Paraplegic Parenting: The Toddler Years

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Paralyzed Living

Paralyzed Living

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@chrisdooley6468
@chrisdooley6468 3 жыл бұрын
I became an incomplete quad when I was 15 (I’m 50 now) and envy you. You seem to be living your best life. I look forward to watching your videos
@morgancalvi6675
@morgancalvi6675 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Chris, glad to meet another incomplete quad that's been injured over half their life.
@RowanPringle
@RowanPringle 3 жыл бұрын
I started life in my WC when my oldest son was 2 years old turning 3 & my youngest son(at the time)was 9 months & I made it my goal to get out of rehab before his 1st birthday. 3 years later my daughter was born. Enjoy these time, my kids are now 13, 16 & 19
@wheeliegirlshannon1181
@wheeliegirlshannon1181 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic ages. Mine are 19 and 16 and they are wonderful children. Sounds like you have a beautiful family.
@scottsarrells
@scottsarrells 3 жыл бұрын
Great job! I'm in the exact same situation with a 3-yr-old and it can be a challenge to stay creative, especially with a wheelchair. We go to different parks (for variety), have picnics, go swimming, and take her to dance/gymnastics lessons. Thank you for sharing this video and being such an inspiration to others!
@scottsarrells
@scottsarrells 3 жыл бұрын
Curious why you stopped using the disc brakes you did a video on a while back?
@josephddudgeon9604
@josephddudgeon9604 3 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back on!!
@wheeliegirlshannon1181
@wheeliegirlshannon1181 3 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing father, Ellie is such a sweet, gorgeous little girl. She reminds me of my Emily. She is such a smart girl. You and Mom must be so proud.
@peterbrownsell966
@peterbrownsell966 Жыл бұрын
My wife is a t12 incomplete - 9 months in. We have a very active 3 year old - great to see your tips and tools. She is walking but doesn’t have balance to lift and really misses carrying him about!
@chrisannlittle
@chrisannlittle 3 жыл бұрын
I love that she's your threenager!!! Im glad you made this video I think and pray for your family often, and it's nice to see you are all doing well!! 😊
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Christine!! Yep we are doing well!
@paullaw6988
@paullaw6988 Жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving Hello Brian, how are you doing today 😊😊? Glad to see you on your KZbin video by spending your time with your lovely daughter Ellie who turned three years old and glad she had a great time spending with you. You’re a one happy proud father I’ve always met 😊😊. God bless you Brian and your family😊😊. I will pray for you😊😊. Take care Brian😊😊.Nice to see you that you are doing well😊😊. Best friends as always from PaulLaw😊😊.
@denesejamerson3354
@denesejamerson3354 3 жыл бұрын
YEAH Ellie likes cars! She's gonna be such a Daddy's girl! Great seeing your wife in the vid! Can't wait for y'all's next video!
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I think that’s the first vid she popped into! She’s camera shy 🙈
@spiders1world
@spiders1world 3 жыл бұрын
Wow ! I love that you can get out of the pool that’s awesome. Still working on that. My son is as well and I am also a parent in a wheelchair. We also literally have the same exact chair. Lol.
@blakethomas8897
@blakethomas8897 3 жыл бұрын
1st! Love this guy! Very cute! Great bonding moments ... Thanks for the video
@morgancalvi6675
@morgancalvi6675 3 жыл бұрын
I know...it is soooo great to see his videos again. he was missed. My emoji is me scratching my head saying...what happened to Bryan???
@DisastersDynamicsDisability
@DisastersDynamicsDisability 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to mention the idea of getting her involved in FIRST Robotics as she gets a bit older, especially with her interest in cars and tools! There's lego league (10ish to high school age) and lego league jr ( age 4-10ish), and I think she would absolutely love them. Also, love these videos, this makes me so hopeful for when I become a parent
@Jaggededge112
@Jaggededge112 3 жыл бұрын
I have a smart drive system. I love how it really does help me get around. She really is way too precious and happy belated birthday 🎂 to you sweet girl.
@Jaggededge112
@Jaggededge112 3 жыл бұрын
She is a smart and clever little girl. You’ll have your hands full when she’s in high school.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Yes the smart drive is a lifesaver! Thank you and you are right. The teenage years are shaping up to be pretty wild! 😬
@Jaggededge112
@Jaggededge112 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving I hope they won't be too much. I got lucky both of my kids are highly intelligent and so sweet to me. I think your baby girl will be the same way.
