One tiny moment of courage || No more dowry || no need to pay anyone to marry you

[@sharathmandyam6103]

Notice how she doesn't straight away question him about the dowry. First she doesn't believe it, then she looks at her dad and immediately she knows what Tara has told her is true.

[@himmatsinghrathore5259]

yeah they did good acting

[@desdeelabismo5438]

The moment she says .. i am not gonna pay anyone to marry me . Woooha .. goose bumps

[@spellcheck5393]

She should hv said she she ain't giving money to beggers

[@wowser2153]

@@spellcheck5393they don’t beg , they demand like a right

[@Battt862]

He had to pay for divorce 😅😅

[@wowser2153]

@@Battt862 only 3-5 percent of Indian marriages end in divorce. Whereas almost all people get married and almost all marriages include dowry. So women are affected more

[@Battt862]

what affected? if husband or his family ask for dowry she can say no or file a complaint there is a choice, do husband get choice not to pay alimony? The wife will be authorised to a 50% share of the husband's property, including his ancestral property.😂🤔 She also has the right to reside in the couple's marital home 😂😂it's worse than dowry 🤷‍♂️

[@malinighosh1836]

And the word “gold digger “ is almost always (if not always) associated with women!

[@greenwitch4944]

Such a powerful words.

[@arnabdebadhikary4844]

So true👍🏿 gold digger can be of any genders....👏

[@jahnavijahnavi534]

You killed it by the comment dude .👏

[@RakeshSharma-iy1fj]

well Ma’am the main character in this show who informs her proudly about the dowry was a gold digger 😊

[@malinighosh1836]

@@RakeshSharma-iy1fj actually no, her motive was not money, else she wouldn’t have sacrificed everything including her reputation by leaking a video. That could have gone anyway and the average Indian man would not marry a girl from their office whose video is leaked of them. Secondly if she was a gold digger she wouldn’t have been so headstrong about keeping her wedding company afloat. She would have sat at home and chilled on her husbands money. Thirdly compared to her character- which can only be limited to women of south Delhi/ south Mumbai -basically a very tiny percentage, in this country dowry transcends all classes and is much more rampant. Lastly, Your analysis of the character is one dimensional. She could have married any earning man and been like her sisters character in the show-not doing much. But her character revolves around “ambition” and women who will go to whatever lengths to get what they want. I’m not justifying her means though.

[@vedanshibansal2139]

"It matters because I don't know who the fuck you are?" Damn girl. I wish every girl has this courage not only in this type of case but in all the cases where they are oppressed.

[@prabhatsrivastava2217]

I admire high values and determination of such ladies , every women in this country should take up this cause.

[@NeeruSinghK]

Thanks...

[@angelaalmeida7114]

More than admiration we require ppl like them to stop asking for dowry

[@Humanityaboveall]

Yea even women are involved who don’t raise voice for dowry or anything in name of gifts in marriage

[@SachinS-sf2vm]

True

[@abhipshapanigrahi4891]

@@angelaalmeida7114 ,

[@saritak4315]

As a girl I am extremely proud to come from a family who has never taken/given dowry since 3 generations. Started by my grandfather :)

[@harikrishnakhari-wl8jt]

Words are not enough then Marry me

[@vaishs385]

Even my father didn't take any dowry. My father holds leftist ideology so he didn't even use a vehicle and walked with barati to mom's home. It was a very simple wedding. Even my husband didn't ask for any dowry. But my papa transferred the gift money to my account 😂 and maine uda Diya shopping karke. My husband didn't even know this😂

[@Hokage982]

​​@@vaishs385my father holds a hindutva ideology he or anyone of my family members didn't take dowry...ideologies doesn't matter conscience does

[@shaktimishra9710]

​@@vaishs385you should have used that money for better purposes

[@shehbazahmed8849]

The Iconic Scene in whole Series Best dialogue of the decade Hats off to the Writer

[@khushijain-902]

Which series?

