Single, Not Alone :: Relationship Goals (Part 2)

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@SimInspired
@SimInspired 7 жыл бұрын
“What the enemy cannot destroy, he distracts.”
@linkami27
@linkami27 6 жыл бұрын
SimInspired 😮😮😮😮😮😮🇰🇪 wow!! #Truth
@lundennonya1216
@lundennonya1216 6 жыл бұрын
SimInspired yesss! I wrote that down
@9tothe640
@9tothe640 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! ❤️ I loved that.
@christinael596
@christinael596 6 жыл бұрын
THAT'S THE WORD!!!!
@apostlerodneyrodgers8460
@apostlerodneyrodgers8460 6 жыл бұрын
SimInspired Yes...
@owaynembulaje3494
@owaynembulaje3494 5 жыл бұрын
who is repeating this sermon with me in 2019 and 2020 my, let's take it to 2022 and share it to the next generations.... {edited on 9th of March 2021 at 15:16)
@purposelytabs
@purposelytabs 5 жыл бұрын
Me here...! Guess this is the 20+ time am listening
@Christ2010Grad
@Christ2010Grad 5 жыл бұрын
Me!
@queenm1575
@queenm1575 5 жыл бұрын
am here
@jradditto3050
@jradditto3050 5 жыл бұрын
This and Grace Like A Flood Part 1! Just on repeat!
@GodsDaughter137
@GodsDaughter137 5 жыл бұрын
Me hunny!! This series has blessed me and opened my eyes 👀
@dustinwhitesell4860
@dustinwhitesell4860 5 жыл бұрын
31 years old. 19 weeks porn free. Separated. Praying for reconciliation and believing it will happen! Waiting is hard tho :-/
@nothemba1982
@nothemba1982 5 жыл бұрын
I'd recommend listening to John Piper's sermons on lust, truly life changing! On our own strength, we can't win, but with God! 🙌 Stay blessed.
@daughterofkush4031
@daughterofkush4031 5 жыл бұрын
@@nothemba1982 i like Piper
@nothemba1982
@nothemba1982 5 жыл бұрын
@@@daughterofkush4031 me too...if you like him, you'll also like John MacArthur-one of my favorites sermons he did is 'How To Deal With Habitual Sin' - always reminds me of the seriousness of sin and how intentional we need to be about confronting it.
@daughterofkush4031
@daughterofkush4031 5 жыл бұрын
@@nothemba1982 i listen to alot of macarthur,washer,voddie and spurgeon...i like that they preach from God's word
@KendraMorgan
@KendraMorgan 5 жыл бұрын
Praying my brother!!!
@Ginamations3267
@Ginamations3267 3 жыл бұрын
I'M SO GLAD I DIDNT 'MARRY' THAT GUY BACK IN 2014 I'M SO GLAD I GOT OUT OF THAT ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IN 2018 I'M SO GLAD CHRIST FOUND ME AT UNI IN 2019. AND HERE I AM WATCHING THIS SERMON. THANK YOU JESUS.
@mariegenius
@mariegenius 3 жыл бұрын
Look how blessed you are❤️ Keep winning 🔥
@Meloooody1357
@Meloooody1357 3 жыл бұрын
AMEEEEEN ❤
@ELamy802
@ELamy802 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@Hype4Christ
@Hype4Christ 2 жыл бұрын
Amen chile
@itorisan278
@itorisan278 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad he led you out of those relationships!
@riannaHermione
@riannaHermione 5 жыл бұрын
"He wants you to know who you are WITHOUT a person." yasss
@dinahreeves6335
@dinahreeves6335 4 жыл бұрын
Rianna Babb so true
@bigtwon375
@bigtwon375 4 жыл бұрын
Rianna Babb thanks for helping me understand because I couldn't get it
@TonettaClay
@TonettaClay 4 жыл бұрын
That's the truth Rianna Babb.
@MagnetMagicGirl
@MagnetMagicGirl 4 жыл бұрын
I read this AS HE SAID IT. So cool!
@lydiaagbonkhina683
@lydiaagbonkhina683 4 жыл бұрын
@@MagnetMagicGirl me toooo😭
@lukevantonder9929
@lukevantonder9929 5 жыл бұрын
"If they knew you like you know you, would they still marry you?" Fire. Fire. Fire.
@gnicks2995
@gnicks2995 5 жыл бұрын
Luke Van Tonder yaasss!
@kokiskitchen
@kokiskitchen 4 жыл бұрын
Thaaank you Soo much, really blessed during this period because am glad am single now and i was able to come across this message be blessed
@user-xe2io2go1f
@user-xe2io2go1f 4 жыл бұрын
He literally copied this statement from Myles Munroe's sermon on Singleness
@phenomenonnarutokun
@phenomenonnarutokun 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-xe2io2go1f that's like a common phrase
@user-xe2io2go1f
@user-xe2io2go1f 4 жыл бұрын
@@phenomenonnarutokun is it..........
@artistrybyartisia5318
@artistrybyartisia5318 6 жыл бұрын
Every time I feel weak in my singleness, I watch this. This is my third time in 2 weeks
@Cassie241995
@Cassie241995 6 жыл бұрын
I pray for u Hun, be Strong sister... God knows best, and nothing just happened. You watching this is not a mistake. Love, In Christ
@Dawn4j
@Dawn4j 6 жыл бұрын
Stopped counting. I've been watching it again and again here and there
@tegaedwards
@tegaedwards 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! This is my 3rd time this year.
@TheJaiNetwork
@TheJaiNetwork 6 жыл бұрын
Artistry by Artisia Weakness is not a result of singleness... there is something else that needs to be resolved.
@Royalnessa
@Royalnessa 6 жыл бұрын
Why feel weak? When you are already Whole.
@janelleedwards7513
@janelleedwards7513 2 жыл бұрын
I listen to this every time the devil tries to attack me in my single season. God is good. Knowledge is power.
@Angelina-ue8xv
@Angelina-ue8xv Жыл бұрын
proclamation still your salvation : you are chosen Jane' !
@daisyquiroz4777
@daisyquiroz4777 7 ай бұрын
👏🏽
@nickovillegas
@nickovillegas 5 жыл бұрын
“The more single you are, the better your marriage will be” that hit me so hard!
@SincerelyTaliaxo
@SincerelyTaliaxo 5 жыл бұрын
I felt that too!!!!!
@jennifursun3303
@jennifursun3303 5 жыл бұрын
me three
@lorisakens7066
@lorisakens7066 5 жыл бұрын
ikr
@shirleethechristianchic
@shirleethechristianchic 5 жыл бұрын
Righttttt
@tarynstewart8279
@tarynstewart8279 4 жыл бұрын
I am afraid that I have been single so long and enjoy my company so much that I will not be open to allowing someone into my life. So that part of his sermon has me confused ...
@alexaheard7048
@alexaheard7048 6 жыл бұрын
I’m only 15 and it is a blessing to hear this before I jump into a relationship. Praise Jesus
@Tobi_237
@Tobi_237 6 жыл бұрын
Wise beyond your young years. More grace and wisdom to ya. Keep hearing and hearing
@Spiritualchick82
@Spiritualchick82 5 жыл бұрын
You have your whole life ahead of you, hon. Keep gaining knowledge, it is something I wish I had done when I was your age! Smart girl. :) God bless you.
@steflondon88
@steflondon88 5 жыл бұрын
you got so much time.
@desiree7633
@desiree7633 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@omololaezeifeoma3979
@omololaezeifeoma3979 5 жыл бұрын
Especially when you decide to live by this lovely.
@danitahingston5513
@danitahingston5513 5 жыл бұрын
I love how he delivers his sermons with humor and wit -i'm learning so much while laughing at the same time.
