One sided friendships: How to recognize them

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Tyler JTI

Tyler JTI

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@sandramane826
@sandramane826 5 жыл бұрын
I enjoy being alone. Too much friends reveals toxicity and drains my energy.
@rebeccasharpe879
@rebeccasharpe879 3 жыл бұрын
sandra mane. I am an introvert so I have always mostly stayed to myself.
@PunkMartyr
@PunkMartyr 3 жыл бұрын
Im an introvert. I find people exhausting in general
@kendraheard8240
@kendraheard8240 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.. I started this year off cutting all people off who DNT invest in me in every aspect...I'm a super kind person...I'm so tired of not getting tht same energy in return...now everybody wondering where I'm at.. LOVING MYSELF FOR A FREAKING CHANGE AND CLINGING TO CHRIST MY LORD AND SAVIOR WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN HERE AND ALWAYS WILL!!!!!
@williammayes1839
@williammayes1839 2 жыл бұрын
Sandra mane- Absolutely Amen to that
@SdotDubya
@SdotDubya 2 жыл бұрын
Big facts! 💯
@dezicherise1907
@dezicherise1907 6 жыл бұрын
It's hard to find real genuine friendships.Alot of females are competitive for no reason and that can sabotage a good relationship.
@ShellymanStudios
@ShellymanStudios 6 жыл бұрын
third eye thirst Come here in Bridgeport, CT. People here are even worst.
@sophisticatedmm3632
@sophisticatedmm3632 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed that in high school. In high school I had a phony friend ( light skinned with long hair) that would brag about how many guys were interested in her & gossip / talk about others all the time. Needless to say I cut my dealings after 5 or 6 months because it got annoying.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
@@thirdeyethirst6000 so true ... Especially when you try to apology to them.. B's
@thirdeyethirst6000
@thirdeyethirst6000 5 жыл бұрын
@@ms.camillewarrenempress31 stay away 🙄
@Prince-pb1vf
@Prince-pb1vf 4 жыл бұрын
Have never seen creature who love money more than women 🤔
@flexwashington638
@flexwashington638 7 жыл бұрын
Some fake friends turn on you as soon as you do something different with your life that they aren't accustomed to you doing. They want you to not progress as a person
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
flex Washington. I think I need to do a part 2. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@flexwashington638
@flexwashington638 7 жыл бұрын
Tyler JTI agreed
@Legittuber
@Legittuber 6 жыл бұрын
Flex Washington Right right your right.
@AuthorJanaeMarie
@AuthorJanaeMarie 6 жыл бұрын
Flex Washington yup so true. I've lost some ppl too
@thirdeyethirst6000
@thirdeyethirst6000 6 жыл бұрын
I also find that very weird.. damn the hate is real man people are fucked up
@AuthorJanaeMarie
@AuthorJanaeMarie 3 жыл бұрын
Some people just have you around to make them feel better about themselves. They don’t expect you to start leveling up. Once you do it makes them feel uncomfortable about themselves. That’s when they start to act fake and distance themselves away from you. They want to be the only one doing well in life because it soothes their ego.
@rubyjones9951
@rubyjones9951 Жыл бұрын
Got that so right.
@babydii3487
@babydii3487 6 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@gominamyoung6071
@gominamyoung6071 6 жыл бұрын
People these days are opportunists!!!! They want to use and abuse people and their relationships!
@thirdeyethirst6000
@thirdeyethirst6000 6 жыл бұрын
And as soon as u find out who they are and what they about that's when the friendship is over because now you exposed them but let me tell you these type of people are miserable
@Divinely_ProtectedAse
@Divinely_ProtectedAse 5 жыл бұрын
GoMiNam Young so sad so fucking sad
@Stoic-ds4so
@Stoic-ds4so 5 жыл бұрын
@@thirdeyethirst6000 cause and effect. They are miserable as a result of their actions. Some are able to self reflect, hold themselves accountable and grow while others . . . those others . . . are the reason we are here watching this video. Cause and effect, their misery is their own business. I have no sympathy whatsoever for them
@judisnyder4868
@judisnyder4868 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't call them opportunists but self centered users!
