Pack My Hospital Bag With Me

[@miarand57]

YES! Pack the nurses a treat basket! Snacks and goodies! The nurses will appreciate your thoughtfulness and they do allll the taking care of you and baby so THANK YOU, NURSES! gift of snacks in a pretty basket for them to share will be a HUGE hit!😊🙏💕

[@coppersulphate002]

I love these videos. Its not how much you pack that matters. Its how accessible the items are to you that matters

[@christiewells6263]

I love watching how organize you are. From my past experience you are over packed. The hospital will provide a lot for you as well. BUT, your experience is what you make it. Don’t worry about what others think. We are all just excited to see her. 😊

[@arleneorozco0326]

Best advice I can give to you, I’d be prepared for anything, we never know what can happen. I pray your birth goes smoothly for you both. And I’ve seen where they give the nurses a gift card or a small gift for all their help. ❤ You do what’s best for YOU AND YOUR BABY!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🤠🤠🤠😎💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 You will make mistakes, you will learn from them, you will figure it all out on your own with Tom. I wish you the best. And btw, my sister just gave birth yesterday, she was in labor for about two hours and BAMMM! Baby girl was out. Lol Every birth is different. Take lots of pictures, and live in the moment. Take care!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻💃🏼💃🏼

[@DemiandTom]

thank you!!!!

[@LexxHaven]

I had my baby in January 2022 and my hospital was out of the cooling pads and Dermoplast! I was wishing I listened to myself and packed my own when everyone told me "the hospital provides that so don't pack it." I also loved everything to be TIGHT, especially around my stomach, I lived in high waisted leggings, nursing tank top, and my belly bandit. MY experience was I felt like i could literally feel my organs moving around so it was nice to have the belly bandit. A portable sound machine was a life saver for us and the baby. Our baby was measuring 2 weeks ahead when I was pregnant and ended up not fitting in any newborn clothes so it's great you're bringing 0-3!! Wishing for a safe delivery for you!

[@DemiandTom]

So appreciate your insight here! I am glad to have those post partum things in case of somethign like this! I do have a belly band, but wasn't planning on bringing it... maybe I will now though!! and Yes this little one is also measuring 2 weeks ahead so I definitely want to make sure things will fit her!

[@Kaia22333]

It seems like youre pretty well prepared, just make sure you have one item, it can be something small, that makes you feel really pretty. I know that might sound stupid, but babygirl will be a blessing, but remember to always love on you as well. It can be a nice robe, a nice expensive hand lotion..a beautiful journal... whatever that is for you❤

[@claudettemcleod6316]

Demi, it’s really good to wrap your belly about 5 hours after you have your baby,it really helps getting you flatten quickly.

[@DemiandTom]

So good to know! Thank you so much!!

[@claudettemcleod6316]

@@DemiandTom when I had my first child mom told me to, I didn’t listen to her my stomach took so long to gets flat, when I had the second child I said ok I’m going to wrap my belly with in 6 weeks my stomach was flat like pancake.

[@kaelynn4744]

@@claudettemcleod6316 helps support those exhausted muscles too! Great tip!

[@claudettemcleod6316]

@@kaelynn4744 thanks

[@carolyoung9198]

We live north of Pittsburgh but I gave birth in Vermont. I had a C-section so I didn’t eat for a few days. When they gave me a menu, I (stupidly😮) thought they wanted to know what I liked to eat, so I checked many foods. When my first meal was delivered, I wad given 3 trays of piled up food! I was horrified!!!😮Anyway, blessings to you and enjoy this special time.❤

[@DemiandTom]

OH my goodness...hahah that is beyond funny and totally something i would do too!!

[@SmilePrettyNeen]

I’m an overpacked myself Demi and I must have watched 50plus “what’s in my bag” videos. I wanted help to not overpack and only take the things I need. I thought I did a great job of taking only the essential. But when I gave birth to my first child 5months ago I really did overpack because I didn’t need most of it! Toiletries, long t-shirts and infinity depends underwear were literally all I used for my 2day stay. And I was induced lol I didn’t need anything for baby except swaddle and name plate for pictures as the hospital supplied everything. Even post partum care. Literally everything. But I will say regardless of others experience and advice, as a first time mom, please pack any and everything you think you’ll need . This is a completely new experience for you so take whatever it is you want and need to feel comfortable and complete. Sending you Tom and baby girl some love ❤

[@sherellsimmons7318]

Congratulations on welcoming your firstborn🎉🎉🎉. Can't wait to see the new baby👶.

