Parents Try To Cut Off Daughter's Credit Card Access - Prince$$ - 208 - Rachel

[@mexipatti]

Mom says "she's never going to be able to live on her own." Gee mom you did a great job raising your child to be a confident adult living on her own.

[@gbaca07]

Mother is an enabler

[@jessicapearson9479]

Love how everyone keeps attacking the mother but letting the father off the hook!

[@teresahegerich8835]

Mother needs friends her own age. That would help. Daddy needs to tell Mommy to back off and let their daughter grow up.

[@VintageVera]

And she needs to get her own life.

[@VintageVera]

@@jessicapearson9479 His choices are 1) to stay out of it or 2) Put his foot down and spend a lot of time arguing with his wife and daughter.

[@rmxsuperfly]

This may be true, but Rachel is an adult and this really comes down on herself ultimately. Also as others stated, both parents are doing the same.

[@joannacurran8475]

It is amazing the number of parents who live through their children. So sad.

[@annikatan378]

Agreed.

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

It's not Sad.. I don't know a parent out there who doesn't in some way

[@ShavonCastella]

They raised a brat. Stop trying to compensate for deficits in childhood and impose it on your kids!! We need leaders and open minds not self centered bratzillas

[@sandraskalnik2369]

The most difficult thing in the world for a parent to do is let go when their “baby’s” become adults. As a mom, when I look at two grown men, I see those babies when I first held them in my arms. I am so proud of the men that they have become but I miss my babies.

[@Sarah-y5w]

Yep😂

[@scholargrrl]

Rachel needs to get away from her mother and she can start growing into who she wants to be.

[@Chrissyhappy]

Why didn’t that father speak up? That mother is overbearing and a disaster for her daughter’s future the way things are.😮

[@jessieb7290]

Some moms are overbearing; “my way or the high way” attitude.

[@louisa8788]

Dad's got that 1000 yard stare. He knows his life won't be worth living if he stands up to mum.

[@oldbuzzard8536]

The wife keeps his balls locked up in a safe.

[@lindapatterson6993]

@@louisa8788 I agree with you. Mom took on the Life coach Gail with a verbal sword, she is adept at passive aggressive verbal combat. The hubby has never stood a chance. Just my opinion.

[@rosemaryshoffner1906]

Sad that her mother has zero confidence in her and selfishly wants to keep her dependent on others to survive...

[@Tassie85]

In 2024, that crappy basement apartment would be $1700 + utilities. The first one would be $4000+utilities+parking+condo fees....minimum!!

[@infoskrimp420]

right? that was a bit depressing to watch 😂

[@cryptameria666]

Sad but true. What happened to Canada

[@PJSparkles100]

@@cryptameria666 we gave it away.

[@aussiemouth747]

​@cryptameria666 Same thing that happened everywhere. In Australia housing is so scarce and expensive. 🦘

[@natashablanchette2541]

"A parents job is to protect their children".... IMO a parents job is to raise their children to be kind, productive members of society. Protecting them is a given..

[@acousticblogging]

Maybe it would be beneficiary if the mother worked more, got a new hobby or a pet? It seems to me that one of the reasons she seems to have a hard time of letting go is because that means that she might not feel as needed anymore as she did before.

[@Sin-D_]

There’s a much bigger picture here than “mommy’s feelings.”🙄 She (the mother) needs a swift kick in the ass considering these parents just look the other way while their daughter is spending money they know she can never pay back bc she will likely just file bankruptcy (if not for the show). Unbelievable, they just cower to their daughter’s tantrums. I’m not nearly as upset with the daughter as i am the parents.

[@angelaratzay9034]

Please do not give that woman a pet! Think of the poor pet!😊

[@OliveGroves24]

💯

[@lucygreen5101]

She just has to let go. Why should she distract herself? She’s not doing her daughter any favours.

[@lizzie1897]

Moms depressed and empty too

[@radbabs2000]

She's an ADULT... her parents made her this way.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

bad parenting. Mostly the mother's fault. The mother baby the daughter.

