Our Coming Out Story | Dustin and Burton | Raising Buffaloes

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[@smilingv1921]

I am a 62 year old mother. My daughter came out to me when she was 14. I remember her crying so hard. I asked her what was wrong and she said she was afraid to tell me. I told her no matter what it was that it would be ok and that I would love her. So she finally told me she was gay. I said ok and gave her a big hug and told her that I l still loved her. She asked me why I wasn't mad at her. I told her you love who you love. Her and her wife live with me now and she is 36. I wish all parents would be excepting and supporting of their children when they come out to them. I have known many gay couples since my early 20's and have always been supportive. You love who you love!

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

love this so much! you're amazing!

[@chasearjun2744]

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[@joshfritsch3835]

I agree

[@dummydumby1700]

"SHE WAS A GAY" then " HER AND HER WIFE"? Does it mean that He has a "wife" as in a "girl wife"? Sorry to ask I'm just a bit confuse... but I understand the love and acceptance you showed to your child, love it!

[@jomccutcheon2173]

@@dummydumby1700 It actually say's her and her wife,,,

[@hpapi9849]

when burton cries .......it's already tears on dustin's eyes..... that is the true love.......... LOVE is LOVE

[@tileswarburagohain2265]

Literally i was also crying when the burton was crying i can't stop my tears ...love is love its just an example 😍😍😍

[@deborahmueller1183]

My uncle came out only when he was dying of AIDS. He fully expected rejection by the family. We all accepted him and supported him through the last difficult years of his life. Nobody should have to fear rejection from those who love them most. We’re all just people.

[@joelbotello1235]

God bless ya always 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Imetwurld_]

How did he get aids

[@liberty622]

In coming out to my brothers in the early 80's---my parents were already dead --- I had opposite reactions. One was negative and is still in that frame of mind. However my other brother with a strong Christian faith said something I will cherish to the day I die. He simply asked me, in a long distance phone call, if I was gay. I was terrified of admitting to the truth. I took a deep breath and said "yes I am". I waited for the explosion and he said -- " If you ever want to bring a friend or a partner home, he will be more than welcomed in my house". There was a long pause and then I burst into unbelievable tears. There were no other words that could have been said that would have made me feel more acceptable. The words have had an enormous effect on me and my life. He has since died but his memory lives on in my mind -- etched forever. There are good people in this world!!! Thank you both for your videos and showing how a family should live.

[@michaelgaynor6866]

Peter A.O'Leary,that just brought tears to my eyes here in Philadelphia! Stay Strong and Stay Well!

[@sarahcasias823]

I love Holland sensing her daddies are sad and coming in trying to make you feel better. Her little sweet face, being so calm and putting her hand on your backs. She’s precious.

[@jayathaabeywardana3513]

I'm 16. My parents are so conservative and I gave some little hints to them that I was gay and there were so mad at me so I changed the topic. But I came out to one of my friend and I feel happy about it. Some day wanna find my own pease in me. Thank you guys for giving me hope and love.

[@adrienwalker513]

සිරාවටම ............

[@jordanlewis4831]

I came out at age 10, with only a few gay role models in my life. I’m now 17, and living my life proudly. So happy to know that there’s always hope and new role models in this world! 🥰

[@ikehinnocent8160]

Amazing

[@IRGhost0]

that's incredible. i so wish i could have done that when i was so young. could have had a normal time growing up.

[@Sam-cs6hu]

I am 18 tomorrow. I can’t even imagine how you came out at the age of 10. I only realized I am gay when I was around 13 and struggled to understand that’s ok for quite a while. You must be a really brave person. I know zero gay person in real life and I am often in panic encountering homophobic comments and feel helpless. I hope in near future, I might come out like you did.

[@IRGhost0]

@@Sam-cs6hu come out as soon as possible, brother. every day in the closet is a day wasted for you to be your actual self. you're just holding your life back by staying in the closet.

[@Sam-cs6hu]

@@IRGhost0 It’s scary given my parents have made some negative comment about being gay. That’s my primary concern. I came out to some close friends already.

[@richyrich480]

This is what I needed... After 29 years I am beyond tire of hiding in shame and fear... 2021 is the year, I am ready!

[@stephenleyden9559]

Hey, Sergio. Good for you. But, just remember that you don't have to come out to everyone. Some people just don't deserve it. If they are highly homophobic and it's going to make your life much worse, I don't see the point.