@judisnyder4868
@judisnyder4868 7 жыл бұрын
I think we need to realize that these so called friends are really narcissists. It took me a long time to figure it out because of being so kind to them. I treat people the way I would like to be treated so I try to be kind and honest. The one sided friendship for years would call and talk for hours and when I said one word they would interrupt about themselves or immediately say they had to go. I counted years before I realized that that person never asked me how I was doing-ever! That was no friendship and They didn't even know simple things about me when I questioned them yet I knew everything about them. Cut out those relationships before they bleed you dry!
@taraMimi717
@taraMimi717 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@sandramane826
@sandramane826 5 жыл бұрын
My older sister does this. Calls then shuts me off. Total jealousy and narcistic
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
I just cut someone out of my life.. she wasn't a true friend. But I told her the reason why I stopped talking to her it's because my family emergency issue and my kids. My mom and dad said delete her number and block her on Instagram. In a matter fact I am about to delete my Instagram sooner or later..
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
For realz ..
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like people aren't themselves period
@mariamays803
@mariamays803 7 жыл бұрын
One sided friendships? LOL ! That situation is found in family also.
@BeautifulDreamerK
@BeautifulDreamerK 7 жыл бұрын
maria mays in families, it’s not called friendship, it’s called “allies”- it’s whoever can further or help your agenda if you do the same for them in return. Sad, right?
@craig3714
@craig3714 4 жыл бұрын
Maria yes
@DeadBeatCousin.
@DeadBeatCousin. 4 жыл бұрын
Can totally agree. Every time these mother fuckers need help, they called me. When I need help, they’re never there. Had a surgery and none of them visited at the hospital 🏥.
@craig3714
@craig3714 4 жыл бұрын
@@DeadBeatCousin. mine too
@joymorris3004
@joymorris3004 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! If I didn’t call my sister I would never hear from her:/
@spirituallifecoachinginsti7207
@spirituallifecoachinginsti7207 5 жыл бұрын
DECADES OF ONE SIDED BEST FRIEND....SHE THOUGHT HER LIFE WAS SO MUCH BETTER, NEVER INTERESTED IN MY SUCCESS...OR ASKED....
@ghostred3126
@ghostred3126 5 жыл бұрын
cheryl hawkins fake ass gurl honey
@AuthorJanaeMarie
@AuthorJanaeMarie 4 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling. I feel like that with all of my friends.
@Mayaah89
@Mayaah89 7 жыл бұрын
I have a friend like that! I know her since 2001, she don't give a f... about me when I tried to talk to her or send her a message she tooks 2 weeks to reply or never. Then I saw her on FB, whatsapp or even watching my snaps!!! (Oh YEAH she's more interested about everything I post online than talking to me) Sometimes it really important but she don't care even when I talk to her.... I'm dealing with physical and emotional pain every time I try to talk to her about it she talk about herself and her problems! I'm always there for her, but she's never here for me, I'm tired of this friendship who's hurting me! I deserve better!
@angelb7578
@angelb7578 7 жыл бұрын
Mayaah Fuck her.You have lost nothing other than a fake phoney friend Be happy. Your heart will become bigger.
@Mayaah89
@Mayaah89 7 жыл бұрын
You're right! See they got no time for us but they check everythings we do! Same when I share some pics with my other friends having great time she's jealous! Exacty you did right! Tired of these type of people!
@Mayaah89
@Mayaah89 7 жыл бұрын
See! That's makes me mad! we need to have better friend who really care for us! Always messaging me when she needs something or help cause she know I'm a good listener! But I aint go time for that anymore!
@Mayaah89
@Mayaah89 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I know I'm tired of losing my time! f**** that!
@angelb7578
@angelb7578 7 жыл бұрын
Mayaah Stop talking to her the pain will stop.Stop talking to her for yoi.
