Opposite Sex Interactions - Nouman Ali Khan - Quran Weekly

[@MsTuba42]

My very dear brother in Islam, I am a woman and straggle finding a job with my hijab and English as second language. I also had a small surgery recently. Please pray for me so I can help my husband financially.

[@adibasiddiqui4387]

May allah swt bless you , hopefully you are doong better now .

[@mariammohmand5541]

May ALLAH ease all your hardships and bless you with happiness and make you able to help your husband ameen

[@faish4191]

Assalamualaikum, how are you doing now?

[@ModouLaminFofana-l3i]

May Allah give you what's best

[@regi9192]

May Allah bless you

[@curiepatoorie3536]

Allah isn't against us living. He is against us living a life that is against our design. A life that will break us and cause us misery

[@binablob]

that's very true MasyaAllah

[@salwazains2245]

Mashallah 👍

[@mrmarvel4557]

Ur thoughts MashaAllah ❤️

[@farheenanwer1830]

LoL

[@879-0]

Very well said

[@Ilmwaqalb]

as a sister in the work force, a single woman, this is a good reminder for me

[@dimabandar]

You're right.

[@greyhound681]

Monique A may Allah bless you in you daily work..

[@Dylan-ge6dn]

Monique A masha Allah. the Merciful bless and protect you

[@anassbadaoui2300]

may allah help youu

[@timberwind7276]

May Allah SWT make it easy for you

[@sallylemon5835]

Believe it or not, interactions with opposite gender once crosses a bit over the border till it please you, amuse you, making you feel complete and wonderful, this what hurts a lot at the end - the moment you have to lose it and whatever in life reaches expiry date. Found this speech rather peaceful than oppressive. Besides the ruling not originated from man but from the Creator, the source of all peace, the experience of pain of losing which was derived from the so-called fascinations makes real lesson on what Allah has restricted for us are all from His Mercy for our peace and not a subject of torture. My Allah guide us with His wisdom. Such pleasures we missed out from this world? -That's what heaven is for.

[@abbaslegend9214]

Well put!

[@bintuaddin9261]

True.

[@Aplomb1972]

👏👏👏👏 6 years later and still impressed. Thank you.

[@adacy6199]

SubhanAllah, thank you

[@abdulrahim46]

Subhan’Allah!

[@diamondheartfairy4626]

I've never seen sheikh playing or having fun before!! I only see them give lectures.. Quran weekly rocks coz it shows the outside world that we also have fun in our lives and not just lectures!!! MahsaAllah may Allah swt reward sheikh Nouman and the quran weekly person(s) inshaAllah!!

[@lebbarmohamed76]

Salam alaykom. We shouldn't say in Shaa Allah in duaa but rather we should say Ameen.

[@edrissmiakhel9704]

that great when my father dead my mother take care of my family.. i have 5 sister and 1 brother.. with help of Allah everything is great now..

[@cade9491]

it is good that everything is good and dont forget to respect and listen to your mother

[@edrissmiakhel9704]

abdüllaziz möhamed ok brother and i will never forget your beatiful advice

[@jasminejo2424]

i am sorry for the loss of your father. i am glad things are well with you now.

[@edrissmiakhel9704]

jasminejo2424 thanks you so much brother

[@jasminejo2424]

you are welcome but i am a girl :) also i am not a Muslim so feel free not to call me sister if you would prefer not to. either way i wish you, your sisters, brother and mother all the happiness in the world and i am sure you will se your father again one day in the next life and that he will be proud of you. peace and happiness to you and your family

[@MaherNabeel]

I'll give you some solutions if you apply them all, with Allah's will you'll stop it: - Increase your Iman as much as possible. - Lower your gaze to the maximum. - Get married (This is the most important point)

[@vorador5632]

What do you mean Lower your gaze? Isn’t the thought of the action the worst bit? Are you judged by actions or thoughts I’m confused

[@abdulkarimabro1113]

@@vorador5632 it just mean to stare at women or admire just lower that unless its your wife

[@stand4justice4867]

@@vorador5632 Yes actions are the worst but they're the end of the tunnel the beginning of which is looking with lust and desire. So you must lower your gaze and not look at woman like pieces of meat left and right with lust and desire. You should channel this energy through it's right path that Allah set by marriage, the spouses are each other's safe haven.