[@sebastienz2425]

I can’t stop crying from watching this. I am a 35yo African gay man, I work and live in the US. I have been married to a man for over 5 years now and I still haven’t come out to my family. I am still terrified by the idea of coming out to my parents. I have been through everything that Dustin went through except that I still don’t have the courage to come out. Thank you for inspiring me. I feel ready to tell my family about my sexuality and my husband. I love you guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@arif_and_ricky]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ you have all our support!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Loads of love form us, gay life coaches!

[@jonstacy3503]

Hey how you do I’m gay

[@ShrewdEmpath]

I too am African and gay. There is nothing my abusive father can do that he hasn't done already. You're not a kid anymore and you don't have to care what your parents think if you find their opinions unhealthy. What do YOU think of yourself as a person? Your own resolution to succeed in life is far more important than your parents' distorted perception of 'gay'. Just because your parents are important, doesn't mean they understand the important issues in your life. And assuming they don't, sounds like you have other important people to fall back on.

[@BrandonNaatz]

Good luck! Proud of you

[@michaelgaynor6866]

@@ShrewdEmpath,Stay Strong and Stay Well! From Philadelphia, Pa.

[@joshkeller8685]

I have a similar background to Dustin, and I just have to say I needed that cry this afternoon. Whoever may be reading these comments and is feeling the same, reach out to somebody and talk about what you’re feeling. (I’m here too!)

[@wnymann]

Thank you for sharing your coming out stories. What an inspiration. I am a 64 year old man who came out two years ago. I can understand the liberation and freedom after acknowledging being gay. I was married 25 years until my wife passed in 2002. I raised four sons to adulthood. They are amazing young men and they know that I am gay. They just want me to be happy. I too grew up in a conservative church and even pursued the ministry . I raised my family in the church. I had gay feelings but they were buried. I know all about the churches teaching on homosexuality and how sinful they claim it is. I got hurt very badly by the Christian Fundamentalist Church time and time again. I have left the church and do not wish to return. I have been the happiest these last two years after coming out in my life. Yes there are still some struggles that must be over come but it is liberating to be myself.

[@dylanross5510]

Good for you Dan! Keep following your path. My faith tells me God is walking with you every step of the way. Don't ever let anybody tell you otherwise. His love is everlasting because his love has nothing at all to do with the human judgement condition!

[@michaelwindham9224]

dustin i could relate with on so many ways. burton you made me cry when you started to cry. it was different in the 70's and 80's but as a community we are so much better now as we fought for the right to have kids and marriage. your story shows that life can be all we dreamed it could be.

[@joelbotello1235]

Mee too I love burt he made me cry too coming out to father is so scary !!

[@jslasher1]

How anyone could give this inspiring video the thumbs down is beyond me. I offer all my love to both of you for your honesty and your dedication to each other. Your children are very lucky indeed.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Thank you so much!

[@MartyEliBowerMusic]

you can really tell when the other speaks how much love these guys have for each, it's beautiful to see and so representative of how important love for one another is

[@kuyavanmaglulupa]

HELLO

[@stevenscholze8196]

It's never easy. In 1994 when I met my husband, I had come out to my mother but after Michael and I moved in together we had no contact with my family for many years. I love you telling your stories and sharing your loving family with us.

[@prastutigoel3286]

Being from an orthodox family I can imagine how terrifying it is to come out. Though I'm straight but one of my closest friend is gay and is struggling to come out. He constantly talks to me about how he feels as if he is not himself. When he came out to me he was crying and looking at him I could feel how important it was for him. We sat and talked about whatever he had in his mind and I told him that I will always be his best friend and support him no matter what. Your story truly touches my heart. I pray all the power strength and happiness to both of you and your kids. Lots of love ❤❤

[@rickmosher5862]

Thank you both so much for being the role models and inspiration that most of us never had when we were young! ❤️

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Wow, thank you!

[@xelzevach9292]

Well that's my situation right now, there's no dreams of happiness in my life because there's no one on my life yet , its hard to have a partner there's no way at all I just trying to be a good man nice and kind to every one even to people that bullying me or gate me till God takes me to his big house. I enjoyed a Cristian Faith thinking that Jesus can take this gay filing a way fro me, yan make me a new straight guy , and I had really derp relationship with God and Christian people embraced me "love" me the first years then every changes cause they were realizing that I was kind of gay, then star bulling me in church, offended me and making me feel I don't belong there, so then my live goes down , so there's no friends, thetes no brothers in Christ there's no family so its so hard. Im no have the balls to take me life, because I know God loves me and Im good , but people are so hard to get along with.

