One of the saddest moments in black-ish

#blackish #Relationships #marriages #CW

[@Hani-nw4qh]

I am in complete shock and awe over how many views this video has gotten. Thank you all so much! It means so much to me that you are all enjoying it. Feel free to leave me suggestions for future videos and I would love if you could hit the subscribe button so that you don't miss when I post. Again, thank you. :D Much love.

[@imamb1258]

Hani thanks for the video

[@jdshawanna6899]

what episode is this?

What was this episode about?

[@jdshawanna6899]

@ Dre and Bow decide to take a break from each other

[@adambaum9732]

ALL marriages end in divorce, or worse, that's just the way it is in America!

[@hollywood123r8]

When Junior got upset like that, I was literally shocked and it hurt more because he's such the optimistic one in the family. And seeing him upset also seemed to make his siblings bothered and hurt too...

[@HenshinHeroesMedia]

You know you have a balanced character when Jr gets upset and mad. Yes, they make fun of him but in the end they're family and will be there for one another. However, seeing him hurt and angry shows the writers dont treat him as a joke 24/7. Just love the balance of humor and tragedy

[@hollywood123r8]

@@HenshinHeroesMedia Facts. That's why I love this arc, it was emotional and serious. I could totally relate because my parents experienced this.

[@fattysl26]

I was always the calm and level headed one amongst my siblings, so if I ever got really upset or angry then my parents took that seriously.

[@hollywood123r8]

@@fattysl26 Same. That's why I loved this scene so much. It was taken seriously when Junior got upset because he's the most optimistic one in the family.

[@kevkpatt]

If junior was upset u know its real

[@qabigail1160]

The fact the most optimistic child got upset is when you know it’s real. Junior was heartbroken tbh.. it really got me

[@laurenmiller6924]

Q Abigail wait what happened

[@81sexislim]

@@laurenmiller6924 exactly what happened???

[@qabigail1160]

Lauren Miller Bow and Andre (the parents) were having problems in their marriage (which lead up to almost divorcing).. they tried their best to not show their problems & yelling in front of their kids but eventually it got so bad (this clip) that they “accidentally” revealed it to them

[@qabigail1160]

One Quirky Individual I replied to your question under Lauren Miller’s name 😊

[@qabigail1160]

Let me add another reply regarding Junior. Junior is THE most optimistic child in this family. You (almost) never see him down or angry. He’s also like a third parent to the rest of his siblings. So when they all saw their parents fighting, they all saw what they were hiding from them especially from Junior (the “third” parent) and because they never see Junior mad/sad/angry they immediately knew that this wasn’t nothing and that their parents would eventually divorce (which they didn’t thank God 😭)

[@matthewbrown4413]

Seeing Diane sad really hit home. Because she’s so keen and clever it’s tough seeing her so vulnerable and for once not being “one step ahead” of everything.

[@mgeek1]

And as much as she gives him a hard time, turns out, she loves her big brother. When he got upset, she did too.

[@SYDAirlineEnthusiast]

She was sad in disneyworld when she lost her glasses in that one ride. Rookie mistake: never wear your glasses when you go amusement park rides. I learned this the hard way when I went on a rollercoaster as a kid, but luckily, this couple managed to recover my glasses.

[@kevkpatt]

Thats how u know its a serious moment

[@LoquaciousPint]

These episodes were directed by Tracee. She did an amazing job

[@deletedaccount505]

I’m guessing shes your friend 😂...Toosie

[@LoquaciousPint]

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[@miwawilliams1339]

@@LoquaciousPint gurl don even bother trying. Smh

[@LoquaciousPint]

@@miwawilliams1339 LoL

[@Blackmello]

I didn't even know that, that's amazing!!

[@mgeek1]

That scene literally brought me to tears. Seeing Jr. cry and then Diane running after him just ripped my heart out. This was one of their best episodes.

[@kmb5036]

Which episode was it?

[@kyimirachester7875]

@@kmb5036 It season 4 episode 22 it's all Hulu if you can't find it and all the seasons on free every single six in all six of them

[@bobsaget7832]

Tears? Its fake

[@nathanaellepierre9062]

I could not hold it anymore I had to cry!