@abbasjoy4785
@abbasjoy4785 5 жыл бұрын
I've laughed so hard😄
@CreationUnveiledPodcast
@CreationUnveiledPodcast 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve laughed so much and yet I still kept listening even when he came in MY house and attacked MY habits😭😭
@scholasticbookfair.
@scholasticbookfair. 4 жыл бұрын
@@CreationUnveiledPodcast Just making you more self aware and delivering the tools it take to be more accountable for your conscious and subconscious actions 👍🏽
@olivialiverpool4784
@olivialiverpool4784 4 жыл бұрын
Same here, I think I found, for the first time, my favorite pastor
@TonettaClay
@TonettaClay 4 жыл бұрын
Yes he is hilarious, but honest. I love it.
@ItsDamiajanee
@ItsDamiajanee 3 жыл бұрын
Im 20 and been single my whole life, God is truly amazing. He's getting me ready!!!!
@hannas7806
@hannas7806 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that sis! Me too 💖
@kathrinewanjiru8949
@kathrinewanjiru8949 3 жыл бұрын
Amen....me too 24
@joannamelanie
@joannamelanie 3 жыл бұрын
@@kathrinewanjiru8949 me to im 24 as well
@blessings5675
@blessings5675 3 жыл бұрын
Try being single till 33🤣🤣
@kathrinewanjiru8949
@kathrinewanjiru8949 3 жыл бұрын
@@blessings5675 God has a plan for you....the person is coming....... 😂
@lynnchia3661
@lynnchia3661 5 жыл бұрын
wow. i am 24 and have never dated. today one of my mentors said she was amazed and that God has kept me. I'm really beginning to see that it's a blessing to be hidden in God. Thank God for this series!
@congelesegirllivingincanad422
@congelesegirllivingincanad422 5 жыл бұрын
Same. Always feel someone thing wrong with me. I am waiting on the lord.
@MaishaOnTop
@MaishaOnTop 5 жыл бұрын
22 years old and same here!!
@floralafleurrose8877
@floralafleurrose8877 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@dedetracy5242
@dedetracy5242 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 years and I've never dated or been in any relationship before too...
@stephanhoffmann3265
@stephanhoffmann3265 4 жыл бұрын
@@dedetracy5242 nothing wrong with dating someone. Meet somebody does not mean you have to kiss :)
@charolettehudsononpurpose
@charolettehudsononpurpose 4 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t improve your singleness, it exposes it
@TonettaClay
@TonettaClay 4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@pastormichaeltodd7369
@pastormichaeltodd7369 3 жыл бұрын
beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
@acharich
@acharich 3 жыл бұрын
💣💣💣
@mainguyen.je01
@mainguyen.je01 3 жыл бұрын
@@pastormichaeltodd7369 you faked pastor Mike Todd channel?
@bdog5369
@bdog5369 3 жыл бұрын
I like that.
@lovetacos3850
@lovetacos3850 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 35, never married, dated men not aligned in God’s purpose for my life. I know...so I’m very single. But this time I’m enjoying being single and falling more and more in love with God and my learning to love my self, and others.
@tiffanyjones1857
@tiffanyjones1857 5 жыл бұрын
Im 37 and single too sis. Im working on positoning myself to be restored by God and only Thru God
@kikkybadasszw
@kikkybadasszw 5 жыл бұрын
Ligi Go you’re love Ligi. God loves you❤️
@sherikwasnik5290
@sherikwasnik5290 5 жыл бұрын
Ligi I hear you girl. I am 43(almost 44). I am doing the same.
@steflondon88
@steflondon88 5 жыл бұрын
33 and I wouldn't trade the ache and loneliness I've struggled with, for what I've gained in knowing Christ deeper as Ive turned to him again and again. to learn that he is better than anything this world can offer, and that if we put our hope in people - we will crush that person, and that person can become our god.
@steflondon88
@steflondon88 5 жыл бұрын
knowing Jesus deeply, is sweeter and more powerful than having the best of the best man here on earth. its just a struggle, I know. cuz we have our earthly feelings and wrong focus/perspective.
@Samps_USN
@Samps_USN 3 жыл бұрын
I was married almost 21 years. I found Christ and she didn’t like the new me. Now I’m single and taking care of this new me and I am the best version of myself through Jesus Christ! Our Crosses Aren’t Ours To Bear Only!
@missNCW
@missNCW 2 жыл бұрын
Easier if you are a man, you can literally have children 30 years from now
@ComeAsYouArePodcast.
@ComeAsYouArePodcast. 2 жыл бұрын
Did you have kids?
@Samps_USN
@Samps_USN 2 жыл бұрын
@@ComeAsYouArePodcast. yes one
@robynafrica4363
@robynafrica4363 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Sorry to hear.
@grannygrandma6036
@grannygrandma6036 2 жыл бұрын
God has a purpose for your life and your child. Keep on staying focus on The Lord that He knows what is best for you. You are God's child of the most HIGH God. I pray that your ex spouse have the encounter with Jesus in every way in her life. In Jesus name. Amen!
@JustShining1
@JustShining1 6 жыл бұрын
"Marriage doesn't improve your singleness, it exposes it..." Wise words!
@kema_jmac6570
@kema_jmac6570 4 жыл бұрын
JustShining1 woah!
@louimaierivera9295
@louimaierivera9295 4 жыл бұрын
"You can reach your purpose without marriage" ✨
@lanierosemangoda1792
@lanierosemangoda1792 4 жыл бұрын
Amen sister.... Marriage is not for everyone
@dbalexan
@dbalexan 3 жыл бұрын
Some purpose requires your mate.
@Yomarlopezcameron
@Yomarlopezcameron 3 жыл бұрын
@@lanierosemangoda1792 yes it is, it’s not obligated but anyone can obtain it going through Gods progress
@treniaw220
@treniaw220 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you God for this message
@Rainethalyricist
@Rainethalyricist 3 жыл бұрын
@@damoab1909 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: 1Corinthians 7:14
@alonator09
@alonator09 6 жыл бұрын
"When you don't know you, you won't pick right because you'll pick what you THINK you want and you have no basis on it because you have not had the time to figure YOU out" I related so heavily wow.
@undreajones7101
@undreajones7101 6 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@ShiTindi
@ShiTindi 6 жыл бұрын
Same here
@jesusiskingofmyheart
@jesusiskingofmyheart 3 жыл бұрын
“There’s nothing wrong with the season that God has you in.” 👏🏼 YESSS, I felt that. 💯
@frmarkgoringg9317
@frmarkgoringg9317 3 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (FAVOUR MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Edo State Nigeria before Two (2)DAYS with faith and believe, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace and blessings to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp (+ 2348120604271). or e-mail (favourmotherlessfoundation@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
@missNCW
@missNCW 2 жыл бұрын
And there’s nothing wrong with wanting marriage and kids before you become infertile - I wish married Pastors would acknowledge this
@emmanuellafreeman7409
@emmanuellafreeman7409 2 жыл бұрын
@missNCW my mum was in her forties when she had my youngest sister. God's timing is all that matters
@leecrotty6344
@leecrotty6344 Жыл бұрын
@20:20
@nettierhudd7648
@nettierhudd7648 6 жыл бұрын
This man just kicked my door open and sat on my couch!!! YOU BETTER PREACH!!!
@LLagi
@LLagi 5 жыл бұрын
Nettie Nettie 💜💖
@alexabutterfield9396
@alexabutterfield9396 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh😂
@FeliciaJoyloves
@FeliciaJoyloves 6 жыл бұрын
"marriage doesn't improve your singleness, it exposes it".. so much wisdom.. those who have ears have indeed heard..
