23:20 "Marriage is not a reward for doing something right, Singleness is not a punishment for (doing something wrong)" Wooooow, definitely needed this x
@mahogany866 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I replayed that part twice!
@uluamsam6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!! Good word! That was a solid nugget.
@cjone7656 жыл бұрын
Hey Love, Just to put this into perspective for you, think of allllll the people out there who are not living lives for Christ, that are married or in a relationship. Do you really think that God has rewarded them for the lives that they have been living? They lie, cheat, steal, have multiple sex partners...you name it. Look at Hosea's wife, she was a prostitute, he was a man of God, a Prophet, to be exact. God to told Hosea to MARRY her. Was that a reward for her "good behavior"? I think not. TRUST ME, I struggle with this too, but I remember that God has a plan for me and He knows the desires of my heart is to be in a relationship and then married. So I TRUST HIM to work it out for me. And while you're waiting, as the Pastor Todd said, "Maximize your singleness!" Enjoy being by yourself, accomplish your goals, go back to school, travel and just enjoy life's simple pleasures. Remember: getting married is not the goal, STAYING married is. Hope this helps, I tend to ramble ha!
@depressednobody25016 жыл бұрын
BuzzyBeeJones but being victim to somebody who's playing around(hoes, playboys and all that is) it's your(my) own punishment for liking someone who would do that to me and being naive when ppl were warning me to get out of that situation
@justthabi6 жыл бұрын
That saved me, that was God talking!
@chinonblokebboys5 жыл бұрын
I watched the five (5) episodes in a day and God has answered some questions I've had in my heart for a while. I love the simplicity, realness and transparency in the teachings and from the people. God bless pastor Mike and the Transformation Church.
@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman5 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@mamashoni5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Lednovations4 жыл бұрын
Same here, am on part 5 started this evening
@valeriefrischling41174 жыл бұрын
Makes me want to listen again and again to make sure i get it all down in my soul. God is good and knows what we need! We learn from.our own experiences but also others
@delshawnmcdaniel28286 жыл бұрын
This entire series is bittersweet for me. As much as I NEEDED hear hear this series it makes me be honest with myself and realize that I have work to do
@YoHippestHippie345 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@valeriefrischling41174 жыл бұрын
We all have work. But he is good and is with us on our journeys. God bless you and may he give you the strength when you feel like there is none to be found
@mahlatsenkoana11174 жыл бұрын
@@valeriefrischling4117 same
@instrinsiclove2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@thegracefullwoman97252 жыл бұрын
May God strengthen us and our spouse's to live a life pleasing to Him. To love, honor and cherish ❤
@afroteen46475 жыл бұрын
Watching this at the age 19 is an extremely valuable lesson for me .Thanks
@christinamiller58065 жыл бұрын
Yes same
@reeloveofficial5 жыл бұрын
JimiMpanza Same! 21 here
@dana98835 жыл бұрын
At 20
@cas81335 жыл бұрын
same
@SolomonsWisdom5 жыл бұрын
I'm 19 too
@ThrivewithJesus6 жыл бұрын
37 yrs of marriage??? She looks 37 😳
@lithakazisoshankana89085 жыл бұрын
exactly what i thought when i saw her. black don't crack alright.
@brianalewis96015 жыл бұрын
Marcie Christ Chosen Zacca for real
@ShyBabyxoxo5 жыл бұрын
facts!!!
@Kaydaloot4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@mayajones67144 жыл бұрын
RIGHT
@NatalineJ6 жыл бұрын
Building a relationship with God without distractions!!!! AMEN
@avon_originalsghstephanie34755 жыл бұрын
Amen
@sherieesharpe72164 жыл бұрын
I believe god wants ya to love and learn nog lovd abd loose out on thay learning process so please take changes and chances god wants you to be loved and love another as you do him its part of the life plan x
@sherieesharpe72164 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the key pad errors my phone is abit off today lol
@maryannmccamon5342 жыл бұрын
Amen to this
@alexandraboone32554 жыл бұрын
Major Key: Singleness is not a punishment for not doing something right.
@ItssKayKayTV4 жыл бұрын
Pastor Todd: “Don’t touch her that long again Vernon” 😂😂😂
@naoomi1237924 жыл бұрын
KayKayTV he’s not right 😂
@betsy6353 жыл бұрын
@@pastormichaeltodd6576 stop using pastors name to do wrong things.
