Our Birth Vlog: Episode 14

You have been with us since the beginning of this journey. With us through hundreds of doctor's appointments, countless shots, and all the tears. We are so happy and ready to meet our little man.
Thank you for the enormous support, your comments, and your thoughts have been a rock for us and we can never thank you enough.
Week 40 + 3
Our Reveal video on IG: bit.ly/2ZfohYe
Our Announcement video on IG: / cabnhynpsbg
Desi on YT: / desiperkins
Desi on IG: / desiperkins
Steven on IG: / stevenperkins
Our Fertility Doctor:
Andy Huang, M.D. - Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.
IG: bit.ly/2WDucFB
WEB: bit.ly/3f7RgUd
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[@ThePerkins]

Raise your hand if you’ve been here since the beginning of our journey.

[@glammergurl13]

I love you guys and I’m so happy for you 🥺🤍

[@chaniapattersonn]

🙋🏽‍♀️

[@kraftykell]

Literally sobbing 😭

[@melissapacheco9131]

love you desi!!!

[@takuramatenga8646]

🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

[@jamiesmith5429]

Katy and Jon win best aunt and uncle award they were dedicated lmao

[@dominikamihokova784]

Who are they related to pls? Or are they just best friends?

[@Shazy82]

@@dominikamihokova784 They are friends who have become family. The best kind!

[@juupiissocool]

@@dominikamihokova784 Katie is another beauty influencer on YT. And her best friend. Pretty much family 🙌🏻

[@jaybarr9860]

When she leaned over in pain in the living room and her mom comes out of no where to rub her back with no words I lost it 😭❤️

[@amyrichcreek]

I feel like people don't talk about that moment enough. That is a MOM right there. She knows what's up and is right there to help. I cried.

[@salinacuffy6064]

That part made me ugly cry. A mother’s love 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️

[@cdmtz4615]

Katy, tía and static having lunch outside w balloons that’s the type of ppl I need in my life

[@yeshuaischrist9951]

YESHUA (JESUS) IS THE ONLY ONE NEEDED.

[@courtneytane1673]

Katy and Jon are literally the best friends. That support is unmatched.

[@beirabeas5756]

Unmatched

[@missodessaTV]

Imagine being a child, growing up and being able to watch your parents fight for YOU to be here...to want you this bad and to know you are this loved before you even got here. Ocean has the best parents a person could ask for. I’m so glad you shared this with all of us it made me tear up thinking about how excited I was for you guys since the start of this journey and I can only imagine how this felt for you guys to finally hold him. Blessings to you and your entire family.

[@lizzyrosales9596]

This comment.... omg Im crying 😭😭😭

[@KS-nf6sb]

Wow best comment. Didn’t even think of that.

[@tabathawilson5513]

No your making me cry again 😢

[@ThePerkins]

Truly a blessing.

[@matgergarcia6530]

😭😭

[@ChelseaLampinen]

My favorite is how all the generation of women are surrounding you through this whole process!

[@munashemaswodza8256]

Omg I was thinking the same thing I found it so beautiful! ☺️❤️

[@j.rose_xoxo]

When Desi’s mom came running just to rub her back 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lisaa5026]

Just so beyond beautiful. And to have Katy and John parked in the parking lot just so you could feel their presence during that life changing experience, that is the most loving gesture ... that’s beyond friendship. That’s family.

[@tazzel10]

That was seriously the best ever

[@breannespears4358]

My heart is melting this is it . This is love

[@everythingexploration707]

No... I was doing so good 😭

[@dominikamihokova784]

Are they best friends or related to Desi/Steve?

[@xoxoamirtha]

I hope one day I have a best friend like that

[@CarliBel55]

Sitting here bawling my eyes out!!!! This was absolutely beautiful. I’m so happy for you all. Love you guys!!!!!!

