Parents STEAL $120 From Me to Spend on My AUTISTIC Sister, Ruining My 16th Birthday - Reddit Podcast

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Am I the Jerk?

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@AmItheJerk
@AmItheJerk Жыл бұрын
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@the-best-weirdo
@the-best-weirdo Жыл бұрын
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@Boyfresh4000
@Boyfresh4000 Жыл бұрын
@@the-best-weirdoNo your not.
@mapleleafmadeofdarkerice9018
@mapleleafmadeofdarkerice9018 Жыл бұрын
@@Boyfresh4000bros traveling through time💀
@the-best-weirdo
@the-best-weirdo Жыл бұрын
​​@@Boyfresh4000 I meant I was first to reply
@TheRealMrBibbs
@TheRealMrBibbs Жыл бұрын
So scolding your child for ditching their siblings and cousins makes you a jerk now? It sounds like you are the jerk in in this one.
@CountLurchalot
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
As a man with Autism your parents are horrible. My parents would’ve never done that to my sisters. I’m proud of you for standing up to your parents. They are raising your autistic sister horribly. Something tells me they’ll regret it later in life
@jasoncarpp7742
@jasoncarpp7742 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Autism or no, the parents had no right to just take OP's money without knowledge or permission and use it however they want.
@CountLurchalot
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
@@jasoncarpp7742 they said they didn’t want her to have a fit. Bad sign she’s having a fit at 14. I’m guilty of doing that as well, but my parents punished me for it
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
yep i heard this kind of story before where op's younger sister was treated like a spoiled brat and the op's parents didn't care what he wanted in life, and all his anger was vented in front of all his extended family, and they scolded the parents for treating the daughter as some princess and when they were forced to treat op better, the daughter made a big fuss over it, even to a car op just got, and she was like 10 when she was having a tantrum over a licensed vehicle that she can't drive in yet, so yeah the parents in this one are sure gonna mess up big time with their autistic daughter, and the op in this story will not help with it at all when they move out, and they better for their sanity.
@CountLurchalot
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
@@Charles-7 parents like this don’t realise their mistakes until they have to deal with the consequences
@femkefeenstra7754
@femkefeenstra7754 Жыл бұрын
@@CountLurchalot Yeah, you see when a sibling sees what behavior works to get their way because it worked on the other sibling, they tend to copy that behavior too. You see it with some toddlers showing babyish behavior out of the sudden when they have just gotten a baby brother or sister. Suddenly they stop talking and start crying for things instead, those kind of things, because they see the baby gets all of the attention now. It's up to the parents to manage that, and to make it clear to the other sibling that they're not forgotten, that they are still loved as well. I wouldn't blame OP for having a meltdown herself here. The parents in this post are ridiculous and never made the other girl feel loved.
@Xxcayleeann234xX
@Xxcayleeann234xX Жыл бұрын
As an autistic kid, This make my freaking blood boil..! Especially since, they had spoiled her rotten..!
@autumnazure8928
@autumnazure8928 Жыл бұрын
I agree, thankfully she only has two more years with those toxic a-holes before she can leave them and never look back.
@CountLurchalot
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
I’m autistic as well and beyond appalled
@fury1383
@fury1383 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@MeIsSmogee
@MeIsSmogee Жыл бұрын
Same, I am beyond pissed off by this
@CountLurchalot
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
@@MeIsSmogee people don’t seem to understand. Spoiling us is the worst thing you can do
@MsAnimefan10
@MsAnimefan10 Жыл бұрын
Story 1 - OP should let it slip to her friend group what her parents said and did. Maybe some of the parents will call out the parents for their asshole-ish behaviour or take OP out for a birthday away from her parents.
@haydennorris8062
@haydennorris8062 Жыл бұрын
But I bet her Parents would find out, and drag her back, demanding that she give it to her Sister…
@The_Dorkest_of_Lord
@The_Dorkest_of_Lord 10 ай бұрын
Yeah! I remember a different OP in another story did that same thing, and their friends' parents and even some of the teacher got mad at the OP's parents.
@alishiahampson3351
@alishiahampson3351 5 ай бұрын
Op should try and speak to a lawyer and ask them to send a letter saying she'd sue if they don't return the shoes and pay her back and then once she has it she needs to ask a friends parent to keep hold of it for her until she's ready to use it
@dogofwar6769
@dogofwar6769 Жыл бұрын
Story 2: just as a reminder multiple TSA agents have been tried and convicted for egregious felony crimes while on the job; including sexual crimes against children. Don't lie you yourself and think that they wouldn't be so petty as to steal a fancy water bottle.
@sandrasausville9103
@sandrasausville9103 Жыл бұрын
Those are just horrible parents. Spoiling the child regardless of the disability is just wrong!! I would find another place to stay until you can get a place of your own. Dad is a giant jerk and Mom is a enabler
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
agreed any place is better then that.