[@tptgamecock]

@@xelzevach9292 Xel, I feel your pain and will pray for you. It is hard to be alone and rejected. You are right that Jesus does love you. If you want to be friends even if it is just through facebook. You can find me at Thomas Taylor Swansea SC. I am older but would love friends. I am lucky to have a family. God has blessed me with two beautiful girls. I hope to hear from you Oh my email is [e-mail].

[@xelzevach9292]

@@tptgamecock thank you, I appreciated your sympathy and prayers, I need it. Thank you have a good night..!

[@deltaboy767]

@@xelzevach9292 same goes for me as well, if you need friends I'm a single trans my Facebook is Ashley D'Vine. I'd love to make new friends. And trust me I went through the same things and ended up in a very dark place that took years to come out of. So I totally understand. Hope to hear from you. Cheers from Tennessee.

[@bojogaehw2497]

Did Burton just say he was almost forty? 😲 He looks so young! I'm baffled.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

thanks :) 39, Dustin will be 41 next week.

[@gustavgecko7334]

Forty doesn't mean he is out of order! Forty is just a number.

[@ushakiran419]

@@RaisingBuffaloes you guys are looking so young... Happy family and lots of respect for what you are. from 🇮🇳🙏

[@arshad4980]

@@RaisingBuffaloes age is just a number both r still youth

[@jslasher1]

@@decraft2005 You are only as young as you feel, and I suspect that Dustin and Burton are feeling quite young and positive these days. Love them both.

[@ted1091]

You guys are so awesome. I came out in 1974. Things were very different then. We had no choice but to fight. When I hear your stories, I realize it was all worth it. Thank you for sharing your stories. I'm glad you found each other. You're an inspiration

[@jaimeguadiana1960]

When he said “if god is perfection and god is so perfect than when he created me he didn’t make a mistake “…. PERIOD 💅🏻

[@lyanosama7212]

I'm straight but this was so emotional I literally cried 😢u guys r amazing

[@cathymckinney6578]

Me too I love them guys

[@brendasanga2045]

Me too...am still crying

[@sophiaamundsen9142]

Same here! I keep binge watching coming out stories and crying all over! Argh! If only people would just MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS! Live and let live and that's it! Why is it so hard for some people to understand something so simple? Anyway, great video and yes, of course it made me cry 😭❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@Anna_na_a]

Guys, it's very important to talk about the coming out. Thank you for sharing your stories! You are so great!

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Our pleasure!

[@ediflandes1565]

I couldn't hold my tears when Buron said "take my money and go to a place where you can be happy". It's amazing how parents can make a huge difference in our lives. I'm happy that at the end you found what you dream of. That make us feel that it's possible to have a beautiful family like you guys.

[@erosleroi7638]

Thank you for sharing your testimonies. It is truly touching to hear about your life journeys. I am a 65 year old gay man, and come from a conservative Christian background. I've been through conversion therapy and lived a celibate life for almost 20 years, and have been from one end of the gay life to the other end of the spectrum. I can relate to your coming out stories. I'm glad to see young people as yourselves living happy and productive lives and raising twins no less. Your videos are inspiring and heartwarming. God bless you and your family !

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

God Bless you, and thank you

[@garmo98]

As I approach my 70th year on this planet I have relived the coming out experience of a number of gay men. Luckily, my own story is pretty uncomplicated, but I have seen the pain and anxiety that both coming out and the effects of conversion therapy have inflicted on people like yourselves. The great thing is that you are able to proudly express the love that is so evident in your relationship. Stone and Holland, when they are adults themselves, will have the most wonderful foundation of love to take with them.

[@__eduardo.pereira__5284]

Both are my example to follow, one day I would like to be like you, I never had a father who was there for me, but I know that when I have a son he will have two dads the rest of his life ♡

[@Black_Heart71]

When we watch your videos we only see 2 beautiful men with 2 cute children who have a life really like a fairy tale. Your coming out stories touched me so deeply and it´s so painful to hear what sad thoughts you both had and how fearful you were of your families. Believe me, God made us all the way we are. He loves us for who we are and will always love us for what kind of people we are. He will not ask for gender, but for a kind heart. That's all that counts. Just look at you! Look at your fingers, look at your wedding rings, look at your kids. You´re a *family* and we all can feel your *love* for each other. God bless you and children. ♥

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

thank you so so much

[@claucruz283]

Great testimony, God makes no mistakes, fear of rejection, acceptance, family support.. I shed a few tears.... thank you!!

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

So true!