[@georgemclane1472]

Are you still crying *'tough guy'*

[@taylorboatwright5539]

I'm so glad they had Ruby and Pops to stop Junior from feeling like it was all his fault. So many kids feel like their parents divorce was their fault and that there was something they could do when it isn't true and they tend to carry that guilt with them for most of their childhood until they're old enough to know better. But by then it's deeply rooted. They saved Junior from that heartbreak

[@anthonyrosario9527]

Could not have said it any better. You deserve a glass of fine wine

[@TheCallowayBride]

Selfish and irresponsible parents don't communicate with their children properly, thus allowing the children to wonder and assume and be confused and eventually draw their own conclusions, which are never accurate. Those conclusions drawn usually include the children being at fault. Why would they not think they're at fault when they ALWAYS get caught in the middle of their parents bullshit?

[@Blackmello]

The Separation* Arc is the most powerful arc of all the 5 seasons. I cried, this show really hits.

[@phillipjackson3498]

Did they really divorce?

[@Blackmello]

@@phillipjackson3498 they came close to it

[@backgroundsinger1693]

That whole situation had me in tears from when the problems first started

[@SMP2390]

@@phillipjackson3498 No well not on the show the show they worked it out in real life the creater and his wife split.

[@ultimatewarrior3337]

Tears

[@tikeya7952]

Diane leaving the room, and Jack running after his twin. Awww!

[@dbzking02]

Am I the only one who feels like their fighting is mostly Dre's fault? Particularly right here. What's wrong with Bow going back to work, especially since Dre was out of the house and they didn't know if they were gonna get back together anytime soon? Somebody's gotta pay the bills and provide for the kids.

[@HenshinHeroesMedia]

I feel their arguing can be seen from both sides. Yes, dre has issues but when bow didnt do anything about devante's learning abilities and thought it would be a passing issue, she failed to include dre if there was something wrong.

[@thisiscuvo]

well the whole series pretty much based on how Dre did it all wrong and then tried to fix it xD

[@kellharris2491]

Both have a hard time communicating. I do blame dre more. He has all this baggage that he brings to everything. Bo just kinda ignores his issues without really working through them as a team and she just does her own thing regardless of dre s feelings. Sometimes I get it but in truth if you are going to be a couple you need to come to the same page on things.

[@justjewelz9711]

Marvene Martinez I agree with you 💯

[@fredrika27]

@@kellharris2491 What you said is true. However, I always felt that "the black side" of the family was always chosen over everything else. You can't continually make a person feel like her childhood and values are less and expect it to go well! Bow is always made to feel like her white side isn't good enough. This is why she goes her on way in a lot of things: there isn't really any support! My son and I are of mixed descent. For some strange reason people feel it's enough to tell us we're black and to get over ourselves, but don't really give us the tools for navigating between our worlds nor do they accept us for who we actually are. People can't be happy and live their lives how an accepting society expects them to be! Furthermore, I always felt that Dre was a bit jealous of Bow and her achievements. That's why he agreed to having another child as a way to keep her out of her job, so he could be the provider for the family! Being underhanded like that doesn't help the family at all, because people will eventually understand what is happening and feel betrayed!

[@Jah_LEASE_yah]

I think the reason them nearly ending their marriage hit so hard for viewers was because Dre and Bow are like America’s mom and dad. They give us faith in everlasting love. And seeing them struggle was hard for all of us to watch. Our hearts were breaking right along with Jr.

[@jamesbarber1103]

No they don't

[@smiIeJEM]

james Barber not for you damn

[@thewarrior8380]

Nah...not at all

[@user-si2wi4sk2u]

Literally every mom and dad not just American lol

[@kevkpatt]

Mine really was

[@marijahsmith3965]

When Jack runs after Diane 😭😭

[@justinsingleton2113]

I remember this arc of episodes, folks were upset, they were like this is supposed to be a comedy, Lol what is this, folks did not want to see this show get serious

[@djonhall5423]

I was one of those people. I still don’t understand why the grandparents couldn’t be the one divorce story.