@laurenhendricks74273 жыл бұрын
Haha right
@kenishamullen38876 жыл бұрын
I think that singles have a hard time with the season they are in because the church and the world makes it seem like there's something wrong with you when you aren't married or dating. People will ask you or tell you you're so pretty and smart and this and that I'm surprised no one has picked you up and it makes it seem like man is there something wrong because no one has decided to put a ring on my finger.
@marta09296 жыл бұрын
Not just church, I think it just happens a lot in our society in general. Not just with marriage, with school, career, life goals expectations (fancy cars, owning a home by a certain age) etc
@kenishamullen38876 жыл бұрын
Marta Perek-Blose you're right. People place their goals on others.
@VenChrl6 жыл бұрын
kenisha mullen that’s exactly how I’m feeling... even family members be surprise
@gisselcoutinho17515 жыл бұрын
In my opinion I feel like it would be society.Society makes it seem like we need someone,but in reality if we have God we have everything we need
@thetoughgroup5 жыл бұрын
To be fair, sometimes there IS something wrong with us which might explain our solitude. This is an exercise in self-improvement and self-awareness. A partner or spouse is not a reward for being ready for one, but the absence thereof might be due to our own issues that we need to resolve.
@ashad14046 жыл бұрын
That honesty vs transparency piece was GOOD!!!
@uluamsam6 жыл бұрын
Asha D, right? I always wanted to explaim that but didn't know how to. This nailed it.
@ruthcrawford58976 жыл бұрын
Asha D yes!!!
@corneliathefifthya74524 жыл бұрын
Sooooo good. Lord Jesus 😭😆
@joysafie75884 жыл бұрын
Yaaaas
@jakeyaspencer16046 жыл бұрын
How did I get to Part 5 in only two days?! This has been blessing me tremendously. This delivery and level of understanding is crazy. I have been learning so much about myself as well as God - especially as it pertains to relationships. Thank you Pastor Mike, thank you God.
@Ashleyunfiltered6 жыл бұрын
JaKeya Baker I said this to another commenter but honestly if you love this pastor as much as I have and you haven’t watched the “grace like a flood” series .. you are missing out Not a lot of people are aware of it because it was a couple years ago and doesn’t have as much views as this series but it deserves it ! Trust me on that . Especially if you want to understand and start learning more about who god is
@EpisTrader6 жыл бұрын
ItsurGurlAshalay2008 I’m just watching this series now. And I’ll mostly likely watch that as well 🙂
@andreacarter3675 жыл бұрын
Me too
@MsMonaaa145 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂
@3fizzo5 жыл бұрын
Lol me too i love it this is actually the first teaching series i ever sat through and was interested in
@dustylee5266 жыл бұрын
This "Relationship Goals" series is so amazing. God brought me right to this series as I partake on a new journey of celibacy and my continued length of singleness. I have been ready to have kids and get married, but didn't realize me being single is great to find myself "before the person. I've dealt with loneliness while being single and feeding my loneliness with fornications. So thank you Pastor Mike and Natalie Todd for these videos. Thank you for allowing your testimonies and services be recorded and shared with the world. All the time I'm on KZbin and I never seen you all before. When I tell you God introduced this video to me in the right time of my life. Thank you all for the help during this journey I'm beginning.
@nimuyreemu37236 жыл бұрын
Dusty Lee I have been there too...feeling and battling serious condemnation..
@thatgirljo21196 жыл бұрын
same.
@noellefraser60296 жыл бұрын
Amen sis
@jelicianorwood246 жыл бұрын
Dusty Lee I did the and thing. I suppose to got married but he wasn't the one right for me. Now I will celibacy journey like I was and continue my relationship with God.
@jelicianorwood246 жыл бұрын
Dusty Lee Man I understand the struggle everything we go thru always lesson and keeps me strong.
@marleejohn35196 жыл бұрын
0:00 "How many people have been blessed by this sermon series?" *Raises both hands... even though I'm at home.. in Canada...* Haha but honestly though, this series is BLESSING me in more ways than I can express!! Thank you Jesus for leading me here and I pray God continues bless this ministry!!
@allthingsberyl77155 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I did the same thing 😂😂...but I am at home in Ghana 🇬🇭
@versatility67625 жыл бұрын
Oh my,God I'm also in Ghana. God continue to bless this ministry
@xbc.03someone565 жыл бұрын
I just died😂😂😂😂
@evelynaaspidov1235 жыл бұрын
Same! I have been mmmmhhhmmming and amening all though this series!
