Our Wedding Day | Gay Couple | Husbands | PJ & Thomas

[@josephmillraney1061]

Absolutely, make sure to take honeymoon. 38+ years together and my sweetheart and I never really had one. Now she's gone; I was planning one for our 40th Wedding Anniversary. Don't put it off!

[@tomdeininger7379]

Mine is gone from me, 39 together, I know what you mean. I could write PJ and Thomas a note every day. They must know never to stop holding hands. They held hands in this ceremony, the hands they'll hold for fun and happy times, the hands they'll hold for bad and sad times-and the hand that will reach out to be touched when one is old.

[@fionnrex9513]

I much prefer this than over the top massively expensive weddings

[@tjtroy762]

You guys, I loved your wedding. I love watching you guys. Sharing your lives is like having 2 new best friends. Thank you.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Hey Y'all! we are going live April 14th @ 11:30 AM EST

[@NormGuy417]

GAY

[@croatia0728]

Scott Koningisor I legitimately can’t tell if this is satire or not

[@apkilby]

Ok I’m in pieces, this was so beautiful, thank you for sharing such an intimate moment of your life with us. Your wedding was perfect, there was no pretentiousness to it, it was from the heart. Weddings are about the to people coming together to make one life together; and that’s exactly what you did and have done. Don’t regret any of it, you say about your clothes.. but what about them, that’s not what I saw or paid attention to, what I saw was a couple very much in love, sharing a special moment with people they love. I saw two people creating a new family, two beautiful souls becoming an inspiration to so many others. The awkward kiss that every wedding day has, that brings so much joy and meaning to a very special day. It was to me the perfect day. It means the world to me (us) that you share this precious time with us. Thank you so much for this inspiring and loving video.

[@saxyben81]

Watching the clip of the ceremony brought tears to my eyes. Now every time I see a gay wedding or as it should be called just a wedding (because love is love), I cry. I just think that I never thought I would ever see it becoming legal and it warms my heart.

[@ninahurd2592]

Hey Thomas I love your wedding it was beautiful and simple in your living room with all your family and friends and the justice of the peace did a beautiful job have a wonderful and loving marriage

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Nina Hurd ❤️❤️

[@TrainsFerriesFeet]

It's sweet that Thomas' mom kept pushing you to get married since so many parents would be the opposite.

[@kellybaxter2558]

Thomas: It was very intimate and sweet PJ: ...and it was cheap 😂

[@johnpacheco3291]

Very sweet! My husband and I married in county courthouse. Had a small group of friends there with us. Then we went to lunch at a local restaurant! Honeymoon was a trip we had already planned to Maui! We married Nov 27 2015! So congratulations on your 5 years!

[@williamm8240]

I have to say that the kiss at the wedding is the most (public display of Affection =PDA) that I have seen in the many years that I have been watching. You should do more PDA's they are so cute. Nice story and congratulation on your cute wedding and your future vows.

[@lonnielanz3653]

What a beautiful story about your wedding. Now you need a honeymoon and a story about that. Love both of you. Wishing you all the love in the world.

[@fredricweber2047]

I love how smart you were about not spend in a fortune on a wedding at the time. Love and wisdom prevails.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Fredric Weber thanks friend ❤️❤️

[@agreen1150]

I am going through you all videos and realize I missed some. I don't miss any of your current videos with you guys and your babies. Wow! You guys epitomize the American dream, which has no gender just love.

[@tallactordude]

I had to miss the premiere of this video to meet my mother for lunch, but I absolutely loved watching it after I got home. There’s something about that smaller wedding that just seems so typical of what we know of the two of you. And to be honest, the informal clothing really seems to fit the two of you as well. Thanks for giving us this extra view into your wedding day!

[@calvind2054]

I had to watch this video again because I’ve been waiting for the 5 year wedding to do it right. Of course that was interrupted by the Covid-19 Pandemic. But, now the kiddos can be there which will be super great. And I hope the adoption will be complete making this wedding super, super great. And off to the honeymoon. No excuses, just go. take off for one week just the two of you and the kiddos join for a 2nd week. This might help determine where to go, like Hawaii. Look, you guys always use work for an excuse to change plans, or project to decide cost. You both deserve to take time off and really enjoy making the best memories of your life together. The kiddos will always have this asa super great memory of their new family. This is a “must”, one time opportunity guys. The new McKay family. Your mom’s should get to have this memory too, and how proud they will be. So go, make memories, and fighting until the honeymoon is over 😂, but serious though. And absolutely no working. You owe this to the both of you, no expense

[@jeromejackson1029]

Cute wedding story! Cutest couple on KZbin! I live in Tennessee also! Love the UT Volunteers!! Go big Orange!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Jerome Jackson yaaassss!

