Paramedic Basement Push Homicide | Cara Rintala Case Analysis

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[@Georgieastra]

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[@privard89]

You know what would fix our toxic and violent relationship? Adopting a child!

[@quanbrooklynkid7776]

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[@deniece0821]

Exactly. Why do people always think a baby/child is going to fix a terrible relationship? It never does and the poor child is the collateral damage.

[@christiansamaroo]

Dear relationship was a sin punishable by death. There will be no rest for the wicked.

[@Cuba_on_fire]

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[@missyskye_sea_land9424]

So many irresponsible, deceptive, selfish, volatile, and violent people in our world😪

[@elbertderf803]

the incompetent Judge fits here somewhere too.

[@rnempson1]

Violent lesbians fact

[@stalkerstomper3304]

@@rnempson1 Yes. Unfortunately there seems to be some link between the LGBT community with controlling their emotions and making rational decisions. A lifestyle of any kind of deep sin seems to consistently lead to a steep decline in morals and judgement.

[@caitopotato5519]

I'm totally fine with watching true crime yet the thought of going on a Caribbean cruise while having $100,000 in debt gives me extreme anxiety lol

[@jacquelinewilliams5661]

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[@watcher235711]

OMG I had the same thought! Just the number of mentions of debt...nervous!

[@evelynwaugh4053]

From their point of view, what's another 10k or so? They're likely past the point of no return.

[@glasshalffull2930]

An ex-sister-in-law had run up about $115,000 in credit card debt. She kept the debt secret from my brother and would get new cards and transferred the debt numerous times. She rented a PO Box so that the statements never came to the house. The only good thing was that except for her last fling of about $6aK, all the debt was in her name alone and the credit card companies couldn’t come after my brother. The best we can figure is that she probably had debt she hid when they were married and then kept building it for the 6 years they were married.

[@watcher235711]

@@glasshalffull2930 What did she spend it on? Oof, glad she's an ex!

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

“When anger is combined with impulsivity it can lead to an action that causes everything to be lost.” That’s so true. Actions dominated by anger are almost always destructive. Fantastic review, Dr. Grande.❤ I hope you have an enjoyable weekend.🍂🍃🍁

[@KoolT]

And alcoholic. They were drinkers too.

[@kevinrex7414]

@@KoolT Good fact. Anger and impulsivity are demons alcohol can unleash.

[@user-xg3uy6hq9g]

I have to agree . anger can be at times motivation for positive change but coupling the anger with impulsivity is destructive.

[@Andreamom001]

Wow, that’s a toxic, abusive relationship. 😢 That poor child growing up in the middle of all of that.

[@theappraizer]

I haven’t watched this yet, but based on the brief info I was able to find out by running a search on her name, it does appear to be a trend with lesbian couples adopting children and it ends horribly. It does appear to be a trend. A statistical police trend.

[@aarondavis8943]

@@theappraizer What data are you quoting here? The "I watched lots of videos" data set?

[@user-xg3uy6hq9g]

@@aarondavis8943 probably

[@GiftSparks]

@@aarondavis8943 No doubt. An endless diet of watching Dateline, 48 Hours, 20/20, Snapped, and Killer Couples.

[@xminusone1]

@@theappraizer I don't have read anything but I believe you. Adopting or having kids takes alot of time and dedication. I'm convinced some people somehow think they're Adopting a pet. They have troubles to dedicates themselves in a stable relationship, let alone raising a kid. Edit: I've 2 adults kids myself so I know what I'm talking about.

[@annal7364]

Alternative title: A Step by Step Guide to Commit Homicide. With so many homicidal staircases, you’d think they’d cease to be built. The murder rate would decrease. Anyway, Happy Weekend, Dr. G! 🍻

[@peterplotts1238]

Special recognition to the adoption agency for an excellent job and to the three juries who couldn't see the obvious.

[@KoolT]

Some counties don't allow charges to be dropped anymore on domestic violence cases. Thank goodness.

[@jeffreybrewer8649]

"Keep laughing it up Dr -- it's all fun and games til the primer is down" -- Springfield Painter, probably

[@ashleerhodes3445]

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[@watcher235711]

Thank you as always Dr. Grande! I really appreciate how your jokes are always funny never disrespecting the victims. (I noticed this a lot with your latest Delphi vid too). Request: please cover the case of Priscilla Phillips (book by Nancy Wright, "A Mother's Trial"). Thank you for all you do!

