PART 2 EP.48 | Bassie’s on fighting for survival to coming back home to South Africa with her son

[@shawnduma]

Those people who saw this lady struggle may God deal with them one by one. 😢😢😢

[@madialemotsiri586]

Amen

[@nomsatorcida9612]

🤞

[@Olga-hn6cr]

Amen

[@nosiphomadywabe7213]

Amen

[@ckngivdtb37910]

We must also not worship them when they come to the continent.

[@MorwesiMokibe-rf2vv]

Once you set your feet in a foreign country, find an international church to make it your second family. They can come to your rescue in times of vulnerability. May God strengthen you & give you a new life.

[@grannyntombi]

I agree with you. Having a church community would have cushioned her against a lot of hardship.

[@nkosikhonamthethwa4765]

new life here in your country 🙏

[@mbalimkila]

True…. ❤

[@Tebza79]

Good advise❤.

[@HanleyZuze]

Thank you for the advice

[@kgomotsothanye4470]

This lady is strong ...The way she narrated the story😔😔 with that painful voice 😢😢...i salute you my lady

[@booboo-jn7ug]

People warned her but she WANTED light skin baby do badly and she ignored their warning. She is too foolish

[@StoriesTV-hq7jb]

The safe way to move on baby girl is under the blood of Jesus. He will give you peace that supercedes any understanding

[@bitsangabi9785]

🙏

[@LovedByGodInChrist]

I totally agree with that. I am sad for her, she has placed her wellbeing at the hands of the same people who disappointed her, Going to war with a broken heart is another messy situation

[@dineosibiya2123]

JESUS is the way

[@moedermolatlhiwa4475]

I think if Bassy start a movement called Friends of Bassy, I'll join to put pressure on UN women desk which South African women heading it to check how can we sanction that country. This is GBV at its worst shape and can't just be left, Perseverance. The whole world should be against GBVF because women from all these countries are somehow experiencing 💔

[@zanelemaseko8446]

This is so sick, I totally agree with you

[@SimplyBassy]

@@moedermolatlhiwa4475 hey my molatlhiwa that sounds like a great idea, it would help so many of our sisters that are that side and still going through what I went through, but I don’t know how to go about it

[@nondumisof]

❤this is a good idea❤

[@LangelihleNgema]

The UN is useless,ruled by governments and governments don’t care about their people only their interests,the UN can’t even Sanction Israel months into the atrocities and the loss of so many lives in their hands.

[@QueenFlo]

I fully agree with you 😢

[@RebeccaMokoena-j3l]

The storm is over girl ♥️♥️♥️ welcome home 🤗

[@lynettenene9218]

Exactly

[@simangelenyanda5158]

You are loved here❤️❤️❤️

[@ezinhlemavundla4348]

njeee

[@nthabisengnonhlanhla6927]

The poor kid suffered. Sometimes its okay to be a single parent guys. Being with the dad doesn't mean the child will be happy and not being with him doesn't mean the child won't be happy.

[@sekoaib]

Amen. I think she was in denial that it was over

[@SimplyBassy]

@@sekoaibis it my English u couldn’t understand or u just slow?

[@sekoaib]

@@SimplyBassyit’s your English

[@SimplyBassy]

@@sekoaib i figured, bless your heart.

[@olebogengserole5609]

So true

[@MaggieMoloi]

Father I pray that You continue healing Bassie in Jesus Name.❤❤

[@marinakleinschmidt8657]

Thank you for sharing your story. This is for our daughters who also want to go aboard. Brave, cherish your son and look after yourself ❤

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you mama!

[@mwakalikando831]

This is really sad 😢. I’m married and living in Croatia with my Croatian husband who happens to be my protector all the time. I have also experienced some similar experiences like this before but not in the presence of my husband. This happens mostly when I am alone especially at the police and supermarkets 😢😢😢. You’re strong and we thank God for taking you back home safely ❤

[@simamkelencapayi5457]

Yhooooooooooo 😢🥺😭

[@blessingncube2935]

I'm shocked

[@No2HeartStoppingClotShots]

😮 I see most of them are RACISTS

[@Drawingboredi]

I don't know how you do it. I've experienced that so many Croatians have ugly hearts and they are racist. I feel it everytime I visit or interact with them. They have internal scum energy directed at blacks. In fact I do not like visiting there. Outside of Croatia it's a little hidden but it's coz these ones focus is to climbing up the social ladder and are fake even to the so called better whites to get where they want. They are a hurt people. I don't understand where their harshness comes from. Very sad coz outside of this they're actually lovely people. They act like the nasty sibling but who is nasty with no explanation. They don't even meet people where they are before redirecting how to treat you. They just treat you ugly.

