“Is PJ Okay?” Why PJ Has Lost So Much Weight | PJ & Thomas

[@Mad_dog_g]

I like that you blur your kids faces because some family youtubers don’t and you never know what could happen

[@marth9660]

First of all I think PJ looks in great shape. But secondly, those kids. I teared up at “we are good people”. As a family you check all the boxes. The love, security, belonging, trust and adventure comes across in spadefuls. With all the negativity in this world sharing in your happiness and positivity is priceless.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

😭😭😭 thank you for watching

[@darrylb9872]

The cutest thing I've heard in a long time: "This air keeps mocking us"-too cute😊🥰💖

[@ThePropertyLovers]

I thought so too 😂❤️

[@ginginami]

Lol that's the best explanation of an echo I've ever heard.

[@darrylb9872]

@@ginginami It's definitely the most amusing.😂🤣😭💖👍

[@camdenterrell6208]

I dont mean to be off topic but does any of you know of a method to get back into an Instagram account..? I stupidly forgot my account password. I love any help you can offer me.

[@josephkling3600]

I love y'all to the moon and back. Not only are you vulnerable enough to share your lives with so many people, but y'all share the highs AND the lows. Life isn't some daisy in a garden without weeds. It must be worked & cherished. Love you both.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

oh Joseph you just made our day. thank you for watching, friend ❤️❤️

[@joeblow8940]

I couldn't stand another minute of the debate. I stated watching this instead. So glad. It brings me great joy. Those kids make me smile. Thank you!

[@dawnegan3984]

I Thought, by your face pj your face you had lost weight the kids thomas are great as usual

[@nestorargueta1264]

Everything you say about the wait is true

[@ThePropertyLovers]

awww thank you ❤️

[@jeanstevenson4244]

PJ how does it feel to know so many people care about your wellbeing? We really do care.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

so incredibly grateful for you, Jean, and for everyone who genuinely care and reach out ❤️❤️

[@cynnthemanevolant]

Your parenting of these kids is just so beautiful. I work in child protection and out of home care in Australia, and sometimes, when I have a really bad day at work; when I'm feeling like I'm doing more harm than good, or feeling a sense of hopelessness; I watch one of your videos. When you're focussed on harm and protection, you don't often get to see much of the love and healing. The privilege of getting to see a snapshot of your lives is very healing and motivating.

[@thomasseiler233]

You two are such good guys, and work so hard. With all of that, the kids clearly adore you both.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you Thomas xo

[@abravegirl6613]

PJs talents are limitless. I wish I possessed a fraction of his energy. I’m in awe of your daily lives. Be well, be happy.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

right?! he is so amazing

[@calvinharris4590]

PJ definitely deserve credit. He’s out working all the time and it can get tasking and frustrating. Everyone see’s the PJ work. We don’t see the Thomas work so please let’s not forget about Thomas who’s always with the kids. Thomas you have been doing a great job and coming from a single mother home I know sometimes you just need a break. You both are amazing.

[@memo4970]

I love PJ! He's actually in really good shape, idk what everyone is talking about. He looks fine to me. One day I will find a man as wonderful as him (With all due respect to Thomas) ❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww thank you, he is SO wonderful and great ❤️❤️❤️

[@alifinley9156]

That is so great of Thomas to give the kids their privacy by blurring out their images. Great dad move. That way they can grow up without a bunch of strangers thinking they know the kids’ lives.

[@bobjdjnghjdli]

You two are amazing, giving your hearts and home to give these beautiful children a safe, loving environment God bless you

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you so much Carol ❤️❤️❤️

[@quinftbl]

You guys work miracles with everything around you. So much care and love. Thank you. ❤️

[@tenor714]

Thomas- you should take Big Brother’s rabbit narrative and turn it into a children’s book. It was so beautiful, innocent and heartwarming. The proceeds could go to their college education. 😃

[@MarciaLeeful]

My kids are all grown so it’s sweet to see the kids and their excitement for the world. Loved hearing their little thoughts! You are taking such good care of the kids! Nice to see so much love!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

awww thank you so much Marcia! are they not the sweetest? little kids' voices are so so so precious

[@williammckenneyiii7817]

Thomas: your remarks about weight are spot-on. And you made your points with a gentleness and courtesy that I think any of us can appreciate. Thank you.