[@ToyInsanity]

Just don't say "you wanna bet?" to a gambling addict. This really irks Dr G

[@cottontails9003]

Good morning Dr Grande . What a toxic relationship. That little girl shouldn't have been raised in that situation. I believe Kara allegedly killed her wife. My sympathy goes too the little girl who will probably lose both parents. Thank you Dr Grande. Brilliant analysis, tragic outcome and informative topic.

[@paganpines]

What is wild to me is that she is currently living with her parents and daughter while awaiting trial. I would be really uncomfortable living with someone who very likely killed someone.

[@cottontails9003]

@@paganpines Thank you Kelly . I agree the little girl should be with someone safe and neutral, not involved with the current situation.

[@dws84]

Yeah, gay couples shouldn’t be allowed to have children.

[@christiansamaroo]

@@cottontails9003 at the trial the little girl was crying for her mother’s release. So apparently your feelings and other people feelings are two different feelings. Because she clearly believes she was innocent.

[@tinabonrud1304]

Love your sense of humor

[@asalane20]

How do people make it that far in life with such poor coping skills?

[@chris55529]

Looks like another good one. Thanks Doc! Also, when I submitted my little list of people that might be worth a video, I forgot you had already done Christine Chubbuck. Sorry about that. Bud Dwyer might be good, too. Great joke at 8:13. Also, "gravity-assisted journey down the stairs" was great, too.

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[@sabbottart]

Is there a test people can take before entering into a relationship to assist them in deciding if it’s the right move? It seems being single and alone has a certain amount of power.

[@aarondavis8943]

Yes there is! It's called the "Don't Go out with Fuckwits Minnesota Protocol". The problem here isn't detecting bad people. The problem is knowing someone is bad and going out with them anyway. In any case, the judge was correct: Both women were idiots who didn't care enough about their daughter to do the right thing. She could have spent money on a lawyer and finding a new house; instead she went on a Caribbean cruise with her abuser. Nuff said.

[@mariagabrielle6383]

@@erikparent1065 No hotdogs in this relationship.

[@tinawindham6958]

Haha no hotdogs…..hahaha .

[@xminusone1]

If you're not happy alone, you can't have a relationship. It's my opinion. If someone is not happy alone, a relationship will temporarily fix the situation but will end up way worse over time.

[@xminusone1]

@@erikparent1065 You can do a hot dog party with a random person. No need to be in a relationship for this. You can have some tacos for your extra meat any time.

[@pierre6625]

Hello Dr. Grande, I am amazed how you educated yourself in such a short time from one video to the next with clear details. And you even manage to throw in some humor in the videos. Exceptional. Thank you for your hard work. Best Regards

[@dennisossianderrmplmtcst2053]

Thank you Dr. Grande! Very astute analysis and no glossing over the details. Gratefully, Dennis

[@theappraizer]

Great catch on this case, Grande! :-) At first blush, very compelling. I had never heard of it. Usually, I do like to watch a brief summary of the case before I hear your take on it, but you’ve got an exclusive here my friend! There’s a few snippets from the news, but it’s definitely not one of those cases that appears on every true crime channel on KZbin, that’s for sure. I could not find one summary of this case, except yours. That’s not the first time either! :-) I appreciate the Extra effort to find new material! I don’t think the Internet needs another Jeffrey Dahmer video. ;-) greatly appreciate your work and insight! Thank you! 👍

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You are a delight to watch:) Clever& seeing the truth.

[@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata]

Thanks again for the great analysis, Dr. Grande!

[@mario-qi3yw]

Good morning Dr Grande😊you’ve got a great sense of humor. I look forward to your reviews of these cases.

[@pamjames2161]

Great analysis Dr.Grande. What a horrible way for a child to be raised. I hope that little girl gets a loving home.

[@delimini9634]

Good morning Dr. Grande!

[@jimh8644]

Is it me, or were there several (many) warning signs along the way to this tragedy?