[@TabonaNdlovu]

Yoh bad wch means they hate foreigners so bad

[@MapulaMotloutsi-ng6gq]

Ì love this way she laughs,we South african we love you,keep laughing is healing,try hard to forgive u will be fine.thank you for protecting our son,stay blessed

[@JudithNcapayi]

I am forcing myself to finish watching this video to the end but it is heavy. I cannot believe she is right here, alive and telling her heart wrenching story. She has been through a lot. I wish her all the best in her healing journey and her son's healing journey.

[@PhilisiweThanjekwayo-gb6sy]

😢😢😢it's painful

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you mama!

[@maggyboois]

Am so sorry do hear this!Am Namibian had the similar situation in Angola and my embassy also failed me it so so sad..I thank God you home so and sound 🙏🏻

[@nonkanyisomofokeng7470]

😢🤗

[@BongiweNdayi]

I've never seen such a strong women basetsane . ❤ welcome home 😇

[@SimplyBassy]

❤❤

[@nelisiwezulu8872]

She's so strong

[@kwenacarol2623]

Now this girl is so brave many would have left their kid and move on.. She fought to be with her son ❤

[@KhomotjoMapheto]

I so wish Malema see this video. We are treated like dirt in their countries. But we have to welcome them and their nonsense in our country

[@booboo-jn7ug]

She should have listened to all those who advised her not to marry the man!! But she wanted a light skin baby so badly she didn't listen

[@sinazobogicevic3442]

As someone living in the Balkans where Bassie was, domestic violence here is a huge problem. Many of you don't realize that GBV is an issue in South Africa, but at least we talk about it and try to fix things. I saw a woman get slapped by a man on national TV and everyone who was there didn't react or do anything. Bassie's story is made worse by her isolation and lack of support.

[@I_am_Gee_]

The first thing one can do in a foreign country. Help yourself by learning the language as possible, it will save you a whole lot, trust me. It makes the whole experience a bit bearable, you will be able to advocate for yourself and no matter how much they hate us , they respect someone who speaks their language. They are offended by us for not speaking their native language in the their own land. Basetsana be proud of the fact that you had money to move around and look after yourself. You are a mbhokodo love 🤗

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you, your words are powerful!🫂🫂

[@ZodwaMkwanazi]

Sis Perseverance, thank you for holding space for us women to be comfortable enough to share such stories. Emotionally I know it might drain you but you keep on. This is you sharing experiences from women from all works of life. I could hold my tears feeling for both of you.

[@Atigreenworld]

Mention that guys name and his handles I know South Africans won't disappoint. We will deal with him on social media

[@modernlife1379]

Exactly! We will make him trend and experience the post partum depression he made her go through.

[@SimplyBassy]

Dennis miletic

[@AphiweSoyana]

😂😂😂

[@preciouscebekhulu5806]

​@@SimplyBassythat man look soulless, maybe it's because of I now know the story of what he did to you and his own blood, i don't see human when I look at his pictures 💔💔😡

[@SimplyBassy]

@ he is exactly how he looks

[@minkatekomaluleke3559]

You will get justice baby, God saw all that happened and He will answer those tears that you and your boy cried.

[@Myratus1436]

What tears my heart apart is that that man stayed in S.A. and was treated with dignity but he abused a woman from a country that welcomed him. May the God of vengeance show himself and may this lady get to see that so she can heal

[@SimplyBassy]

This!!

[@francinatjituka1665]

Stupid men

[@phindilenkosi2284]

Yhoooooo no one deserves to go through what you and your son went through. Praying for healing over you and and your son's life. My dear God is our only vindicator he will fight for you in ways you have never imagined😢❤

[@maureendibobo9091]

U make me cry Bassie, m so sorry u went through this pain alone in that country, 😭😭😭

[@zaneledhlamini9803]

Oh sthandwa sam,i am so sorry baby girl. Rest in the Lord he will give you peace ❤❤❤. May you and your son heal. Thank you for also raising awareness on this.