[@teresaalbin-davis4529]

Some of it is personal responsibility or lack thereof. I was kicked out at 17, figured it out

[@tessahall797]

Mom is a perfect example of “misery loves company”

[@sarahh9169]

She's 25 not 15 ! It's just pathetic to watch. Mum caused this.

[@alisongreen7576]

God bless Chrystal. Everyone needs a friend like her.

[@tessahall797]

She’s actually a lot more like her mom then you realize. She is negative and likes to criricize her friend and shame her.

[@oldbuzzard8536]

The mother needs to get her OWN life!!! I hope that daughter keeps renting the nice room they got her and saves all her money. Don't even go home at all!!

[@annadawson5325]

Over time she can get into that nice two bedroom suite. She’s well on her way. Her mother especially needs therapy… lots and lots of it. I sense she wants to trap her daughter at home and keeps telling her she “ can’t do it” without letting her really try . It’s stifling. I know what that feeling is like without the princess attitude. I wish her well.

[@angm6091]

Mom, that's horrible attitude !! STOP enabling your daughter !! You saw your daughter doing so well and you were not even happy for her. You were only worried about yourself. You have done your parenting job well when your adult children are financially independent and they don't need your financial help. You should be proud of the progress she made in such a short time.

[@sandykeniston2104]

No, it’s really sad all those clothes right there that could’ve been money in the bank for a down payment on a house lol seriously she could’ve had a house by now Mom dad’s money that they gave her and give her

[@whatrtheodds]

The mom doesn't want to see a Her child thrive she wants to have a friend that makes her feel better about herself. I have a similar dynamic with my mother. Mom used to get upset when I would study because I was neglecting her and being selfish by studying (in her words)

[@soniaceleghini8005]

So sad that her OWN MOTHER is holding her back!!

[@faywildman4218]

Her mother has just held her back. Unbelievable. Poor Rachel

[@HelgaJanso-mt1ex]

The problem is the mother. Ask, why she don't want to be alone with her husband. This marriage is on the edge to break down. The mother is taking her daughter between herself and her husband.

[@lizzie1897]

You’re so right! Had so little faith in her daughter.

[@jsan7]

Rachel and her friends are lovely! Although Rachel was spoiled with money to spare, her attitude toward life outside her nest shows that she has also received enough love from parents as the foundation of her life.

[@lindaleelaw5277]

Lovely?

[@jayesimond9301]

Huh?!

[@madhattersoriginal6258]

I feel that the narcissistic mother is paying for her daughter to live at home to escape the reality of her own unhappiness.

[@whatrtheodds]

Yep agree. The sad part is Rachel doesn't even realise this because it's all she knows. Leaving the nest is really important in breaking unhealthy parent/child dynamics.

[@AuroraCardi-in9zt]

What a negative mother! I hope the daughter watched this and I hope she moved out and had a good life.

[@jasonbowman709]

The mother runs everything and the father is too scared to speak up.

[@gracietilert8952]

Parents create their own monsters.

[@intherockies]

The mom was so negative about her daughter's ability to do anything. When the mom said the daughter wouldn't make it, I was shocked and couldn't believe a parent would be so degrading. The mom didn't want her to make it! She wanted to keep her adult daughter under her roof and rules. Mom needs to get some hobbies and realize she has to step back.

[@annadawson5325]

Yes, sounds like narcissistic personality disorder on the parents part. If they had her way she would never be allowed to leave . It’s emotional abuse. Been through that, it’s very damaging 😢

[@javaskull88]

$900 a month on clothes? I don’t spend that much on clothes in a full year. She needs to discover shopping at yard sales, thrift stores and online platforms for used clothing like the rest of us. I make over $100K and still shop that way.

[@michelejohnson6459]

Don't forget estate sales 😉. The clothes I get the most compliments on come from thift, estate and yard sales. 😊

[@justd4377]

I hope she realizes that the $900. she spent quickly turned into less than $100. in USED clothes. By putting those purchases on credit cards they probably ended up costing her $1200. but still only worth pennies on the dollar. I'm not sure why her parents thought she could make a $600. car payment by only working a couple of days a week.