[@shehbazahmed9621]

Series name is "Made in Heaven"

[@firdausbano1688]

My brother in laws whole batch decided to not take dowry at their Marriage and they stood by their words! The boys should stand up if their parents put such demands by being firm to their parents about this. We need determination from girls too to stand up n not let their parents fall for such families where they encourage dowry. But we women as mothers must bring up our sons in such way that there should never be the fear of DOWRY around for the girl n her parents ever!

[@NeeruSinghK]

Great 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@Humanityaboveall]

Yea true but some men are too greedy they agree to the concept of dowry even if they are earning in crores

[@rakeschaudhari5400]

@@Humanityaboveall so let them die single

[@aayushisingh9666]

@@rakeschaudhari5400 😂

[@chitsb]

V v true.

[@lakshmimenon2804]

Kabirs (ShashankArora's) monologue after every episode has a different fanbase on its own!

[@mamatapandey6073]

you spoke my heart out been his huge fan since i watched this series.

[@saswatapaladhi4608]

I don't know how the guy don't even feel guilty about it. Like, after getting a gaming laptop from my parents, I was in a guilt trip for 3 days

[@spellcheck5393]

Entitled brats. Their parents teach them they are better than others because they are born as men. It's almost everywhere.

[@sanketshinde413]

The way her mother in law touched her necklace.They want to show off their power,money but at the same time they are being ridiculous by demanding dowry.Kudos to the bride.India needs such brave ,courageous girls.

[@spellcheck5393]

I wish such people are shamed before their extended families. Literally behaving like beggers

[@joshbemur8965]

I really like the courage of this women. Finally. Indian girls are rising.

[@aish2000]

The way she walked out.. the QUEEN😍

[@newdirection1245]

Kudos to such brave girls and shame on such hypocrite groom who thinks that future can be secured from dowry only. They are kalank on Indian society

[@muditasingh1678]

Definitely a very good theme 🙃🙃 Women don't need to pay anyone to marry her for sure 😊😊😊👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@NeeruSinghK]

Yes.. sure

[@harshita9936]

I wish, the coming generation holds the power to break the patriarchy, both men and women. I wish, we stand up on our principles and not sell them off in the name of dowry. Let's hope for a better, happier, progressive India 🇮🇳

[@utkarshchandrasoni2793]

What about alimony

[@lakmichinto5086]

@@utkarshchandrasoni2793 it should be joint custody & parenting in case of mutual separation & equal contribution towards the child if any only. If out of an abusive relationship the court to decide the custody and alimony. No Alimony otherwise 👍

[@tyroneanderson5619]

The patriarchy will always exist, covilization was made by men not women. I think you mean women's rights.

[@alizaerom1019]

this moment was everything...marriages are so shallow in our countries...

[@avinashsirwani2107]

The phairas can wait Ultimate swag ❤️❤️❤️🔥

[@sim_1017]

If this is was a true story, that woman’s name should be marked in history. This is unbelievably courageous to take a decision in that moment

[@FearlessStar1000]

Someone did the math and I thought I'd share - for those who don't know, 4 crores = US$800,000 This is still a common practice today, and most families aren't rich. They will take out loans to sell off their daughters like this. Think about that.

[@GotyaLal]

Meaningful

[@mayankshukla3912]

And alimony is generally 10 times more than dowry and husbands work their ass off to pay it otherwise will be jailed. Men all over the globe know it though

[@Enchantris]

What I find really disheartening is that I hear commonly from men that they feel as if society doesn't care or listen to their issues, and to that end I am sympathetic. I understand it can feel very isolating to exist in society if you feel like nobody cares about you. It is equally disheartening though when some of those same men are incredibly closed-minded to the issues of women. It seems as though some men want the benefit of having their issues addressed without having to listen to the issues of others as well (although I'm not sure how conscious they are of this behavior). This is why I think feminism is necessary; there has to be some force that bridges the gap and works to address issues for everyone.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@Enchantris and we feel patriarchy is necessary to keep feminism in control cuz it loses its track , very oftenly

[@Enchantris]