@lf4317
@lf4317 2 жыл бұрын
I can not tolerate one sided friendships. Those kinds of people disgust me. Thank you for posting this video.
@charmekiawhite3633
@charmekiawhite3633 7 жыл бұрын
I just broke a "Friendship" with a guy that was trying suck the energy and life out of me so I went ghosted and ignored him. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Fool me three times the blame is still on me. I am not a fool. I know real friendship when I see it and it's not a one-sided one either.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
charmekia white. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 4 жыл бұрын
This is why I stay alone with my kids and my family myself . I got myself no one else
@juliemcghee362
@juliemcghee362 5 жыл бұрын
I've had enough of 'friends'.. best to go alone
@Prince-pb1vf
@Prince-pb1vf 4 жыл бұрын
Same . I have no single problem being alone .
@humbleheart2650
@humbleheart2650 Жыл бұрын
Yup especially if you haven’t heard from them in years and suddenly they contact you because they need something from you. But when you reach out to them for something they are too busy or don’t contact you back
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
This is why I stay to myself even though it's hurt .. God and my kids and my family
@timdixon3571
@timdixon3571 7 жыл бұрын
I'm better off with no friends.
@theadvocate466
@theadvocate466 5 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@galaxyride4944
@galaxyride4944 5 жыл бұрын
im a peoples person, but i have to admit that without em i feel better at time.
@taraMimi717
@taraMimi717 5 жыл бұрын
I’m beginning to feel like this better off without Convenient FRIEND
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
Me too...
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
@@taraMimi717 people love playing games too much
@bluejeans1773
@bluejeans1773 7 жыл бұрын
i have a friend like this... dont hear from her in a while and when i ask her she said she's been sooo busy, but she dont work.. i help her out and never get nothing in return... she said she would stay with me when my husband was in Vegas for 4 days and she never call or showed up... then she'll call like nothing happened. . it made me sad... she never thinks of me unless she needs me or a ride... 😔
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva 5 жыл бұрын
I've had some one sided friendships in the past. As soon as I discovered people were fake and had an agenda....I cut them off so quick. These days my discernment is strong...so I no longer attract those negative types💯💯☝️
@michaeljarreau3185
@michaeljarreau3185 7 жыл бұрын
I've experience this a few times in the past with shallow dirty people. I'm so glad I've learned and grow from the things I experience in the past. There might be a reason why I don't have too many friends
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
micheal jarreau. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@edwardmayfield9394
@edwardmayfield9394 6 жыл бұрын
Those kind of people always play the victim
@ShellymanStudios
@ShellymanStudios 5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!
@PunkMartyr
@PunkMartyr 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this. I just had to cut one of these people out. I had to contact mutual friends individually because he had started spreading the idea im a bad person and do shady stuff. The real truth is he became jealous over a girl, started doing a bunch of passive aggressive attacks on me, culminated with him telling my boss and coworker im a bad employee. I confronted him that I couldnt believe all this bs was over a girl. I think that clicked for him because shes not going to give him any so why throw our friendship away? Short sighted..
@edwardmayfield9061
@edwardmayfield9061 3 жыл бұрын
@@PunkMartyr I had to cut off numerous people
@Serendipitous444
@Serendipitous444 2 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS 🙄
@joycebrown4776
@joycebrown4776 3 жыл бұрын
That's why you cut them off, love them but leave them alone, because they dont mean you no good at all. Because every body is not your friend, trust and believe that.
@TheFuturemarine10
@TheFuturemarine10 7 жыл бұрын
I can tell by your reactions and passion about what you're talking about, you experienced this a lot Tyler. I really hope you have people in your life who loves you and have your back.
@rachelngatia3753
@rachelngatia3753 4 жыл бұрын
True hope he has genuine friends too
@bernetajohnson3296
@bernetajohnson3296 5 жыл бұрын
You can't worry about what you can't change. God will bring people in our lives for a reason and for a season. There is a higher court. Let the Almighty deal with it. As my grandmother use to say put it on the alter. Thank you Tyler for keeping it real.
