Parenting skills: Dad shows how to deal with a child's tantrum. | Parenting advice

When spoiled kids get told NO in Walmart: Watch this US dad teach his daughter a lesson in viral video with 22m views on Facebook
Just an ordinary day in the life of being a parent. This dad,Terrel "RICO RELZ" Crawford, shows his way to get through the infamous store tantrum and a screaming child. The video has seen now well over 80million views around the world from being shared by so many.
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[@TheMaybebaby90]

If you raise your children, you can spoil your grandkids If you spoil your kids, you’ll have to raise the grandkids...

[@kat2025]

The gospel truth 🙌

[@sweetdeception5185]

Yes ma’am

[@bocah_abad21]

Whoa..

[@acaciagirl]

Facts!!!!

[@Yourfavorite-cx6jz]

I like this!

[@jakethesnake4978]

Much easier to teach a child than fix an adult.

[@theresafleetwood4962]

Well said and pointed out. Can you imagine an adult behaving like that. They need to understand NO. 👍🇬🇧

[@lydiapetra1211]

@Teresa Calarie seriously?...my mom disagrees with you...lol

[@jessicalewis5953]

preach

[@ahoymate5059]

TRUTH!!!

[@tamarasaldana8027]

@@lydiapetra1211 your mom, have, the arma secreta, right?

[@ysteinberg6482]

No verbal or physical abuse - just discipline. You rock!

[@zataishasims9732]

I agree however depending on what they do they will get disciplined and should.

[@Cornstarchrr]

And posting it on youtube for the entirety of the internet to look at so her friends at school can laugh at her on her tantrum! Best parent ever!

[@CC-kr3mr]

Thank you. I’m sick of people calling it a “meltdown”. It’s a temper tantrum. He is stern without being mean. He is doing his daughter a service ❤

[@graceharper6384]

Indeed. If he did not discipline her now, she is the one going to suffer in her adult life. He is teaching her to live life the right way. Parents these days do not have time to discipline. That is why we have brats who feel entitled.

[@leobriccocola8141]

Is there some deep difference between a meltdown and a temper tantrum?

[@pareeshaslaughter6798]

I do that same thing when my boyfriend tells me no in target...so I think I can relate. 😂

[@haannguyen4402]

@@leobriccocola8141tantrums have a goal meltdowns don’t

[@haannguyen4402]

Infamous store tantrum

[@crystaldesu5831]

He blamed himself for his daughter's tantrums saying that parents are to be blamed for spoilt kids, and then he went on and taught his child a lesson. Love it.

[@Monica-fj5jz]

Good. I was just thinking that. I always blame the parents or people who are caring for the child for the child’s learnt behavior. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@roberttaylor9563]

When you care.....it shows, it is what parenting is about,be an adult first....when you pass THAT TEST....then be a parent....not the other way around.

[@devilmecare]

He blames other parents for letting their children get away with bad behavior.

[@user-yf3jh5tn8w]

And is the real true..... we give them everything as we think it will make them happier then you were when you were younger .... but is the biggest mistake as they climb the mountain and god knows how to put them down. The worst is when one parent spoils them and the other parent is strict ( what happened,,,, child gets confused 😐)

[@chesterhiggs5537]

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the “way” (singular) he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Proverbs 23:14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his SOUL FORM HELL GOD

[@bjct5002]

Never ONCE did he raise his voice. That’s something right there.

[@xxxod]

But WTF is in his ear...

[@pokaay3163]

@@xxxod an earring? Idk I didnt see anything besides that

[@xyxx._.7548]

@@xxxod i think its a tattoo

[@xxxod]

@@pokaay3163 Dude his left ear has like some playdough in it

[@stevenbaas4011]

Like he would raise his voice when filimhg hisself

[@nicolekelly7580906]

His kids will grow up to be good providers & out of trouble. They have an involved dad. Props to this dad!!

[@paulettemacmillan9137]

High FIVES to you Dad for how you handled the 'attitude adjustment.' with patience, calm voice, consistency, and the child learning a lesson on "logical consequences". Using force on a child might end the situation quicker but often leads to deep resentment and an angry child who grows into an angry adult and repeats the pattern. You get a GOLD star!

[@EggmondChad]

Shut up paulette

[@gaypotato17yearsago5]

Can we acknowledge how this man never once raised his voice

[@multifandom_comfort_charac6894]

Your name confused me for a moment 😂

[@budhivalirakieten4421]

@@multifandom_comfort_charac6894 sameeeee

[@heidibaltom8138]

Yes as someone who has confict problems i cant stand raised voices it scares me. So i really appreciate that.

[@breezy3127]

He said he raised his voice in his house but not in public

[@Ash_Rein]

He did not raise his voice. But he was very aggressively toned. He also judged her very very negatively. She is a child. She’s not a fool. She’s not whining. We can have the same boundaries and be non-aggressive Her desires and feelings are valid. That doesn’t always mean she will get what she wants. Processing feelings in a healthy way will allow her to let go and except more quickly. His response to her and his words to her might be taken ass he doesn’t care about her. Or he may not be someone she is comfortable opening up to in the future.

[@KS-zr5og]

"I ain't going to argue with a kid" that's probably the best point of this. He made a lot of good points, but that was my favorite.

[@walusitumbeko4051]

Have you seen the video of a mom and her kid arguing? Its crazy whats going on

[@beverleeedgin9070]

The world needs more dads like this!!!! Great job daddy 👏

[@samanthajackson5695]

Aaww good Daddy he is you can tell by the way he don't care to wipe her nose on his T Shirt and calls her his princess but his words are the most true words I've ever heard

[@LilCraftyNook]

I know, right?? I have seen videos where the mom will get in a huge debate with a 3 year old and I’m like, 😬🙄 What are you honestly teaching them by doing that?? This man was totally fair with her.

[@sydneykelly5387]

He's an awesome dad and she is adorable

[@counterfusionllc1867]

OMG I LOVE this man! That is how it's done. No child abuse just discipline. LOVE IT

[@priscillastevens2196]

Amen!

[@Synkronist]

EXACTLY! Kids need discipline, but people mistake that for meaning physical abuse. This man is a great example to dads out there.

[@blackwater4100]

except presenting his child to the whole world

[@haannguyen4402]

@@blackwater4100he’s educating the horrible parents in todays world

[@anesumawoyo6969]

in Africa we beat

[@dianamayfield5615]

What a beautiful child and a wise, loving dad. Thank you, sir.

[@haannguyen4402]

I took a child development class my freshman year, and I was taught to ignore tantrums

[@scream8448]

She is just a typical healthy child testing her boundaries. But the father dealt with it so well, unlike many parents today. You can tell her cry was a fake cry. But she is still a cutie.

[@patriciarowe3431]

screamqueen,,,,,,, ONE LOVELY, REAL FATHER AND MAN...... AND YES , SHE'S BEAUTIFUL.....