[@col62]

I’ve watched this a few times. I’m a Christian and heterosexual but you shouldn’t have to go through the pain just to be who you are. Thank you for sharing. I wished the church would stop thinking folk who are gay have demons in them. That is so damaging. Be blessed guys. Amazing family. ❤️

[@richardnault9493]

We have been watching you for a while , but missed this along the way, beautifully done guys. We love you and your family and appreciate how you let us into your lives . I knew I was different since I was 4 , but had no way to express myself.To add to this I experienced a physical and mentally abusive step father. Add to that a kid trying to hide who I was, I even got married in 1961 and had a son, after 5 years we divorced, since then I have lived as a gay man who slowly came out to friends and some family. I am now 82 , fully out and have been with my husband happily for 38 years. All of our journeys are different, so happy for your happiness, we love you and your kiddos!!

[@seunfunmiomoya8681]

Your story is really inspiring. I'm so happy you found each other.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Thank you so much!

[@darrenoriley2947]

One day... hopefully I’ll find what you both share as husbands. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@love_gav5015]

Stone and Holland are very blessed to have a parent that is full of heart. So much love❤

[@linphilip6389]

this means so much to all of us. the only thing I want to say now is "thank you, guys".

[@rajithlahiru]

Keep smiling guys. Smile gave very beautiful for both your face...

[@gkl6566]

As a crusty old codger with a heart of granite, I feel I have to say I was moved by the way you told your stories. Thank you for sharing.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Wow, thank you

[@sherrysmith2681]

Your visibility is everything. The number of lives you touch will probably never be truly known. Thank you.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Wow, thank you

[@EternalOptimist510]

I LOVE how Holland just came in so calmly and sat there listening, so precious!!!

[@kuyavanmaglulupa]

HELLO

[@besuperhappynow]

Your dads gesture was incredibly touching. That’s true love!

[@chrismarec1462]

Oh god just bless you both, so very mature and honest talking. I have to say, I had struggled with the religion thing as well and hated myself, had suicidal thoughts, had long crying nights and all this affected my well being, concentration on life and torn my self-esteem. Until, I too realized god does NOT make mistakes in his creation, not one bit, and I am proud of the person I am today, I came out to lots of friends (when I thought I will lose all of them), but my family is still way far from this, they're very conservative. I am from the Middle East, and I always wished my parents know a little English so I can show them videos like these (especially this one), they have to see that gay people CAN have a great life like this. God bless you and your family once more

[@BrandonNaatz]

Amen to this!

[@kuyavanmaglulupa]

HELLO

[@rossanaa7744]

Soy una persona heterosexual y viendo varios programas de parejas homosexuales he aprendido mucho sobre ustedes. Los entiendo más, no tenía idea que ustedes sufrían tanto. De verdad son valientes. En cuanto a ustedes dos y sus hijos son una familia muy bonita!!!

[@sagarmali1887]

That was the most touching story I ever witnessed. It definitely brought me to tears like everyone else am sure! The way Dustin was looking at Burt and cried,that shows the extensive Love you guys have for each other and I pray that it grows with every single moment. I definitely missed seeing 2 little angels.

[@carlosrabino5125]

Wonderful story, lovely couple, and beautiful family!

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Thank you so much!

[@rightreverendraymondedsawy7212]

I’ve just viewed it again, and you bring tears to this very old man....

[@mariavelickovic1590]

Your stories r very moving. I can't wait for the day when everyone is accepted. Thank U so much for sharing

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Thank you so much!

[@marvmoder8628]

Just found you guys and so glad that I have

[@MrLisarn2]

My son’s story reminds me of Burton’s except for husband’s reaction but ultimately parent’s love always wins. I’m sorry you had to re experience that for us but I’m so grateful. I love my son more than he will ever know. So does my husband.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

that warms our hearts! He will be so much better off having y'alls support! amazing!

[@rollymeeks7031]

Thank you! It's wonderful to share our stories, thank you both for sharing yours! My story mirrors Dustin's in many ways, I was very involved in church from a young age, thinking God would "heal" me . I came out to my parents at the end of my junior year in high school, my mother was great, however my father was more cruel than usual. I ended up moving out of the house in January of my senior year and then moving from Northern New York to Southwestern Michigan a year after graduation. In 1977, a year after I moved to Holland, MI, I met the love of my life, a tall, blond, handsome Dutchmen, Robert DeRyder! We lived a wonderful life in our little brick house with an English garden. Unfortunately Bob died in the hospital after a motorcycle crash as we were on our way to a family reunion in NY in 1987. My world became a very dark horrible place. In those days it was illegal for 2 men to even cohabitate, let alone be married. After Bob's death, his parents took everything, his clothes, the house, his car, everything. I fell hard. I ended up quitting my job as the manager of a family lakeside resort to work at a gay resort in Saugatuck, MI as the bar manager - and became totally immersed in the gay party lifestyle. After 10 years at the resort and 3 really horrible relationships, I quit, moved to Grand Rapids and ended up retiring from a large retailer where I was an international food buyer for 10 years. One more failed relationship, being diagnosed with emphysema and some severe mental health issues I went on disability and I moved back to my hometown to be near my mom, where I still live with my new love, the Adirondack Mountains! There's my story. 10 glorious years with Bob made the rest worth it. Cherish each day with Holland & Stone and with each other! Know that you present a positive & loving picture to all that view your channel! Be well, be safe, be happy! 🧡

