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[@laineymiller4189]

As a labor and delivery nurse, I have to tell you how wonderfully accommodating that hospital was!! I work at a super busy hospital where the rooms are often full, we unfortunately have triage deliveries often. Because triage laborers don’t have a designated nurse in triage (we all share the load), we can’t allow our patients to get epidurals there for safety reasons. I’m so grateful they were able to get that on board for you! I’m not confident that would have been the case for you at other locations. Also, we see big splashes of fluid all the time!! You can’t help it! You’d be amazed how often it happens. Big babies often lead to big blood loss, as does quick deliveries due to your uterus growing so large and rapidly delivering the baby and placenta (it can tear part of the uterine wall that attaches to the placenta so more blood). At your six week appointment, you should ask how much blood you lost at delivery (your quantitative blood loss) to see what stage of hemorrhage it was! Modern medicine is so wonderful! You got either methergene or hemabate (the shot in your leg) to stop the bleeding, so you lost more than you probably realize. Had you not been in the hospital, that could have been life threading. Those blue lips were likely from blood loss!! Hallelujah for modern medicine and great timing :) I’m so grateful you had such a wonderful experience despite the chaos. So many of these details could have made this story very traumatic witheven slightly different circumstances. Congratulations on your miracle :)

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you for all the insight. I guess I never quite understood the severity of it all 🤯 grateful everything was okay!!!

[@2martinezm]

Congratulations! I can't believe you are holding your baby now after all you guys went thru 😭 it's so surreal! This video is everything! I will never get over Ty being in the videos! He has a great personality and every time he said the word "explosion" I stop crying and laughed 😅

[@lorener.9904]

I had back labor with both my babies...it was the worst. couldn't move. Thank god for meds...no way I could push otherwise. Held out for meds with my 2nd longer but so bad. My 2nd baby is close to Ben's bday but 2023. For my first we were induced in 2021 and we got in just in time...that night quarantine babies were born...no rooms....people were having babies in the hall. First discovered ur channel from your whats in my hostipal bag before my 2nd was born. Wath ur vids every morning with coffee this last year. Just started watching ur 2017 vids. 😊

[@sarahsaysfu]

Omy goodness Sarah! I have missed you! I was not expecting to see a recent upload from you! Thank you so much! You made my day!

[@sierrala9903]

Thanks for sharing your birth story😊 I gave birth to my second daughter early October. I was 5 cm waiting for my epidural, I had 4 super strong contractions and I had the urge to push! I went from 5-10cm in less than 10 mins and gave birth naturally! No time for the epidural lol It was so crazy but thankful it happened the way it did. So happy for you guys! God bless!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thanks for sharing!t that’s amazing!!!!

[@KayleeFarnes]

So wild! It's so fun that every story is different, even between siblings. He's so precious.

[@CaitlynNeier]

It really is! Thank you!

[@ohhsooashley9173]

I hemorrhaged after my 4th baby. It was horrible. Your shaking and teeth chattering was side effects from the medicine they gave you to stop you from hemorrhaging more. They also gave me pitocin to get my uterus to contract back. Not something that’s talked about enough. So glad you all are okay and well! Congrats again!

[@katherinereynolds3659]

Co grata!!! I had a similar experience. My DD was 11/2 as well, we also named our son Benjamin. lol I had a home birth though. I had pre labor for a day and a half. Allll back labor because he was posterior. That is NO JOKE! lol I did the miles circuit and he turned and i went into active labor. I called my midwife, he was born 2 hours later! The contractions after he turned, without back labor, was painless compared to back labor. 😂 After delivery I also hemorrhaged. I almost passed out,I was pale white even my lips, I started to lose my hearing and i felt myself drifting away. They gave me pitocin but it didn’t work. The midwife had to scoop out stuff from inside me with her hands. Then she gave me a pill that really worked for me to contract but it also gives you a fever. They gave me an IV. Thank God that you were ok and that I was ok. It’s SO funny how much we had in common.

[@lisabyers2992]

What a sweet story. So happy for your family!! I still remember when you started the shots. God is so good.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you so much. So grateful 🤍🤍🤍

[@sayeedarahmandrienikova9260]

guys you are literally GLOWING with joy the both of you and it just so wholesome and the best to see. So happy for you guys. Such a good positive happy birth story. Glad you’re all doing so well and are so healthy. God bless! 🎉❤

[@CaitlynNeier]

Ahh thank you so so much 🤍🤍

[@barrelracer553]

My youngest had the same thing. The ultrasound to check the sacral dimple to make sure there wasn’t any signs of spina bifida! He’s so sweet, glad he’s so healthy!!!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Yessss glad everything was okay for your babe!!

[@kelleysigler9759]

You 2 are both beaming! Ben is soooo sweet. God bless your baby boy.