[@yessicaayala7808]

You’re next Carli!!!! I can’t wait for your baby boy arrival!!!! 💙💙💙

[@veronicapimentel4321]

Cant wait for your turn Carli!! ❤❤❤❤

[@classicarah]

Congrats!hope your delivery goes smooth ❤️

[@yeannycarralero1188]

I have cry a lot with them the news that you are having a babe too

[@jadhurshanashangar]

Congratulations Carli can’t wait for journey and for your baby boy to arrive 👶💙

[@kamibearisaninja]

As someone who has had multiple miscarriages, this entire series gives me hope. I’m crying so many happy tears for you.

[@taylorw3172]

god bless you. you're a strong woman.

[@yeyatatiana2076]

Fellow warrior with 5 angel babies and hoping for rainbow. No one knows the journey we have battled, sending you love and light for your miracle ❤️

[@Alicia-uf1yv]

@@yeyatatiana2076 I have had five miscarriages and this August I had my precious rainbow baby boy...never give up hope!

[@yeyatatiana2076]

@@Alicia-uf1yv 🌈❤️🙏 I just got chills! Congratulations on your miracle 😍

[@yeshuaischrist9951]

BELIEVE IN YESHUA. PRAYER IS POWERFUL.

[@theaniqa99]

Shout out to Desis mama! She’s been there the whole time supporting her daughter. You are blessed to have such a supportive mother. Not all mothers are supportive like this believe me!

[@RyLikeTheBread]

If my friends don’t come with Katy and Joon energy then I don’t want it

[@michaelaburke7992]

My jaw literally dropped when I saw how good desi looked in the disposable camera picture the day of her labor. 😩😩😩

[@themango9644]

Right me too!

[@jasz28]

Right so beautiful wtf 😍

[@cindyworthington7942]

SAME !!!

[@ABROWN6336]

It made me burst into tears..

[@nataliamelendrez3777]

desi looked so beautiful in that picture you took of her when she was putting lotion on. you guys are seriously blessed

[@jocelynsloan7801]

Omg yes!!!

[@kwonhoeshi79]

I had to rewind it to see it twice!! 😭

[@tinajimenez4949]

That doc was dressed like he was coming back from a BBQ 😂

[@just77700]

Maybe he was and was then called to work 😂

[@jocelynsloan7801]

I kind of loved that. 😂

[@ashleyperone2038]

I agree

[@kariiiinaxoxo]

Right 😂😂😂😂😂 I was like is that the Dr.

[@JoannaSixx]

Katy and Jon dropping of snacks and joking with her as she’s having a contraction is the friendship I want

[@nrodz7971]

And by being with them in the parking lot ❤ It's a beautiful friendship

[@the.annethology]

Find friends like Katy and Jon who camps out of your hospital waiting for the baby. 🥺😭😭😭

[@hrickosuave]

Your friendship with Katy is absolutely everything.

[@victoriaescamilla1182]

When Tia started praying for Desi I absolutely lost it in the Chick-fil-A line! 😭

[@moniquemonet94]

Lmao

[@anaprieto5755]

Can we appreciate and kiss Stevens feet for how nurturing he is towards Desi. Because they won at life😭😭😭

[@marthatalmaai564]

Your mommy and daddy cried a river to have you baby, and that river became an OCEAN💙

[@afrprincess07]

😭😭😭😭

[@gorgeousbomb1]

😭😭😭

[@allets218]

🥺🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️

[@dallasoch]

Such a sweet comment!

[@kariiiinaxoxo]

They need to write this down

[@Owlrandomthoughts4u]

Your husband is so nice and supportive. Makes such a huge difference to have someone who is there for you emotionally and in all ways!!

[@noahrez5767]

I found out I’m pregnant yesterday. I felt like my whole world has changed. Now I’m rewatching this video..it hits differently. May God bless you and your family.

[@spybubbble]

I’m sorry.

[@damnmuggle]

@@spybubbble sorry what? She’s pregnant that’s good

[@marissawebb1202]

can we just take a moment and appreciate the editing of this whole series? An absolute masterpiece. ❤️

[@rubywalters5968]

The amount of support she has makes me so emotional. Between tias prayers and mama rushing to her to rub her back..it’s so beautiful to see

[@MissJoslynDavis]

CRYING! So happy for you guys, he is perfect. Sending so much love to y'all!

