own EVERY ROOM you WALK INTO | confidence tips, empowerment, self love

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@joy-lopes 6 ай бұрын

As someone who's regularly out there at social events, I have come a long way. I used to have such a hard time at those - especially when in most cases i didnt know anyone. Ive read tons of books and materials that helped me and now being on the other side of that - a social butterfly I dare say - i can attest that these tips are legit. I'd even add that setting an intention before arriving at the venue is a good call. Even if your intention is to just have fun - or own the room. Define what you want and watch it happen. Im just back from one of those and my intention was to feel confident in my own skin and beautiful. I had ppl (women who were gorgeous themselves) walk across the room to tell me I looked beautiful. On the other hand, I saw how many women were so concerned about how they looked and stuck in comparison mode that their light was dimm, and all they were emanating was insecurity. Ive been there and it's sad. This is mostly amongst us women. I stopped to reflect on how we're all naturally sexy, especially when we are having fun (in our own energy). The ones that were not were the ones who were too concerned about outside opinions. My fellow women, it's time to rise. Male attention should not be our focus. Your hot girl friend is hot cause she feels good about herself, if we do, we're just as hot.

@ishitab4856 5 ай бұрын

Hey! thanks for this, do you have those books suggestions?

@joy-lopes 5 ай бұрын

@@ishitab4856 hey, for sure. Some of the most important ones were "Captivate" by Vanessa Van Edwards, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, and "Powerful and Feminine" by Rachel Gayne Groover. I hope it helps! 😊

@joy-lopes 5 ай бұрын

@@ishitab4856 hello there, for sure. The most impactful ones were: "Captivate" by Vanessa Van Edwards, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, and "Powerful and Feminine" by Rachel Jayne Groover. Enjoy! :)

@joy-lopes 5 ай бұрын

@@ishitab4856 I keep answering and the answers don't appear :'(((((

@mindsetwithjess 5 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this comment, how powerful! I completely agree with you, the mindset that you carry will allow you to glow 10x more than the clothes and makeup you put on. Confidence radiates from within and I am so happy my tips have helped you. I think setting an intention before the event is also an amazing tip to add! Thank you for sharing 🤍

@jordin333 Ай бұрын

Jess you ate with this one! 💗🫶🏽

@aibafofana2044 6 ай бұрын

you are so good in what you're doing, these tips are amazing and I will be using this for a event tommorrow. You are sharing value and I see that you will be growing as a big youtuber one day. Keep on going cuz you gained a subscriber!!

@mindsetwithjess 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words! I appreciate it so much 🤍

@learnenglishwithnootandeep6198 5 ай бұрын

Amazing.. thank u for this video❤❤

@AnsinnChaudhary 5 ай бұрын

You have such a amazing energy ❤❤❤

@Dmj007 6 ай бұрын

I literally just found your account and LOVEE your content! Thank you for the good vibes on this Friday!🥰💕

@mindsetwithjess 6 ай бұрын

I'm so happy you found me! Thank you 🩷

@monica.cruz333 6 ай бұрын

this gives me a lot of elle woods vibes and i love it so so much, thank u for these tips

@Gno-oq6dm 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video it is so helpful

@Tessybriggs 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing you are such a great mentor

@dayz_89 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video girl! New follower here and I’ve always struggled with insecurities

@AnggiSahamCantik 5 ай бұрын

Don't look at my calculator and pretend you're on the call 😅 I was LOL! 😂

@solace-bambi 6 ай бұрын

love you, watching from Malaysia xo

@MililZuzu 6 ай бұрын

You are wise girl

@mindsetwithjess 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@natalierdzg 6 ай бұрын

luv, luv, luv the amazing advice! keep up the good work bc u just earned a new subscriber

@Chimchim-y3i 5 ай бұрын

Hyping oneself is an easy task but so difficult for self doubting people like me. At first I start with positive things but it changes to negative ones in my mind. How to change that ?

@mindsetwithjess 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability in this comment, this feeling is completely normal and we can fix this. Forming the habit of reminding yourself of the things you love about yourself each day is going to day by day allow you to substitute the negative thoughts with better ones. When a negative thought comes up, observe it but do not claim it, replace it with a better thought each time.

@vhinndelacruz 6 ай бұрын

Love your content! new subscriber here!

@Lucy-xw4st 6 ай бұрын

Okay but what If you have a day that just ist a No day and you feel Just Bad lol ?

@Besa_Rollergirl 5 ай бұрын

Yeah for example just before my menstruation I just wan’t to be seen by nobody😂 ladies don’t put too much pressure on yourself and learn to live in harmony with your feminine cycle. Have a good estime of yourself and don’t be obsessed with being confident every time and everywhere you go🫶🏻

@mindsetwithjess 5 ай бұрын

Definitely listen to your body and lean into this feeling! Have a "no" day or a rest day is actually very healthy and normal. Deal with it the best way that you know will be right for you and when you are ready get back into your daily habits of good feelings and emotions.