Part 3 | Stages of Dementia: 6 & 7

[@BambuCare]

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[@beverlymorrisroe1480]

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[@loug8186]

We moved my mom into a small retirement home with assisted living, in a private room with bathroom, when she was around stage 5. Best decision we ever made, my dad could not deal with her as he was older, and she actually thrived for another 4 years. She has now progressed rapidly to stage 7 but the home is willing to keep her there, we are with her daily and can spend time on caring for her just like you described. This also allowed her family members to still live their own lives and not get physically and emotionally burnt out. I think people underestimate the toll caregiving for a person with dementia can take, and that it is progressive and does not get better. My heart goes out to everyone who has the disease and to their caregivers to find strength to know when it’s time to move the person they love into a place that can care for them. There is no shame in that at all.

[@BambuCare]

I'm glad that you all made the transition early and it proved to be beneficial. I agree, there is definitely no shame in setting up living arrangements that can best meet the needs of your person living with dementia. So many feel guilty about placing their person in a nursing home, care home, assisted living facility, or memory care facility. As you pointed out, it can often turn out to be a really good thing for everyone involved. I do, however, wish it was more affordable for people, but that's a whole other conversation. Thanks for watching and commenting. 💜

[@lindamoore3729]

She explained it better than ANY video I've watched so far. Moms going through this now and it's heartbreaking. 😪 When she said a person may call u by your name but then say no the other Amy, that hit home 🏡 for me. My mom said "Where's Linda" I told her "Im right here".... mom said "No the other Linda." This video helped me so much. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Stay strong 💜💙💜

[@shelleysoe7613]

Linda, my mother keeps asking and saying that her daughters aren't visiting her. She has 1, me, but she's wondering where the younger me is or the middle age me, I'm 64. She knows I'm Shelley, but is totally confused.

[@polarbear3940]

This is depressing. i cant imagine how much empathy one must have to take care of someone with dementia knowing they are slowly turning i to a human sized baby who will eventually die. God bless all caregivers ❤️

[@BambuCare]

Yes, being a dementia care partner is definitely a super tough role! It really is heartbreaking.

[@debby891]

By far the most physically, emotionally and mentally exhausting job I have ever done

[@halimakhan1800]

Thank you I think my husband is on stage 6 due to his behavior You touched on some much of what's going on in this stage I can relate to so much the aggression lost track of time can be violent and Aggressive

[@kathleengreen6312]

You have described the stages of dementia better than anyone I’ve listened to! You are awesome! Thank you so much. I now think my husband is in stage 6

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I'm glad you found the video helpful in figuring out what stage your husband may be in. 💜

[@texaseden]

This is my first ever KZbin comment - and you are worth it. As a lifelong educator, I am so impressed with your teaching ability. This is the most comprehensive explanation I have ever heard. And I have heard a lot! Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

Aww that is very sweet of you. Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️

[@suziquestionable2845]

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[@careylane2633]

I agree! She is explains very simply what to expect. Her explanation is short and concise.

[@michaelsteck1076]

This is one of the most complete series that explains in detail all behaviors that come along ..

[@BambuCare]

I'm glad to hear so! Let me know if you have any other questions! :)

[@kikizozu]

You’re breaking it down much easier than what I found others to do. Thank you. I now know what stage my husband is because of the way you’re breaking it down.

[@BambuCare]

Great to hear! ❤️

[@eileenhawkins1474]

My husband is definitely in stage 6. Everything your telling us is so true. It’s getting so much harder. This is definitely the long goodbye.

[@BambuCare]

💜💜💜 sending grace and peace your way!

[@chynnadoll1999]

You did an amazing job explaining these stages. We are presently, and unfortunately, going through stage 7, w/ our mom. The decline in eating, weight-loss, and fighting bedsores, are definitely the most challenging now. I was so proud of the fact that, although she started losing weight, I'd been able to keep bedsores at bay. But. Once she started sleeping more, it caught up w/us. Now, it's a daily, rotations game with her body, and, it is not easy, since she no longer has sufficient padding of her bony areas on her hips to fight it. You get one area healed, then another wants to break down. You feel like you're fighting windmills!!! But. I digress. Trying so hard to make sure she has the care, love & comfort that she so deserves. She certainly gave it to us, as long as she could. God bless you for all of the education you share on dementia. Your information is absolutely, invaluable!😘

[@BambuCare]

Thank you so much! Yes, bed sores are such a booger even with frequent repositioning, extra pillows and padded repositioners, at a certain point, it can become really hard to keep bony prominences protected. I'm glad your mom has you to help care for you as she goes through her journey. I can tell you love and care for your mom very much! Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment! 💜

[@antoinettebartkowicz3634]

Can you give me tips and tricks, advice or anything. We are slowly entering this stage and I need to know what kinds of supplies I will need to continue to care for my mom at home.