@hopeh1095
@hopeh1095 4 жыл бұрын
Amen, you can’t change it only God can. God bring those ppl in for a reason and lesson believe. Now, you can use more discernment in the next season. God is almighty in His ways.
@jdavisthabarber9802
@jdavisthabarber9802 7 жыл бұрын
I find that out about certain friends by me going through something, an no calls nothing but they all on my IG or whatever and this happened by me getting myself together, loving me i just started cutting off people wish them best in life no ill will. Just not meant to be in my life. So I'm glad i turned a new leaf over and seen true colors of people that was suppose to be a friend, or true friend, or sister whatever had to CUT THEM blocked them no contact. But wish them the best in life.
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 4 жыл бұрын
I just cut off like 7 one sided friendships. I am alone now, and growing to really like it, it's quiet and I am more focus and grounded. I cut off my own grown daughter, cause of the one sided friendship and one way love, she always taking and bailing.
@mariloutabanera3831
@mariloutabanera3831 5 жыл бұрын
Everything that's one-sided will and shall drain you out. It really won't work IF its not solidly based on the principle of mutuality and Receprocity. Am simply tired of being tired. Thanks Tyler for sharing your Truths...
@AuthorJanaeMarie
@AuthorJanaeMarie 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. That shit hurts. Especially when you thought that was your A1. I just distanced myself from a person like this. With friends like these who needs enemies?
@tomfooleryalert5094
@tomfooleryalert5094 4 жыл бұрын
I've literally just cut off all members of my family - it was always one sided always. I'm always reaching out to them to check up on them and rarely do they check up on me to see how I'm doing. It's painful but it was needed to be done. C'est la vie.
@flyingduck22
@flyingduck22 Жыл бұрын
God showed me this video of yours when im going through mentally tough time, after found out true colours of so called friends. Thank you!
@mildredbrown4874
@mildredbrown4874 5 жыл бұрын
The more they say, “ the less I am going to say”. They want to see how my mind work so that they can top it.
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 4 жыл бұрын
You brought me to tears, 😭 I was stupid, foolish, and used up, and left high and dry, and I just broke free, and in recovery. Thank you so much for telling truth, everyone need to hear it. So many lives are ruined cause of one sided friendship.
@lacretiagiddens5359
@lacretiagiddens5359 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely a lot of snakes in the grass out here in the world, thanks for another awesome message. Blessings💜
@monicadickson2049
@monicadickson2049 5 жыл бұрын
Preach!!! Man, how bad is it to treat people with the same self respect you hold to yourself!
@vh7637
@vh7637 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
Yesss ... Self Love and self respect
@halloween7275
@halloween7275 5 жыл бұрын
You are the realest youtuber out there man
@mariebenjamin6071
@mariebenjamin6071 5 жыл бұрын
This man be speaking the truth 💯😍👍
@danim.2717
@danim.2717 7 жыл бұрын
I just tell the one sided "friend" about my " other friend " who is a great listener and supportive, and fun to be around. They get butt hurt than.
@timdixon3571
@timdixon3571 7 жыл бұрын
I only have two friends, the rest that I had as friends are written off, they were untrustworthy.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Tim Dixon. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
@rotesharodriguez6324
@rotesharodriguez6324 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this 10 times!
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
teddy control. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@mominairfan2104
@mominairfan2104 5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!Same here
@sarahmichel1054
@sarahmichel1054 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler, good lesson on fake friendship.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah MicheL 11:11. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@Patricia-qy5kb
@Patricia-qy5kb 3 жыл бұрын
I've let go of a whole lot of one sided friendships
@klueboy131
@klueboy131 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in loads of situations like this. I’m so thankful for your message. There are many people in the world who are just not worthy. You can also tell by how shallow they are. You will go years without really knowing that person. I have family members that I grew up with whom now are just not worth my time. Sadly.