[@I_am_Gee_]

This guy failed you gorgeous. You look like a strong woman, you are definitely going to rise above this whole ordeal.

[@booboo-jn7ug]

People warned her not to marry such a guy. But she wanted a light skin baby so badly. She cannot blame him for ANYTHING

[@helvinangula4008]

Praying for your healing journey with your son, I can feel the pain in your voice I’m so sorry sissy 🫂 ❤❤🇳🇦

[@yoda_1823]

I am experiencing the same here in Kenya from my in-laws as we speak. Thank goodness my Kenyan husband is trying to protect myself and our 5yr old from his family, but being married in a foreign country is tough. I believe everything she is saying. My in-laws are the worst type. My husband's older brother put his hands on me 4yrs ago and broke my jaw because he didn't want me to take my son back home to my country. He kept saying that boy belongs to this family. Thank God my husband has stood up to his family. Now we has been cut off from the family that thinks they are better Africans than us Southern Africans.

[@nomsebenzi1]

Yhooo! Sorry.

[@msylvini]

Pole sisi. As a Kenyan who grew up in South Africa, this is very disheartening to hear about my own people. I'm glad your husband is strong enough to stand up for you and leave his family.

[@ridovhonamatshusa2511]

Thanks, Clayton, for being a big brother and doing your job. God positioned you in the post for such purpose 🎉

[@sethembilegwamanda4819]

She needs to write a book about this, maybe somehow this might help her and perhaps therapeutic. She really suffered and I'm sorry this happened to her. It's sad, nobody deserves such.

[@japrosper7240]

I'm seeing a movie coming out of this story, could also bring some justice .😢

[@kerimaabu1359]

White people would never allow it. Marrying white people is something white people put millions to promote, because it is all part of the depopulation agenda. It is shown in black movies, advert, even music videos and they control the media.

[@kedidimetsemaseko5226]

Yeah true....I think being a foreigner in a racist country can be very painful and traumatic, I support your idea of a "Based On A True Story " movie to make awareness of countries like this one.

[@simamkelencapayi5457]

WELCOME BACK HOME SIS 🏡 🥺♥️ You are loved here, we are your people 🤎 You are not a minority here, you belong.🇿🇦 Ngxesi mntanasekhaya. Sorry my beautiful Sister 🥺

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you queen!❤

[@SimplyBassy]

Ndabulela sis wam❤

[@sinazobogicevic3442]

As a mother, and someone also living in the Balkans, I'm so sorry for what you went through. My son is 5 years old now and I can't imagine the trauma and pain you felt every single day and still continue to feel.

[@lindiwemabena6290]

Can Mr Clayton Monyela get a promotion please.

[@tumekamgibanyoni1738]

Please !!!!!!!!1

[@nonkanyisomofokeng7470]

Yes he should

[@fionadekkers120]

I gree with you, Please give him a promotion , he helped our Bassie

[@GhostedLadyMzansi]

Shes so well spoken and beautiful,life goes on mama you will be okay.We learn everyday,its painful but it shall come to pass.Virtual hugs 🫂 ❤

[@SimplyBassy]

🫂🫂❤

[@Lelowalk]

Never delete your TikTok videos. Let the whole world understand how Croatia is.

[@patienceikombele9161]

All we have is our African brothers and sisters, Europeans never loved us.

[@ckngivdtb37910]

The racism in SA is a constant reminder. We don't even have to leave the continent.

[@No2HeartStoppingClotShots]

​@@ckngivdtb37910you can say that again!

[@NtokozaPearlKhaula]

I don't even trust those even Africans brother and sisters.What I see in my country South African 🇿🇦 I don't believe that anymore

[@xoliswasolombela7631]

Cry my baby, you're slowing healing. I'm crying now. You didn't know. But now you know😢

[@Favour3558]

I almost cried too bcz I remember went through bad moment at the same age 28 😢 But God is good ,she will heal ❤

[@SimplyBassy]

I’m so much better now

[@koketsoboshego8337]

Dear Basi, I'm so sorry that you had to go such inhumane experience. May God give you strength to continue with this life and recover everything you have lost. Welcome home sis. Once again askies

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you so much my queen!

