Laci and Vidal: Will the Real Vidal Please Stand Up? | Family or Fiance S2 E16 | Full Episode | OWN

A groom desperately wishes to impress his bride's wealthy parents and prove he will be a suitable husband. His desire for acceptance has left her mother and father completely underwhelmed and worried for their daughter's choice of a spouse. (Original air date: November 13, 2021)
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[@bridgetteperkins6361]

Mom has a nasty attitude

[@leichaurellelux7547]

It was not nasty that woman was straight up it was the groom who switched up and LIED. Glad he man up 😊

[@phatbabyk]

She definitely had a nasty attitude and disposition and I’m a mother of a two males and a female sooo having grown children you can voice/address your opinion & feelings without being nasty and rude with your words and disposition! As a black woman and mom that was distasteful and snooty.

[@wandabryant1275]

Her mom should she's angry that she is not attractive at all

[@LeshaFBaby]

She is when I seen the haircut nd nose in the air I knew what we was working with

[@PDOT1990]

I disagree she was pretty calm, just raised her concerns, wasn't rude about anything like that. I do think they should waited just a bit maybe though

[@bridgetteperkins6361]

This is a prime example of parents with too much input..

[@NikkiRich174]

LITERALLY

[@toschajeffries8833]

Yes...I would be happy to have him as a son-in-law you can tell that he loves their daughter and him being fake the man is trying to live up too their standards.

[@helena3631]

She dating a ADOSan doesn’t she know he’s a descendant of slaves and we have a negative net worth because we haven’t been made whole by reparations… she seems like she living a fantasy life the average blacks person has no money she even said she likes to use credit cards that tells me she don’t have it like that and her parents appear to be boomers so they might be work 300lbs it’s thier house included and about 50k liquid .. thiers no upperclass black people we have been sold a lie by celebs your net worth is all your debt minus ur assets 10/10 she’s living above her means

[@IveyleagueOfMyOwn]

Waaaaay too much

[@batteriesnotincluded4715]

Wasn't the parents INVITED & ASKED for their opinions?

[@JazzyMae7]

whose's watching this with me!! this show makes me value and love myself .... you cant have a significant other, if you don't have respect for yourself.

[@Anillll2004]

Word

[@robinwaley6850]

I AM! 😊

[@jacquelinembalo1974]

I am! And I'm addicted 😅

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

I am watching all the way in South Africa 🇿🇦!!!!

[@pearlmbhele2123]

I'm here with you all.

[@NDB82]

At first glance her parents are coming off as very unlikable, judgmental and pretentious - probably b/c of their delivery, but they do have valid concerns about him being a husband however they should also look at how unprepared their daughter is to be a wife.

[@NinoJokersChild]

This👏🏾💯

[@leichaurellelux7547]

As they should

[@djsaveaves]

Yes! I think they’re pushing all the weight theyve been shouldering onto him when it should be equally distributed

[@toschajeffries8833]

True

[@salome9124]

They don’t need to look outside and judge. They need to finish raising their daughter. She not done.

[@thesheshed1775]

I haven't heard a single thing about what Laci brings to the table. Nothing about her character. Her loyalty. Her talents. Nothing. All we know is she knows how to spend money and receive gifts.

[@daniellemckinley1046]

Do your research! She IS the table!

[@salome9124]

@@daniellemckinley1046what research? lol this was her chance to show up. Nothing to see further.

[@daniellemckinley1046]

​@salome9124 you do know this was edited! She was sent off with a credit score above 800, a maxed out IRA, and the only debt was her mortgage!

[@virgo3576]

That part!

[@toiawilson2468]

I was thinking the saammmmee thing!! All it seems she can do is spend🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mariasamlal473]

The crazy part is...the mom is trying to be her daughter's biggest advocate and protector but the whole time the mom is the one making lacy cry!

[@tenesharankin3470]

Her mom needs to check herself and her attitude… she is not the prize she thinks she is.