[@MSK-eg7sc]

You guys are example of a perfect couple and a perfect happy family.. Doesn't matter gay or straight... Lots of love to you guys 😍❤

[@edjarrett3164]

What a great video about coming out. What’s most important is the content of your character. Gay, straight, bi, what really matters is who you are, not what others think you should be. I’m so impressed with both of you and the family you are raising. You’re doing the right thing and your kids are thriving. There is no better blessing.

[@bradtrenary7701]

I'm so moved by the two of you and your story. In May, my husband and I celebrated 40 years together. The children we had were nieces and nephews and next door neighbor kids and just about any stray that came into our lives. I have so much gratitude for your courage and commitment.

[@kambound28]

I am a follower of Christ and I truly believe that God has brought you guys together (Mark 10:9). I believe that true love is beyond gender and that it's more about heart and soul and that's what I see in both you guys when I watch your videos of your family. I truly believe that being attracted to the same sex internally is not a mistake or a burden and that you are destined for Hell. I strongly disagree with that! God does have perfection and knew the plans for us when He created us. With that being said, Dustin is right. Having a desire to being with the same gender romantically is not a mistake from God. Be the child that He wants you to be. Let His Will be done

[@DavidBrowningBYD]

I read a very moving short story in a very unlikely place about a tormented gay teenager in a family of conservative Christians. They all go to some sort of revival, and from the very beginning, when his eyes meet those of the guest pastor, he knows he is seen and revealed. Toward the end of the story, at a traditional altar call, the guest pastor embraces the teenager and says to him, "God only gives good gifts!" Such a moment of love and acceptance!

[@veronicaphiri7432]

Christ is love. There is much to understand concerning why the scriptures condemn homosexuality, but I certainly believe pure love abides here. This family teaches values of compassion and unity. God bless. XX

[@paulmontrose8281]

even though you are happily married with kids, it had to be hard for you both to tell this story. It had to be emotional and probably somewhat terrifying to have to tell this story. But you must know everyone thanks you for doing it. It was emotional for me to watch, and it makes me love you even more.

[@Johnmatthew_]

I was incredibly moved by this video I didn’t notice that my tears were running down on my face uncontrollably, you guys gave me the courage and hope in the future I’ve been depressed for so many years and I’m 27yrs old and haven’t had any relationship with the same sex and I never came out yet from my closet And grew up in a religious kind of place I admire you guys you are my role model when i reached that age I wish I could be like you Coming out will have happened once I meet the person who i will like to spend the rest of my life with. Thank you for inspiring us and sorry If i made grammar errors because i am still learning english . I will be always watching all your videos and your upcoming videos because i always feel happy whenever I watch your adorable family..

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

thank you. and much love to you as you come navigate your future! :)

[@topdog6225]

The two of you are such an inspiration. You obviously have a wonderful life together and deserve it. As Dustin said - God doesn't make mistakes - we are all the individuals that God had intended us to be. Keep the smiles on your faces in the love in your heart, and take care of those beautiful children!

[@d.e.t4147]

Hearing your stories was very touching and even made me emotional because I could see my story in yours. So happy you two are in such a wonderful place in life right now. Wishing you and your family SO much more of all the wonderful things life can bring.

[@Pucky71]

It's amazing how you can be wrong about your fathers. I imagined my coming-out to be full of conflict, since my parents were older (so to speak, from a different time, my father is from 1939, my mother from 1942). I was particularly worried about my father as he has a clear black and white way of thinking on many subjects (something can only be right or wrong, there is no in-between). When I finally told them, all my mother and father said was: "Live your life as you see fit. All that matters is that you are happy, whether with a woman or a man by your side. Just take care of yourself and find the right person for a relationship." On the one hand I was extremely relieved, on the other hand I was totally irritated because I never expected such an answer. That's a long time ago, when LGBT+ wasn't accepted by society like it is today. Even if many fathers don't say or show it that often, they too love their children with all their hearts and they too want to see their children happy. I think it's also a generational issue. I find Dustin's experiences so awful. Religion and belief in God must not look like this, so that one breaks one's children. I am happy for you that everything has turned out well and that your families see that being gay is not a bad thing and that a gay man can also achieve his goals in life. Tolerance should be talked about much more often in the churches.

