The Calendar Fight | Episode 182

[@alischreiner08]

yall should write out that calendar story and read it to the boys as an AITA and get their opinions without them knowing it’s you!

[@Nicole-mb7sl]

This is a really good idea!!

[@catericruse4826]

the conversation about the heating vs ac is insane hahahahha

[@delcarr26]

I thought the same 😂

[@jasonhunter2819]

Until Erin said it I had NO idea nest units could switch between heat and AC on their own! It has been a complaint I've had about hvac thermostats for decades that I had absolutely no idea had FINALLY been solved!

[@eb6060]

@@jasonhunter2819is that true though? Erin seemed to not understand that in order to raise the temp in the house when it’s cold outside- the heat would need to come on. Carly was saying it gets into the low 60’s when she turns off her AC- and she does not want to turn her heat on because it gets too warm.

[@lsharp28]

Right hahahah! I have a Nest and I just set it tot he temp and I don't know the mechanics but it does whatever it must do (AC or heat) to keep it at the temperature I have set - all year - and I'm in Canada so there's quite drastic temperature changes.

[@jasonhunter2819]

@@eb6060 I think what Erin was communicating was that they just set the nest to the temperature they want and it handles it from there, hot or cold...but Erin's house is a ranch style so she doesn't have the kind of temperature differential Carly does which...Carly probably should look into adding some attic vents so there isn't a huge heat build up upstairs

[@codys3084]

Erin was def spot on in this argument - it’s not really anyone else’s job to keep reminding you of dates because you’re actively avoiding taking 3 seconds to put them in the calendar app. To be fair they did say it wasn’t a pattern though, but since it’s already happened why even risk it happening more often?

[@Carol-mn9xq]

The calendar convo was the first time I agreed with Erin on an argument with Carly 😂 Mostly because I’d also be frustrated with having to repeat myself on something that is important to me and work related

[@delcarr26]

Listening to Carly not want to use a calendar stresses me out 🤣 I just ordered a custom planner for 2025 🤣 my boyfriend of 11 years NEVER uses a calendar and it is definitely exhausting to have to remind him of everything 🥲

[@hayleeroethlisberger8173]

Erin is a good friend, at some point unorganized people need to creat healthy ways to prioritize their responsibilities. Not rely on their good friends to constantly remind of their work priorities JUST because you guys work together.

[@americanbeauty0]

petition for c&e to make their next merch drop be a calendar

[@BrandiLM93]

I love when you both have disagreements! It reminds me of my sisters and me 😂

[@racheld5765]

The AC convo made me audibly say WHAT?! in my car with Carly not knowing about ACs omg 😭😭

[@VenLouie]

“yeah but this is work” all the more reason to have a calendar and put it there Carly…

[@alischreiner08]

those book series like that are called “interconnected standalones” where you don’t really need to read them in any particular order but they’re in the same universe!

[@knpape3]

I just learned from a maintenance man that the best thing is to put the dishwasher pods into the silverware thing because throwing it in the bottom makes the soap go away too quickly. Works for me if anyone else has dishwasher issues!

[@Avuinu]

mine told me the same thing and said the washer does a rinse cycle before actually washing the dishes

[@jasonhunter2819]

You should watch Technology Connections video on dishwashers, it's incredibly informative and I had no idea how a lot of that worked, they're actually incredibly water efficient and I didn't realize that!

[@marylin1011]

I only use a calendar for work stuff . But I’m not manually adding stuff to it. Whenever a meeting gets scheduled, it pops up. My personal life, I don’t own a calendar. But I also never forget about when I have events coming up

[@emmz1987]

I used to throw my dishwashing pods in the bottom of the dishwasher then i saw a tiktok that said never do this coz the compartment is timed to release on a certain cycle, and the initial cycle is just rising the dishes before adding the tablet/pod. Ultimately if you throw the pod into the washer the dishes are only being cleaned with hot water as the soap gets dissolved and drained in the initial rinse cycle. i stopped chucking it in and used the compartment after that. I suppose its there for a reason.

[@tonygriffiths7657]

Omg! I love how Carly said she watched the “original” Little Women with Winona Rider in, totaling ignoring the classic version prior, with the iconic Elizabeth Taylor! 😜x

[@eb6060]

@@tonygriffiths7657 same!!

[@racheld5765]

@@tonygriffiths7657 same I was like girl original?!?! 😂😂

[@anthonycestoni]

At 31:00 Erin should’ve gotten up and stormed out of the room like it was a reality show🤣🤣

[@artispainlifeissuffering470]

happy thanksgiving you two hope u have a safe and fun one

[@samanthakoprowski]

You guys should use time tree for calendar events

[@leenie444]

lol I love the debatecast. I was cracking up at this conflict playing out.

[@ezeleng]

Carly just search up past conversations and give yourself confirmation 😅 I don’t like calendars but I probably would have gone back to look versus asking the person again

[@lauramadrid9485]

the calender fight is soo what me and my sisters who are my best friends would sooo have this heated dicussion! lol but im the one that sees both sides hahahaha! love it!