@shadowmaster335
@shadowmaster335 Жыл бұрын
@@Charles-7 i care to disagree, there is ALWAYS worse places than your current one, but a vastly many more places that are better ;)
@PhasonDaLyricist
@PhasonDaLyricist 3 ай бұрын
agreed. having some kind of mental disorder is no reason to give a child special treatment. I myself have a mental disorder, ADHD, and I've never gotten special treatment and thus far have turned out just fine, hell, I didn't even know I had ADHD until I found the meds I took for it when I was younger (don't know when I stopped needing them, pretty sure I found them when I was 13 or so), noticed the prescription bottle had my name on it, and asked my mom about it out of curiosity. and my best friend is autistic, he too doesn't receive any kind of special treatment that I'm aware of, has so far turned out just fine, and is one of the smartest people I know.
@Amber-Stardust
@Amber-Stardust Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I’m autistic and I am just… taken aback. Those parents are knaves and hypocritical. OP needs to get OUT of there.
@MBdynamoBostik
@MBdynamoBostik Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
yep, they're playing favorites with that spoiled brat of theirs.
@tashahemlock8195
@tashahemlock8195 Жыл бұрын
Being autistic myself, I find the attitudes of OP's parents to be horrible. Its clear that they don't think of their oldest in high regard and a 16th birthday is a milestone in a teenager's life. One that she will never have again. Even if the parents do a party for her in the future, the damage is already done as the OP would be over parties since she doesn't expect much from her parents. And the way they are raising the younger sister is blanantly wrong cause that's going to blow up in their faces. They are not teaching her consequences or repercussions, they're teaching her that she can get away with anything. OP needs to leave the house and cut ties cause its clear that OP means nothing to the parents.
@morganmillington2388
@morganmillington2388 Жыл бұрын
I would have told the grandparents or relatives about what been doing happening so they can Straight up Scold and lecture the parents and the autistic sister hard, make them sell what been bought with stolen money, ground the sister etc
@aplane9625
@aplane9625 Жыл бұрын
@@Charles-7that sister doesn’t deserve those sneakers
@yasmin7903
@yasmin7903 Жыл бұрын
The parents did not buy the sneakers just because the sister would have a meltdown. That's an excuse. The mother took the money specifically to spend it on the sister, or why were they in the store with her in the first place? And why take the money with them? No, that's just a lazy excuse. They ARE thieves and should be ashamed of stealing from their daughter! She is not responsible for her sister and should not be obligated to buy things for her. Remember, OP did say that this is not the first time that happened.
@haydennorris8062
@haydennorris8062 11 ай бұрын
And then, they had the AUDACITY to ban her from Having a Birthday party just because she called them thieves, which they WERE!!!!
@PhasonDaLyricist
@PhasonDaLyricist 3 ай бұрын
op could press charges against the parents for theft if she really wants to. especially if this has happened multiple times.
@juanhaines7295
@juanhaines7295 Жыл бұрын
Story 1 call your friends and relatives and see if you can crash with any of them. You need to get out of there .
@willlecrone5690
@willlecrone5690 Жыл бұрын
Not only that, she should tell everyone she knows what her dad said
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
@@willlecrone5690 yep, if there's an extended family, they should be inform of the favoritism too.
@1mol831
@1mol831 Жыл бұрын
@@Charles-7and she can try to report parents to police.
@jordanshah647
@jordanshah647 3 ай бұрын
And CPS
@Gamebro3844
@Gamebro3844 Жыл бұрын
To the OP of the title story, about the toxic parents stealing your money. In the event that you're watching this video and see this comment, I have advice for you. Save up for your 18th birthday. Buy yourself the BEST gift of all. An apartment. Liberation from those horrid parents of yours. Liberation from that princess spoiled B of a sister. If you have a relative that's nearby and trustworthy, start leaving your savings with them. Make sure it's all kept under lock and key. Honestly, your parents should be absolutely ashamed of themselves. Your father especially. I don't give two figs HOW short that MFer's fuse is. A father should NEVER speak to their child that way.
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
yeah and shouldn't be playing favorites and using autism as an excuse either.
@galaxygamer1469
@galaxygamer1469 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I don’t even think the sister is a b just the product of what happen when you don’t put your foot down and teach your kid proper ground rules. This can be true for some select of autistic kids bc it can sometimes take us a little bit longer to understand what acceptable and what not. Instead of them acting like parents they let their child act out of control and run their life.
@drakofox1362
@drakofox1362 Жыл бұрын
​@@galaxygamer1469unfortunately because of the parents that girl will grow into a Entitled B and they are gonna be the ones to fail
@daykibaran9668
@daykibaran9668 Жыл бұрын
Just one problem, if she saves up again, they will steal it again from her….
@Gamebro3844
@Gamebro3844 Жыл бұрын
@@daykibaran9668 Which is why I suggested that the OP keep their money with someone they trust. Such as a close friend or a family member that actually shows their love to the OP. She could also follow other suggestions in the comments.
