Online Dating Vs Cold Approach - Which Is Better For Men In 2024?

[@PowerfulRift]

Very good David, you deserve a medal. I’ve personally never been interested in online dating anyway. This was very informative keep it up!

[@datingthorpe]

Thank you! I would love a medal haha

[@ronnywouters7037]

Tinder 2013 up to 2019 was really productive. I'll admit that. Women were motivated to meet in person. Now they're mostly in it for attention and marketing themselves. I don't have any socials or dating apps. When I go to a concert with my daughters, women will physically bump into me to get my attention. When I'm working I'll flirt with female customers, I'll have meaningful conversations and I sometimes date them if I'm interested. When I'm at a friend's party or BBQ women will try to flirt with me and tease me. Women are playful, love is playful. Getting good at talking to women or being genuine and relaxed when talking to women can only come from dating and real life experiences.

[@datingthorpe]

Awesome Ronny, love your experiences being shared here 👍. If you can easily socialise with women you won't go far wrong with dating.

[@IntegraDIY]

13:52 that’s my only issue with cold approaching.. I’m not a happy person. I can’t be happy in public, I’m usually in a rush to go somewhere and I’m stressed which makes me angry and it shows

[@247Coby]

Tbis may be a little controversial, but I think that in 2024 neither is the best way. I find woman are 80% how they meet you and the rest is what you're saying and doing. I think the best thing for a single man is to cultivate a large circle of friends preferably both males and females, and meet through their social group that way or through an introduction. The exception to that which also works would be a more warm approach where a girl has shown interest in you before you talk to her.

[@masteryoda498]

I agree with what you’ve stated, online dating and cold approaching vvomen is a bad idea. The best advice for a man is to looksmaxx, but that will only work for some men, failing that, just punt.

[@ronnywouters7037]

You're giving women free attention and free acces to your time and resources when they're not going to be in a romantic story with you. Your female friends aren't going to help your female friends. They prefer drama over happy female friends with a better male partner than theirs. Your male friends will completely ruin your mystery and the women don't have to work to get to know you. Only 20-40% of all women are physically attracted to you. So out of a 100 women, 40 will like you if you're really attractive, 20 if you didn't have relationships, one after the other. So if you have 10 single women, 2 out of those will want you and you might not want them. This leads to non-romance and you not living up to you full potential and dragging us down with you.We can't have that. Do you not believe me? Walk in public, smile, say nothing and look every single women straight into her eyes until she looks away first. If she looks down, she's into you and you ask her name or introduce yourself . If she looks away laterally, she rejects you and you don't talk to her. What women want is to be in a love story. Introduction trough friends is not a love story.

[@danielross6088]

Apps are a total waste of time, 100% agree with you David.

[@datingthorpe]

Thanks Daniel 👍

[@danielross6088]

@@jcransome5616 maybe not for the top 1 or 2 percent of guys, but for the average guy they are.

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

Another reason to avoid online dating is because you might end up getting posted in one of the many controversial "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" Groups. 😂

[@datingthorpe]

Haha yes I've heard of these Tony! Might have to investigate further. Thanks for watching sir.