[@samanthawishnoski-py9no]

Hi Demi, it always pays to be over prepared for anything and everything. Blessings beautiful lady 🙏❤️❤️

[@ashleymcgrath934]

I’d Definitely bring a post partum belly wrap. I ended up needing a C-section. My biggest regret was not thinking about that or packing one. But even with a vaginal birth, it’ll make you feel more comfortable to have a belly binder for postpartum to wear at the hospital And the following 6 to 8 weeks. That’s the only extra thing I would pack. I was also self-conscious because I couldn’t see below my belly so I got fully waxed down there a few days before delivery. Nobody Has to do that. That was just my own insecurity.

[@kaelynn4744]

I would definitely do loose fitting, soft material and I would bring shorts for sure! 🤍 So excited for you!! 💗 You’re going to do amazing mama!

[@DemiandTom]

thank you!

[@nancysalas2163]

Wow now you're having a baby finally it has come. I remember what you 1st said you were pregnant time goes by so quickly I can't wait to meet baby girl.🎉❤😊

[@sarahritchie1493]

A suggestion is to get some witch hazel and soak it into a long pad. Toss them in the freezer. Best healing ever. And wear over sized loose fitting clothing.

[@sarahritchie1493]

Go home outfit: definitely shorts or flowey skirt

[@sarahritchie1493]

And you packed more than enough! As someone who is also always cold, I was the opposite while in hospital during labor and after birth. My youngest was born at the end of May, and I just wanted light clothing in and out of hospital.

[@candaceconnor1725]

I was w/my daughter & my son-in-law w/all 3 of her babies at the hospital. She brought cute outfits to wear but each time the nurses said - you’ll want to wear their hospital gowns so your own clothes don’t get all messed up w/any bodily fluids etc. Don’t think you’ll need a bath towel as the hospital will provide that & if you do bring it - where will you put it to come home w/you if it’s wet? Lots of lip balm/chap stick of some sort. Waiting to see that baby, Good Luck to you & Tom!

[@susansollee1839]

When I went I arrived with the clothes on my back. The day I left, my mom brought clean clothes for me and new clothes for my daughter. Very simple LOL LOL 👍🏻🌻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@glorianboykin1356]

I'm so excited for you. Can hardly wait to see baby girl. 💓🙏

[@anniev7410]

Very happy for the Baby 🍼 and Tom and You

[@mirianvelez9814]

Congratulations 🎈🍾🎊 so exciting I personally think your packing is perfect I am with you! I rather be overpacked and have everything I need then to be missing anything It’s perfect 😊

[@liselleharry3753]

I'm gonna guess she'll be born on May 25th... hope I'm right 😁🙏🏽🤞🏽 I can't wait to meet her and I hope you and Tom didn't pick some crazy weird name for her 🤨😫 (no disrespect)😄 but I really look forward to hearing what y'all named her. It's surreal that she's almost here😳🙆🏽‍♀️ it seems like yesterday you guys told us you were pregnant...now you're just weeks away from holding her in your arms. It's gonna be so emotional, for all of us 🥰🤗. I pray God blesses you and Tom in your parenthood and gives you wisdom to be the best parents you can be.🙏🏽💯 love you both ❤❤

[@crimecrazycrittersonthefarm]

I would bring a bottle and more onesies.

[@patricejackson2583]

No longer counting days, NOW counting hours...So excited for you all...

[@kickurgame]

I would add a knit hat for darling baby girl to travel home in. Demi, you are simply lovely with your pregnancy glow. Here's to you and Tom having a safe and wonderful birth. I pick May 29. That was my mom's bd in 1921.