@edwardperez4266
@edwardperez4266 6 жыл бұрын
Finally Felicia when he said, “...all that thing is goin’ do is expose who you really are...” 😯 when he said people who been married for two years! That’s me!
@mac9683
@mac9683 6 жыл бұрын
This is so necessary for this day in age. Many millennials want healthy marriages but we need to have a healthy relationship with ourselves.
@patricia-kv6ix
@patricia-kv6ix 5 жыл бұрын
THIS! ❤️❤️
@ChurlzVA
@ChurlzVA 5 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of the relationship with myself, I wanna move to something new
@earlonaweary9155
@earlonaweary9155 5 жыл бұрын
@@ChurlzVA What have you accomplished in your season of singleness?
@samueljennings4809
@samueljennings4809 2 жыл бұрын
"something new". That's the wrong mindset to get into dating. Use your time single to work on your gifts and maximise them, and learn how to depend on God. If it's God's will for you to date, then the time will come. Until then, focus on yourself. God bless.
@alexabutterfield9396
@alexabutterfield9396 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!❤️
@jemimahkabami7347
@jemimahkabami7347 3 жыл бұрын
I'm proud to be single rn because I know God is shaping my future, my marriage, my husband, my children as much as He is shaping me to be a perfect friend, wife and mother. I will come back here with a testimony in the name of Jesus Christ.
@GillianLarmond
@GillianLarmond 3 жыл бұрын
👏 👏
@blacksugar7773
@blacksugar7773 3 жыл бұрын
amen!
@BeingMimo
@BeingMimo 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!me too
@jemimahbwembya9236
@jemimahbwembya9236 2 жыл бұрын
Yes and Amen, Same here🙏🏾❤️
@achenyam6401
@achenyam6401 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss I’ve finally realized that🙏🏾☺️
@Enheritance
@Enheritance 6 жыл бұрын
I never understood why people would always say that ''You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else.'' and i clearly understand that now at this season of my life. I gave up an engagement december 2017 of 2018 and i obeyed GOD. because i wasn't ready me and my ex didn't know our purpose and we was just 2 hurt people, who was rejected , hurt and finding ourselves. i have so much peace now. he is in a new relationship now . moved on quick and im perfectly fine . being SINGLE , FINDING MYSELF AND PURPOSE. I don't need a relationship to feel happiness. the joy of the lord is my strength and i a m waiting for the right one. CELIBATE TOO
@fluffypuppy0
@fluffypuppy0 6 жыл бұрын
Wow that act of wisdom and courage. GIRL👏❤
@salomyru7310
@salomyru7310 6 жыл бұрын
i was really in the same situation as you and i never had peace in the relationship but the fact that everyone is doing it kept me on but i felt so proud of myself 3months ago when i turned down his marriage proposal ....im so at peace now and im enjoying this singleness like the moment of finding myself who i really am what i like and love.....and also growing in Gods word and having that relationship with him...sinfree im so thankful....keep it up sis you are not alone...love you
@Echosong95
@Echosong95 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! I just ended an engagement and the relationship lasted 5 years, so it was extra painful. It has barely been a week since I ended it, and I'm doubting, but I found these sermons and know I need to do self discovery before I do anything else. Thank you forbsharing your story, and stay strong and stay yourself!
@fashionandreviews
@fashionandreviews 5 жыл бұрын
I love your channel girl!
@deejahlovee8048
@deejahlovee8048 5 жыл бұрын
As you should girl
@KrislynShumard
@KrislynShumard 7 жыл бұрын
Marriage is only as good as your singleness. 🔥🔥
@dr.majidahsmith9006
@dr.majidahsmith9006 6 жыл бұрын
Krislyn Placide so true. SIP Dr Myles Monroe words still blessing me today.
@StarStar-tj6ox
@StarStar-tj6ox 6 жыл бұрын
I like that
@ChurlzVA
@ChurlzVA 5 жыл бұрын
Bullshit.
@lebomagano3522
@lebomagano3522 5 жыл бұрын
Krislyn Placide Some people have never taken time to be single 😅😅 what does it say about them?
@rozneik
@rozneik 7 жыл бұрын
Been searching for a wife when I should've been searching for MORE of God!! Time to get these priorities straight! There's a reason for the season! This series is POWERFUL!! 👌🏾💯💯💯
@valenciawilliams5625
@valenciawilliams5625 6 жыл бұрын
yes sir!
@antoinettecoleman6365
@antoinettecoleman6365 6 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Daneraaaaa
@Daneraaaaa 6 жыл бұрын
Rozneik very powerful 👏🏽❤️
@marythomas1821
@marythomas1821 6 жыл бұрын
Rozneik So cute
@Evbddgegeh
@Evbddgegeh 6 жыл бұрын
Rozneik amen
@carolinabusse3443
@carolinabusse3443 3 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t improve your singleness, it exposes it 🔥🔥
@mrtruthhurts2307
@mrtruthhurts2307 3 жыл бұрын
Wow 🥺
@KevinGDividend
@KevinGDividend 2 жыл бұрын
What does that even mean?
@monicapwilson
@monicapwilson 4 жыл бұрын
Binge listening during Corona virus. Hits a lot different when life slows you down.
@kandacenoire
@kandacenoire 4 жыл бұрын
Melanin mom Budgets riiiight and love your handle. I’m trying to be celibate and debt free lol
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!! It sure do
@LisaLee123
@LisaLee123 4 жыл бұрын
So true!
@jamie-gl9dz
@jamie-gl9dz 4 жыл бұрын
For real I listened to this 3 times now that I’m “still” I HEAR this it’s like listening to it for the first time.....smh at myself
@lyratarog1269
@lyratarog1269 4 жыл бұрын
May I know where can I find the part 4? 😊
@rae222_
@rae222_ 6 жыл бұрын
“And when you don’t know you, you won’t pick right because you’ll pick what you THINK you want.”
@mllange30
@mllange30 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 36, single, have a degree, own a home but I'm single. God timing is best. I refuse to be ungrateful because God hasn't granted me this one thing. Making adjustments in my.though process and will enjoy my singleness.
@christinenjeruaqua
@christinenjeruaqua 6 жыл бұрын
Angela Miller Amen gal. 36 too
@lauradykstra7807
@lauradykstra7807 6 жыл бұрын
Just turned 35, in the same boat. Just trusting in Him is the best we can do!
@bluemickey23
@bluemickey23 6 жыл бұрын
Praise God! Keep being grateful. ♥️
@thetoughgroup
@thetoughgroup 6 жыл бұрын
@Black Educated and Bougie None of the accomplishments you listed (having a degree and a house) qualify you to be a good wife. For the most part, men don't care about a woman's degrees. We are not interviewing you for a job, LOL. Now, if you had said you're a kind, loving, supportive, submissive, caring, thoughtful, modest, intelligent, motherly and Godly woman who loves caring for her man, staying fit and healthy, building with him and can cook well, that would've been saying something. Just sharing some insight into what quality men are seeking. Stay blessed.
@pilot2bme
@pilot2bme 6 жыл бұрын
Amen to that sister
@Cubanmuchacha
@Cubanmuchacha 3 жыл бұрын
Since 18, I have been judged by peers due to my singleness. I have been called weird, cold. I was told that “I am wasting my youth.” I must admit that I have been pressurising myself to find a boyfriend, not for me, but to stop those comments. I’ve always struggled with relationships and I have found the explanation: I just simply love being single. I enjoy my alone time, not having to answer to anyone, not being worried if I’m being cheated on. I like focusing on myself. I will not lie, I eventually do want to marry, and that guy will be special because I will “want” him, not “need” him. That guy will complement my life, not be my life because I simply love being single. Ladies, it is okay to be single. Do not fall into what society expects from you. If you want to be in a relationship then so be in one, but do not force yourself into it. Today, at 21, I accept myself & pray to fill myself in so much of God’s love that peoples’ opinion & perception of me will not affect me.