[@alfonsoandsandra1]

✋🏼 I honestly have prayed over you and Steven for about 2 years or so. I’ve prayed for this moment for you two. What a blessing. God is good. Ocean is a gift and “Expect to Expect!”

[@journeywithernie]

The way her mom RAN over to her during that one contraction 😭😭😭

[@cleoanderson7201]

That’s what made me start crying 😭😭 the love 😭💛

[@xsliicksx]

@@cleoanderson7201 same!!! I lost it 😭 such a good mommy , most amazing support system

[@duckiesx0o]

When your mom ran in to rub your back instantly as you bent over in pain 😭

[@TheGlamBelle]

Wow, I haven’t cried this much over birth since I had my own babies 😭😭😭

[@kimberly-pn4ty]

“I need things. What are the things you need? I need Cheerios.”

[@hibasyed14]

yo when the nurse was counting and the throwback pictures of her pregnancy journey was playing at the same time i absolutely LOST IT!!! the most beautiful thing ever wow

[@postivevibes731]

me too 😭😭😭😭

[@zuleymabernabe5953]

SAME!!!!

[@thedada810]

I started crying like crazy! So emotional ❤️

[@mathildeturban6276]

Saaaame...

[@jennycadelatorre1582]

Thats when I lost it too. I mastered the ugly cry 😭

[@Yaackiie]

*I know she’s mentioned it but S/O to Stee for being THAT husband! We see you Stee!!*

[@g.edouardrn6579]

So true he is just amazing ❤️❤️ We see you Steven. Men take notes please....

[@poojapotdar2737]

I had the same thought. Steven is so kind and empathetic husband. His love towards Desi made my heart explode with happiness 😭. I hope to be with a man like Steve too😄 Little Ocean has already brought waves of happiness in his parents lives. God bless this family😘

[@Inchristalonedaily]

It’s amazing how us women just know. She said moments after the procedure that she just “felt” it. ❤️ So beautiful! These types of stories make me so grateful for my body’s ability to create.

[@roxylopez2639]

I'll have my son in 3 months after trying for 15 years this video made me cry so cute God Bless

[@maricelasanchez6136]

Congratulations on your little one 🥰

[@yolandaperez7688]

Katy, Tia, and Jon waving from the downstairs seriously just sent me over the edge. Now I’m balling 😢😭 Real love ❤️

[@creek1903]

Yes the best ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@celeste18_]

Omg Katy and joons sitting outside was the cutest thing ever🥺 they're gonna be the best uncle and aunt ever❤

[@ThePerkins]

They are the real ones.

[@zama4509]

Can’t help but notice how blessed you are to have your mom and grandmother with you throughout this big milestone in your life. It’s a precious thing to see.

[@monicag8973]

That’s her Tia (Aunt )not grandma 👵🏻

[@Daisyflores219]

28:29 when Steven said you were made for this, your body is ready for this...I was balling 😭😭😩😩🥺🥺🥲🥲 congratulations guys, what a blessing and a long time coming. Ocean will be loved infinitely 🌊🌊🌊💙💙💙

[@TheBubblesxoxo]

katy and jon are the bestest friends in the entire world. and this video was everything we needed. i’m sobbing now.

[@itsJudysLife]

You're a QUEEN Desi!!! And Steven, props to you for being there for Desi every second of the journey! Congratulations Mom and Dad! Love you guys!!

[@bremcquarter]

I can’t stop crying .... Yalls entire process has been so touching. Sending love and blessings !!! I am beyond grateful for you sharing this experience. This has been so helpful and inspiring. Thank you for helping me. This journey is not easy but this entire series has given me hope! Congrats on baby boy! Y’all are going to be amazing parents. With Love, Bre Coleman

[@caitlinbaillie3461]

Raise your hand if you just sobbed the entire video 🙋🏼‍♀️😭

[@stephaniesaade7050]

Tia's blessings, the way mom dropped everything to give you a massage, Steve's support AND love, Katy and John parked outside.... the vibes and energy in the video are everything. Congrats and WELCOME OCEAN!