[@kayburris8464]

I agree Ty he is perfect. You guys look so happy, and I'm so happy fot you guts..so many fun times coming up . Its going to be so much fun watching him grow and chance. Scarlet is the best big sister.

[@Philanazoie]

🥺❤️❤️ I’m so happy to see how far you’ve come with your family. I found you when I was divorcing my husband with our child. And we tried to make it work and it just didn’t 😢 tearing up watching this, so so so happy for you

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you so much. Been quite the journey but all worth it for sure. Thanks for following along 🤍

[@hugsforlove]

Thanks for sharing your story with us❤

[@christinekouba7942]

Be cold and shivering is from the epidural!! Same thing happen to me.

[@kimstrait4403]

That was so sweet. Although I felt sorry you went home and waited it out. I'm so glad Ty help you with Back labor it's so painful. HIms so cute and so glad he is healthy and growing every day. Congrats again . Happy Holiday's and wishing you lots of joy 🎄❄️🤍💙

[@mmichellec86]

So happy for your family! What a crazy story 😮 mine was similar but I did not make it in time for the epidural, which was also the only birth plan I had lol. Happy it did go so fast for you though and you got the meds.

[@britt08]

He's so perfect, thank y'all for sharing the birthing story with us🥰

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you for watching !

[@elizabethsheppard5191]

Every time he says “after the explosion “ had me 😂 so happy for you guys!

[@maricelarascon8215]

Me every time Ty put the ball down: “No! Throw the ball for Indy!!” 🤣

[@dorapierce2027]

I’m just so happy for your family! I’ve been watching since Scarlet was a baby and I’m so happy you got your miracle

[@CaitlynNeier]

Ahhh thank you so much for following along for so long!

[@LeanneWhittington]

He’s so beautiful I just love seeing the bond growing already with Ben and his daddy 😊the pride ! So cute

[@CKayDodds]

Congratulations! ❤️ He is precious. I wonder if the raspberry leaf tea made all of the difference. Did you drink raspberry leaf tea with your first? Just curious, I’m almost due here soon and anything that can make “labor easier” I’m all here for! 😂 I did order some tea - you can’t find it in stores anywhere around here! I’m 35 weeks almost 36 so should have started earlier on the tea, but looking forward to it being delivered!

[@marychavez2017]

Many blessings being sent your way!

[@MyBeautifulChaos620]

I’m the same with apple juice after birth. I drink it constantly in the hospital BUT it has conveniently always made that first postpartum poop easy 😂

[@CaitlynNeier]

Bahaha so true lol!!0

[@nikkiinluv]

My husband saw when they cut me and he said he saw the whole room turning upside down and he almost missed the baby coming out 😂😂😂

[@CaitlynNeier]

Omg nooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rhondamason5850]

Oh man! I had back labor with my first! It's the worst! He is so precious!!

[@MountainMommaLiving]

Such a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing ❤ so happy you ended up getting a room at least for recovery!! Ben is such a little sweetie 😊 congratulations 🍾

[@CaitlynNeier]

Yes I’d rather have a recovery room than a labor room 😅 thank you!

[@MountainMommaLiving]

@@CaitlynNeier ❤️❤️❤️

[@poshbyjodygreeneisen5147]

Awe glad you're ok!! He is perfect!! Congratulations 💙 so happy for you guys!!

[@judystoinski2409]

So much love with your family I'm so happy and everything's working so wonderful and thank you for sharing all that love and give Scarlett a big hug big sister her smile is contagious

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍

[@AprilEscobar]

He is so cute! I am so happy for you and your family ♥️

[@cricketwireless91]

Congratulations praying for a speedy recovery for you and your baby

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@lauratroxel6072]

When I saw you delivered in triage, I was worried you didn’t get the epidural! Glad to hear you got it and it was a smooth delivery. Congratulations!

[@evelynvanbesien9120]

Thank you for sharing your birth story. Baby Ben is perfect💙. I’m so happy for your family😘

[@FaithFilledHomemaker]

Whew! I’m glad all 3 of my births were scheduled lol it takes the guess work out . I had good luck with my first two epidurals but this last one hurt pretty bad and oh my goodness the itching was terrible! The explosion sounds crazy! I didn’t even know that could happen 😂 I’m a couple weeks ahead of y’all with my daughter, she was 8 pounds! And yes it’s just the best feeling on the planet holding your new baby 😍

[@cheryls.8168]

Crazy story! He is so precious! Congratulations!

[@CaitlynNeier]

For sure haha! Thank you!

[@USAFwife24]

The love in this video is BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️❤️

[@splitarrowfarm]

Wow you are looking so good for 3-weeks!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Oh thank you!