[@galier2]

@Tabora Exactly. My daughter tried exactly 4 times when she was around 1 year old. As I didn't nudge at all with her antics and as she discovered that it was only drawbacks, i.e. it didn't advance her "want", she realized quickly that it was better not to do tantrums: smart child. My older son, now 22, still hasn't completely understood the lesson: not so smart child.

[@lfk76]

@Soft Breezy Day She is crying to test the boundaries and to get her will through, only way to properly learn kids that this doesn’t help is just this way. There was absolutely no publicly humiliation in this fathers actions. Totally correct behaviour. And saying that he is breaking his daughter down or similar is just unfortunately the kind of nonsense some people of today use. That’s why we have so many adults even that totally lack manners since they don’t know the boundaries. Your children will love you if you are a good parent and this is being a good parent, loving, caring and can also able to discipline the child.

[@snowflakes107]

@Soft Breezy Day who tf are you to them? Their aunt? It doesn't in the slightest feel like you're a parent with the shit you said.

[@BlackForlornRose]

@Soft Breezy Day honestly I stopped reading when you mentioned too much on what YOU did but I took a second round and you're still basically doing what the man did. In no way that was feeding his ego but the way you're bragging about what you did sent a diff message tbh

[@tidela4714]

He talks to her like a person and not a little child. He’s teaching the lesson of a child to a child but he’s doing it in a way that doesn’t baby her. What a great man and dad. Edit: Yes, I am aware that children are people. I guess I should’ve used the word “puppy” instead to make that clear. But there _is_ a difference in how little children are spoken to in comparison to everyone else. It’s called “baby talk.”

[@msyvonnehopson89]

💯💯💯💯👍😍

[@silverbells4732]

I grew up with this type of upbringing. and I turned out well.....

[@iinlove118]

Ok that baby talk is unnecessary , back and forth talk is not good when you want to discipline your children.

[@tidela4714]

IIn Love11 I never said it was (back and forth). And definitely not at that age. The guy said it himself; they need to know who’s boss. However, if it’s with an older child, like late teenager ... In my experience, seeing their side of things might be best depending on the situation. When my mom was teaching me how to drive, at one point we were on a busy road and I’d accidentally missed a turn. I then made a right turn when she told me to take a left, and she started yelling at me for not listening to her. When I tried to explain my side, she interrupted and started yelling for talking back to her, naturally making me upset. However, after she’d gone inside the store and come back, she’d apologized to me for not letting me get my piece in. She let me explain. New driver jitters plus being scatterbrained plus the mistake caused me to start freaking out, so I made the nearest and safest turn in a lot so I could catch my breath. I didn’t understand how to make that left turn because I’d never done it in that situation before. She’d always told me that if I got too emotional or nervous to drive, I needed to find somewhere safe to stop so I could regroup. She ended up apologizing and saying that I was right and did the right thing. One could say that’s not a good way to teach a teenager discipline, but I disagree because it depends on the situation. That moment taught me how to make up and get over an argument with someone calmly and without yelling. Talking things over maturely. I love my mom very much ❤️

[@VirgoMe357]

I agree. Sometimes spanking is not the answer.

[@Alustar22]

What surprises me most about this, is that the comments are almost entirely positive and supportive of this man. That's almost as rare as a good parent. Keep it up, people, you are all winners today!

[@ItsJustMe256.]

Facts man too many trolls and uncalled for disrespect

[@AndrewDB1106]

Now THAT is a parent. Dad of the century right there. He spoke nothing but truth. I can only imagine the number of people (parents or not), who would condemn this man. Funny thing is, there are so many so called adults in this country alone who have spoiled their child from birth to a certain age then decide after so many years of spoiling them to start disciplining them and then wonder why they won't listen or behave. In that regard, this man should teach a class.

[@XSspeeds]

" But baby, she's just 2 years old " Yep ! And the perfect age to learn how to behave.

[@oceaniamarina365]

Exatly !👶

[@Zeldafan1ify]

Oh yes i hateeeeee when people say that, particularly those little old ladies who think because the child is "cute" it needs to be spoiled rotten 🙄

[@art_vandelay7845]

There’s a reason they call it the terrible twos

[@etashajafril5112]

PERIODT!

[@Emma3n3]

Parents teach self-regulation to young children by helping them to calm their nervous system when they are upset. This is called, "co-regulation". It is a way to maintain emotional connection and trust between parent and child while helping the child to get better at self-regulating. Neuroscience shows that humans develop their abilities for emotional self-regulation through connections with reliable caregivers who soothe and model in a process called “co-regulation.” Since many troubled young people have not experienced a reliable, comforting presence, they have difficulty regulating their emotions and impulses. Co-regulation provides a practical model for helping young people learn to manage immediate emotions and develop long term self-control. If you are interested and would like to learn more about what we know about children's brain development and how you can help your kids strengthen and improve their ability to self-regulate while staying connected to you, check out this article: www.cyc-net.org/cyc-online/cyconline-mar2010-bath.html

[@ClearanceCouponingDeals]

Kids are smart. Talk to them, no need to beat them.

[@yupdatsme8586]

Clearance Couponing Deals & More This! I would never beat my kids

[@africancake6660]

Tell that to an African mom😂😂😂

[@XxRosexX96]

African cake - lol, same!! 😂😂😂

[@dinomorell5163]

There's a difference between Spanking & beating your kids.

[@adamcourtenay5437]

Its easier to teach them without pyshical punishment not going to lie, it takes way less emotion and less energy. That being said the parents that cams before best not enforce that on me because they started that and then make laws to prevent it, which is hipocrasy at its finest

[@karengordon6610]

It all starts at home one way or another. This man is right, I applaud him.

[@skel760]

His face while she’s whining. Lol. He’s a good dad! He uses discipline with his words. She will appreciate him. I feel she’ll have good communication with him as she gets older. You don’t want your children to fear you, you want them to *RESPECT* you. There is a difference.

[@geodude7116]

This reminds me of something Dr. Phil will say: You’re not raising children, you’re raising future adults.

[@xavierarmstrong963]

Geo Dude which is a child ... just saying

[@serenity3034]

Xavier Armstrong Which they turn into adults sooner, in a blink of an eye 👁.

[@serenity3034]

Maria Lindell 💯

[@phoeberulesall1294]

Much like Dr. Phil, this guy is exploiting a minor for entertainment/to feed his superiority complex. Someone with supposed impeccable parenting skills sure as hell hasn't thought of his daughters privacy and future implications of this

[@DaI-rx3xg]

Phil's a fraud. Remember the catch me outside sorry episode? That was scripted and Phil was promoting that for them

[@patricksachs3655]

This is a wise, patient, measured and strong parent. No yelling, screaming or hitting, just no nonsense, loving discipline. Kudos to this dad.