@TheAustralier
@TheAustralier 2 жыл бұрын
Ce a zburat timpul. Îmi aduc aminte de videoclipul în care vorbeai de strângerea banilor pentru însămânţare. Şi, ce fetiţă simpatică.Noroc tuturor!
@carolinepoll643
@carolinepoll643 3 жыл бұрын
She is very beautiful, and very smart. You are a great dad, she's dadys girl.
@chadfolkers628
@chadfolkers628 3 жыл бұрын
Dad # 2 with flip to Dad # 1 by age thirteen. Then she'll wrap herself around your little finger. You'll be helpless. Such a blessing to see you again Brian.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Haha that’s what everyone tells me! She still has times she wants to play with daddy when mom is here but a lot of times she primarily wants mom. I get it though. She sees mommy less during the week since she’s gone all day. And thanks! I’ve been putting others in charge of filming since my wife isn’t always able these days. It’s been working so far.
@MattWagner
@MattWagner 3 жыл бұрын
I noticed the Java Ride cushion. How do you like it? Any comparisons to the Roho and Jay offerings?
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt! I had both a Jay gel and severs ROHO hybrids before the Java. The Java has definitely become my fav bc I no longer have to worry about getting a flat, it’s lightweight and takes full pressure off my “butt bones” since I’m basically sitting in a hole. My body also feels more planted and stable than when I was using the other two. You may want to see if you can demo one through your equipment supplier. That’s what I did prior to ordering to make sure I liked it.👍🏼
@MattWagner
@MattWagner 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving Thanks! Going to order one. It sounds like it addresses the big issues I run into. Keep up the great work.
@jennyg2243
@jennyg2243 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you all. Enjoy every moment
@paralifetv-youreverydaywhe8314
@paralifetv-youreverydaywhe8314 2 жыл бұрын
Cherish fatherhood brother. I was post 5 years SCI and my wife and I had twins! They grow fast... way too fast!
@Sofiesanimalworld
@Sofiesanimalworld Жыл бұрын
Hi Brian I am a paraplegic I have a daughter going on 10 now and its true you both learn and adapt to each other ;)
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! She doesn’t know any different.
@Sofiesanimalworld
@Sofiesanimalworld Жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving So very true and doesn't have any problem with it neither does her friends. Kids are so resilient.
@BiggMaine
@BiggMaine 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Brian!!
@wcp4jc
@wcp4jc 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome Sauce!!!
@dachadoodle7146
@dachadoodle7146 3 ай бұрын
Can you do an update now that she’s in 1st grade and started elementary school already?
@sueclemente4030
@sueclemente4030 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome daddy 😍
@darriontunstall3708
@darriontunstall3708 3 жыл бұрын
Great video man! You’re a awesome dad! Have you ever seen the all electric Mercedes eqs? It’s really cool
@bs7996
@bs7996 2 жыл бұрын
Inspiring
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ 11 ай бұрын
Daddys Girl😢😢❤. She is adorable! Has she asked you why your in a chair or did you have your accident before she was born? I miss those potty training days😢. Yeah our son didnt start school until he was 5,he is a only child so i definitely see why you guys wanted her to be around other kids. LOL we refer to our son as "Young Sheldon" because he is too slick when it comes to asking questions and knowing when your feeding him bs😅
@crazymangaming9679
@crazymangaming9679 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I was just so fascinated by that digital picture frame
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Haha I love that thing! We have at least 2,000 photos on it. It’s way better than having photos sitting in your phone or in a photo album!
@crazymangaming9679
@crazymangaming9679 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving Well it looks like I’m buying one of those since I’m a photo hoarder
@dfifaoui4191
@dfifaoui4191 Жыл бұрын
What can I do to have children ?
@AngloAm
@AngloAm 2 жыл бұрын
She's adorable!!!!! :)
@sandalwood2257
@sandalwood2257 3 жыл бұрын
I plan on getting more assessable tools, I plan on getting a “Whill” (It’s compact, flexible, light, great maneuvering capabilities) it’s under: $3,888. Will insurance pay for this? Is this something you have to be a cash payer? Maybe I can find one gently used. Ty for the information.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure but my guess is that this would be an out of pocket expense. It’s worth researching!