[@BambuCare]

@@antoinettebartkowicz3634 Were you asking us or Chynnadoll1999?

[@gertrudegweshe2359]

When they refuse food do you let them be

[@BambuCare]

There are so many reasons why a person may refuse to eat. Here’s a blog post where we discussed 10 reasons: www.letsbambu.com/post/10-reasons-a-person-with-dementia-may-refuse-to-eat So first we have to figure out why and then we can determine if there’s something we can do to address the issue.

[@whatsonnammystablesandylyne]

Outstanding Job! My dad seems to be in a combined stage of late 6 and early 7. it is terribly heartbreaking to witness his decline but we are making memories.

[@BambuCare]

Aww thank you! Yes, it is very heartbreaking - a very good word choice. It's definitely hard to watch, which why I think unfortunately, many people choose not to. I'm glad your hanging in there and doing your best to create joyful moments!

[@whatsonnammystablesandylyne]

@@BambuCare Thank You for your encouragement!!! 🌹

[@jh9391]

They may be resistant at first but car trips are fun for them.

[@margaretmendonca206]

A very informative, explicit and simply worded explanation of the last two stages of dementia. The speaker’s explanations and descriptions of the progress in Stages 6 and 7 are clear, slow and well enunciated. A well presented Bambi Care Champions presentation. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you Margaret! 💜

[@jimmyd4092]

Thank you so much I finally understand what is going on with my mother. I just thought she was crazy and mean. Doctors do not give a good explanation of what is going on. Again thank you.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Yeah some doctors really don’t give you much information to work with. & you know some people are crazy and mean, but there’s usually more to the story! ❤️ Thanks for watching!

[@nancystack4661]

My poor mom. Shes 96 and going through this now. She cries because she says everyone is gone. Shes scared and just seems so lost. I hate seeing her like this. It is indeed the long sad goodbye ❤

[@BambuCare]

It can definitely be hard to witness! I'm sorry your mom is so scared ❤

[@brookep3643]

This is the *best* video I’ve watched to date! I really appreciate you getting straight to the point and staying on task without over explaining. Your energy is so calming, centered and humble; that also makes it so much easier to learn what you’re teaching. I can’t wait to check out your other videos!

[@BambuCare]

Aww, I appreciate your kind words! Let me know if you ever have any questions!

[@brookep3643]

@@BambuCare thank you ~ I will! 🥰

[@bq6950]

This is excellent! Best presenter ever. I have found many professionals in this field won't help with discussing stages. Thank you. I realize my sister is now at stage 6. She is 61, with early onset Alzheimer's. Got diagnosed August 2018 at stage 4. I'm with her 24-7, gave up work 2 years ago to care for her. Am exhausted. She's stopped being affectionate which hurts a lot.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! Yes, many find that it's not helpful or relevant because the stages are not concrete and it can vary, but I personally think it's good to have some basic knowledge about the stages. I think it can be helpful in knowing what to expect and what's typical for the progression of dementia so that people can try to prepare. I can't imagine how tough that must be. I know finding help can be hard, especially now-a-days, but make sure you are prioritizing self-care!

[@elizabethmayrose8521]

Oh Bre’anna, you are a jewel! Thanks so much for these videos.

[@BambuCare]

You are so welcome! 💜

[@richrocketlll]

Thank you for the break down of the stages. Sounds like we are at stage 4 with my partner. The best I can do to care for her and thats what I am going to do. I have been trying to get her daughter involved. She has helped some. Have fun while you are young. The end comes and no stopping it.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! & yes the best you can do is to care for her and keep learning! ❤️

[@rllmm8290]

I agree with Alice Lafferty you are amazing at teaching. What a gift! God bless you more and more.

