Never Complain Ever Again - Jocko Willink and Echo Charles

[@Mdaddarioe]

These two are a rare breed these days. Very inspiring.

[@speznik9588]

Indeed! Rare is always precious. :)

[@rlbrett]

Paul, a man of grit and grace.

[@oc4026]

The other guy is just a yes man. Nothing special about him. Jocko on the other hand...

[@elijahsulentic9410]

Now rare. When they go, extinct.

[@CJ_102]

Plenty folks like this, seek them out.

[@Kinhussar]

Anyone else baffled by how soft Echo Charles'es voice sounds compared to his appearence? Like a friendly Winnie-the-Pooh that can also kill you.

[@Mr.Honest247]

Nik J Keenan Low T despite the muscles Lmao.

[@Jacob-sb3su]

Mr. Blunt Echos got more T in his left bicep than most of the comment section

[@followerofgms8294]

Mr. Blunt genetics

[@nicolasvillamil7523]

He reminds me of tyson

[@PolishBehemoth]

Yeah, i was baffled too at first. But then i got over it. I think its psychological. Like maybe he understands hes below jocko or something liek that? i dont know. But if youve heard him speak in other podcasts it deepens out a bit. I get it too sometimes when i feel small in a crowded room. Im a big guy and people ahve told me i have a soft voice at times.

[@willie838]

Book is : The Forgotten Highlander - - you're welcome.

[@johnmason8372]

Thank you.

[@yashkemkar8586]

Hey Jocko, what books would you recommend reading for improving mindset through the discipline taught in the Navy seals?

[@Pablo.Crespo.86]

Thanks, I twisted my neck trying to read the book's title haha

[@suzanneapril]

PacoTaco0404040 o

[@wojtekpiekarniak5946]

PacoTaco0404040 I've read your comment and found the list. Thanks for the helpful info.

[@brandondelpesco7329]

Life: I"m difficult Jocko: I will crush you

[@bilolcj]

😂

[@Elpipiton]

Lol good one.

[@justindelaney4142]

Seriously. Jocko's has about saved my life. Whenever I get into a mental slump, I put on these vídeos and I read his books. Mentally he's gotten me out of some bad places.

[@junaidmughal3806]

Isn't that why we all love Jocko?

[@breezy7585]

This clip is from 1:05:00 of Jocko Podcast 12.

[@aphysique]

Benedict Cumquat Cumquat...Lmao

[@miketyson5688]

Daniel A Thank you!

[@Catchthesehands]

"But they're like a real luxury.. like for me, I really like a nice cold.." Glass of beer [ ] Bowl of ice cream [ ] Smoothie [ ] Bottle of water [X] Sorry I doubted you, Jocko.

[@northprenuer2329]

Great

[@danielkushner2217]

Haha I thought it too lol

[@kaylag5043]

I sort of expected him so say mint chocolate chip milkshake XD

[@mobiusraptor7]

He has us in the first half, not gonna lie.

[@065Tim]

Shower [X]

[@martyfenton271]

I like what Zig Ziglar said. "I have traveled all over world and I have NEVER seen a statue erected in honor of a critic."

[@arturczerwinski2616]

That guy looks like Jason Bourne who got caught and put through the programme for a few times more.

[@fknclarky]

Jocko's vice: ice cubes.

[@tannerspellman4765]

Alex Clark Been there! My head heads thinking when it's humid.

[@megusta9616]

vice cubes

[@BuceGar]

"I'm going to check myself." "That's a good idea." LOL, these guys are awesome.

[@NCLUSA]

Most people in the US don't appreciate how good we have it in this Country, just stop and think of other people in the world that have no clean water or food (the basics) here in America we can come and go as we please and there is food everywhere. We did not have these things given to us, these things were earned by others giving their lives for us. Thank you Military and Police.

[@hanswurscht6625]

I thought the same thing today. Had to get my new running shoes customized to my right foot since regular shoes don't fit quite right. And you know what? My basic health insurance is going to pay for it. It's not like that's a crazy issue, but that's just more proof that we should not complain EVER. If you're living in a western country in the 21st century, you hit the lottery.