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Thank you for the message. much love to you

[@bruceweatherly6559]

I love this video. I'm 25 year old gay male and I relate to both of your stories. Thank you so much for sharing your stories. My hopes are to one day get married and have kids. Being able to see you both together living that dream gives me hope that will be me one day.

[@mshh-mhn5503]

I will be your true fan forever....may God bless you

[@martinmarino7980]

Higuys Great txs for sharing your stories. Now you guys are very happy and, have a beautiful family❤ All the best

[@RIOMACKEE]

THANKS FOR SHARING. It was a hard stage to come out with family and is still a process of complete acceptance but I believe it will get there. It's nice to see a wonderful family like yours. Stay wonderful.

[@pepaysofficialcooking5655]

Make me cry ur story is amazing.... u deserve to be happy ....

[@nicolaoddie748]

Currently crying right now at your incredible courage and strength to release thisvideo, so inspiring and going to help so many people, I love that you are now being the representation of a gay couple with kids that you lacked growing up so future generations can see that it is possible and incredible :))))))))))

[@jeffeustace6564]

Thank you Dustin & Burton for your inspirational stories. Only recently I realized I am gay. Deep down I really knew I am. You are beautiful men with beautiful children. I wish you all a lifetime of happiness. Take care.

[@modampurirakeshraju4619]

Oh my gosh....That was literally so moving guys,,, you both made me cry like anything... I can just imagine the story in front of my eyes while you guys were narrating your stories. Love you both...and be happy.. you have us and we have you....

[@modampurirakeshraju4619]

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[@RomanMaximusHowell]

Dustin & Burton, You guys are absolutely amazing. I know me, a single viewer, probably doesn't mean too terribly much to y'all hahah but you're perfect! I "officially" came out to my grandma in 2018, I had just turned 17 and was going into my senior year and when I say "officially" I mean everyone in my family kind of already knew but we just didn't talk about it. I was so scared of what she was going to say and how she was going to react because she was the person that raised me so she matters the most to me. The feeling of not knowing wether or not someone you care so much about is going to accept you for just being who you are is so scary. When I told her I remember she said "do you think that's going to make me love you any less?" and it made me cry and feel almost stupid for thinking she would. My mom didn't really raise me growing up and she does not accept the fact that I am Gay, and has not spoken to me in 2 years (i.e. since my HS Graduation in 2019) and it does hurt but then I think about all of the other people in my life, my best friends, my family and how much everybody supports me, it almost feels like I don't care what my mom thinks of me. That is NOT going to stop me from being who I am and eventually raising my own family. I know this is a long ass comment lmao but I really felt compelled to tell you my story (briefly...I know how could it be longer than this?) because now being 20 I was thinking about when I had come out...and I wish I had role models like you both. I strive to be as confident and self loving as the two of you are! You mean so much to so many people! Your family is absolutely beautiful! all love

[@alduffy640]

I sit here with tears in my eyes knowing I can never have what you two do but feeling blessed you are sharing what you have and do with me. Thanks thanks thanks

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Wow, thank you

[@riffyraffles48]

Same feeling here, this thinv will never happen in my life. Its not possible to get married with same sex here in my country. All I wish is to have kids in the near future! I want to adopt a child in Gods perfect time. Yes, getting married is one thing every one of us dreamed for, build our own families and have children. Thats one of our missions in this world. But I do believe, I can be a parent too without a partner it seems hard but I hope that would easier for me in the future to have kids all alone!

[@michborromeo8453]

It made me cry with what youve been through. God bless.

[@mincegroundbeef4916]

You just inspire me, teach me to speak up for my life teach me to take care of myself that i never do it before . Thank you for being my role models. Love you 🙏🙏🙏

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

I'm so glad!

[@stephenleyden9559]

I liked both your stories, but I have to say the highlight for me was when that sweet little girl appeared out of nowhere and gave dad a kiss and a hug at a very emotional point of the story was just magic. Hollywood couldn't done any better.

[@frankgyori2740]

This was an experience and an uplifting one at that. Thank you, this was as heartfelt and real as it can get.

[@peterchapman3985]

Thank you for the hearted comment. Hope your super family will have a great festive season. All the best .Love to all.Peter

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

Same to you!

[@Nidhidhurvey]

This literally made me cry such an inspiring story of you guys .