@BlitzBrigadeNFL
@BlitzBrigadeNFL Жыл бұрын
You can’t be spoiled when you work hard for money, have your parents steal it and spend it on your sister. In this case the sister would be considered the spoiled one.
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
indeed she is, and those parents are projecting their younger daughter's tantrums, onto op there.
@KablowieFortress
@KablowieFortress Жыл бұрын
But sadly,the fact that the sister has autism took away their sense of logic. If they ever had it
@Frightmarelordofthenightmares
@Frightmarelordofthenightmares 2 ай бұрын
Yeah those parents would rather blame the vict for not being ok with it rather then take accountability for it
@VidWatcher01
@VidWatcher01 Жыл бұрын
Story 1- OP needs to become an emancipated minor & then take her parents to small claims court. I'm definitely going to need an update on that story because I am fuming right now after hearing it!!
@neca1542
@neca1542 10 ай бұрын
well, this also means getting out of that home, and due to financial situation, the OP probably cant do that
@adenchams2371
@adenchams2371 8 ай бұрын
He doesn't even need to do that, he can do it as a child i think
@NeedlesGirl
@NeedlesGirl 5 ай бұрын
If she still lives there, they'll decide if she's old enough to sue, she's old enough to pay rent. They'll get the money back from her and get their revenge on her for "humiliating" them.
@JackBright4908
@JackBright4908 Жыл бұрын
I haven't even got through the first part of the video. and I am livid. Fun fact, she can absolutely call the police, as she worked for that money, and she can absolutely press charges for theft, and I highly recommend she does.
@daykibaran9668
@daykibaran9668 Жыл бұрын
Searched for this comment, I totally agree with that
@FriedWafflez8208
@FriedWafflez8208 Жыл бұрын
I hope this happens.
@stygiandragon3865
@stygiandragon3865 Жыл бұрын
Like... they took OP's money without her permission, or even let her know that they will. If that's not theft, I don't know what is.
@cvg8603
@cvg8603 Жыл бұрын
Should have threatened to contact the cops when she first called her mother if the money wasn't returned to her.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Ooooh classic rugginf hands and scheming pose. Let's hope she posts again after doing this
@ImperialKnight770
@ImperialKnight770 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: when the other relatives and especially the grandparents hear what those two idiots did, they are gonna be pissed. Autism is no excuse for thievery and cancelling a birthday just to play favorites and I bet the grandmother will be ROYALLY pissed off that her son would do such a thing to their own child and I pray they got slapped back to reality and realized the gravity of the situation.
@girl1213
@girl1213 Жыл бұрын
With a son like that? The consequences have stack up high before he realizes what he did, and it'd be too late. Grandma would be better off taking her grandkid into her custody since the parents don't want to parent.
@PrinceRyanMcReynolds
@PrinceRyanMcReynolds 10 ай бұрын
I am autistic myself and learned long ago that is no excuse for bad behavior, and whenever I hear of anyone using "I have a disability." as excuse for bad behavior, I am like so do I and you don't see me acting like that (and I actually have more than 1 disability anyways since in addition to autism I do also have scoliosis).
@christopherschuch5328
@christopherschuch5328 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if the op in the first story left her parents the moment she turned 18.
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
or leave right now, being 16 is considered enough to be independent from your parents in some US states.
@christopherschuch5328
@christopherschuch5328 Жыл бұрын
​@Charles-7 In that case, hopefully she does leave her parents whenever she is ready.
@gtdc4685
@gtdc4685 Жыл бұрын
I know I would
@PhasonDaLyricist
@PhasonDaLyricist 3 ай бұрын
@@Charles-7 but in some places you need to be at least 18 to move away without any legal gaurdian, in the case that she lives in one of these places, she hopefully leaves when she turns 18.
@yummypeach455
@yummypeach455 Жыл бұрын
I need an update for the 1st story. I'm boiling in this moment. Would say if it happened in the US I'd get the CPS involved immediately, you don't use this kind of crap and ground your child when they point it out. If I'm her I'm fighting to the end, ground me all you want but my money is my money, pay up or cops are gonna come knock at your door.
@PhasonDaLyricist
@PhasonDaLyricist 3 ай бұрын
agreed. I've had my mom and stepdad take money from me before, and although I didn't get police involved and never got the money back, if it ever happens again, they'd better pay me back what they take or the cops are gonna come and they're gonna be *forced* to pay up.
@Gavs_rc_hobbies
@Gavs_rc_hobbies Жыл бұрын
Being on the spectrum, this aggregates me a lot. My parents taught me that you can't always get what you want, and if you want something, you should work for it. The moral compass of the parents in the first story is totally screwed up.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like their freakin moral compas is a roulette wheel
@WesleyZ3
@WesleyZ3 Жыл бұрын
Parents will act like the parents in the first story and wonder why their kids want nothing to do with them.
