Little does he know, I wasn’t watching the Minecraft clip because I was playing video games while listening to the video
@someone090410 ай бұрын
that's literally what I was doing
@CJFreeza10 ай бұрын
That's what was amazing growing up in the 90s, playing games while the tv or radio played in the background. Good times.
@reke994210 ай бұрын
Dear Lord
@kiiidbot259410 ай бұрын
@@CJFreeza b-but, I was doing dat this morning after my duolingo lessons. watching a tubi movie called "the lawnmower man" dat shts good bro.
@keviinschannel10 ай бұрын
i was reading comments and looking for the next video to watch while listening to this one 😭😭 i’m addicted to being stimulated
@TopNotchPersona10 ай бұрын
The “boring” things are what ultimately lead to success and greatness. This is a great topic- definitely true. What seems fun is usually just distracting and not very fun.
@royidvir464810 ай бұрын
I feel that what's fun isn't even fun so much My solution is that I completely cut social media at a young age Now after the shorts I got back to it and trying to get out of this
@smelly106010 ай бұрын
Not necessarily
@holymeto998110 ай бұрын
What about skiing?
@chydra653810 ай бұрын
I definitely most agree. I'll let the the Atomic Habits quote: "I can guarantee that if you manage to start a habit and keep sticking to it, there will be days when you feel like quitting. When you start a business, there will be days when you don’t feel like showing up. When you’re at the gym, there will be sets that you don’t feel like finishing. When it’s time to write, there will be days that you don’t feel like typing. But stepping up when it’s annoying or painful or draining to do so, that’s what makes the difference between a professional and an amateur. Professionals stick to the schedule, amateurs let life get in the way. Professionals know what is important to them and work towards it with purpose, amateurs get pulled off course by the urgencies of life."
@Mohammed-dp9ym9 ай бұрын
except for college. it's boring and useless.
@XohjaiSbarkeater10 ай бұрын
The other day I realized I work harder than everyone because I'm so lazy and bored all the time. It was nice to love one of my flaws.
@quail.e20958 ай бұрын
I don’t think that’s a flaw my love
@rajanlad7 ай бұрын
And then you don't work at all. And then you work hard on topic that interested you or a deadline
@capital_pi5 ай бұрын
I feel the same, but I wish I knew why I'm feeling wrong. Like I was manipulated by capitalism or something like that. I'm not saying you're wrong, I just want to know how to not fell so much guilt to like work with something.
@civilgoodyАй бұрын
like fr. Not working is soo boring 😭 And I used to be a social media, tv shows and gaming addict.
@iBridgee10 ай бұрын
Turning boredom into productivity is a true skill.
@douglas.videos9 ай бұрын
If you cut distractions productivity become your default mode effortlessly
@vocartagmailcom9 ай бұрын
It even has a name. TORTURES:p
@cybilthe_savior6509 ай бұрын
Omg soo true, a lesson of gold @@douglas.videos
@somenuttysquirrel8 ай бұрын
I figured this out a few years ago- I quit social media entirely. I stopped playing videogames. I canceled my iPhone. My drawing/painting skills soared, and my brother and I produced five music videos... all within a span of only a few months. I can only wonder where I'd have been in life if I hadn't spent so many of my teen years, addicted to videogames.
@tdotitan88558 ай бұрын
@@somenuttysquirrel yeah its definitely easy to fall into the trap of doing something "easy" or "relaxing" instead of something "productive" but the issue is sometimes that if we focus on production constantly it gets to us. Obviously people always say to balance it but i think for some people, me included, balance is hard, and sometimes just turns to obsession. there is a price for everything and opportunity cost everywhere, you could say that if you spent your time drawing/painting you would have spent the time wishing you learned to code or something. who know if also it wasnt video games it was something else? something worse for you? The grass is always greener, and you have learned a lesson which is good. You made a choice and stuck with it and that is impressive. do what makes you happy.
@ItsJustMeJerk10 ай бұрын
It's worth noting that social media can actually be less fun than other, better activities. I often find myself bored out of my mind scrolling Reddit or KZbin and feel relieved when I go read or work out or whatever because it's more fun and a break from the monotony. Sometimes the thing keeping you scrolling isn't that it's actually more enjoyable, it's just that it holds your attention and doesn't let go. If you only think in terms of "mindless entertainment fun, purposeful growth boring" then you might not notice when a good habit is actually the most enjoyable.
@princetbug9 ай бұрын
Yeah, i think that's a pretty important note this video misses. Productive things can be fun, and they don't have to be the only interesting option to be so.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
Working out and reading both loser activities that are boring and pointless. Why would anyone wanna do that? Live a little!
@pandaBoxz9 ай бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ibpointless? I digress
@coerciasink9 ай бұрын
YES! I think that even though social media is not as "fun" like other high density fun stuff like sports etc. Social media is much more stimulating. Being stimulated and having fun are 2 different things.
@TheBananaJoint9 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@chefaku10 ай бұрын
One thing I noticed is that there are times when I am so saturated with "fun" that I can't find things that amuse me so I go to sleep and days later I am more motivated to do things that are not so fun.
@sujalthakkar21189 ай бұрын
the mind resets
@schmoferino9 ай бұрын
Shoot, good perception of that phenomenon. I have the same issue and kept wondering "why is the fun stuff getting boring?" It's not that the fun is gone. You're just used to this fun and it became the new boredom. Try giving yourself a break from games for a couple days and you'll feel refreshed when you come back. Cut down on easy stimulation like social medias.