@chanelle.n
@chanelle.n 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss sis. I can relate!! God's timing, not this world's.
@slevinchannel7589
@slevinchannel7589 3 жыл бұрын
Information is Key. And Information-Control is a bad, negative, bad, not-good Thing. So much so that even Apocalypse-Novels and -Storys often use it. And sadly, the brutal truth is that Christianity does it a lot. You are actively discouraged to ‚not listen to non-believers’, which is a dangerous Mindset. Ignoring other ideas, never informing yourself about other Religions, let alone Atheism. Thats all very, very bad, tbh. Even old Texts say it: „Only a Fool drinks Water from just one Fountain.“ Its well known that its healthy to inform yourself and that its actually resembles more ‚Weak Faith’ if you never listen to Atheists and other Religions and such. If anything, it shows weak Faith in your own Religion, if you dont ‚dare’ to question it, question yourself, question those that feed you Info. And to say it brutally: If you just get fed Info from just 1 Source; your simply naive and gullable. Easy zu manipulate. So go and check out many Sources and Factions; you live in a Rich, diverse World, so do not limit yourself and also dont let anyone limit you.
@Jt-8of8
@Jt-8of8 3 жыл бұрын
It’s always good to wait and let love find you then to search and stress about it.
@katiealvis9463
@katiealvis9463 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. Thank you for sharing
@AutismTheaterProject
@AutismTheaterProject 3 жыл бұрын
Very wise 👌
@candaline
@candaline 6 жыл бұрын
Am I the only 14-year-old here? Yes? Ok... But I absolutely looooove these sermons, they r so anointed. Especially in my age, where all my classmates r in relationships it's hard for me to stay focused on God, but HE IS MY STRENGHT! Edit: Wow, it's been almost 2 years!! GOD IS SOO GOOD, YOU GUYS! I'm still single, but he really opened my eyes and showed me what I need to learn first before being able to be in a relationship. I've been able to grow in my identity and in my purpose, but it's not over yet and I will keep on running the race and one day I'll see somebody running next to me. Thanks for all the nice comments
@antoniorosario5709
@antoniorosario5709 6 жыл бұрын
Bruh I’m 14 too lol
@nammiepam
@nammiepam 6 жыл бұрын
Me too!! It’s so hard to not follow all the things your friends do 😩
@starryslight7095
@starryslight7095 6 жыл бұрын
Dude, that's so awesome, no shame!!! Keep your foundation in God. We're all in different places and that's okay. I honestly really admire you, knowing at this age (I'm 3 years older than you!) where your heart should be, with God. I wish I had that at 14 haha, but I'm here now and that's good. God bless!!
@spelmanbeauty2010
@spelmanbeauty2010 6 жыл бұрын
Candice Lum mi
@itsmanibabyy482
@itsmanibabyy482 6 жыл бұрын
Candice Lum you are not the only one💯 I’m 17 and it’s really hard not to want to get in a relationship because what I seen around me, but I know GOD is who I need to be focused on
@Liveandletdie21
@Liveandletdie21 6 жыл бұрын
"Don't look for a boyfriend so you can say you're Facebook official! "A lot of that happening. God please keep your protection over our youth on social media.
@iZahppy
@iZahppy 7 жыл бұрын
THIS DUDE HAS ME JUMPIN UP AND DOWN!!! I LOVE HIS CHARACTER IN HIS SERMONS.
@airriauntem.1656
@airriauntem.1656 7 жыл бұрын
Charlene Cayanan SAME GIRL!!
@catthearts
@catthearts 7 жыл бұрын
LOLOL
@lynneaworley2710
@lynneaworley2710 6 жыл бұрын
Charlene Cayanan This kinda sermon can change the trajectory of someone’s life!!!
@daennedolce7097
@daennedolce7097 6 жыл бұрын
Same!!!!
@mattp1914
@mattp1914 6 жыл бұрын
Charlene Cayanan just found him this am bc I couldn’t make it to church. On my second vid, he’s so good. Great personality and sense of humor, along with his knowledge of the word!
@nayyhaaa
@nayyhaaa 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and have been single literally since my birth and by God's grace I've never felt lonely for He's always there for me. Single or not, God should be a Christian's primary source of Love and comfort, always. I read a quote long ago that said "Dance with God and He will make the right man cut in in His time". Amen, He will 🙏
@MahoganyGlaze
@MahoganyGlaze 7 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS THE BEST MESSAGE I HEARD ABOUT SINGLENESS!!!! THIS MESSAGE HAS BROKEN YOKES AND OPENED MY EYES!!!!!! thank you for your obedience. I now see my singleness as a GIFT and an opportunity to be the BEST VERSION OF myself. I’m so grateful to GOD!!! Thank you Jesus!!!
@catthearts
@catthearts 7 жыл бұрын
imani brown right! Same here.. Smh we've been lied to
@TshwaneloSerumola
@TshwaneloSerumola 7 жыл бұрын
Girrrrrrrl this man is Gave a good word! 😭👏
@ubaok24
@ubaok24 7 жыл бұрын
imani brown I struggle with being single daily.
@shakeriaspencer8815
@shakeriaspencer8815 7 жыл бұрын
Amen! I agree with you 100000000000% okay this is a time for me to build with God. For him to reveal my place, purpose and identity. Make me the best me i can be
@artonyalascrafts4892
@artonyalascrafts4892 6 жыл бұрын
imani brown ,👍
@StephanieBogart
@StephanieBogart 6 жыл бұрын
I’m sitting here in the parking lot of a movie theater waiting to see a movie and take myself on a date (which I haven’t done in years) and I hear what he says at 29:10. I’m shook! God is speaking loudly today! Thank you for this sermon!
@laminage
@laminage 6 жыл бұрын
If you do it, good for you! You may get strange looks but think about it, you're doing what you want, your needs are being met, and you're not trying to make anyone else happy except yourself. Way to go!
@1charmaineb
@1charmaineb 6 жыл бұрын
I do it all the time...
@mookWasHere
@mookWasHere 6 жыл бұрын
Speaking so loudly God is Screaming at me right now😂
@ShawnySharesHair
@ShawnySharesHair 6 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I love it...dating myself is so awesome 😊
@DoubleJLive96
@DoubleJLive96 6 жыл бұрын
I do it
@VennaTanya
@VennaTanya 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and single. I was in a 5 year relationship and the guy broke up with me on the phone coz of distance and he quickly began dating another lady. He came back and said he was so stupid and at that time I was fasting and praying for a husband. I was prayerful but desperate as well. I just thought that this is it. He is the one for me. And before that I prayed to God saying I will not be intimate with my future partner, I will wait and be pure in His word. But when my ex came back into my life I didn’t commit to that mainly coz I didn’t want to lose him. So I put him first instead of God and sadly I was okay with that. Now he broke up again with me after a year of dating. I just feel pressured now to get married and desperate. After watching this, I praise God that I’m single coz I need to know God’s anointed and destined place for me, purpose, provision, identity and parameters. Thank you Lord.
@nyjawilliams4699
@nyjawilliams4699 4 жыл бұрын
Similarly thing happened to me.
@justshaun3058
@justshaun3058 4 жыл бұрын
Stay strong. You not alone. I feel the same. Thats why we all here watching this sermon. I’ll be praying for you and myself.