@happydoots382
@happydoots382 Жыл бұрын
I’m on the spectrum and my stepdad was the balancing force of my childhood. He didn’t have to deal with me. He stepped up and taught me how to handle myself and be a decent human. I owe him SO much for all that teaching. ❤ Those parents will not raise a functioning adult that way. ANY kid will throw a tantrum, how u handle it is how your kids learn.
@flowjoe18us
@flowjoe18us Жыл бұрын
Story #6: I don't even know where to being with this one. First, I'll say my condolences to the OP and his daughter. I can't even imagine the major emotional rollercoaster that the OP must be on. The OP loses his wife after she had given birth. I do wonder if the wife ever had a chance to meet her daughter. No matter what happened, it was all around bad. Now the OP's daughter is 5 years old, and being raise by a grieving father/husband. The pain the OP has is enormous. What I don't understand is why is the family pushing so hard for the OP to start dating. Are they worried that the OP may no raise the daughter right because of the lack of a womanly presence in her life? The OP isn't interested in dating right now, and is this person choice. All he wants is to be allow the time to grieve, and that isn't a bad thing. Forcing someone into something that they aren't ready for is incredibly disrespectful. Also in the story I gathered that it was only the OP's family pushing this, and not the family his wife's. I believe that if the OP feels that their wishes are being respected then maybe it is time to leave. Beside I also think that it was incredible disrespectful for the OP's mother to tell his daughter to ask for a new mommy for her birthday. Let me tell you something, had anyone in my family ever tried to pull something like that, the shockwave that would ensued would have been felt in Japan since I live in the US. But back to my point, not one else in the OP's life is pushing this issue except the OP's family. I don't think the OP is a jerk for using salty language towards him mother for her comment to the daughter. And I don't think it was wrong for the OP to put the family on notice about leaving if they keep trying to set the OP up with dates. And if they do try it again politely tell the woman that you are interested and don't want to waste her time. And the OP and the daughter should just up and leave. No notice, no messages, no nothing. The OP's father should have several seats just like the rest of the OP's family. It's no ones business whether or not the start dating. I wish the OP and their daughter the best.
@stygiandragon3865
@stygiandragon3865 Жыл бұрын
And even if the OP somehow manage to get over the grieving phase, this is still one of, if not, the dumbest words you can say to a dead one's spouse.
@SteveAdmienn
@SteveAdmienn Жыл бұрын
We need an update on the first story.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Oh yessssss. We do.
@jasoncarpp7742
@jasoncarpp7742 Жыл бұрын
*Story 1:* I don't think you're the jerk in this case. Your parents are. That money was yours for you to do with whatever you please. I think what you should've done was put it in your bank account if you have one. That way, they wouldn't have been able to just take it for themselves.
@slavaukrainisfs8238
@slavaukrainisfs8238 Жыл бұрын
Problem. They'd have to be a co signer and they'd probably go behind your back and have the bank attendant have a back door into your account so they can steal your money regardless. What I'd do if this happens again and you have a bank account is to chargeback, tell the bank, and press charges for petty theft. It may sound extreme and it's risky because the parents could force you to be homeless if they find out. But I guess anything to get away from that selfish bratty kid. I myself am autistic and that doesn't give me an excuse so why does it give Mrs. Karen junior an excuse?
@runeingebretsen8378
@runeingebretsen8378 10 ай бұрын
@@slavaukrainisfs8238 Why she didn't call the police or cps is beyond me.
@jasoncarpp7742
@jasoncarpp7742 5 ай бұрын
@@slavaukrainisfs8238 They shouldn't have been allowed to do that. That's damned unforgivable. Autistic or not, that doesn't excuse what the parents did.
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I would have filed a police report for petty theft and press charges. I’d even consider taking them to court for emotional stress, abuse, and unjust enrichment, and file for emancipation.
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
with op being only 16 I hope he's living a state or country that allows minors to do just that.
@Drago_Whooves
@Drago_Whooves Жыл бұрын
@@Charles-7 16 year olds could still call CPS
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
@@Drago_Whooves if op has their phone still.
@cheesebuger13
@cheesebuger13 Жыл бұрын
I'm an autstic man, it's flat out bad parenting to spoil your kid(s) and ignore your other kid. Any meltdown that a spoiled kid will have will be way worse with autisim being a factor.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
As a fellow autistic man I agree. We just want to be left alone with our possessions to pass the time. We don't constantly seek out new stuff. And what kind of parents think a grumpy kid is a damn meltdown?
@joshualeonard1319
@joshualeonard1319 Жыл бұрын
Autism is not an excuse
@juliusnebulus7303
@juliusnebulus7303 Жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@gtdc4685
@gtdc4685 Жыл бұрын
yes
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Just because we emotional issues doesn't mean we can't be taught we can't have everything we like! These parents have failed this child!