[@shadowthefirst5115]

@@stand4justice4867 can i ask you a question?

[@stand4justice4867]

@@shadowthefirst5115 go ahead

[@youtubesuckss7058]

NO ONE IN MY LIFE GAVE ME GOOD ADVICE LIKE THIS MAN

[@JahannamHellfire]

Marriage has to be announced in a society at all costs otherwise it can potentially damage the repute of the man and woman. Secret marriages must not take place. In fact, nikah in itself encompasses an open announcement that it has taken place. However, once a marriage has taken place in this fashion, it is up to a court of law to decide whether it should continue or be annulled keeping in view all the circumstances. We cannot give rulings unless a case is closely studied. Likewise implementation of a decision in this regard also rests on competent authorities of a state. As for the condition of approval of a guardian please refer to the following discussion: Wali's Consent in Marriage. kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKaloaaZZ6l3fqs

[@abdullkarimtarda8857]

There is beauty in this verse when you recite it as the following: "فجاءته إحداهما تمشي على استحياء قالت.." Read from the beginning of verse and stop at (استحياء) means modestly . Then complete the recitation from (على استحياء قالت) means she says modestly. By this way of recitation you described the modesty of The woman in both of her walking and saying.

[@zakirsayeed90]

Wow! The table tennis match and Ustad's joyous mood is great. May Allah bless him and his family and the good folks over at Quran weekly. Assalamu alaikum

[@moa7926]

+zakir sayeed I am glad you enjoyed it Buddi, at least you got inspired by a muslim match of table tennis :)

[@asmagufran5301]

Walekum as salaam

[@dariyabadra9804]

Walikumasalam

[@risaw900]

Wa alaikum assalam

[@eesawazeer7352]

When a person uses bad words and swears in public it really shows how cheap and uneducated they are that they cant put there words out professionally and beautifully , they let their tounges loose and spit out all the words that dwell in their hearts which shows that people as such have no inner peace as they are disturbed inside they cant bear to see other hearts flourish in tranquility.Deep down they know Islam is a peaceful religion, they read the context of the Quran seeking critiscism and hate ,whereas we open the quran for guidance . Both parties will get what they came for . They have just been indulging in ignorance and hate that they couldnt just peacefully take a few minutes to sincerely ask him for guidance. Dear muslims please maintain your hayaa in your words and pray to Allah to guide them to the straight path :)

[@thecakebakedguy1919]

im one of those victims its like it comes straight out of my mouth an after school im just like what did i just say

[@otamaanna4729]

my principle belief is that if someone refuses to shake my hand, it is a sign of disrespect.

[@otamaanna4729]

are my beliefs valid as well? Or just yours?

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

Modesty is in behavior and speech as well as in dress.

[@Very-Strawberry]

I really love your lectures, they really are life changing to me. And I also thank the editor of this video for adding that short clip of the ping pong match! It's nice to see a different side of Ustaz when he is not all serious and is having fun :)

[@natsukisubaru2683]

Why?

[@so9505]

@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ She's not your mahram, lower your gaze.

[@altheaequatorin1179]

@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ if you feel “disturbed”, lower your gaze. repent to Allah. may He have mercy on us all.

[@morriswilburn9858]

Another lesson here is how men should behave. The men at the water hole should have moved so that the women could water their animals first.

[@talharizvi4075]

+Morris Wilburn Right on! But the situation gives us a chance to see the commendable actions of a prophet of God (pbuh) versus men who lack courtesy or chivalry.

[@morriswilburn9858]

Yes, it does.

[@HG-pr2wn]

+Morris Wilburn Is your lesson superior to Allah's? Wouldn't Allah (SWA) put it in the Quran if he thought that were important? Or did Allah make a mistake?

[@morriswilburn9858]

I do not believe that God made a mistake in what to put in Scripture. Nor do I believe that my lesson is superior to His. But I do believe that multiple useful lessons can be obtained from one incident.