[@carolinagirl2428]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@jenniferlie6451]

True

[@Ginaaaa87]

With that wanna be Tboz hair do 😂😂

[@oloveaklove6576]

What's crazy ISIS her mom once her fiancée to be so perfect and have it all together but she was a young mother and she didn't have it all together she had to work multiple jobs this man has graduated college one of the biggest accomplishments a person can have in their life and he sings so sincere and everything that comes out of her mouth is so negative about him She should be ashamed to herself

[@oloveaklove6576]

@@Ginaaaa87 her hair looks terrible😂😂😂

[@LeshaFBaby]

Take ya daughter and go on..they getting on my nerves ..that overgrown and over spolied bs is not cute it causes issues later in life

[@carolinagirl2428]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@djsaveaves]

Her mom thinks she living her daughters life.

[@sheenaacker6078]

That mama…boyyyy! Nobody is ever going to be good enough for Laci. I like the groom’s crew much better. Laci’s dad was more palatable and forgiving. He gave Vidal a chance to redeem himself which he did. Still don’t know about Laci’s mom, but I hope Laci and Vidal make it❤.

[@mathmommy]

I’m trying to figure out what her hang up is!

[@CK-yo7ub]

I luv the connection she has with her father. He's a protector and a provider. He can sense when she needs him without her saying a single word 🩵

[@ms.peaches2834]

❤wish I had my dad still here, I'm 50, my sister on my dad side, she cremated my dad without me knowing, no body no ashes. Hi,from Chicago South Side

[@sharondeshay5734]

OMG I am sorry to hear that. My daddy transitioned last year, it's been hard but just know your daddy is with you ❤​@@ms.peaches2834

[@CK-yo7ub]

@@ms.peaches2834 Hi Ms. Peaches, I sympathize with you & my prayers go out to you 🧡

[@ci.ce86]

I’d love to know what her parents’ financial situation was when they were 24. This seems like a lot to expect from this young man at his age.

[@loletta1988]

The dad hugging them both at the end 🥰♥️🙏🏾 they needed that and i honor him for that ✨

[@wally6914]

Yes, that was beautiful

[@carolinagirl2428]

I can't get enough of this show! They need to bring it back!

[@tamikabennett3023]

Her Dad is a good man. At the end, her Mom was suprise that her Dad gave the blessings. That look look said it all. I love the hug the Father gave them

[@sashoysquire1267]

Right!! You can tell she gave her blessings because the dad did. She was not expecting him to give her is blessing

[@backpackmami]

Yes 😂 it was very “that is NOT what we discussed!” LOL and mama did what a good wife should and followed suit. she had to get her dig in but she definitely made sure that they looked like a unit.

[@Ginaaaa87]

I love the fishing trip ❤ her dad just needed to separate from his wife. She too negative.

[@tiffanythurmond9600]

I actually like them too together Vidal seems to be a good guy he was just trying to hard to get approval from her parents just be yourself everything else will work out

[@Crystal-Love]

I agree‼️Nice looking couple.

[@crystallatta8770]

Me too!!!! Yes, they both have growing to do, but no major issues that they can't resolve together. They get my blessings too🫶🏾

[@fraziersworld3701]

Her father is amazing. When he got up and hugged both of them I cried 😢❤

[@moniqueturner7628]

Me 2...the strangers on this show always get me in tears everytime

[@ItsMike81]

She’s not spoiled. Instead of buying her the Range Rover we’re paying for the wedding 😂

[@jasminehouston-burns1691]

That's also a move to get her to cancel the wedding. See if she'll bite.

[@daniellemckinley1046]

Have you priced weddings lately? You do know that they are about the same cost as a range rover.

[@ItsMike81]

@@daniellemckinley1046 my point exactly

[@ginoblackofficial]

@@daniellemckinley1046Only fools spend that kind of money on one day. After 25 years of marriage, my advise is to invest in the marriage (homeownership, businesses, investments), NOT the wedding day. I’ve seen very EXPENSIVE weddings end in less than two years. I’ve also seen modest weddings that lasted a lifetime. Some people are too caught up in the show of it all. That wedding day doesn’t NOT make a successful marriage. The work you put into your marriage is what makes it work.

[@natoshahicks646]

He’s letting her parents intimidated him and he’s panicking. He needs to man up and be himself

[@ariellemayaali]

Vidal is so handsome wow. I can tell their marriage is going to be a blessed one. And as far as the father, I can see that when everyone is on the same page, he will go above and beyond for both of them.