[@anonymousstrangeness7348]

Good morning, Doctor Grande !!! 😀 I can't wait to see this video ---Thank you !!! 👍

[@stevebutler812]

As far as the paint that applies pink, and dries white, within one hour: that would depend on the moisture, material, humidity, and temperature. It’s possible that if the paint were poured onto a liquid (blood), or mixed with the liquid (water, cleaning chemicals), it could take several hours to dry, possibly even much longer. Also, if you applied moisture to the Drying paint, it may return to pink, because it’s been remoisturized. Thus, go from white back to pink, if it were not already entirely dry. Obviously, I have no idea how pouring such paint onto cloth or clothing or wet surfaces, such as a clothed body, and various amounts of blood, would effect the properties of the paint that is supposed to go from pink to white. But it is not reasonable to estimate the time of estimated “dry time” of one hour as relevant to a bloody body, or wet / moist surface. Paint that is supposed to turn from pink to white within approximately one hour, and using that presence or absence of pink color as some sort of a measurement of time, is completely obliterated by the fact that it’s poured onto a wet / moist surface, and also a cloth surface, moist with blood, water, cleaning supplies. The one hour could be utterly irrelevant. In fact, maybe when she returned and saw the paint was still pink she panicked, expecting it should have turned white, dried, but it was still wet? I can see how the jury is not convinced. The one hour issue itself is obviously error ridden.

[@nightwood4379]

Afternoon Dr. G, love the way you entwine an analytical analysis of an awful tragedy with subtle humor sprinkled around: “…the Springfield painter struck again, this time they went semi-gloss,” as a local paper purported. Thank you for your keen synopsis of criminal misfortune. And that soothing cadence of reason.

[@KoolT]

I'd say they needed accounting classes and AA. Wow. Only Italian mother's are allowed to hit you with the spatula.

[@trentbrownstone1481]

Ayoh! Ma! AnnaMarie fell downtchra stairs! Oh!

[@nitrociruja]

Thanks, Dr. Grande!

[@edwardinzerillo1017]

Hi, Dr. Grande. Love your content. Can you please analyze the case of Julius & Ethel Rosenberg?

[@hallievanoutryve3109]

Sad, Ethel was likely innocent. Yet she faced death

[@Aysegul_OAmusic]

Thanks!

[@jimcronin2043]

I am wondering how theses two were able to adopt a child so soon after their marriage. Most couples wait for years and come under great scrutiny when adopting through an agency. Possible this adoption was through a private arrangement that short-cut that process. If this ill-advised adoption had not happened the murder would probably not have taken place. They would have simply divorced.

[@mariagabrielle6383]

They probably got special treatment because they're gay. Nevermind that lesbian couples have a higher incidence of violence than they're heterosexual counterparts.

[@jimcronin2043]

@@mariagabrielle6383 The possibility occurred to me. I hope not. I hope that we haven't descended to the point that we're handing out infants (aka human beings) to people as a reward for being woke.

[@NotChefCook]

WOKE ?? 🙄 Try most abusers are theocratic rw freaks . You know , here in factcheckable reality ?

[@jimcronin2043]

@@NotChefCook You have misstated my comment. I was specifically referring to the two subjects of this case who were married lesbians. I think that qualifies as woke. There was no comment one way or the other on statistical status of 'abusers' in general.

[@NickvonZ]

I looked up the word "Redundant" in the dictionary. The definition referred me to the FOUR trials for this crime.

[@kathycincotta3657]

Hello Dr grande! Thank you for covering this story. I live in spfld ma and am very familiar with the case ,and I hope that Karla gets art lessons in prison!

[@LadyOfMaine]

I do too! Greetings from Forest Park!

[@kathycincotta3657]

I'm in westfield now but a very good friend worked beside the victim for 4 years at Baystate hospital offices.had nothing but sweet things to say about her : (

[@Cat-qo3ht]

I do, too😮

[@zenawarrior7442]

Homicide suspects can leave the state? Sounds like two unstable women. She definitely is guilty I feel. Great analysis & quips again🧺. Thanks Dr G😊🧡🧡

[@cottontails9003]

Hello my friend , will be back in Australia on Monday. Hope you and your mum are good. Have missed you 😜😘❤💙💙💙✉☕🌷🌸🌹🍀Also good with medical software on computer, need too know how to highlight etc. 😂😢😜

[@NYUSARN622]

It was wrong of the judge to threaten to take their daughter away if they needed the court system again. Wonder if they had lawyers there.....