@sherryboyd3480
@sherryboyd3480 4 жыл бұрын
Venna Chasakara I went through something similar, and beat myself up after he came back and the sin we entered in. Gods Grace is sufficient I felt so heavy and insecure , the binding of souls is real
@zinashah3043
@zinashah3043 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏 ❤ Always remember God has a purpose for us and the winding road which he intends us to take will lead us to the revelation of us and God in us xxx Stay blessed 🙏 and always believe ❤
@karlydepaz
@karlydepaz 4 жыл бұрын
Pray for the Holy spirit to guide you and you can hear his voice wherever he takes you.
@tsholofelothobi
@tsholofelothobi 10 ай бұрын
I can not believe it has been six years since the release of this series 🙌🏾 best sermon of all time.
@kimbarrentine1938
@kimbarrentine1938 4 жыл бұрын
I use to be miserable because I was single. When I started working on myself and building a stronger relationship with God I started to love my time alone and take advantage of it. I have learned I rather by single and happy and wait for the right person than settle and miserable with the wrong person and be stuck. I want my future marriage to last so I want to meet a Godly man and don’t want to rush into anything . I feel this message. Thank you
@ivannaang2022
@ivannaang2022 3 жыл бұрын
Same here!! Well said! Represent exactly what am abt to say . Thank you God bless you!!!
@iiammaria2044
@iiammaria2044 2 жыл бұрын
Sis am going through the same thing right now!! Am 22 years old, my mom got married at 22 and my older sister (1 year older than me) also got married at 22, I felt like what am I doing wrong why can't I keep a relationship. Now am focusing on myself and God and I feel so happy!! Being single isn't so bad when I think that God already has the perfect person just for me.
@missNCW
@missNCW 2 жыл бұрын
@@iiammaria2044 yeah because you’re 22. Try being older and having married mothers who got married at 19 telling you to be ‘patient’. Sorry I didn’t realise that getting married at 19 made you more patient than the 35 year old woman who literally been WAITING her whole life
@missNCW
@missNCW 2 жыл бұрын
Why is the choice always between a Godly mad and the wrong man - single people can want healthy marriages. - no one said we had to settle for bad ones just because we’re TIRED of waiting. Pastor Mike met his wife when he was a TEENAGER
@iiammaria2044
@iiammaria2044 2 жыл бұрын
@@missNCW I actually don't understand
@annabanana2583
@annabanana2583 6 жыл бұрын
“singleness is probably the most important time of your life” ... 🙌🏽
@shanicemay_
@shanicemay_ 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone who wanted to press that like button multiple times to say amen?! This was the one
@MomASMR.
@MomASMR. 3 жыл бұрын
For all my single brothers and sisters watching this, I do want you to know that being content in singleness does not mean it's wrong for you to feel s3xual attraction. If there is one thing God has taught me about singleness it's that that is not something to be ashamed of. Being content in our singleness does not take away our humanity, or even our desire to feel loved, it just means we surrender those feelings over to God and trust that he will give us what we NEED.
@patiencejameson9557
@patiencejameson9557 2 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu for you just reach out to me!
@jessicaaletor8860
@jessicaaletor8860 6 жыл бұрын
Stay Guarded because what the enemy cannot destroy, he distracts.” Maximize your singleness y'all.
@emze.6516
@emze.6516 6 жыл бұрын
Marriage does not improve your singleness, it exposes it.... Nothing ever straightened me out as fast as this statement did, my perception completely changed. Now I'm so glad I heard this as a single person.
@Shavier777
@Shavier777 5 жыл бұрын
emediong etukudo Amen, same here.
@charolettehudsononpurpose
@charolettehudsononpurpose 4 жыл бұрын
Spend time with God, Get to know yourself ... then someone else
@pastormichaeltodd9597
@pastormichaeltodd9597 4 жыл бұрын
Child of God Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (divine grace MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) my dear if you believe in God do what I told you before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +23408112784575) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless u............................................................................................
@followthyomens93z
@followthyomens93z 2 жыл бұрын
“What the enemy cannot destroy, He distracts.” truth 🤧
@meganpotts2733
@meganpotts2733 7 жыл бұрын
Sooooooooooooooooooooo like I literally prayed about being single this afternoon and this message was everything I needed to hear.
@marymccorvey7286
@marymccorvey7286 7 жыл бұрын
Megan Potts the same thing with me! I even started journaling about this single season! I went to bed, and the next day, this was on a Facebook post! God is Awesome! I’m going to watch the full series now
@aprilcaldwell2895
@aprilcaldwell2895 6 жыл бұрын
Megan Potts Babe its one of the best things you can do! Enjoy all of yourself...in Your time of singlness💙🍃 I'm here for it!
@deezerd4459
@deezerd4459 6 жыл бұрын
Megan Potts I pray all is well.
@queenmoore3776
@queenmoore3776 6 жыл бұрын
Yesssss.... AMEN!!!!!
@MsScorpio83
@MsScorpio83 6 жыл бұрын
Megan Potts it was right on time for me as well.
@swoosh3684
@swoosh3684 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you start off loving youself but then after a very long time of being single you start to think that maybe something is wrong with you and that's where the knit picking begins.
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 4 жыл бұрын
TRUTH!!!!!!
@shilohinstitute5566
@shilohinstitute5566 4 жыл бұрын
I think the essential component to this was not just singleness but rather the component of singleness (whole), that is, 1. One with God 2. One with God. Living the singleness outside of God leads to knit picking. "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength." So it's not about inability to deal with opposite sex but taking time to commune with The Lord. 🙏
@mariac6280
@mariac6280 3 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm going through right now.....
@hannahjoycheng
@hannahjoycheng 5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. Society and family tells us that somehow in our singleness we are not enough
@lebomagano3522
@lebomagano3522 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t listen to that crap 🤣🤣🤣 Thank God
@pastormichaeltodd7369
@pastormichaeltodd7369 3 жыл бұрын
beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
@destinylove9295
@destinylove9295 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he mentioned the more you’re single the better you’ll be when u get married hit home. When u know how to love yourself the right ain’t nobody can love you less and you settle for it. Once you love God he teaches you how to love yourself, and a person that love his/herself knows how to give love and what to expect from love.
@bradparks3704
@bradparks3704 6 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best sermons I've ever listened to! I've listened to it about 4 times lol..... One of my favorite pastors to listen to, I love how he re-presents things
@louisaonyinye7388
@louisaonyinye7388 5 жыл бұрын
So true
@eddiebox5054
@eddiebox5054 5 жыл бұрын
I concur
@ladygrant07
@ladygrant07 5 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Posh_Spice89
@Posh_Spice89 6 жыл бұрын
This has literally changed my life! This is how I know my God is real. Literally in the very moment of dealing with this exact issue, I stumble across this word from God! Can’t nobody tell me my God ain’t real.
@jessagermino1253
@jessagermino1253 6 жыл бұрын
Same here 😊 God is moving...
@Shavier777
@Shavier777 5 жыл бұрын
I’m standing in agreement. I’m in this same season of acceptance of myself and being true to who I am. I needed to hear this - God knows! 🔥🙏🏾
@brianalewis9601
@brianalewis9601 5 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Sam yess sis goo off
@simplynichelle9473
@simplynichelle9473 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 26 years old trying to figure out my purpose in life struggling with my faith and that’s what brought me to this series 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@sweetflower8
@sweetflower8 6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@soystef
@soystef 6 жыл бұрын
Me as well. With you in spirit.
@bluemickey23
@bluemickey23 6 жыл бұрын
Seek God and he will show you or tell you. To know Christ leads to a purposeful life. ♥️
@LoveOlivie
@LoveOlivie 6 жыл бұрын
Sammmmmeeeeee 💝💝💝
@preciousuerrey
@preciousuerrey 6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@FyErroR11
@FyErroR11 3 жыл бұрын
2021 and still rewatching this, who's with me?
