Opinionated 12-Year-Old Takes Over The Bridesmaids Appointment! | Say Yes to the Dress: Bridesmaids

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Bride Angelina wants a country-chic wedding, but when her opinionated 12-year-old sister tries to make all her opinions heard, it makes it harder for Angelina and her bridesmaids to choose the dress they want.
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[@marymann7889]

The bridesmaids should have a say

[@jeanniepurcella8363]

😅😅

[@jalynnwilliams6170]

All she had to do was tell her sister to stop lol. A 12 year old is not in charge.

[@aoifekennedy9004]

IKR I have an older brother and I think he would’ve said a lot more to me than just “Stop” 😂

[@jalynnwilliams6170]

@@aoifekennedy9004 Literally! She was irritating me lol. She clearly gets away with a lot of things simply because she’s the “baby” of the family.

[@debisybesma5855]

they ARE these days!! wait till she's 15/16 THEN everybody will want to start laying down/showing her "boundaries.

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@@jalynnwilliams6170 IKR same here. IKR I’m the baby of the family too but I would never act like that especially if it’s an event to do with my sibling and even if I did I would’ve got a good shouting and telling off too when we left

[@MsJubjubbird]

it sounds scripted. A lot of her lines had a very forced delivery

[@yerintaem]

The minute she said she was embarrassed that her older sister (the bride) brought what she wanted to her own wedding dress appointment I knew she was going to be a major problem. So rude and spoiled

[@Riley-nl7vs]

Wtf do u not have a sibling?? That's what siblings say all the time

[@hayleymariemills]

​@@Riley-nl7vsbut this is a special day for the BRIDE, not a time to reinforce a 12 year olds idea that what she wants is more important than what anyone else wants. That kid is gonna be an entitled young lady growing up thinking the world revolves around her.

[@yerintaem]

@@Riley-nl7vs oh believe me I do have siblings but it’s still very disrespectful

[@guilhermealmeida6181]

The bride brough a jar and was comparing it to dresses to sew if it fitted her vision,u expect a 12 year old to not be embarrassed by that?

[@justvibin7883]

I’d be embarrassed too shit

[@parrisnia72]

I love how the jar has its own theme music 😂

[@willes2735]

This episode is 10 years old, the 12 year old is already an adult. It would be funny if she is getting married soon for them to bring her back on and see how she's changed.

[@aaliyah6464]

Or stayed the same

[@rejanedesevigne]

I think she's a Karen now living somewhere where she's on the HOA

[@Amlyca]

Probably an unbearable adult that no one wants to marry 😂😂😂😂

[@mysticseraph2213]

And to have an obnoxious over-opinionated child attend the session to experience the rudeness for herself... although she'd probably put an end to that quick smart because she's still an obnoxious brat

[@linamarie84]

Hey. Some people don't.

[@nikolmanoleva5727]

Spoiled or not, that kiddo made some good points and the dress she chose was actually very pretty.

[@elizafinnigan3150]

I HIGHLY agree She made some low key hilarious comments

[@2009cochinos]

I want Monte to handle her when shows up for her wedding

[@lysem4392]

I don't care whether she made good points or not. She was unsufferable. I was so much hoping she would be sent out of the Room.

[@tiffanybrown1001]

She was annoying, but I agreed with her.

[@acuerdo3]

Whether she made good points or not, it is still not her wedding. The bride wants a way different style than the 12 year-old sister. The little sister should not tell the bride what style should be the wedding like. The little sister can do whatever when it is her wedding but she needs to let the her big sister choose what kind of style she wants her wedding to be.

[@lauried9664]

I don't think her little sister should have that much say in picking out the dresses. After all, it is her older sister's wedding.

[@lauraclaire]

I completely agree.

[@gayavardan]

She should because if a grown @$$ woman wants the jar to compliment her dress then the 12-year-old girl seems to have more brains.

[@TheRunning2049]

And children aren’t the best in fashion😅

[@MsScully25]

The older sister is a push over and a doormat. Her sister is the probably the golden child in the family because they are so far apart and everyone spoils her rotten without thinking about the consequences.

[@angelbulldog4934]

@@MsScully25 Bingo! I'm 20 years older than my only sister. I so understand. I was taken for granted. She could do no wrong. I'm well past it now, but I resented her, even though there were 4 brothers in between.

[@nancysmith6053]

The floral dress at 3:16 is a lovely dress - meets the 'country' brief and is a dress the bridesmaids could wear again and again to other functions without it looking like a bridesmaid's dress.