[@Fordzee]

@@djonhall5423 yeah but that was already built in so it didn't really have much affect in my opinion

[@Blackmello]

They wanted to show some realism, and it played out perfectly. Nothing is ever gonna be truly perfect, not even a made up family

[@justinsingleton2113]

This show is based on the Creator of the shows real life and he really went through this and is still going through this with his wife, they are contemplating divorce just haven't went through with it yet

[@lilyeno3791]

I can remember it.... I shed tears

[@robertdre2114]

That scene where she calls him when her dad dies is so powerful. This arc was by far the best.

[@jaylathompson6589]

hey what is the season and episode??

[@chukwutheartist]

@@jaylathompson6589 Season 4 finale

[@latinawatts34]

True, the whole group of episodes when Dre and Bow went through a separation tore me apart. It actually made me look at my own 25 year marriage and say wait a minute we can do this.

[@WrvrUgoThrUR]

Good for you. Anyone can get married. It takes two mature unselfish people to STAY married. But sometimes, things just run their course and you have to move on as two people who had a particular kind of relationship together that evolved into a different kind of relationship.

[@yolandaanani5502]

I like this part. There comes a moment in mariage where doors seemed closed and you can’t breath. You hang in there because of the kids. Then you realized you are hurting them too. Separation doesn’t mean divorce. Work it out individual and then together. I also think the emotions that the kids presented were really good.

[@raindropsinbed6965]

Diane hurt more for me because she always acts I unbothered but she couldn't hold it in no more

[@denisew7231]

I want to see the part when Bow dad dies and she calls Dre. That part broke my heart

[@quincygupton1977]

Yeah I was hurt also so sad

[@akaylawhitus2320]

Dream home season 4

[@KaylaJohnson1995]

It really was and the first person she thought of was Dre honestly that’s what I would’ve done too

[@ARaebow]

@@KaylaJohnson1995 It was beautiful beacuase despite what they were going through her first go to was her best friend/husband and Dre was there in a heartbeat for her to comfort her depsite what they were going 💙

[@divinelynat144]

Tracy did such a great job directing those 2 or 3 episodes. Them separating and getting back together was very emotional.

[@tinatorres3408]

All my friends from high school all their parents are divorced including mine like nowadays it’s a miracle if your parents are still married after you graduate high school. Also why marriage is so scary to me

[@infinitedreaming222]

Marriage is scary because no one makes it a standard to teach people how to love and receive love, how to communicate effectively and respectfully, how to compromise, or that it’s important to love yourself and heal your own wounds instead of using your partner as a bandaid.

[@theninjacat7200]

That is because some folks stay together 'for the sake of the kids'. When the kids grow up, they feel like they dont have to pretend to hold it together anymore.

[@theninjacat7200]

@@infinitedreaming222 so true!

[@devontemccoy7721]

I really don’t understand the deal on being sad about divorces... I’m 16 and I don’t think my parents were ever even together before

[@2mice39]

@@devontemccoy7721 I'm 14 and if my parents divorced I'm definitely sure it was because I was dreaming. Some people are so close to their parents that their seperation is practically chaos for them. My parents don't see each other as "husband" and "wife" but more like "family" and the kids are also "family" so you just feel a tighter bond

[@rachelderenoncourt3881]

Divorces are really awful, we want to be so advanced and focused on individual happiness. We are not a singular one; we are a collective us. I was a 37 year old married, pregnant woman , driving to an appointment and “used to be my girl” by the O’Jays came on the radio and I had a literal breakdown. I had to pull over cause I was hysterical. My dad loved the O’Jays, we didn’t go to church on Sundays we listened to the O’Jays. My parents split up when I was 11. I certainly want people to be free to be happy but their is always a price to pay for individual happiness.

[@alliwishis_2]

It is always a price regardless There is NO such thing as greener or better JUST different

[@cunnikk706]

2:29 When the Grandparents came together and told them it wasn’t there fault 🥺. This shows the growth and learning from the past.

[@bulinandi4414]

The fact Diane and Junior cried made it really sad

[@judahsmith8986]

2:16-2:22 Yara trying not to break character.