@ohlexdidit1044
@ohlexdidit1044 3 жыл бұрын
Me!!
@alimuller5229
@alimuller5229 2 жыл бұрын
Well 2022🙈👏🏽🙌🏽
@jadanyc3212
@jadanyc3212 7 жыл бұрын
This morning was extremely tough for me. Just got out a 7 month relationship(yesterday, it’s fresh I know) that I thought I really wanted. I was that female you talked about who wanted to teach him the word, even with his rough past. I wanted to be his healer, I wanted to save him. I prayed for him. Prayed for our relationship. Our relationship needed maintenance. I was ignoring all signs, and praying for things that I shouldn’t even be praying for. You said it best, we date out of depression and not destiny. Trying to fill voids only god can. I really needed this. I’m using this series to help me keep going. Day by day. Thank you.
@ldr792
@ldr792 7 жыл бұрын
I know it’s really hard, but God is leading you and all things will work for your good
@khiabrown2421
@khiabrown2421 6 жыл бұрын
Jada NYC this is literally exactly my same exact situation. Seven months. Just happened two days ago. I’m trying to heal day by day as well. Found this video and it is helping me and opening my eyes. It was a terrible relationship physically and emotionally abusive. Lies and cheats and deception.
@briannacollie2742
@briannacollie2742 6 жыл бұрын
I was the same way, but God can only fill in the empty void in our hearts. It's not our place to be in a sticky situation, but we do have to pray for those people. I use to be the kind to tend to the broken hearted, but I learned the hard way that bad people tarnish good character
@carolineochieng3256
@carolineochieng3256 6 жыл бұрын
This is my story right now,I don't know how to a walk away
@NAOMILOREN
@NAOMILOREN 6 жыл бұрын
Girl we should def talk if you’re open to it, Ive been through the same
@alrxa995
@alrxa995 4 жыл бұрын
I haven't been single since I was 16 years old I am now 32. I went from one toxic relationship to another. This video just changed my life and I am beyond excited to see what God brings to be during my season of singleness!!!
@pastormichaeltodd7369
@pastormichaeltodd7369 3 жыл бұрын
beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
@SharistaMarie17
@SharistaMarie17 3 жыл бұрын
Heidi. I have done the same thing since 13 and now I’m married. And I went into marriage without knowing myself or God in my singleness. I’m struggling. Praying for you. And I hope I can look to God to help change me. This hits me so hard.
@shawnalang2463
@shawnalang2463 3 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Heidi 💕
@aetima
@aetima 3 жыл бұрын
Hey girl, I am rooting for you.
@debbiefuentes62
@debbiefuentes62 3 жыл бұрын
A
@deliz0771
@deliz0771 6 жыл бұрын
I dated someone for whom I put my dreams on hold for 4yrs. Now that I am single, I am doing all the things that I wanted to do specially working on my self. Ejoying this season, Thank you Yeshua🤗
@rmp2784
@rmp2784 3 жыл бұрын
I started to watch pastor Michael just a week ago, and I have to say and give testimony that God is definitely using you to reach out to people such as myself. Thank you for reminding me that God has a plan, he has a purpose for me and without him I will never reach my purpose. May God bless you and continue to use you as such an inspiration. Thank your for preaching in a way that I can understand and feel the need to come back for more because I want more, I want to learn more of my God!
@ivannaang2022
@ivannaang2022 3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is GOD definitely use him big time this series really game changer . My life wud never be ghe same again after watching al of this! Dont forget to watch relationhsio goals reloaded as well!!!
@Ninaxlove
@Ninaxlove 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I'm new here too. Found him off of a tik tok video that had a message I needed. Came to KZbin to get the full message. Now I'm back here to continue to get the word.
@quinnberger1639
@quinnberger1639 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I found him on tik tok & here I am! I’m obsessed, relate to it all
@Esther_Ndira
@Esther_Ndira 7 жыл бұрын
And here I was thinking that I was ready to enter in a relationship. Well after listening to this I know for a fact that I AM NOT READY! After listening to this amazing teaching, I am more happy than ever, just knowing the fact singleness may be the most important time of my life. I am more excited then ever to start spending MORE time with God, GOD BLESS YOU MAN OF GOD. #NORWAY!
@naturallydope6971
@naturallydope6971 7 жыл бұрын
Esther Ndira me either...
@2010MzEvans
@2010MzEvans 6 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way!
@consistencyiskey_
@consistencyiskey_ 6 жыл бұрын
Same here. I thought I was ready to be in a relationship and was wondering why it was taking God so long to lead me there, and now I know, I have to be happy in my singleness, and fulfill my purpose in the place He's placed me in :) This is a really great series! And I'm so happy there are people like me here too!
@pocillo38
@pocillo38 6 жыл бұрын
Esther Ndira.... I'm with you
@wshelby83
@wshelby83 6 жыл бұрын
@@consistencyiskey_ and Esther I feel the same way as you right now. I have a lot to work on.
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 7 жыл бұрын
thanking God! single after 25 aint so bad after all. taking this time to work on myself, minister, travel, get to know God and myself.
@MelissaTEve
@MelissaTEve 7 жыл бұрын
Yes sis yes!
@angelanhamburo6563
@angelanhamburo6563 7 жыл бұрын
PrincessAmandaTV so true. Infact the older you get in God. The more you see the benefits. Praise God too
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 7 жыл бұрын
+Angela nhamburo amen without a spouse and kids i can go and come as i please.
@pineirokatherine
@pineirokatherine 7 жыл бұрын
PrincessAmandaTV same!! I'm about to be 25
@leahluvvanderson3131
@leahluvvanderson3131 7 жыл бұрын
Amen 😊 I’m only 20 and I love being single.
@96Takeya
@96Takeya 7 жыл бұрын
I agree. Being single does NOT mean you can't reach your purpose. 1 Corinthians 7:8 "So I say to those who aren't married and to widows -- it's better to stay unmarried, just as I am."
@imaninaomic
@imaninaomic 3 жыл бұрын
You running so hard in your purpose & God will say look over & you’ll look over & see a man running as hard as you! Yeah that one god the water works going. That touched my soul.
@TheFrankie1011
@TheFrankie1011 6 жыл бұрын
Why doesn't the church talk about this though? I've constantly seen marriage placed on this holy, otherworldly pedestal and every single person is desperately trying to get out this season like its a terrible disease. I hope messages like this are continued to be preached through out churches and people feel more content in their singleness. Most churches I've encountered have become nothing but marriage breeding grounds where people don't even want to develop as an individual first, which is sad. I have struggled with this myself which has led me to go to a more all inclusive, welcoming church that is not so incredibly focused on relationship and child status. I truly believe God is not so focused on our relationship status and loves us just as we are!
@misskat7437
@misskat7437 5 жыл бұрын
Sadly, it's American society. We do the best we can, and it's good that you know the difference. We must remember that God loves the church and we can't give up on God's vision while we are on this earth, that is not for God.
@brianalewis9601
@brianalewis9601 5 жыл бұрын
Francesca Wilder yes sis gooo offf
@jknowlden286
@jknowlden286 6 жыл бұрын
If you're not married, you are single. If you are married and separated, you are married and not single. Living together is not the same as being married, you're playing house with no real commitment. Being single is not a crime and there is no shame in being single.
@kimberlymawi
@kimberlymawi 5 жыл бұрын
you explained it so well!
@ChurlzVA
@ChurlzVA 5 жыл бұрын
Yes there is you dumbo
@lashondarochell7584
@lashondarochell7584 5 жыл бұрын
@@ChurlzVA That is so mean and childish of you to say.