@IzzyEze6 жыл бұрын
Deal Maker: Someone who's passionate about God and serving others. Deal Breaker: Immaturity (e.g. emotional immaturity). I don't want to be dating a child.
@sworduser50865 жыл бұрын
30% of people saw this and ran crying.
@Athenagoddessxoxo3 жыл бұрын
amennn!
@ChiefCedricJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Matthew 7:15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
@vanessarenae51693 жыл бұрын
I've been the immature one because of child trauma and emotional and verbal trauma from my marriage. But I'm growing out of immaturity, and looking at the reasons why I am so reactive and defensive. The lord can help those plus who are struggling with growth.
@nazineful6 жыл бұрын
I just can't get over the wisdom in this series!!!!
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
nazineful Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@nazineful6 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thanks for that!
@nickandchrismom6 жыл бұрын
nazineful indeed, wisdom in abundance
@OphiiZZ6 жыл бұрын
Girl that part !
@gregmorrell27925 жыл бұрын
I am 17 years old and I have never been on a date. I started watching these a couple of months ago and stopped. I picked it up again yesterday. There is a girl I love and who loves me and Because of these videos and God using Pastor Mike as a vessel I am becoming a better godly man every day. I don't watch sermons online, but I love these. I am tearing these apart because doing a relationship the right way is something I want. Something I'm certain that most Christian's want. Thank you for showing me how to do this the right way
@lawandstreeter70745 жыл бұрын
@greg morrell What a blessing you are in! Stay focused hun and i hope it works out for you!
@gregmorrell27925 жыл бұрын
@@lawandstreeter7074 we broke you for a month and miraculously met an event where she was sorry for everything she said and did and we have been given another chance. Someday we want to get married. She isn't the same person I knew. My parents have restricted me talking to her and it's so very hard on but I'm not giving up faith
@sylviarwenyo28825 жыл бұрын
@gregmorell God's got you bro
@wltruesdale56324 жыл бұрын
@Greg Morrell here's another great resource The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why? www.amazon.com/dp/1434704890/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IPypEbSSW1BBP
@1rperry686 жыл бұрын
This was so good! I’m 49, never married & this blessed me! Let’s me know I’m doing something right for a change!
@ChiefCedricJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Matthew 7:15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
@queenjazmyne6 жыл бұрын
Deal breaker :Inability to communicate Deal maker: God centered leader
@InyeneUkpe5 жыл бұрын
I'm currently dating..but I just recently became content in my singleness!! Thank you Transformation church! Love from Nigeria!!
@nikiasharif41476 жыл бұрын
I am very intrigued by the couple who decided to submit their relationship under leadership while staying committed to dating intentionally. Do they have a channel or any resources to explain this process and why they chose to take this route?
@ta_reesa12515 жыл бұрын
I think this would be a great vlog or something...that singles can learn and grow from.
@martumadrazo14504 жыл бұрын
I hope this is not to late, i know two Christian couples here in youtube, search for Paul and Morgan, Nate&Sutton they teach mainly about godly relationships ❤️
@cattydyall55666 жыл бұрын
i love it when she said"Marriage is not a reward for doing something right and singleness is not a punishment" love that
@bradenhaynes29075 жыл бұрын
catty dyall this!!!!!
@sophiescorner18015 жыл бұрын
A good marriage is tho
@arlenawabule516 жыл бұрын
watched this everyday and I have fallen in love about being single. still waiting but enjoying this time with my Jesus 😊
@anatasciamohlomi27665 жыл бұрын
Same here....the first one was just for me.... I love my current state n I am content
@kish2186 жыл бұрын
Honesty and Transparency: When I first met my fiancé, we had a conversation through a wall, like literally not seeing each other’s faces. I just realized, how we was so transparent that time. He told me about his life (his family and all that) without me asking me anything about it. Am amazed, how he confided me all those stuff. 3 years of being good friends, 2 years officially dating, 2 years being separated (I went to pursue my dreams, the season of my singleness I got more intimate with God). Now we are into the engagement stage, and we both are preparing for marriage, spiritually, mentally and financially. God is so good!
@emilysandra864611 ай бұрын
May God bless your marriage
@LifebyJazzieey4 жыл бұрын
I’m going through a break up rn. This series has helped me to see that God is really and truly working through me. And through my singleness as of now
@pastormichaeltodd30473 жыл бұрын
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@BaileyBeck8112 жыл бұрын
Same lovie!