[@michaelagerman2218]

This is how it should be

[@FreeSpirit47]

@Romeo ThePLUG Mostly true, however, the cycle of abuse has to end somewhere. I had a very abusive mother, father. Verbally, physically, emotionally. My mother would sometimes keep me home from school long enough for the welts, bruises & cuts to heal. My father finally stopped beating me when I was 16, grabbed ahold of his belt from his hand, hit him in the face with the buckle. 16 stitches on his face. He never tried to hit me, again once he got a taste of his own disciplinary technique. My mother would "discipline me" by withholding food & water. I was so skinny because of this.

[@FreeSpirit47]

@Romeo ThePLUG The cycle of abuse CAN be broken. I got some intense counseling & broke the cycle of abuse. My 4 kiddos got firm, loving discipline without spankings. Without even time outs. They wrote sentences, often. If they were fighting, I would sit them both down to discuss, talk it out, calmly, with thought, with reason. With both refraining from name calling, accusations or "making faces." All 4 are grown adults, happily married, educated, doing what they love in their careers.

[@msweetness2202]

@@FreeSpirit47 😢

[@3N3NAmI]

I love how you didn’t say crying because no matter gender and sex they are allowed to cry but other things like screaming and hitting are not it.

[@AS-ex8zr]

This may be the absolute best dad I’ve ever seen. Saving this for when we have children ❤

[@dariusftw3378]

how is shaming them online good parenting?

[@user-wj9si3on6t]

@@dariusftw3378 That's not shaming, it's parenting and the guy is sharing his thoughts and experience with other people and parents. Good learning opportunity for all parties involved.

[@user-hk7un1cg9v]

That's right. He did the right thing by taking his daughter out of Walmart because being in the store is a privilege.

[@PanHaszaman]

@@dariusftw3378 it flew right over your head didn't it?

[@AS-ex8zr]

@@dariusftw3378 he’s not allowing his daughter to throw a fit or get her way. It’s an example for other parents to stop coddling their children to the point of spoil.

[@ms.robbie7536]

Spoil the kids, let them rule the house, then send them to school to act like fools 🙄 Thank you Dad from a teacher! 😉

[@masterscheme1]

Nah humanity would collapse as we grew more immature and dumb... we smarter than that... and worked way too many eons to allow that...

[@mrcead]

I like how he talks to her like a person and not a child, they respect that

[@scorpioplutonmars8774]

Absolutely!!!!!!👍🏻big thumbs up

[@theworldchico6845]

What??? Bro that is a child how he talks to her is just his way of being a father

[@mrcead]

@@theworldchico6845 if it needs spelling out, he's explaining himself and teaching her at the same time without losing his shit. Many parents just bark orders, seriously

[@williamallen7836]

Not at all. Everyone these days likes to view children as just adults in small bodies. Children do not have that same reasoning abillities. Which is why reasoning with small children rarely works.

[@alpsalish]

@@williamallen7836 I think you may be right and wrong. Kids don't learn anything if you model your parenting behaviour after them. They do need a parent who is willing to teach from an adult perspective otherwise, there is little cognitive development. You are correct that a child's ability to process things like an adult is lacking, but guiding their behaviour as an adult and treating their decisions as though they have consequences is very important.

[@Brenduh03]

She understood every single word he was saying to her. It all up to how the parents first react.

[@crazyboy585]

Indeed 💪

[@tayleshiablake466]

That's right sister

[@rayqwonjackson3474]

You will not want to see how my parents would react in this situation

[@leesher1845]

I don’t think that she understood the term suck it up.

[@louiseh6561]

That’s what I was thinking. She knows she was wrong and she’s ok about it!!

[@busymoogie2793]

Children who have boundaries feel safer. Children who are taught self-control are much, much happier. Good for you, Dad! God has given you wisdom about this.

[@can_you_guess_my_new_username]

I love how he ended it with positive affirmations, affirming her strength and ability to move on. I screamed when she went from crying to waving at people... lol

[@nesrinematene5984]

His daughter is gonna grow up to be the smartest, most confident, most successful woman.

[@DamianSzajnowski]

@@sarahgardner312 sometimes you win, sometimes you learn, appreciate mistakes

[@OfficialMyxomatosis]

She will also be able to talk her way out of anything. :) Speaking from experience. Thanks Dad (Rip 1953-2006). You raised me right in our short 26 years together. I have never stopped loving you, the life lessons you taught me, the straight up education, and being able to never "need a man" to get anything done. Oh!!

[@user-bw4vh3kv2s]

@@sarahgardner312 Dont Blame your Dad your Grown Now maybe you have trouble understanding why things are done as they are

[@tinagriffiths4002]

Myxomatosis BEAUTIFUL, May He SIP🙏🏾😍

[@OfficialMyxomatosis]

@@tinagriffiths4002 Thank you. I hope you are happy and healthy. :)

[@staceyp6245]

I nominate this guy to be the moderator of the next presidential debate.

[@Caroline-eb8ig]

ABSOLUTELY!!!! GOOD ONE!!!

[@missmoxie9188]

I second that

[@lindah5432]

You know you need to teach an on-line class!😁

[@welp5468]

I strongly agree. That debate was the worst thing I’ve ever watched

[@onceuponanexploration6048]

Please. Run for office or principal of a school. We need him!

[@disboygotdabeat]

This father gets my thumbs up!... My father and mother had 5 boys... we never were spoiled right from the start. That would have been impossible!.. . We lived in a house of 9 people along with grandma and great grandma. 3 boys shared 1 large bed most of the time. If we were doing something wrong all my dad had to do was look at you in a certain way and you knew what was up and that was the end of that!

[@enemdisk6628]

Did he hit you?

[@disboygotdabeat]

@@enemdisk6628 We all got spanked on our butts if the transgression was serious enough... Like the time we broke our neighbor lady's back yard fence down while stealing peaches from her peach tree one summer night. We were all lined up and got a good hard spanking- and never even thought of doing it again!

[@1MissEllyLove]

Needs met first. Hungry kid? Tired kid? Short fuse. This is him teaching his kid to self regulate. He's being her safe place while she calms herself down. Strong CHILL Daddy teaching his Princess how to adjust her crown, hold her head high, and walk proud, even when she's tired or overwhelmed. Love and Grace based parenting is so beautiful! Bless this family! ❤

[@drunkbuzzard3237]

This is why absent fathers are such a problem we need more dads like this guy.

[@mzmiau1421]

Totally not trying to be rude but you see he has a mixed child? I feel that black men don't love their black children as much as these "mixed" kids. I see more black babies with no father's but the mixed ones with them and the mothers way more often..... Like .... That shit makes me sad af.

[@spacefertilizer]

Lifeless Love: Not my experience from friends and exes in Sweden that are mixed. But their fathers were from different African countries and not settled in Sweden like a couple in America might be already settled in America so that might make it different though. But their fathers often left too.