[@linamaropengmaropeng7531]

Her voice says a lot she want to cry but she is trying by all means 😢😢😢

[@mabongzbongi2109]

She's strong and brave.. lot's of love sister ❤

[@mabongzbongi2109]

May the good God keep you stronger as you are god will answer all your prayers and protect you and your son

[@Thee740]

Justice you won’t get, but therapy can help you find closure! Worth trying….

[@hendrinahaikwiyu8149]

Justice you will never get my lady.. Therapy to move on is what you must strive for

[@NombuleloKhoathane]

Therapy never really helps sometimes

[@LM-he7eb]

@@NombuleloKhoathane If you're hard headed & getting therapy from a wrong person

[@Vv-fl2rm]

@@LM-he7ebhard headed 😂😂😂

[@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN]

@@LM-he7eb COMMENT WITH INSULTING WORDS WONT MAKE YOU GRATER, HERE WE ARE SHARING THE THINGS THAT WE WENT THROUGH. SOMETIMES THERAPY IS NOT FOR ALL OF US.

[@sebentilezanini1085]

Ladies...what she went through happens more than we can imagine. I would advise that: DO NOT go to his country with him as a newly wed excited about coming here. Date for at least three years, visit once or twice to check him out, his friends and living situation. Thereafter, introduce him to your own network which you MUST at least have prior to coming. And...please when people see red flags..dont dismiss it.

[@shanicemanuel55]

I always tell my husband he is lucky he came to SA for the first 5 years of our marriage, because if I lived in his country first we would be divorced in a few months. His people are mean people

[@bitsangabi9785]

True

[@bitsangabi9785]

How i wish she could have listened to the friends of this evil man when they told her about this man in south africa or at least move out when she saw the red flags. Nana may God heal and bless you and your baby. You are a strong beautiful young intelligent girl, God will send you a good husband who will treat you like a queen one day just pray for your healing and wait on the lord my girl.

[@MphoMontse-c8v]

Sorry Basetsana...thanks God you are back home...some men are very Cruel, coming to ABUSE 😢

[@simamkelencapayi5457]

His friends warned her before they even got married and left SA. They told her everything but she chose to ignore all those red flags. She made a terrible decision...

[@NangulaUahengo90s]

As a mother my heart bleeds watching this 💔 what she went through was so toxic. One thing that she should now is that, no evil done goes unpunished, pray to the Lord to heal your heart. Leave everything in his hands. Forgive these monsters, not for them but for yourself, for your peace. As for your son, time heals, give your son soo much love, a lot of love, assure him that nothing like that will ever happen to him again in this life, reassure him that he doesn't need to be scared. Do it everyday. As much as he is going to therapy, help needs to come from home as well.. You need to heal yourself do help your son. Involve your family in raising him and showing him as much love as possible. He will start feeling safe and that light will come back to him (who he was).. You will be okay mama ❤

[@NontetoMogapi]

To think we have a child who is going through this right now in KZN,The sad part,She's too proud to return home.Cause She was promised heaven and earth when She left.Then I ask myself as a parent were did we go wrong.I pray through Base's testimony we'll also get a happy ending.Thank you Base❤

[@SimplyBassy]

Very insightful, thank you sis nangu, I’ll do just that!❤❤

[@Palee_M]

I am a South African living in Hungary,Budapest also stranded in this country with my child. The Embassy in Budapest is not helpful at all. I have asked help from them for so many years without any avail. I’m just stuck in this country. I am so sorry you went through all of that. 😢

[@xolelwasarfo]

So how can you come back home?

[@Greg16350]

Why does dirco not help you too?

[@No2HeartStoppingClotShots]

Who must those pple working in Budapest SA embassy accountable to?

[@Sataka23clips]

Just fly home duh😂😂😂

[@Palee_M]

@@Sataka23clipsyour ignorance shows that you are not familiar with the laws of the country! 😏

[@Missmelanie262]

This is a cautionary tale for all women. Decenter men and protect your wombs. I’m 31 years old, single, living in the UK. I own my own house and I protect my peace everyday… I wish you the best hunni. But young women learn

[@Geegee-r1n]

Proud of you girl .A woman should never lose her independence!

[@NtokozaPearlKhaula]

We love you baby gal 💗 and your son, You are very strong young woman.May almighty God protect you and bless you with your son in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏. We South Africans love you always.

[@PruhM817]

My heart breaks for you nana, I’m so sorry about what you and your son went through😢. May the good Lord heal you and bless you abundantly moving forward ❤.