[@Lorelaibaylee]

Yu must be a male. I literally do spend 900$ on clothes in a month because now clothing stores are pricing one item for 79$. Also thrifting prices are super high. You can go to a thrift store and buy one item for the price of it brand new.

[@laminage]

Where I live $900.00 is the equivalent of a 3 1/2 Room Apt for $740.00 then the leftover money can be used for groceries, hydro, etc. I am lucky because where I work, there's no cafes and the like so what I do is I have $20.00 (Four Bills) and I do everything in my power not to spend. I live with My Mother and yes she does my laundry and hers as well but I reciprocate when I pay room and board, drive her around because she doesn't know how to. I help out with Bills and we each take turns paying Crave & Netflix. We do well because we are on the same page financially. Since My Father died, I've really been her right hand.

[@dichang3]

​@@Lorelaibaylee Why do you need new clothing every month? Wear what you have!

[@dotProcess]

We need where are they now

[@animaanimus8011]

Let’s pray she didn’t use daddy’s connections to become a college professor.

[@MultiMarcopolo1234]

​@animaanimus8011 I think tou need to be slightly intelligent to maintain a role like that.

[@carolrose3367]

I STARTED WORKING AT 14 BECAUSE MY WIDOWED MOM NEEDED HELP. WORKED UNTIL AGE 62.

[@angelaratzay9034]

Good Carol, the mother wants her daughter at home to give her a reason to not go out to work . I hate controlling people, mother get a life,and let your husband talk, unless he agrees with you... thanks Carol. I was widowed at 28. My daughter helped me when she was around 12. Today she has a batchelors and two masters. She worked hard paid for her own education,raised a fine son. Wonderful daughter. You sound like a special person. Take care.

[@laminage]

😊 God Bless You

[@SLangel18]

That mom is the real problem and she needs therapy! A girl like Rachel should WANT to leave her parents and do whatever she wants… which means her parents (her mother mostly) are not as strict as they should be. That’s why young adults want to leave the nest. And the fact her friend has she treats her family like crap even with all they do for her? That sums it up right there’s she doesn’t respect her parents and her mother doesn’t believe in her. Wow co dependent much?

[@DoloresSeurat]

It’s sad that she’s 25 and lost her early 20’s to being this way. Definitely the mom needed a life coach of her own. I wonder if the marriage survived

[@Sophia-h1k4c]

This girl speaks like she is 15, not 25.

[@jb6712]

She did, but there seemed to be a small bit of maturity creeping in at the end. The show was made between 2010 and 2012, so she's 35 - 37 now. Hopefully well away from "Mama's" talons.

[@jessieb7290]

Probably went through trauma, we don’t know. That’s usually how people get emotionally stunted.

[@aussiemouth747]

​@@jessieb7290Always an excuse. Everyone has trauma. We get on with things, grow up and learn something from our experiences.🤔🙄

[@PowerhouseCollectiveMedia]

@@jessieb7290trauma can be enabling or one parent constantly giving in vs the other TRYING to say no & attempting to lay boundaries, but then giving in, because they don’t want to continue arguing with the child & the other parent who gives in. So when the child realizes they can still get what they want, regardless of the parents not being on the same page, it creates a conflict of interest; they learn that they SHOULD be able to get whatever they want, whenever, from whoever & it creates a mentality of entitlement… entitlement is also a form of trauma, due to not being shown a healthy example by 2 parents putting in a more united front. She’s essentially been taught that she doesn’t need to work more than a part time job, because her parents will still give her money whenever she WANTS it. So not having healthy boundaries established for her, is a form of trauma… it either turns a child into a people pleaser, where overgiving becomes 2nd nature OR a narcissist, where taking advantage of people & their weaknesses becomes 2nd nature.

[@sd1660]

25 😮😢😮😢😮 acts 14. PARENTS your JOB is to raise FUNCTIONAL humans. This woman is quarter of a century and has ZERO SURVIVAL SKILLS. Seriously in the last decade paying for things their daughter should have paid for they have harmed their own financial and mental health.

[@lucialuciferion6720]

Growing up , this was my situation. Except my father was overbearing as well , not in an emotional way (he had none), but in a controlling way.