[@Nicole-rc4du]

When the dad gave them both a hug at the same time, that really touched my heart❤

[@stacylee7785]

That mom is a piece of work.

[@evind4007]

Lacey parents seems as though they have their nose too high up in the air. And what about Lacey's OWN money? If something happens to her parents,God forbid, then what? Can she stand on her own without Vidal?

[@MyStalkersArePostingMe]

Im sure she will have inheritance…she’ll be alright…her dad provided for her💀

[@daniellemckinley1046]

It's called "PREPARED" Lacy has her own finances/career...we PREPARED her before sending her off like ALL PARENTS should!

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

I agree fully. Her parents are very arrogant and full of themselves. They aren't perfect and nor is she.

[@nahsherman9287]

Mom feels betrayed😒 Love Dad’s hug at the end🫶🏼

[@thelonetravelr]

Mama is a tough cookie. Damn, what is really the issue? Vidal seems like a great catch. He treats Laci with respect and obviously loves her.

[@desrenerankine9983]

Her mother acting like she better than the young man. Wow

[@Vlad40241]

Laci and Lance Gross won't have a good marriage

[@JLive-jt6jc]

Omg…i laughed so hard. He is handsome like Lance.

[@__Forever27]

They’re happily married now boo, and she’s an amazing mother in law to her son. They been married for two years. I folllowed them after this first came out. I’m glad they don’t listen to miserable people in the comment section that love to judge people because y’all l live a perfect life. Weirdos

[@Ginaaaa87]

I was thinking Marcus from Why did I get married 😅

[@Passion85031]

I agree

[@thelonetravelr]

Laci gives Octavia Spencer 😂

[@journeywithjesus]

That Father’s hug was so needed. 😢 Making me teary eyed. Wishing them all the best in their union.

[@cevanbrown2314]

Laci is spoiled rotten and Vidal is clueless.

[@TheMwendaa]

Spoiled is right, ugh!

[@__Forever27]

They’re happily married now boo

[@cevanbrown2314]

@@__Forever27 👻

[@beautifulmind1834]

@@cevanbrown2314Lol Your Hilar .

[@vthe_listener886]

😂

[@ninaalexander7420]

Y'all got me crying 😂 I pray this marriage becomes all you guys desire❤

[@edgetisha]

❤ Yes the tears🥹! Beautiful spirits Laci and Vidal 💕now that momma!🫣 I kinda feel bad for the daddy😂

[@nicoleprice354]

They have genuine love. I love how her dad embraced them both❤❤❤

[@vasht7976]

I hope they had all the answers when they were young the way they're putting all this pressure on this young man. Like pull him in, guide him. Why give him such a hard time?

[@galerich5316]

Lacey is definitely gonna have to give her mom boundaries! And be very careful of what she shares what goes on in her married home with her mom.

[@empress2690]

Love this show. It allows ppl to see issues without compromising dignity

[@tanishalewis7591]

What I love is that there is genuine love and great chemisty between them both. They deserve the blessings and I wish wish all the best. They're still young and I'm sure their union will continue to grow.

[@gwendolynbradford4922]

The mother is judging too hard...Vidal is a young man who does not have all the answers as an older man...

[@carolinagirl2428]

The bride's mother isnt the prize that she thinks she is and neither is her daughter. Need to humble herself

[@mrsredmama33]

Fo Sho

[@CaramelRain331]

Big facts

[@Makavellah001]

They got money so they are the price fytb 😂

[@tiascotty397]

Nah they definitely are the prize lol. Vidal knows he wants to be next to money

[@salome9124]

@@Makavellah001not everybody wants to be bought

[@mythiac696]

Bride dad gets it as long as he can keep his wife reeled in, and dad supports this young couple they will be ok.

[@aldergriffith4586]

That hug at the end made me love this couple more and more and its okay to ask for help or time out

[@ericgatling3935]

It's a no for he was in a friend zone for 2years until she got drunk and decided to call him,she's too spoiled.