@skarmex3439
@skarmex3439 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: Sooo... OP's parents got mad at OP for calling them thieves and therefore got mad at OP for telling the truth...? I guess criminals would get mad at their kids for calling out crime when they see it.
@shiroooo196
@shiroooo196 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: telling it to all your friends, so they know what your parents really like. Than get out at 18,try to earn a sh*t ton of money, be better parents than them and the final step is to rub it in their face every single time you see them
@shortangel333
@shortangel333 Жыл бұрын
O just dont see them at all/
@LaMara-vv2wq
@LaMara-vv2wq Жыл бұрын
Or have children at all.
@shiroooo196
@shiroooo196 Жыл бұрын
@@shortangel333 this is a revenge scheme, you can't just throw the most important part away like that
@Sol-id2ww
@Sol-id2ww Жыл бұрын
In the first story i would've said to the parents this "SHUT THE HECK UP AND IF YOU DON'T F*CKING RETURN THOSE SNEAKERS I'LL JUST DO IT MYSELF AND YOU'RE THE WORST PARENTS IN THE WORLD AND YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT IT WAS THEIR MONEY THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO CALL YOU BASTARDS THEIVES?!" Note:I have a short temper if someone is like that to a person i know who is dear to me
@stygiandragon3865
@stygiandragon3865 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you deal with short temper with short temper. I feel like those parents are one of those types that will back down if you overpower their dominance on you and start threatening.
@Sol-id2ww
@Sol-id2ww Жыл бұрын
​@@stygiandragon3865though I have to be honest I F*CKING hate those parents and THEY'RE theives and the person didn't deserve to be grounded and plus a lot of people with autism are perfectly fine and aren't struggling and I know some people with autism struggle but it's not that bad and if someone is yelling and threatening my family I will lose it😅
@XxBlueEyedxX
@XxBlueEyedxX Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I always recommend that OP should show their post and comments to their parents in such cases. Maybe a few hundred people telling them that they are horrible has another impact than their "spoiled teenager". They think their kid described the situation totally wrong just to put them in a bad light? Go ahead and post your side of the story.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Hehe heh. The first part is deliciously malicious. I love it
@WyattHouston-h8r
@WyattHouston-h8r 9 ай бұрын
Wouldn't surprise me if the fools that is her parents still think they are in the right.
@thegachabuddies5889
@thegachabuddies5889 Жыл бұрын
Story 1, you should get out of that house as soon as possible. Those are toxic parents you have there. They have no right to take away your money, especially on your birthday! I hope they deserve some karma after that.
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
with me being autistic, this disgusts me the way they using it as an excuse to spoil the younger daughter of theirs, and when op turns 18, they better move out of that house for their sake, any other place to live in is better then that household.
@Jackie_XIII
@Jackie_XIII Жыл бұрын
Story 1: Are you the Jerk for telling thieves that they stole something from you and it made you angry? No, Not The Jerk.
@laurasohn8332
@laurasohn8332 Жыл бұрын
Ok... if I were that girl in the first story, I would file an emancipation lawsuit against my parents and Then I would use all of their outbursts and abuse as evidence that they're not suitable to live with anymore
@OWENTHEOMANYTE
@OWENTHEOMANYTE 8 ай бұрын
Who agrees the people in Story 1 should be fined! WHO’S WITH ME!!!
@eggballo4490
@eggballo4490 6 ай бұрын
She only went to her room, I'm not a violent person but if that were me, thinks would've gotten very ugly very fast.
@jordanshah647
@jordanshah647 3 ай бұрын
@eggballo4490 i think a sue is warranted
@coolbeans194
@coolbeans194 Жыл бұрын
The first story nearly made me cry. OP deserves better.
@flaglag7672
@flaglag7672 Жыл бұрын
this was the first time i have ever heard you actually yell in anger
@TheSimplicated123
@TheSimplicated123 Жыл бұрын
I know I'm just piling onto the responses from other people with autism here, but as someone with autism himself, I happen to know it's really not that hard to teach an autistic child the concept of no, and it just seems that these parents are trying to take the easy way out.
@Fire_Heart666
@Fire_Heart666 Жыл бұрын
Here before it blows up. 👇🏽
@ghostknight_vr
@ghostknight_vr Жыл бұрын
Here
@ApolloDragon
@ApolloDragon Жыл бұрын
I have autism and hate that they use it as an excuse to steal from your own kid and then punish them for being upset about it. That tell me these a-holes shouldn't be parents. They knew it was their kid money and they knew they were saving it. Grounding them for calling them out for their bad behavior is abusive and won't surprise me whenever their daughter cut them out of her life for their actions.
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat Жыл бұрын
Title one i would steal the money back
@fanofpink
@fanofpink Жыл бұрын
Nah they would probably have her aressted just them aressted instead. Or call cps that would teach them.