@@mayankshukla3912 A lot of you think feminism is hating men. It's about taking down patriarchy and it's oppressive norms. Even though men are the ones who benefit from patriarchy the most. They're still victimised to an extent. Patriarchy tells men that they shouldn't be vulnerable and show emotion. It uses misogyny to label those things as feminine. So when men get emotional or vulnerable they're criticised and made fun of. Told to be a man and not to act like a woman. That's toxic af for men. Because men end up bottling up their emotions. They have no where to seek help from. They don't know how to deal with their emotions. Hence the suicide stats. Patriarchy oppresses all of us. Some more than the others but yes, all of us. So men need to be feminists also for their own sake. And what do you mean by "keeping in control"

[@MNiharika-v8r]

I just can't understand how this beautiful video full of soo much of knowledge and message got this less likes , like what does this society wants ...

[@tasribarahman907]

This is one of my favorite scenes from this series.

[@harshita9936]

I read a comment here that stated women want to marry men who earn twice or thrice as much as them and that makes it fair to have fhe dowry if you are marrying to a person like that. Well, if you earn 2x more than your wife and you think that it is so unfair, could you also please share 9 months for raising a kid. Like, let her grow one baby, and you grow the other baby and take all the pain, bleeding, vomiting, nausea, constipation, sleepless nights and quit job for a year at minimum as well. That's the only way it will be totally fair, isn't it? And what if I marry a man who earns equal to me? Then should I ask him to leave his parents and come live with mine? That might seem very fair maybe!

[@excuseme1911]

Hahah men these days are not men anymore... Especially in India ...That's why I'm planning to marry a foreigner.

[@spartangod6096]

@@excuseme1911 try it u maybe divorced in a few years becoz its common there waha par marriage break's like common teenager break up

[@spartangod6096]

And thats really stupid that u are still pointing out men there i am not saying dowry is good but i am saying that if a girl is saying stop dowry she should also shouldnt marry on the basis on husband income that will be equal

[@priyakshipandey1634]

@@spartangod6096 But if a marriage isn't working, seeking divorce is better than locking yourself in an unhappy marriage.

[@jennywinget5786]

@@priyakshipandey1634 how true❤️. People think divorce as taboo but consider living in such prison a fortune 🙄

[@johnofavalon1]

Amazing video.. My respect to all the women who stand up against oppressive men!!

[@ramdwivedi9774]

People are so double standard these days..desi language mein dogala..they abhore the dowry while marrying their girl and yet they press for the same when their son is getting married . The sons are the biggest culprit because they cover their lust for money under the garb of being a good son to their parents.

[@Chinchapakdumdum]

Lol one boy’s exact words to me after i questioned him about the dowry demands his parents were making was “ I don’t interfere in my parent’s decisions.” And to be exact, he was 30.

[@arindambarthakur]

The background score and Mr. Arora's narration...wow!

[@nitulagarwal1994]

Every girl should be courageous like her .. SAY NO TO DOWRY

[@shaktimishra9710]

Say No to government job boy first then

[@Infoentertain555]

*Wow literally wow*

[@SachinS-sf2vm]

Such a powerful scene... 🔥👏

[@bubbles_7778]

One of the best moments in tv history

[@Endless_footsteps]

This scene has my heart!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@achutnavalisstockexplore9537]

Amazing series i ever watch Awesome

[@Haider12912]

Hey, what series is this?

[@peacefulchannel3402]

@@Haider12912 made in heaven

[@spiritualwisdom3640]

She is my fav actress from now

[@Versatile_tales_31]

Took a stand for not giving dowry.The future girls generation..The dowry's reality is true.Whether it is a love or arranged marriage, Please say No to dowry, your self respect is more more important, You are not a toy to get sold.Your value depends on the kind of guy you choose and on your character.And the guys as well,If guys are reading this please understand Your value depends on what kind of girl you get.Please dont value yourself with money but character.No human is worth equal to money.I hope our parents understand this and expand the minds.

