I can't tell you how much this video, and your one on dealing with fear and jealousy have helped me. I've been non monogamous for several years and have had no problem with my partner playing with others - but always struggled with him dating others; it was something to endure and "get through" and I couldn't wait til it was over. The notion of actually enjoying that experience instead, seeing it as an addition to our relationship rather than a threat, being gracious and loving - it's like an epiphany!!! Compersion makes so much sense to me and is so much in line with the person I want to be and the life I want to lead. I really hope you guys see this comment, it's no exaggeration to say finding your videos has changed my life!! Thank you both from the bottom of my heart for sharing your wisdom and experience, what a beautiful strong couple you are.
@openlove1015 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your honesty brought tears to my eyes!
@timpham32005 жыл бұрын
Great advice. These tips are great for any couples/partners and not just for swingers.
@adtc5 жыл бұрын
Hope you can add this to your video description: 0:25 - 1. Be vulnerable 3:42 - 2. Reassure your partner 5:13 - 3. Show gratitude 6:36 - 4. Be honest about your fears 10:14 - 5. Listen 11:46 - 6. Take time out if you need it
@verosiilva3 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for sharing your experience!
@LynnCindy5 жыл бұрын
Hey Guys, As usual, great topic, and also, as usual, this would be great advice for ANY couple, not just for swingers. Thanks, and keep doing what you do. Lynn
@roque34305 жыл бұрын
Fantastic information. You guys are amazing, just watching your videos you guys have been helping us with this life style thank you very much.
@marcusr725 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos, as a long time swinger and being married, I value the perspectives you both convey in your advice to couples
@SS-mm5md5 жыл бұрын
As a long time married couple, great advise to anyone!
@keithboyes62805 жыл бұрын
what city are u guys in??
@buellfuel20015 жыл бұрын
Great topic, I've got lots to learn...
@crystalcampisi5 жыл бұрын
Jackie- I think you should be aware that many people don't even know about fear. take John's comment "I'm don't like you kissing him that way" and discuss how he may be showing anger and not realize there is fear behind it or what he'd even be afraid of. People often think the emotion is anger, could you recommend some ways to recognize anger and dispel it? that would be useful~
@openlove1015 жыл бұрын
Great idea.
@devonhayes22095 жыл бұрын
Anybody else think about the Sling commercials when they see this
@robertong66863 жыл бұрын
When performing your open relationship w/other couples of ur choice do you recording it on video everytime ur performing sexual acts with those people? Is there a time that ur wife having sexual acts with 2male partners at the same time? Is it possible we can get a copy of that video? F yes, how? Thnx!
@alisontill76772 жыл бұрын
Relationships communication Jessica till
@larrywarren24313 жыл бұрын
What are your boundaries?
@richardjohnson71853 жыл бұрын
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