[@Fatelma]

+Morris Wilburn I agree with you. So much to learn from this.

[@shum0013]

Answers so many questions, SubhanAllah. May Allah reward you all immensely. Ameen

[@yusraimran3990]

l have listened n read this story many times but again I got some new lessons from the same story ....What an amazing book Allah Has sent down for all of us..

[@21thebestgirl]

you know my fav part about these quran weekly vids aside from the advice and lessons, is the ending, the outtakes or the bloopers, they make the vid fun and enjoyable :) and they make these speakers seem more relatable, it's like learning in a cheerful, relax environment :D thanks quran weekly! i've learned a lot! and i'll apply the lessons in my daily life, In Shaa Allah

[@MajidAli-ox1gl]

nouman bro.. i think you just changed my life in very important aspects..because whenever bad thought comes in my mind your word just come in my mind..thank you very much😘...may allah grant us protection and give you success...

[@iffatsharmeennijhum9373]

His explanation is really powerful. He is a big inspiration to the youth generation.

[@jaud007]

Man I just wanna hug Nouman and listen to him all day ❤

[@sali6582]

Subhanallah. Thank you for making us more aware of these beautiful relevant stories in the Quran!

[@muhammedq9109]

May Allah grant us all the highest ranks of jannah Amen 🤲🏽

[@BumbleBee20002]

Thank you Ustad, for this eloquent way of explaining measures of interaction; espaecially in time where some believers act like all kinds of interaction are forbidden; EVEN someone actually needs help. Thank you for reavealing this natural act of being helpful in this halal-frame!

[@saniyarash]

May Allah reward you immensely for doing such good work for this ummah!

[@salsaaabrd]

"Berhenti berbicara Tentang apa yang kita suka mulailah berbicara tentang apa yang ALLAH SUKA"

[@wrouillie]

I'm hoping this video will aid in the understanding by others in their dealings with us, and how our behavior isn't an act of rudeness, but an act of self-respect. Modesty and proper Islamic behavior in women won't do to bat ones eye-lashes and turn up the sweet meter! Masha'Allah for this bit.

[@flareboi]

writer here! while i’m not muslim, these videos are very helpful for me to understand islam far better and make sure my writing of muslim characters is respectful and truthful. there are things to learn from all religions, and there is wonderful advice here! thank you!

[@sidimouhamed7727]

Just don’t portray a righteous Muslim caractère as a sinner or a bd person cause that go against reality

[@cameroonbeauty4ever]

Masha Allah I have enjoyed every minute of this video!!! I am so glad the qur'an adresses the topic of women in the workforce, and I have actually thought about it before, but this video (of course) gives better details. alhamdulillah! perfect timing! Nice ending too! p.s: to my sisters: speaking of modesty , let's lower our gaze please! ;)

[@poojajagadeesh7070]

That's so profound Masha Allah!!! I'mma 5 years old revert from Southern part of India! A little comment on how beautiful and graceful he speaks abt Qur'an and the word of Allah on Camera and says I can't play while camera in on is two different things!! Masha Allah ❤ that modesty 😊

[@rukysalam2190]

Yaa Ustadh,may Allah Grant you and your family jannah.

[@RandomAccessMemory]

Best teacher for youth, Ma sha Allah

[@rashthewolf1223]

Nouman Ali Khan you are an inspiration to me.. whenever I would think of a bad thought I would think of your advises, you really help me and guide me to Islam

[@moneyji010]

love this guy

[@mmiraoui]

Great video MashaAllah. It serves as a short and quick reminder for us to keep our haya when talking to the opposite gender which Muslim teenagers abroad struggle so much with, including myself (17 yr old)

[@bushrasadia9534]

what a treat in the end, cant stop smiling

[@duncan3998]

Have a dog treat 🦴

[@Nurlander]

JazakumAllah khair Quran Weekly and brother Nouman Ali Khan

[@bumblebee9912]

Jazakallah... sooooo happy brother, may Allah reward you for this explanation.