@Lover-of_TRuth
@Lover-of_TRuth Жыл бұрын
💯
@lucillesamuel7331
@lucillesamuel7331 7 жыл бұрын
something u can have a one-sided mother that will tell all your business.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Lucille Samuel. Thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@ashleyjones104
@ashleyjones104 6 жыл бұрын
Lucille SamuelSo true!
@ybkbased1466
@ybkbased1466 6 жыл бұрын
Lucille Samuel fax...no text or nothing
@annicks7385
@annicks7385 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man . That was my whole life , me raising my mother instead of her raising me
@tco2007
@tco2007 4 жыл бұрын
This video had opened my eyes. Yesterday was the last day my so called best friend lets me down. Breaks my hear when it always happens and it breaks my heart that have to cut the friendship strings for good. 😒
@joyjoy1991
@joyjoy1991 7 жыл бұрын
Tyler with people who are one sided how come they act lost or play victim when you leave?
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
mordecai Tha warrior. you haven't lies about that one. I was thinking about speaking about that one.thinking about doing part2. peace and blessings to you.
@angelb7578
@angelb7578 7 жыл бұрын
Mordecai Tha'Warrior So they can keep exploiting or using you.Its called manipulation.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 4 жыл бұрын
@@angelb7578 yeah that why I stay to myself and my kids I don't need no drama
@tammyschenck515
@tammyschenck515 5 жыл бұрын
Yup, hasn't called in months. Don't need to start talking now. I'm good.
@smilealwaysnatasha3423
@smilealwaysnatasha3423 3 жыл бұрын
I had a friend like that and I did a lot for her when I sat back after she got married and thought about our friendship and how I felt…. I knew it was time for me to move on and let her go.
@followerofYeshua1
@followerofYeshua1 5 жыл бұрын
My kids are my true friends. I can talk to them and know they're not going to run their mouths. I have fun with them and know we love we each unconditionally. Other than them, I don't have any friends. My life is good.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 5 жыл бұрын
I have the same thing with my kids , I got my kids and myself and unconditional love
@alisalauzon9291
@alisalauzon9291 7 жыл бұрын
Exactly so much agree, especially when u care enough to be honest to thier face.to let them know a bummer truth about themselves, a character defect they may want to check. Yet they cant be honest back just go behind ur back. Worse is they only care about the friendship when they need to vent or need emotional support, but ur left dealing with there stuff and ur own alone.
@freepalestine3966
@freepalestine3966 5 жыл бұрын
Don't answer their calls. End of story.
@FuchsiaSquare
@FuchsiaSquare Жыл бұрын
…..Then see how quickly they come back to apologize for ghosting. They better keep that same energy!😑
@luxeriousnsociable
@luxeriousnsociable Жыл бұрын
if some people calls me or messages after they ignored me too long, ill just pretend to be busy and ignore them
@sandramane826
@sandramane826 5 жыл бұрын
I love your strong attitude and words you wake me up and alot of others
@wcaval1
@wcaval1 6 жыл бұрын
The fake friend in your video sounds like an envious person. Thanks Tyler
@african_historian
@african_historian 7 жыл бұрын
I never had genuine friend because I'm nobody one oh one. Never had problem making friend don't expect individual Loyd. All the friends I ever made in life never keep them to long. All the friends I ever got mostly were jealousy and users. I never had not one close friend looking out for me. Not that um emotional about it. I just don't best over no one. If did had best make other individual jealousy. I don't play that favorite friend thing at all. Who I allow in my circle who I don't allow in my circle.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Kendrick Celestin. i don't blame you at all. i am very careful who i let in. i thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 7 жыл бұрын
yrs amen
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 7 жыл бұрын
Kendrick Celestin Amen
@back2the80s
@back2the80s 6 жыл бұрын
i gave up on real friends.
@tybarker5038
@tybarker5038 3 жыл бұрын
This man speaks Facts fluently
@sweetberries683
@sweetberries683 3 жыл бұрын
agreed, I cut them off my family, my fake friends 20 years ago till today and I am more happy alone
@songsparrow4324
@songsparrow4324 5 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how you think . . .and what you talk about. Bravo!! Very brilliant. .
