Our Top 3 Toughest Conversations | Dealing with Conflict

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@Grow-at-home 6 ай бұрын

How I try to handle/ resolve conflict: I pray first for God to give me wisdom and soften both our hearts. To lead me as I speak and help my tongue not be poison. If I feel the Holy Spirit saying “ not now” it’s important to listen as the Spirit guides.

@KgRamabu 3 ай бұрын

you got married the same age as my husband and i, i was 24 turning 25 he was 28 turning 29. 9 years later we are still here. Happily married. We grew up togethere. ❤❤❤ 1. Having to tell my parents where my husband works 2. How to raise our kids, it is still very difficult even today.

@GabisileSikhondze 6 ай бұрын

The way Hungani looks at Steph when she is talking.... guysssss

@onelegungu8912 6 ай бұрын

You guys are sooooooo matured! Your reasoning skills and emotional intelligence!🥺👌🏾❤❤

@keorapetsem4760 6 ай бұрын

Steph is beautiful please😢❤

@angelseme01 6 ай бұрын

Too much ♥️💯

@bibbiem708 5 ай бұрын

Very very too much if that's even proper English...she is beautiful ❤️

@NtoshFumba-dj9bl 6 ай бұрын

This is not usual, where young people like yourselves become authentic with such matters and allow some level of vulnerability. God has set you apart for a special taks in the ministry. May He empower you with His word that you may be able to do it for His glory. Lovable people.

@NtoshFumba-dj9bl 6 ай бұрын

They conquered him by the atterances of their Testimony.

@suzanramphore7563 6 ай бұрын

She is so beautiful

@bongimthimunye1233 6 ай бұрын

I’m like Steph when it comes to conflict, I just find it hard to articulate my thoughts and feelings at the time. I end up feeling overwhelmed and so I prefer to take some time and gather my thoughts then come back and express myself. I realise that is not always the best choice because I then overthink and when I’m eventually ready to talk I filter a lot of stuff because I don’t want to make things worse.

@mikechipise5859 6 ай бұрын

The Insight was good. Hungani & Steph will be my guests qt my wedding...& 10 relatives 😂

@nyashamachipisa2702 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much guys learning as we prep for marriage, loved the point on how honeymoon phase is different for different couples truly a point to note ❤

@phindilejeza6424 6 ай бұрын

steph’s skiiiiin is skining🥺❤️❤️❤️

@refilwesethabela6251 6 ай бұрын

I just love you guys... The authenticity here is genuine. Thank you so much for sharing this intimate part of your marriage and may God continue to bless and protect your union.

@rachaelmbabazi 6 ай бұрын

She's all shining❤.

@sinoxoloxolamvovo3023 6 ай бұрын

My favorite couple. 😅 Thank you for these life-changing conversations. May God bless you guys beyond.❤

@EvidenceofChange7 6 ай бұрын

Love the part of setting a new standard. Things don't always have to be done the old way

@zaneletheodora4703 4 ай бұрын

I am Stephanie, and Stephanie is me. That listening face story, I relate 110%

@mammasibiya 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. Sending all the love, wisdom and kindness❤

@Lalee0412 6 ай бұрын

I'm glad you always keep it real guys, this was eye opening

@zaneletheodora4703 6 ай бұрын

I loved watching this. I can resonate with a lot of things said here, I think I am single in peace now because I don't have to go through these tough conversations no more 😂 the feeling of walking on egg shells because you don't wanna offend somebody's son, yoh!

@nkeles4319 4 ай бұрын

😂

@nomfunekomgotyibana5699 6 ай бұрын

Beautiful one guys! thank you for sharing.

@KgRamabu 3 ай бұрын

You guys are making a huge difference to the young marriage society.

@nondumisoshabalala6467 27 күн бұрын

Umuhle Steph ❤️ the way Hungani looks at her 🥰

@KwaYengeni 6 ай бұрын

Its how my son enjoy your opening papapam😂😂😂 Yhooo I wish were as strong as you guys but for children we will definitely be open to new things❤

@lindiwemnukwa4806 6 ай бұрын

I love this topic so much. When i met my husband we had the topic about conflict before we got married. He dealt with things like Steph and I like Hungani. The only difference I spoke same time but harshly and would later apologise. Now I know better. We both cool off and talk later but never go to bed mad at each other. If we have an argument later we will sit in the lounge until we have cooled off and spoken about the matter calmly then go to bed.