[@wendypudder9745]

Congratulations! I'm so happy for the both of you. Have a wonderful and blessed safe day. ❤ 🤶

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you you too!

[@dandelion9375]

I started cracking up when you guys were explaining the “explosion” 😂 same thing happened with my second. He was coming out so fast so much fluid sprayed all over the Dr. 😂 good thing she was wearing a face shield.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Nooo 🤣🤣 it takes you by surprise that’s for sure lol

[@lilianaloveochoa]

Can u pls do a vid of ur new born must haves / faves things ??

[@brianabresnahan3902]

I am thinking about making the nurses Baskets you showed in an earlier video. I'm due in 4 weeks. Did you end up using them since you gave birth in triage? Also did they seem to like them? Anything you would add or not put in?

[@jenniferrideaux58]

Second babies do tend to be born faster. My bison who is now 22, I was induced, in labor for 13 hours and pushed for two hours. Side note, Ty will appreciate this. I had my son on March 17, during March Madness and during a KU basketball game. We had already decided on naming him Adonus, but thought it was fitting since there was a previous KU basketball player, Adonis Jordan. My daughter who I had 10 years after my son. I was also induced with her but was in labor for only 4 hours and pushed 3 times and she was out.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Oh I love that so much! We are going to a ku game soon and I can’t wait haha

[@is4233]

Great birth story, thank you for sharing! Congratulations! I had the shaking on the next day I gave birth, it was crazy.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Yesss the shaking is wild!

[@penneydunn8850]

So happy for you all. My last baby was exactly same size as Benjamin. Chubby cheeks, so precious. Take care of yourself.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Love that! Thank you!

[@taraswanson3294]

So excited for you all. Can't wait for some DITL videos. Will be awesome to see your precious little family. ❤️

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@susanf4857]

Congratulations!! Ben is beautiful!! 💙

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@beingchristina4788]

I love it! Congratulations again ❤you guys are great!

[@bethanynissen]

So happy you were able to get your epidural! Congratulations❤

[@novamom1962]

What a little cutie pie 💙. My boys were the best to growing up and still are. So happy for y’all. I’m glad your spending time with Scarlet. Y’all such great parents. 💗❤️💗💙

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you so much!

[@ivettevsqz]

I love how every single birth is so different ❤️ I experienced back labor with my 3rd and I’m glad I never have to feel that again 😅

[@CaitlynNeier]

The worst haha! But yes same!

[@madisonadamson5319]

So happy your family is doing so well! Congrats ❤

[@Takethe3dgeoff]

Thanks for sharing ❤ Pro tip, bring a heated blanket. And get a tens machine for back labor 🤍 thank me later 😂

[@bonniedingalo]

Sooo sweeet ❤❤❤ and congratulations

[@biana421]

I know you told us your car seat recommendation for the baby, but can you please recommend one you’d use for 2+ year old? I always loveeee your stuff!!! Thank you ❤

[@CaitlynNeier]

We used the Graco 4 ever and loved it!

[@biana421]

Thanks so much girl

[@elimarks558]

Indy bringing the ball to Ty 😭🥹

[@CaitlynNeier]

Haha he is relentless 🤣🤣

[@Hollie_Gold]

My baby girl was born a couple of days later, and we had a similar experience. Went to L&D around 8:30pm Friday night, 3cm dilated, walked the halls for about an hour (9:30-10:30ish) dilated to a 4, got admitted and finally moved to a room around 11:30, checked again at 12:30 and I was 5.5 cm, the pain became unbearable and I finally caved and asked for the epidural around 1:30am. Got the epidural at 1:57 and felt a ton of pressure when I was sitting up waiting for them to give it to me so the nurse checked me again after I got the epi and said I was fully dilated plus 1 and that they needed to call the on call doctor asap because my doctor wasn’t going to make it in time. So I went from 5.5cm to fully dilated in an hour and a half. Baby was coming and they kept telling me not to push. Finally the on call doc comes rushing in, they slap gloves on her and she turns and catches my baby after 1 push. The epidural didn’t even have time to work. Oh and my water broke as she came out. Lol. 2:11am on Saturday Nov 5th. ❤

[@CaitlynNeier]

Oh man on the epidural! That would suck to get it and then it not work!!! Hope you are recovering well 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Hollie_Gold]

I feel great, but this little girl is going through a growth spurt and suddenly eating every hour and a half. She just wants snuggles and boob at all times. Lol.

[@patriciacain9988]

Congratulations!!!!❤️

[@marybaker9401]

So happy for you guys!!! He's beautiful!!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@teeandkids937]

I’m sure I’ll comment once I watch it all but dang girl I was starting to worry about you! ❤so excited to listen to the story!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Ahhh thank you! P

[@heidithomes5753]

My first was born in triage, too! There were no beds available, so they just closed the curtains for a little privacy.