[@thomasboetto6229]

I love your wedding story. Y"all a great inspiration.

[@CassDunham]

Yay! I'm glad you said you're doing a 5 year renewal. I was going to suggest it.

[@trevormartinbutton5625]

Just loved the simplistiy and the most important ingredient there is LOVE. :)

[@lajinkccat8995]

I agree and besides that kitchen remodel was fabulous!!

[@musu6650]

It's so much simpler, intimate and familial.

[@OLDS98]

That is a event and a story ! Wow! All of that to get where you are now. It was indeed worth the struggle. That was a lot pressure on every front. May you have many more years ahead.

[@BorgWolf359]

U2 are just awesome! I luv y'all so much! Y'all's vids always make me happy, smile, cry sometimes; U2 are so very real! Stay awesome & I loved y'all's wedding! Much luv, HUGS!

[@okineedadonutnow7181]

You guys make my gay lonely teenager heart go woosh you're litteraly living the dream of my life from the beginning to the end like w h a t. w h y

[@ThePropertyLovers]

OK I need a donut now 😘😘😘

[@danw1952]

You two are just amazing for your willingness to share the details of your romance. It's a privilege to be included in your KZbin family. I enjoyed the return of the Property Lovers theme music at the close of the video!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

DAN WALTZ awww so glad you recognized the music!

[@desireealexam]

YAAAAAAAYYY! You made this story time JUST for me because I requested it in your last storytime! 😁 Hahaha, J/K, bet you had it planned anyway 😉 I can’t wait to watch it tomorrow! ♥️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

yep! The idea happened when you requested it!! So thank you!

[@kristiansagia5637]

I love your story but most the reaction of your mum Thomas is priceless., typical Lebanese /Mediterranean reaction....Got to love her .

[@johnm6972]

Congratulations to both of you! My husband and I decided to tie the knott about 48 hours before our actual wedding in NC in 09/2016 at home. We threw on white dress shirts and black dress pants and non matching ties. We did this ten minutes before our minister arrived. I started perspiring profusely and was nervous as hell. My spouse and I lived together since 1999. Who'd A thought after all this time I would have pre wddding jitters.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

John M omg love this so much!!! Thank you for sharing! ❤️

[@MrAndre1272]

Such a lovely story. Looking forward to seeing your 5yr renewal. You guys are so open and honest that I feel like we are all friends and Would enjoy just chilling out.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Andre Poidomani awww the sweetest compliment ever!!

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

Love the flannels-shows a part of your everyday lives- awesome gentlemen!🔥🤍🔥💛🔥

[@davidwoodford7304]

Thanks for sharing! Love your home and your craftsmanship! Good luck and stay healthy!

[@pump066]

Watching this in October 2020 and I feel sorry for you guys, but there is always a new anniversary coming up, and it seems like you've done pretty well without all the fuss that a big wedding means. When times are back to "normal", you pack the kids and those you love, and head to the beach and renew your commitment and life goes on!

[@MatTroiLuoi]

Thomas's eyes are teary when they talk about wedding

[@trekkermueth3074]

Thanks for sharing. I like that it was such a simple occasion, but still very memorable and much less stressful than a typical wedding.

[@rildoaraujo6965]

Hola gracias hombre

[@pppexplorer]

Thomas seems very good and precise with the dates. 😀 As October 2020 is now next month, what are your plans now for your 5-year wedding renewal given the current COVID-19 pandemic?

[@jslasher1]

You say y'all, and I say g'day. Whatever. Just to say how much I enjoyed watching your video. I last passed through Tennessee on the Illinois Central's famous "Panama Limited" passenger train in the early 1960s en route from Chicago to New Orleans, where I had my first gay experience. Time marches on.

[@rulhalfelven]

In one of those rare times that Thomas forgot about a memory (of their wedding).. Coming from someone like you who can remember exact dates, I am surprised Thomas! Lol. But I enjoyed this video, thank you for sharing this beautiful moment. Simple yet so meaningful. Lavish weddings are so overrated. You guys are such an inspiration.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

rul halfelven hahah that’s true, how could we forget? 😂 thanks friend!

[@jayparizo6690]

Jay and I had a very close family wedding we wore beige slacks and short sleeve flannel.