[@kberry3992]

Your kiddos brought tears to my eyes, they are adorable ☺️ you are wonderful fathers🤗

[@sarahhayden6497]

Little brothers conversation with the rabbits was the cutest. You guys are doing such a fantastic job with those precious children.

[@Fieldsinv]

Pj & Thomas, I congratulate you both on raising and teaching your children as you are. It’s refreshing to see. ❤️

[@BartonAShulman]

I'm a psychotherapist, and Thomas - you're 100% right. Thank you posting this!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Aww thank you for saying this! Means a lot as I was somewhat nervous about posting it!

[@TheJojo01902]

Thanks, guys, for sharing your days and family with us. I particularly like how you rearrange furniture, and use great finds, to advantage, instead of buying brand new. To me, doing that is REAL LIFE. I particularly like your message of spreading kindness and not commenting on a person's weight. We need more people like you in the world! So, thanks for being you!!

[@seangrey5871]

God Thomas' hair is absolutely perfect!

[@Zeyev]

PJ: Years ago, a doctor ordered me to lose weight NOW. And I did, leading to embarrassed questions from coworkers and friends. It was a strange time. I think you have an exceptional physique but I'm more interested in seeing how exceptional you are with the kids. And you are. I'm sorry others may have focused on a less important aspect of who you are. In other news, I also have indoor plants outside and am thinking of bringing them inside. But not quite yet. The philodendron that you have is an outdoor plant in Florida and much of California and can grow to be gigantic. Stay fabulous, you two!

[@carlosleon8076]

What an ending just daddies being daddies love the way you guys are with the kiddos love yaa.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@carlosleon8076]

@@ThePropertyLovers ☺️

[@celinhabr1]

You guys are doing amazing as a realistic couple and parenting. Sometimes people make stupid comments that i'm amazed of how graceful you still are with them. Just goes to show your level of kindness. Hugs from Brazil.

[@TheMusicmaker25]

PJ singing was so cute and that last note was everything.

[@thomasmceldowney4783]

When does he sing again?

[@naturegirl51]

doesn't matter how dark my day is, you and the kids always bring sunshine into my home xx

[@ThePropertyLovers]

okay chills! you don't know how much that means!!! ❤️❤️ thank you friend!!

[@albertklausstangl8990]

PJ, love the setup of the round table in the lounge, a mix of many different things. As for the kids, they are growing up so quickly. They are very kind, which is a reflection of the positive environment you guys created for them. ♥️ How funny was it watching PJ opening his box with his new drill etc...like a little kid in the toy shop👍♥️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

hahah exactly! thank you Albert!! xo

[@mikeyc4525]

I know this is a three year old video, but I was just going to say, and then you commented that, THERE IS POWER IN WORDS. We may not always see the consequences of what we say, or how it affects someone. But on the other hand, we can't go through life guarding our words in fear that it may hurt someone. We just don't know. Mental Health is such a complex science, with its subtle and nonsublte aspects. Self confidence is the most important attribute we could ask for in our lives.

[@christopherb8336]

I feel so lucky as viewers/fans that we get to experience these updates. After the debate last night, this definitely made me feel better. You guys always lift my spirits. Thank you for another beautiful video.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Christopher! 😭😭 soooo grateful for you!

[@j.vereen3639]

PJ and Thomas, you’re definitely a joy to my day to watch you’re channel

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you for watching J!

[@Rgp1958]

So impressed with you both! You both work so hard! I can also see the love you have for each other and those adorable kids! You are such great husbands and dads! You decorations are are so beautiful; looks like a magazine layout from House Beautiful!

[@suzannehawkins383]

On the subject of weight loss, looking at it from another perspective. If a person has struggled all their life to lose weight and they have finally figured it out and managed, through much hard work, to get themselves into a healthier weight, it makes their day when someone makes a comment. And it vastly positively affects their mental health. It’s so encouraging when others notice and mention your success.