[@jamesgrant8454]

I've been thinking the same thing, people are rallying over 10dollar minimum wage, maybe they should see Jamaica or Somalia to see how people can live on as little as 1 dollar a week

[@gregorybarker8835]

NCLUSA You didn't get food from a soldier. Perhaps a farmer

[@jamesgrant8454]

+Gregory Barker who says a soldier can't be a farmer also

[@sammygorelik]

I mean it obviously costs way more to live in US than Jamaica. What could you buy for 1 dollar?

[@codyzeik1937]

Just two “Alpha” males relishing in the fruits of their labor. Both served our country in the highest level. Now, they get to sit back and just talk about whatever and get paid to do that. #lifegoals

[@Koldfusion234]

Echo isn’t a veteran

[@theresamichele7328]

This is fantastic! I always impress upon my daughter how AMAZING it is that she can turn on the faucet, and fresh water comes out. Keeping focus (on how good we have it ) allows me to check myself.

[@An_Enraged_Pig]

Theresa Levitt keep the fire going

[@FabianA-wh6og]

You're doing an awesome job parenting!

[@suras8984]

I am actually too thankful for my bed and my sheets. Its so enjoyable I don't want to leave lol especially in the winter.

[@ChoirWalker]

"The struggle is real, the cableguy was late" Haha :)

[@desC0D3]

I appreciate your topics and willingness to inspire and relay with these discussions. I appreciate your service! I am in the Army Infantry and a lot of the the things you say correlates with my way of thinking. Podcast on brother!

[@jasonbean7296]

Whining is for losers. That doesn't mean you shouldn't speak up when you believe things are wrong. You must! You can't accept injustice. You must protest. Yet, when you face difficult circumstances, whining doesn't help. You just have to power through.

[@mexykanu]

Initially i mistakenly read "Winning is for losers", which seemed odd at first, but i agreed with afterwards.

[@RandomPerson-nd2ey]

@@mexykanu Haha. Okay, good. I wasn't the only one.

[@stevebean1234]

I used to believe in “powering through” and burnt myself out badly. My physical therapist friend deals with physical injuries that come out of the military. “Pain isn’t weakness leaving the body, pain is pain” - lots of permanent damage done by stupid repetitive practices. Anyway, I think complaining and self-compassion are extremely important. I think there are other positive benefits to complaining. Socially, humans bond over crap experiences, too.

[@SaraPomerance]

Agreed. State the facts if necessary to describe specifics. Often others can’t comprehend the depths of what one has to share. So I choose make peace within myself and smile.

[@evanpoole6751]

This is so funny to listen to cuz I’m a cable guy lmao

[@danmcdougall5730]

I just finished listening to this episode yesterday. It was a difficult one to listen to and imagine what people are capable of doing to each other. The take away is what we are capable of surviving. I definitely have nothing to complain about.

[@ericmatlock9236]

1st podcast i ever listened to, these two are a great team and I learn so much about myself while listening to and from work

[@ITSYBITSY35]

Hey, do you happen to know which podcast # this is? or what book they are talking about?

[@JanStue]

Love this! Setting a standard to not complain anymore is brilliant.

[@dylandunlap212]

Hey Echo, you should put the podcast number that these clips come from. Thanks for all the hard work man!

[@anthonybuonocore7885]

DunWheezy its in the description.

[@davidbratzer]

Stop complaining.

[@vercingetorix3839]

Stop complaining, David!

[@ruinned]

Constructive criticism > Complaining Learn the difference, David.

[@D45VR]

do u know the story of 'le vase de Soissons'...we learned it in school in France

[@LaserrSharp]

What they are talking about is a practice central to Buddhism called gratitude. You will also find it within Stoic philosophy. Both are excellent ideologies. However, I lean toward Buddhism most of the time.

[@clarkengelbert294]

Laser Sharp you forgot to mention it’s also a huge part of Christianity.