[@MR-xd1wg]

When he told her “you were made for this, your body is ready for this”. I cried... ALL the tears. 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@asdfghjklasskdfghjkl]

It’s Steven saying “you were made for this, your body is ready” for me 😭😭😭😭

[@jenniferreynoso1411]

When Desi said “I need things” and Steven asked “what are the things that you need?” And immediately after Desi responded with “Cheerios” the scene cuts to Steven carrying Cheerios to the bedroom lol I love it

[@ray9491]

The editing of the clips when the doctor was counting for Desi’s pushing... I’m literally sobbing. Congratulations to you both ❤️

[@lyddlelove]

This part really got me. I was crying the entire time but that part specifically I started bawwwwling

[@ray9491]

@@lyddlelove same!!

[@nicoleh5208]

It gave me chills

[@JeannetteDominguez]

Best part! ♥️😭👏🏼

[@ashleyarnold_]

Me too I replayed it non stop

[@lizzislookbook110]

I am sobbing. This was so perfect- the way you edited in snapshots of your journey whilst the doctor was counting out the pushes really beautifully demonstrated the full circle. My heart is so full... Baby Perkins, your mommy and daddy cried a river on their journey to have you, and that river became an Ocean 💙

[@Angelesm148]

Omg this just made me sob like a baby

[@kaylagriffin-wells9242]

Girl your story has given me soo much hope! Thank you for sharing all the intimate moments, the sadness and heartbreak and the happiness! So incredibly excited for you guys! You all have worked so hard as so many of us woman and spouses are on this journey it isn’t for the weak that’s for sure & what a truly incredible journey! Thank you for sharing all of this with us since day 1! Praying for our little miracle to happen one day! Congrats on parenthood! Y’all are amazing parents, he is a beautiful perfect baby boy!

[@ThuggyMacho]

This was so beautiful to watch. The countdown part at the end had me tearing. We know how bad you guys wanted him and it's so amazing that it finally happened 🧡✨

[@maceyhrechkosy4417]

When your Tia and Mom were helping you through contractions at the house, the symbolism of all the women that have labored and given birth that energy surrounds a women while she is in labor was so powerful. You could feel it as they were supporting you. Amazing journey.

[@maritzab9543]

I’ve never been so happy to cry over a family who’ve I’ve never met before. You guys fought so hard for him and I’m so glad you guys documented this journey for him to see one day. Thank you for allowing us to be there with you. ❤️

[@thebjm1967]

AMEN!!!!!!!

[@heymikaylahere]

At around 11 minutes she truly seems like she’s in a dream state, like so happy it’s close to happening. Euphoric. It was beautiful.

[@Complexionprincess]

The feeling of hearing that first cry, is indescribable but also breathtaking. The bond between mother and son is like no other ♥️🙏🏽

[@renneallison]

I want to have that kind of love... You know, the one Desi and Katy have.

[@Gfgjgryuuj]

"let the waves carry you where the light can not" God bless baby Ocean

[@Mellovesdeep25]

So beautiful, this made me cry!

[@LaineyMarieBeauty]

What a blessing for your family. I've followed your journey and I'm SO SO happy for you guys! Enjoy that baby boy!!

[@jessicamae5]

Ugh so many things. The montage, Steven’s excitement for meeting your son, the night nurse, the support from your family and friends, when he finally arrived 🥺 I’m such an emotional mess right now and I’m so happy for you guys. I feel like you had the best team behind/beside you guys and you couldn’t have had a better experience! Congratulations to you guys and enjoy these moments as new parents 💕

[@taylorgayhart9497]

I don’t want kids, pregnancy freaks me out, and labor sounds awful. Yet I still watched every single episode of this series and bawled my eyes out throughout this whole episode!

[@missycp1993]

May I ask what will make u change your mind?

[@tanyagarvin3422]

I have 3 daughters..labor got worse with each one. Would do it all over again in a heartbeat. Parenting is rewarding in so many ways. I do respect those who choose not to have children though. Hardest job on earth.

[@sfort515]

I have three children and pregnancy was so hard on my body and labor...same. But I would do it all over again because carrying a child inside is the best feeling in the world. However, I truly respect women that know they don’t want children and know they don’t want to endure. I also think women shouldn’t be asked why they don’t want to have children. Simple! They just don’t want to. Not everyone is meant to be a parent or even want to be one and that is also great.