[@deeqmxd101]

May Allah (SWT) help u. Masha Allah brother, the fact that u wrote your problem & asked help shows u have courage & tht u want to change.Don't ever feel tht Allah hates u,you're a human being & we all make mistakes, just remember tht whenever u commit a sin, admit it to Allah & ask for his forgiveness because Allah is most merciful. Also make constant dua after you pray & plzz cry to your creator to help u ease your pain. Allah azza wajal knows best. Hope this helps & my sincere dua is with u.

[@Gamer_OP6009]

Noman Ali khan u r my best mentor may Allah gives u alot of success ameen

[@JemimaRuby29]

What a beautiful ayah and the teachings from it

[@nuhasara5884]

Barakallah Sheikh! May Allah bestow his blessings upon you... Really its great message with Prophet Moses's Incident.

[@fasogeeek]

JazakaAllahu Khayran for these amazing videos Quran Weekly!! And may Allah reward Nouman for participating in these videos. I love it when a new video pops up in my subscription feed. May Allah grant you all jannat al firdaus. Ameen.

[@sanasultan9263]

May Allah swt reward you with the best of both duniya n Aakhira#Ustad Nouman.

[@misslove2read1]

May Allah guide and protect us all. This video clarifies so much.

[@MrZazues]

Wonderful video mashAllah. I love this topic and speaker. May Allah grant him in barakat in his knowledge and increase him in knowledge

[@Safia645]

If a person is doing their prayer correctly, then one of the benefits of that is that they leave their sins. If that's not happening, then you need to ask Allah to give you sincere deep khushu in salat and to strengthen your iman so that you may fight the temptations of your nafs and shaitan when you are tested. Start praying sunnahs for every salat. It is a greater ajr for a believer, so is qiyaamul layl-the night prayer. Remember that this is a test from Allah so ask him to help you resist sin

[@dr.tasmiyabhavikatti3135]

What a beautiful advice

[@dimah1234]

I like the first part of your comment! Would have liked the second sentence if you remove "just" from it. Solutions (other than "just the prayer") are: 1. avoid privacy. 2. engage in public acts. 3. Limit food intake. 4. Be careful not to eat at least non-kosher items (including the salt). 5. when seating, sit in a position where the private part is hidden under knees and covered by stomach from the top - many positions available. Insha allah that will work.

[@AamnaKhan-rx6zk]

What a beautiful way to explain Quran.

[@aqsawani1763]

Thank you Allah for nouman Ali Khan.

[@Harry36006]

thank you very much for the advice i try my best to lower my gaze every time i go out i would get married but im only 15 and i cant find any friends that practise like me that would help out alot but im trying my best watching lots of lectures trying to pray properly thank you

[@abelievereverrising283]

How are doing now brother?

[@sidimouhamed7727]

How are you doing , time go fast and only the good deeds prevail

[@elhadjdiallo633]

Im not shy at all !!!! Im in love with myself!!! I dont chase anyone in this universe!!!!! Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe!!!!!#

[@greyhound681]

Alhamdulillah, as a student who interact with same gender and opposite gender I found guidance.

[@mango5397]

I never interact with opposite gender yes I al lucky XD

[@firdows...]

I'm firdosa Bashir and its inspiration may Allah bless you with patient and the ummah

[@ahmuh1306]

What's the table tennis at the end of the lecture all about XD

[@moa7926]

+flyingtothehorizon I'm surprised an Ustad has table tennis equipment to begin with, so breaks a stereotype!

[@summaiyanazneen]

Ahmad Muhammad that he is simple man like you and me

[@salmanfarooq8570]

@@summaiyanazneen exactly

[@wowfury11]

dudeee nouman is just awesome it's the same as a tedtalk very intresting . full of knowledge and a little bit of fun to make the video more enjoyable

[@PureMocro]

May Allah reward Nou'man without limits for his wise lessons and may Allah grant us such woman as wifes.

[@nicoledemour5952]

May Allah swt reward you and give you Jannat ul Firdous without account aameen

[@muzzammil73]

JazakAllah khayr 4 lovely lesson ,, in tafsir its states that when the girl invited Prophet Musa AS) back to meet her father she walked behind him and gave directions not in front of him or next to him ,, very subtle move but a great lesson for ourselves not sure if Musa told her to or she thought of it herself Allahu Alim

[@safiahmed345]

Much needed. JazakAllah!!