@vuyimamaimane2297 6 ай бұрын

Beautiful couple indeed, great conversation, my question though is, was that not supposed to happen during courtship, where we are trying to know each other, more as spcialy the conflict resolution? I'm sorry for asking a question

@nthatifuma 5 ай бұрын

I am Steph, Steph is me and it’s so hard because I dont even understand it myself but yes when I am upset I dont like to talk because I am not sure if what im feeling is what Im really feeling 😂😂😂😭

@masithembekheya3682 5 ай бұрын

Same here😭😂🤦‍♀️

@kelumetsekheleli2091 6 ай бұрын

Yes within collaboration there will often be a compromise,it maybe not be known or recognized by the other partner but u who is comprising will know within yoself that u r comprising. Sometimes u may both be comprising without both even realizing that u both are compromising.

@nobesuthugubevu6642 6 ай бұрын

I thought y’all were sitting on the sofa and I was like why are your hands up high like that isn’t it tiring 🤣🤣🤣

@Sasambambo 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 bathong

@karabozodwa6351 6 ай бұрын

Hebann😂😂😂

@motlalepulamoleele8112 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@juanitatobias9484 6 ай бұрын

This was so helpful. Thank you so much guys ❤❤❤

@victorianameneverner8922 6 ай бұрын

Yes lm grateful that we grow in Life Steph true pa pa paaaaaam

@buhlesihlali 5 ай бұрын

The last point resonates with me so much because it's what we fight about mostly with my partner as we are so different, we don't handle conflict the same, I'm like Hungwani I wana deal with issues NOW and move on and he is like Steph my opposite.

@KgRamabu 3 ай бұрын

I am steph when it comes to conflict, i run away because if i have to respond right there and then, its fire!! Husband wants us to solve it right there and then. I think its usually because the guys dont want us to go to bed grumpy because of the bed issue 😂😂😂

@titotawanda 14 күн бұрын

My favourite couple,always love how you share your experiences.

@masechabamakola4181 6 ай бұрын

Cannot wait!!! Thank you Hungani for going to thar husband podcast it's so insightful. ❤

@sphesihledube4250 6 ай бұрын

It's still crazy to me how you guys moved from 300+ guests to only 59😅 it is admirable though and I loved that it wasn't because of lack of funds but just your decision. I enjoyed the video because it's also a reminder of the importance of having excellent skills of dealing with conflict because sometimes relationships are ruined because the lack of conflict management skills and communication in general.

@AyandaIris 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂stef I am with you In that listening face cause you doubt yourself about what you want to say

@masithembekheya3682 5 ай бұрын

I love this conversation❤. The conflict part I am so like Steph😭❤😂🤦‍♀️. In all their conversations I always relate to her😅I love you guys, you're so authentic😍

@victorianameneverner8922 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for the R's ❤🎉

@mercymsezeni838 6 ай бұрын

❤❤ Learning so much😊. It's important to have honest conversations because there are so many expectations. And often than not, you must carry the financial burden.

@karats745 6 ай бұрын

it hardly happens though that when we collaborate there's always gon be compromise cause collaboration is coming together towards something the same way. i understand hungani when it comes to compromise vs collaboration. it's not the same thing and when collaboration happens it's rare that one has to compromise.(this point is based on what steph said about it)

@Y.O274 6 ай бұрын

This was helpful🌞🌞

@cebisangqeleni 6 ай бұрын

You remind me of me and my boyfriend ❤thank you for conversation

@masimolebatsi1684 6 ай бұрын

This was impactful thank you guys❤😊

@Ms_Sindi_Ngcobo Ай бұрын

I resonate so much with Hungani and this is just enough proof that I made the right decision to walk away, even though it hurts. I just broke up with my partner because he was avoidant and I am solution focused. He never really got time to address my concerns and was not open to a conversation of understanding our differences. Waiting around just felt like settling. Coz time was passing by with no clarity and a lot of shutting me down when I try to voice out my concerns. Also the relationship was not allowing me to show up as myself, being loud and expressive I had to keep it down to respect his needs while mine took the backseat. I’m going through it. I know better is on the other side of this. I just hope I can run into my husband already because this dating thing is energy consuming and I’m ready to put all that energy where I am accepted authentically and there’s room for me to grow without shaming who I am currently. Thank you for sharing your story family. ❤