[@amawarrior7260]

Yes the world process looks & sounds scary,but jus knowing that u created such being inside you & able to bring into the world, is jus one of the great blessings given to us by God.

[@JazminnDoll]

@@amawarrior7260 what about the ones that give birth to serial killers and rapist. It’s not all rainbows and unicorns

[@Itssimplysteph90]

“For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted the desire of my heart.” 🙏🏼🤍🥺

[@simple_naildesigns]

Amen 🥰🙏🏽

[@xoxventura]

Amen! Glory to God! 🥺♥️

[@elizarivera9254]

Amen 🙏🙏🙏

[@helenandinelagonepembe4203]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mrs.cardenas3178]

AMEN!

[@alynaguilar6403]

I don't even think i cried this much when my kids were born. But can we talk about Steven?? OMG he's not from this world...so happy for you both.

[@LM1chelle]

I cried the whole time. It was so beautiful. I grieved with you. I laughed with you. I smiled with you. It was inspirational. I am a single woman and one day I’ll go through this journey myself. Thank you Perkins family for sharing this journey with us and for showing us the hope of unconditional love ❤️ Congratulations!

[@MsVolleyballChick7]

When Steven was brushing Desis hair in the hospital bed, how precious!! Hope I find a hubby like Steven

[@user-vp3kj4xj2g]

I have 3 kids and each time it’s that unbelievable feeling of “I can’t believe I just did that” after giving birth. So happy for you and your family. Such a blessing.

[@annajoie700]

It's really so beyond miraculous to witness!! 😩🙏🏼💛

[@MrsMansir]

I don’t often cry at television, movies, or videos. It’s rare. But Desi when you were pushing, I was overwhelmed with emotion. And when you spoke his name. My heart ❤️ 😭

[@alanoudalmusleh4699]

Seeing Desi’s mum nervous is what finally got me in a pool of tears😭

[@yascantu4787]

The way Steven would talk to Desi, hold her, and never left her side🥺💕🥺💕 that’s a real man! I’m balling my eyes rn!!!

[@simple_naildesigns]

Yessss 🥰

[@jennifermoreno8447]

Katy & Jon are the definition of a true bestfriend ♥️♥️ we all need a Katy and Jon 💓💓💓

[@dianaslimfit]

Stevens smile, you can just see his happiness radiating he’s so happy!

[@lifewithDiiana]

Raise your hand if you’ve been here since the beginning of the KZbin career. Seeing this has literally just have me balling. And for anyone that has given birth. You know exactly why 😭 God bless you guys always!

[@xSuperdogx]

Ocean; so much going on below the surface you never know. So much life. So much abundance, calmness & strength. Thank y’all for sharing 😭❤️ manifesting blessings to you guys

[@lindysimunek2483]

The most deserving people to be parents. Ocean is so blessed to have such great role models as parents. He is absolutely perfect.

[@beau-t-rex1815]

Every girl needs, & deserves, a Steven~

[@arifigueroa2333]

Rewatching again because I needed some feel good moments and I had to comment to say This was the most beautiful and emotional birth vlogs i have ever watched. I did not think it was possible to have such a special relationship w people and a tiny baby i have never even met. Watching this journey and being part of y’alls story has been so special. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt and spectacular journey with us! Love you and again welcome to the world baby Ocean!

[@sarahcoryell3447]

In a food coma, but you best believe I’m watching with one eye open

[@nessat8784]

This is Meeeeeee

[@JennHerz-HTX92]

😂😂😂

[@jorlenyestrada5097]

😂😂

[@xoLia555]

Indeed 👁

[@ymahopkins]

😅😅😅😅

[@charlottesfaces5659]

The theme throughout this video is love. The 2 of you as a couple have so much love for each other, even through the hard times, your love has carried you through. And now that love is here in the form of Ocean 💙💙 truly magical, thankyou for sharing with us xx

[@kristinxox]