@thespiritualgospel5556 жыл бұрын
This really blessed me & my sons father we have decided too separate until we marry & are practicing celibacy & putting god in the center of our relationship this go around we are young & we want too make sure we do it the correct way this time thank you so much I took so many notes too help me become a great wife too my husband 🙏🏾
@lovelyjolie226 жыл бұрын
Bria Bri ok yess I have 2 kids by the same man but unfortunately he is also Muslim so what do I do? 😔
@steadwin16 жыл бұрын
If I may, he is still a man and I assume your husband. Keep God first in your life and let God do the transforming. As stated in the previous series, you have to take care of the single you first with God on the inside. It was also stated that one woman with God on the inside can save a whole house. But through it all, remain a good wife and if not married yet, remember the advice given and be ready for when you do say "I do".
@Blaq_butterfly4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you. It’s never too late to change things up💯
@mayajones67144 жыл бұрын
Amazing 😉 God bless you for honoring Him!
@Applied_Pressure3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. My partner and I seperated and thankfully we are coming back together... but this time in a faith based relationship including celibacy. I'm so pumped to be doing it this way.
@genesisnunez76296 жыл бұрын
I need to attend this church. I need God.
@shawil58185 жыл бұрын
Glitchez is right. However, it is good to find a wholesome, wise, loving church (building) in order to fellowship with those who are like-minded. Church is a place to learn.
@brandonballard74725 жыл бұрын
Let’s go!! I need to also😂
@ChillAndOutTheWay5 жыл бұрын
I pray that you've found Him! He is the BEST thing smokin' and such a life giver! Lifting your name in prayer that you invite our AMAZING God into your heart and He just blows your mind like only He can do!
@vanessaveiga92575 жыл бұрын
We are the church. Together. Has nothing to do with a building
@myoldchannel04 жыл бұрын
Where is it at?
@marisajuarez33375 жыл бұрын
I want to learn more about the intentional friendship and intentional dating
@cheybrown30634 жыл бұрын
Marisa Juarez Honestly!!! I want to know more about this and how to apply - what does it entail!
@abigailcaesar83324 жыл бұрын
@@cheybrown3063 From my perspective intentional friendship is where you learn about that person in depth and up personal, no touching, lol nothing vertical, you go into it knowing that its a friendship and your getting to know that person like a true friend not letting lust and hormones get in the way of that.
@cheybrown30634 жыл бұрын
Abigail Caesar Thank you! X
@fabiraguha42464 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 years old in France and that serie is so precious for our generation!
@brandychristian9226 жыл бұрын
I'm cracking up at how everyone is cracking up at him for using a word that they don't know😂😂😂
@charismam40596 жыл бұрын
Brandy Christian that was too funny
@bernak45415 жыл бұрын
Lol also coz he was saying it wrong 🤪
@busisaxulu99224 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Applied_Pressure3 жыл бұрын
Yes, because he DID say the word wrong lol
@rochelle11993 жыл бұрын
@@pastormichaeltodd6576 Please stop spreading false prophecies on every other comment.
@mcmic12126 жыл бұрын
"I was a man before I got married and I was a man after I got married." 🤣🤣 FACTS!
@sairathealchemist6 жыл бұрын
omg I can't help but notice how these couples favor each other in looks and style lol I loved it .
@ellauglov88916 жыл бұрын
Saira Jackson yesss!! i love it
@IjeomaUnegbu6 жыл бұрын
Wow. I love this series!! So much wisdom! Thank you God. Thank you Transformation Church.
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@IjeomaUnegbu6 жыл бұрын
Awww, thanks a lot! I love Ashley and Carrington too!!! I've seen a couple of their videos. Thanks again! :)
@alymdiaburch7766 жыл бұрын
Ijeoma Unegbu in
@TheGreta24006 жыл бұрын
This series is soo good. I'm home sick today but I discovered this and I'm binge watching. I've never had a word that I can't wait to get to the next part...truly a Blessing.🙏
@tessyisblessedgraceandfavo6126 жыл бұрын
Greta V me too
@nickandchrismom6 жыл бұрын
Greta V truly blessed by this series and this church!!
@ArtbyJereAlexandra6 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS I'm missing sleep to listen!! I LOVE this series
@ubersun6 жыл бұрын
Yass!!