[@BambuCare]

Aww that’s so sweet of you to say. Comments like you all’s is what keeps me going. My podcasts are much easier to keep up with than videos, but hopefully once I get settled again, It’ll be easier to put out more videos too! :) thank you 💜

[@solidrock7998]

My grandmother is 94 and is somewhere between 6 and 6.5 or very early 7. Her behavior is deplorable, but only with me and my mom (which is her daughter). We are her sole caregiver's and her level of resentment is on 100. Lol Anyway, thanks for this info, as her physicians seem like we should just take each day as it comes. Your info definitely resonates. Be blessed, Queen.

[@BambuCare]

Yeah unfortunately it seems to work out that way sometimes. It’s kind of like that saying “we treat the ones we love (or the ones closest to us) the worst.” It’s usually because subconsciously or even consciously we know they will put up with it more than some random person you just met and can’t trust to know how they will respond. But, of course, it can also be because our loved ones have more opportunities to rub us the wrong way because we are around them the most. Hang in there 💜💙

[@Horsegirl222]

Thank you! From the sounds of this video …My mum is in early stage 6. My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia 2019 at 69 years of age. I search daily for any information I can to prepare myself for what’s to come. I grieve everyday for the person I once knew…and just want to make things as comfortable as possible for however long she has with us. Thank you again, this video has been so helpful.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Your mom is lucky to have you as a part of your journey. It's definitely tough though. I can understand the grieving part. If you ever need more support or are looking for more information and resources you can always join us inside the Treehouse! 💜 letsbambu.com/treehouse

[@loringnilsson9974]

Your presentation is truly excellent. As a school psychologist during my working years I am now learning from your expertise how do better support a dear relative. Keep up you delightful teaching style. You're the best!

[@BambuCare]

Wow, that is so kind of you to say! I'm glad I can be of some help along your care journey as you support your relative! That makes me feel good!

[@eveglead1913]

Excellent presentation. ..I'm looking after my 90 year old father with various conditions including cancer and dimentia. I think we are in Stage 6 to 7 ...the worst to deal with is the' 'let me go home' episodes😧😩

[@BambuCare]

Aww thank you! Yeah, that’s definitely challenging! Maybe you will find this podcast episode helpful: Podcast Ep: "I Want to Go Home" Reasons Why + How to Respond [Dementia] kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2etmaqvgK6miqs

[@RichardFoard-n9k]

You explain everything so well and are so easy to listen to. Your a blessing to someone going through the stages my mom is in. Very appreciative to you have listened to you explain things so well.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you so much! That’s very sweet of you to say! ❤️

[@elizabethzieman1059]

I feel, caring for a parent with dementia, almost like I’m learning how to take care of a newborn. Like, where’s the instruction manual? I need a roadmap to what to do care-wise at what stage. Your videos are the closest I’ve found to that.

[@BambuCare]

I really appreciate you saying that! I highly recommend our book With Intent: A Practical Guide to Navigating Behaviors Along the Dementia Care Journey. It really simplifies the primary, major things you need to know to get through this journey in a productive, non-destructive way. If you want to check it out the link is: amzn.to/3TBw8Ms We also have what’s called the Treehouse which is essentially a dementia care library full of videos, podcasts, blogs, printable resources, activities, webinars, even product recommendations. ( letsbambu.com/treehouse ) And of course we have the Ultimate Resource Guide for Dementia Caregivers. It has over 100 resources that span across 20 important areas relevant to the dementia care journey. ( www.letsbambu.com/product/hidden-in-plain-sight-the-ultimate-resource-guide-for-dementia-caregivers ) I hope this information helps 💜 We also have a free support community if you want to join us there! ( letsbambu.com/champions ) Sorry, I know that was a lot! 😬✨

[@christy4355]

Mom has dementia and she is so mean, and she yells and kicks me out of her house after driving 2 1/2 hours to her house. She likes to yell and kick me out in front of family members!! I hate it!! My stepfather goes along with it!!! She kicked my out of the hospital because I bought her flowers from the grocery store instead of the gift shop!! The gift shop was closed, because it was a sunday!!