@Bloomingflowers0000
@Bloomingflowers0000 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes. People only do to you what they are allowing someone else to do to them. They feel less powered by others, so they feel empowered iwhen they do it to another! People need crutches, because they’re not willing to deal with or release those they deal with!
@حكيم-ض5ع
@حكيم-ض5ع 2 жыл бұрын
Facts. They’re all lost. Let God and life deal with them. Keep doing you.
@plazmagirl4633
@plazmagirl4633 6 жыл бұрын
Tyler and Kasandra Mack my 2 faves 💜💜👍
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 4 жыл бұрын
I told the truth to my one sided friendships and they refused to hear it, and I didn't gossip behind they back. The people actually tried to attack me. I told my one sibling that she was holding all the most precious stuff of our mothers after she died and it's is not fair and wrong and she came at me physically and wanted to fight. She was holding all our mom's stuff favorite stuff she carried with her and reassured. I tried to tell my cousin that it wasn't right that she expected all of us to show love to her and her kids which we did but she didn't return it, and she got violent. Tyler, some people are narcissist and will get violent if you tell them.
@jameslightsey1761
@jameslightsey1761 3 ай бұрын
I definitely agree with the commitment part, I'm going through that right now. Especially me doing nice things for her and the reprocity stopped being the same
@lucillesamuel7331
@lucillesamuel7331 7 жыл бұрын
u keep it real Tyler,u are so right about that , they just fake they all about them self not u.✌✌✌✌✌
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@natalienatalie3358
@natalienatalie3358 4 жыл бұрын
I have no friends.And I’ve never had and it feels fantastic ☺️
@natalienatalie3358
@natalienatalie3358 4 жыл бұрын
Sonnyツ and how is it now , don’t u miss your loneliness and clarity
@lizhurtado1986
@lizhurtado1986 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this today 👏
@user-bl8cu6in2b
@user-bl8cu6in2b 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler Thank You for your hardcore facts you are appreciated a1000% u get it CRACKIN!!👍👍👍👍👍
@peaceharmony5859
@peaceharmony5859 7 жыл бұрын
Speak the truth... The truth shall set me free 👏
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
mystique mumsy. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@janieroseborough8971
@janieroseborough8971 4 жыл бұрын
Good wise advice. This really helped me
@jamesgoodman2929
@jamesgoodman2929 7 жыл бұрын
Amen to u ! This is soo going on , its like in the air
@lacrossslounge5403
@lacrossslounge5403 7 жыл бұрын
james goodman sad and true
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
James Goodman. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@SandraEggers-j3r
@SandraEggers-j3r 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your help I just shut down a relationship and used all the complaints she had for me. She didn't like it especially since I stopped giving her rides everywhere and she never cared if I needed gas money or nothing. I got fed up and she was surprised today when I told her all her own reasons. She thought she could out me down and I would still be there. Thx
@MinaMiing
@MinaMiing 3 жыл бұрын
When it’s always you and not them its never equal 50/50.. run
@spiritualguidance8817
@spiritualguidance8817 5 жыл бұрын
SO true Tyler ..say it like it is! As always ... *TRUTH* need to be told !
@JS-Jms
@JS-Jms Жыл бұрын
Hey Tyler. How'd I miss this? You posted a while ago. I so agree with you. Word for word. 👍 One sided friendship. That's right.
@craig3714
@craig3714 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate Tyler my so called friends was all one sided so I can defiently relate to this video .