@lexiks13673 жыл бұрын
I am 25 and newly single. I’ve always struggled with being content as a single woman. Thinking that sex meant love, and confusing my single time with being deprived of love. I also thought that I’d find my husband through sex. This series has helped remind me of Gods love for me, and that my husband will be a Godly man, but I need to do ALOT of work before I can even get there. Thank you transformation church. I feel the Holy Spirit and love in all of these messages.
@ginasineni33096 жыл бұрын
You are amazing. God is amazing. Transform Church is amazing. I am Abundantly happy that God placed your video in my feed at JUST the right time. May God continue to bless you and your family.
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
Gina Sineni Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@jeremias4154 жыл бұрын
I just wanna know if the dude that got his wedding date wrong still breathing and well till this date😭😭😂😂😂
@Athenagoddessxoxo3 жыл бұрын
LOL SAME
@jesusiskingofmyheart3 жыл бұрын
that part had me on the floor 😂😂
@tisha72526 жыл бұрын
Never fail to disappoint... The different perspectives are VERY helpful.
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
All That Is Good Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@tisha72526 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for pointing me in a good direction. I will check them out! I appreciate it! Have an abundantly blessed day!
@BlessedByHisGrace76 жыл бұрын
“Love grows with knowledge “ yessss Lord! 🙏🏾
@sarahfriedman23166 жыл бұрын
Why is no one talking about Pastor Natalie's contour/highlight? Girl! You are glowing! WORK IT!
@melissairangabiye93675 жыл бұрын
Sis really glowing ouchere.
@breeb59136 жыл бұрын
I've been watching this series non-stop!! so amazing!
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
Bee B Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@danij3766 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@nickandchrismom6 жыл бұрын
Bee B yeeeeeeeeeessssssssss! GREAT series, great church.
@Ashleyunfiltered6 жыл бұрын
You think this is amazing !!! Watch the grace like a flood series . A series that was made couple years ago that not a lot of people are aware of compared to this series but it’s just as amazing as this one ❤️ seriously this pastor is gonna save this generation
@gee93426 жыл бұрын
He said FEMININITY and yes, it is a word!
@tajj136 жыл бұрын
But he said Femiminity lol
@violetgutierrez53156 жыл бұрын
Tiffi 😂😂😂I laughed so hard
@lboggans16 жыл бұрын
Yea, but i think the meaning he gave was a bit off. At work by definition is the expression of Womanhood or womanliness, feminine ways.
@odneybaptista69816 жыл бұрын
Ge E B
@brandiewilliams87076 жыл бұрын
YEEAAASSS, it sis a word...lol. BUT, his response was awesome
@etime896 жыл бұрын
67? Black don’t crack.
@liselimuyenga74584 жыл бұрын
She looks awesome ❤
@karolininfante65536 жыл бұрын
great diversity of wisdom, I love how you all come together to help each other and support. that's what a family Church is all about!!😘😘
@LadyJuly656 жыл бұрын
I love the transparency of the panel. Than you for sharing your hearts. I know this series has truly helped some people.
@vanessalaurelgibson56406 жыл бұрын
After her divorce, God showed her how He was a provider she saw the hand of God in her finances while she was single. I can attest to this in my very own life! I'm in the process of learning how to be content in my singleness!
@cairagraves15556 жыл бұрын
I came across this series at the perfect time. I was feeling so lost and so lonely and this has helped me so much thus far. I can't wait to continue to listen!
@tikkasharay6 жыл бұрын
The name of the book is "The Right One: How to successfully date and marry the right person" by Jimmy Evans
@mahlatsenkoana11174 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Been going through the comments hoping to see this🙏
@MutterallerDrachen20876 жыл бұрын
As a single person, who only recently felt called to marriage, I wanted to answer the question on how to be content in singleness. Totally agreed with Ms. Wilson. I found contentment in healing and being self aware and taking care of myself. I learned what I enjoyed, learned how to take care of my physical health. I love to run now. It’s my me time and helps me deal with stress. I found friends who have my back most of which are married. But I have my group. I tried new things. I traveled. Nationally. Internationally. I found what centers me in stress. How I cope. I found my purpose; I found my strength and place. Which has made me secure, and has prevented a lot of potential heartaches.
@Kdanielle3 жыл бұрын
The couple that’s been married for 37 years....I could listen to the husband all day. Good wisdom
@pastormichaeltodd78343 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +234 9156047151 ) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.............