[@stalbirdjessiah6457]

Thanks for sharing you life with us, not just us but also for future generatiion. Peace and Love

[@ThePropertyLovers]

StalbirdJessiah 😘😘😘😘

[@andrewjackson5805]

You guys are the best. Love the low key wedding wasn't crazy about the plaid but it fitted you.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Andrew Jackson hahaha thank you!

[@airofdecember]

Y'all should do a few of our favorite things video discussing your favorite movies, music, artists, authors, TV shows, memories, etc.

[@transpirit20]

Firstly, you guys looked adorable and perfect on your wedding day. I remember seeing the wedding pic when I started following your channel and I totally fell in love with you guys right then.. because it was so personal and intimate.... Just how weddings should be... Secondly I'm so happy that you guys saved the money for the kitchen and had such a wonderful time cooking in it.... Finally, just want to say that you guys are beautiful together.... stay blessed always.... ❤❤❤

[@raymondschneider5217]

A very cool video, guys. Finding my way through your catalog (am a new sub); really enjoyed the simplistic and intimate feel of this wedding. Don't worry about your flannels; I was more focused on watching your faces -- such love. You make us all want to be friends. Y'all Be Safe!

[@bobmerrick8685]

Thanks again, lovely for you to look back on in years to come. I love that you did it that way, as it was not pretentious with all the airs & grace's that some portray after all the stars of the day are the participant's and you did beautifully. Congratulations love

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Bob Merrick thank you ❤️😘

[@martindeluisa9602]

you know I'm kinda getting used to PJ's mustache... i wasn't sure at first but now I definitely like it!!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Martin De Luisa hah yaaasss!!

[@jerryettinger9055]

How cute are the two of you saying your vows wearing your flannel shirts. You both looked a little shy and nervous. What did your mum's have to say about your casual attire? I would love to see you both in a black tux for your 5 year ceremony.(So handsome). Thanks again for another great video. What about a video with the two of you and Thomas's brother as you seem very close to him. I know one of your first was a trip to Seattle with him.

[@scifresjeffrey1993]

I absolutely loved this! My fiancé and I keep talking about doing smaller weddings, instead of spending all this money on a wedding. He’s in nursing school, and we kind of want to do something small on his family’s property and then do a big fancy wedding later.

[@johniii8147]

Jeffrey Scifres Just do it already!

[@andianderson9043]

I have fallen in love with both of you and everything about you both melts my heart. You are fabulous parents and such loving people. I can see that when you look at each other. If you ever need a tour guide for the UK. Look me up. Keep smiling and I wish you both all the success in the world. Xxx

[@tomdeininger7379]

First time I've seen you guys. Congrads on your marriage, wish you much happiness. That is the main thing-happiness. If you're not happy there is no peace or contentment. Hugs to you both.

[@KenBernardez]

Okay, I just have to say that I really like this sitting down type of vlog / format that you have. I get to know you better and hear stories that you like to share to us. Not to mention that I'm playing you in the background while I'm working so it eases my stress out. I'm getting more and more productive everyday, thanks to you!

[@LightscapeOdyssey]

Wow I thought I was the only one who plays vlog audios in the background and I thought others will find it weird

[@KenBernardez]

@@LightscapeOdyssey not weird at all, I'm pretty sure that there are a lot of people who does exactly what we're doing. It increases productivity for me. It also allows me to focus more.

[@LightscapeOdyssey]

@@KenBernardez There is a youtuber I have a huge crush on and I listen to his vlog audios every night because it eases and relaxes me and I fall asleep quickly.

[@KenBernardez]

@@LightscapeOdyssey who is this KZbinr? I need to know.

[@LightscapeOdyssey]

@@KenBernardez His name is Jared Lynton and he is one half of "The Double Dose Club".

[@Harshulnarang1]

Tbh I love the all casual feel of it; because imho fancy n pompous cost a lot, not just on the pocket but also in the feels of the whole thing; whenever its a fancy event, it becomes more about people performing for everyone else rather than living that precious moment! So yeah... I think this was super cute and cozy! Thanks for sharing something so special! As always, love you guys! 🥰🥰

[@emilykeane6718]

I would love to hear more about how to respond when someone comes out to you. I know y'all did a video on your own experiences, but watching the Things Straight People Say to Gay Guys video made me think it might be cool to educate people on what y'all think is a supportive way to respond when some comes out. Speaking from an experience where I was completely awkward and didn't react in a way that my friend was probably hoping for

[@frostiesarah2315]

Missed today’s premier at my mum & stepdads 30th wedding anniversary! So watching this five hours later (10.30pm UK time) I’m slightly intoxicated and thanks boys now the happy tears are falling after watching the ceremony. 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Sarah Frost hahaha that sounds so lovely Sarah! Congratulations to them!