@gffarg1263
@gffarg1263 3 жыл бұрын
Does she understand that Daddy can't come on the playground with her? Or Daddy can't come downstairs with her? What is her reaction when she sees your leg spasm?
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Yes she knows my limitations but she’s definitely used to them. She’s big enough to climb the park equipment solo when I take her without my wife. We even have a wheelchair accessible park nearby that uses ramps to get to the tops of the slides rather than stairs so I’m able to participate there. She’s seen me spasm and just says “woah!”
@gffarg1263
@gffarg1263 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving Brian, if she doesn't quite grasp the concept of your leg spasm(s) or spasming, maybe refer to it as a Charlie horse?
@Joeshmo-bq7vq
@Joeshmo-bq7vq 3 жыл бұрын
Hello sir, first and foremost thank you and God bless you for your videos. I’ve been a t4 para for 11 years now and you helped me tremendously back when I was fist injured. But I wanted to ask you a somewhat personal question about something I am struggling with tremendously. I don’t know if this is the place for it or the appropriate video for that matter. Do you have a personal email you wouldn’t mind sharing. Or a Facebook page or Instagram I could private message you to ask for your guidance in this issue I’m having. It relates to sexual frustration. Thanks a lot man. Hope to talk to You soon
@DerickZ28
@DerickZ28 2 жыл бұрын
Man I wish I could get one of those smart drives but they expensive! lol
@dachadoodle7146
@dachadoodle7146 3 ай бұрын
When I was 3, I brushed my teeth myself because I didn’t want to get cavities, so Idk how smart she is 💀💀🪦🪦🪦😭😭
@carolinepoll8548
@carolinepoll8548 Жыл бұрын
❤hi long time no see, 🖐️🖐️
@mobesendhdhdhdh409
@mobesendhdhdhdh409 3 жыл бұрын
She is 3 is that right.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@caseyslifewithcp3727
@caseyslifewithcp3727 2 жыл бұрын
she's so big
@sdsfmnbigffbfhrdrifkfkr576
@sdsfmnbigffbfhrdrifkfkr576 3 жыл бұрын
Can she brush her teeth on her own? How is Ellie?
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
She can but not very thoroughly. That why I still so it. She’s doing well though!!
@flowerpetals1396
@flowerpetals1396 3 жыл бұрын
If you can, let your daughter walk by the side of your wheelchair. Do not always take her for 'rolls'.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Actually we have been doing that more recently. We go for walks around the block quite a bit with her walking. The “rolls” are usually longer - like to the park which is nearly a mile away. That’s why I use the SmartDrive for those. Plus wheeling distances is very “jerky” for her so not having to push is a lot more smooth of a ride.
@paullaw6988
@paullaw6988 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving Hi Brian, I am so glad I like enjoying your video. Nice to see you spending your time playing with your daughter. Congratulations to you of being a wonderful dad. You also have a wonderful smile. Thank you for your wonderful update on your video Brian! Kind regards, from, PaulLaw.
@morgancalvi6675
@morgancalvi6675 3 жыл бұрын
Julie was the little girl I knew who was next door to me. This is no lie...when she was 18 months old, she was kind of walking around the living room...and the mother (I forget her name) would note she always squatted in this one particular spot. So, she got a potty chair and put it there...took her diaper off and when Julie started to that place to squat...the mom would put the chair under her. The noise scared her at first...but the mom made a HUGE production out of it and it quickly distracted Julie so it wouldn't be a scary thing. Of course I know kids develop things one at a time when they are that young...so it was walking, potty trained, and THEN talking. Bryan, if she is clingy like you say she is...and she drops to the floor in the store because she is throwing a tantrum...I guarantee if you turn around and ACT like you are rolling away, she will get up and run after you...distracting herself. By the way, COVID is BS. It's germ warfare from a certain Asian country (who started the Spanish flu by the way). The country destroyed and over populated their land and they are just trying to get more.
@ParalyzedLiving
@ParalyzedLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips! Yea COVID is stupid. I’m kinda over it at this point.
@morgancalvi6675
@morgancalvi6675 3 жыл бұрын
@@ParalyzedLiving glad to help and glad to see and glad to see another video from you. I was over it last year. I read the comments and had to watch the video over. I wasn't aware your wife made a cameo appearance.
@lexward1834
@lexward1834 Жыл бұрын
Le
@mobesendhdhdhdh409
@mobesendhdhdhdh409 3 жыл бұрын
But can she eat with forks, knives, and spoons?
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