[@mzmiau1421]

@MindYour OwnBusiness I mean there's a lot of other races that do this ya know don't get me wrong I don't want to offend anyone if I indeed did. It just seems like the black man is ashamed to have their own. Are white people trophie tokens to claim or any other races than bkack?? What makes someone not love what they created regardless of hardships that are happening to one's self?? And I'm just asking in general as a thought. There's also mothers out there doing the same thing ya know!?? Like. Why are people sooooooo.....fucked up. This was indeed a good video though but unfortunately someone is going to watch this and do the complete opposite.

[@HeatherBDentureDiVa]

Yes totally true. Kids need both parents. I raised myself and I was lucky I raised myself right. My kids dad have been in and out their life and now since their grown he wants to be in their life. Kids need both parents and they need to be taught respect, manors and love. Not being spoiled is a must. Too many spoiled kids. I grew up in the ghetto and homeless and I wanted to give my kids what I never got to have but sometimes they get spoiled and they need to learn right from wrong. I agree with this guy 100%

[@nadt5547]

No. It isn't the absent fathers that are the problem. It is the mothers blaming everything on the absent fathers that's the problem. Mothers in this situation need to step it up and teach those kids right from wrong. Period. I had an absent father and it changed nothing in my Mothers eyes on her expectations of me. I thank her every day for that. Now that I'm an adult....haha.

[@taradreams3]

As a teacher, I get so sick of dealing with kids who never hear "no" at home and then expect to get away with whatever they want in the classroom. I've talked to soooo many parents who let their kids run the show. This guy is doing it right.

[@yeshs1964]

I'm a teacher an get this always! It's like you're teaching them rules they've never come across before

[@Bbrock1984]

Wow!!

[@mikajendreas]

Yesh S what a nightmare. So you basically clean up other parents mess daily! I would lose it! Hats off to you 💕🙌✊👏👍🏼

[@dreshany1345]

I am not a teacher but I have come across this numerous times as a nanny. What I found to be most effective, was to make clear what your expectations are. You could probably write them down on a large poster board and display it in the classroom. If a student breaks a rule you can refer them to the classroom rules and ask them what rule they broke. Tell them that this is their last chance and if they do it again the punishment will be X? Insert disciplinary action. From the very first day of school talk with them, explain the rules and consequence for misbehaving. As you are going through the rules ask the student why each rule is important. I would also make it clear that your approach to discipline is different from what happens. Simply say that their parents aren’t here, you are in my classroom and therefore responsible for following class rules.

[@yeshs1964]

@@dreshany1345 yes great idea! I do this, setting expectations and sticking to consequences!

[@kimberleymcmahan3863]

That's exactly how I raised all my kids. I wouldn't put up with them acting like that at home or in public. He's doing exactly the right thing!

[@dangitmanf.8341]

Gotta say, You are an amazing father! More parents need to see this advise.

[@edgeworldpictures6831]

"Walking with your Mom is a privilege". Thank you Dad, for honoring your daughter's Mother.

[@BlxxdLeaf]

I was just thinking that, also reinstalling responsibilities that some kids fight against as a privilege will also help them grow up to be more responsible. I know some kids I grew up with that would throw tantrums because they had to go to the store. This man is a perfect parental role model. His children's futures are bright.

[@kathi13]

Wow🥺 how he honors the mother

[@josenahector8369]

Thank you so much!

[@ACS402010]

And yet he said right out of his own mouth that his own mother beat the sh|t out of him. So yes, "honour" the mothers....the world's most perfect beings. 🙄

[@kathi13]

@@ACS402010 did he say that? Hmmmm..🤔🤔🙄

[@brendasommers335]

She's happy because her wise father has set boundaries, made her aware that she is powerful by deciding to get control of her emotions, and therefore feels both loved and good about herself.

[@mahmoodulhasanbhaiyat5874]

Wow, what a deep and insightful remark.

[@juliestarks1279]

This is how I parent my kids when they were younger but I gave them whoopings 2! I was very strict as they were growing up, now I’m like a hippy parent now.. give them freedom, they are independent and self sufficient. I get compliments on how well behaved my children are. I also parent them different as they were growing up because of their different personalities. You have to do what works for the child. You do want them to be adults who are emotionally balanced.

[@angelstarfire]

@@juliestarks1279 any advice? I want to be strict but not have to rely on whooping all the time. I'm nowhere near ready to be a parent but it's good to know for the future

[@marialindell9874]

@@angelstarfire Do not yell or create a negative relationship with a kid first off. You should find a healthy way of making the rules clear and understood. Also like when you promise something, do it and don't fail your kid. Teach them proper sex-ed if you are American and make it clear that you will give some cash for protection when they get to that age. Like "Take the trash out and you get XX amount of money" and you do it. Teach them how to manage money (helpful). Let them socialise and advice on how to be a good friend. If you notice a friendship is not healthy anymore, talk to your kid and explain the situation in a respectfull manner. Do not force your own beliefs on a kids, if you cannot do that then you should not be a parent. *DO NOT* set up cameras in their rooms or take their phones away for the night (the phone thing is fine, but there is a time when we start dating and getting crushes and late night talks are very nice bonding time if it has turned into an addiction, try solve what has cause it and correct the behavior in a healthy way. I am addicted to my phone, because currently it is the thing to help me cope with my depression and anxiety. I can stay away from it and be fine, but having it means that I have an escape route. Thus I can function better.). Setting up cameras is borderline nearing controlling and abusive parent behavior. It makes us hate you more. This is all from the point of someone from a "strict" family that never had official rules. I have never really had a time to come home because I never went out. In the cases I did go out, I informed my parents and they would call me when I needed to come home. If I was late, I would not be screamed at, but talked to. (Be calm when doing the talking, yelling makes it worse) My parents would explain that I needed to be home on time and after that I would just continue on with my day. Do not have a karen-freak out. My mom is known as a helicopter parent and mentally abusive. She chose what I would wear until I was 13 and would force me into a religion (christianity, I am atheist). I had to grow up when I was 5. I was never truly a child. I knew the rules and expectations and just went on about existing. I never went out because I did not have friends. The last time I hung out with a friend was in december of 2018, because my strict mother never lets me out. She gives me no privacy. I was 14 when I spent time with friends. I'm 16 now. Severe depression, suicide ideation, undiagnosed ED and anxiety proplems later I know I can never be a fully fuctioning adult. Both of my parents come from physically and mentally abusive households and they never hit me and try to be as good parents as possible, but they have proplems too. Like my mom hoards newspapers and her being a not so good parent comes from the trauma she experienced. My dad tries not to yell, because he was yelled at. He tries his best to provide for me and stay in my life because his own father got a divorce and his mother started sleeping around with highly abusive men (one of them almost beat her to death when my dad was younger). If you really want to be the good type of strict parent, please go find videos of teens who have unhealthy strict/abusive parents. Tiktok compilations have good examples and there are plenty on KZbin. Hear the kids out and try understand what they feel like and how the parents may be in the wrong. Thus you can prevent being the abusive type of strict and your kids will actually like you. Strict parents think being stricts makes good children and adults. Truth is, strict parents make the most skilled liars. There is a very fine line you need to master for them to be healthy adults and not liars. We know we can live our own life when we lie and our parents never let us be free. We always have to watch our every step or we can be locked inside our house and our food can be taken away if be disobey. Do not hit your kids. Ever. No matter what the reason, never hit them.