@annalisarascon4 жыл бұрын
26 years old, and started this series! So good, thank you for being honest in your sermons 🙌🏼💕 #singlenessseason #embraceit
@markiekot5 жыл бұрын
"Cause I know I look good!" Yes Pastor Barbara, you're my mood goal , having more confidence then all these insta models out here, at 67?? She just won in life for me and Jesus is the source of it
@estherkitabire86094 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best part of a very transparent needed godly conversation!
@tumeloramolula84955 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who died when he said "feminiminy"??? I Loooove this series dou! Praise God for this!
@marsjokes2 ай бұрын
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@shyrleimartinez26326 жыл бұрын
"love grows with knowledge. you have to learn to love someone. your love for god grows with knowledge. as you begin to experience god, you learn to love god. when god takes you to deep places and brings you out my soul looks back in wonder how i got over."
@HubbaDoc6 жыл бұрын
Pastor Barbara was amazing. I’m 35 and just experienced a divorce and that is true it is not the end and you can be so free within the process! That was encouraging
@charyse13616 жыл бұрын
I needed this, I needed this, I needed thisssss
@carrieodonnell36436 жыл бұрын
I agree that honesty is important but your spouse is not your savior so you don’t have to dump everything on someone. If there are things that could impact the relationship, like lessons learned, your needs, their needs, and goals are great. However, sharing every single negative thing or sin committed prior to the relationship seems like each person needs the person they are with they are with to forgive them for their past. However those things did not involve the other person. It is important to remember that Jesus is your savior and it is not healthy to dump all of your past sins into the present relationship because this is a way of seeking validation which comes from the Lord, not any other person. Wisdom about what is shared and why it is shared are very important considerations.
@samanthamoran4283 Жыл бұрын
Listening to this I’m seeing the mistakes I made in past relationships
@Bluemamba08264 жыл бұрын
dude at 33:54 spitting facts. i wanna hear more from him. he was so smooth.
@tiffanystephens3892 жыл бұрын
I agree 110%
@cassandragajadhar65996 жыл бұрын
Pastor Adrian "took it to church" I absolutely enjoy his contribution (31:53) kinda upset he got cut off because he was going in!!!!
@dreeberry93296 жыл бұрын
HEATED FELLOWSHIP...love the choice of words
@uluamsam6 жыл бұрын
"When you have faith and focus, you win!!" 52:53
@chevornbishop83664 жыл бұрын
As a 20 year old this having this series in my life is unspeakable joy, for I know this will build my foundation within all my relationships
@pastormichaeltodd30473 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@lboggans16 жыл бұрын
Very good discussiin. FULL of wisdom. I will be making my 20 year old and 13 year old watch this series. Yup, knowledge is power.
@nwalker26196 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have 4 teenagers, better believe they will be listening to this whole series. I wish I had this when I was a teen. But God is a God of second chances. I'm single again and want to do it right this time.
@gisselcoutinho17515 жыл бұрын
Im 15 And listening to this whole series.Its pretty good to help me for my future
@creatvambition10902 жыл бұрын
I love how God shows up and gives me exactly what’s needed for growth and maturity. I love the different levels of wisdom on this panel. Faith and Focus 🔥 🔥
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@LuxuriousGlamourStudio5 жыл бұрын
LOOK AT GOD! Suddenly I feel so content being single. I pray this lasts until God brings the right one. Pastor A & his wife especially the husband that we got to hear a lot from, mannn that WISDOM! This why I love transparency if only our churches & pastors & parents where this open & Godly with these subjects with us. 👏🏾👏🏾🙆🏽
@kazygrl6 жыл бұрын
I've been binging this series for the past few days! I'm going through a breakup and this is breathing hope into me. I recently had an epiphany that I suffer from codependency, I come from a broken and dysfunctional family, I've always tried to use relationships to help me feel whole. I'm learning that God is the only one that can do that for me. This series is helping me to understand what a healthy relationship looks like.
@jileanfabien94796 жыл бұрын
Practical leads to progress. Love it...
@ashleye28354 жыл бұрын
When you're single, but you learn something useful from each person on here. Thank you for this and this series as a whole!!!
@SchneierViktor6 жыл бұрын
Pastor Mike!! You just saved my marriage with this series!!! Thank you for your heart in Jesus!