[@burthuffman2802]

Loved this video as well as allll the others. Simplest weddings are the best.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Burt H thanks love ❤️❤️

[@GH-lk5bo]

Y'all are very talented with your renovation..

[@lelandpeck4585]

y'all are very special. Thanks for sharing your day with us!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Thank you!!

[@cope501]

I loved your wedding video. But I HAVE TO AGREE...FLANNEL????? LOL. YOU GUYS ARE AWSOME. I really don’t know what other video’s to suggest for you guys to do next. Perhaps making the decision to take one another’s name. You know to make that choice. Which one to pick.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Tracy Copeland aww thank you!! We actually made a video about that already! 😊😊😊

[@TomPaarluck]

I absolutely cannot wait to be sitting with someone I love, like you guys are, and be telling the story of how we fell in love, got engaged and got married. Love to you guys ❤️❤️

[@smokey1255]

PJ and Thomas, You guys are so sweet and low key. Your wedding fit both of you to a T. I enjoy how romantic it was. I think you two have romance down to a fine art. Jim and I had been together for 9 years when we got married the first time. Around the first part of July 2004, we started talking getting married and agreed we wanted to. Shortly after we talked I talked to my brother and he told me he and Dan were getting married on September 11, 2004. I told Jim I wanted to get married before they did. That meant August. The main thing was to find an officiant and plan around his availability. I wanted a Catholic wedding and Jim agreed. The challenge was I couldn’t ask a Roman Catholic priest or use a Catholic venue because I am an Independent Catholic, not a Roman Catholic. I talked to my bishop and he agreed to officiate. As it happened he had to go to Texas for an emergency but he provided a former Roman Catholic priest. The wedding Mass took place in our back yard. It slopes down to the back fence so I put the altar by the fence and set the chairs on the slope going up to the house. The Mass went off without a hitch. We wore formal attire because I had never worn a tux before. A friend from work made a beautiful cake and another friend who owned a Viennese restaurant catered the meal for us. We had about 50 guests and were able to take care of all of them for both the Mass and the reception. I mentioned this was the first wedding which indicates there was at least one more. What gives? When we were married the first time, marriage wasn’t legal for same sex couples in Washington State. Whenit became legal, we were married at the courthouse by a Superior Court judge. I had spent 3 years studying for the Roman Catholic priesthood and a year assigned to a parish as a deacon. I said no to priesthood when I had to make specific plans for ordination. Eventually I found a small Independent Catholic denomination and Jim and started to attend their Mass. The denomination support GLBT folks and women clergy which were my big issues with the Roman church. The Bishop asked me to pastor a new parish which I agreed to and he ordained me a priest for that. Some years later he had to move on so I was elected bishop by my fellow clergy. The reason our wedding Mass felt a little strange to me is because it was the first time I had been to Mass in many years without wearing clergy attire. May God’s be with both of you as you continue to grow in faith and love

[@lexytvv363]

Just watching this now, I think that your 5 year anniversary will be low key... Congrats in advance though😊🤭

[@deeroberts3449]

Loved the video X thanks for sharing X. Looking forward to what your going to do for your 5 year renewal x

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Dee Roberts thanks friend 😘😘

[@royvermes2964]

A video about the big dogs... they don't get much airtime

[@TheGilbert48197]

thank you for showing us your wedding and telling about it, I was so moved by it, and seeing the happiest that was so great, On your next video could do like HGTV show on how to re due a home are room. Thank you for showing your wedding that was so sweet of you.

[@rildoaraujo6965]

Hola Daniel

[@akridged]

It sounds like a wonderful wedding day, and you both look so happy in the pictures. Some day, you're kids are going to be very happy that you've captured these stories.

[@a.j.stauft1779]

I think it's a name thing..I'm aj and I have a detail memory...too funny how Thomas forgets a lot lol

[@jerryettinger9055]

There should be a triple thumbs up for you two. I watched it a second time and stopped on the picture of your family Thomas and was wondering who is the guy behind your mother and is that Sydney beside him?

[@Nambazi]

I keep going back and laughing at the time I told my dad not to wear flannel and those zip off Patagonia or cathartt pants to my wedding, and what do you know, he did. It was either he attended in that or spent what it would cost for him to come to the wedding. I don’t regret it at all.