[@TheFlacapreciosa]

👏👏👏👏

[@RM-xn7ov]

100% agree. Never had to beat my daughter. I corrected bad behavior immediately with a stern voice and didn’t allow her to control me. I’m the parent. She’s 22 now in college with straight A’s and two jobs. We talk every week. Her bond with me is stronger than her mom. She will call me first with news or serious issues. Even though she’s an adult now, she still needs a father to advise her. We never stop parenting. My advice to parents, stop treating your kids as friends. When you want to jump back to parent mood their minds aren’t developed enough to switch back and forth. That’s why you get push back cause they view you as a friend. Don’t cause at or in front of your kids. They earn mostly from actions when they’re young so don’t be surprised when lil man get in the second grade and curse the teacher out. It wont be cute then.

[@bobk2899]

That is a great father. Hats off to this father and his parenting skills. So many people can learn from this young man's message! Thank you for sharing this video and schooling so many.

[@serinadelmar6012]

Great father apart from the hygiene, spreading bacteria on his clothes

[@bobk2899]

@@serinadelmar6012 Perhaps you saw something that I didn't. Aside from him picking his daughter up off the car after she calmed down. With that being said, it's amazing that you have someone that is that patient and firm but loving with his daughter. Yet you can always count on some hater, trying to find anything to be negative. Grow the hell up!

[@adamlilly2548]

​@@serinadelmar6012says the lady alone in her car wearing 2 masks

[@serinadelmar6012]

@@bobk2899 hater? bizarre take I’m talking about hygiene, it’s a little different.

[@serinadelmar6012]

@@adamlilly2548 said, some deluded moron on KZbin with not the slightest iota of comprehension nor even grasp of reality.

[@jamessamuel1255]

“Cuz you’re a big girl” he uses good positive language to reinforce it when she stopped crying, makes all the difference, what a good father

[@no_name4415]

I liked that a lot. Threatening to beat your child when they act up can cause them to fear getting in trouble, which usually leads to not having the best relationship with their parents. In worse situations, the kid acts up when they dont have parental supervision because the only thing they learned from the beating was that they shouldn't get caught, not getting caught means not getting punished.

[@ok-hd5bb]

motivate your kids that they are better than that.

[@samgod]

He not only talked to her like an adult, he talked to her with respect, addressed her with Mrs., pumped her up and made her feel good. That was some smooth, classy Jedi shit.

[@diegofonseca6708]

Ms/miss not Mrs lol Mrs is for married females

[@delilahduckett7448]

Awesome dad. She will remember him with love

[@cosmo2852]

I laughed at 3 things from this. How dad said, "Uhh, I'm still cute, but still." How the daughter quickly looked into the camera when dad asked "you do know what happens again when you lie?" And lastly, the Jedi reference you made!

[@jonathanntulume9298]

Man mum used to call me Mr even sometimes she still does hahah

[@smart3519]

Ok

[@mariefreeburn8256]

Thank goodness for a sensible father that’s not putting up with tantrums!

[@Endeavor-NobleDragon...]

You are refreshing. Children will grow up. Yours will be alright because of your parenting skills. You are teaching her how how to listen and communicate without yelling. You are a good Daddy.

[@anng.4542]

The tone is gentle but firm. The meaning is clear. Best dad ever!

[@empressjoolz]

Agreed sistah..🇯🇲🇨🇦👋🏾

[@trbrm6319]

But with due respect I just feel that the lecture is a little bit too long...oh well...whatever...what do I know!!??

[@ahjahlilulaamadeus3632]

That's a dad who was strong enough to raise kids without Supernanny's help.

[@speakingallmytruth9278]

That nose cleaning, love this!!

[@speakingallmytruth9278]

@@trbrm6319 is it because you'd rather not talk. Most of the explanation was to us, as to what he was doing. However that man can dialogue with his child the entire shopping time if needed be. With all due respect.

[@deskgamesix]

He keeps his voice calm yet stern. This is fathering.

[@helenkimishis]

Or weed 😂jking

[@HopePhotoG]

Exactly. Not yelling

[@randomuser5914]

It should be parenting, both parents doing this. Doesn't need to involve yelling, whooping, cursing, cuz that's all lazy parenting. This dad took the time to put in the work.

[@HopePhotoG]

@@randomuser5914 I think spanking is needed tho. Not always. And if you're angry...calm down before you spank them. Both are needed for good balance.

[@childofthemosthighgodtoya6447]

Exactly

[@TempusFugit1]

She's fortunate to have him as her father. We need more parents like him...

[@RaineSophiaLewis]

I fully agree with this dad. I’m sick to death of self entitled parents/kids, swearing at me and my kids, the judgmental mums blaming me for their child’s shitty behaviour. My children have good behaviour because they were brought up with respect for elders, but, also respect for themselves. I’ve never hit my kids, I talked to them, listened to their worries/concerns and helped them through that. Respect, my man. ❤

[@Sarablueunicorn]

This child is old enough to understand verbal communication and this father did very well. He didn't hit her, didn't raise his voice, didn't abandon her, he didn't threat her, he let her "cry out" but without leaving her side. When the child finally calmed down they both moved on without more sermons. That's discipline not punishment.

[@eaglesalldayable]

The punishment is taking the toys away for how the way they act up you have to do it that way Cos they will remember if I act this sort type of way I’m going to be in trouble. And I won’t get what I want!! If I cry for it that is how you raised your kids.

[@judithdavis9191]

Exactly! He is disciplining not punishing. Patents today scream, call them names and hit them which end up being a horrible message to send to a child and as they grow to they rebel. I never had to get hit because my parents did the same thing, I brought you out here to calm down, your upset so you need to take a break and chill out here. Then we will go back in if you calm down. That's how I discipline my children. You talk to your children not scream and yell. He did a good job helping his child calm down. Good dad! ❤️

[@skipper19741]

Well addressed Taylor ,, My atmost respect to ya all

[@godless-clump-of-cells]

@@judithdavis9191 That's something parents have always been guilty of, unfortunately. That being said, I do agree.

[@Raiden4019]

Pure stoicism! The best form of tough love!

[@Kunocity]

“Don’t give them what you never had, teach them what you wish you were taught.” - I honestly forgot

[@robertsims1617]

good point because this is where so many of us parents have felled..

[@duumek201]

Bruce Lee was it

[@7bimbim]

Thank you sir I honestly forgot

[@themizaru]

shouldn't it be " give them what you never had...?