@alexianicole72686 жыл бұрын
Damn near scared me into not wanting to get married anymore. I got too many problems by myself to be and deal with someone else lol :(
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
Alexia Nicole that’s fine, you work it out with yourself! ❤️ Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@brianalackey94976 жыл бұрын
Girl!! I understand , made me reevaluate my motives for wanting to be married. God revealed I still have some areas I need to work on, before my husband can come, but he's coming!
@xSpyCherries6 жыл бұрын
I feel the same wayyy
@mizannebillions57036 жыл бұрын
Alexia Nicole better to get God’s green light before u marry. Remember, God isn’t looking for a prefect spouse, God is looking for a humble spirit.
@millicenttau2 жыл бұрын
God led me to this series because he’s preparing me for kingdom marriage and I’m honestly learning SO MUCH! This is so good.
@terac88716 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing series. I'm currently divorced and have been feeding my loneliness with ungodly relationships, because of my brokeness. Thank you for showing me that being single and alone is two different things and that this is a time to rediscover myself and allow the spirit of God to fill me. This series was such a blessing and came right on time ! We need more of this type real world teachings in churches.
@SuccesswithLatoya6 жыл бұрын
Tera Collins Amen hun, I’m in the same boat but after discovering Master Todd and this series I’m filled with much of Gods Unconditional Love! And more.
@dineflowerjohnson74396 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome, I wish listen to all this before my first relationship.. I can't wait to go on to the next..
@morganferguson8576 жыл бұрын
This series has changed my perspective on life. Thank you pastor mike I love the fresh different energy you bring to preaching!
@jesusiskingofmyheart3 жыл бұрын
Singleness is not a punishment! 🙌🏼💯 YES! Enjoy the season you are in. Trust God’s timing and trust His word! 🙏🏼✨
@evileye15 жыл бұрын
33.30 What i did not know God carried me through.... GOD HAS TAUGHT ME WHAT LOVE WAS THROUGH HER
@jacquewog52135 жыл бұрын
Wow that 3 month thing is beautiful. Vertical only. My marriage is over now and I’m taking notes for the future. I see everything we’ve done wrong from the foundation. I need a season of singleness. Me and God for a while.
@princessyoryor5 жыл бұрын
Watching this has blessed me so massively..as a 17 year old i have so many questions about relationships and i have made a lot of mistakes in the past..listening to this has answered every of my question and given me a new and fresh strenght and hope to start all over again in the right way. Thank you Jesus❤
@mellyawkward5 жыл бұрын
You ever hear this series and each time they knock off a person of interest in your life. 😂
@Somebody025944 жыл бұрын
listening to this message truly opens my eyes to how backward the world truly is in the eyes of God and how much work and willpower it actually takes to be a true, full-blown Christian... honestly... its no joke. I'm watching this in 2019 and it's like, 2 years later the message is still so valid...honestly... dang. Thank God for the internet and this church. Honestly speaking. I'm so grateful.
@nimuyreemu37236 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Lord for loving me so much...loving me enough to teach me this... I KNOW IT IS YOU!!
@JaxMchunu5 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Wairimu you and me both!! God is ridiculously kind ❤️❤️❤️!!
@honeybcraine7755 жыл бұрын
I'm not married, but I sure am gonna take advice ahead of time, from this video 👈
@xklusivtees87505 жыл бұрын
This sermon was right on time!! Honestly I never knew what men NEED and your lovely wife truly helped. My relationship is far from perfect but I know that with God being the focus we can do it. Cannot say thank you enough 💜 Appreciate your honesty tooooooo and the power of your testimonies give HOPE especially to s.o. like myself who bcuz of theses sermons have decided to accept Christ. My daughter's and I will visit your church (bucket list) because you helped us individually.
@LoveOlivie6 жыл бұрын
Deal maker: Chases after God feverishly first and can lead Deal breaker: indecisiveness, unable to make a firm decision or make up ones mind
@Capeverdeprc6 жыл бұрын
This series has been Blessing me! I'm divorced and have been for 2 years we were separated for 3. I tried dating sometime after the divorce and found myself not getting what I thought I wanted...and the entire time God wanted ME all to HIMSELF! I'm happily Single and enjoying this season God has me in
@911Getsome4 жыл бұрын
I am a 55 yr old male. I was married for 27 years and I have been divorced for the past 8 years. I have been struggling through the dating scene and have been ignoring Gods plan for my life. It is with tears in my eyes that I listen to this amazing young man teach an old dog am new way to fulfilling happiness Gods way. The only true way to happiness. I can’t begin to thank you enough for this series. Your words are truly inspired by God. Bless you !!!