[@candiceleah2701]

How sweet! That kitchen also looked ah-mazing!! 😍 Some video ideas: Advice for working together as a couple, How to get into home renovations, A video with some of your parents could be fun also!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Candice & Leah yesss thank you!!!

[@maureenval1047]

You two are just amazing and look happy together ❤️❤️❤️💋💋

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Maureen val 😘😘😘

[@sohinisarkarblogs]

Hi sweet friends, it was a sweet marriage story just like u two! Marriage is the coming together of two loving hearts & that's all it was💕. No grandeur no show off. Only sweet love for each other getting socially accepted. It was cute just like u two ❤

[@beingpanda4010]

You guys are My Ideal Couple ❤️♥️. Love you guys

[@ગોહીલલાલભા]

Being Panda... 7046412027

[@starchild2754]

Beautifully natural and touching~😘😘 Congrats~ I love you guys for the loving, monogamous couple you guys are. I hope you guys always stay happy and healthy.😙

[@tomaustin4526]

Awww that was cute ❤️😊👍thanks guys for sharing 😎 here’s wishing y’all many many happy years together. Always enjoy your posts thanks 🏡

[@rildoaraujo6965]

Hola tom

[@tomaustin4526]

Rildo Araujo 😊 hello 👋

[@rildoaraujo6965]

@@tomaustin4526 hello como vai tu hombre 💋🌷

[@rildoaraujo6965]

@@tomaustin4526 tom tu abras esponhol mio amigo

[@tomaustin4526]

Rildo Araujo sorry but I don’t

[@myristicanz]

Thank you for sharing such an intimate moment with us ... much love to you guys 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@charlie9901]

Good one. I liked seeing it.

[@rodrigofenntorrente7953]

Urgh, you absolutely ADORABLE guys... !! Can't wait for October 2020, though, for two suited men to take another step forward ❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Rodrigo Fenn Torrente aww! Thank youuuu 😍❤️

[@ninahurd2592]

Have a wonderful marriage and a wonderful life together

[@jolro2002]

Very funny...late for your wedding. I've heard of being late for your funeral but never the wedding.

[@geezercreekfarmskent792]

Just watched your video. you two are just too cute.

[@justlove5027]

I like your wedding even though simple and most important you two is happily married and you are together for long life husband's and nothing change godbless

[@kikachukwuezedunor8678]

I feel so sad that it’s October of 2020, and because of the pandemic you can’t really have the five year renewal wedding you wanted. But next year hopefully. 💙💙💙

[@javieroliveras344]

You two are so beautiful!!!

[@marlonespiritu1148]

Super cute ! Love these stories

[@PKScoop]

So beautiful! Thank you for sharing! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

PKScoop thank YOU for watching 😘

[@alexisgaither8541]

Love y’all 😫😫😍 and did y’all always decide that Thomas would take Pj last name.

[@richardmooney7948]

Thomas, if you ever do, but I hope not. However, just in case, Tom put me first on your rebound list. 😍

[@yellowatlas2484]

I'm surprisingly okay with the moustache now... Also, great video as always!

[@PaNdeM0niuM]

awwww. I'm so happy for you guys

[@ThePropertyLovers]

PaNdeM0niuM 😘😘😘

[@albertomontalvo1590]

Oh my god I love it!! Invite me! Love you guys!!

[@ગોહીલલાલભા]

Alberto Montalvo.. 7046412027

[@vincebaxter8953]

Brilliant wedding story. Personally, I wish many more couples would spend their money and what they need/want rather than a fancy expensive wedding. I think your way is much more romantic too...except for being late 😂

[@adrianalcott3847]

Thanks a lot🤗🤗 for sharing this with me it means a lot to me,LOVE YOU BOTH ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜,I wish one day I am able to marry the man of my soulmate like you did. Please make a video the challenges you have faced for being gay,and how to over come them.

[@quincymastin5131]

Y'all really inspire me 👍🙊 ....Thanks !!

[@timothyfoley1750]

Way to go lads

[@commiraid8545]

Lovely!

[@jordanfogarty1015]

I bet you guys had the most romantic wedding Ever

[@dsigg4288]

You guys are such an inspiration to me. As a monogamous gay man, it’s hard finding other gay men who are looking for the same thing. You two give me hope that there’s someone out there for all of us

[@MrAudienceMember2662015]

Looks like the 2020 plan might be delayed? Have to see how it plays out, I guess.

[@darriontunstall3708]

Wow!! I can’t wait

[@darriontunstall3708]

Y’all had a awesome and cute wedding!!! Y’all should do a car tour video, I love cars

[@paulmiller6647]

Powerful video.