[@paulettesolomon8039]

My favorite part. They are a mess. Cdfu

[@TheMsklg1981]

She’s not that great an actress.

[@Marminrawrrr]

How tho?

[@salome5709]

@@TheMsklg1981 she is

[@coolisims]

TheMsklg1981 you’re a hater

[@boobattle9026]

These episodes were so dark, sad, and gloomy. You really saw and felt sadness. Everything was just somber.

[@rishikaarishikaa1247]

When Diane says what now 😥😥😪

[@shoobella133]

I was so hurt I actually stopped watching the show until the following season😪I haven't been this emotionally attached to a show since Cosby

[@bigboyfi]

omg I remember this storyline. It had me upset and in tears cause it felt like it came out of nowhere. It's one of those storylines that makes you think the show is coming to an end.

[@jasminelawrence770]

This still hits hard been a while and I’m still crying when I watch this

[@ladennayoung2939]

This season ticked me off at first. Lol. I'm glad they got it together.

[@uwuvileanadelajordan808]

Ladenna Young which season is this

[@ARealWanting]

Yeah I almost had to skip the whole episode 😒😒😔😔 even though I had seen it before. I wasn't ready to see it again

[@calvinbell757]

I was gonna kick Kenya Barris ass if he broke them up!!😂😂😂

[@TheMsklg1981]

Dre was annoying as hell.

[@justme-ew3ri]

You said fix ya face before I fix it for you ahhh hahah

[@awuraafuadjang590]

Dianne’S scene - the cracks in her voice wow. Just wow

[@TimpossibleOne]

What happened? It's my first time seeing this scene. The video starts after the topic is mentioned. The "sadness" aspect to this clip is missed by anyone who doesn't follow the show.

[@elliebattles_]

Bow and dre are considering divorce in this

[@devincheatham166]

This arc had me and my wife looking at each other just analyzing

[@nicolenunya984]

I was so upset at the writers for this season until they finally got it together in the end

[@amandabrown1246]

Jr you killed it ,you brought me to 😭 tears .I love this show ,with hollywierd like it is this is the only show I can watch and enjoy . I'm 62 year old white woman and I dont like when Rainbow and Dra wetent getting along ,but it was worth it when Jr brought me to tears it was raw and hit home .Keep up the good work and I'll keep watching .I love it.......

[@vanshitagupta9327]

At least these parents cared enough about keeping it hidden from their kids. I live in a society where divorce is a taboo unless there's physical abuse. Seeing your parents fight without them caring to hide it from you really does some things.

[@calliewright2946]

I'm so sorry. The tension in that situation sounds unbearable. 💗

[@islandgurl4927]

Actually parents can't keep discord between themselves secret. Children will notice any change whether it is acknowledged between the parents or not.

[@kimson305]

It does no good to hide the truth. Have you not learned anything from this scene? It makes things worse

[@patr9117]

I love this show because they are bringing real life issues to the forefront.

[@yasminepadilla]

I'm glad they worked through it though because honost my heart didn't need anymore heartbreak😂

[@masterofmagic6686]

Ccxxx

[@araye32]

Ruby lol, "earl it was your fault."

[@ThinkPIONEERing]

These days I think marriage should be illegal.... or banned. It causes so much emotional pain, high expectations, and high amounts of disappointment. They say the divorce rate is dropping... guess what??? it’s because LESS PEOPLE ARE GETTING MARRIED!

[@cupcakesdonuts6290]

There r many sad moments really, but this is really sad

[@EishaCampbell]

This was the saddest moment for me too and the episode where they couldn’t hear the baby heart beat for a while

[@i.dupreecoleman2245]

Brought tears to my eyes

[@monamance2513]

Very sad... but no one gonna talk about the grandparents at the end😂😂😂 he said “ we saying the same thang “

[@s.velarde1811]

This was all happening while my son’s dad and I were going through our separation- and we would watch this show together - I was a facking mess... but they ended up pushing through 🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Blossom44100]

Never seen Diane cry before😢

[@fernandod4046]

I thought the sad part was that they forgot about devonte for like a season

[@elliiiii2]

They didn’t forget, babies cannot be on the set because of Covid so he had to be excluded from season seven

[@chrispeplinski7306]

The separation arc was definitely the saddest arc of the show but glad Dre and bow worked things out

[@EishaCampbell]

You know a show is good when you cry at a scene like this. Love blackish can’t wait for season 7

[@FormalFilmsProductions]

Already in my feels

[@live4lisha570]

Are we not going to talk about jack little terrified face when they were arguing 😢

[@satchelmouth1]

I wish that show would be more comedy than drama.