[@BambuCare]

I responded to your other comment with this message. I try to respond to all my comments so even if you post your comment just once I will still see it :) Message: I'm sorry your mother is being mean to you and that your interactions with your mom and stepfather haven't been so pleasant. There are number of reasons why your mother could be being mean to you and it would be hard as an outsider looking in to say exactly why this could be as I would have to have a better understanding of the situation and the family dynamics. There also may be some boundaries that need to be set with your stepfather, but that's a whole other situation. Since you said she starts out nice and then becomes mean and agitated I would take note of what's happened leading up the point of her becoming that way. What triggers the change? How long are you there before things turn sour? Is it 15 minutes. Is it 30? Is it longer? When she asks you to leave, what does she say? Does she give a reason; What is her reason? Do you acknowledge the request, say your goodbyes and just leave or do you say something else? What do you say and does this make the situation better or worse? One thing we have to keep in mind is that when someone becomes agitated, regardless of the reason why, we can either add water to the fire or add fuel to the fire. Water will tame it out and fuel will of course make it worse. In all cases of agitation, we always want to add water (whatever that may look like for the given situation). Water could look like acknowledging what they've said, validating their feelings, giving space, and honoring requests. Fuel would like arguing, trying to defend ourselves, pointing out the inaccuracies in what they are saying, refusing to honor requests because it doesn't make sense to us, continuing to do something another person clearly doesn't like - things that are pretty natural to do, but may not be helpful. Also, if you want to continue to visit your mom but are worried about driving a long way just for a short visit, consider making other plans in the area. That way, your trip won't feel wasted even if the visit is short. You can still enjoy the mini road trip and make the most of it.

[@sandygange1310]

The specific examples are so helpful in identifying stages. Best explanation I've heard.

[@BambuCare]

Yay! I'm glad it was helpful!

[@tamerajboyd]

I wish i found this video a couple years ago but even now, what a HUGE help this was for me. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

Aww! Well, i'm glad you still found it helpful!

[@gloriagonzalez9039]

I relived my sisters stage 1-7 with her dementia as I listened to you explain the symptoms. She passed away quietly one evening. She said many times she was ready to go home

[@BambuCare]

Thank you for sharing. Rest in peace to your sister ❤️

[@annlietz-workman7837]

Great video information on a long journey. My husband is in stage 5 with some of 6 happening. He is at home with a palliative care team from a local hospice MainStreet company in our community.

[@BambuCare]

@@annlietz-workman7837 Thank you and thank you for sharing. I'm glad your husband is able to be home with a palliative care team involved!

[@amandasinger6018]

Very informative. I wonder why caregivers and family often don't learn more about the disease. It makes caring for the patient so much easier to be knowledgeable.

[@BambuCare]

It definitely does. I think it’s because a lot of health care professionals including doctors aren’t knowledgeable unless it’s their specialty and so they don’t set up family members with resources. It’s unfortunate. I hope to be able to do more work in the community soon

[@loriorden]

You are very authentic Bre'anna---love this video. My father is in Stage 6 and very hungry, all the time--but losing muscle mass. He has fallen several times so far without bone breaks thank goodness. The wound care is needed now, I bought bed floor pads for him. I plan to eventually rent a hospital bed when the time comes.

[@BambuCare]

Aww that’s very sweet of you! I definitely strive for authenticity! I’m glad your dad hasn’t broken anything! Falls can be tough. Let me know if you ever have any questions. Wishing you well on your care journey! 💜

[@kscott484]

I’m glad you mentioned your dad being hungry all the time. I’m glad my loved one is eating but I’m trying to understand this constant hunger. I don’t know if the cues to her brain isn’t letting her know that she isn’t hungry. It’s very confusing to me.

[@judypylant1570]

Thank you so much Breanna…My husband is between 6-7 you are the best to help us…it is very sad to deal with , but so grateful for the time we have left…

[@BambuCare]

You are more than welcome!

[@Yllohyllod]

Thank you! The is the BEST explanation. I watched every single step of this with my father-in-law, and now my mom 2dxd with Alzheimer's and she's probably around stage five. I hate this cruel disease.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome. Sorry it took me a couple of days to respond. But, yes, it really is such a tough disease. Let me know if you have any questions or need support Holly!

[@donnabuckley9694]

Thank you for such a good and compassionate teaching.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! 💙

[@kathyfettkether3690]

This series has clarified the stage my best friend is in, and it is Stage 5. I need to find a way to be with him more often and that is my current goal. TY so much for this easy to understand and valuable info!!!!