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat Жыл бұрын
​@@fanofpinki like that idea too
@gotenblack2542
@gotenblack2542 Жыл бұрын
Story 6 ops family needs to understand that not everyone moves on when they lose their loved one some just can’t find another person to be with hope op and his daughter can stay far away from them
@zaskarr
@zaskarr Жыл бұрын
This guy is back?! No way dude
@elpisgalaxy8934
@elpisgalaxy8934 Жыл бұрын
I have autism and the first story had me appaling AF
@tylerbuckley4661
@tylerbuckley4661 Жыл бұрын
Personally i would have called the police on them for stealing that money
@Roboseal2
@Roboseal2 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I have wonderful parents and I try and calm my anger issues. Because In this situation I would have punched him.
@atlas1227
@atlas1227 Жыл бұрын
Can I just say, the first story made me want to punch someone in the face, particularly the father because that is some horrifically bad parenting and I’m not even a parent
@DarthAndrew520
@DarthAndrew520 Жыл бұрын
Well its been 2 years since that story first came out. Hopefully OP is out of there away from those AH parents
@alfredocea7965
@alfredocea7965 Жыл бұрын
Wait, so there's no update at all or anything?
@DarthAndrew520
@DarthAndrew520 Жыл бұрын
@@alfredocea7965 unless there's one on a 2nd account I didn't see anything.
@galaxygamer1469
@galaxygamer1469 Жыл бұрын
First story: These parents are the worse type of people to have autistic children. Sometimes the thing with autistic children is it can take time for us to learn basic rules I should know bc I’m also autistic and so is my older brother but his case is a little worst then mine. They can’t even use the excuse that they aren’t financially stable as well bc my mom is single with no dad present and still manage to treat me and my older brother equal and never pull these type of disgusting shit. They have absolutely no excuse for them acting the way they do and they are going to ruined that autistic child by spoiling her and thinking she can get whatever instead of setting your foot down.
@ninjakitty1183
@ninjakitty1183 Жыл бұрын
If i was op in the first story id call my friends and extended family and any future interactions id have a recording device set up as evidence
@andyscandiesaregood926
@andyscandiesaregood926 Жыл бұрын
In regards to the autistic sister story the parents are gonna be wondering why op never comes to see them after shes gone and why they ended up in a nursing home
@Astrein0017
@Astrein0017 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I would love to see the parents Pikachu faces' when OP turns 18 and cuts contact w/ them ... hell, in that situation i would even try to emancipate so it occurs sooner (op already works and is able to save money for her own bday anyways 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️)
@alpha-sama
@alpha-sama Жыл бұрын
Story 1: Those parents are awful. They're stealing money from their daughter which she earned herself all so they wouldn't be inconvenienced. I do wonder what level of autism the sister has but even if she has it really bad, that would not be a good excuse for the parents. I'm autistic myself and there's no way my parents would've bent to a possible meltdown especially not at 14 years old. Story 2: I'm very sorry that OP lost the water bottle she liked so much. The guy at the airport was being a selfish, thieving jerk. Story 5: If I were OP, I just would not have let him in. The nerve of some people like that entitled customer is insane. Story 6: These relatives are downright horrible. It's disgusting that they're trying to force a grieving man into a new relationship, and it's particularly repulsive that they're trying to manipulate him using his five year old daughter. I hope that OP can move on and make peace with the situation at his own pace. Story 7: Wft. OP was right for trying to teach her daughter that leaving your family to get on rides earlier is not the right way to do things. But the way she went about it is disgusting. She's only eight, you can't ecpect her to already be perfectly aware of these things. And she has the guts to tell her that she doesn't have friends? This sounds like something a bratty high school girl would say to bully a pier. If that's how you talk to your eight year old child, then I have zero respect for you.
@trevormc0125
@trevormc0125 Жыл бұрын
I'm autistic and i say spred this to your extended family. Let them know everything that's happened. Dad exploding like he did shows it has to happen
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
I'm an autistic person and I can say that when I was told I couldn't have something as a kid sure I was angry, but I didn't throw a tantrum over something so minor. My mind worked like spinning a prize wheel; try again later. But to have SOMEONE STEAL (demonic roaring voice) YOUR MONEY AND SPEND IT ON SOMEONE ELSE AND THEN REFUSE ACCEPT THEIR THE JERKS FOR DOING.....!!! (Calm tone) that. That's not right. OP should tell their relatives what happened. Or at the very least find a way to trip one of the parents to fracture their ankle. ....it's happened to me and man did that month of recovery suck. 😂
@IceIceBaby3310
@IceIceBaby3310 Жыл бұрын
Hold up. Why does the pinned comment say 4 weeks ago when the vid was posted two mins ago?
@jenniferkelsey4966
@jenniferkelsey4966 Жыл бұрын
Knowing how she is maybe they shouldn't have taken her to the store.