[@michaell4943]

When the most positive character Jr gets upset, then Dianie the toughest least emotional character cries and runs off, then her twin Jack goes after her, then Zoe has to get them all as the big sis, then Pops look as the man who experienced it all

[@Greystonedelta]

Man those 4 episodes had me so sad. I was afraid it was going to lead to a divorce.

[@shillakoriata562]

I literally cry every time I watch this scene 😭

[@braydendowling4354]

The ending of season 4 episode 23 is the saddest scene

[@rubiejohnson878]

I felt like the arguing was forced the whole separation and everything just wasn't believable it felt like they were too happy so they had to try to cause weird conflict.petty lil arguments they always had become extreme it just wasn't believable at all to me.

[@kennedyschurch3885]

I barely even watch this show and I’m SOBBING

[@DeeNice681]

When I realized Zoe was the weakest link when it came to acting!

[@bjohnson23881]

I PROMISE IDK HOW OR Y SHE GOT A SPIN-OFF

[@WillieFordham]

Why can't the black families stay together on TV?

[@nilasapphire361]

They got back together it was just a breaking point that they had to get past

[@s.s5933]

Cosby show?

[@erinsade1256]

If you actually watched the show they did stay together, and they have to show this because it’s realistic

[@erinsade1256]

INDIGO T.V. That’s just dumb, you must be living under a rock. 1. The Cosby show ended in the 90’s 2. Bill Cosby is in jail 3. Do you see ANY of the cast members from the Cosby show 4. I guess in your mind the Indra of a successful black family on tv = the Cosby show. That’s just a bunch of ignorance

[@miwawilliams1339]

@@erinsade1256 the question was about black families on tv. The Huxtables... did stay together... never seemed tempted...& always potrayed & presented class & excellence. Regardless of whatever dirt he was doing in the dark... every project Cos presented to the world showed black excellence. Ask yourself why... of all the exec's out there still doing dirt... only the one whose products uplifted blacks & showed us positively & successfully... had his products removed. Weinstein movies are still available... which means those involved are still making money... but not Cos exec's & actors... why should they also lose for his crime?

[@brettmanley4944]

The writing on this show is incredible. But the acting, particularly by the younger members of the cast, is truly astonishingly fantastic.

[@quindecim1475]

The saddest moment is not realizing how racist black folks are being in a time when we all need to be standing together not getting forcefully segregated by the media.

[@seaxshxll6547]

What episode is this

[@prohealthwithmuna2666]

I remember watching this episode and feeling like shit. Diane's expression was just heart wrenching cause she's usually the strongest one. I'm just glad I got to follow this journey from season 1

[@childofgodforever6614]

This is the modern Crosby family, but they tackle the real issues of life. It's great to see 3 generations of a wholesome black family

[@kingsuave0965]

I'm going through this right now why did I watch this

[@islandgirl8914]

King Suave blessings to you.......all the best.

[@cocopuff6810]

Me too. It's like why did I get married to get divorce. Does anyone stay married anymore? 😢😢😢😢

[@reemalzubaidy9434]

what happend here

[@jakiyagordon]

Reem Alzubaidy his parents got into an argument, and they were basically on the verge of getting a divorce...and this is at his graduation party

[@nikkiparker7399]

Man...I was on the edge of my seat when I thought they were getting a divorce. Like NOOOO THIS CAN'T BE HAPPENING!!😭😭

[@Sebster4r]

Seeing how the kids ran after him just hurt me a little cause they know Junior isn't like that

[@Hani-nw4qh]

Please subscribe to my channel it will help me a lot please

[@nkurumusic7891]

This saddest scene I have seen in my entire life 😭😭😭😭😭

[@jamelholmes885]

Think I gotta check this show out

[@elizabethjiba6228]

It really made me cry😭😭😭😭💔Junior really tried to make things work

[@jamesfaust2035]

Yes, these episodes were and are still hard to watch. So emotionally draining. And seeing the kids upset just really did it

[@yvettemckinzie9082]

Their communication was so off for this arc. Most blaming Dre but Bow was tripping hard!