[@gilliegilbert3353]

How amazing is that conversation to the rabbit!!! 🙏😊

[@ThePropertyLovers]

I KNOW 😭😭

[@belizeguy]

You guys are always wonderful. On PJ's Weight Loss, how about just Damn!! Looks amazing. I do know what you mean about how people can be insensitive in their comments. I have recently finished losing a lot of weight (85 pounds) and some people who do not see me for a while sometimes freak out when they do, and can be less than supportive. (Are you sick? You look too skinny! What happened?) I hope they mean well, but this has been hard work now for the last 3 years. I am happy with it. As long as you are healthy and you keep checking on your statistics (heart rates, BMI, Fat %, Healthy weight for your Height, ETC) you are good to go! Oh, and those cordless tools are amazing. Very thoughtful gift. We made ours even better by purchasing one more charger and two more batteries. I like seeing all those happy solid red lights that tell me I am good to go! Thanks guys!! Amazing video with so much progress. Uggh, so glad we live in Mexico and do not have to see "Parades" like the one you filmed. VOTE!!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Thank you for sharing about your journey and experience with comments on weight, friend 🙏🏼. And yes lucky you being in Mexico! I was genuinely shocked when I saw the “trump train” drive through our little town 😔

[@belizeguy]

@@ThePropertyLovers I do not know how we could stand it if we were there still. We left SC to come here. You think we would see a few Trumpians? Here, few and far between and easy to avoid all together. Be well men! Hug those kids tight!!

[@perfectlyimperfect3153]

Ok so this is officially my new favorite channel. They’re such amazing parents❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I love this family❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Aww Jessica!!! Thank you so much!!!

[@dkutil1]

PJ's not alone. I lost 15 lbs as a result of losing muscle mass working out at home plus eating healthier eating at home during covid. He'll be thankful for a high metabolism when he's my age! Love the videos. We see a lot of us in you guys!

[@elenamunozgiraldo6664]

-Sis, look at the sky, isn't it so pretty? (Whispering) +Yeahhh That little exchange made me smile so much, I don't know why, you guys are just so adorable.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

wasn't her voice so adorable? so full of wonder ❤️❤️

[@davidwiseman7774]

Also, saying inanimate things are pretty is a real Thomas phrase, the guys are already influencing the way they see the world in such a positive way.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

david wiseman 😭😊❤️🙏🏼

[@angieodom7739]

Absolutely brought a smile to my face as always. Love to see the kiddos and how much you all love each other. They are beyond blessed to have you both in their lives. Lots of love until next time.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you sweet Angie!! xx

[@stevec404]

First of all, PJ still looks H.O.T! Here is my take on this - while I am (very) much ...more 'mature' in age, I, too, have lost a lot of weight during this C-19 thing. The relative isolation just seemed to aggravate my already high strung and needy-sensitive personality. Not easy to keep a good balance in these times. His body type and mine are the same. When I am active and energetic, I work hard, eat a lot, and almost never gain or lose any weight. But over the last months I have lost about 13 pounds due to lethargy, worry, skipping meals, and trouble sleeping. If that's all it is, then we will both be fine and bulking up real soon. Hope that's all it is. XOXO

[@JayBnLA]

umm... I think I found the weight you lost. You can have it back!

[@stevec404]

@@JayBnLA - Deal!

[@vistatiger7493]

Same with me. Went to Dr for six month checkup recently and had dropped 20 without trying . Dr said I was first patient he had recently that had not put on weight during quarantine. I attributed some of it to not eating out as much during C19.

[@Solace_System]

Just finally got around to watch this video this morning after a hectic last night, and I'm still only halfway through now, but I had to come and thank you before watching any further, Thomas. What you said regarding comments that have been made about PJ's weight was extremely nice to hear, as I am one of many men who has been diagnosed with and treated for an eating disorder. I am glad PJ is simply experiencing the side effects of no gym and hot weathered working conditions, but am sad for you and your friend too, as I know that's a hard conversation to have - for both parties involved. I'm sure she is glad you two had that talk though, even if you unintentionally, of course, might have encouraged some unhealthy behaviours of hers, it sounds like, with your first reaction. I hope she is getting some help, as living with an ED is no way to live. Everyday is more challenging when it is controlling you, no matter how in control of it you think you may be at the time. You're a great man, husband, and father from what I have seen in a short time watching the videos on this channel, Thomas. You and PJ have become very important to me, as I try to work though the mental and physical traumas inflicted upon me throughout junior and senior high school in my therapy sessions. You two are helping me to rewrite how I view myself as a twenty year young man hopelessly attracted to other men. I am certainly damaged from repeated intolerant experiences, but this channel has been helping me to heal those wounds that have been inflicted upon me, and to stop telling myself the truths that I have been told or shown as such by others in my head - things that you two are showing me might not actually be true at all. You two have given me hope for the first time in eight years or so that the cognitive dissonance holding me prisoner in my own mind can one day, at the very least mostly, go away. For all this I thank you, as you two really have had a confounding but profound impact upon me. Oh, wow, sorry! I did not mean to unload and unload like I did, but now that I have, I feel strange about shortening everything that I have written. So, I guess I will just leave things with this: take care, PJ and Thomas, and I will catch you in your next video. Until then...