[@Healingwaters]

Her mom 😮

[@jaylenefarrell7175]

That wigs trippn 😮

[@daniellemckinley1046]

​@@jaylenefarrell7175bumb

[@lolozum7295]

I have both a son and daughter and i truly pray that I get to know the difference between guiding and controlling and shielding them.

[@thesheshed1775]

Materialism is wild. It never appealed to me.

[@vibranthang13]

Right

[@jaylenefarrell7175]

With all that damn $ mums got ratchet tripped out wig 😂

[@Ravenhill_]

Her parents got too much input

[@carolinagirl2428]

‼️‼️‼️‼️🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Rainbowloveofmylife]

Babygirl you need a backbone you cant have your mom intimidating your future husband

[@virginiapurvis3917]

They don’t need to be on this show. Her parents are rude af.

[@dianapatterson449]

I don't understand why everyone gets so excited ab out a house that does not belong to them. I mean it's nice and everything but....

[@randomshorts3647]

She wants to be married to say she’s a wife & he is floating through life. He needs to get some direction & that may help his insecurities.

[@user-hr5rp5wk8g]

Yep

[@melaniekingwilson6905]

Vidal needs to run!!

[@shaym754]

I can’t give my mom or dad that much say in my marriage nobody is perfect and we have what he like and tolerate and need all the extra stuff the mom said was very uncalled for smh she giving hater

[@leichaurellelux7547]

I think it’s required upon being on the show. That people will have a say rather you agree or disagree at least you know where everyone stands.

[@jaylenefarrell7175]

Her wig giving cra cra😂

[@PrettyJuice2023]

Her parents give off ‘my daughter should marry a basketball 🏀 player or lawyer’ not him …… they act as if he wasn’t worthy of her.

[@jaylenefarrell7175]

Muma needs her wig changin😂

[@MzSeptember]

He don’t have a chance! Her parents are too much.

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

Poor Vidal. Her parents don’t like him 😢

[@maxxxcee602]

Danielle is too extra, Vidal is someone's child too.

[@msbossatlanta]

This is one of the best couples I’ve seen , he really loves her and she’s still just a little scared . I hope they make it

[@rongelaredmond4273]

She might be spoiled but she is not selfish. She is loving.

[@salome9124]

You can’t be loving and attempt to intimidate your man to be like two other people

[@Asiasmom88]

Update: They got married September 2021

[@Userrandom44477]

how did you find their update

[@billiejeanthesweet1]

That's wassup ❤

[@billiejeanthesweet1]

​@Userrandom44477 I just saw it at the end of the video 😊

[@elesiamiller1]

The I was in Miami drunk and I decided to hit him up was a big throw off for me. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mrspaceforever]

literally!! especially after friend zoning him for two years

[@SweetLemonCupcake4Boxing]

Looking at this, I can see why Laci's mom sees a mask.

[@mieshaperryman2372]

Her momma makes him sound like a random dog Laci found around the hood😮 RUN Vidal!!!!

[@TeniqueSpeaks]

The mom acts like it’s herself trying to approve to be in a relationship with Vidal. SMH. Laci got to set boundaries

[@rosedene1045]

This the type of father in law I want and it’s amazing to see both couples have parents that are married that’s rare . My parents are married and it’s hard to be in a relationship who hasn’t seen relationships

[@daniellemckinley1046]

❤❤ SO many people have bad examples!

[@toochicboutique3354]

Love how her Dad embraced them both. That was beautiful. They loved each other, and I hope they have a long lasting wedding.

[@keziahodhiambo8803]

Her mum didn’t give him a chance it’s sad

[@Irockmycrown]

He needs to do a forest gump and run, her parents will keep their noses in the marriage.

[@shantakoa8596]

She not asking for designer stuff right now. He won’t measure up. This the 1st 2 minutes in the video

[@deborahadams3745]

Facts 👊🏽

[@LightBright07891]

Omg who else is crying!! God bless this union I believe they truly love each other..

[@teetee6456]

Laci needs yo stand on her own and stop mommy and daddy from doing everything.

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

Concerning the provider concept, a lot of men can grow into those roles. Things happen with time!

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

The mom is jealous of her daughter.