[@agriope2334]

To have her so dependent on them and at the same time so unhappy and needy of parental validation is such a devastating combination. She was raised to need her mom and to stay that way. This poor girl...

[@rileyroo2381]

The mother, "she can go to you when she gets in debt." OMG, Rachel was in debt living at home.

[@angieprice7206]

Protecting your children does not mean becoming their servant.

[@Rosepetalscreations]

That’s what the mother wants. She plays a good game at crying because her daughter is rude to her but she loves it! She lives through her daughter how sad.

[@cj222100]

That basement apartment was actually nice imo

[@lucialuciferion6720]

Yes, except the bars on the window are a red flag.

[@anapaulametelo2316]

My basement apartment in toronto was realy nice but i could hear the rats inside the halls, i stayed i month and found other, now 40 years later i joke about it

[@BEG943]

The problem is the stuff she is buying is crappy stuff so she can’t even sell it . She needs something to do with her time that’s working towards a goal

[@purpurina5663]

Of course the more the mother "gives", the worst Rachel will treat her. Children develop resentment when they're treated as helpless babies

[@jb6712]

Did you bother to watch the entire episode? Rachel really changed over the four weeks, but her mother became more clutching and negative over that time. Simp Dad just gave in to his wife all the time, as expected, but Rachel got a decent-paying full time job, and she got herself an apartment she could afford. It was her mother the whole time who was suffocating her, not wanting her to leave home---of course the girl is going to be resentful! Sure, she had hte mindset initially that her parents "had to" pay her way through life---but it was her mother who was teaching her that. The show was filmed from 2010 to 2012, so Rachel is somewhere around 35 to 37 now, and hopefully managed to get out from under "Mom's" suffocating claws.

[@PowerhouseCollectiveMedia]

Her friend thinking it’s confusing how she can be nasty at home, vs outgoing & friendly with them is NOT confusing… this gives red flags of a narcissist; they treat people like shit behind closed doors, while being the perfect ideal personality out in public. This is what happens when you don’t teach boundaries in early childhood. This girl has learned that her parents are too easygoing & takes advantage of that. Telling her parents that THEY need to downgrade in order to suit her lifestyle, is absolutely disrespectful & ignorant. Her mother is also a MASSIVE enabler, as many others have said. I wonder what that woman went through in HER childhood that made her that way, because she acts like she’s going to have a panic attack & meltdown every time her daughter is even remotely uncomfortable or inconvenienced & that’s called toxic parenting. I feel like the father isn’t allowed to have much of a say. His wife probably guilt trips him if he attempts to draw the line. The look on his face when this woman was confronting the mom about putting up barriers to allow her to go be on her own, was the face of a man who’s been silenced & likely wasn’t saying much, not because he didn’t have anything to say, but because speaking up has probably caused arguments in the past & he didn’t want to embarrass himself on tv if his wife were to go off on him. But that marriage doesn’t seem all that healthy to begin with. So I’m not surprised that Rachel is how she is.

[@ED80s]

She was living at home and taking for granted that it's a perfect opportunity to save money.

[@BEG943]

When I was 25, I had a job, a car and my own place in Chicago Roger’s park. But i did have a full time job but my goal was to live on my own

[@lesliearno]

Same here!

[@michellejalbert-deen1329]

I had a kid and husband!

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

I was married with two babies. My own place, cars, and a full time job.

[@jackiesdiary5154]

Its the moms fault. U made her that

[@stormbarnet7176]

Yooo this mom.... Her daughter is 25 and she's treating her like she's half that age. You are disabling your child.

[@joeysmom2663]

Rachel will get farther in life using Gail’s techniques. I think her mom was trying to live her life through Rachel. Good Luck

[@deenibeeniable]

Mom is pathologically attached to Rachel. It's sick.