[@frankcole5220]

WOW CAN'T BELIEVE BABY GIRL IS ALMOST HERE!!!!🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯❤❤❤🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@ce.379]

Congrats to you and Tom🎉❤. In addition to the adult diapers, get postpartum mesh underwear, life changing!! There’s a pre/ labor and delivery kit from Frida mom that’s awesome as well.

[@DemiandTom]

yes i have some in a kit but wasn't going to bring them.. would you suggest to?

[@ce.379]

@@DemiandTom Yes❤️The nurses may provide you with one, but I would bring at least two pairs just in case.

[@lotharsoran3604]

Yes. Bring bottles. Herein follows my practical advice for birth and post natal. Best advice I can give: don't worry what you look like. You will need all your focus on the birth, and recovery afterwards. Especially if it is a natural birth. Look after your comfort, and let everything else go, your husband can take care of the rest. He will be one of your biggest supports. I have advice for Dad, too, so read on. Women worry that they look "terrible" during birth. They don't. They may be sweaty, screaming, exhausted afterwards... but a mother holding her baby for the first time, is the most beautiful thing in God's creation. They shine with happiness (if they are awake, you will need to sleep after the birth.) You should go for looser fitting clothes. Things that are easy to get on, with minimal effort. Nothing tight on your breasts, and lower areas. You will likely be sore, trust me, you won't want anything tight or uncomfortable on your body. Leading up to, and during the birth, it's honestly best if you just forego clothes on your lower half. A robe, and little else. The doctors and midwives, will need access. I'd recommend gas, and air, rather than any morphine based painkillers. Painkillers like that will transfer to the baby, and can cause heart and lung distress. If you are going to have a natural birth, honestly, consider an epidural early on. Often, new mothers will try not to use one, saying "natural birth is better", but, trust me, you may want one. All the zen vibing music in the world won't stop the physical pain that comes from contractions. Squatting, can really help, you may need to lean on a birthing ball, keep moving, but listen to what your body is telling you. When you push, it will feel like you're trying to take a poop, push down hard, right into your bottom, as if you are constipated. It really helps. Also, you may actually poop yourself, it happens a LOT, and it is nothing to be embarrassed over. All your muscles down there will be squeezing like mad, if it happens, don't worry about it. Cursing like a sailor is also acceptable: you are giving birth. Normal social rules can be forgotten. Say whatever you need to, to get you through it. Make sure you have absorbant pads for yourself for your undies. Afterwards, you may keep discharging, which is entirely normal. Also: if you can breastfeed, great. If the baby doesn't take to it, or you can't...? Don't blame yourself! Absolutely do not, even if you feel frustrated. It's not something that magically happens for everyone. It can also take a bit for your milk to come in. Formula milk will be just fine, but if you can, use a breast pump to get out the colostrum, for the baby if she won't latch. Colostrum is important, the best stuff comes from you. However: you will come to a point where your breasts may be too sore to feed. It is perfectly OK, to supplement breastmilk with formula. A BIG point: DO NOT over clean your nipples. Do that too much, and you can get mastitis. This is hugely important, but people don't talk about it much. Pay very close attention to keeping your nipples moisturised, but do not constantly clean them. They have their own biological PH level, and if you keep stripping it with over cleaning, trouble may follow. Babies also love being swaddled. It makes them calmer. If she isn't resting, feed her, change her, swaddle her, and put her on your chest. They love it, they can hear your heartbeat. It is very important for Dad to do the same, she will recognise his voice. He should hold her as soon as possible. Softly singing to her, can also help. You should make sure you have cream for cradle cap, too. Pay close attention to her intimate bits when you change her, look for redness, soreness or swelling. Their skin can sometimes go a bit out of whack until they have adjusted to the new world. Ok, now, for Dad. Dads go through a lot of stress too, but, it's not often addressed. Your lady will be going through something extremely draining. It is one of the toughest things woman has to do. It's OK, for you to feel nervous as well. It is OK to be scared, this is new for both of you. You don't need to be constantly strong: let your feelings out, and keep telling her you are right next to her. But, try not to panic. There will be blood, and likely, screaming. Your main thing: keep mama supplied with whatever she feels she needs. If she tells you not to touch her, all of a sudden, do that. If she tells you to grab her hand the next second after, do that, without question. She will find it hard to communicate properly during all of this. Maybe some of the things she wants, will make zero sense, but get them for her anyway. Make sure you eat, too, and keep hydrated, along with her. You will very likely feel a MASSIVE surge of protectivenes, during this process. It is totally natural, you've probably come across it during pregnancy too. But, it will ramp up during the birth. Seeing your lady in pain, will be hard, and there will be a considerable adrenaline surge through it. If you feel unusually angsty, twitchy or angry at the medics buzzing around mama, again, normal. Just be aware, and catch yourself if it happens. I have known of the sweetest men, suddenly holler at the medics during birth, for seemingly no reason. It is a stress reaction: i hope you do not get it, but if you do, it's OK. Take a breath, take five, and concentrate on your lady instead. Dads can feel a bit powerless when mama's system has dropped solidly into the labour stage, patience, is your key here. Be there, as much as you can, but it IS important that you take breathers too. Keep water, a fan, and whatever else you may need to help her feel comfortable, close at hand. Have her favourite snacks ready. She will be hungry, and thirsty, through this, she is going to be using a lot of calories. Keep talking to your lady, you will both need the distraction. Labour can go on for many hours, sometimes, sixteen. Make sure, though, that the doctors are listening to her. If she feels something is wrong, make she is checked out. Women have amazing instincts during birth, they can pick up on if things aren't going good WAY before the medics do. After the birth, make sure mama can rest. Relatives will want to see the baby, and that's great, but they can wait. Once things are done, you will all three need peace and quiet. Good luck to you both. You have my warmest wishes, for a safe and quick delivery. Apologies is this is a bit too blunt: I'm British, and I wanted to give you practical advice that will be useful. This is from all of my family, mother, grandmother, other parents, and midwives. Hopefully, it can helo somehow. You both got this.