This was by farrrrr my most favorite video of 2020 && from desi ever! Such a beautiful series you guys made and what a beautiful blessing!! He’s beautiful!!! Little boys are so very very special 💙💙

[@jessicadelatorre5000]

There’s something about Steven saying “I’m excited to meet my little boy” that sent me and now I’m balling

[@AngelaOmran]

Same he’s so pure

[@mariumashraf3349]

anyone else started crying when they started counting down. Omg that was so beautiful

[@julisaochoa3209]

I have watched this labor and delivery for a total of 4 times since it has came out lol currently 23 weeks pregnant watching once again 😭

[@punk.rock.hippie]

I now have a 5 1/2 year old daughter, and I’ve never watched my labor recording, because there was trauma I experienced before, during, and after... and this whole thing just made me so happy for you all especially that you are both so deserving of the privilege of becoming parents 🌸🦋 Other’s happiness makes me so happy, and so blessed to be a mama myself 🌈✨🦋

[@khylex3]

Tia praying over you while you were having a contraction just made me cry so hard wtf 😭 she’s so cute!!

[@simple_naildesigns]

Yesss 🥰🙏🏽

[@ponyruiz16]

The way Steven loves Dezi, just a reminder not to settle ❤️

[@irisotero6561]

Came back to rewatch, cause I’m wondering if we are going to get a glimpse into the journey for the new Bebe 😍 I miss you guys on KZbin 🥺🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@honeycolonna2917]

Being six months pregnant myself this was so emotional especially after following you throughout this whole journey ,i can't be more excited for you guys, you deserve it so much!!! Desi you are such a trooper!! A true warrior , Ocean is such an amazing name,and he's beyond adorable 🥰, I've been anxious about my own future labor and you've given me strength and courage ❤️ wishing you all the best luck with your beloved baby, may you raise him in peace and blessings, congratulations from Israel ❤️

[@JerriCouncil]

I'm sooo very honored to have been blessed to witness Ocean Perkins' arrival into our universe! He's no idea of the amazingly generous parents he's been chosen to be with. Nor the extended love and adoration from his immediate fam and The Squad (Katie, Joons, Shayla, Les)...and us, your followers! May y'all continue to be abundantly blessed. Amen. (PS: From the beginning, and beyond...) Tears of joy. love and happiness.

[@brendaruiz4184]

I started bawling my eyes out when Desi’s mom came to soothe her while she was having a contraction😭💔 Us women are amazing!!

[@yayadrew]

I was looking up hair gel and this popped up. Glad it did, congratulations.

[@Sherrie.Denise]

It’s Katy & Jon outside in the van for me 😂

[@glamorousgirl41]

Katie and John are real ones , they were always there so cute

[@angelasegawa8670]

I’m crying so hard and happily for you Desi and Steven. What a journey, what a warrior. Desi, you are so strong and so beautiful and so amazing you did amazing during your pregnancy, you did amazing in labor, I hope postpartum is so so good to you. I love you so much you are already an awesome mom but you are gonna be an AWESOME MOM. Congratulations ❤️

[@salinacuffy6064]

I am literally crying again watching this a month later. I am so happy for you guys! I’m like ugly crying. He’s your dream baby and you went through so much to have this moment. 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🤍🌊

[@kenzieelizabeth]

I’m sobbing 😭😭😭

[@fr0zenintimeee]

hi i'm crying

[@carlacorreia6472]

I literally cried like a baby at the end when you were in the pushing part it's incredible it's a felling only mom's can know how it feels it's amazing. God is great. May God bless your baby and you guys forever ❤️

[@mariahjaipersaud5727]

Such a well made birth vlog. Seemed like a whole movie. Still crying 🥺😭 love u

[@juliadalessandro]

UGH as soon as you guys did the flash backs of your pregnancy when they were counting “1, 2, 3, 4...” as you pushing. The waterworks hit 😭 congratulations 💗💙 this is giving me baby fever

[@marigalvan09]

That hit all the feels!! That was my favorite part ♥️

[@reynarey2885]

The way your mom ran to you when you had a contraction 🥺🥺 I cried on the last clip 🥺🥺