[@thenuetrix6574]

I think it was Bruce Lee who quoted that

[@pazza4555]

I appreciate his taking her out of the store once she didn't settle down.

[@rhystylerhc]

If you wrote a book, I'd buy it! Respect from one father to another. Correcting my two year old sons bad behavior has been a problem for my wife and I. He's are second son and he's a little wildman. This has been greatly inspiring. Pen that book bro!

[@IndomitableAde]

This is the moderator we needed for the presidential debates.

[@cherrijohnson2277]

Ok lol

[@izzalp]

😂😂😂

[@Starburst-FUTOYT]

Omg yeah

[@ashnim3597]

yess😅

[@SisterLiyah]

😅

[@waynemacfarland1546]

I respect this dad! He's taking responsibility for his daughter and holding her accountable in a calm, nonchalant way. We need more dads like him!

[@everettscott4745]

Ah, she's cute, especially when she's trying to stop crying, and conversing with dad. But what a great dad. Well done, dad. You're talking words of wisdom, and it works perfectly.

When he said "Are you done?" She realizes the fake crying is not working. Then he tells her it is not acceptable behavior. She is only three but she understood the gist of what he was saying. He is teaching her responsibility for her own behavior. Much respect to you sir.

[@DundG]

Not that it was fake crying, I believe she genuinely felt horrible. But his calm voice made her realize that it's not a big deal and that her tantrum is not a solution. Many parents who react drasticaly give the signal that the kid is fighting for something, that it is a big deal. Why else would the parents react so strong?! With this calm demeanor and serious talk, he gives her the reality check that it is nothing to cry about and Then even gives here the solution how to get what she wants.

[@jessiefrye3045]

Take notes. This man loves his child. And he's teaching his child. THIS is how to PARENT!

[@gbyrd1970]

Amen!

[@incorrecterror]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@candacesmith6183]

K...

[@JeromeProductions]

YEP

[@lionelsimmons2168]

Amen

[@mhm8922]

I’m totally with you Dad. Excellent job. You are setting the right expectations and teaching her the right lessons. People don’t realize that they do NOTHING good for their kids by spoiling them. That’s hurting them in the long run. I remember someone said years ago… “I’m not raising a child, I’m raising an adult.” In other words, we are raising our children to be fully functioning adults, not grown immature children. And there are plenty of immature grown people out there pretending to be adults. And nobody wants or needs any of their foolishness. Our kids are going to have to run this world one day. We need them to be prepared to do that.

[@bigchunkyhuman3769]

The main thing is that he didn’t spoil her by giving her a treat... or he didn’t pamper her. He just talked to her like she’s just another person. Good job man!

[@G7130]

Yep, you can’t reward children to not misbehave.

[@anonymousjohnson976]

Big Chungy Human: And he didn't spank or yell at her.

[@bigchunkyhuman3769]

Actually... when my toddler brother was crying... I tried this, and when I said “are you done?” He quickly changed his mood. Cause I was asking him a question instead of pampering him. And then he said “with what?” And I said “with crying. I’m not gonna put up with you crying for no reason anymore”. and he was like “yea. I’m done” and got back to playing😂 I swear I’m not lying!

[@ObamAmerican48]

This dad is a rock star. Seriously, this is how it's done.

[@TheCherylish1]

My thoughts exactly he should teach parenting classes

[@susanbarr7109]

Wow not many dad's out there that would stand and wait for the child to calm down,great that he didn't even raise his voice to her he let her calm herself down while he kept his cool, really nice way to have done. Really not many dad's would have done it that way. You are a really good dad and very good advice to other dad's out there,I agree in what you said your daughter was listening to what you were saying that's also good. You spoke many a true word dad,you are one in a million.

[@beztoop342]

Good dad, well done. He's doing a great job.

[@L.Lemonade]

Not only he teaches her to stop without any whoopings or yelling. He waited outside the place until she stopped. Most parents would still roam the store without even trying to calm them down the right way. He waited patiently where there arent people to get annoyed and mad about a baby crying all the time. This is a pure man with a beautiful child. Literally has the true gift of patience and taught me something to use when im older and ready for kids. Cause i dont believe in whooping kids

[@katya3805]

Yeah very considerate to others. I remember once while shopping at wallmart there was a kid yelling his head off because his mom wouldn't buy him a cereal box. The mom just didn't agree to buy it and let the boy scream like crazy for half an hour. So unacceptable and annoying for everyone who was there.

[@naia9060]

For real my mum used to pull me by my ear but that was probably just because I was a crazy kid

[@sarshasarr5001]

Same

[@can.du.8116]

Katya, It’s unacceptable for you, but it’s not aboutyou or anyone else in the store. You deal with kids on an individual basis. I used to ignore everyone else and deal with my child the way that works for them. It’s called parenting.

[@sarshasarr5001]

@@can.du.8116 your right they didn’t use the right words parenting is not easy for everyone and they do the best way they know how in that moment and I’m not even a parent to have to understand that

[@lt3074]

he told the truth. many parents are too busy trying to be friends to their children instead of teaching and disciplining them. good job dad

[@jonathansalcido5208]

Or they want youtube to raise them and give them the bare minimum of attention.

[@livelongenoughtoliveforeve1114]

They shouldn't be mutually exclusive

[@ryoujika]

You can be friends with your child while also being stern enough.

[@mizzunderstood3336]

Sure right lord knows I’m a living witness!!! Live and learn do things different they respect you better with discipline, it’s ok to say No, too many yes is a bad setup and if u want it earn it!!!

[@starlane3146]

And it helps to have both parents in the household.

[@valerie5078]

I never get tired of watching this video. His parenting is outstanding.

[@abrac3321]

"You leave balls outta your life forever" ....😅😂 lmaoooo towards the end😂 Also great job🎉❤😊

[@thadbeingthad]

We're not raising kids, we're raising adults.

[@myribunt5261]

This is an amazing quote!

[@donkeykong2.0]

some ppl r just kids in adult bodies

[@JamesUmbrello]

Simple but Deep.

[@op8995]

@@myribunt5261 that garbage blew your mind?! 🤣🤣🤣 Your gonna have so many baby daddy's in the future. Just know when they say they love you..they mean it 🤣

[@peteydoggen]

@@op8995 in where in that sentence did she say it blew her mind

[@HugsXO]

Taaadaaaaa a parent that actualy cares how his childs current actions are going affect future actions.

[@remygirl-mn5kk]

Thank you! The stuff I’ve seen lately with people i know is crazy.

[@NanaD-ve9tt]

Good dad! Plus she’ll see she can’t push your buttons and get her way. She will know she can talk to you without you flipping out every time and that’s important for a little girl to know she can go to daddy and talk. Great job dad!!!

[@HugsXO]

@@NanaD-ve9tt You make such a great point about the little girl being able to go to her Dad with anything.