[@tiffanydemattos452]

I remember being homeless years ago this is how I started my adult life. Waking up behind dumpsters thanking God you weren't caught. If everyone got to walk in those shoes for a month I think it would make the world a better place to live in because you will have humility and compassion and gratitude in things you don't even acknowledge in everyday life.

[@johnobrown6680]

I'd love to see people complaining then jocko shows up and explains to them wtf is going on , thanks jocko

[@ruslanl4577]

For first 2-3 months after army you really do appreciate everything, from amazing comfy bed and not having to wake up at 5:40 A.M. to beers and showers...!

[@GMHKLR]

watching this just brings extreme happiness to my mind

[@thinbluelinemustang372]

I have just started following your stuff. I am an instant big fan. Had a rough tour in 2007-2009 and always say, I am thankful to be upright, standing breathing air e-v-e-r-y-d-a-y!!! Because many can't!

[@Axi0m33]

All these videos are top tier quality. Thanks for making these, man. Got yourself a new sub

[@UDT116]

Wise words, very much needed.

[@patana256]

I find myself complaining a lot lately about work I have to do. But I catch myself complaining and still get through the work. It's a bad habit that's almost become a reflex. I need to stop.

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

Not necessarily... Bitching can be cathartic. Just RECOGNIZE at some point and on some level that it's just that... bitching. Look, I agree with Jocko and Echo. We really don't have much of anything to complain about genuinely. BUT there's a natural part of your biochemistry that's inherently Programmed to see negatives from the perspective of your own lifestyle and general comfort level. It's stressful to see those negatives, even the little meaningless ones, so the secret is to be able to put the "bitching" into perspective in a healthy manner. Well... we have other stresses and "stressers" to deal with daily, too. AND like a pressure cooker without a "safety release" we build up "steam"... It's a perfectly healthy practice to "vent the steam" from time to time, and so long as you're not hurting anyone or interfering needlessly with the work that NEEDS to go on... who really cares? Bitch... Bitch about whatever ails you. Just understand that you're probably just bitching about petty shit, and you're still okay. It's even good to get with friends and make a BIG old joke of the whole issue. Hell, some people (stand up comics?) make a lucrative living doing exactly that. ;o)

[@TheDylanmorrison]

I don't care for most aspects of Jocko's outlook on life... BUT, I agree that we should not ever complain about anything. And I also enjoy when he says No Factor. I always chuckle.

[@rajdesai94]

What are some of the things you don’t align with?

[@oppachubs8324]

Whenever else is complaining at work, you the star will automatically be respected for never complaining

[@loumorales72]

Jocko is the real deal, he's been in the shit plenty of times. Being grateful will help you face adversity. You're the best Jocko!!

[@johannabarnard5353]

No Complaining : I can be the biggest baby in life. Especially when I'm sick. But now I realize where that "complaint feeling" comes from......insecurity. Been listening to binerural beets/ subliminals to stop complaining. I also write down in a little black notebook I entilted " The postive aspects of things" and I would write in there as ex, I had water and I can actually put lemon in it. Hell, I actually can drink water ! I heard a child laughing. My husband touched my hand. Its the little things many of us take forgranted. And so no matter how dark life felt that day, I still write in that notebook only to realize I'm going to wake up in the morning g feeling free to exhale in peace.

[@alexwall9332]

“Let’s just break it down with AIR”

[@wangchung8062]

Did you make any podcast that I'm not guilty of. Life is amazing! Dude I get to chill and listen. Thanks for taking the time to have fun and do these.