@gaynzz68417 ай бұрын
based
@1SLMusic10 ай бұрын
This is exactly my own thinking. When I was younger, my parents barred me from screens and games because they thought boredom was good for me. It was. I wrote hundreds of lists, read thousands of books, and that screen time was a reward for myself when I finished my work. This is ultimately what discipline is built on: boredom and relief.
@Mdksupreme110 ай бұрын
You read thousands of books, how did you buy them all?, also how has this helped your career prospects?, do you have a great career?
@fluke110 ай бұрын
@@Mdksupreme1 ever hear of a library?
@M.Swigglez10 ай бұрын
@@Mdksupreme1pdf Books for iPhone or android, or library card for book apps which gives books for free.
@en23369 ай бұрын
LOL reading fiction books meant for fifth graders means NOTHING when you are an adult. source: read thousand of books as a kid. of course those were the fun books to read@@Mdksupreme1
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
@@fluke1 Ah yes that place for loser nerds that read instead of doing.
@bradparker71610 ай бұрын
I've been attempting to induce more boredom in my life for this reason but the concept of fun being relative is really eye opening and helpful, thanks!
@debrachambers130410 ай бұрын
I often feel most motivated to do work at night when I'm in bed, waiting to fall asleep, for this reason.
@VenomRoadRacing9 ай бұрын
When that happens I get up and do the work I feel like doing.
@mastertraps119 ай бұрын
@@VenomRoadRacing Same, and it usually turns out to be some of my best work
@VenomRoadRacing9 ай бұрын
@@mastertraps11 Sure beats using KZbin for distraction and then feeling guilty and dropping your self worth. Otherwise it's just crippling over thinking. Down the rabbit hole of nihilism and depression. Because we know full well if in that evening state we convince ourselves we will get to it the next day. We most likely won't. I see it as the failure to action has already happened. Hence we get that night time motivation. However I will say I get the daytime drive much more since I cut all social media and "friends". I get to focus on and pursue what I deem worth it. Without others questions/ societal judgement. Chase what drives you folks. Internal validation is everything.
@chordscapepiano21 күн бұрын
Is that the psychology behind it wow
@PaladinLeeroy4206910 ай бұрын
"We have reached the pinnacle of stimulation" Nueralink: 👀
@therealscarhomie10 ай бұрын
Heroin: 👀
@kageman10 ай бұрын
@@therealscarhomie😭🤣🤣
@disciplinedev10 ай бұрын
neuralink+ heroin+ p0rn 👀 @@therealscarhomie
@Azlare9_99 ай бұрын
literally what I was thinking@@therealscarhomie
@amoththatthinks9 ай бұрын
@@therealscarhomiecornography
@youneverknow12982 ай бұрын
if u want to succeed in any part of your life, just read the book called escape the comfort cage, it really helped me
@trevorfranks69Ай бұрын
Ok bot
@youneverknow1298Ай бұрын
@@trevorfranks69 youre welcome idiot
@indoorroamerАй бұрын
Nice try diddy
@3hustle18 сағат бұрын
books are stimulating too
@vuankhanhbeo13 сағат бұрын
Did you success in your life tho?
@paeden54319 ай бұрын
Nice try Big Book Company
@oriehi_raphael_paul9 ай бұрын
😂
@rayakoth9 ай бұрын
The big book industrial complex
@tikkitaka21569 ай бұрын
Thanks bro, big book almost convinced me here 😮💨
@UnaiVillares-rz6um8 ай бұрын
Big book
@__random.person__7 ай бұрын
.
@elsdodo7 ай бұрын
That reminder not to click away from the clip caught me right when I was about to scroll down to the comments lmfao
@Itstwistedroots7 ай бұрын
Same
@meganreilly99446 ай бұрын
I've realized that I always scroll the comments during videos, and it proves the point of this video 😅
@grapekoolaid66849 ай бұрын
Dude I didn't even click on this video, it was in autoplay. However it was the exact video I needed. Over the last couple of years I have struggled too do the things I claim I want to do. I cant seem to get the important stuff out of the way, I instead settle for more instant gratification. I feel so distracted, things like my phone and videos games sometimes feel as though they are literally holding my head in place, not allowing me to look away. I had just gotten back from writing about how distracted I am when I stumbled upon this video. I don't know why this is what it took to finally commit to making a change, but please know that you helped at least one person in creating this video. Thank you.
@gaynzz68417 ай бұрын
we are addicted to dopamine
@Selrisitai6 ай бұрын
@@gaynzz6841 Dopamine makes us addicted to things, I believe is the truth of it.
@ericpratt98410 ай бұрын
Yeah, I can vouch for this. When you have social media & videogames, you're gonna find work boring. But when you get rid of those things, your brain is gonna make you want to work. It's more like a, "It's better to do something than to do nothing" kind of thing.
@maxirunpl10 ай бұрын
Exactly, that's why people in jail get ripped. Out of boredom
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
Nah work is always boring that's why its called work and not fun. Modern day slavery. Its supposed to suck nothing you can do to change that. No amount of coping will help long term.
@eliassmouni12459 ай бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4iband that is your perspective. Remember this comment you just made the next time you see someone living the life that you wish you lived
@fuckshit-wh4pd9 ай бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ib so making animations, drawing, composing music and doing all that art stuff that is called "work" is slavery? oh come fucking on, people enjoy doing this stuff, being productive is good, i think you're coping
@Drew.DrivesYT9 ай бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ib You're right, work is not supposed to be fun, but it does enable you to do things that _are_ fun. Or you could try coping less and work for yourself, nurturing your own business and watching it grow. Would that not be fun in some way? There are many ways to play the broken corrupted game called Life, it's how *you* choose to play it.