[@alecbarney3298]

Now I understand Kenya...thought this was just a fabricated story😥

[@CELESTINOXZ]

As a person with split parents this episode hit hard most when junior stood up and said something and when diane slapped Zoe’s hand away

[@greeneyelightskin746]

What happen

[@CELESTINOXZ]

@@greeneyelightskin746 basically the parent were having problems and some of the kids had to split up with each others houses and in THSI moment junior the young tall one who usually wouldn’t say anything got upset and also with Diane the younger one with glasses who also almost never gets upset at anything gets upset because her parents were having bad arguments and we about to divorce

[@chaelist.bernard6438]

This show is so good because like I felt this😭

[@tylersmith9465]

🙏✌️Charlies parents tony and bows dad

[@christinalittleton3771]

When Dre left and both he and Rainbow looked and felt tired... It hit close to home for me. My grandparents (from my late mom's side) got divorced and my parents got separated a few or so years later when I was a little kid. Back then, nobody could tell me what was going on or why it was happening so I never asked (mostly with me being too young to understand "grown-up stuff". I know that the past is in the past and there's nothing that can be done, but I can't help but to look back and wonder if there's anything I could've done to prevent it from happening. How come we don't have a time machine yet? Or a machine that can show you what could happen if you altered the past?

[@cedricsmith1943]

This series of episodes was some of the best stuff I've ever seen on TV.

[@mwre334]

This separation arc was very real and depressing. I lost interest after this season. Definitely miss the wit and humor of the first and second seasons.

[@CelestialWriter01]

These episodes were so hard for me to watch. I was so anxious.

[@senorgucci153]

Only thing I didn't like about this episodes, was that they didn't make it as realistic as possible. Like bow should have gone out on a date, and maybe make her doubt about her future with her husband. Or him finding someone he would connect with at work also, making him doubt about his marriage. That's usually what all couples, married or not, go through.

[@MonteeAdamsdacoach]

This hurt my soul so bad!!!!! Then when they pulled it back, I was ready to act a donkey

[@NC-qc7wd]

I love, love this show!

[@treyvoncreighton9814]

Sad scene 😔

[@bettyspaghetti4803]

What in the heck happened since I last watched this show!!!

[@lol_absolutelynot]

when you watch a slightly more wholesome version of your own parents’ divorce...this hurt like a mf 💔

[@ambiblyden2645]

I wanna ‘like’ your comment.... but it seem inappropriate

[@MissOne]

TYPICAL 😌 😢 im disappointed 😞

[@pettylevelexpert984]

WHAT FRICKIN EPISODE IS THISSSSS?!?!?!??! 100 people have asked here in the comment section and no one answers! Not even the person who posted it.😡😡

[@aleciacrowley9369]

The way jack ran after his twin sister

[@PrincessKLS]

I'm on season 4 on Hulu, is this a new episode?

[@db200508]

PrincessKLS it’s season 5.

[@Kevynmorgan]

Which episode is this

[@kendallallysa7071]

Kevyn Morgan 2nd to last of season 4

[@faywoo9258]

Blackish is the best show on tv! Period!

[@auroraseyets8516]

Diane gets me every time 😭

[@joiisler3012]

This is what happens in a Real Marriage. Sounds corny, but there is joy. There is pain. Sometimes it takes a separation. But when it is Really Real, and you are Serious About Those Vows, you can work it out, Heal, and preserve the Family. Enough with this “cut, run, and start over with someone new”crap.🤨js

[@rhemaime-albert6089]

Tbh having the fifth kid put a strain of their marriage

[@tylersmith9465]

Dre and Bows siblings should fight like this with their sposes

[@kimberleyallen-q6s]

Divorce is alaways hard on kids july 28 2024