@victoriousvictory8899
@victoriousvictory8899 5 жыл бұрын
If you are married and a spouse cheated you are in a broken covenant.
@Isis77176
@Isis77176 5 жыл бұрын
"You've never been alone long enough to learn to love yourself"
@bassinsquatch8503
@bassinsquatch8503 2 жыл бұрын
I am 61 years old been married 3 times and they all ended because of me. I immediately go from one relationship to another as I don’t want to be lonely. Only time I had singleness was in college. This sermon hit home really hard. I right now is in another relationship living with them as I cannot be alone. I have caused so much hurt in my relationships because I never had my singleness. Thank you pastor for Gods word.
@phophifulufhelomildred5746
@phophifulufhelomildred5746 5 жыл бұрын
1.It's more important to be single than it is to get married 2. Marriage is only as good as your singleness 3. It's ok to be single but not good to be alone
@kelvinehimen7196
@kelvinehimen7196 3 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@terenajoyce8899
@terenajoyce8899 3 жыл бұрын
❤️🥺
@AnnieHoneyMilk
@AnnieHoneyMilk 6 жыл бұрын
Last night I prayed to the Lord to please talk to me to lead me to my purpose and tell me what he wants me to do. Today, I stumbled across this series. Amen.
@patricia-kv6ix
@patricia-kv6ix 5 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭😭
@EduardoGoncalvesJ
@EduardoGoncalvesJ 5 жыл бұрын
It happened the same to me too! God is really incredible! all praise to our Lord in heaven!
@Rizzinator123
@Rizzinator123 5 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me! I was feeling down and worthless just due to the singleness I really needed this message
@earlonaweary9155
@earlonaweary9155 5 жыл бұрын
In Jesus name, Amen!
@BrownFam1225
@BrownFam1225 7 жыл бұрын
Single while I'm in a relationship... Really hit me ❤
@eunefaber9686
@eunefaber9686 Жыл бұрын
My mom told me to love yourself before loving others. I needed to hear this 6years ago
@ronanderson3884
@ronanderson3884 5 жыл бұрын
Hands down the BEST sermon on singleness I have ever heard (I'm currently 43 fyi). I think this should be a REQUIREMENT listen for everyone!!!! Awesome!!!
@naomibasson1683
@naomibasson1683 5 жыл бұрын
you so right , am 53 and still not worried my dear , GOD will provide in HIS right time , bless day
@shirleethechristianchic
@shirleethechristianchic 5 жыл бұрын
So right
@bbrochelle77
@bbrochelle77 5 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@walenawellness6449
@walenawellness6449 4 жыл бұрын
You're so right!!!!!
@user-xe2io2go1f
@user-xe2io2go1f 4 жыл бұрын
Search for Myles Munroe's sermon on Singleness from over a decade ago. He literally plagiarized it if theres such a thing for Christian sermons
@pandoraj2176
@pandoraj2176 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 39 never been married two years ago I was fighting for my life had a brain aneurysm and stroke. Was in a toxic relationship as I in the hospital and I prayed ask God show me this man true colors once it was revealed to me. And now I'm happy maximum my singleness
@Adefunke16
@Adefunke16 5 жыл бұрын
Hope you are doing well now sis. Happy New Year be blessed 🙏🏽
@pandoraj2176
@pandoraj2176 5 жыл бұрын
@@Adefunke16 I'm happy sis single blessed and highly favored
@ziyandangewu6730
@ziyandangewu6730 4 жыл бұрын
Well done for letting God into your situation.Happy singleness,until Gods appointed time.Enjoy this time.Wishing u all the best.
@justice77justice39
@justice77justice39 4 жыл бұрын
Pray you are whole sis and completely healed.
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@KristinCimone
@KristinCimone 6 жыл бұрын
2018 I dated myself all year. Been single and celibate since 2017.
@MrAllysonn
@MrAllysonn 5 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@jackulynervin9897
@jackulynervin9897 5 жыл бұрын
I BEEN DATING MYSELF FOR A WHILE, THE PEACE THAT COME WITH IT IS AMAZING, AMAZING, AND AMAZING ... IT IS A BLESSING TO SHARE LOVE AND BE IN LOVE BUT HOW CAN YOU DO THAT IF YOUR MISERABLE IN ANY AREA OF YOUR LIFE, NO YOUR NOT GOING TO BE PERFECT...BUT FIND YOUR PEACE....TRUST GOD AND YOU WILL KNOW WHEN TO MOVE....
@adev9764
@adev9764 5 жыл бұрын
How do you date yourself I have heard the phrase but I don't understand the concept
@MrAllysonn
@MrAllysonn 5 жыл бұрын
@@adev9764 what a great question. Dating yourself mean, go travelling just by yourself, go see a movie by yourself, go out doing what you'll do with a boyfriend but with yourself, dating is getting to know someone while dating then you'll do the same with yourself. The more you get comfortable with yourself, you'll know what you'll like and what you don't like.
@naturalglory6311
@naturalglory6311 5 жыл бұрын
Ade V if you listen from 28:58 it talks about about dating yourself.
@sthembisozondi3342
@sthembisozondi3342 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this, I've been single for 7 months now and this week I was kinda obsessed with getting to a relationship, now I'm chilled, it's just gonna be me and my GOD
@tinyikom9671
@tinyikom9671 3 жыл бұрын
Yes my brother!!! Just You and God. Love that
@tinyikom9671
@tinyikom9671 3 жыл бұрын
Love will find you, no wonder the divorce rate is high, there is so much pressure out there
@slaybae777
@slaybae777 3 жыл бұрын
Same here it’s been 5 months for me and I’ve grown my relationship with God much stronger than ever !
@VennaTanya
@VennaTanya 5 жыл бұрын
“Divorce is the death that never ends” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@ChiefCedricJohnson
@ChiefCedricJohnson 3 жыл бұрын
James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
@CA2SD
@CA2SD 5 жыл бұрын
💥 Boom. This sermon has no expiration !🙌🏻
@soniia_aka3462
@soniia_aka3462 6 жыл бұрын
The other day I felt so down and "lonely" because I'm not in a relationship right now. I felt like I needed someone in my life, but this message just uplifted me. Singleness is not loneliness. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@misskat7437
@misskat7437 5 жыл бұрын
I'm in a growth group, and it was strange to me at first because I'm the only single. Yet God PLACED me there for a purpose, not to 'single me out' but because it's what I needed, and what THEY needed. There is no hiding behind 'rose colored glasses' and some of them are on their 2nd marriage, not completely healed from what went wrong from the 1st. I've discovered that THERE'S NOTHING WRONG with having a deep desire to be connected to another person, but I have to ask God daily ' Am I the right person, for You?' We have to learn to stand on our own, our spouse could die unexpectedly... that doesn't make us any less valuable to God. Even if we have the right business partners, the friends, the mentors, a husband/wife, children... we can still FEEL lonely... because we're lonely for GOD! He is the only one we have, in every circumstance!
@worshipprayer8165
@worshipprayer8165 2 жыл бұрын
I am praying that whoever reads this, will be reminded of the love bestowed upon us; the finished work on the Cross- the work of God’s amazing grace. You are loved, always. I am praying that in whatever circumstance or situation you are in right now, that the Lord of all grace will find us faithful, regardless. Amen.
@Ahministries4352
@Ahministries4352 2 жыл бұрын
Amen ❤🙏
@virginiakivuva5144
@virginiakivuva5144 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@TerryAnnOnline
@TerryAnnOnline 7 жыл бұрын
I really believe that God has called me to a life of singleness. I can really relate to this message. I used to act desperate because I thought being married with children was something EVERYONE is supposed to do. It's not true. I've learned just because I'm not married....doesn't mean I am alone.