[@jenniferlane9000]

I thought the same thing, because they would inflict a lot on each other and felt they couldn't call police.

[@kimmccabe1422]

Poor Brianna. When the only adult in the house is a child, it's not good. Separate, Murder which sounds more sane? I wish my head wld fall off too!

[@terrystokes2948]

"This time they went semi-gloss!" LOL! Is it bad that I watch your videos for your humor? This doesn't make me a psychopath does it?

[@SirenaSpades]

When I think I spend too much money, I hear things like this, people with WILD spending issues. This is why I don't have credit cards at all.

[@ianpeddle6818]

Another dysfunctional relationship or relationships. I’m so glad I am so uncomplicated and interestingly I’ve always picked up on people that are flaky and avoid them like the plague. There are a lot of nutty people out there - if you can avoid them like the plague lest you end up on Dr Grande

[@GelatinousCube-jw8vg]

A video on the Lacy Fletcher case would be good

[@tessaducek5601]

Those spatula attacks are tedious. But gravity assisted journey down steps will get ya every time!

[@elizabethwarman9028]

Good morning Dr Grande, once again an excellent analysis of a crime. Love the Serial killer joke.

[@reginafelizardo987]

My mom attacked my sister with a spatula! My sister's cries sounded painful as my mom chased her around the house! It sounds silly, it's just a spatula, however, the wielder can be super vicious and beat the living he'll out of you because there are less marks made by a spatula, it's kind of like being hit by a fly swater, more psychologically damaging than serious injury.

[@m.f.richardson1602]

One of my OCD is not spending money on unnecessary Stuff. Always interesting. Thank you Peace 💕🇺🇲

[@trevorthetherapist4200]

I think this is great. When women marry other women they see up close what men go through 😅

[@25Soupy]

That's exactly what I was going to say. This is another example of a woman getting away with murder.

[@antoinetta70]

I think that codependency seems to have been the root cause that triggered all of their problems. The couple also seems to have had problems with enmeshment and lack of boundaries and self-discipline - as is evidenced by how much debt they accumulated.

[@hatuletoh]

Where do I find these people who will give me a credit card and wait eight hrs at a store to purchase a product for me? Oh wait, I have a sense of shame, so I wouldn't be able to make use of the sad sacks even if I knew any.

[@suegardner9907]

You have a great sense of humor.

[@autumnsmith3585]

Dr. Grande, your voice is so soothing it makes me sleepy.

[@isaacgreen3876]

Anyone else think of Mulholland Drive when they heard about pouring the pink paint?

[@greatamericandreamrealty802]

What is that in reference to?

[@isaacgreen3876]

@@greatamericandreamrealty802 In Mulholland Drive, Justin Theroux gets angry at the woman he loves and dips her jewelry in pink paint in anguish. It's a David Lynch movie, really good and unsettling.

[@aarondavis8943]

"...because so and so dropped the charges." Whenever you hear that, bad things are going to happen. And the only "strange power" at work here was the ability to spot a chump. Who would give this woman their own credit card with thousands of dollars of accessible credit? A chump.

[@aketzaliurhepani-uri7729]

Always appreciated the educational material thanks Dr 😊

[@Ken15643]

Wow, sometimes a chain of events is mind blowing.

[@Somegirl811]

If someone outright stole $50k from me at gunpoint...versus someone covertly racking it up on my credit cards while saying they love me and sleeping with other people at the same time....I think I'd prefer the former.

[@Bebecat477]

Only thing I can figure is that the victim was more unlikable than the perp. No idea how she wasn't convicted first time out the gate. Crazy.

[@lisamac8503]

They loved the drama they created and that poor child suffered because of their never ending stupidity and co dependency on each other Co dependency isn't love Its need

[@JinJinDoe]

On an unrelated topic: did you upcycle the drawer behind you? Is it 'cocoa' -named paint colour?

[@christychristy8275]

Court TV just showed a clip of your analysis on this case!

[@ruthhackett8234]

Hi, Dr. Grande! I like your videos and your dry wit! Could you do an analysis of stalker Jacob Yerkes please? Thanks!

[@ZIG.E]

“I wish my head would fall off”. Whaaat?!