[@billgowan3840]

#

[@lizibanez7059]

Me too 😭😭😭😭💜

[@AapkaArunendra]

Thanks for coming up with your story. I came out to my wife after getting married and having kid, so it's never late to realize and accept who you are! I still have a lot of challenges of coming out to parents of both sides and to my entire family, but I am being positive and ready to face any challenge.

[@mspalmboy]

Thank you for this beautiful video. It will help many people. Best wishes xx

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

We hope so! Thanks Phil!

[@ahkiv6127]

The hurt in Dustin's face when Burton was at his most vulnerable point shows the true love of these two! Absolutely beautiful!

[@RaisingBuffaloes]

❤️❤️

[@chuno9010]

No doubt that your kids are gonna have an amazing life with two beautiful dads who fight for their rights with afflictions but eventually you guys won the battle and building a family tree with love and dignity :) such an wonderful parents bless y’all ❤️

[@sandraserafini4351]

Thank you for sharing your stories . And I hope it helps many other people . You are both lovely guys . With a beautiful family of your own.

[@babejennie8197]

It’s like watching the fantasy fairy tale in real life, you made me so delight and fill with hope, joy and belief. I’m still struggle and face with discrimination and neglect from my parents about my sexuality. You make me believe in a much brighter day in future. Thanks so much and wish you all happiness

[@timsimmons4615]

Amazing Story. Thank you guys for sharing your life with the world. My partner and I have been together for 29 years and have raised a daughter that I had from a women I married when in the Navy. You guys are true role models for gay couples with kids and thinking of having them.

[@andmichaelt]

Thanks guys for sharing. I am so impressed by your family and your relationship. It is something I would have loved but sadly never had. You are such great role models. Keep up the good work and keep the videos coming. I can't get enough of them...

[@CarolinaCABoy]

I cried! So many of us have been through the same thing. I relate more to Burton's story. I told my Mama at the age of 18 and she replied, "Your dad and I always knew, we just wanted you to be honest with yourself". They always loved me for me and never judged. I am now 58 years old and have been with my husband (who's a beautiful 71 years young) going on 16 years. Married for 14 years. I grew up in South Carolina in a small town in Lancaster, SC. I moved to California in 1986 to SF to find myself. Keep making your videos as you're teaching others about who we are, human beings. Love and blessings to you both and your beautiful kids.

[@Washing85]

You two inspire me to believe in love and know that I too can have a family of my own. Though it is easier said than done, it is not impossible. I thank you for your vulnerability and allowing us into your lives.

[@SergioLopez-ym3ww]

Thank you for giving those following you hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm 34 and have only been out for about 2 years now. I too, have always known. Being raised Catholic, being the only son, and being Latino ( of Mexican decent ), has always weighed me down and kept me from being my authentic self. I have no words, just THANK YOU!

[@tommyl2532]

I was moved by this video, very beautiful! You represent gay couples, In this house there is a lot of love and happiness. What beautiful, lovely men. I wish you all success.

[@the_nabilos]

I am happy you guys have a youtube channel. i already love your IG feed, but this gives a different insight into your lives and what young gay people can/could live up to and aspire to have in their life compared to what being gay evolves around today. Love your energies

[@Darl-ur3uq]

Thank you guys from Morocco 🇲🇦 😭❤✌ that was so inspiring and powerful Alright , let's say thank you to this AMAZING couple from all around the world in this comment 🥰

[@AnnieCYouTube]

Gentlemen, I do not have the words to express what this video means to me. I wanna thank you for doing what you do, and sharing your story and life in this way. As someone who is both queer and Christian and has to hide this from my family, I've been struggling in a bad place these past two weeks, and discovering your channel tonight was like a sign from God. Seeing these slices of life from your sweet family's day to day lives is so unbelievably encouraging and reassuring and exactly what I needed to see tonight. Things really DO get better and if you're true to yourself and keep going, you will find your people and you will get through the dark tunnel. Wishing you guys and your adorable kids the very best in future, and once again, thank you for sharing your story- hope you know the difference you two are making ❤

[@mitchelgeremino5516]

Your love for each other is off the charts , your love for your kids is inspirational, thank you guys, you just saved so many young people that were hurting !!!!