[@wowyathink5982]

So well-thought and thorough. Very sweet of you to take the time to offer so many tips💜

[@gigantesa4811]

It's exciting to pack and nerve-wracking. Did your neurologist suggest you get solumedrol after delivery? I wasn't on any meds during pregnancy since I take ocrevus. So maybe that's why. I did have an increase in numbness a couple days before delivery.

[@crystalsky1029]

Definitely bring more diapers!!!! The spray they'll give you, also I would get something other than lanolin. I loved earth mama nipple butter and diaper balm. All natural. And worked amazingly. Still watching. Haha.

[@Natalienutts]

Omg congrats guys. Love your content

[@ritzismynamo]

Im guessing June 2. I feel like most first time moms go over their due date. I did lol. I was Due March 11th and Had my baby girl March 15th a day after a membrane sweep. Ugh i still remember how much that hurt. Literally more than giving birth because my OB didnt tell me exactly when she was going to do it. She asked and i said yes then she told me she was just gonna take a look and went for it. It was so painful! Then she apologized saying didnt want to tell me exactly when she was doing it so i wouldnt tense up. 😢 i was pretty annoyed tbh. Then the next day she was off and i ended up with The OB on call from the medical group i was assigned to. Which worked out better because i didnt really like my OB Dr. She was kinda rude after that membrane sweep i was mad about it still lol Hope ur delivery goes smooth. I cant wait to meet ur beautiful baby girl!!

[@amandacordova1980]

May 31st is my birthday too ❤🎉 congratulations to you and Tom on baby girl 🎉❤

[@xThexAwthemxVampirex]

Seems like you have all your bases covered, one thing I would recommend is baby nail care. They didn’t have that at the hospital I gave birth in and babies are born with sharrrp nails.

[@wowyathink5982]

Yes! Great idea. Their little nails are sharp like bird claws!

[@charlenejohnson7118]

Where did you purchase the portable fan from, please? Congratulations!! I'm so excited for you and your husband. God bless you and baby girl.

[@DemiandTom]

it's from amazon!

[@shetom6353]

That's tons !!!!