@lucwijngaard84139 ай бұрын
I have this with schoolwork lately, whenever you don't have anything to do you just do something useful
@LOLHAXGUN9 ай бұрын
exactly, like cleaning around the house, fixing stuff. but that gets boring, thats why we must train this capacity for boredom
@jumbomuffin90959 ай бұрын
Short, to the point, not overly stimulating.
@dj_timoy10 ай бұрын
I've been working on gamifying "boring" things to transition these habits into more fruitful results 🤔 but this is a great point, with regulating stimulation 💭
@avi.solanki6 ай бұрын
The magic you're looking for lies in the work you're avoiding
@Alonso_Cid10 ай бұрын
I did this strategy a couple of months ago and it was amazing. I have fall into YT again, I need to re-bore myself again.
@JK-fw4ph5 ай бұрын
You got this man! Just put your phone in another room or turn it off and put it under your pillow.
@Alonso_Cid5 ай бұрын
@@JK-fw4ph That's a great strategy, I will try thanks.
@LeoNux-um7tg9 ай бұрын
I tell you I'm the most bored person in the world, I isolated myself from people for a year now. It still feel unfulfilling and unproductive not because I still use artificial stimulation but because I don't really know what my ambitions are. So one of the most important part to become productive while bored is to have a goal in mind, it should be a lifelong journey goal so there will be no ending.
@berkelahi9 ай бұрын
same
@karimitickaeloogreattemlor34868 ай бұрын
I'm curious, what brought you to isolating yourself from people for a full year?🤔
@jorgeperez28725 ай бұрын
Maybe you have fear of seeking something you value because of what other people would say about you. Has happened to me, takes some convicing to not stop because others could potentially critizice what i do.
@abigailbeth44612 ай бұрын
Honestly if you want a goal for now, that would (in the long run) definitely be fulfilling, try out different ways to help others. Humans, animals, plants whatever. Then if you have the stress of the goal gone, through it you can find other goals. And if there are blockages for you in helping others, your goal for now could be healing certain parts of yourself. For me I suppose my lifelong goal is becoming the most authentic, healed version of myself and the goal I'm growing towards is trying to help people in my own way (figuring out how I want to do it). If your goal is to heal as much of yourself as you can, you get to experience one of the most beautiful parts of life, becoming your true self yourself. For me, the more I heal, the more opportunities for joy have come to me. I hope you find what you need
@RealBoiJareАй бұрын
Sounds like terrible decision to make. But hey, what do I know
@fatmonkey179 ай бұрын
i legit had just touched my mouse to scroll away and that's when that text popped @3:22 lmao
@you_rules9 ай бұрын
- In a world saturated with endless stimulation from platforms like KZbin and social media, our brains constantly seek novelty, leading to a perpetual cycle of distraction. - To be productive, it's essential to prioritize less stimulating tasks like studying or exercising over endless distractions. - Embracing boredom can lead to surprising benefits, as seen in the speaker's personal experience of finding fulfillment and progress in previously mundane activities. - Lowering our stimulation baseline by embracing boredom can help us concentrate better and find fulfillment in daily tasks. - Overcoming the addiction to constant stimulation requires actively reshaping our habits and embracing the power of boredom, ultimately leading to greater productivity and fulfillment.
@tx73009 ай бұрын
wow thanks chatGPT for making an already short and stimulating video about the dangers of modern society, technology, the stimuli overload, and increasingly short attention spans even shorter!
@winmillion9 ай бұрын
@@tx7300 either its chatgpt or chatgpt writes exactly like this guy, which is hilarious in its own way
@itay313909 ай бұрын
Kind of Ironic to summarize a video like this - the summary is like TL;DR for a video, for people without the patience/concentration to see it all, because their already overstimulated brain can't handle 4 and half minutes of speech
@you_rules9 ай бұрын
@@itay31390 true
@dog3609 ай бұрын
Wow your so cool for using ChatGPT
@Martinabis9 ай бұрын
Boredom is the mother of creativity. Loved the script, you're a great writer!!! Subscribed
@axelcole35709 ай бұрын
Patience is a virtue and while I've known this for a while I haven't done anything to achieve patience Its always been a afterthought of annoyance and impatience while doing mundane things. This video has reminded me of when I had more patience for the little things in life, waiting for things like trains or in lines, even listening to people talking. This video is a gateway to self betterment like no other. A truly amazing addition to the wasteland that is video making in todays age. Thank you.
@sxythextr2 ай бұрын
i love your editing style it has such a subtle hint of not having those crazy animations that keep people hooked hell not even motion blur on text movements intentional or not it forces me to focus on what you're saying rather than watching the fancy movements on screen that most creators use,which is not wrong but here i like that subtle nod to how fuqed our attention spans are.
@tropicalboy980310 ай бұрын
thank you for making this, i've been trying to achieve this and it's nice too see someone put it into words. work doesn't need to be "work" as long as u can change your mindset :)
@erikzarts9 ай бұрын
I agree with this video half and half. I think a good middle ground between being overly "productive" to the point of seeming robotic and uninteresting is to instead set out to consume with intention. Nothing is inherently bad. It's the reason we choose to interact with something that indicates if it becomes unhealthy or not.
@hugset456210 ай бұрын
I just discovered by this video that the things that are most fun to me are what I actually dream of doing by the work I'm not doing because of boredom. Now I have the clear objective that I've been trying to discover my whole life! You are amazing!
@challi51099 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful video. Just did that 'fun' vs 'less stimulating' list, and crossing out the fun list you really see that the less stimulating activities look really exciting all of a sudden!
@WalYT10 ай бұрын
This video isn't gonna be what switches my life to where I want it to be, but I definitely took some things of note from it, gonna try to apply a bit of it to my life. Great vid
@sheriberrie9 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this so readily available for everyone!