@naomiceetv
@naomiceetv 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate these videos… I’ve been spending my time watching and learning from people’s personal experiences so I wouldn’t have to go through it and I just turned 19 and I’ve been learning by going through them myself pain and all which I didn’t expect but it’s good that listening to your videos since yesterday is helping me and confirming I’ve been doing the right thing. And I watch all your new and old videos now because I have been through almost all of this. Keep doing what your doing I appreciate you so much. ❤️❤️🥳🥳🥳
@Prince-pb1vf
@Prince-pb1vf 4 жыл бұрын
People shd stop getting social media Followers and get Real friends ,the very pple u call friends on social media are the very pple who Gossip about u👌 I'm glad I have peace without social media,many work hard to please social media that even never cares about them at all ...who is a fool here 🤔
@daughteroftherisenking3165
@daughteroftherisenking3165 6 жыл бұрын
Yes they are real frenemies Great video
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 4 жыл бұрын
Damn this is so real I am speechless. I just told that so called best friend to take a hike. They will never see me if they get something from me. They see me only when their car go down, the want to go shopping ..etc. they came in my mom's vieweing for a sec, and rolled and never came to funeral..etc. they constantly said they were a good friend or cared but I notice we could never just chill, I had to always take them places ..etc.
@changeishere4696
@changeishere4696 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, posted 4 years ago, and 9/18/2021 it is new on my feed. It was meant for rea,l confirmation from GOD!! THANK YOU BROTHER TYLER, I PRAY GOD CONTINUES TO BLESS YOU.💪🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽
@CartmanisKool
@CartmanisKool 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!! TYLER!!! 👏💕✨ I had that with many people!!
@marylynch951
@marylynch951 5 жыл бұрын
Omg Tyler You are so right Yes I have got this But since I came across your videos I have looked at my relationship and there is a.few that then the is certainly one sided Meaning they are not there for me Tyler Spot on Yes I am cutting them off absolutely Tyler You are not offending me You are telling the raw truth This is why I have the upmost Respect for you God bless you always
@ashleyjones104
@ashleyjones104 6 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom, I appreciate your videos.
@annalopez9395
@annalopez9395 7 жыл бұрын
I have a friend like this, she has recently done some terrible things to me and I was at the point of talking to her but she just does not seem approachable. I am not the kind of friend to go behind backs and gossip. I did not agree with her on doing something she wanted and she avoided me for weeks, she was trying to control me and I finally woke up and stopped it. This cause the change in her. She has become very passive aggressive towards me so how can I approach someone like this. I would not hesitate talking straight to any of my other close friends but she seems different. Its as if I have seen her for what she is and she is unhappy about it. We have only been friends just over a year but I slowly began to realise she made me feel drained and I lost track of time with her. I met another friend through her and she is different. She encourages and makes me feel good. Whereas the one I write about does none of this and it seems she just uses me when she needs. Even though in the beginning she seemed supportive she has used it for her gain. Thanks again Tyler x
@thirdeyethirst6000
@thirdeyethirst6000 6 жыл бұрын
That's what pisses them off the most, when you figure out they character watch how they turn against you that's a big red flag of a fake friend
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011 7 жыл бұрын
I've definitely experienced this with 2 of Best friends whom both are considered God sisters .. don't know each other but from two types of timelines of meeting in my life they both had issues with jealousy and very resentful about past situations they've created to hurt me. I was always there for them.
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011 7 жыл бұрын
Shayla Johnson yes did.. a few months ago and now recently a Guy friend who is hiding bisexuality behaviors where his friends are calling me THOTS and mean things to me because they may be sleeping with him but I've never lived him like that I only came over cause I lost my two sisters in two different situations but he's also no good smdh
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011
@saffirelsarmageddonbitch7011 7 жыл бұрын
Tyler JTI I got a lot of situations to let go of and I've have this year and not allowed them to further hurt me over and over..thank you for this Powerful video can't wait to hear my request I recently sent tonight and well last night LOL
@kylielogan8771
@kylielogan8771 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had get rid of friends I’m tired of one sided conversations part of been friends is sharing vulnerabilities with one another. They don’t like you raising your standards and boundaries.
@lorriekelly964
@lorriekelly964 5 жыл бұрын
U have never lied That's so real Tyler Man U have said it All I believe I've got This kind a friend And they Ain right I believe they've Slandered me I Can't prove it But I feel it cuz Of the way some Folk act around me Like they got a secret ?
@alimcdonough2085
@alimcdonough2085 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you awesome video and extremely truthful 💪❤️💯
@Najla578
@Najla578 7 жыл бұрын
God Bless you !! Amen ! Thank you very much for your advice!