[@msdeviantdizzy]

I think it was a tad too casual, you can grab a dress like that at any Target or local shop. Still pretty though..

[@user-xh5xj7bz6x]

She really seemed to like it too until her little sister convinced her she didn’t. I picked dresses that my party could wear again on purpose.

[@MiaCiders]

Are u ok. It is fugly grandma curtain

[@Cvzar07]

I thought it was the best for the theme she was going for also and i like the shape..but the one they chose was nice too

[@heula1]

Why would you bring a 12 year old? She’s got no one to blame but herself…

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree and why bring a 12 year old? It does not make sense.

[@neen42]

I would have hated anything adults liked at 12.

[@MsJubjubbird]

the producers tell you who to bring-- you submit a list of everyone you know- and they will pick who makes the best TV. I even think she's been fed some of those bitchy lines

[@laland5752]

I brought my 14 year old stepdaughter with me. I made her a bridesmaid. She understood her assignment. Even better than the older gal I brought! I would ask her if she liked each dress and she would say “whatever you want”.

[@estherhwang822]

HAHA

[@nancysmith4529]

That future bride needs to learn to speak up to her sister! Your the boss!

[@susaneglinton2184]

I loved the flowery dress, if they had had it in a blue, it would have been a perfect country bride look. Little sister would have had to grin and bear it!!!!

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

A 12 year old shouldn’t have any opinion on a dress that’s meant for an adult. She will have her time to choose her wedding dress one day. Not now.

[@melindainglesby1922]

As a junior bridesmaid, she gets a say in what she's going to have to wear!

[@guilhermealmeida6181]

Then don't bring her with u,why would u bring someone with u to buy a dress if u don't want their input?like stop wasting other people's time

[@divinedlibra9884]

She can have an opinion, it just shouldn't lead the entire appointment based on her opinion only

[@Asr26363]

While she can’t control if she has an opinion or not if she’s a normal human being.

[@michellegaines3568]

I agree

[@kristinecollier9155]

The mason jar with a wild flower arrangement would be beautiful!

[@Chanelnumber7394]

This child clearly hangouts with too many adults 😅

[@markotnanatkapietruszki]

You can tell other kids hate her.

[@katew.176]

She's enabled as well by those adults.

[@pumpkinspicehedgie]

The drama around the mason jars is so funny in 2023 - I had mason jar centerpieces for my wedding in January and I’ve seen plenty of others that did the same! I’m glad bridesmaid dresses have updated, but mason jars have stuck!

[@morgan796]

How are they letting a 12 yr old talk to them like that lmao

[@Marcy96m]

Carolina just said she wants a fitted flowy dress, so I know she don't know nothing 😂

[@Cantetinza17]

I love that the little sister loves her some sparkle. She can have that on her day. Let's focus on the Bride now.

[@hayleymariemills]

That little sister is gonna be a nightmare when she's older because she's treated like what she wants goes. I see a future Karen!

[@lindaleelaw5277]

She'll be flirting with her sisters husband

[@screamingminnow920]

my family did me like that and it was so much work to unlearn 😭 parents remember that you’re the parent and don’t let your kid being stressful keep you from standing your ground and teaching them that not everything is about them

[@bazdog4464]

​@@lindaleelaw5277I mean she's 12 that's kinda disgusting to say

[@MsScully25]

That is the problem - people think this behaviour is funny and „oh she is just a kid“ - but if this kind of behaviour is reinforced to often and she gets away with it she will turn into an awful entitled adult. Sadly most people nowadays let this behaviour fly.

[@MiaCiders]

It’s not that deep. U guys are weird. Her little sister was nice and just had a little banter like siblings do. You are the one who sounds like a Karen fyi.

[@ash40248]

I thought they were such unattractive dresses and I agreed with the little sister about the two coloured scrappy dress in the first round. It was so ghastly

[@Pirates.27]

I actually loved the blue one, but it's not our wedding dude. 😊

[@Ifailedeverything]

Children only behave as badly as they are allowed. Don’t forget also that this is tv and they may have edited out any reprimands or scolding because it interferes with the rage bait.

[@jonquilgemstone]

Idk who needs to hear this, but a simple country aesthetic is completely valid, and if the couple is happy with it that's what it needs to be.

[@Ladythyme]

This Opinionated 12 year old translates to “Spoiled Brat” in my book. And they talk her up like she’s cute…no wonder

[@lysem4392]

I don't think the adult bridesmaids thought she was cute. They looked about to purée her.