[@tkbone7493]

The Raycon & Batman 😂

[@meganking5710]

This whole time when you mention Frida I’ve thought you were talking about Frida Kahlo 😂

[@winniew4900]

nolan deserved to be entered (and win) the harry styles lookalike contest. 😭

[@DESTHEPSYCHONAUTISALIVE]

“Welcome back us” - Carly My brain: “ DO YOU MISS USSSSSS, USSSSSS” *Gracie Abrams voice *

[@m2412]

Are team Carly comments being deleted ? I mean it was so simple for Erin to text Carly that they were filming at 2pm that day after Carly asked…

[@eb6060]

@@m2412 I’m team Carly on this one- ESPECIALLY if Erin is suggesting a paper calendar! I could NOT. I work a corporate desk job and we all have our meetings on our calendars in Outlook and AT LEAST weekly we have some kind of conversation about “when is that?” “What time does it start” “where is this going to be held” “we need to get started on this because the presentation is tomorrow” kind of conversations. Totally normal!

[@cheyennewhitesides7644]

Erin made me irrationally angry with how she was putting down Carly and then when Carly said you’re making me feel a certain way and Erin snaps and says “IM not making you feel ANY way.” and started laughing. Like maybe Carly doesn’t see through your bullshit but you can’t just insult someone and then laugh it off like it’s a joke. And to say you’re not making someone feel a certain way, but she’s literally telling you that you ARE making her feel that way. Anytime Carly stands up for herself(which is something Erin has encouraged for YEARS) Erin will snap and say something snarky then just giggle to cover up the bitchiness. It’s insufferable.

[@codys3084]

Paper calendar was an alternative idea to not using the phone calendar lol Erin was def in the right here

[@MarthaDmgz]

@@cheyennewhitesides7644 Thisss! Erin constantly belittles Carly, and it’s so frustrating how she always acts like her opinion is the only valid one. If anyone dares to disagree, she immediately tries to make them feel dumb. It’s like she has a need to assert dominance in every conversation. She does this on good influences too and it’s hard to listen to sometimes but the others make it worth it.

[@gingerbread18]

All the team Carly comments are on Spotify it’s really interesting

[@nicolenewkirk2337]

Carly, it has to do with where your thermostat is. It’s regulated off the temp of that room. But you can buy Nest sensors. So you could have one in your room and it’ll regulate based on the temp of your room during only the hours you set it for!

[@jasonhunter2819]

You may have just sold my parents on a Nest setup hearing that lol bc it'll be 15 degrees different between up and downstairs and it drives my mom nuts!

[@caroltassin4049]

The "Little Women" movie you watched was Not the original. The original came out in 1933 & then a better version in 1949 is the one I grew up with, about 10 years after.

[@cristinas8955]

What about a shared iPhone cal? For work purposes We use a family cal which all 4 of us can see and then I have my personal items

[@sonyalavoie7745]

I use my calendar for everything

[@sierrasiracusa]

The title of this podcast is iconic🤣

[@DESTHEPSYCHONAUTISALIVE]

I never use a calendar I just cry all the time

[@jillyedge]

The reason Jay Leno has bad luck is bc he screwed over Conan O'Brien

[@VenLouie]

Carly “using a lot of brainpower” to figure out as to how an AC can keep the temperature at 69… girl…

[@racheld5765]

I knowwww 😭😭😭 they’re so lucky they’re influencers and don’t have to think much lol cause HUH

[@aruallauraarual]

62 degrees?? That’s a normal temperature for us in our house. Right now it’s 50 degrees in my house 😭.

[@FlixVBN]

Why is the wide shot when both of you in the frame so high. Makes it hard to watch. You should lower it so that the entire setup plus table shows

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome podcast ladies dropa like and happy thanksgiving to you

[@DESTHEPSYCHONAUTISALIVE]

I know Carly couldn’t watch after

[@DESTHEPSYCHONAUTISALIVE]

You didn’t have to say come one come all Erin omg “how did it end?” Taylor trauma

[@fakingitfam2684]

Carly you should read “tender is the flesh” I just started reading and can’t put it down. It’s super messed up but I think you would like it lol it’s a horror book

[@leslierea4399]

second this!

[@Awesomlyanna]

I used my phone calendar

[@LB-sy7bf]

5:16 the answer is yes. That’s how a thermostat works. These two don’t even know how a standard thermostat works, but they try to educate us on politics. Erin was 100% correct on the calendar debate.

[@VenLouie]

erin knows. thats why she told her to keep it on. and 1. thermodynamics and politics are two different things. 2. it doesnt take a degree in political science to know which political candidate is less evil and who to vote for. especially when one is a rapist, mysoginist, and racist

[@yara4504]

Team erin honestlyyyy

[@rabotleirbag2334]

I used to be a heavy journalist lol once I left for college.(2015) It was almost everyday I would make an entry. I journaled for about 4 years strong and then i got overwhelmed and busy with life, so I stopped. One day during 2020 quarantine, I found my journals, about 5 of them. And I sifted through them, not realizing how much shit and ups and downs I really went thru at such a young age. Fast forward to 2022, when I had my 2 or 3rd therapy session, my therapist informed my that journaling is a great alternative to therapy. Since you are writing down your thoughts and ideas, your brain is reprocessing the information that floats around your head and to help understand those thoughts (intrusive, positive, negative, conscious and subconscious thoughts) I never knew why I started to journal at such a young age, but it made much sense given my lore lol. Who ever is reading this I hope you consider journaling if you cannot access a therapist or if you are journaling, try accessing a therapist if you are able too. Hope this helps! Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍽

[@abbeystreich2260]

The upstairs in my house is SOOOOOO much warmer than the downstairs. I think I’m on Carly’s side here. Even with the AC on, upstairs is HOT

[@generaluse7960]

Not only she's being too defensive but actively gaslighting everybody in order to convince herself! Lol go back to therapy, Carly.