@Colomba-lc1tf
@Colomba-lc1tf Жыл бұрын
My son is autistic and this is bs, that kid is a spoiled brat, my son is polite and educated.
@HWC91
@HWC91 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: This is why when some kids turn 18, they'll cut their family out of their life.
@darksoul7548
@darksoul7548 Жыл бұрын
As an autistic person, that's HORRIBLE
@playfulshiba4674
@playfulshiba4674 Жыл бұрын
If i was op in the first story i would tell everyone what they did. Family members, friends not just their own tell their friends too.
@aetheralmeowstic2392
@aetheralmeowstic2392 Жыл бұрын
If I were that kid, I'd get a small safe and lock all of my money in it.
@TheMetalWeirdo
@TheMetalWeirdo Жыл бұрын
I get angry over the favoritism for the younger autistic kid over their older kid. However it will be fun for them to find out they won't be grandparents when OP get's married. Also, time to put them on blast on social media and tell everyone in vicinity (friends, relatives, school staff) about their neglect.
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my childhood in reverse. My little sister was jealous my autism got attention. ...I just wanted to he left alone.
@AzraelThanatos
@AzraelThanatos Жыл бұрын
With the first one, best response is to retaliate in kind. They want to dig through your room for cash, ignore complaints when you trash theirs for anything you want. If they want to ground you, ignore them and watch the fireworks...a retort that you don't listen to thieves in public works well enough.
@albertgongora6944
@albertgongora6944 Жыл бұрын
In all honesty the original poster needs to do a CPS call on their parents
@falloutthewindowcrazy7608
@falloutthewindowcrazy7608 Жыл бұрын
The first story I have MASSIVE hyper explosive psychotic rages and it would have been in the most extreme level (As in leave them crying and trembling in utter agony) The voices in my head take full control and needless to say
@wrkkvikrmvh1023
@wrkkvikrmvh1023 Жыл бұрын
As a person that works in an environment that has a zero tolerance policy on anything that has wireless communication or store data that hospital story is absolutely hilarious I would love to see them pull a 12 hour workday without touching their phone, apple watch, Bluetooth earbuds, or even some models of calculators (programmable ones like the Ti 84)
@Boyfresh4000
@Boyfresh4000 Жыл бұрын
That’s out of pocket.
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat
@og_3rd_st_saint_gat Жыл бұрын
Yeah he should steal it back
@LEG4CYGD
@LEG4CYGD Жыл бұрын
​@@og_3rd_st_saint_gats
@Devillin
@Devillin Жыл бұрын
I don't get why OP1 didn't keep the money elsewhere, since she does state it's not the first time her parents have stolen from her.
@iamhungey12345
@iamhungey12345 Жыл бұрын
I remember that story. That wasn't even the end.
@shockdiesel3470
@shockdiesel3470 3 ай бұрын
Story 1: Little man syndrome having rage-oholic dad: WE ARE YOUR PARENTS, YOU NEED TO RESPECT US ME: *110 million percent done with this B.S* Monkey see, Monkey do; If you're not going to respect me, Why should I respect you?
@csargent31
@csargent31 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: it's cute that these thieving parents called the OP an overprivileged brat when they literally stole from their first child who work hard for the money that she saved to appease the second one. I knew it was BS when the OP'S mother told them that she "want to keep it safe".
@ozgurerdalersoy654
@ozgurerdalersoy654 Жыл бұрын
"Want to keep it safe" was used many time to me and I never seen that money.
@isimsizoyuncular30orj
@isimsizoyuncular30orj 3 ай бұрын
So this is the info i found on google: Any containers larger than 100ml will need to be packed into your check-in baggage or left behind.
@WhiteBread69420
@WhiteBread69420 Жыл бұрын
Stealing your child's money and then grounding them and cancelling their birthday just because they were angry that you stole THEIR money is such messed up
@Caelus32
@Caelus32 Жыл бұрын
Either get your money back by law or in blood, but make it their choice. If they retaliate, blood it is
@1742Q
@1742Q Жыл бұрын
One of my friends brother said he was going to become an airport security. That way he could steal stuff without getting in trouble and it’s true. He still does that to the state he confiscate items that are like over thousands of dollars and sells him. It’s literally his side hustle, how do you think people who work there for like 30 years can afford to live they just go to the disposal then and sober. Definitely find a reason to fight over the disposal then happen.
@lachiprofe
@lachiprofe Жыл бұрын
And thats in America, just think about in a Latin country specially as poor as Cuba where each thing they steal could be 2 months worth of income
@TDub-ox7wu
@TDub-ox7wu Жыл бұрын
First story: I would have told him "cool, im glad that you guys got me a bill of $120 for my birthday. It makes me so happy you spent it on something for someone else too!"