[@MsScully25]

She will be a bridezilla in a couple of years.

[@Beth1300]

The staff immediately called her 'miss thing' as if she was a big deal 🤦‍♀️ You can tell she's really spoiled

[@ericabrewer9220]

How many times can someone say "sparkle"? 🎉😂

[@pamyork5217]

A little girl needs to be put in her place. Sure, we wanna place our siblings, but she needs to learn. It's not about herself, it's about others. And that hurts the person that you love trying to place themselves. And then trying to place others, it's all about the bride. This little girl's got a rude awakening when she gets in the real world.

[@xtxpxhx]

I mean.. she was not wrong about the pillow case dress 😂

[@anewfoehasappeared7556]

I’m so obsessed with this show i need more

[@suzannemilligan8648]

Soooo...the tea length dress and the cocktail length dress are the same length. Tea length dresses are a bit longer than calf length dresses. Tea length dresses usually stop right above the ankle, but some stop up to 2 or 3 inches above the ankle.

[@cheryldurham3560]

This is why the expression “children should be seen and not heard” came about.

[@darlenegarza1599]

Yes definitely 💯

[@futuremrs.c1099]

My daughter is heard and speaks her mind but she is respectful. There is a big difference.

[@ravenclaw_2106]

Rookwood had a point Lmfao

[@CarysGoshaaa]

Then when children are abused and shit now y’all wanna be like “why tf don’t you stick up for yourself”🤦🏾‍♀️

[@I.K.11]

I'm guessing you don't have Jesus in your life. Anyone who likes using this saying needs Jesus. 🙏❤️

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

I liked the floral dress - it's casual and can be worn after the wedding!!

[@rangers9848]

I was a flower girl when I was 8. It was 1972. I had a blast. But I felt the most special as my aunt & grandmother made my dress. I loved it so much, I still have it. The couple (my cousins) celebrated their 50th anniversary in 2022. Unfortunately the groom passed away suddenly in 2023. I never would have taken over the appointment like this little lady! She needed to be told!

[@dianeenlow123]

My Nephew and his Wife used the exact same jars at their reception. They were in high demand and difficult to find. She wanted antiques only.

[@belmarmom]

How can a bride go shopping for bridesmaids dresses if she doesn't have a venue, a date, a color scheme or her own dress? Because she hasn't decided on any details her little sister is calling the shots. She needs to come back closer to the wedding, after all the details have been decided, and then choose the dresses. The oldest sister didn't have to sit there like a lummox. She could have taken the little brat aside and told her to stop interfering.

[@rachelcarter2036]

That sister needs to get out !!!

[@lilsmurfee525]

I like the blue one. I kinda agree with the 12 year old. 😂

[@arinicole5641]

I’m so focused on the fact that the bride at the end of the video wore a lace dress on the beach 😂

[@riaobukofe1347]

I was like how can the 12 year old girl know anything about fashion but I give it to her she has some knowledge

[@buffysheffield1328]

Add some clear glass marbles and fairy lights and those jars become magical little jars of light! I personally prefer clear jars and white lights. Place them in the center of flower arrangements, or pumpkins, rosemary, eucalyptus, sage and thyme sprigs and then pine cones. dispersed throughout the venue. I love fall, and fall weddings. So many possibilities..

[@zeenathishak4865]

3:47 "If I'm a bride..........," well you're not so shushhhhhhh!

[@jalynnwilliams6170]

That’s what I said lmao 🤣

[@wickandde]

Okay but the 12 year old speaks a lot more sense and has better taste than the bride 😂

[@shirleerogers5969]

But the 12 yr old isn't getting married. She can have it "her way" when she does.

[@user-lz4zr9ub2j]

not imo😒basically all she was saying was that she wanted a sparkly princess gown, probably cause she wanted to be the center of attention. she's just spoiled because her older sister gives her what she wants

[@aoifekennedy9004]

Gosh I’m 19 years old and I don’t have a sister but I have a 23 year old brother and if he was getting married and if I acted like that at his Fiancée’s dress fitting and bridesmaids dress fitting my brother would probably have me out the door or window in seconds

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

You are 19 though. A literal adult. She's a child. She hasn't learnt how to fully filter her opinions yet.