@JayShara
@JayShara 6 жыл бұрын
PASTOR IS PUTTING ME ON BLAST!!! seessh I’m being called OUT!!!
@Tobi_237
@Tobi_237 6 жыл бұрын
Jay Shara I know right😆...but now I know that’s just the light of the Truth, the Truth that sets us free.
@JayShara
@JayShara 6 жыл бұрын
Tobi Adesanmi exactly 🙌🏽
@DanicaStarr
@DanicaStarr 5 жыл бұрын
“Maximize your singleness” I’m so glad that I’m rewatching this series. I needed to be reminded that my singleness is a time to develop myself through God 😌🙏🏽
@purposelytabs
@purposelytabs 5 жыл бұрын
Me too sis!! am always coming back to listen and get reminded😂😂👊👊👌
@olivekinya86
@olivekinya86 3 жыл бұрын
pastor mike's sermons are changing my life.
@timothymuthama6662
@timothymuthama6662 3 жыл бұрын
We are here to be transformed.
@alexabutterfield9396
@alexabutterfield9396 2 жыл бұрын
Frrr
@williegrant3054
@williegrant3054 7 жыл бұрын
Pastor Mike, I have looked at 1 and 2 and I can honestly say without seeing the rest of the series: THIS IS FOR ME. Thank You for keeping it real
@dejaburch9371
@dejaburch9371 6 жыл бұрын
Willie Grant agreed!!!!
@ninateu3549
@ninateu3549 6 жыл бұрын
Willie Grant me too! It was such a paradigm shift for me.
@dejajackson3984
@dejajackson3984 6 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!
@alexandreaorozco4821
@alexandreaorozco4821 6 жыл бұрын
Same here!!
@amandacorrea8118
@amandacorrea8118 6 жыл бұрын
Willie Grant assddexuididekkepii
@Cierra_Yvonne
@Cierra_Yvonne 7 жыл бұрын
I’m only 16 mins in and he’s absolutely right about loving yourself first. I was in a dark place never really been single and got married 4 years later got a divorce. We both never loved us first. We jumped right into marriage not knowing what we were doing. Be single people love you First.
@mistw.9323
@mistw.9323 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 This is really helpful when trying to decide how I want to live my life
@nyjawilliams4699
@nyjawilliams4699 4 жыл бұрын
You're ahead of the curve.
@diamondcribbs4083
@diamondcribbs4083 4 жыл бұрын
Your 13 go outside and play
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
@BlackPanther-lt7wr 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 'trying to decide..'
@Inspiredbylethabo
@Inspiredbylethabo 4 жыл бұрын
It’s always best to set a good foundation. ✨
@George_Esther
@George_Esther 4 жыл бұрын
That’s it my dear❤️
@amybruinenberg8855
@amybruinenberg8855 3 жыл бұрын
I have a crush on someone and i let it blind me. Hearing this made me think i have to focus on myself. Of course i acknowledge this crush and my admiration for this man, but I won't let him live in my head rentfree anymore. I need to use my singleness to seek God AND find Him. My identity needs to be in Christ, and Christ alone. Only then is there room for someone else in my life. Thank you for this insightful sermon!
@deespeaks._6315
@deespeaks._6315 7 жыл бұрын
This message spoke to me. I'm young 19. Wanting to find me and my purpose here. Edit; I’m 23 now guys. So, long story short I did not do the work! But this spoke to me! I spoke life into having God pour His love and life into me. I asked for Him to help me fulfill my purpose. Now that I’m older it’s not about me. It’s about His purpose. I chose not to give up. I had been chasing after the wrong things but God was always in the back of my mind. I’m here today, to say I am allowing the change to come. God will help me just as He will for you. We are young and it’s okay to be human. But I came back!
@emmanuellaofurie8250
@emmanuellaofurie8250 7 жыл бұрын
deedeethedon __ I’m 19 also, 20 in 4 months...I’m in the process of being self aware.
@krysj_
@krysj_ 7 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 going 19 and it really opened my eyes as a young person rushing into things
@jaylynnchannels8973
@jaylynnchannels8973 7 жыл бұрын
Glad to see some other young people!!! I’m 19 as well
@mercylonge5541
@mercylonge5541 6 жыл бұрын
Just turned 19, this touched me too
@MostHighDwelling
@MostHighDwelling 6 жыл бұрын
Just turned 19 recently. I feel you
@ivanildabarbosa6605
@ivanildabarbosa6605 7 жыл бұрын
I’ve been complaining about how lonely I am not realizing that I’m really not, I just need to perfect me before I can be with one. This was everything...Thank You!
@PrincessOwusu
@PrincessOwusu 7 жыл бұрын
"He has potential, he just hasn't cultivated it" - So blessed by this entire message. Excited for part 3!
@estherong774
@estherong774 7 жыл бұрын
child of the kingdom - Princess O.
@letgotvbyg197
@letgotvbyg197 6 жыл бұрын
child of the kingdom - Princess O. God bless you
@monicavlnc
@monicavlnc 6 жыл бұрын
child of the kingdom - Princess O. Same girl. Same. :)
@tamyckajohnson6316
@tamyckajohnson6316 6 жыл бұрын
This quote spoke to me. It keeps me coming back to this series.
@shannonlenamond3519
@shannonlenamond3519 Жыл бұрын
Agree 100% Time with God and yourself is very important. That's where growth happens.
@MJ-ln4xm
@MJ-ln4xm 7 жыл бұрын
I'm 30 & I felt the pressure of being married because of social media & feeling alone. People think marriage is the PhD for life when it's not. I've honestly been at peace more alone than when I was in a relationship with someone. Also, This some of the same material Pastor Keith Battle preached in "Holy Matrimony" in a 5 part series on here which was also awesome. I also encourage everyone to watch Dr.Myles Munroe Singleness.
@samanthaspeaks4206
@samanthaspeaks4206 6 жыл бұрын
Ketia Mae amen Im 31 and just broke up my engagement because i have goals, work on my health and travel!! Jesus is the only faithful man! High five girl friend!! Dont settle!!!
@oliveirasflah
@oliveirasflah 6 жыл бұрын
"I've honestly been at peace more alone than when I was in a relationship with someone." Same
@zahriahemurak
@zahriahemurak 6 жыл бұрын
"what the enemy cannot destroy he distracts"....uuuuuiii that touched my bones😏
@BennVai
@BennVai 6 жыл бұрын
“Love your neighbour as you love yourself” I’ve heard the commands so many times. Loving God. Yes. Loving others. Yes. But man, skipped the loving myself part!!! So simple but amazing! Thank you bro! Set free!
@ChicStrands
@ChicStrands 2 жыл бұрын
The only relationship I’m focused on currently is the one with God!!!! PERIODT🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@BellainBooks
@BellainBooks 5 жыл бұрын
“love your neighbor as you love yourself” - you can’t figure out how to love someone else in a relationship if you don’t first learn to love yourself in singleness !!!
@sgreen9088
@sgreen9088 5 жыл бұрын
"If I'm not married then I'm not enough" too often this is the message especially to single women in the church.
@jelicianorwood24
@jelicianorwood24 6 жыл бұрын
I am 25 years old I was supposed to get married but now I'm not. I want to continue to work on myself and relationship with God. We both must be whole and have relationship with God 1st. I know this is due to God's messenger.
@kirtisoma3211
@kirtisoma3211 3 жыл бұрын
It's true pastor : I made myself breakfast in bed got back in bed & ate it wow never felt that happy in my life pastor Mich may you be blessed abundantly in all areas of your life , you one of the greatest blessings to my life and the world.
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