[@LetMeThink007]

Perhaps the word you’ve used “sick” is a little bit harsh… this is about her mother not seeing that she has a role to play for the rest of her life, unhappiness with the prospect of being able to care for her (quite possibly only child), or simply not having a purpose which is similar to the way people feel when they retire. It is very painful. Not “sick”, unless of course you are psychiatrist and was able to diagnose her mother on a basis of highly edited 22 minutes tv programme. 🤔

[@nellautumngirl]

​@@LetMeThink007 It is sick. My mom is the same way, she always wants to control me and criticizes me like I'm still her little girl. She also made me anxious about the world. At the same time, she expects me to be her emotional caregiver. It is sick and it made me sick. Thank God I live with my partner now.

[@jessicapearson9479]

No, her mother AND father are just push-overs. The father is just as responsible as the mother! The mother SHOULD be bonded to her daughter. The problem isn't that. It is that they are just too soft spoken and refuse to show tough love out of fear of confrontation!! Learn some psychology before making such an ignorant, self-projecting comment!

[@jessicapearson9479]

@@nellautumngirl You are assuming and are most likely a child (as in not yet really and adult or at least spoiled) just judging from your writing. As you are writing like a 13 year old girl. Stop making assumptions and stop being selfish. ACTUALLY talk to your mother or get counseling. Because this mother is just a push-over. She doesn't like confrontation and the daughter is the selfish one who refuses to grow up. The fact that you can't see that shows just how much of a child you still are. And yes, you may be grown in years but it is clear that your brain is still that of a selfish 12 year old girl.

[@brendasnow8255]

Naw. Rachel is her only kid, and mom needs a life of her own.. It’s not “pathological.”

[@MrsKMango]

I don’t think she was a princess. I think she just had a horrendous mother. All the best wishes for Rachel.

[@melony123]

She's not a bad girl. Her parents are 100% at fault, in my opinion. They created a monster. Parents should do better.

[@mssdn8976]

Protect your children! She’s 25!

[@mayasilliman1465]

Moms are great enablers when they don't want their babies to leave the nest. They turn into banks and caregivers!

[@219043204]

From day one, our job as parents, is to start training our children to grow-up and live in their own as functioning adults.

[@FinalGrain-jm4eu]

Rachel seems like she really wanted to make it work independently. Glad for her.

[@MR2B1012]

Why do people think they have zero responsibility by attaching addiction to any lack of self discipline.

[@vlsice2024]

Instead of giving her the check, she should’ve wrote the check out straight the company of her bills so you know it’s going straight to the debt not just straightened into her hand and kind of feel like it’s going to her

[@lindapatterson6993]

I think Gail has that issue covered. I kind of hear an Irish accent from Gail. (you don't mess with Irish people if you know what is good for you)

[@MK-vj7gh]

The mom is how she got this way. Good thing she learned this lesson or she would be living with those parents forever.

[@kimberlyheibel8759]

Her parents allow it. They need to put their feet down and say NO!!!!

[@Jackiedyk]

I must admit I lived at home way too long. I just didn't know what to do with myself. But I always had a full time job, paid for my car, paid my own bills. They even charged me some rent. My daughter is 23. Lives with me. She has an almost 2 year old. She does her own laundry, cleaning. Prepares her own food. She's purchased every car she's owned. She pays her cell phone/ car insurance. She does online schooling and I stay at home while the baby is sleeping most nights while she makes money doing food delivery. I can't stand the idea of people spoiling their kids. I don't even like little girls being referred to as princess or daddy's girl. Ick..

[@SkyandMilo_9]

You are the type of person I like. My daughter is 16 and when she starts working I will let her pay her way a little she that it prepares her for the real world.

[@chapman1569]

Mom, stop breastfeeding her! That girl has potential, she is also sweet. I hope that she is well and independent. I loved her friend's reaction to the challenges.

[@Fairysarecu0e67]

My kids are 24-21, they been living on their own for 2 years. They roommate together and it saves money. They have no children and don’t plan to. I’ve always taught them to be independent and to be responsible with your choices. They know they can always ask for help at any time, but they choose to work full time and be independent. They ask me all the time “mom what can we do to help you”. Now that’s something to be proud of. I hope this young women stays branched out on her own. These parents taught her how to rely on them and they are not going to live forever.