[@danw1952]

This edition of McKay videos is a genuine hit! ⭐ Lots of coverage of the whole family...a very photogenic and verbal PJ, a heartfelt and necessary PSA from Thomas about weight-shaming plus all three adorable kids in full-on performance mode. 🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁 Once again, Thomas' impressive editing skills are on display. 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃 Bravo!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Aww Dan!! So so so so glad you enjoyed it. As always, sending you love! ❤️❤️

[@cicero1691]

Watching this video made me feel so much more calm about my life. Love the home and family you’ve created.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Zac!!! thank you friend, so glad we could offer some sense of calmness in this crazy time xoxo

[@hpot53]

Two men of great integrity.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

so so so sweet, thank you love ❤️

[@EnriquePascual1989]

Thomas; I appreciate you saying something about physical appearances. Glad to hear PJ doesn’t let the comments bother him.

[@50hats77]

That was so cute reassuring the rabbits that they were safe.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Right?! ❤️❤️

[@dwaynebaker9793]

Hardest working man in Show Business/KZbin!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

isn't he ?! ❤️❤️❤️

[@spiderdudesuper]

I love that you blur their faces! It shows that you're considerate loving parents. Beautiful family. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you!!!

[@steverdms]

I'm new here. Don't know what he looked like before but I would change bodies in a HEARTBEAT! Dang! If only I could look like that.

[@seanlewis6285]

OH MY GOSH. if have headphones on you can hear Thomas mouthing 'Reflection' lyrics. also Bless you Thomas.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

😂😂😂😂😊❤️

[@Dawn-24-27]

Omg I love Sis’s little run wiggle! The boys are so witty and imaginative! PJ you do amazing work!!! Thomas, love how you record those special little moments. Truly treasures for all of you in the future to have. Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful life with all of us! Please take care of yourselves. Much love from Canada.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww thank YOU for watching!!! always means the world ❤️❤️

[@DannyJ2206]

Thank you Thomas about addressing peoples comments on anyone's videos or social media about their weight

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you for watching, Danny!! xoxoxo

[@imjohnny6067]

yall really made for each other, i feel happy for you two❤

[@michaelkline884]

The way you interact with your children warms this gay grandads heart! 😉

[@FesIRL]

"The air is mocking me" it should be a shirt. Lol

[@ThePropertyLovers]

😂😂❤️❤️

[@davidmurphy4725]

Those are the sweetest cutest most loving and thankful kids ever. You guys are doing such a great job and so happy you are all staying together. As far as his weight goes; don’t give your opinion unless asked; it is hurtful to say things like that even with the best of intentions and then even worse to feel like he had to explain or defend himself.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you so much David!! xx

[@aaronkeeling7154]

Thanks for talking about this. Weight gain has been a constant struggle for me and it's been a constant talking point and "worry" of family and friends. Lots of love to you guys.

[@G2theS]

I can definitely relate to PJ. My metabolism is extremely super fast and it's very difficult for me to gain weight as well. It has been a struggle growing up hearing the "skinny shaming" comments

[@ThePropertyLovers]

😔🙏🏼❤️

[@jh17907]

I'm from an older generation, so a compliment is always meant with good intention. If I have not seen someone in some time & they have a new hair style, lost weight or just look great, I will compliment them. I would never say anything mean about anyone's appearance & if it is taken the wrong way I would hope they would be kind enough to let me know quietly that there was a problem. And I did enjoy your video. What part of the country do you live in? It looks beautiful.

[@caseyflorida]

I'm very overweight and always have been. One time I visited a college friend at his parent's house and when his father opened the door he said to me "wow you just keep getting fatter and fatter." That was like a punch in the gut. What an awful thing to say to someone.

[@kennethrich6875]

Much love and support from Alabama..