[@spreadlove1974]

Me at my room 3 am ,watching this on loop and crying,you guys are privileged,a perfect role model for the community,hope this world to be equal for everyone one day ❤️

[@travisfraundorfer2938]

This brought tears to my eyes as I recalled growing up and coming out gay in what was then a conservative, apartheid South Africa. Regimental and unforgiving! The struggles of falling for someone in a society that prohibited and shunned. Knowing I was different at a very young age, but not what that ‘different’ meant. My first crush, first kiss and horrible break ups hurt badly. No role models and very little guidance on coming out. Dawson’s Creek made me feel a little more confident too as I navigated through my day to day challenges. The ups, the downs, were intense. My family fully supported my coming out, my mom was just the best, my dad on the other hand was tougher, but he came to and after a few years he even told my boyfriend and I we should really just sleep in the same bed when visiting. I think this was his way of saying, I accept you, I love you. My relationship with my dad was now open, transparent and understanding and he would wait on the driveway when he knew I was coming to visit them, always excited to see me. We became super close and spent a lot of time doing things together. Unfortunately, I separated in 2009 from my long term partner of 8 years, and a few months later lost my hero, my dad, to cancer. I was shattered and felt completely alone again, but had to be strong and keep things together for my mom & sister. However, that same year, I was destined to meet someone new. Now happily married to him, the best guy in the world, eleven years ago he walked into my life and never went home after that very first night. We immigrated to the USA in December of 2019 to start up a new life here in the USA. Always by each other’s side, we have accomplished so much together. I want to be a dad, but think at 44 I might now be too old for this. Just want to give you a shout out, tell you I watch all your content and think you guys are amazing. You are an inspiration to all of us out there, especially for guys around our age. Your sincerity and love echoes in everything you do. You now have a home-grown South African fan living in the USA! With much love & respect, Travis

[@Pucky71]

At 44 you're not too old... maybe for babies... have you thought about foster children? There are so many kids and teenagers looking for a home. Gay couples can also give these children a great home.

[@danielayala9014]

Thank you for sharing. As a gay man it has been tough and having you two express your love for your family and for each other is a blessing to see. I grew up Jehovah Witness and my parents are very involved in the church. They don’t agree with me because I am gay. But that’s ok.... thanks for being so vulnerable with all of us. Dustin and Burton you have helped me so much. XOXO

[@tovenj456]

oh my! i cried when burton broke and just been silent. i hope i can get that chance to be truthful to my loved of who i really am.

[@Lively5487]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I must say it's been very enlightening and gave me better insight as to how to support my brother. He came out to me and my mom some time ago. And ever since then I've been reading and educating myself and my 13year old daughters on how to better support him. As my mom and other siblings did not take it so well. Subscribing and watching all your videos I'm in the process of systematically explaining and making my mom understand that he is still her son, that nothing has changed and that we can't let "society" dictate to us what is right and what is not. And Dustin's quote just explained it so easily. That God don't make mistakes. Thank you so much for having the courage to share your story. You are an inspiration to so so many, whether it's the gay community or straight.

[@bombayyboy]

Wow! You guys are such great role models for straight, gay and ALL other kinds of parents out there! Thanks for the courage and efforts you guys put in making & posting such inspiring videos!

[@ayushraj5575]

They are the best and lovely couple ,I ever seen.i want to be like them

[@Little199]

What an inspiring video. I came out four times to my mom in college years, once a year. She never believed me and thought I didn’t pray enough and demon was possessing me. My brother, who is also gay, said he will carry the secret to the grave. My husband and I just celebrated our 4th anniversary and my 30th birthday last month. Both of us have successful careers and friends that love us tremendously. We are planning to purchase our first home by the beach this year and hopefully kids in the near future. The thought that so many out there still thinking gay people aren’t capable of normalcy is saddening. I soon realize those whom lack of acceptance won’t make us miss the milestones in life but only they will miss ours. The Buffalos is what my husband and I work very hard towards to and hoping one day to make the dream come true. Your videos are reassuring the community that we are able to build a sustainable family, instill family value, and create legacies. As more LGBT parents having kids, we are closer to normalize to become “families” than “gay families”.

[@Me-jg4yk]

Hey it doesn't matter if you're gay straight or bisexual it matters how you treat your kids and you treat your kids with the utmost respect and your good Dads

[@anthonydidato5855]

Thank you for such a wonderful, vulnerable, open discussion about your coming out stories. Your openness and sweetness is a real balm to me during such troubling times in our country.

[@luvenfuentes3194]

You guys are inspiring and loving parents to your kids.role models to the upcoming generations.wishing you all the best with your two beautiful kids.

[@liannamartinez7369]

Oh my goodness. Man thank you guys so much. Wow, I grew up Christian and I hope to have a family of my own one day too. I’m gay and to see your video does mean something for me. Thanks for being honest and willing to share, appreciate it. All the best for you guys.❤️❤️