@henryindia81959 ай бұрын
Short and to the point. This video is the key to a fulfilling life
@OneWingedRose7 күн бұрын
It's exactly what I've been thinking about my life these past few months. Fun to find a video talking about it. I think if you want to accomplish things, the worst thing you can do is eliminate boredom from your life, and that's exactly what modern society desperately tries to do for us. Fun 2000 year old quote use also! I've heard that one before at some point but hearing it again in this context is a big "oh yeah!" moment lol.
@narbwow81686 ай бұрын
Another interesting way to think about it: it's easy to stand out today because all of your competition is mindlessly distracted on KZbin, TikTok, Insta, etc. Break free of this and you're already probably going to be in the top 10% of whatever you pursue.
@llamaland95919 ай бұрын
Ironically, I appreciate you making this video concise, and therefore more stimulating, so I can digest the information best!
@deadpaul658710 ай бұрын
My struggle when attempting to remove stimulating activities, is that I simply have so little motivation to do anything at all that I'd rather sleep than be productive. I literally sit there trying my hardest to something useful and I can't, I feel such a huge urge to just give up and lie down it makes me feel so tired. The only way this doesn't happen is if I'm not home, but there's so many things that simply have to be done at home.
@michaelamponsah435210 ай бұрын
Could be dehydration or even diet!
@Viviified10 ай бұрын
Could be depression
@maxirunpl10 ай бұрын
Could be bad sleeping habits, like Oversleeping Not sleeping enough Not having the same waking and going to bed hours every night
@marisophi.019 ай бұрын
Also consider ADHD
@deadpaul65879 ай бұрын
@@marisophi.01 i definitely have adhd lmao
@StaticSky10 күн бұрын
Great video & script! It reminded me of a saying I heard a couple years back; it went along the lines of “Having the capacity to be bored will grant you the capacity to be productive”
@justOne5037 ай бұрын
You are the 5. youtuber today who told me how to do thinks. Everyone else try to sell me there idea, but you are the first one who told me. It helped me, thanks.
@sylnz97Ай бұрын
0:29 ooook you got me
@estebandmeza9 ай бұрын
This was very quality content that showed up at the perfect time. I needed this. Thank you.
@overwatchtheater81659 ай бұрын
Ok i agree with essentially everything here, but one thing that needs to be specified here is the type of video game. Multiplayer/online games are 95% of the time a waste of time/brainrot (unless ur genuinely bonding with a buddy and it isnt daily), but some games are genuinely eye opening and meaningful. For example, the two latest God of War games (the Norse ones) really taught me a lot about what it means to be a dad since my own father neglected me my entire life. I feel like it really taught me a lot, more than my dad ever did. There are many games like this in the modern day. But I also think it's important to have the occasional mindless activity to give your brain a rest. Maybe an hour or two per day max. I think if you spend your whole life on some kind of sigma male grindset, you'll just end up burned out and exhausted. That's what I experienced in early college. I'd come home after several hours of school, study Japanese for a few hours, and then go to bed having never had a chance to unwind at all. I couldn't take it anymore. Nowadays my study habits are much more healthy and more restrained, while still making progress. Get off social media and p*rn as much as possible (100% off over time) and that will already create massive results. Taking it any further is overdoing it imo.
@Stormbringer815 ай бұрын
This is a great video and a different way of looking into the idea of "dopamine reset". I have to always remind myself of simple stuff like this. It seems like it is always so easy to just fall back into my old habits, which were for the first 25 yrs of my life. I'm 33 now. It's hard to dig yourself out of such a hole. Sometimes you don't feel like you're getting anywhere because each day is such a tremendous challenge. But, I am certainly no longer that person who spent his life wastefully. I have made tremendous changes. And if you're moving forward like anyone should be, you will know because certain tweaks in your everyday life will have suddenly shifted. Your perspective truly can change and your brain can change. You just have to keep going and never give up, as cliche as it sounds.
@thezucc24789 ай бұрын
I was so called out at 0:30 😭😭
@goldengriffon2 ай бұрын
I love your videos! Not only are they well done, but they're to-the-point and don't waste my time. Thank you!
@daniel.d.villalobos6 ай бұрын
And this is what I call "dopamine redirection". Good video, man!
@osivisuals9 ай бұрын
Not going to lie. watching this really made me analyze my life.. and I can honestly say I can't remember a time I was truly bored out of my mind. the fun things like scrolling social media, makes up wayyy too much of my day to the point I could never be truly bored. So, for the month of April, I'm going to try out this method in this video! See if i can accomplish some goals. Thanks For This. GREAT VIDEO!
@TheRealSavi9 ай бұрын
when i was a freshman in high school, my parents got a divorce. My dad was too broke to afford internet, or a phone plan with data. I had an iphone like everyone else, and a gaming computer at my mom’s. But with 50% of my custody spent at my dad’s house, I was forced to live the proper life. No social media. No youtube. No distractions. I continued to spend time outdoors well into my high school years. I learned to solve a rubik’s cube by writing down the steps at my moms and practicing them at my dads. I practiced doing nothing at all just sitting and thinking. I learned to program by bringing a laptop over and writing code. With no internet access, my mind was free. All the little things in life were meaningful and fulfilling. I loved cleaning my bedroom, organizing my clothes by style and color was fulfillingly fun. My upbringing gave me the ability to decide to that I was going to do something boring and do it with 100% concentration. And with days being spent like this, I can do medial tasks for hours, without any distractions. Love my dad for giving me the best childhood i could have, one that protected me from the brain numbing of the internet, while keeping me still in touch with technology at my moms
@konradrose17937 ай бұрын
that's a nice story
@sd.sophie63377 ай бұрын
What a beautiful outlook on life. Many people dwell on the negative effects of divorce, which though much of it is completely valid, basking in bitterness is only going to hurt a victim more. Experiences like yours shape us in ways we can’t imagine and I’m so glad you made the absolute most of it!