[@stanleyhedges3239]

Seriously guys! I feel like I just spent a wonderful fall weekend with you guys just visiting and catching up! What a fantastic video! Sending you and the family love! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Stanley!!! thank you love!!!! sending you a big hug xoxo

[@itscodyhilton]

I’m totally crying at his your safe speech

[@janis9837]

Watching your videos just has something special. Really love you guys - you’re family is everything

[@ThePropertyLovers]

omg thank you so much! grateful for you xo

[@tigergreg8]

You brought up some very interesting things to think about in this video. I didn't comment about his weight, because quite frankly I didn't notice, I'm too busy thinking about the task at hand to notice. But I can think of times in the past where I've said something like that, in person that is, to people I know, and I never really thought about it coming across as a negative way. I guess if you really think about it, what if someone you haven't seen has been diagnosed with something serious in their lives, and that's the reason for the loss, hmmm, that's not good, and very uncomfortable for both people. Thanks for bringing something up I never thought of as a negative, but could possibly be in the future. 😘

[@danmakely7712]

As I watch I am continuing with a sense of love and caring from this little family...

[@mathiassca]

Thank you for existing the loving normal lifestyle denied some of us from the 1980's. A couple in the burbs with kids. A dream life of equals, love every moment of it!!! I have friends who were lucky enough to have this as normal from the 1970's and still together!!!!

[@TheMartinCannon]

Hey guys great video as ever. The kiddos are looking really happy. A tribute to you both. Keep well and stay safe. Big hugs to all from UK 🇬🇧 xx

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you Martin! xoxo

[@dbdcrafts6542]

I just want to say how much I enjoy your channel, website and everything PJ & Thomas! Thank you for sharing your life with those cute little kiddos and your flips and lifestyle with us. I purchased a paint sprayer about 2 months ago and have yet to use it, but plan on doing so soon. I'm very excited to have the opportunity to work more quickly and efficiently. Thank you again, bless you both!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Awww thank you so much!!! That means so much that you’re following us on here and other channels. Sending you our love ❤️❤️

[@JeanoBunting]

Thank you again for such a great episode! I am inspired (again) to shuffle things in our home around 😂 thank you for sharing weighty issues too x glad you’re all healthy and well!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thanks for watching, friend! xo

[@TheGilbert48197]

Dear PJ and Thomas, I want to gave PJ a thank you for showing the home, PJ you are a master Carpenter, you have great creativity with wood, you have great talent, and Thomas you have great talent with home and having love for the kids and teaching them things, with both of you together make one with loving home.

[@Koshrocreations]

I haven't watched this channel in 2 years or so, so I'm very impressed to see you're parenting now. Good for you! Also, PJ's weirdness comes from him being a Gemini and he's looking good as ever.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Thank you so much friend! Welcome back!

[@cooneybrendon]

"I think the rabbits feel really safe and reassured now that we're not gunna hurt them" LMAO THIS VIDEO IS SO CUTE I LAUGH

[@cooneybrendon]

The flip house looks beautiful, how much ya looking for?

[@daveycody]

Yes ,that boy is very insightful and caring.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

HE IS SO CUTE OMG

[@daveycody]

@@ThePropertyLovers I wonder where he gets it from.......Tom?

[@jeffsmith8110]

I would like to share a little of my past experience with "weight loss problems". Time was back in the mid 1980s, when I was in my early 20s, there was hardly anything to me for a while. The main contributing factor was the job I had at the time. It was housekeeping, cleaning hotel rooms and men burn more calories doing that than women. We were allowed only so much time to a room and the constant "go-go-go" skyrocketed my metabolism so basically I looked like I had just "melted away to nothing". That's also one of the lowest paying occupations there was so I didn't get paid enough to be afford to eat as much as I wanted. I had mono once during that time frame and even the doctors were baffled as to why I had lost so much weight. I still say it was my job. Thomas took the words right out of my mouth about comments about it and how they affect people. I couldn't go anywhere or see anyone without hearing about it and that did have a very negative effect on my mental health and it continued for several years. Now I'm in my late 50s and have a decent amount of weight on me. I would rather not have an access belly, but because of all I had to shoulder in the past I think, "I either don't loose it, or I'll hear about it and I won't like it!" People too often aren't mindful with what they say words do have power.

[@ericelwell2392]

Thank you for your comments about weight. I fear so many young adults are traumatized by comments on their social feeds. You both look great - but most of all, what you are doing for those kiddos is the most attractive. Bravo.