@moniquegalloway56023 жыл бұрын
Amen that message and series change you around i know that i am late i am watching this in 2020 December 14,2020 i am singleness but have daughter that teenager 18 year old but living with mom. i was young been mother at 24 year old not be married been wedlock i am 46 year old so i am trying do better . christian man only. this is helping growing to close to God churches have doesn't talk like this for series that you have watching online to listening untied states church services. i am Toronto,Ontario Canada.
@jerseytaylor81746 жыл бұрын
I am diggin this series. someone sent his first video of this series, and I have been hooked since Friday. It definitely has given me clarity about myself and what I am doing in my season of singleness.💜
@sassafrascostumejewelry6 жыл бұрын
I would love if there was a Transformation Church here in Georgia. I feel so connected to this ministry.
@datladygreen6 жыл бұрын
I stop hanging out with my marriage friends because I felt left out and even in the relationship because he didn't participant in my circle because he had his own circle
@nunyabiz28545 жыл бұрын
There was whole comment and discussion about beyonce playing in a church...but that's not the message that you were suppose to recieve.
@chenmul16425 жыл бұрын
Ijanae Reed tell them
@naledimanyotwane86486 жыл бұрын
This has blessed my heart and soul sooo much, I'm literally going through a recent bad break-up, I had so much frustration and anger then saw your series just pop up outta nowhere I'm so thankful God sent this message to you to preach to the lost like me, I almost forgot or changed who I am just cause of heartache from a lier smh...🙌glory to God I feel happiness in my heart again and it's Filled me up to a point where I am So content being single it's scaring me in a good way💓
@daughterofhis96006 жыл бұрын
Wow this really blessed me. Best panel i’ve witnessed thus far!
@lifewithsimone87046 жыл бұрын
I Am Christina Renée Ashley & Carrington on KZbin do something very similar but with individual couples! So if you love this, that’s another resource!
@daughterofhis96006 жыл бұрын
LifeWithSimone I watch them too!! 😃
@dr.timothyfuller87636 жыл бұрын
Thank you Christina
@je.mulannnn6 жыл бұрын
This video could be taken down for copyright infringement b/c the original "Love On Top" by Beyoncé is playing longer than a few seconds. Soon, put "I don't own copyrights to this song" in the description bar to keep this video up.
@lt20936 жыл бұрын
Jeniece Mulan it's been up 5 months. Not promoting anything.
@uniquelytascia64645 жыл бұрын
It could be that the songs were from KZbin music library so it's kl .
@ashtonjmonroe60306 жыл бұрын
This has been they best KZbin channel 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I’ve learned so much about myself in my singleness and who God had called me to be. Thank you!!!!
@nickaylawilliams24192 жыл бұрын
This series came out a few years ago and today in the season I am, as uncertain as things seem.. I am learning to say "God I do not know what this means, but I trust you." Growth is sometimes painful but it is necessary, perspective and wisdom is just as difficult to gain... BUT GOD!!! God is greater... He is an all-knowing and merciful God. God bless Transformation church and Ps Mike for ensuring that these things are addressed. By far the most moving panel discussion I've watched. Grateful!
@nellykovalevich72036 жыл бұрын
I've enjoyed this series thus far and I enjoyed everyone who was part of the panel in this video. But my personal favs were Rob and Kelsie. I can too say that I haven't been able to appreciate my singleness and embrace until I watched the part 2 of the series "Single, not alone". And I can relate with Rob, not having those people to look up to in life especially relationship things it's difficult. I, too, come from a broken past. HOWEVER! I am so happy for both of them that they hope and opportunity to ask for help from the church. This gives me such hope. Thank you for allowing Rob and Kelsie to be a part of the panel. God bless you Pastor and the people who are in work with you to expand the kingdom of heaven and reach out to those who need guidance and direction.
@musicanovas63 жыл бұрын
Today I pray for you.. A heart free of sadness, A mind free of worries, A life full of gladness, A body free of illness, & a day full of God's blessings. Amen.💕 Amen.💕
@thelovelymissmonica19385 жыл бұрын
I.love. 💘 the couple that has been married for 37 years...👋👐🙌🙏👏💪🙏☝