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@@JustAnotherPerson4U true yes but still I love children and all but she shouldn’t be acting like that in public and her parents or guardian should explain that to her I don’t know

[@Funnyjoke12348]

​@@JustAnotherPerson4UMaybe I was just a better spoken child, but I knew what to say and what to keep to myself at that age. She should know better.

[@aoifekennedy9004]

@@Funnyjoke12348 true like no offence a 12 year old should know how to behave but I don’t know maybe it’s just me

[@jeniferclemente1252]

She’s 12 and it’s not her wedding. “For your wedding”? She’s focused on her own little girl wedding vision and not supporting her big sister at all.

[@thebiz2678]

It’s her world and we’re living in it 😂

[@hiphopdanceeliana8659]

I think the 12 yr old has good style i like her choices

[@LauraTheFanGirl]

Girl you are 12 years old you need to chill out the wedding bells in your head a little 😂

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

Coming from a generation of children not being seen or heard, I think that girl should be told to be quiet.

[@guilhermealmeida6181]

I think u should remember all the crap u did as a child and think if even one of those stories got caught in the internet forever and give her a break,this is TV and u can tell this was edited and they clearly instigated

[@WhirledPublishing]

This is the most hilarious episode of syttd ... a 12-year-old is micro-managing the thoughts and emotions of several young adult ladies.... this belongs in a movie ... and then we'll get to see this little girl 10 and 20 years into the future... 30 ... 40 ... 50 years into the future.

[@markotnanatkapietruszki]

Karen in the making.

[@WhirledPublishing]

Children have a right to their own perspective - she was asked for her perspective and she openly shared it - looks like you're some dude that wants to shut women down by calling them a "Karen" - you're invited to leave.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

That child had the best taste of them all. I’ll gladly have an opinionated child than a doormat adult.

[@LoveShackSarah88]

At 12 I wouldn't have dared, I knew my place

[@janicehofer5911]

The kid is outspoken but she can be managed. The bride, however with that jar! Is she kidding?

[@beccawilson5530]

the girl is me watching this show, made valid points 😂

[@susanrainey9091]

The jar and the kid need to go.

[@user-ez9le4sg6m]

Angelina......this is your wedding, NOT CAROLINA'S. Remove her from the wedding party!!

[@janetcallanan7020]

Actually if those are old blue mason jars they can be really valuable I have a bunch from my grandmother it's a beautiful shade of blue I loved dress 5 the one she picked was pretty but I would have liked it better in the shade of blue from 5

[@moriahcarter7557]

She shot down my favorite one - the floral in the first round.

[@user-xh5xj7bz6x]

I truly think it was her favorite too but she let her little sister convince her otherwise.

[@peanutsarecheap1997]

I like that 😢too. She needs be respectful to her sister, personal I would've told her to STFU

[@Annie497]

That was hidious!

[@maryanneausland4299]

Little one had no business being there

[@TheSkandranon]

I like the flowy dresses, i love the chiffon material

[@snakebitepellehue]

I literally have that same blue mason jar in my bedroom.

[@naowright9308]

My youngest sister is so opinionated and tells it how she sees it. The only thing is that I have no trouble telling her to, "Can it!"

[@sustainablyyours61]

Okay, she picked a jar as inspiration for her wedding. And little sis needs to be told to be quiet, not her day.

[@giovannasworld3313]

Tbh kids are the best judge as they’re very honest and usually right about physical appeal I’ll definitely have a 12 yo with me to help shop for wedding dresses

[@guilhermealmeida6181]

Some things: 1-most of the rude things the girl said where in interviews without being with anyone,that is at least weird,and makes it at the very least less rude. 2-She is 12 of course her vision of what a wedding is,is not as mature and developped as ours,she still has that fantasy of sparkles and pretty princess dresses 3-If u don't want to hear someone opinion don't bring that person,if she brought her she can give her opinion regardless of age 4-This is not the bride's dress so honestly the bride should not have total say,this is the bridesmaid dress,so the bridesmaids need to be heard

[@romypotash7114]

I think she should have gone for the floral dress from the first round, she was walling to go "well lets build around it" but her sister really took the wind out of the sails

[@francisjohnson665]

The sister should have told little sister to be quiet . It's not her opinion that counts . I hate children like this ; it's not her fault she hasn't been raised right .

[@guilhermealmeida6181]

If her opinion doesn't matter why would the bride bring her?see this is the problem u bring someone to a place supposedly bc u want everybody's input but u actually don't so u are actually wasting other people's time,like just go alone and buy the dresses

[@janettewebster2151]

"Change of life baby" is growing up without the same "boundaries" as her older sisters...what could possibly go WRONG 😳

[@chikyu9068]

I LOVED that flower dress though.