[@jonathandunn7576]

Hi PJ and Thomas. You ALL look fabulous. The holiday (Fall) decorations are simply MARVELOUS!! Thank you (as always) for sharing the beautiful scenes of the Tennessee countryside and its beautiful sky. You captured some pretty impressive sundowns. The renovations of the homes are quite impressive. HGTV should have kept you onboard. Wishing you all happiness and good health from across the miles here in New York City. Regards to ALL. Best always, Jonathan

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww Jonathan thank you!! and we received your email and will be responding shortly :) hope y'all are well xoxo

[@JoaquinGonzalezSmilingalways]

Thank you for sharing this with us. Much love to you all, always. ❤️🌈🤗

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thanks for watching, Joaquin ❤️

[@frankgyori2740]

If that rug is very old or if it is hand tied, it should have a rug 'mat ('???) under it. If it stays close to a window, it should be turned at least twice a year. Don't go too many years before having it cleaned...

[@ThePropertyLovers]

ahh thank you for the tips!!! will implement! xx

[@Js2Jo]

PJ and Thomas, I love one of your videos at your house in Tennessee on this video during your quarantine until you're both busy painting one of the houses from outside while you're both taking care of your foster kids, lost so much weight and you're both talking about everything after that, but I wanna say I'm very happy for you, guys, I know you're both foster dads to your foster kids, right now, so it was my birthday last Wednesday and I'm 31 years old, but you're 30 and 35, now!!!

[@tampazeke4587]

I can really relate to your statement about how comments about weight can really be hurtful. I, like PJ, always had a very active metabolism. It was such a struggle to put on and maintain weight. As a skinny, gay man who came out in the late 80's and early 90's, at the height of the AIDS crises, you can only imagine the comments that gay and straight people made to me all the time. Sometimes people were genuinely concerned but it still felt so intrusive and inappropriate. As problematic as it was for me I could only feel compassion for people who actually had AIDS and had to deal with people constantly asking them inappropriate questions and making hurtful comments. We really must be more mindful. Now I'm in my 50's and have no problem gaining or maintaining weight. There's got to be a happy medium!

[@Starrgazed]

THE SWEETEST CHILDREN. JOB WELL DONE GUYS 💖

[@nielcapasso3833]

PJ is such a handyman and accomplishes all these great feats in house fliping

[@eirishemd]

Thomas I love your comments regarding people’s appearance. I have a family member who always greets me with a comment about my weight as if that is the most important thing rather than greeting me. It is very demeaning to be treated as if my appearance is the most important thing instead of me. Thanks for reminding people to be kind. Great vlog. Cottage looks awesome Hugs

[@ThePropertyLovers]

oh Elaine I know that must be hard :( it's all superficial. sending love to you!! xoxo

[@York22]

Pj looks fine to me. He has an amazing physique and your an adorable couple. The kids are so lucky to have such amazing dads.

[@paulybarr]

No, of course "it's not this cold back at home", Thomas; open country is always colder than built- up areas; concrete and asphalt and wood and tiles from houses and roads not only absorb the day's heat but then release it later in the day, so making towns and cities warmer than pastureland, which doesn't. Love your vlogs.

[@CassDunham]

Can we get an update on where the kids are in their fostering process? Are they still going to eventually go back to their parents or family?

[@ThePropertyLovers]

hi friend, thanks for asking. we can't reveal much right now, but they are with us for the foreseeable future 🥰

[@CassDunham]

@@ThePropertyLovers 🥰🥰🥰

[@onnoalink6694]

I can imagine it can feel awkward when people say things about PJ’s weight loss. But I think this is also the result of how you present yourselves and especially PJ. He walks around shirtless, most of the time, so you see he is losing weight. Then there is his anxiety, which PJ has talked about before and makes PJ act sometimes unexpectedly weird. One notices. People also focus on PJ all the time is because most, or all attention goes to PJ, as Thomas is usually filming. PJ always gets compliments, PJ is in the center, and although he is a great and energetic guy, I think Thomas deserves to be put in the spotlights too. That way not all the focus is on PJ.

[@mandalay1000]

Miss you guys. Hope everything is ok with you and the kiddos. Hugs from a swedish fan.