@MsSassydiva12
@MsSassydiva12 7 жыл бұрын
hello tyler great video it speaks volumes. thank you so much for taking the time out to do this video. god bless you!
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
mssassydiva12. thank you so much for asking to do a video on this topic. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@kingbey3480
@kingbey3480 2 жыл бұрын
I'm no introvert but being alone is good for a spiritual chosen individual. We have to be alone to hear our mission for our heavenly father. Don't allow being alone lead you to hate people. We are here to capture our fathers sheep.
@noqilewa1469
@noqilewa1469 4 жыл бұрын
my cousins were like this. they were always quick to msg me when we would plan a weekend for fun but when my grandma passed from my other side they didn't check up on me or even call me . but they msgd me and commented as soon as they heard saying sorry which was nice! .but after that I didn't hear a peek from them at all , even tho I msgd seeing if they wanna chat lol. but 2 weeks later they all wanna video chat me just cos they all in the video :L I Kindly said its fine I thin its be a fake chat and said god bless. I always felt weird energy from them. even one of them would say im dressed up when im wearing a pair of jeans have a coat on and nails done for the first time ever and im a 23 year old female! mind u most of them are older than me too. I always tried getting along with them all my life cos they were my only family especially being my cousins. but now im putting my foot down , wishing them the best and gods blessings, and turning away to cultivate my peace and positivity to those who show me support . moral of the story no matter if they your blood or not , when u feel and see the signs , back out no matter what they are to u. God bless!
@Ynotword
@Ynotword 7 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Twin Flam ynoth. thank you so much for your comment.thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@shakirapickens9374
@shakirapickens9374 3 жыл бұрын
Preach brother and thank u Tyler for advice
@adriana-jn8ru
@adriana-jn8ru 5 жыл бұрын
He is da bomb!
@paraconsistentjojo
@paraconsistentjojo 6 жыл бұрын
“You are stupid as hell.” Lolz 😂 Telling what we need to hear.
@lorriekelly964
@lorriekelly964 4 жыл бұрын
So true Tyler ! .Preach !
@ivdddoxiemama7275
@ivdddoxiemama7275 5 жыл бұрын
You speak the truth Tyler! Thank u 💖
@karenaquarius6335
@karenaquarius6335 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler do a video on one sided family members, and relatives who think you owe them something.
@joshuatree1886
@joshuatree1886 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I really needed to hear that.
@buttaflybeauty7523
@buttaflybeauty7523 7 жыл бұрын
Facts !!
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
beautiful soul. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@SozeKartel
@SozeKartel 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler
@dadecountess305
@dadecountess305 5 жыл бұрын
Love all these videos .
@kaderguerrab6073
@kaderguerrab6073 6 жыл бұрын
How about when people are seem to try to support but you do almost 99 percent of contact initiation. They give you things sometimes they do favors without getting anything in return. Is that a onesided relationship. I KNOW PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT ME AND TRY TO GUIDE ME BUT THEY DO NOT TRY TO CONTACT ME
@KuriousJay3000
@KuriousJay3000 3 жыл бұрын
They may feel as though you won’t answer their calls/texts. I was in a situation where I did a lot for a friend without getting anything in return. She would rarely answer my calls, so I stopped calling her. We only talked when she called me because that seemed to be the only time she was available. Try to make sure that person knows that they can reach out to you without feeling like a burden. I loved/love her a lot, but it’s not a good feeling when you go out of your way for someone who only talks to you on their terms.
@sharoncherryontop1275
@sharoncherryontop1275 7 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR THIS! gosh... yesssss ! 100%!
@zimzimzalabim
@zimzimzalabim 5 жыл бұрын
I love this video. Thank you for talking about this Tyler, at some point I can tell you getting upset and even raising your voice a bit, I took it as you giving me advice and nagging me on the way I keep pursuing one-sided friendships. Talk about an eye opener, I really needed this. Thanks, for real!
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