@maikeliRAIWALUI
@maikeliRAIWALUI 6 ай бұрын
I'm autistic myself and i take great offence to this. This behaviour is NOT ACCEPTABLE stealing from one kid to spoil your youngest with sneakers so she won't have a tantrum is wrong on so many levels The op had every right to call her parents theives and if i were in this situation I would of destroyed the sneakers in retaliation saying if I can't have a birthday party then she doesn't deserve to have these sneakers
@CodyJonesXD
@CodyJonesXD 15 күн бұрын
*Where's The Video With The Updates To Story#1!?!*
@Ninjara930
@Ninjara930 Жыл бұрын
story one, Op need to move out n leave the parents. Once moved out and go no contact the last story, Op is a major jerk for saying that to her 8 year old daughter!
@charlie.cummings
@charlie.cummings Жыл бұрын
Story 1 - I'm autistic. They should have been willing to deal with the 14's meltdown otherwise she will find it harder later in life to cope. Find a better way to hide any future money you save up if you can. Not the jerk.
@jaczylijaaleniepowiemkto3243
@jaczylijaaleniepowiemkto3243 Жыл бұрын
Since the first story's OP is already 16, her parents are quite literally thieves.
@femkefeenstra7754
@femkefeenstra7754 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this has zero to do with autism and more with the parents spoiling their other child absolutely rotten. I would ditch them whenever I could if I were you. Maybe even bring the sneakers back when they're not noticing it if they still got the receit, just to get your money back
@carolgibson-wilson4354
@carolgibson-wilson4354 Жыл бұрын
That 8 year old has a father like mine. No compliments but critiques abounded. The best way wouod be to say hoow clever but what about her cousins and sibs? But damn that kid is smart!
@moviefan8210
@moviefan8210 Жыл бұрын
Hello CPS, yes I calling to report my abusive caretakers -_-
@Fangs-jo4bq
@Fangs-jo4bq Жыл бұрын
The first story put me in a rage. I would have attacked those parents and take something from them. And called them thieves. And paint it on there face. And your sister.
@DwarfDaddy
@DwarfDaddy Жыл бұрын
The TSA has to be the biggest waste of tax payer dollars ever.
@SquishBurger
@SquishBurger Жыл бұрын
5 MINUTES EARLY :DDD
@tomallgamesplay5576
@tomallgamesplay5576 5 ай бұрын
Background game: spiderman miles morales for the ps5/ps4
@johnnymcneal5914
@johnnymcneal5914 Жыл бұрын
You in the one who's being wronged and yet there's got the nerve to say that you're being a selfish brat I don't think so you have every right to be mad and ask for your money back you can even call the police and have them make you give my back but I doubt if those do anything you only choices to sue them for the money
@alanmoody1273
@alanmoody1273 3 ай бұрын
And as op said that the parents have stolen before, open a bank account. Get another relative to cosign if necessary
@cunningsmile4166
@cunningsmile4166 Жыл бұрын
Story 1. What did you imagine to retaliate against them if YOU were there?
@thshadowgirlaws7267
@thshadowgirlaws7267 Жыл бұрын
At least 2 of those you've read before... whats going on?
@autistically_Intelligentyt
@autistically_Intelligentyt 25 күн бұрын
Ngl I have autism too lol and my lil sis does but she has more special needs so she needs to be spoiled lol
@viviennemorgan7217
@viviennemorgan7217 Жыл бұрын
as a friend who's friends with 2 autistic friends, their families are nice to me and them but they wouldn't brush their feelings aside for their silbings.
@viviennemorgan7217
@viviennemorgan7217 Жыл бұрын
but they loved them deeply and the same
@Joey15811
@Joey15811 Жыл бұрын
Disown the parents and get put and live with grandparents. They show clear favouritism. Also destroy the sneakers as revenge.
@jrytacct
@jrytacct 2 ай бұрын
That's what I was thinking. It was his money that paid for them, so he can do as pleases with them.
@KindaTech654
@KindaTech654 Жыл бұрын
Ok as an autistic person honestly I hate being pampered. I normally do chores to get money and then once I’ve EARNED enough money, Get to go out and spend it on something small or sometimes something on eBay
@Charles-7
@Charles-7 Жыл бұрын
now you're a good example of a disabled person who just wants to fit in, and not use it as an excuse to get they like, I applaud you.
@farmingrice96
@farmingrice96 9 ай бұрын
2:38 if i had parents like that i will be extreme on them bc $120 is quite a lot of money for a 16 yer old teenager
@JohnRoberts-l5r
@JohnRoberts-l5r 15 күн бұрын
Fr like dang don't take my dame money
@1742Q
@1742Q Жыл бұрын
If I were you, I would open a bank account
@TerrificTetris
@TerrificTetris Жыл бұрын
Id “steal” the sneakers and return them
@HomePlateDrums
@HomePlateDrums 11 ай бұрын
As an autistic person myself, I am in firm belief that you have the grounds to sue your parents. That is straight up robbery, and they should pay you back for what they stole from you, and I feel it’s worth more than a mere $120. Probably closer to $2-300.
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