@jorgeperez28725 ай бұрын
One question tho. Do you actually enjoy programming?
@ZacHawkins424 ай бұрын
Your dad was broke because the court was forcing him to give the majority of his money to themselves and your mother to stay out of jail.
@cringeneer5490Ай бұрын
@@jorgeperez2872When you understand it, it can be pretty fun! And looking at the end result is always satisfying. You just have to start small and learn the basics before doing more complicated tasks
@pakki65559 ай бұрын
You just made me figure out what's been keeping me from going to bed early. You've also given me a reason to start training my brain each night with boredom. Thank you very much 🙏🏽
@thejadeflame84299 ай бұрын
On God. Just remember that changing habits like that is much easier said then done. (At least for me 😢)
@CdCrav979 ай бұрын
Conflicting. Does not speak to or for the ADD and sensory seeking crowd, however, there may be still some wisdom to glean. Stimulation is a tool to wield mindfully, and some need it more than others. It is not something to shame yourself or others for, nor demonize it and abstain completely. To exist is to feel, and there are a great many ways of feeling. We are all different and isn't that wonderful and how hasty it would be to blanket all of us to one approach.
@moresnackspls9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. After watching the video I was conflicted but your comment validated some of my feelings.
@TheCSJones8 ай бұрын
For my ADHD, Ritalin was a prerequisite for being able to make use of boredom. The longer I'm on it, the less desire I *naturally* have to fuck around on socials. (I still do it sometimes though, hence my stopping to make this comment.) People who are neurotypical but whose boredom threshold is on the floor from too much overstimulation, or people with ADHD for who medication isn't enough, will have to intentionally train themselves to live this way, though.
@aryamaanmerchant3967 ай бұрын
I have raging ADHD since i was 2. i am 23 right now, and still haven't gotten rid of it completely, but nevertheless imo the videos applies to ADD and ADHD people EVEN MORE SO since we are more prone to seeking stimulation. i mean who needs to diet more? the person who is fit and doesn't like eating or the raging obese person with a pizza addiction?
@Time_Limit9 ай бұрын
God Bless you for making this video. This is what I needed!
@stokedfool8 ай бұрын
"We always feel like we don't have enough time. But actually we just don't have enough concentration." bold claim.
@ErickHiuyrFelixTeixeira9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your ideas with me ! I appreciate it because now I can change the way I approach writing. I've noticed that reading, which used to be a tedious task, has become a daily habit since I started doing it whenever I had free time. However, I'm still struggling to find motivation for writing. You gave me an interesting idea to tackle this issue - I will restrict my reading habit to help me become bored again, and then add writing to my routine. By cutting off my old habit and reintegrating it later, I believe I can make writing enjoyable. I think this approach will help me incorporate a new habit into my routine and will be easily applicable in my life.
@Lqvy110 ай бұрын
Someone who has some realizations that made me make the decision a year and a half ago to delete all social media, start meditating, start caring about my health, and more recently stop video games. Changing how you respond to boredom works. I love reading psychology, philosophy, and anything educating, I'm fine with work (though being a wage slave will forever suck), and I love myself and being by myself. But it's not that simple, I have found myself detached from others. Others talk about this trend, that trend, these videos, those videos, etc. because everyone is so addicted to dopamine hits that these give them that I can't even communicate with them anymore unless it's a deep conversation. Deep conversations are more rare than they should be because it takes trust, this forces your circle to be small. On top of the social things you now have to resort to news sources if you wish to stay up to date with the world. Bias news is everywhere. I recommend 3 sources, Al Jazeera, Reuters, and AP News. Fact check everything you read even though these are relatively unbiased. For those of you who go down this path, you will be more alone but not lonely, be prepared. Anyone who sees this with any questions, I am an open book about anything.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
there is no such thing as dopamine addiction. Only drug addiction. Stop thinking this pseudo science bs ples you'll hurt yourself.
@nexum16769 ай бұрын
thank you so much for addressing the loneliness issue, Ive quit social media almost entirely and its hard to relate to others sometimes.
@Lqvy19 ай бұрын
@@nexum1676 And yet you just related to me. The internet is a beautiful place. Personally, I’ve gotten to know family better when possible. Limited interactions have a gravity to them now. I want to have genuine conversation each conversation, which makes me more attentive and listening good etc. All those friendly gestures people like are natural. Cheers internet wanderer!
@KhushSuvarna5 сағат бұрын
What a brilliant explanation about boredom this really inspires me to embrace boredom
@theguywholurksonyoutube703310 ай бұрын
I sense this channel will grow even faster in the upcoming days you earned my sub brother
@theodxs7 ай бұрын
That was the video I needed, thank you so much!
@rutvikg176610 ай бұрын
That subtext you added in that clip to NOT click away actually stopped me 😂. Good job man. Great video.
@AshCinis9 ай бұрын
That subtext is what made me click away to go to the comments lol.
@kc_malikАй бұрын
I've been stuck home with a back injury the past couple weeks, which basically means I'm confined to my bed, doing nothing but scrolling through my phone--despite the fact that I have a massive pile of unread books, plans for writing to get done and a desire to get back into my old hobby of drawing. That fact, combined with the information in your video really made me realize HOW addicted I am to stimulation and the instant dopamine that my phone/social media offers. I think my goal for the new year is to really try and kick this phone addiction. You for sure hit the nail on the head when you talked about everyone feeling like we never have enough time do to everything we want when the real problem is we don't have the attention span for it. Great video, really excited to check out the rest of your channel! :D
@AlexWa10 ай бұрын
One tip I heard was sort of induce that change in the hierarchy is to simply stare at a blank wall. That will initiate some boredom, which will make the important things like studying/learning/going after goals more fun.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
"going after goals" god that sounds cringe. Can't believe people still believe this self improvement crap.