[@stevenwest000]

“I think it would’ve been more accurate to say she was the only suspect” Omg I had a keep playing that l. Was just the way you said it. You manage to turn the most gruesome of incidents into Comedy Central Dr Grande! 😂 “An uncontrolled gravity-assisted journey” Sorry everyone for keep repeating Dr Grande’s one liners but they are just so funny! At least it’s something to keep my humour up on the way to work on a dark morning.

[@mariamerigold]

Thanks doc!

[@rebekahcessna9450]

I saw this case on another true crime channel, a bit more colorful. In that one the info on bloody rag was said to be so disintegrated that DNA evidence could not be ascertained, that in fact, if it was even human blood. There was also evidence of cat hair on victim’s clothing,and they had no cat and Mark had taken Anna’s sleeping bag to his home where his wife and children were and slept in it for two years. I didn’t realize she had fraudulently gotten card in Cara’s name. Were there any suspicions on Carol or Mark. With the credit card capers, they both had motives. What I really have problems with is the conviction of First degree murder that I think means cold blooded premeditation. If I was planning to murder a partner the most unfeasible method would be pushing down stairs. Although many, many have fallen down stairs, the overwhelming majority do not die. I’d want a sure thing. Same with bare handed strangulation, for a woman to maintain that kind of pressure for 4 minutes to ensure death, is very difficult. I couldn’t do it . The only time I have heard of a woman using that method of murder is on a small child. I know slandering the victim is often red flag however, usually that is with perp exaggerating, if not lying and denies any wrong doing on their part usually. However in this case it was true and even if the victim died accidentally, there could still be rage about the finance trouble you are left with. I would. You can be angry at a dead person but doesn’t mean you purposefully killed them. I don’t like your statement she was only suspect. I would have suspected Cara but I would suspect anyone she had run credit cards up on and left with debt in thousands including the lover she left to go back to Cara. Why wouldn’t they be? With complicated crime scene, I’d talk to all who had interactions with her. There could be someone unknown that wouldn’t come up until interviews with other friends might mention. In the other video, Mark’s alibi did not check out as he changed it twice after the original. The paint seems like someone might have wanted to cover and marks, bruises or wounds and make it look more like an accident, knocking over paint as she fell. Your speculation on the paint is just far fetched. About the baby going to neighbor’s, I would have done same thing, if I was carrying my 2 year old and and saw her father at bottom of stairs, called his name and got no response, then having even gone part way down, the first thing I would realize, this would require help and equipment, and I would want my baby not to be exposed to anymore. If she’s old enough to talk, she could realize something was bad wrong with her beloved daddy. I would get her to a safe place first and request help. Rather than stopping to call myself, I’d ask neighbor with my baby and then return to scene. I didn’t realize she turned Anna over into her lap. That even more suggests she was doing her paramedic job, assessing, checking breathing and pulses. Had I not had baby with me, I would have stopped to call 911 myself without leaving house because once you start CPR you cannot stop until relieved by trained person. Have you taken a CPR class? These are steps you are told to do and you will fail certification if you omit any of them. Scene: you see someone who appears unconscious. Step # 1-You call out to them and shake lightly to see if you can rouse them. No response STEP # 2 - check for breathing and pulse. None. STEP # 3- YOU LOOK FOR SOMEONE ONE AND COMMAND THEM TO CALL 911 immediately Step #4 position airway and give 2 quick breaths, then commence rescue breathing and/or CPR. I head the last jury convicted her on that action alone in end. But they convicted her for taking the most appropriate and recommended action! I could see why two juries did not convict her and were hung. I wouldn’t have since there are reasonable doubts especially on the pre-meditated and planning. There is a reason female killers hardly ever use aggressive physical violence with bare hands, because if you are planning poison,”accidental shooting or stabbing” or tampering with car would be most logical. Throwing them down to death should be from high balcony or a cliff. If staging break-in, shooting would be what should be covered up, not push down stairs. How would intruder even know about stairs? To me stairs would be simply impulsive.