[@dawn-gk2tr]

I love the model's faces as they look at the interfering brat.

[@salazarslytherin7766]

They should have a sparkle count up 😂how many times she said sparkle

[@maynameismay]

7:02 "With the vintage jar" Ma'am please💀

[@tiarajohnson8568]

These comments did not pass the vibe check, this girl is 12 years old nothing she said was crazy nor did she cry like a spoiled brat when she didn’t get what she wanted 😂

[@icouldbeevil3110]

Are they not filming any new episodes????? Or newer then this?? I miss this show.

[@user-ee1qr8lq4c]

Season 22s last episode was the 6th episode. It was in April 8th 2023. :) season 23 has not been announced yet.

[@jennatenorio166]

The florals!!

[@mariefrankum3310]

Should have left little sister at home!!

[@Rosedawn321]

It was very telling when lil’ sis says “for my wedding, I want…” She needs to have the message brought home to her that this is her sister’s wedding and she needs to SHUT UP!

[@bratz5858]

idc how old she is her points where valid and she was honest someone had to say it🤣

[@canadiancatgreen]

I think it is cool to see so many colours I mean white is traditional but I like colour too

[@jydeinden]

im kind of confused.. because the dress they picked wasnt the one we saw in the end.. And why on earth didnt the bridesmaid got the dress made into her size longe time before?

[@LoveShackSarah88]

I take it these bridesmaids are probably going to wear cowboy boots?? If so those should have been brought along with the jar lol

[@rosiered3403]

Future bridezilla.

[@riostampede9033]

My goodness if I had a dollar for everytime that kid said "sparkle"....

[@aussiegypsy62]

Those 2 brides had nothing to do with each other I was confused? Who was in the wedding video we didn’t see those blue dresses being picked?

[@zoecampbell1536]

that kid needs to be humbled genuinely

[@lizbooth6092]

I don't think the little sister should of been that vocal. It's her sister's big day. And big sister should have put little sis in her place

[@UnknownHomie]

They should’ve kept that kid at home

[@user-tq5ff4ck1k]

That little girl is embarrassing

[@m.j5519]

Not spoiled she was smart

[@lidijakljucevic84]

The kid needs to keep opinions to herself on this one

[@kimm6589]

All I could see was Napoleon Dynamite.

[@juanitawiley1263]

Blue mason jars rock!

[@jennelynduke4230]

Why is you allowing your 12 yrs old sister to make decisions for you she's a kid and that's all that she has to be and not an adult it's not about her

[@MiSingsIt]

She looks like Britney

[@stuffmewithpasta756]

Im guessing the mom forced her to bring her along. "You're going to be on Say Yes to the Dress?! You can't leave your sister out. And that'll help me take a break."

[@sandimccracken2781]

The kid shouldn’t even be there.

[@user-hg8fi6ob7g]

I must have missed something, the long dresses they wore were not the short lace strapless one the bride said yes to! When did the dress change??

[@figmo397]

I was surprised that the bride didn't want to match that lace and satin dress to the mason jar.

[@herblusunflower]

“She’s been dressing herself for quite awhile” 😂

[@Annie497]

I blame the bride for giving a 12 yr old sister this much say and control over her own wedding. The bride needs to go in with her color scheme and venue decor before entering a salon. I think it's ludicrous to have everyone trying on all kinds of styles and colors. They look like every day dresses instead of bridesmaids. The 12 yr old needs to be told to sit down and behave and keep her opinions to herself.

[@Legally_Levi]

Aaaaaaaaaand this is why children don't belong in a wedding party. I wouldn't even want a flower girl or ring bearer cause I'm not risking some brat ruining the day that has nothing to do with them. Adults only.

[@daizz5500]

That 12 year old is saying the truth, i agree with her every word, the bride has one of the worst taste.

[@sparklemotion86]

It's not her wedding

[@Annie497]

Doesn't matter....it's the bride's wedding, not the 12 yr old's tea party.

[@linamarie84]

Its scary because my niece is 8 acting like a grown adult. This is how id imagine her to be at 12. There aint no way. It is unacceptable. A direct reflection of the parents. That little girl needs to be checked real quick.

[@BLU3L0TUS]

if i had a sister that would ruin my wedding prefered dresses, i would be like "screw you, your not a bridesmaid anymore"