[@samprit5620]

We should make our education system accessible for every single child of our country so that everybody can be independent financially. Jab parents k liye ladki k shadi ek burden ban jata hai ,tab dowry jaise crime hone k chance hota hai...."Betiyo ko haat se nikalne do"

[@AmanSingh-gl5bp]

N these tiny moments make a series truly unforgettable , one series that shatters the doubt over OTT n after that flood of series came n Bollywood with its cut copy content is crying in the corner .

[@AkankshaSingh-lw7px]

Highly appreciable vedio👏👏👏

[@aayushisingh9666]

Actually we need such ladies those who have that much guts..... I'm in UP....it is a very common thing here....if u want ur girl to marry in a good home then u have to pay...inspite of ur girl' s education, job.....but how a family is considered as good family , if they r that much greedy....

[@angelaangi5492]

Great message to the society 😊

[@achutnavalisstockexplore9537]

Kindly post episode 3 Never too late kabir's part while photography (last scene)

[@saran6388]

Awesome nanbaa😍😍😍👌👌👌

[@satishprajapat2884]

Vah yarr ek dam sahi hai.. Ladki koi gudiya thodi na jo .....Bhav bata diya or apne Mata - Pita ki majburi ka fayada utha kar dam bata kar kharid Liya.....

[@nafeenoor184]

💞just love this

[@srishtishetty8578]

I called off my wedding because ny fiance started making demands such as the bride's side to spend entirely on the wedding, asking for a reception when it was clearly agreed by both sides that there won't be a reception and asked me to save all my money and not give it to my parents as 'it would be required for our future'.

[@gamebegins6079]

Yes ,,girls be courage always

[@gayatrikruthiventi7273]

At last the parents disagree our courage and blame us..

[@Dam6404]

K a a sh sabhi ladki ye step le payein. Amen

[@CoolHistoryFacts-r6k]

Won't pay anyone to marry her but he gotta pay to divorce her

[@timus4993]

You go gurl 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Gyadi-33]

Well this is really great in fact in our state(Arunachal Pradesh) we give to bride side rather taking something from them practically speaking if a woman comes to our house whatever she earn and do she will do for latter family … her life long contribution say it 60 % will be for husbands house 40 will be for her parents so why dowry??? We should be giving it to woman’s household rather getting anything from them…

[@wowser2153]

Feminism saved her father, a man , from becoming bankrupt.

[@Cordo067]

Bhaiiii😂😂😂😂😂😂.. Kya comment tha.. Literally her decision saved this man's life ❤❤❤

[@Love_DivineAnn]

What is the name of the movie 🎬?

[@india-wi1co]

Now a days groom expects dowry and salary from bride. Such a shame

[@snehashaw8667]

Which series

[@HameemShameem-h1t]

Ias officer😂

[@shivanshmishra5316]

Please girls don't go for Government job man... Actually... Same happens with boys too... They are judged by their job... And their money..... Justice for boys...

[@rameshdhimal3428]

Series name?

[@Aaradhya24]

Which drama ?

[@sapnesuhaneladakpankeallep8828]

Marry in North East States. No dowry khatam😂

[@Sophie_kent]

Did she meet someone better??

[@sanskritinath4594]

best💞

[@charandanta4573]

But still search for a rich and successful man. Society 🙏🙏

[@malikaaween3710]

Show name ?????

[@pinkysingh5778]

Sahi ki

[@aayushisingh9666]

I know someone who said that they will give 50 lacs dowry.....but girl' s brother was not ready for it...bcoz they wanted more money for buying clothes , gifts or whatever .....so boy's side said that we want extra money for all those stuffs....when they denied, then bride to be was there along with both side families.....and then his father in law asked .....is I'm saying something wrong.....and she had nothing to do, with all thes things and she was like.....just come or time before day of marriage...we have to do a lot of functions....kya kro aisi aurato ka....they deserve only chullu bhr pani....u can't take step for ur father who raised u since birth....how come u could be trust worthy

[@arunbhagat9098]

Sweta👌🙏

[@phoenix_____4264]

Why is the priest chanting furga vandana on wedding?

[@durgaprasadsamantula699]

He could have tell her and dicuss about that matter before the marriage! That is what wrong here...

[@devaanshkalra1771]

Series name ? I unable to find it , just got this scene ......