[@BambuCare]

You are very welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. Thanks for being there for your friend in any way you can! 💜

[@paulbash6710]

thank you for a very detailed account of the 6 and 7 stages of dementia. My husband is now in stage 6 going thru 7. He is constantly exhausted and will have to sit down after a brief situation involving simple motions like getting dressed. He has a hard time breathing and does have a heart problem. He sleeps long hours and I wonder if I should wake him.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! It’s not uncommon for people with dementia to sleep more as their condition progresses. He is likely exerting more energy whether physically or cognitively (especially if the environment is overstimulating), than his body and brain are able to handle and thus finds himself fatigued and in need of sleep. One of the main reasons we recommend balancing activity and rest and adapting the environment to reduce cognitive fatigue. Another big reason people with dementia sleep a lot is lack of stimulation and/or boredom. So it can really depend on what’s going on.

[@cassandrahawes8970]

This was very informative, and well done. My mother in law is in stage 6 dementia. Plus last month she had a stroke because of her dementia. Her dementia meant she wasn't remembering to take care of herself. Pills for her AFIB. Bathing, many other things. So because of this she had a stroke. Now she's living g here as long as we can take care of her. Mostly me. It's a good thing I have experience in this field. I really appreciated your video.

[@BambuCare]

I’m sorry your mom had a stroke. She’s lucky to have you to care and support her as she goes through her journey. 💜 Thanks for watching!

[@shazzagirl9803]

Thank you so much, this is the most thorough video I have come across and I really appreciate the information.

[@BambuCare]

Aww you are so welcome!

[@shw_1957]

I agree, this is the best description, with examples, that I've ever come across. It's helpful to recognize where they are on the dementia timeliness and to know what to expect in the next phase. Thank you.

[@wiseone544]

When I found out, I invested in talking, listening and loving my Uncle, He spent all of his life learning, teaching and working. So it is painful to know that he can’t even speak anymore. He always placed a huge emphasis on having money and protecting his money and now; he doesn’t even know what money is. After crying so much and getting depressed; the Holy Spirit told me to appreciate and thank father Yah for the 56 years that I enjoyed with him. So now I smile when I think of home and am so grateful to The Father that he allowed me to be his niece and how much I benefited as a result of listening and learning from him. I retired at 40yrs old with 5 significant degrees and have read two books a month for 30yrs. I know know that I must cherish each day that I am “clothe my right mind”.

[@BambuCare]

I’m glad that the message you received from the Holy Spirit offered some guidance and solace. Your uncle is lucky to have you a part of his life!

[@edwardb7811]

The descriptions are very clear. I accompany my loved one to visit her doctors, but they haven't given me as good an appreciation of the stages. In addition, this video has encouraged me to let the loved one do more on her own or by the two of us together.

[@BambuCare]

Yay! I'm glad to hear that!

[@elizabethjohnston3264]

Thank you.Your presentation was the most simple and understandable of anything I've seen.We have been having a hard time getting a grasp on where my mom is in terms of the different stages.This gave me a very clear sense that she is moving from stage 5 into 6 and what to be prepared for and to watch out for.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! That's great to hear! I'm happy I was able to help 💜

[@joyfull1111]

Wish I could give more than 1 👍 thumps up, you are a treasure and thank you tremendously for sharing your personal hands on knowledge with us!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@BambuCare]

Aww that it so sweet of you to say! I’m happy to help! 💜

[@mpgfoo]

Thank you. I am researching my sisters “journey” with Lewy body dementia. Well done videos.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome. I’m proud of you for being proactive along your sister’s journey. You may find this podcast episode we did helpful regarding Lewy body dementia: anchor.fm/whatthedementia/episodes/042--Lewy-Body-Dementia--Those-Darn-Lewy-bodies-eni71b

[@josie8205]

You are a gold mine, beautiful inside and outside, you are very informative and personal I was struggling with some issues but you really helped me I'm feeling much better keep up the great work, God Bless ❤

[@BambuCare]

Oh Josie your comment just made my day! Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm always here to help! Let me know if you ever have any questions or topics you would like me to address! 💜

[@lorainelegg6680]

Thank you so much for your video. You explained this better than anyone I have ever heard. God bless you,

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Glad to help! ❤

[@andreamortimer2610]

Breanna, you are doing a fantastic job detailing the different stages of dementia. I truly appreciate how you point out that each patient has a different base line and how important it is to let them do as much as possible for themselves so they don't lose those functions even faster. You are truly a great educator the way you are describing what to expect at each stage and how you also point out those moments when patients suddenly appear totally lucid. Thank you for everything you are doing! P.S.: Are you familiar with chicken therapy for people with dementia?