[@ruksanahussain8196]

vv

[@mehvishmalik4984]

Thanks for such a good lecture sir!

[@yousraadly7341]

This is so helpful to know thank you so much for lovely reminders .Allah bless you .

[@JunaidSalehHayat]

Jazak'Allah for this very important message!

[@diamondheartfairy4626]

He is way more than awesome!! He is mashaAllah words can explain how awesome he is!! May Allah swt bless you, him and his family inshaAllah!! Aamiin;)

[@natashanattie9001]

Such a brief & important reminder !!

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

I always thought that the passage about 4 wives was meant to illustrate that it is impossible to treat all your wives the same - without favoring one over another - especially considering the intimacy involved in a marriage relationship - and then it states that the wise man chooses only one wife . Wasn't polygamy practiced in the Arab world as a way to take care of women and children whose husbands perished in war as adoption is outlawed in Islam ?

[@bebeaa100]

Actually we can adopt we just can't call them our children. That's not to say we love them like they were. Remember Mohammed (pbah) had an adopted son. In fact I it's been said that if you don't love the orfen you don't love him. Keep in mind I'm probably not repeat in g that right.

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

Ahmad-Ali Abdur-Rafear You are absolutely correct regarding care of not only the orphan but the widow and the stranger. Throughout the Old Testament , there are numerous passages admonishing believers to look after the widow, the orphan and the stranger. There is no misunderstanding that these three groups were the most vulnerable . That is the constant theme throughout the Gospels as well. Jesus , in the Gospels, goes as far as saying that everyone has a claim on us as being our neighbor who deserves our care and provision.

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

Taseen Khan Muhammad was an orphan himself,so it would make sense that he would have more compassion than the average man of his tribe or others regarding the plight of orphans.

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

Ahmad-Ali Abdur-Rafear

[@DeniseEggertwaterlily]

I was going to comment on adopting children in Islam similar to what you stated. The reluctance to adopt children in the region where Prophet Mohammad was born, stemmed from the fact which you stated. Children were seen as being rightful heirs of their father's fortune /business/real estate/legacy. It was considered a responsibility of extended family to "adopt " nieces and nephews while the orphans retained their fathers' surname and identity as belonging to their deceased father. It wasn't popular to adopt an orphan then, because there was no benefit in supporting and sustaining a child which could not benefit you. They would not bear your surname, be considered your progeny, or inherit your trade/business/ legacy. It would be pure charity to adopt an orphan. I believe that Islam teaches that the orphan's relatives should be taking the orphan in and sustain him or her while he or she retains the father's surname and identity. If no relatives are present, others in society are to take the orphan in while allowing the orphan to keep the father's surname and identity. This is probably why there is such a strong prohibition on sexual relations outside of marriage apart from the obvious violation of God's Moral Law and the sin involved. Similar to the Law of Moses and examples throughout the Old Testament and New Testament, sin is just not personal, but it affects the entire society. What happens when a young woman becomes pregnant? Abortion is murder and all human life is sacred. What then happens when the young woman bears a child out of wedlock for which there is no father to claim as his own? The child is essentially an orphan without even the benefit of his father's surname .

[@modernmuslim2044]

a very good example of our principles when interacting with the opposite gender, we may need to compromise on our ethics but our core principles sta\y the same (Still don't know if we can hug our relatives and female friends though)

[@MsRi7an]

Good video! & the end is hilarious "I laugh at you" 😭

[@AhmadRiyal]

other than the beautiful lesson he is trying to show us with the quran. he has really fast reflexes

[@muhammadsadiq1648]

Ustadh you are the best.