@Selrisitai6 ай бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ib I'm sure I'm misunderstanding. Are you saying that accomplishing things is not good?
@neonnoise9927Ай бұрын
bold move to have a youtube channel with a video that concludes with me telling myself to watch less youtube. Thank you for being invested more in humanity than making a product!
@konsti_art10 ай бұрын
Actually, I'd say that certain video games are also valuable entertainment that don't overstimulate you. Of course, many, or even most of the big AAA games and repetetive Battle Royales and Shooters are comparable to sources of shallow entertainment like TikTok and such, but games that require you to actually think and and focus on them to actually make progress in them, or slow games that just let you relax are really rewarding and, at least in my case, caused me to be more productive afterwards. My go-to games that don't overstimulate or distract me are Celeste and Minecraft most of the time, because Celeste, especially when it comes to the B and C-Side levels, is extremely difficult which forces you to put effort into it to progress, and once you do it feels extremely rewarding. With Minecraft, my approach is to take it slow instead of rushing the game, and just trying to build a good looking house or something similar, which at the end is also really rewarding, because you managed to make something of your own that you like. Having those small hits of dopamine that you put effort in to get causes, at least in my experience, a kinda chain reaction that makes you to want to do more things that take time and effort, because your brain has experienced what it feels like to succeed at something hard or slightly slow/broing and is ready to do the same with something even less fun. Also, playing a few games here and there feeds your creativity, which helps with getting ideas to get things done and with your productivity as a whole.
@user-ow7wn9mb5b10 ай бұрын
league is a pretty good game for that
@vitor_mag10 ай бұрын
wtf, league is the most addictive and frustrating game at the same time @@user-ow7wn9mb5b
@ThaJay9 ай бұрын
@@user-ow7wn9mb5b League can be used as a hobby, but it can also easily be used for exorbitant escapism and does trigger addiction mechanics. It's like drugs, if you're conscious about your use something can be a benefit but if you're not very careful it can easily turn sour and give the opposite of what you want.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
Nothing is overstimulating you except drugs. Anything outside of directly changing your brain chemistry by putting things into your body ain't gonna ever over stimualate you. Its complete made up nonsense by internet self professed gurus who make content on young naive fools believing them.
@Cobalt_119 ай бұрын
Yeah it's always been the hardest thing to balance. Video games are the equivalent of art to me. The stories, music, worlds, and characters are better than in any other media form and at the end of the day it's a lot of fun. I'm still working on finding a balance, though. It needs to be a reward, not the first thing I jump towards when I'm bored or don't wanna do the boring stuff that aligns with my goals.
@perfectionwd418910 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. It will help a lot of people. I followed your for that. I actually started this journey (it was my own idea back then) in the beginning of 2024. I just thought to myself (If I have absolutely nothing to do, I will read a book because its better than doing nothing). So I crossed out video games. And damn I am so much more productive. Its hard a few months but no i absolutely resent video games. Until like one week ago i watched Series when going to bed only. But now im getting rid of that. The thought of being that person that is just happy in solitude, being able to read and meditate, is just so calming.
@specterman60310 ай бұрын
Earned my sub, please dont lose ur genuine advice and switch to ones that sound good and inticing like meny sadly do
@BetterApe10 ай бұрын
I try my best, once you spot me making this mistake, please leave a critical comment.
@specterman60310 ай бұрын
👍
@mr.atomictitan99389 ай бұрын
God knows how many videos I had to watch in order to finally get to this video. This is definitely a great video thanks man.
@HNblaz10 ай бұрын
As a guy who stopped every social medias except KZbin (not Shorts) and Discord, it crashed my journey as an artist on the Internet, but I've never been as productive and happy as ever
@KenoNoir7 ай бұрын
Just want to say thank you for providing a fulfilling and informational video without dragging it on for 30-60 minutes like so many KZbinrs nowadays
@EchoYoutube10 ай бұрын
Here’s a thought: If you were being productive and enjoying where you are in life, you wouldn’t be watching this. If you choose a goal, and separate everything in your life bluntly that doesn’t help your life improve.. you’ll hate it, but love it later. It’s like laughing at a dumb thing you did as a little kid. Try just unplugging everything instead of turning things off, and maybe even be as blunt as to unplug your wifi or turn it off in settings. Problems aren’t problems, as they actually could be new missions and adventures to tackle. It’s hard, but step one is to ultimately change your environment. I even slept on hard floor for a while so it wasn’t as comfortable when I got up in the morning and I’d just stay slumped while already awake. Even putting your devices in another room before bed will force you to get up to go get it when you want it. As long as you have a general basic goal of what you want to do to improve life, and you can get comfortable with the monotonous feeling of doing it as your only source of stimulation like this guy is saying.. you’ll appreciate and outright experience more in your craft as you enter the flow state. The flow state is when boring transitions to enjoyment, satisfaction, and fluid-like movement all at the same time.
@Limeffs10 ай бұрын
I needed that, mate. best wishes for all that's ahead for you.
@EchoYoutube9 ай бұрын
@@Limeffs Bro, make the best of your life. Bordem will make you see what’s truly important above all else homie, I believe in you dearly.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
Holy yapping. Its like religious preaching or some shit. Crazy mf's.