[@nadishamitra7880]

Made in heaven

[@devaanshkalra1771]

@@nadishamitra7880 thanks

[@singhravita2516]

I m one of this

[@neelred10]

Don't say our women. Like our cattle 😂

[@Octavishal]

good

[@NeeruSinghK]

yess

[@malinighosh1836]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@harikrishnakhari-wl8jt]

I'm looking for marriage

[@shreyaneogi1462]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@dynamoartiste8549]

Aaah here are the sellers... Dowry is wrong.. Likewise judging a guy but what house he owns how much he earns is also wrong.. But no.. Why will we tell that.. Let's go make something that just... You know what the just is about

[@anishaarora5467]

Whonr those bloddy dislikers

[@Vanessa-es2ss]

He didnt even get up and run after her. She gave him the chance when she turned at the door. Forget him girl. He's trash.

[@bhanu9596]

"Pheras" sounds so wrong.. ye log seedha hindi me bat ni kr skte.. jb they said pheras, that was really cringe

[@Funnybeatsjay]

I have one doubt how men grows same women also grows then y wome. Pay to to get married who started this bloody culture

[@whoistheidealtobelowertoid4585]

No it wasn't smashing of patriarchy, but the building of a better one. Culture is always patriarchal by nature. Because it is masculine, but it's the responsibility of both men and women to hold goodness and destroy what isn't.

[@hasnainshariff1240]

111 comment

[@utkarshchandrasoni2793]

What about alimony???If girls have courage then why they don't protest against this law

[@sonalisinha9446]

They will when you will stand against dowry

[@shaktimishra9710]

Dowry is illegal but greedy women makes alimony legal ​@@sonalisinha9446

[@amulyamishra5745]

It's really amazing how every evil is associated with patriarchy 😂

[@valardohaeris333]

It largely is.

[@amulyamishra5745]

@@valardohaeris333 you need to read more and think more

[@valardohaeris333]

@@amulyamishra5745 Says the ignorant clown

[@shilpavijay7490]

@@amulyamishra5745 You need to follow your own advise. Also, you need to observe more, interact with different cultures, and learn-unlearn-relearn. That you can not understand how this is associated with Patriarchy shows your lack of knowledge. Do Better.

[@amulyamishra5745]

@@shilpavijay7490 being verbose doesn't make your argument valid...tell me what do you understand by the term 'patriarchy' and how do you find it connected with the idea of 'dowry'?

[@nitishgupta351]

Though dowry is bad ofcourse. Likewise seeking a boy earning 3x, 4x or Nx than what a girl earns is also wrong. Seeking a boy with fat a fat pay check is wrong too. Go to any matrimonial site and you will see nearly 75% girls (or their family) would want someone who is earning atleast 2x of what girl is earning. So in all I think there should be equality. Either both are wrong or both are right.

[@NeeruSinghK]

Yes.. agree with u

[@Alina-hs2sy]

Quick question, in India are women treated equal to their male counterparts within the work place? Do they get paid the same as their male counterparts? Somehow I doubt it, therefore how are women expected to be able to match the same living wage as the men? Wasnt that the whole point of this scene, society patriarchal.

[@Humanityaboveall]

This point is not suitable here. Did you watched this episode he betrayed the girl he was always showing he is a simple ias officer his parents are very simple don’t wAnt anything . And at the time of barat his parents demanded 4 crorees then only marriage can happen. If a boy respected the women he is marrying he will never let his parents do this cheap act of asking huge amount of money. And theirs was love marriage. So your this comment is not suitable in such a strong message given in this scene .

[@harshita9936]

If you are earning 2x more than a women and you think that it is so unfair, could you also please share 9 months for raising a kid. Like, let her grow one baby, and you grow the other baby and take all the pain, bleeding, vomiting, nausea, constipation, sleepless nights and quit job for a year at minimum as well. That's the only way it will be totally fair, isn't it?

[@wowser2153]

Nitish Gupta , men demand dowry from girl earning equal amount or more . if 2 doctors or software engineers marry each other , the girl has to still pay dowry .Working women have to pay dowry to even unemployed man so he can start a business .