[@refilwemarole8822]

No place better than home...may you be strengthened through your healing process 🌹

[@miriammacata421]

Girl uyimbokotho I salute you you are a very strong woman I'm just happy that came back home with your son and started a new life may God be with you on your new journey

[@MapulaMotloutsi-ng6gq]

You where there for, Gods purpose, to help other women to come out of that hell,thank God you are alive,oi mpokodo wena, im so proud of you, stay onder the blood of God

[@nomtandogatya5949]

Yhooo this experience is heartbreaking, thinking how our country shows ubuntu towards them😢😢😢 this is also scary and an eye opener for us to think twice before we go overboard. I pray for Bassie and her son to get justice and healing ❤🙏

[@gabisilemabuza4099]

This is a very sad story. It's my first time to see Madam Speaker so devastated and speechless. I feel sorry for this beautiful young woman for going through this horror. I can imagine the trauma she went through, but thanks to God for making it possible for her and her son to get back home.

[@nolusindisomatyumza1044]

You are a brave woman. Things happen to the most intellectual people. I wish you continue the focus on your child and yourself and the healing you need. Whoever blames you for this suffering are doing it to cover their own shortcomings. Everyone who had been injust to you will live with it for life, and that ain't good feeling. Thats why they follow you online. It is a guilty conscience ❤❤❤

[@TokisoMphahlele]

I'm I the only one chopping onion 😢😢😢😢. Wish you well in life my sister. God bless you ❤

[@QueenFlo]

Shuu Ive never cried like this en listening to this while at work

[@lorrainemudhara8140]

I am too. Its heartbreaking but Im glad she made it out alive together with her child. Some people are animal in human form.

[@IvyWambi-tz8nm]

Me too

[@IvyWambi-tz8nm]

Bassie I think your story should be into a movie.

[@KeaMarumo]

You are such a strong woman and a great mom, Bassy. I wish you & Christian healing. ❤️‍🩹🫂

[@SimplyBassy]

🫂🫂🫂🫂❤️

[@palesasephooa2530]

She really suffered the worst form of Racism in the hands of someone she trusted enough to leave her Family behind for 😢😢😢😢😢😢 I really wish she gets ahead in life all her wishes must come true 💗🙏🙏💗 God must shower her with Blessings on top of Blessings cos she deserves!

[@ShiluvaMashaba-kr9vf]

White men they know how to pretend. They hired me to taught their disability child. I worked there for two weeks .me i don't take nonsense i left them because they treated the one who clean their surrounding badly but is just another story not in crocia😮😮😮😮😮

[@SimplyBassy]

Amen sisi I receive!

[@LamboBishop]

I just realized that South Africa is so immaculate. Treating people with courtesy, consideration and empathy. Foreign countries it's a hell. Thank you for sharing your story. Be comforted my lovely sister 💔💔❤❤

[@sindisiwebilly9184]

I also came to realise that too

[@Ahava222]

Clayton Monyela 🎉ur flowers 💐 thank u so much

[@psychologistannandiaye5586]

Phew😢 I am so sorry. No words. May this healing process be made in peace. Lots of love and light to both of you❤

[@TebatsoMalope-c8d]

You can even be abused by the same man who is from the same country, province,village 😢so this lady yes somewhere the red flags were there...but because she was hoping for better she continued to travel back...people must stop saying nasty comments....we are living in a cruel world...😢

[@smem-zr2il]

Very true

[@phindiwemirandamoshoele2016]

Yhooo she is sooo young. I pray for her healing.. she must study international law and goes for them. She must also get counselling and heal for her son.. then go for them

[@tumisangselomane-pule7478]

The lady at the embassy should be dealt with as well….they should be our saviours or rather intervene to assist us “hence why they are there”. One other thing; the officers didnt even wish to accomodate her, where was ubuntu?? This is sad guys😢😢😢

[@charlottenxumalo9092]

We can blame the embassy workers, but if the embassy has not made provision for these kinds of cases, what can the worker do?

[@tumisangselomane-pule7478]

@@charlottenxumalo9092they should have made their own investigation, especially that he took her identification card and other personal things. They are there to assist SA citizens

[@sibongilengini4623]

You must understand the job of the people at the embassy firstly before passing judgment. There are certainly cases which are beyond them .