@BoogieDanBrown9 ай бұрын
This video perfectly articulated the feeling I’ve been having for the past couple weeks, really really loved it great content and keep it up!
@keeganhall47489 ай бұрын
I've gamified my grades in school. I have straight A's and love studying. This is coming from someone who squandered their 20's playing counter strike and just craving leisure.
@pizzamaker1237 ай бұрын
Great video! It is unbelievable on how some external attention-grabbing factors can make your life miserable, even when you control your impulses…
@calvincolton716510 ай бұрын
But does cutting out everything stimulating totally necessary? Isn’t there a balance we can have? Any advice on that?
@bobojenkins580510 ай бұрын
balance is another name for mediocrity. always someone who wants both in the name of 'balance' because they cant just do what needs to be done
@brownsongbird9 ай бұрын
@@bobojenkins5805 i disagree. I remember when I did my 200hr CYT and my cohort discussed the strict lifestyle of traditional yogis. I brought up that, for me, while I respect the ascetic lifestyle and practices - I don't believe that I exist in a human form to constantly be trying to escape it. I don't need to be in a constant meditative or astrally projecting space because the point of existing now, in my opinion, is to be here and present in all that right now has to offer. Sometimes, what life has to offer and what you want to experience is a highly stimulating videogame. Sometimes, it's a moment of meditative silence. Being too bored sounds like a waste of what could be enjoyed but being too stimulated is like gluttony and leads to also never being satisfied because there is never enough. Balance is the only real solution. And that's pretty much what the Buddha determined. And most people consider Buddha to be a very exceptional character in our history.
@BeefyBidoof9 ай бұрын
You can absolutely have balance. As with anything else, partake in moderation. Life is too short. You won't become obese eating a cupcake once in a while, just like you won't become a desensitized internet addict by watching a video or two in your downtime. Practice self control.
@Selrisitai6 ай бұрын
@@bobojenkins5805 To be fair, there often must be balance. You see, for instance, in movies and cartoons where the young hero is trained by the old mentor. He'll be pushed and pushed to breaking, but in reality, the human body needs actual rest. If we could push that hard and it would continually improve us, then a lot of us would actually be capable of accomplishing it: It's the fact that it requires intelligence and consideration that oftentimes makes it too difficult. For instance, if just eating _nothing at all_ were O.K., then I would be thin right now, but instead I have to be around food because I have to eat to continue living, so. . . it's way more difficult to lose weight. There are things that _shouldn't_ be balanced. For instance, you don't need to eat fruit or vegetables. Just protein, fat and, of course, water. But people who think they are reasonable will say, "You need a balanced diet!" No, you need a diet of meat, which has all the nutrients you need to be healthy, and no useless filler like vegetable starch or fructose from fruit. So you're not wrong, it's just a matter of what's being discussed.
@M0J0-RL2362 ай бұрын
@@bobojenkins5805Eh I mean you’re not expecting people to solve all their problems by throwing their phone out the window and disabling their wifi right? Don’t you see how balance would probably make some sense?
@lindyscolors12 күн бұрын
"...we don't have enough concentration." WOW. Powerful. Great video! :-)
@stars_pov10 ай бұрын
This is amazing advice and a great video, I’ve happily subscribed! But like many people, I can quit the scrolling and the over consumption, but I struggle to ever quit games because of the social aspect. I don’t ever get to speak to anyone outside of working remotely or friends on discord. I’ve completely quit gaming, socials and news in the past, and after a few months I was absolutely miserable because I missed being able to play with my friends in the evenings. Recently I’ve found that a good balance is waking up earlier, doing stuff I want to do before work (reading, coding) and after I’ve finished work and eaten, I let myself relax and play stuff for 4-6 hours, with an hour of “boring” stuff before bed, like reading or a little more coding. I’ve kept this up for two weeks now and it feels way less isolating than quitting games but I still feel like I’m making progress.
@alejandroc735710 ай бұрын
Yeah it seems like you really need to focus more on the social aspect of your life. After all we are communal creatures and we need each other.
@Uncommony7 ай бұрын
When you discover yourself and you passion it becomes fun. I get lost for days in my work I absolutely love it. Stay Uncommon!
@moorbilt7 ай бұрын
Here is title for ya: *"Exercise your judgement".* You are hungry, you need good food. Don't just eat anything you find off the side of the road no matter how edible.
@dvdonadelli9 ай бұрын
What an incredible video! Thanks for the message, it literally made me want to change my habits!
@FuzzyQue.8 ай бұрын
"you're looking at the minecraft clip instead of the unmoving text" yeah because i already read it
@adeebazadsheriff7 ай бұрын
Exactly! Are we suppose to just stare forever at the unmoving text which one will grasp & understand what it is within few seconds? SMH
@notlegoguy25117 ай бұрын
hes just trying to say that you're brain would rather watch the cool minecraft clip and not boring text which isnt a bad thing i dont think hes saying its bad
@Selrisitai6 ай бұрын
@@notlegoguy2511 I had the same "Because I already read it" reaction, but I think you're correct here. The point was not, "You _should be_ looking at the text, you dopamine-addled loser!" but rather he was just expressing an obvious truth: The brain prefers stimulating things to not-stimulating things.
@notlegoguy25116 ай бұрын
@@Selrisitai yeah, i think he was just trying to familiarize the viewer with that fact, its important for the lesson of the video.
@phantomflame06585 ай бұрын
@@Selrisitai I still think it's stupid since we've already processed the text wheras in the minecraft clip there is new information and something might happen (he misses a jump, or there will be a change in scenery, etc) and being direct to the viewer like that is just weird
@ninomtsituri9 ай бұрын
Absolutely true and agree, boredom gives us lots of energy and interest to do something more complicated, like work, study new things. Experienced on my own self. Wish you be bored sometimes too!