[@ruthannabauer1022]

@@NanaD-ve9tt👍👏 Take AMEN, Donna! This young father reminded me of my Daddy. He had the same opinion that encouraged me to NOT settle for 2nd best & instilled in me to KNOW that I had great worth, 1st as a child & then as a woman. I could tell him ANYTHING & never face ridicule or judgement. That made me see my worth to the Lord & how much He loved me! It also instilled respect in me for Him, God & authority, something in great need of these days. I'm so proud of this young Daddy who possesses such wisdom & common sense! He needs to give classes to today's parents, DESPERATELY! God Bless this wonderful young Father & his precious family. Take care of yourself & family & stay healthy & safe, Donna.

[@NanaD-ve9tt]

Ruthanna Bauer 🕯☮️💟🙏🏽blessings to you and your family from your friend in New Jersey

[@Carol-er2fb]

It's hard doing it (listening to the crying), but this dad is doing the right thing. That's parental love.

[@danielleschiazza6172]

Incredibly hard! 😂 I have 4 children the youngest is 3 and she wasn't planned, I was 40 when I had her but I love her so much. The other 3 are 26, 24, 17. Now my grandson is 4, he and my 3 year old are growing up together and they are always fighting over toys, screaming, crying, it drives me nuts 😂😂 so I definitely get it. He is amazing though and u see how she was so happy and cheerful at the end? Sometimes just talking to them is all they need.

[@carolchildofgod1467]

What a good Dad. I can’t find one mistake he made. Lord, PLEASE give more children good Daddy’s like this one! God Bless you, your beautiful daughter and everyone you love.

[@carl5438]

Black fathers are the most involved per Pew research. Look it up.

[@williecromwell1116]

She's going to be a strong woman because of her daddy

[@zombrz]

Jesus loves you ❤

[@warmachine3295]

@@thedancingmoonfoxy7272 Jesus loves you too

[@bighenry8405]

@@zombrz jedus died for me

[@77DAdams]

@@bighenry8405 yesssiirrr

[@CB-iu6wh]

hes abusive. you idiots have no idea

[@ryzen89]

Emotional intelligence, patience, common sense. You aren't born with these things. They are learned through demonstration. Kudos to you, Dad.

[@anamairarezendedebritogama3]

WELL DONE, DAD!!! CONGRATS FOR RAISING YOUR CHILD PROPERLY!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Noonecares3203]

That’s a level headed calm man parenting his child the right way and he loves his child.

[@mazalaliyan37]

I love this!! Good job dad 👍

[@geodude7116]

She will turn out great because he loves her and disciplines properly.

[@bufficliff8978]

She’s SO LUCKY to have him. She’ll feel safe with him when she gets older and it matters. I wish I had had a dad who cared about me like he cares about her.

[@justmepraying]

You are like me but we do have a father who cares and his name is God and his son and our saviour is Jesus just call on him and he will answer you. God bless 🙏🇺🇸❤

[@nohelya347]

Michael Price For reall💀😭 I just let them have their moment tho😂🤷🏻‍♀️

[@gunnerm8534]

Christina Walke What has this got to do with faith... fatherhood is shared by any man of any religion/background

[@LauraAnne95]

💯 I firmly believe that a loving, caring, supportive dad, who makes a little girl feel safe and loved, is HUGELY connected to how that girl develops as a woman, and how confident she feels about herself, among other things (like the kind of partner they choose). Of course NOT ALWAYS....but A LOT of the time this is so true. ❤️ I was one of the lucky ones who had an amazing father..I’m sorry you didn’t have that experience 😔 but you can always make your kids feel like that ❤️

[@GabrielleTollerson]

same.. I grew up with neither of my parents being emotionally supportive and always belittled me

[@dianaconvery6676]

Dad is showing respect of Dad He is their to love you Teaching is LOVE

[@markpotter6594]

A copy of this should be given to every parent, it's sublime.

[@kierradrayton3599]

I love that he’s actually communicating with his child in a very calm yet stern way without yelling at her, cussing at her, or threatening her.

[@idkneo]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z4a5kHprrdd4e6M.

[@naya4050]

Uh i hope my little sister would actually listen to me like this little girl here. For me as her big brother even if i try to communicating with her in a calm way she just keep yelling and say "NO!" And she just keep crying and make me feel guilty always. I just want her to be listening to me when i try to communicating with her but no she just doesn't want to listen and throw a tantrum over and my parents keeps spoil her ugh!

[@MzCrystal-7]

Yes I love it

[@lixinxin]

@@naya4050 yeah, your parents being inconsistent is why. You will have to be more stubborn than her.

[@naya4050]

@@lixinxin ikr!

[@michaelanderson2881]

"They don't learn by you teaching them, who they gonna learn by?" Gold.

[@1991USsoldier]

You know they ain't gonna learn from the justice system. If they get to that point, you've failed.

[@NONPOINT420]

Crying does nothing for me with anyone, (child or adult). The more they cry the more I'm silent until you're done with they're tantrum. Your response to her is brilliant and exactly what people should do. She does have to learn.

[@xdtijnntssyu3314]

That’s not true he should hug her

[@realBatman-89]

​@@xdtijnntssyu3314not when the tear are fake. That's reinforcing bad behavior.

[@spoonfullofsugar6247]

Active ignoring is one of the best tools I learned as a parent.

[@patriciamoon6334]

This country needs more parents like this. That is a good dad.

[@MrJereJo-Gaming]

And then his girl will cheat on him

[@rae4828]

Joel Jeremy you good bro?

[@jeslynx]

Joel Jeremy tf...

[@cindyellis765]

My hero!! If only more parents would take this kind of responsibility with their children our society would be able to move forward.

[@ninacorrea2117]

Not only is he showing how to deal with a child’s temper tantrum, but he’s also showing parents how to be a parent.👍🏻👏🏻

[@danamuller554]

What a good man. Thats how its done.

[@alyssacortina6668]

I think it should be mentioned that this is HARD to do as a parent. It takes effort, personal-emotional management, flexibility and time. parent is a verb and a noun- he’s both and that is DIFFICULT. It’s psychologically proven that consequences don’t change behavior, replacement behaviors and communicative understanding change/develop behavior. That’s a child that will see successes in her life, I hope he’s proud of the WORK he is doing.

[@mcann21as]

Much truth!

[@rnangel69]

Loved the bored look on his face..it shows his daughter tantrums dont get what you want..i did the same with my son..not easy but worth it!

[@boxerblvd3514]

I will give you something to cry about is what i heard growing up in the 60s. Good job dad.

[@ForClarityCompany]

This is a man who not only loves his daughter today, but helping her to be a success in her future.

[@pinco40]

"I'm not going to argue with a 3 year-old, I'm the adult, I'm the dad!" Finally someone with good sense and not afraid of loving discipline. Good on you!!

[@JeromeProductions]

Exactly

[@jazistone274]

I like the way you phrased that, "loving discipline"

[@BankruptGreek]

there are civil ways to argue though

[@pinco40]

@@BankruptGreek with a 3 year old throwing a tantrum?!