[@marylackey4557]

I'm a woman , I was raised by a really good man my Daddy was real he was Loving Strong Calm Determined We Worked Really Hard But Really Together On Everything And Always Talked With Each Other About Everything He Was My Bestfriend , My Teacher , Always A Loving Gentle Father Very Soft Spoken Really Good To Everyone Always Tried To Help People Taught Me How To Live A Better Life We Got Up Early We Never Complained We Worked Really Hard Everyday We Always Saw Our Goals For Each Day And Every Year For Ourlives Ahead Of Us ..My Dear Dad Has Been Past Away For 22 years And I Saw Jocko On Fox And Just Connected With Him Right Away Saw Alot Of My Dear Father In Every Thing I've Been Watching On All Videos , I've Also Just Had A Really Bad Auto Accident I Was Injured And Nearly Ran Over By That Person It's Affected Me My Life I've Now Been Diagnosed With Cronic PTSD I've Been Trying To Find Something On This With Jocko , I Share All His Videos With My Children And Grandchildren Loved Ones .You Are Truely A Blessing In Mylife And In For So Many I Wish You And Your Family All The Very Best And God Bless You & Yours In Everyway Possible Sincerely Mary Ann

[@jag2039]

I've just came across u Sr. Today n the right timing to, so tired of the motormouth motivation speakers you bring it for real n that's motivation !!! Y'all hit it on this one ☝🏻 ✌🏻❤️🇺🇸

[@FIRE-fi9ws]

How good you've got it stop complaining, what kind of suffering there can be and how good you, appreciate, bug luxuries, you not thankful, air. Complaining about something don't need

[@mrcaloryfrio]

If every one was like this guy the world would be a better place !

[@davidkim2016]

just checked myself too; thanks for that fellas

[@TheOldFarmBus]

so much respect in 4mins

[@wb3380]

bro i only just found u guys 3 days ago! so crazy i only just found all these videos from you guys so inspiring and motivation i struggle from depression and anxiety alot of personal problems u guys are inspiring so good! love and respect from perth wa in australia 2018 💯

[@parkersalwayssmokin]

Complaining about a "supreme luxury"....thanks for the perspective bro.

[@denno445]

Blaming and Complaining are both entirely useless. Just Identify the problem, create a solution and execute. Stay grateful.

[@dannyboi162]

he was complaining about complaining. Just kidding. I love these podcasts

[@razlee85]

Crazy coincidence i'm listening to this now. it was only this morning, I was stood in the shower thinking, how lucky am I to be stood here enjoying this hot water. And taking my time enjoying it, as if there was no limit to it. Just stood there completely still and silent, relaxing and enjoying hot water. Whereas, there will be millions elsewhere getting by with the complete opposite. I always try to remind myself of many of the 'small things' that are luxuries around me.

[@zanni_adv7121]

Ryle Yeah man, happened the same to me last day taking a cold shower after a workout, it really made me cry... This is the power of Gratitude

[@dontmesswithmyyoutubebycol1962]

Echo "uh yeah" "yeah yeah" "yeah so" "yeah"

[@kellyannearcher968]

Haha he always has so much to add to the conversation!

[@kaylag5043]

@@kellyannearcher968 Yeah, until they are talking about aliens! Then he has all the stories.

[@Hades-in5jy]

This guy is amazing everything he talking about is true. America is in a rough position because many of the younger generations are used to certain things and treat them as entitlements. We are so fortunate in this time.

[@irondiver292]

"The struggle is real... The cable guy was late."

[@isaact2404]

Echo getting after it with the videos! Looking forward to it!

[@TheGoodMMADog]

Complaining is a natural thing for humans, it the things we complain about that are too much.

[@endergomez2682]

Wonder if these guys are the real deal, or are they more or less just pushing a glorified alpha persona around? Honestly, my gut says they're the real deal, even if they are slightly naive, they're 10x more of men than I am. I just been seeing a lot of Jocko Willink motivation vids pop up in my feed, and I'm kinda liking it, really. This guy is telling me everything I'm needing to hear, at one of the most pivot-able times of my life. However, I needed this a long time ago, but i'm finally finding 3rd gear like... Even at my 34 yrs of age, i'm actually filling in some of this void with over due discipline and courage. Still nothing compared to the level these guys are obviously on, but even if i can't join mma or play in the nfl, I can be someone that isn't bogging down in the mud and beat leg day with the heel of my feet. At least that's my plan.