[@carmendoyle9786]

Befor u any creams ask the nurse . Our daughter just had a baby boy . AMD they said soap only ! AMD a basket for the nurses with little thinking snacks and things was big thing as well ! Make sure u wash everything sorry I seen u had tags on stuff ! Baby is new ! They also said for her ti use baby soap on her stuff as well cause if breast feeding

[@DemiandTom]

ah smart tip i will be sure to wash it with the baby detergent we have! Thank you so much!!!

[@cassandraalampi5140]

Aww I know you are soooo ready to meet your mini me 💕

[@malyonsaeed3809]

New to ur channel and I hope everything goes well for u, I’m expecting my baby around first week of July and I think u should take some baby nappy cuz ur hospital might not have them. Good luck

[@celinachavez4922]

It is time!!?????🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊

[@Myahisabellee]

Wish you had Amazon linkssssss but LOVE!!

[@DemiandTom]

most if it is actually on the storefront already, but i can add more- was there something specific you were looking for

[@Myahisabellee]

@@DemiandTom oh my goodness how amazing! I can’t find the storefront for some reason. Let me look it up ❤️❤️

[@DemiandTom]

@@Myahisabellee here is the link for it the items are mixed between organization and baby I believe www.amazon.com/shop/demiandtom?ref_=cm_sw_r_ud_aipsfshop_aipsfdemiandtom_Q5S6VJ9ASPM59RW4SR3A

[@Mia.G11]

I’m so excited for the baby!! ❤🩷 I’m guessing she will be born on May 18th, but anything is possible 🩷🩷🩷 love ya

[@DemiandTom]

eee so soon!!

[@Mia.G11]

@@DemiandTom tysm for replying!!!!!! Pin maybe? lysmmmm

[@Sunflowermama3]

I love that you are prepared ❤️ where did you get the sage green bag is beautiful.

[@DemiandTom]

its from Guess!

[@anniev7410]

Take it easy Demi

[@Myahisabellee]

What diaper bag is this? What is that little carrier thing for diaper changes in there? Love!

[@DemiandTom]

it's from coterie!

[@Trouble405]

Does Tom have his bag packed??

[@suzannejohnson9140]

I didn't pack a bag because I had surprise twins at 33 weeks. I told my husband to bring me a specific dress for me to wear home. He brought me a summer sundress and it was February in Wyoming. Definitely, pack your own bag ahead of time. Lol

[@DemiandTom]

ah! I am sure that was a wild experience

[@winnieencarnacion7825]

Suggestion: get rid of the air plugs. You need to be able to hear when the baby is crying or possibly choking on either milk or from the amniotic fluid that they tend to spit up.

[@DemiandTom]

moreso brought it for the "hopeful" nap before labor to tty to get some sleep

[@susiesmith7694]

Ok don’t judge but my 3 girls are all in the 30s I’m 58 and I only took face wash,body wash,face lotion, outfit to bring baby home in and my change of clothes. Hospital had towels if I wanted to shower. I waited til I got home. Never breast fed my choice. But it was just simple things.

[@DemiandTom]

omg would never! i've heard they do have towels but they're scratchy and small lol so i want to bring one that's a little more comfortable haha.

[@coppersulphate002]

I hope you have a doula and that you have birth centre as a back up plan. I've seen thousands of birth videos and most of the time women who gave birth in hospital had a bad experience. This is a very important moment for you and your husband and one that you will remember for the rest of your life. Im really really praying that this birth experience is do positive for you. Im planning to become a midwife and I can't wait to be on women's journey to help support the best outcome. Until then I want to share this with you Remember! As a first time mom there are no reasons for you to be induced or get a C section! It's your body your baby your journey! Trust your body and listen to it. Trust your baby girl. She will tell you when she is ready to come out. If you want a personalized and positive birth really check out birth centers!! Please take care of you❤

[@DemiandTom]

we have all the best resources for us personally in place

[@cassanderson8702]

I’d wear a loose dress vs stretch pants or at least bring your me with it. You might not want anything right on the nether regions if you give birth vaginally. But if it’s a c-section you won’t want anything pressing against your abdomen. Sorry if that’s TMI. Don’t overpack. There’s usually not a lot of room to put stuff. Also, the less you have to keep track of the better. Congrats on your little bundle of joy!