[@legzfalloffgirl5148]

You're lucky if you can get a basement apartment for 1700$

[@Bunny11344]

That was back in the day when u could literally rent a whole basement suite for $600

[@MarianPerera-ye8be]

@@Bunny11344 $700 is the exact amount I paid to rent a basement apartment in Toronto (until 2021), and in doing so I saved enough for a down payment on a condo. But this was definitely an exception. No one at the bank could believe I paid so little for rent.

[@jb6712]

That show was filmed sometime between 2010 and 2012. It only ran for three seasons. The prices of everything, of course, were far lower than in 2024.

[@pamvoss1787]

you can't even rent just a room now for $1700😥

[@lucidlabyrinth]

RIGHT! Downtown Tdot That apartment is at least 3000 guaranteed 😂

[@angelaw886]

I hope she was able to build a good life for herself.

[@josephpipkins-g8z]

My daughter would have been cut off long ago….credit cards cut up, put on a payment plan that included rent and car payment, and she’d be getting all that crap out of my house. Or, she’d be living on her own…maybe in that car!

[@NFH-c2w]

My mom always said, no matter how much parents love their children, in the end they will pass away. If you truly love your child, teach them to be strong enough to stand on their own two feet

[@MothraVsTheWorld]

She is such a good young lady! She clearly wants this

[@Green.heron24]

This was a great show and she really helped Teach Rachel good skills. Rachel did so well!! Better than expected! Good job.❤

[@juliebianchi2163]

The dad should've put a stop to his wife. I'll bet he was the main breadwinner, yet the wife and daughter spent all his $$. I'm also going to guess she was an only child and they just didn't want her to grow up.

[@angiep7836]

Why doesn't the dad say anything?

[@jessieb7290]

Probably the wife has his balls in a vice.

[@GB-he1zc]

The mom is her worst enemy.

[@TheReelLifeOfStacey]

The mother is horrid…seems the daughter wants some independence but the mother won’t let her grow.

[@jb6712]

The show was filmed from 2010 to 2012, and with the independence Rachel achieved during the filming, she hopefully managed to get fully away from "Mama's" suffocating claws. Rachel would be around 35 - 37 now.

[@a.j.sawyer9056]

As a parent you have ONE JOB - to teach your children to not only survive but be successful in the world of adulting.

[@elizabethashton9590]

Spoiled and entitled. The parents are the problem hre.

[@jb6712]

If you watched the entire episode, you can see that the girl changed drastically. She got a full time job for decent pay in a good environment (a school), she got her own apartment, and got away from her suffocating mother. Simp Dad, of course, never stood up to his wife, so Gail had to do so. Rachel got the full $5,000 from Gail because Gail saw the huge changes she made and that her attitude did a full 180. The show was only made from 2010 to 2012, so Rachel would be somewhere around 35 to 37 now. Hopefully away from her mother's suffocating clutching claws!

[@emiilyjaane7]

​@@jb6712 Are you Rachel ? You keep repeating the same thing over and over again. I don't really think anyone cares.

[@KerryJames-l6z]

Take clothes back get refund

[@yourtransformationgenie]

Protect your kids from what? Does the mother not realise that part of her job is to protect her daughter from HERSELF?? How is she being a responsible mother if the daughter does not know how to pay off her car, do, her laundry, cook, balance a budget and god knows what else? The mother needs her head testing....

[@Nancy-lc8jw]

that apartment in toronto would be no less than 3500$ these days

[@clanhenderson2001]

Mom needs to think about her daughter's future and let go. What if mom got hit by a car tomorrow and died? Then who is going to take care of Rachel? How is she going to take care of herself if you don’t let her grow up? Doesn't she care what happens after she's gone?

[@Sally-ul2pr]

Momma's the real problem.

[@kahe9662]

You go Rachel, I'm proud of you❤.. from a grandma

[@ankra12]

Her mother is such an enabler.

[@MrsPetal]

I like staying home and watching old reruns of movies, or cooking for the family and having game night, I get tired easily being at the mall doing shopping for Christmas.

[@mariaferreras4369]

Parents don’t realize they crippling their kids by giving them everything and letting them have all their money to just use as they want. They should take rent from them and put it in savings account and make them live on a budget from the minute. They start working.