[@siddhkankaria1029]

The flip house looks soo good.... The hard work pays off.... Great work guys

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you Siddh!!xx

[@patricksantini4090]

Just watched your most amazing video.. What a great way for me to relax on a Tuesday evening.. I wish we were getting your cooler Fall weather in Southern California.. We have yet another Heatwave in coming tomorrow.. I'm a Fall and Winter person, so I love cold weather.. The cottage looks so amazing.. And I love The Fall decor at the main home.. PJ the plants add such an inviting and earthy warm look to the living room.. You guys are hilarious too.. And Thomas, I really like what you said about the weight comments... Thank you gentlemen. Enjoy the rest of your week..

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank YOU Patrick for watching and giving us you feedback/thoughts. it means a lot!!! ❤️❤️ also, hoping (for your sake) y'all get some colder weather, soon!! xo

[@dawnegan3984]

Thomas having. fun with kids love it the decorations you have put a lot into making it looking good its good to see you all again was that little brother saying that we are good people speach

[@ThePropertyLovers]

wasn't that the cutest? thank you sweet Dawn xoxoxo

[@bryanmcnulty899]

That was a well made and very beautiful video VLOG !!!! I turned 59 years old in May and I graduated from High School on 06-13-1980 to which in my utter belief was more than 40 years ago. I am a full generation older than the both of you and I do 100% agree with you Thomas with your comment of what you said on a weight of a person. Take it from this old man of 59, forty years ago and that time in 1980 ( I was 19 year old then) they were still talking about weight and that if a person did not fill the norms of being the perfect weight and did not look that filled the requirement looking good the way society wanted you to look, a person was rejected by society. For in 1980 I was one of those people and It is so sad that 40 years later that this is still case and the and the same norms of 40 years ago still apply of what our society still makes judgments on a person for what weight they are at and how they look. From my perspective, things have not changed at all. I strongly believe that a person should be solely judged on what is in a person and what is in his or her personality, how they care for the fellow human beings, also how they treat their fellow human beings, and what love and compassion they have to offer to our society. A person should not be judged solely by their weight and the way they look. A person should solely be judged on what they contribute to society by their treatment of their fellow human beings , the caring and compassion that person has to offer to the human race, and how they make our society better. From the bottom of my heart, I want to say thank you Thomas for bringing this subject up for discussion for it can bring a positive way of thinking and bring change to our society of the standards on which we all judge people. I send my best to you both, your three children, and to both of your families. Your friend Bryan from San Lorenzo California.

[@dianahodges6034]

Loved this. Your videos are always so serene and lovely. Beautiful family ❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww thank you Diana!!! thanks for watching :)

[@thorium222]

I am not a regular follower, I just clicked on two of your vids, that were filmed a couple of years apart and when you see PJ directly compared it is really worrying, so I totally get that you were getting comments about this. Glad he is ok.

[@sjpiran]

You guys are adorable. I LOVE Thomas’s longer hair, it’s beautiful. Keep it growing longer and longer. I love you guys 😍😍xx

[@kymadams3107]

All I have to say is: LOVE YOU GUYS ❤️❤️❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you for watching, sweet Kym!! xo

[@erte001]

This may have already been addressed, I just have not watched all the videos, but do y'all anticipate adopting all the kids someday? Also I have not made it to the weight loss part, but as long as your happy and everyone in your world is happy then, I'm happy watching. It's funny I don't really like small people, but watching you guys with the children and you love for each other gives me happiness.

[@davidwiseman7774]

Thomas, you are so right about people's comments on weight. As someone who has had weight issues all my life, i agree, but nonetheless I love it when people say I've lost weight, so it's complicated. The thing though is that because of how you present yourselves here, you become like family for many of us, we feel a real connection and people really care. I've never commented on PJ, but on Tyler & Todd's vlog, I did comment that Todd is getting skinny. They are doing really physical work living in the Forests of Nova Scotia and eating vegan (which I support as a vegetarian), but they are getting thin. I made a comment out of love and caring, and maybe I shouldn't have...

[@ThePropertyLovers]

it's always a complicated situation when it comes to weight :( xx

[@jaironascimentoneves8936]

Hello, I'm Jairo, I live in Brazil, not important for mean comments, people lose weight, this is normal, you are very well, your family is beautiful, may God bless you and protect you from any and all evil, big hug. Jairo