[@tumisangselomane-pule7478]

@@sibongilengini4623i understand it very well because thats part of my job…i know all about foreign affairs. I know what im talking about, the dos and don’ts as a foreign affairs officer

[@zoephilile2274]

@@charlottenxumalo9092we mostly definitely can and do blame that particular woman who this young lady spoke to! She clearly believed the allegations that were made to her about the young lady, which is absolutely ridiculous!

[@ThabangVincentMampane]

This is testimony of girls that are gowing with man from another country You are strong god love you and your child you must pray god will give you strength you are the chosen one Amen 🙏🙇🏽‍♂️

[@Ahava222]

We thank God ur still alive even after that 5 years. We salute u for the courage to leave.

[@RelebogileSelloane-co9zl]

The love of a mother is beyond🤞being a mother is truly being selfless and serving.

[@Mbaliyum]

Thank you for sharing your tragic story and I hope the rest of your life with your son is full of happiness and peace❤.

[@Gelshooters2]

Something has to be done about this it can’t be brushed under the carpet South African government do something please!!!!

[@sibongilengini4623]

😢

[@anammasango7381]

I truly admire your courage and strength to overcome that ordeal, love and light to you my sister

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

Happy you got out in one piece physically, wishing you emotional healing. Please stop beating yourself, because no amount of research can protect a normal person from being a narcissist. You did nothing wrong. Sending hugs and love.

[@PumlaNgwane]

She's a fighter!...I'm glad she's back home, I hope she never goes back .

[@dianasekatane6045]

May God heal you and your child. Stay blessed baby girl, God is the one who saved your life and your child. Time is the best healer.

[@lebogangmarysibilanga8189]

Do we have a Croatian Embassy in South Africa? If so how about contacting them and give them your story.

[@gcobisamakapela4965]

She definitely needs to report this to them

[@nonkanyisomofokeng7470]

They need to know about this

[@nkosikhonamthethwa4765]

or it needs to move out of S. A hence in their country there's no S. A embassy

[@tabisamlata]

You seems too young but you're a wonderful independent lady, you're strong baby girl ❤❤🙏🙌 The last part when you laugh ❤️🤗I got healed,your story left me wounded 💔😭😢

[@francinatjituka1665]

Very true, I felt like, at least she can still laugh, God be with her

[@FlorahRasakanya]

Please my lovely sister pray and cry those tears to God he will answer your prayers and defend you to those evil and heartless people 😢

[@NkosinathiZulu-b5s]

Yoo my sister you're so brave, you're a soldier ❤❤.. you've got a bright future..you can still make it continue chasing your dreams your son will be proud of you ...for my side go back to oversee to other countries and find a better job ..God bless you my child ❤

[@bongiemagwagwa9154]

Yoh Bassie 😢. I can’t contain my tears. Thank Hod u are home safe, God will elevate u

[@thobisathabede2490]

Such a very strong young woman

[@eddymbulelo2194]

Wow what a story girl I am so proud of you you never give up for your child n yourself lord will never leave you nana in darkness

[@carolinemothobi6100]

You are a very brave and strong young woman. May you and your son find healing❤

[@punkimakakaba8675]

Your story is breaking my heart💔 I'm happy it's in the passed now and you are home safely.

[@Journeyofmylife..withTimitress]

I wonder what i was gonna do 😮,you are really blessed to be here telling you story,becos you were living with devils 😈literally,yoh i never thought people can be so cruel like that 💔

[@sharonclarke5371]

This is just a bump in the road my dear God sees your tears and he is close to the broken hearted.

[@brendamunyai5501]

You are strong my child for you to fight for your son and come back alive. You are the best my child for your testimony to rich to other South African girls to watch themselves. You wear blinded by ❤️ and the was no love. And we are keeping this Animals here in our Country and the live their best of their lifes

[@NCKhanyile]

This lady reminds me of my sister who suffer this abuse here in SA.sometyms cop take relationship problems as a joke.your mom is looking after u and your son 4rm heaven.muc lv for u dear.❤❤❤❤❤

[@PulengMolibeli-sj9lu]

Thank God you are alive and safe back home , first time hearing your story I cried my gal you are our child a South African😢😢

[@nelisiwenkos]

I Thank God you survived Bassy😭 am so sorry u went through all of this🥹 u are Strong and I applaud u for standing strong for you son ❣️

[@AndiswaNkomo-t7l]

You went through a lot but God loves you, he was by your side and sill always be. I thank God you came home alive with your son..... Heal and move on, God will open doors for you, you'll never lack.

