I complain.

[@SharonTseung]

So true. Gotta think macro and also take full responsibility!

[@johannmuster9726]

That's right that nobody cares. I work harder than everyone, life was never fair to me, i always found a solution BUT i complain at the same time! Of course i speak it out if something is not right!

[@xWe2s]

The greatest talk. And this is the best chunk of it.

[@annastayziaa]

rewatching this in 2021 🤗

[@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308]

This is timeless wisdom from Gary. I'm going to forward this s*** to all the complainers I know. LOL

[@satoriseedclub]

5:48 The entire speech in 9 words.

[@FM-to3gy]

nah, others are great

[@inc0ntr0I]

I have had a productive week, your videos are hitting me hard today gary! I am meeting with my old boss and hopefully future mentor! I wish happiness for everyone! LOVE

[@hiphopheaven]

Complaining is not only therapeutic but also the first step towards creating change

[@roodchibapierre6117]

True

[@shahidekram1359]

His Energy level is so fucking High. I bet he is not High but The Energy is.

[@nathansegurakennedy8607]

The uncle I never had but always wanted. Thanks uncle Vee

[@369jwillow]

Absolute truth for me and many others

[@GorgonDrageil]

I will say though, love yourself and care for yourself. Suppressing trauma and baggage just to act tough will also hold you back. Fuck if nobody gives a fuck. Please give a fuck about yourself. 🙏 #Balance

[@shanethecoolestshortfilms]

I "fuckin" love this guy...I needed to watch this video

[@TimRoseOfficial]

Great stuff Gary!

[@mrvincentpogi]

yes thats right i learn this from garyvee

[@MornevanWykSubscribe]

Yeah I won't do that-i won't give up on my KZbin dream. -i will keep grinding and pushing and become a youtube success

[@a7xfanben]

Gary's trying to squeeze his hand off his arm in the thumbnail 😂

[@pavlostsangarides7500]

Best Gary Vee speech so far

[@mosaicmonk4380]

Those invisible coconuts almost took out my boy gary lol .

[@acharich]

💀💀💀

[@AdamAlq]

As someone who’s been in business for a number years (nowhere close to as experienced nor as wealthy as Gary), I can tell you that he is 100% right! Along the journey of becoming an entrepreneur, you’ll meet all kinds of horrible characters. Suffer from immense stress and loss of wealth in chasing your dream. You’ll have more bad days than good in the beginning, and it’ll seem like everything and everyone is against you. Complaining about it won’t achieve anything, because as Gary said; “nobody gives a fuck”. All you do is waste your energy by complaining and end up feeling sorry for yourself. The difficulties are part of the journey and you have to face them I’m afraid. Not everyone is cut for this journey and I appreciate that. This is why I hate people going around thinking that calling themselves a CEO, entrepreneur etc is cool. It’s not! It takes years and years of hard work with blood, sweat and tears! The title may sound fancy but the journey you have to embark on, not many can handle.

[@dmax1]

"Eliminate Mom and Dad" got it gary, Thanks as always

[@user-qn3ox9in1k]

I take it you don't have Narc Parents.

[@DevonReaws]

Gary Vee is that dude. I hope he close to god while hes doing this as well. Like this dude. Real dude.

[@joaquinben4458]

Yeaaaaaa!!! No more complaintssss!!!!! Get into Action!!!!

[@ste7en777]

all crying does is expose sadness

[@Black7Bluebird]

The coconut comparison was awesome. I love hoy Gary!

[@reverendbluejeans1748]

I think it was better to be a nerd 20 years ago. There was so much less competition back then, and technology barriers was much harder.

[@ste7en777]

i love it when extremely important things go wrong

[@jasonsimson3349]

I've been going through some hard times lost all my friends and i am alone and feeling like I'm going insane but i taken an promise not to complain ever again. because it makes me ugly.

[@cosodesign8953]

It really does. Happy people and successful people don’t have time for it.

[@mypersonaltestgia2704]

Yep truth : no one cares and no one is coming to save you U figure it out alone.. its sucks to accept this, but once u do, u become free to go be yourself and do wtf works for ya with no explanations, cause who cares wtf u do?! No one 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@09070605uty]

One of the best speeches ever!

[@jjmaia]

As a EU citizen, I was affected by Brexit. I dealt with it by leaving the UK and went travelling to Australia and never stopped :p

[@austinsomogyi1437]

To be fair theres a difference between complaining and speaking up tbh

[@dewadebadon]

Daily Energy! Thank you Gary!

[@my_onlysunshine9143]

Thank you, I needed to hear that :))

[@epicmyth457]

Oh thank you.