[@shweefranglais7900]

There is definately room for doubt. It was a messed up relationship , mainly because of Anne Marine (the partner who was killed )who was narcissistic and probably sociopathic as well. Cara does come across as co-dependent at the time and rather neurotic to say the least . A very combustible situation .There is no excuse for killing someone of course but I can see how a personality such as AnnMarie's would provoke rage in someone insecure and co-dependent (and even someone who wasn't ,but they may have been able to deal with the situation in a way which was less harmful to both of them.) If she did do it then I think it would have been impulsive. However she still does not strike me as someone who could keep up with a lie for this long though. She is the type to break down and admit it if she did it and she never has. I think it will be a hung jury once again . I know if I was on the jury I could not vote guilty. Even watching her in the interview she strikes me as telling the truth, but it does leave the question then of what did actually happen. The only other suspect is the guy ; so I go round in circles as I don't honestly think it was him either.

[@Cyber_Kati_6744]

Happy Saturday Dr. Grande & audiences! Ty kindly for all of your dedicated efforts to make these cases understandable! 🕊️🤍🕊️

[@jacquelinewilliams5661]

And very humorous. Just love your humour Dr. 😀 Grande. You always make me chuckle

[@jinxed_jinxed_3443]

Looks like Rintala got 12 to 14 years at the end of Oct last year.

[@lindaaspromonte1514]

AnnaMarie sounds like a sociopath : manipulative charming, compelling and without conscience (running up that debt which probably ruined her friend’s as well as Cara’s credit). I’ll bet the mistrials were really caused by jurors who felt like AnnaMarie “needed” killing. Cara may have pushed Anna, but Anna pushed Cara over the edge well before that.

[@rebekahaustin9913]

Brilliant, thanks!

[@jayvee5686]

What's with all of the constant racking up of credit card debt? That's insane

[@davel7014]

Something that few people realize, is that that lesbian relationships have the highest incidence of domestic violence, compared to all other groups

[@liv0003]

Not true at all but quite the opposite actually . Lesbians relationship are so far less abusive than heterosexual relationship. So don't make up sh*t that doesn't exist please

[@davel7014]

@@liv0003 Research says otherwise: Lesbian Partner Violence Fact Sheet Suzana Rose, Ph.D. National Violence Against Women Prevention Research Center University of Missouri at St. Louis What is lesbian partner violence? Partner violence in lesbian (and gay) relationships recently has been identified as an important social problem. Partner or domestic violence among lesbians has been defined as including physical, sexual and psychological abuse, although researchers have most often studied physical violence. How common is lesbian partner violence? About 17-45% of lesbians report having been the victim of a least one act of physical violence perpetrated by a lesbian partner (1,5,6,13). Types of physical abuse named by more than 10% of participants in one study included: Disrupting other�s eating or sleeping habits Pushing or shoving, driving recklessly to punish, and slapping, kicking, hitting, or biting (11). Sexual abuse by a woman partner has been reported by up to 50% of lesbians (12). Psychological abuse has been reported as occurring at least one time by 24% to 90% of lesbians (1,5,6,11,14).

[@liv0003]

@@davel7014 what a clown you are 😂. First of all i haven't read the study and i don't even know how many people participated and how this study was conducted, anyway according to this study it doesn't state AT ALL that lesbian relationships are more violent than heterosexual relationships, this is only a WRONG assumption made up completely by you without any proof . With this "research" you have done nothing but affirm that what you support is FALSE and that you are a 🤡

[@liv0003]

@@davel7014 I don't deny that violence also occur in homosexual relationship obviously it does, I deny your stupid claim that lesbian relationship are the most abusive one because no research has ever stated what you claim, so it's completely made up by you without any serious research backing up what you said

[@davel7014]

@@liv0003 Believe what you want. I sent you two studies that confirms my post. Calling me names doesn't change that.

[@kathleengeiser6956]

Dr. Grande, I would love to see you make a video on Joan Crawford. After watching Mommie Dearest, I would find it fascinating to hear your opinion of her. Thank You, Kathleen.

[@greatamericandreamrealty802]

Me too!

[@natekeyes2297]

Speaking of hitting people with spatulas and other household implements.

[@vicvega3614]

@@natekeyes2297 "NOOOO WIRE HANGERS"!!!!

[@Cat-qo3ht]

Now that this has come up again on CourtTV, I saw a couple clips of Dr. Grande talking about this murder. I live in Springfield, Massachusetts and Granby is only ten minutes from me. I've gone by that house hundreds of times. A good example that women absolutely can, and often are, the perpetrators of intimate partner violence. I feel for the daughter. I hope she's being well-loved and cared for.