[@denge316]

May Allaah protect the entire team ..Ameen

[@alwaysbepositivebegrateful4057]

Thanks so much for the advice. May Allah reward you. Amin

[@arnia2263]

Jajakallahu Khair to present Such a lovely example. As a female It's also inspire me fo become more modest & confident

[@2creativesisters266]

اللهم اغفر ذنبي وطهر قلبي وحصن فرجي Allahum aghfir zambi wa tahhir qalbi wa hassin farji Oh Allah forgive my sins, and purify my heart , and guard my chastity

[@JahannamHellfire]

Marriage has to be announced in a society at all costs otherwise it can potentially damage the repute of the man and woman. Secret marriages must not take place. In fact, nikah in itself encompasses an open announcement that it has taken place. However, once a marriage has taken place in this fashion, it is up to a court of law to decide whether it should continue or be annulled keeping in view all the circumstances. We cannot give rulings unless a case is closely studied. Likewise implementation of a decision in this regard also rests on competent authorities of a state. As for the condition of approval of a guardian please refer to the following discussion: Wali's Consent in Marriage. kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKaloaaZZ6l3fqs

[@zainabmusah1373]

Yaa Allah please have mercy upon us

[@FaisalAzad]

if you really wanted to stop the habit, you will...So change the good intention into a sincere one

[@metubeusercom]

make yourself busy by doing anything useful. get engaged with friends and society and the most important thing is remember the effects of it.

[@sissysossa2466]

ما شاء الله آية واحدة فقط و تحمل العديد من العبر و المعاني جزاك الله خيرا

[@03abdulhuq56]

Masha'Allah, great reminder

[@Dhikr]

wow THis was such a beautiful examination of Quran and the ping pong sessions was so beautiful. It's so nice to see Brother Nouman's personal life and hobbies. Awesome :)

[@shpresashaheed9679]

MashaAllah TeberakAllah, i loved the advice. I liked the last part playing ping pong. Ahhaha. So funny. I'm glad you recorded this part playing because, some people muslim and non-Muslims are having a miscommunication about msulims cant have fun ahahahha.

[@Hasan...]

JazakAllah khair for sharing such beautiful, concise yet powerful example. But now I have one question, if you want to answer. Who won at the end?

[@hollywarehouse7938]

As a devote Christian, what I heard in English was RIGHT. I have no idea how I ended up here, but all the English words were right, God Bless

[@syedabushramunir7741]

very much needed. Thank You! Keep it up

[@saadiasartistry]

Well said brother nauman ali khan. Jazakallah khair for sharing this

[@Islam_nfs]

Lol ustaz got some skills... may Allah preserve him.. and grant him jannah without reckoning

[@shadiaa95]

Loved this story

[@DoctorHalal]

Just randomly playing table 🏓 after the video.

[@muesah88]

May ALLAH SWT guide us heal us protect us forgive us lead us to the Straight path 😭😭😭😭

[@WeEducateAndTutor]

Thanks for the reminder⭐️

[@muesah88]

May ALLAH swt guide us and protect us 🤲🤲🤲

[@afnankhan8116]

jazakALLAH khairun for such a beautiful video

[@its-falcon9116]

Shyness here do not mean that she was unable to interact or she has some fear like shyness is being understood the word used is haya .. means she was walking in a modest way not like women who shake their bodies to attract men..

[@as-suffahenglishmediummadrasah]

Brilliant Lecturer.

[@F.sweet1]

Awww I wish you finished the story I really wanted to hear the ending

[@fatimamuktar3547]

oh Amazing ; may Allah guide and protect you for d ummah.

[@FaisalAzad]

please regulate these ads. there's one that's showing a women wearing a bra...Please visit your adsense page and change the settings.

[@Fathimajr119]

Short n precise-->recommended Quran "daily" reminder for us,youth. Ps:lets have table tennis tournament Salam_peace from Malaysia:)

[@mohamadaimilmohamadarif1701]

Thankyou! btw, nice smash there Sir! :)

[@mrleyasbrownintrovert5020]

Nouman Ali Khan I challenge you to a game of table tennis inshaallah when and If you come to kenya.shukran jazzakallahu kheiran

[@zakariyamohamud3128]

In sha Allah is written with a capital (A) my brothe. I hope u see this reply

[@mrleyasbrownintrovert5020]

shukran brother