[@steveniedowicz8335]

Echo looks like he could turn it on with a flick of the switch (warrior spirit) yet he is such a civilized beast. There have been many times Echo had opened Jocko's eyes to another perspective and I would say that Jocko values that and loves him for that.

[@maliceburgoyne495]

It's like an amateur conversation about stoicism. Go to your local library and check out a book on stoic philosophy for free.

[@tylerkrueger3218]

Good looking out. This is a clip from the episode based on the book "Courage Under Fire." Jim Stockdale explains how Epictetus' works got him through being a POW for 7 years

[@grimdusty2540]

Hshsbs Iamgod Yeah, it's almost like these guys aren't even philosophers. Wait...

[@jon-umber]

I recommend Meditations by Aurelius

[@dogestranding5047]

Hshsbs Iamgod It's a more practical conversation.

[@rufusmusonius8657]

Courage under fire is a good read, but this is the Forgotten Highlander

[@NEWHOMESALES]

Life is about Perspective! Good stuff Jocko!

[@ManiacFitness]

The ones who give these videos thumbs down are the same people who are against people having the right to open carry for protection. Ive never even had a thought to own a gun nor do i like them personally but ive never been in a sitiation where i needed one to see tomo. To me the guys who feel they cant knuckle up and man up and feel tough for brandishing a firearm were always the weakest but diff places call for diff means to survive so i have learned not to always be so quick to judge. But shame on you for disliking any motivational video from Jocko!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mike12555x]

this is amazing advice, thank you jocko!

[@pepefroglive]

When it comes to dating. Women gets turned off by complaining. Add that to the list of reasons to not complain.

[@ghostscantkill]

Getting After It!!! No complaints!

[@jameswhalen4615]

Heyyyyyy. US Navy in the house....doing good shit shipmates. had a ruff go after the Navy but these videos are gold.

[@tbone105]

bro jocko f ing hilarious taking about his ice cubes

[@vks7817]

Thank you brother. ✊🏾💯

[@briellehunter7233]

In fear of my landlord raising the rent I don’t complain the faucet is leaking, there’s no furnace filter, and the dryers broken.

[@Chuckschwartz]

Lmao died at the water bottle part

[@dertypmitderfrisur4]

what book are they talking about?

[@7331warrior]

Scott Evans yup, crazy story.

[@claybenton8657]

The Forgotten Highlander: My Incredible Story of Survival During the War in the Far East by Alistair Urquhart

[@farleydbear]

imagine if breathing hurt. breathing is a constant, and u take 23,000 breaths per day, u wouldnt be able to fall asleep. some people do hurt when they breathe.

[@THEFREELSD]

In 2017, if engaged in uphill battle. Does one sit in the bed of a truck, driving up the hill in reverse, for the grit earned, does one take advantage of modern technology I.e, landing a drone on top for a mission complete...or does one settle in the gray area inbetween getting grit in their eye with missions of moderate difficulty, while using the tools and technology to make the mission complete an easy success?

[@Gonzomedic1]

Agreed, I need to watch this every morning!

[@alexanderleeart]

complaining about stuff happening in life is the basis of my friendships lol. If my closest friends and I didn't talk about problems with work, relationships etc we wouldn't talk much at all.

[@declanmurphy2696]

Alexander Lee get better friends

[@59342389494]

He's awesome. I live by somthing similar. I've been in EMS for a few years and have seen bad stuff and good stuff. I don't complain maybe vent a bit. But must live by the no grey hair policy. Don't complain don't stress. "GOOD".

[@TheClimbhard]

Echo, coming through with the videos!!

[@gratefulsplices1064]

Jocko, awesome man. You are like if Tolle played OFFENSE

[@shamanlama8]

What is the book in question? I'd love to check it out

[@claybenton8657]

Damon Armstrong The Forgotten Highlander: My Incredible Story of Survival During the War in the Far East by Alistair Urquhart

[@dragondrew2000]

I need to stop complaining so much and just do it. I have it so good, everything given to me I need to work my butt off.