[@Carabooo121212]

What a story! Enjoy that baby bliss!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@StarOnTheWater]

Can someone explain to me what triage means in this context? I'm German it means sorting or priorising medical help when there are not enough resources. Eg you have three patients who need ventilation, but there is only one machine so you have to decide who gets the life saving treatment (a situation that should not occur in our modern medical system ).

[@leslie6678]

take a shot when you hear 'explosion' hahah i am cracking up even though I am sure it was not that funny haha

[@CaitlynNeier]

We’d be wasted 🤣🤣🤣

[@cassandramoon5824]

Thank you for sharing your story love your sweet family

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you for following along!

[@fawndearest]

Great video!

[@thebfam8979]

He is so cute😍 please do a pack with me when yall go out of town for the holiday

[@counselingmom]

Did you ask for an epidural at 4:30 and he didn't come till 7? I'm glad you got one.

[@sadiepatterson7829]

My husband almost passed out when I was getting the epidural he has to go sit on the floor by the bathroom in the room lol 😂 I was in so much pain before the epidural but I still asked him are you ok over there he just nodded his head lol 😂

[@luzdelgado4609]

Congratulations i am glad everything went well ❤️ my son was 10 pounds when he was born to and i took all new born clothes in my diaper bag none of those clothes fit my husband had to go home and get bigger clothes size 3 6 month clothes

[@CaitlynNeier]

Ahhhh!! How awesome though!

[@kaydeebenda5237]

I had my little girl 11/7 and same thing, only had back labor. It was horrible! Never had any contractions in my stomach. So I feel you! Epidurals are life changing 😂

[@CaitlynNeier]

Life changing for sure 😅😅

[@jessicalise4083]

Ugh back labor is SO bad. Had it with both of my labors and I honestly felt like I might die 😅 I was crying and begging for pain meds/epidural each time and luckily I got them both times too! I don’t know how women do it without - they are amazing/crazy 😂 Congrats again!!

[@CaitlynNeier]

I don’t either 😅😅 they are!

[@prudenceappleby5111]

Women have been have babies repeatedly for thousands & thousands & thousands of years 🙄

[@leydeesantoyo9926]

We kinda have a similar birth story 😅 I also pushed my son (baby #2) within 10 minutes and he came out so fast that it splashed all of us even myself 😂 he teared me a little bit but I was so surprised because with my daughter It took 40 mins to push her out and they also had cut me with her, thank god for the epidural 🙌🏼

[@kathysimone6521]

🙏🙏🙏🙏So happy for you all!

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@sophiepaga1983]

Really curious what made you want an epidural. I’m on the opposite camp and have never gotten one so sincerely want to hear the other side.

[@rdenyer7035]

Following for this. I had 1 birth with an epi and 2 without and much preferred not having the epidural by far.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Back labor made me want an epidural 🤣

[@doriskey6374]

He beautiful baby, thanks for sharing with us.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thanks for following along!

[@margaretpervier8357]

Beautiful family!😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@CaitlynNeier]

Thank you!

[@jeanettedombroski3934]

❤sweet family.

[@Suebearish]

That happened with my daughters 2 nd baby caught by a nurse in triage 13 minutes after they walked in the door

[@shan19rae]

This sounds exactly like my 2nd labor story, back labor, made my husband put pressure on my lower back, had the big explosion too.

[@CaitlynNeier]

Hahaha you can totally relate then!

[@ally20111]

All my labor was my lower tummy never tightened or anything

[@ally20111]

Oh man see I had the blood too before I went to the hospital. As soon as I arrived it was go time, they had to break my water tho with my 1st it broke But with this one no epidural Bc there was no time. As I was pushing they were doing an I’ve it was crazy

[@CaitlynNeier]

Oh man you are awesome!

[@ally20111]

@@CaitlynNeier I was like so no epidural they said no dear it’s to late I was very bummed

[@TahoeMama.]

With laying in your arms just from the side profile he looks just like Scarlett

[@CaitlynNeier]

He totally does!!!

[@PLANTLIFE-lq1my]

❤❤❤

[@kristinkircher8227]

Oh my gosh the shakes are the worst!

[@bobs1356]

Telling your birth story how is yours that much different then any one else. Women been giving birth fir ever who cares about yours.

[@bobs1356]

Now the husband's life is going to go down hill. You will be ignored the baby will come first always. I bet not to long after you where married she trapped you with a pregnancy.

[@ruthceballos4790]

Weirdo 😂

[@samanthabeech]

I am cracking up about the explosive water 😂 however CONGRATS 🫶🏻

[@zhioval85]

Aww so aweet, so happy everything went well

[@wincharles1195]

❤❤❤❤