[@Chinchapakdumdum]

It wasn’t exactly this dramatic, but i walked out of a potential relationship because of dowry. Nothing absolutely nothing justifies dowry. Its not about money, it’s about the sheer entitlement and audacity and condescension. No amount of riches justify dowry ladies. Nope the fuck outta those relations. Aint worth it one bit. Also its not just the boys fault. Sometimes girls parents also are equally glove in hand. I had to literally sit my family down and tell them why dowry was unjustified. Especially now, in these times, when women are expected to have a glorious education, earn as much if not more, manage work and household both, bear children, raise children, and look like an instagram model while doing it all.

[@Cordo067]

So you won't expect alimony in case divorce right!!

[@sanaahanaa5475]

I’m Pakistani and live in the UK with my family. We have no such concept of dowry back in Pakistan where I’m from. My parents didn’t give me and my sisters anything when we got married. We all work and have our own savings. I had a small wedding like my religion encourages, no loans, no dept. Just a simple wedding followed by a luxurious honeymoon (that’s where we’d rather spend our money than a useless wedding) This dowry system is truly ridiculous and I had no idea it was such a big issue in India. My in laws never asked for it either. It’s important we discuss these things with our spouses before marriage than regret it afterwards. Now we’re debt free and happy 😊

[@wowser2153]

Why bring religion into everything . Dowry is maximum among muslims in India ,because of inability to pay dowry many parents marry their daughter as second or third wife to old men 20-25 yrs older than girl .

[@sanaahanaa5475]

@@wowser2153 well that’s fucked up and they’re not following religion as they should. Our religion says to only ask for what the other could give even if it’s a few cents.

[@aimanibrahim2498]

I live in Pakistan, and I hate to say it but we have same concepts of dowry. I've seen many young girls stay single all their lives because they couldn't afford dowry.

[@RajendraKumar-pv8nw]

That just happened in your case madam. You need to check reality. Not all indian marriages work on dowry neither all Pakistani marriages work without dowry!

[@aktarhoussen3612]

In Islam, its the groom who gives dowry😑

[@IshatSingh]

But why then is ALIMONY desired demanded and celebrated as a right for the woman in case of a separation? Even in the marriages where no dowry was taken/given.. I stand against dowry, but why then is the job, salary, financial status of the groom and his family judged and frowned upon? Equality isn't a comfortable place, let's learn that first and unlearn the evils of impractical and illogical feminism.

[@SunilSharma-mb2kf]

I hope she doesn't ask for mens half net worth after divorce.

[@zxy99]

Bakvas hippocrazy , knatm karna h go sab khatm karo dowry alimony maintanance sab, nahi to dowry sahi h. Shadi usase karo jo mota paisa kamata h khud kuchh na karo

[@shilpamahato2978]

I think in this episode the girl earned more than the guy, cuz he was a newly appointed IAS officer.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@Aisha aur alimony kon leta hey fir mat le alimony choice hota hey. Koi compulsory toh hey nahi . Have some self respect

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@shilpamahato2978 you have no idea about how much ias make

[@mayankshukla3912]

@Aisha 😂😂😂😂 sapne dekho baith kar . Aadmi se aage kabhi nahi nikal paogi tum

[@aayushisingh9666]

Actually dear u r not paying someone to get marry.....but u r buying a while life servant 😂....just keep all d bills and everything with u....and then torture them throughout ur life.... it's not like anyone is unaware of laws against dowry..

[@shehzadahmed1822]

dahej tho milna chaiyay larka itna kharcha kerta hai apni wife ki expensive weddings makeup jewelry kay liyay aur larki kuch na dey wah hypocrisy

[@akeepaul]

Aise chaman chutiye bhi hai duniya main. Hopefully there in law aag lagake maar de tujhe.

[@Battt862]

alimony is justified 😂😂😂🤦‍♂️

[@Cordo067]

Broo😂😂😂 looking for this comment 😅😅..

[@malikaaween3710]

Show name ?????