[@tito5428]

66 ppl voted this down? avoid those 66 ppl like the plague

[@kellyannearcher968]

CORRECTION: avoid those f@ckers like the CORONA virus!

[@ryannorman6110]

I heard this at the right time.

[@brunsta234]

Echo Charles sounds very similar to Lee syatt from joey Diaz's podcast

[@THEFREELSD]

a friend of mine, had posted.. "Why are terrorist hitting concerts, just a bunch of people trying to have a good time," I responded "Do not take this message the wrong way, I am not backing or holding a terrorist act as good. The lone wolf terrorist groups are targeting soft targets because they are soft. Schools, Libaries, Airports, Sporting Events, Hospitals, and more. All of these soft targets are homeland vitals. Easily occupied, with easy targets. Those are the areas that need to remain most secured. You don't see those lone wolf groups, striking forts, bases, naval ships, bunkers, or prisons. The shoot a concert because you get a vastly larger reaction from society hitting a concert than a prison, the targets are easier to hit, and as for a political agenda, if you purposefully leave sloppy evidence you could be there guys from off the grid, and make the US think Iran was responsible due to the trail you purposefully left. Plus boobying evidence at a concert once again easier than prison, or base. Stragically that is why those lone wolfs do what they do. I do not get behind it. The only way to stop these things from happening are stopping the people committing these acts before they start to plan it. If idenified, how do we issue a warrant without evideonce, those strikes are our current greatest, homeland, national, and international threat." What are your thoughts on these points?

[@Nenad-ICXC-Shuput-GFAMMA]

I'd complain, but who'd listen..

[@ryansmith2814]

damn I love these guys

[@Mr.Honest247]

Dont Spread They're alright at best.

[@MatthewSmith-cp3hu]

Jocko you if you love ice water should get the 64 oz hydro flask, with the fliptop lid and the jug lug carry pouch, it doesn't get any better than that.

[@gerardoornelas430]

Just subscribed and im hooked... Thanks for putting out great content...much luv guys!!!

[@genius-no5sl]

Checking myself too !

[@asmrbuddha9033]

I used to look up to Jocko then I found out he takes his water bottle for granted.

[@briandonahue8079]

What book are they talking about? I need to watch more of jocko podcasts lol they're a luxury I'm missing out on!

[@mojave7025]

What book are they speaking about? Thank you

[@jasoncooper8655]

Complaints are for docs. The 'em where it hurts and ya can't walk it off.

[@danielomorain7134]

Please tell us what book that E and J are referring to. Tx.

[@josemadriz4602]

Excellent advice!

[@marsulgumapu2010]

But what if something needs to be complained about?

[@tannerspellman4765]

I hate myself for complaining stop me? No learn to solve the problem your'e staring into rather than whining. This brute force thinking is hard to express and these are hard men, to learn a lot from.

[@justinhebert5155]

I'm gonna check myself.

[@robinsmall4457]

I mean this in love ... gotta be tuff intellectually at times

[@wafflew2232]

im about to check myself

[@robinsmall4457]

All military are seeking a father .... realize this

[@andrewwedstrom]

What book are they talking about in the beginning?

[@nazmulhasan2264]

@jockowillink I think absolutely not complaining about anything is a very bad idea and is more like an one dimensional approach to solve every problem in our lives. I think complaining initially is fine. Initial complaints are signs that something is wrong. Complaints will allow us to understand what's wrong with our character, our life, our society and problems in other areas. These types of complaints can be compared with symptoms of a disease which needs to be cured and if you disregard those symptoms you'll pay the price. My theory is that everyone should be more conscious about their complaints and once they're aware of that steps must be taken to alleviate those problems. Complaining all the time about a certain problem without taking a step towards the solution is a habit that must be discouraged. All freedoms that we have the luxury of having at the moment resulted because some people complained about their freedomless life and then took appropriate actions which led humanity to this state. People ,who doesn't know how to complain at all , are just mindless slaves to some system or to some people. Only contentedness or appreciation alone is not a driving force for progress. I have nothing but respect for you, but I cannot completely agree with you on this issue.