[@feeltheillinois]

the spring field painter struck again! this time they went semi-gloss. lolol

[@facemuscles9]

Uncontrolled, gravity assisted… brother, you catch me off guard sometimes. Lol

[@tinabonrud1304]

As always your content was very interesting and informative. Appreciate all the countless hours of your storyline. Tina Bonrud

[@lnc-to4ku]

"The Springfield Painter struck again.This time they went with a semi-gloss." Love your creativity with giving murderers their 'names' for the news media! 😅

[@almightyyt2101]

God my heart goes out to their adopted daughter - thats at least 2 heartbreaking abandonments

[@iffoxesmateforlife]

hello, doctor grande could you cover the Susie Zhao case. Susie was my dear friend and she was brutally assaulted and murdered by Jeffery Morris in 2020. he was just sentenced to life in prison. She was a professional poker player, and unbeknownst to all of her friends she was suffering with scitzophrenia for years. Her murderer took advantage of her. Susie's story should be told.

[@DottieMinerva]

The poor kid in the middle of this. The people in this story had horrible decision making skills.

[@marisawoods]

Hi, Dr! I would LOVE to hear your analysis of Dr. Patrick Gerald Henry's case. 2 movies were made about how he terrorized his wife, while snapping pictures to enjoy. Very eerie man.

[@aliceclearmanphd984]

Really horrible story. But that didn't stop me from enjoying the best phrase in the narrative, "gravity-assisted journey down the stairs."

[@elbertderf803]

the Judge should be kicked off the Bench. he didn't do his job saying he would file criminal charges against them if he saw them again and that he would take their child thus denying any help they might need. there are no criminal charges for seeking help.

[@henrikap4161]

Brother Todd thank you for everything! Please cover the TakeOff homicide case. RIP TAKEOFF

[@erikamccarthy1457]

11/16/22 Imo, Cara is guilty. Annamarie had threatened to destroy Cara’s career, take away child. Ruined her financially. Cara left to dump evidence, intruder has no reason to clean up crime scene. DA believe she killed her, or they would’ve dropped it after 3rd trial, but going for #4 for conviction!Annamarie,rip💜

[@ramonaringer]

Maybe they were arguing about what color to paint the basement 🤔.

[@sapphirestrm]

Dr. Grande, please analyze the judge who treated these women as bad siblings rather than the situation as a serious domestic violence situation. He had the chance to derail the escalation of emotional toxicity and danger here but instead left them to handle it themselves with the threat of losing their daughter. Imagine if he had dealt with this case properly.

[@brendamaynard7309]

Spatula attacks , lol

[@cruzingwithboys6863]

“This time they worked semi gloss” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nhmooytis7058]

I was attacked by a spatula once, I took a meat tenderizer and shut that down right away😊

[@jenniferlane9000]

🤣🤣🤣💀🏅

[@KoolT]

Mistrials. Unreal.

[@xminusone1]

The kids always end up the innocent victims. I hope she will get adopted by a decent family this time. She didn't deserve this. Why do unstable people are adopting kids? Did they think it's like a hamster or something?

[@charliechurch5004]

Dr Grande have u looked at the case of the MMA fighter "war machine" and Christy Mack ? Just asking ❤️ it's interesting bc it involves roid rage 😱

[@MsSilverTulip]

Dr Grande please cover the case of Cindy James. The Greatest mystery ever. I would love to know your opinion (request #31)

[@Cec9e13]

Okay, here's my question, which I'm sure is actually in some way offensive, but it's a GENUINE. QUESTION. So we know that in heterosexual couples, the man often gets arrested even when the woman is the aggressor. Right? Okay. If a couple is same-sex - how do they decide who is "probably" guilty? Would pretending that opposite-sex couples are both women or both men make assessment of the situation more accurate? Or do they assume it's the more physically intimidating partner? Or....?

[@Cec9e13]

@R Voit ........I wasn't referring to the murder. I'm referring to the much more common kinds of DV calls, where people are ALIVE.

[@azulgaia7782]

Cop friend said they arrest the one with less severe injuries, man or woman.

[@dissidentfairy4264]

What a convoluted mess! Cara did it but so far she is like a cat with nine lives.