[@k.denise7053]

Her mom gives a clear vision of the dynamics in her family. There's nothing wrong with wanting "the best" for your child, however, it seems that what you value may dictate what "the best" is.

[@joannefaith8131]

I never understand this, God is giving you, the green light, to see who the person is and who they family is, before you marry them and giving you the opportunity to leave. Job 33-14-33 For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceived it not 😩

[@thun325]

He’s marrying a dependent child….Run….

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

She’s still a kid, her mom is a mess, groom’s mom is beautiful,and it’s great to see both sets of parents together ❤❤❤Love all the beautiful, traditional names. Nice. You can spell them, and pronounce them.😊

[@krystaljackson6841]

I've watched this show since the beginning...this the only one brought tears to my eyes 😭...I'm happy for them... I've been married 24 years they got this

[@mirabella2154]

That marriage is going to be a nightmare for him. Good luck with that.

[@alexiswilliams8475]

Great parents. People need to listen to thier elders more

[@kinshasaharris4758]

Ppl need to stop trying to start a new family by including their old one. Like i laws are PURE PROBLEMS.

[@iam_yahsgrace29]

Lacie: LIGHTS, CAMERAS, LIGHTS & MORE LIGHTS!!! LOL😂

[@kimlaporte951]

He seems like a really cool young man. Her Mom is looking for any reason to dislike him. Unfortunate situation.

[@KwanzaMyesha]

This was a great episode, thank you for no more rachetness going on...level head communication.

[@jaywonder5155]

Wow two beautiful families!

[@candacebutler7011]

No one is going to be good enough for her because they don’t want to give up their baby

[@KhocolatdReamgirl1]

Her Dad loaning her his strength made me tear up.

[@mariacassius-ndibe3289]

Daaaaad🙌🏽🥰🙌🏽 YOU ARE AMAZING🙌🏽🥰👊🏽🥰🙌🏽

[@OdopaFoods]

They are Not compatible at this stage. This girl is still in a kindergarten level of a relationship, she need to be independent before getting marriage to any valued man. She is not ready to set up a UNION without her parent input. She is desperate to be seen to having all the trimmings of a funfair wedding BUT Not in the long term real Committed Marriage. Just waste of money to show off to society.

[@c.johnsontech785]

I really enjoyed this episode

[@whaler4life507]

Brah, you are not ready. You nervous AF around her folks.. You can't even make up your mind!

[@andreneb4497]

I love this show need more the 3days

[@Sthrncal12]

The Mom is so obnoxious I understand wanting the best of their child but some go overboard.

[@friedmangobean]

her parents want the best for her. both sides are mad cause the groom can't be a provider in that way. if she wants to be with a brokie, her life, her choice. she'll see the lifestyle change n decide if she wants to stay with him.

[@tgber8126]

So lifestyle comes first before love n happiness? Wat if he's a kind good man that loves her n treatment her well.

[@toyiadecorcreations]

Love is not about finding the richest person . Sometimes you meet grow , build together. He can open a business and be rich . But at least she see him for him and she loves him for him . I think they could actually work

[@toyiadecorcreations]

​@@tgber8126exactly.. love and happiness comes first

[@jasminehouston-burns1691]

They're 24. He's not "a brokie." I highly doubt her parents had money at 24. I don't exactly why their expectations are for him to be there now.

[@dememurphy7859]

​@@jasminehouston-burns1691Exactly!! I'm sure they struggled before they got where they are

[@beautifullyblessed985]

I'm 5 minutes in, and I don't think this will last

[@ZakiYah24]

Why is all about material things. Thats not what the foundation of a marriage should be standing on. Just how much he can provide for her, what is she bringing?

[@randomshorts3647]

They don’t need to be together

[@TheMwendaa]

Mismatched

[@kgbrown5563]

I understand that parents want the best for their daughters but this was stupid.

[@janicewashington1170]

This is one of my favorite episodes.

[@Ravenhill_]

Her mom attitude! I don’t like and the way she acts towards her daughter fiancée she don’t accept like him want her daughter with him.

[@BlessedtoSOAR]

I think they should wait a couple of years.