[@mechhaya]

You can do only one thing good at a time and they can't be opposite hence either you are solving something or sitting and complaining about it, which side are you on ? .... me always solving :)

[@baslielalene4702]

Thank you.

[@kylegambling]

Amazing video, motivating, in reality complaing is not going to get you any success

[@LittleRapGuy]

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[@landonic81]

I just came to the comments to complain Gary! Here's me complaining!

[@dvduadotcom]

It's clearly not true that people don't give a shit, plenty of people do care, have empathy, want to listen and help and give advice etc... So, maybe the wording could be better by Gary here, because I think what he's really saying is that at the end of the day, you have to live with yourself, you have to do the work, you have to care, you cannot live as if people care and can do the work for you... complaining just leads to pushing people away who do care. The same energy used to complain can be used to create your solution, if you work hard on the right things.

[@EthanSchwandtTheMindMapGuy]

Dwelling and Pondering and Prying Doesn't Do Anything.. *That's huge!*

[@jeffsdavis]

Gary Vee is such a boss! Keynote with no notes!!

[@starlife1441]

really nice that's so true

[@flavianstanciu9952]

really true

[@playmobilegames1626]

true

[@carpenoctem775]

If you can, try to find a solution. Next step is to reach out. But don’t give up, unless it’s a last resort. And if so, learn from it. Tomorrow’s another day.

[@ste7en777]

been there. done that.

[@celiapryce2688]

Nothing but facts 👏🏽

[@joaquinben4458]

Yeaaaaaaa i needed this!!!

[@higurashianduminekoconnect1702]

Also I know one type of people who always lose by default someone has more facts than them they'll try to go for grammar having bad grammar doesn't change the fact that someone has more information on something than you do I'm actually call people out on that. And I say grammar doesn't change the fact that the person knows more than you do it just satisfies your need to think you have better grammar but it doesn't help you to actually win then I tell them which means that your idea of grammar is absolutely useless when it comes to knowing your facts

[@gregsg01]

Better to use your time to move forward than to whine!

[@HipHopLuVeRZ]

"If you're a FUCKING ALIEN" hahahahah GARY VEE!!!! You should make a stand-up comedy special, I'm tellin you man :))

[@korihayes3477]

I needed this

[@rachitchoudhary6063]

I need to hear this

[@shabanpasha]

Best speech ever!!!

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Love it Gary😝😍👌

[@ManipulateHavoc]

Complaints only hold water when your are the ocean

[@kuei12]

My wife is a chronic complainer. EVERY little thing. Yet, she does absolutely NOTHING to resolve any issues.

[@amritkumarbehera9631]

Thank you Gary Vee

[@ste7en777]

put a smile on your face

[@ISpeakHTML]

I keep watching Gary, I feel like his words apply to me, however it’s really hard to hold strong to my passion of cannabis, I feel like I’ll disappoint everyone around me even though it’s something I want and would enjoy, if I make 40k a year I’ll be content. But I don’t wanna do what I love because I only have so many people in my life :/

[@richmanni_magazine]

Facts 💯🔥

[@ste7en777]

everything will be okay

[@RoadMover01]

I love this guy

[@ste7en777]

i'm either happy or annoying

[@ste7en777]

they have a list of extra good people

[@ste7en777]

and sadness is our little secret

[@krsdivz2378]

Sounds like this guy needs a hug. I encourage my closests friend and loved ones to complain to me if they need to just let off steam. For him to say no one cares... Well i dont think he's met everyone

[@ste7en777]

virtue is self-betrayal

[@ste7en777]

advice from adventurer to adventurer

[@clawoosbauer]

Fired up!🔥🔥🔥 🔴Haiti🔵

[@ste7en777]

i do that all the time

[@JacobLouis]

This video is worth complaining about.

[@ste7en777]

i hope it's extremely important

[@ste7en777]

to never check would be a mistake

[@globalgrimewatch]

All the phones... drop it.. and take the message in. What have we become?

[@ste7en777]

once you smile you already lost

[@ste7en777]

i just start with it

[@ste7en777]

you are the voice of virtue

[@mariammohammad3061]

It’s not fair that there’s an empty chairs ! I would die to be setting there 😭

[@ste7en777]

someone worked very hard to set this all up

[@senecamanu6515]

In this event, gary drank one cup of coffee

[@ste7en777]

we're here to help

[@ste7en777]

you're having a meltdown because someone chose the wrong flavor of ice cream

[@toreymyshrall1004]

It just is how He said it is

[@sphakhumalo3346]

this is power ever in my life motivation

[@ste7en777]

i treat the universe like its my personal dream and see what happens

[@ste7en777]

i wouldn't want to ruin it

[@peterbynoe9457]

You are spot on every single.what saying happenings to be

[@LaundryChuteLLC]

So revelent