[@BankruptGreek]

@@pinco40 ok not with a 3 year old but somewhere at 6-10 you start having some valid arguments and "I am the adult and you obey what I say" isn't nice.

[@crittgolden]

Strong work Dad. Need more of that to guide our youth. Wondeful example of being a father.

[@pansysutton4689]

Good old fashioned discipline. Without the drama and trauma. Love it. ❤

[@darkdork1012]

This man is a wise father. He has emotional restraint and maturity. He knows his daughter isn't just a child, but a future adult. His daughter will grow into a very strong person with his wisdom.

[@lunadust8017]

This girl is so lucky to have a father like this. He remained in total control and achieved his aim (of calming the child) without having to yell or smack. Teaches children emotional intelligence and emotional regulation as well. So cool 😎

[@RE-xv9fp]

I don't agree. My mother treated me this way whenever I was upset because she just like this man did not wanna "spoil me". As if consouling your kid is spoiling. I remember how it made me feel. I felt alone and like nobody understood me and my feelings. Well it did made me resillient thats for sure, I'm very self sufficient now as an adult. But at what cost?

[@solomonalpha7846]

@@RE-xv9fp stop wining. Some of us didn't even get what you had

[@texasgirl73goodjob46]

@@solomonalpha7846 She’s not whining

[@nukapuka]

She can grow into a strong woman but not 2 strong. Pushes men away. Read Proverbs on how a woman must be.

[@fayecostello3926]

The little girl is really cute , the father is talking to her and not yelling at her , there is a difference , he’s respectful the whole time and he is funny 😄

[@kuddelkate]

I understand what you mean, but he does not respect her feelings and manipulates her as if she was an object that he has the control of. He does not show love to her but tells her, that if she does not cut down her feelings, she will not be recognized. Her sad feelings dont bother him. Even though we as adults also sometimes have sad feelings and just need somebody who understand. Great is that he does not yell at or hurt her, that he got her out of the situation and talks to her like with an aduld and does not spoil her. But the signal he teaches is not what i would like to teach my child, like "if you dont act like i want, i dont love you"

[@aderlinejohnson8566]

Different races shouldn't mix wtbs all children aren't cute

[@Brooklynishere__]

kuddelkate Here’s the thing though. He didn’t manipulate her. If he manipulated her than all Parenting tactics are manipulative. Throw a tantrum in Walmart? >> We’re gonna sit outside until you calm down. It’s teaching her that he will not tolerate that behavior and when she acts that way she will have a consequence. Letting her cry it out helps her with emotional control. “Are you done?” It’s the same thing as letting her cry it out. He didn’t “cut down her feelings” she was throwing a tantrum in Walmart. Which is never cute. What was he supposed to do?

[@TFGcine]

aderline johnson different races shouldn’t mix? Lol get offline and go read a book.

[@jaysi8057]

@@kuddelkate how would you do it if your kid start acting out in walmart? and in a situation where they don't stop just because you tell them to.

[@PatchesFlows]

Omg when she was happy at the end, SO ADORABLE! Great job DAD STAY BLESSED!

[@brebrown5338]

Omg this needs to go viral!!! Yes!! They need to learn when they are young. Kids are smart.

[@beatrices4433]

The calmness in his voice is what really does the trick.

[@meganrascoe3227]

Yeah it’s something about his voice that’s calming but you know he means business lol

[@annagitana1]

He’s very confident. He handled that beautifully. He didn’t hit his child. He was just firm. No need to hit kids. You can still be firm and confident in raising your children. He did so well.

[@TheRibofJESUS]

@@annagitana1 I disagree. This was not a situation where the child needed a spanking. Depending on the age of the child and the severity of what the child did, a spanking can be completely necessary.

[@BeastHunter2121]

My kids knew when my voice got low there could be a problem.But when I gave the 👀s there was peace on earth.(No spankings involved)

[@Ididdat]

@@TheRibofJESUS what? Y'all saying the same thing pretty much?

[@vmcolon23]

That's why real dads are so important in the house.

[@QoQabai658]

And i wish i could give you a hundred more likes. 👍

[@lici5209]

Because a women can't do the same? Of course kids need a dad, but for parenting to work both parents need to be able to do exactly that.

[@vaeaqueen2105]

@@lici5209 stop trying to make this about moms, everyone knows what moms do, it's not common for dads to do it, understand the point before you respond.

[@lici5209]

Didnt make it about moms. My point was good parenting can only happen when both are on the same page. Love to all good parents out there ❤️

[@luked2115]

It's why we need real parents in general.

[@Ninjanimegamer]

This kid is learning self soothing and how to regulate her emotions. Something todays young adults still havent learned. Too many parents cave in and try to control their kids' temper tantrums by giving their kids toys, phones or food and the kids never learn how to control their own emotions.

[@user-xt4ok4on7o]

Right just like he said you spoil your kids and then you be stern later then they act out.

[@crystalmeier6579]

Bravo, young man! This is exactly how I Raised my children when they were little. (Your daughter is a total cutie, btw!), They are grown young people now and treat people with respect and kindness and don't act like the spoiled brats that alot of today's young adults do! (And I'm a tiny, little, scandinavian woman, here! They could've easily overpowered me when they got in their teens, but they were well behaved by then).

[@trollmomjo]

Maybe, this guy should teach parenting classes. He knows what he's talking about...

[@PatriciaPerkowski]

Fantastic Dad!!!!!

[@theresacarmen9847]

Maybe parenting classes should be a requirement.

[@Tweetyfreaky]

I don't even have kids but I would still.attend his glasses just to listen to a sensible man talking about how to raise a kid calmly but with a stern.voice. this is how you'll get a child being a good one, ofc.. it's normal that they will grow tantrums or get sad and angry but don't let them use it as a rewarding-game as like *the more I scream and cries the more stuff I'll get to be quite* :)

[@1TalldrinkH2O]

Well, the more you share this video, the more people will learn. 👍

[@leneleewest723]

No thanks, ahh maybe in public school, he can teach this Speaking-to-the-camera, instead of understanding Child psycology, public school s dont care bout that either 🙄😉

[@oscarcisneros3100]

This is what a real father sounds like. Beautiful, kind and stern.

[@Muslima_ummah]

XDD LMAOOOO 😂

[@DrMarkJones]

As a dad and a public school teacher, I applaud you. Learning the word “No” is best lesson ever. We all are told No, even Bill Gates knows the word No. Keep it up.

[@i992dc]

Your forgetting the sound of LOVE.

[@Drewg351]

Unfortunately, in the black community, there's very few "fathers" around raising their kids.

[@MrCcoolg]

Great job Dad. Tantrums are made for attention purposes. Isolation from attention, like in your case, makes a child have to think about their behavior. As you say, parents giveth and parents taketh away.