[@diahannkanich1747]

I went to college full-time. I worked full-time and I had a part-time job. I never took out any loans and graduated just fine...

[@julieguelfi9936]

The mother is her biggest handicap. She would want her daughter to be dependent on her when she's 45! Seriously, Mum, get a life of your own.

[@virginiacacal5006]

@julie ~ unfortunately, I’ve heard stories of folks @45 yrs of age utterly dependent on parental sustenance for everything … 😭 sad ❗️

[@SL-yy5ov]

What an amazing show so much better than the toxic reality ones

[@hazelnutbix5261]

The mother seemed terrified to be without her daughter. I suppose Rachel was an only child. Its as if mum felt she woukd not have any purpose in life. So sad, that this destroys two lives. Mum and dad need therapy and then be proud of Rachel growing up.

[@truegrit7697]

Wow - that mother is pathetic. smh

[@sarah3796]

I’d love to see what happened after

[@virginiacacal5006]

Well done young lady‼️Keep on forging ahead. You’re discovering who you are. And, heading out the front door not only helps you to grow into an empowered young woman, but also you can find your niche in the workplace & where you to discover your “service/volunteer passions” fitting within the community & neighborhoods ‼️❣️‼️God be with you❗️🧡💛

[@lealmelisa]

"people who shoos here don't have as much as i do" 😂😂😂😂 gurl you have nothing!!!!

[@dichang3]

As a mom of 2 young kids. Im taking notes on what NOT to do!

[@justelleslife507]

We don't know why her mother wants her to stay at home, but I bet it's based on fear, she's very clingy (mom) maybe she suffered a great loss, please be kind, doesn't she have her own set of friends? Maybe Rachel can now help her mom get healthier, Rachel isn't gone she just moved into her own place.

[@ravenbaa7989]

Nothing wrong with basements or older places often cooler in summer

[@tinapeacock9207]

Mother needs therapy. I would think she would want a life with her husband to do things but maybe she she doesn’t want one.

[@ZPiiLe1]

This is nothing compared to today’s economy

[@jokendrick2124]

I wanted to move out and work. I can't understand anyone with any intelligence and self esteem wanting to stay at home and make bad decisions every day. Her parents let this happen and funded her wasteful entitled attitude.

[@Rosepetalscreations]

Boy that mother is a sabotager who has no life outside of being a mother. I feel so bad for this young woman. Mom needs intense therapy!!!!

[@laminage]

I wonder what her Mother's life was like when she was a Girl. Maybe she was adult victim of child abuse or had addiction problems or even financial problems. 😢. Not that it's a excuse but you never know. I recently got my Bonus for Xmas but I wired $300.00 for My Sister & Neice & Nephew. I gave my Mother $100.00 that she appreciated since she didn't get her pension yet. Then I have extra.

[@lizzie1897]

I’m a retired teacher. Working and going to teacher training is excellent training for the time management you have to master to be an effective teacher.

[@hollymartin3291]

Setting her up for failure , congrats parents

[@Mary.Shannon]

Mom, she is not a child, she is a spoilt adult.

[@Villinos]

Totally sad case. This is an oppositional and disrespectful mother with a very mute husband.

[@lisagreenway8410]

I moved out at 17 and my mom taught me to be completely independent from an extremely young age. I am still doing what I need to do at 46 although sadly at the moment I can’t save anything, but I hope that will change soon enough. Her mom though, wow!, she shocked me how tough it was to let her daughter go. I bet their mother/daughter relationship changes for the better now. She has done so well and it would be interesting to see how she is getting on now. Good luck to her and her parents will always be there for her as that won’t change but wow the man needs a reality check!.

[@PokeHedgie2000]

dear god im around the same age at her, thank goodness i had more strict parents who wanted me to succeed as an independent adult, now i rent my own apartment and pay all my own bills and still have just enough to raise a small pet and still have savings

[@saywhatyouneedtosaythepare5125]

This mothers!! I have so many choice words for her! But my God won’t allow me!! I pray for Rachael