@PostTramatizedandStressedDemon10 ай бұрын
i feel like in matrix here 0:24
@JonahGreen9 ай бұрын
Wow that reminder not to click away called me out hahaha. This is such a great video.
@TheChocolateChiken9 ай бұрын
The quote at 2:53 shouldn’t say, “will never improve”. The original quote is still far more accurate. Capitalist society doesn’t mind if you improve at things, it minds if you revolt.
@oscarjenkins75059 ай бұрын
To add to this, social media, video games, and other stimulating things aren’t just out and out bad. They’re only bad if you’re addicted to them. If you’re using them instead of doing tasks that you should be doing, or instead of doing these less stimulating fun things. If you read a book or write for a couple of hours, there’s no reason not to play a video game afterwards. As long as it doesn’t become addictive and become a problem. In fact, there are many positives to social media, video games, and movies. Social interaction (even if only online), genuine enjoyment, emotion, education, etc. A great single player game is an amazing thing, and there’s no reason to remove that completely. The same goes for certain sides of social media and great movies.
@ZapatosVibes10 ай бұрын
"We have reached the pinnacle of stimulation" VR: Hold my beer.
@JustChill-zd4ib9 ай бұрын
Drugs are pinnacle of stimulation guy has no clue what he is on about.
@vergil26 ай бұрын
I always have these sparks of motivation to improve myself, like what im having while watching this video. I hope i can stick to this and actually improve myself, compared to the previous maybe 10 times ive tried. I dont really have a super specific goal except to become the type of person who is able to do these things
@demonsureiya929710 ай бұрын
Very true, I'm gonna take action now 💯
@AlluckyTV6 ай бұрын
thanks for keeping it short and to the point
@NukeBoyYT8 ай бұрын
2:13 tell that to the cancer kids
@DISTRICT95blabla5 ай бұрын
Holy sht 😂
@catiiyori11902 ай бұрын
ayo-
@nathansmith81875 ай бұрын
Occasionally I swear off social media and any other activity that doesn't have a "satiety point" like video games. Right after I started doing that I noticed those are the times when I'm most productive since my mind is still craving novelty and the only novelty I allow myself are doing things that happen to also be productive. I just wish it wasn't occasional and I could put myself in this mode all the time but social media and games are an addiction. Great video!
@Woodkin219 ай бұрын
People who say video games hold people back are using this as an escape goat. I’ve been playing video games since I can remember and I am about to graduate with a masters in healthcare administration.
@cherubin7th9 ай бұрын
So a pseudo master.
@StonexRanger9 ай бұрын
3:55 “you leave me alone for a day it’ll be the happiest day i had in awhile” idk why but for me that’s true. when i’m just alone i don’t play the game or anything. i just clean, workout, listen to music and do other productive stuff. and it’s so nice and peaceful
@alicexd7199 ай бұрын
What's the comic/art @ 1:05 ?
@zinv087 ай бұрын
Pretty sure this is Watchmen. The blue dude is Dr. Manhattan
@rodrigocoockiemonster446010 ай бұрын
I would rather try eating a live wasp than call stupid minecraft jumping videos stimulating, let alone the "pinnacle of stimulation".
@yuffies325610 ай бұрын
It’s not the videos themselves that are stimulating, but rather how they are used. Subway surfers and mc parkour gameplay are often used in shorts that aren’t related to the topic whatsoever (like Reddit stories). The stimulating videos are only used to keep a viewers attention and nothing else.
@allainrexescobilla-balon18609 ай бұрын
Man I love your videos, keep up the great work. Your awakening a lot of minds and setting them up for greatness
@ZodiusXx10 ай бұрын
"Hey addicts, have you tried not being an addict till you're so bored you do something else?" This is how you sound to me.
@Selrisitai6 ай бұрын
Not all of us are addicted. Many of us _just don't know what to do,_ or don't realize what's hurting us. It's like a lot of people in America are fat not because they're addicted to overeating, but because they don't know how much they're overeating, or how to regulate their intake. My brother is an example. The _instant_ he began to calculate his calories, he started losing weight, and went from 230lbs to 184lbs in the span of a few months. Now, it isn't working that well for me because I'm more addicted to overeating than he is, but the advice is still true, it just may require some extra help.
@adamwitiak70949 ай бұрын
I agree with this for the most part. I think that removing yourself from distractions like short-form video content is a good thing; I don't think that content brings me much good to my life. However, I would say to be careful in what you cut out of your life. You might stop doing something you actually love. You might have a favorite show; would you give that up to spend more time on work? Removing all forms of self-indulgence is masochistic. We are all human; we work ~and~ we rest. 4:15 I think the better line to define here is "Does this action fit the idea of who I want to be?" There's a lot of anti-social media sentiment right now, and for good reason. Still, it shouldn't make you refrain from the things you love.
@askjcs10 ай бұрын
Great video. Punchy and to the point. Love the video clips that you included, gives it that "don't just take my word for it." Thanks!
@lysdor50398 ай бұрын
Thx, thats just the thing i needed. You're a champ.
@t.m.241510 ай бұрын
TLDR: Punish yourself for your corporate overlords by cutting away everything that is fun in life.
@grayfilms875110 ай бұрын
you missed the point
@t.m.241510 ай бұрын
@@grayfilms8751 How did I miss it?
@h542110 ай бұрын
you missed the point
@amit_patel65410 ай бұрын
What if you work for yourself instead?
@t.m.241510 ай бұрын
@@amit_patel654 yes because that isn't the exeption genius