[@nosiphiwedorsey33]

Europeans makes Americans look like angels in this case I’ve never heard about anyone going through such in my 18yrs of living in the State, I hope she and her son finds healing

[@nomsebenzi1]

I have a friend who has been there for 12 years and he has nothing bad to say about Americans.

[@angelpopzn]

I'm not of colour with a biracial child and I stand with you and pray healing for you and your son. I have decided that being a single parent for my child is safer for her. Even tho she doesn't have any father figures or man protection I will do everything in me to protect her. It's ok to choose you and your sons wellbeing and you are going to come through this and shine bright sweetheart. Us woman are just as capable of making a life for ourselves without the means of a man and YOU ARE TESTIMONY OF THAT. We love you and keep you in our prayers. Stay strong and all the best in your future journey. Heal baby girl and shine bright with your voice.

[@sibulelesibeko4927]

I am crying with you, baby girl. No person is supposed to go through such hardship

[@snekhondlo]

May Jesus heal u, my Love.❤. You are so strong. Don't mind ppl who are judging you. You were trying to do what's best for your son. I just pray that you receive salvation, God will heal you❤. It's a process, but you'll get there with your son, babe. Much love. I'm so proud of u❤❤❤

[@SnowQueenie]

That embassy woman is what's wrong with the world and all negative and unsupportive women blaming the victim. Basetsana is very strong and her actions is what saved her and her son.She's a lioness and wish her all the best❤

[@mhlavishiva4053]

All embassies are like that. They are more concerned with their relationship with the respective countries. In 2016 we checked the South African embassies website in Qatar even mentioned don’t call us if no one died. I was shocked. The South African embassy in Germany is a bit better to be honest. When I went to register the birth of my son in 2018 I did not plan to apply for my son to have a passport and one older man stopped me and asked what language I spoke and I told him and he told me in his language in front of my husband to apply for all papers in that very moment while we are still happy because if things go south atleast I have all paperwork.

[@LM-he7eb]

After the previous comments, I don't think Bassie will comeback to the comment section. But, I hope she does. 1. 20:55 I love the realisation, it is maturity. Therapy will help you spot these things from afar and protect yourself against them. 2. 21:54 you were a prisoner of that dream. And needed to be freed from it. You now need to be freed from the dream of ever getting justice. 3. Therapy helps you realize the part you played in it. Not to cede them off their responsibility. But, to empower you to realize that this can only happen when you permit it, making you the authority of your destiny. You have no power to induce justice, you're once again putting yourself in a situation where you have no power

[@SimplyBassy]

I heard u and thank u the incredible advice!😊

[@mpingamarenene5627]

​@@SimplyBassybe strong Bassie, the Lord is with you. I'm praying for you and the baby. You ll be healed. Hugs

[@feliciamondhlana1273]

Thank you very much for sharing your story our lovely sister and thanks to God you are back home safe and strong. As ladies I hope we going to learn something from your story. May God help you to heal my love. This is a sad story 😢😢

[@SphiweMayinga]

Bassie you are beautiful, strong and articulate! God will heal you. Love you Sis ❤This will be a great testimony in your life and that of your son, God will restore you!!!!!

[@jacquelineawad2948]

Strong and courageous lady. God bless you for sharing!

[@leonkazadi7843]

Madam speaker, pls help her write a book and open an women rescue agency ! Get her nore educated. She is great and can achieve more and and help alot of ppl

[@Nqobile_Conquer]

"He was in love with the idea of someone to torment...and control". I'm so sorry you met this kind of being, and others. May your son become all that he is meant to be despite it all. May you heal mama

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you sis nqobile❤

[@Nqobile_Conquer]

@@SimplyBassy whenever you need an ear baby girl...

[@FitNurseElihle]

Money is your second name Your cup kept refilled babes I loved that

[@primmy5432]

In short God will never take you where he won’t protect you. She should thank God with everything that she has.

[@SimplyBassy]

Thank you sis elihle

[@noncebasibozo9982]

Yhooo may you find peace inbyour heart and the child be healed.....God loves you so much......Keep spreading Gods goodness