[@Piperamberandbailey9204]

Your too cute ☺️ definitely over packed but it’s okay. It’s your delivery you take whatever makes you feel like you got it all incase anything. ❤ on the bottoms question I’d definitely go with a loose fitting bottom and comfy not constricted like leggings but that’s just my preference. You’ll be swollen after delivery so it’s just comfortable to have something little looser. Your glowing mama can’t wait till the day comes, Much love ❤❤❤

[@DemiandTom]

thanks so much for the feedback on this! I will definitely bring something more loose and airy so that comfort is key! so appreciate it!

[@Piperamberandbailey9204]

@@DemiandTom comfort is definitely key after such a big event like bringing a blessed baby into the world 🥰 can’t wait for the big moment, love watching your family ♥️

[@DoUntoOthersAsUWouldHaveDone2U]

Trust . . . . . You’ll have less of a desire to put on all the facial stuff. The baby will be ON you, skin to skin, especially close to your face, and you won’t wan’t baby girl’s delicate skin to get product on it. Earplugs . . .. . You’ll be on high alert for listening for baby, which will likely be in a bassinet IN your room. There will be a lot of staff dipping in & out of your room, so best to keep ears free to hear & respond. Sleep mask, ditch it. You’ll be staring at your daughter the entire time. LOOSE LOOSE LOOSE fitting, DARK bottoms. You WILL ‘leak’, (post birth fun stuff) so anything you soil must be able to hide the stain well! You’ll be sore . . . . Swollen and sore, so think LOOSE, nothing binding. Wear DARK RED WARM SOCKS during delivery. Warmth because feet get cold sometimes during labor, and dark red because . . . . birthing fluids won’t stain DARK RED as much. Music. If your hospital allows it, make a beautiful playlist, something baby girl can slide into this world hearing; it may also help you relax during labor. There is some very lovely celestial music, or look up Hemi-Sync music. Incredibly beautiful pieces. Nursing pads, did you mention them? After the colostrum comes in and baby latches, you’ll be flowing like the Niagara Falls. The hospital will likely give you Kotex, but you’d better have a couple weeks worth of some heavy duty Kotex waiting for you at home. If not, you can always make a fun video of sending Tom into CVS to buy some😜 NO ONESIES til the belly button nub falls off. Pack 2-pieces instead. Are you collecting her stem cells from the umbilical cord, to place into storage? Best decision I made when my daughter was born. It may save her life one day.

[@Jokemoi]

First comment ❤

[@mariemoore337]

Wash everything before packing Clothing can irritate you and baby if not washed

[@DemiandTom]

thank you!

[@Riley21948]

The hospital will give you all the diapers and wipes and baby bottles, please take it all as it will be thrown away if not.

[@melisam6363]

I feel like you're over packing for the baby and your postpartum care. The hospital will usually let you do a tour of the labor and delivery floor. During the tour you can ask them what you need to pack for baby and yourself, and what they will provide.

[@DemiandTom]

The diaper bag is a little overpacked because it's packed for "all the time" not just for the hospital- postpartum care can you let me know what you thought was too much?

[@miarand57]

I don't think you'll need a bottle. You'll have colostrum in your breasts before your milk comes in fully. Leave the bottles home!😊🙏💕

[@anniev7410]

dress Or. skirt

[@anniev7410]

Wear dress Or Skirt

[@DemiandTom]

great suggestion!

[@Kai-therianlife]

Fun fact : children are sometimes anoying af trust me

[@wowyathink5982]

As a mother of teens, I agree. But that new baby excitement is beautiful and even though kids can get a bit overwhelming and annoying at times as they get older, it’s all worth it.

[@lizmuhl4846]

Bring 4 to 5 , outfits at least. I used 7 for all three of my baby girls and we came home 24 hours later

[@lizmuhl4846]

One piece hunny, just a sundress and something cumffy supportive for your under . Free and nothing really wrapped on your skin, you may be swollen and soar. Less is more.