[@BambuCare]

Aww thank you for your comment! I really appreciate your kind words! ❤ If you are talking about when they bring different farm animals like chickens and goats then yes! Such a neat experience. At care facilities some will bring actually bring some of the animals inside and then others will set up a "petting zoo" like experience outside for the residents and bring them out in their wheelchairs or whatever they are using for mobility! Do you have experience with chicken therapy? Some care facilities even have small farms on their property that residents will tend to and care for! So awesome!

[@andreamortimer2610]

@@BambuCare I mean every single word I wrote! You are not just a pretty person on the outside, you also have a beautiful soul and personality! I have chickens myself and can vouch for their soothing and calming effect but have not personally seen them brought into care facilities like they do with the HenPower projects in the UK (where they actually have their own chicken coops) here in the US (however, you just mentioned that some care facilities have their own farms so I might have to stand corrected 😉). There was a study done on these projects by the University of Northumbria revealing that hen keeping wasn’t simply a pleasurable, social activity for people with dementia (many of whom had kept chickens as children and handling them brings back some familiarity), their clucking noises (mine even purr when I pet them) could also have a calming effect, helped lower blood pressure and heart rate, and reduced the use of anti-psychotic drugs for aggression. It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines! Again, thank you for your detailed presentation. Allow me to send you a lot of good vibes as well as tons of energy to support your strength to be somebody's caring angel💖💖Just make sure you take good care of yourself as well - it's one of the toughest jobs you are tackling!

[@BambuCare]

@@andreamortimer2610 "It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines!" You said that perfectly and yes, it is amazing. So many amazing things provided by mother nature are often looked over as therapeutic, even healing remedies! That's so cool that you care for and raise chickens! And yes, there are some care facilities in the US that have a farm on the property as well, but it's definitely not a widespread thing, unfortunately. I hope that over the years the predominant model of care we currently see will change and look more like what we see in many other countries that are very progressive in their care models! & thank you! I will definitely try to take good care of myself. Thank you for caring about my well-being! 💜

[@patsyharmsen1548]

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[@patsyharmsen1548]

I think I'm only at Stage 3 or4 but read everything I find in preparation.

[@marcoschena99]

Great job. Clear, concise and comprehensive.

[@BambuCare]

Thanks! Glad to hear!

[@yvonnesookdeo5358]

Definitely informative. Thank you!

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@corriezietsman7061]

Your videos are PERFECT!!!!!!

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I appreciate your kind words ❤️

[@lizkearsing325]

Most informative! Thank you and I do hope to see you again at a later date!!🤗

[@BambuCare]

Thank you!!

[@michaelsteck1076]

This is very practical! It is much appreciated, it shows how much direct experience you have..

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I appreciate your response!

[@melodyrodriguez6881]

Excellent overview. My mom in law is in between stage 6 and 7. Very nasty disease. I agree the feet gets overlooked. My mom loves the massages and stroking. Thank you, again.

[@BambuCare]

Yes, yes I agree. Thank you for sharing and thank you for taking the time to comment! 💜

[@lisaande51]

I feel not enough is mentioned about the drugs dementia patients are on and can cause these type of difficulties. My mom I believe is in stage 5, 94 and half yrs old, and when we put her on Hydroxyzine for sleep, she exhibited more weird behavior than normal after 5 days. Coughing and sneezing during eating, talking about me, her daughter, with my name more than usual, like I wasn't me in front of her. She felt bumps in her throat. We felt it might be an allergic reaction, which her doctor thought would be highly unlikely, because it's not known for that. But the symptoms went away. She improved in one day. She has been on Gabapentin and has been way more pleasant and with it most of the time. I do feel she is slowly slipping into stage 6 sometimes. We tried to have her live in an apt above me with her great granddaughter living with her, but after 2 months, she is just not accepting the authority of her, so she is moving into an assisted living memory care unit near her home town. It has been very difficult for her to be away from her home. Just the idea of moving back near her home town and improved her mood a lot.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you for sharing! I definitely agree that not enough is mentioned about the drugs and dementia and the potential side effects. Sorry it took so long for me to reply. I don't always get the notifications!

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[@abelvaldivia3710]

My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in July 2022 but I think he started around 2018 with it. And now by watching this video. Thank you so much I know where my dad is at Stage 5 mid going on 6 😢 He just remembers mostly everything from the past. But has difficulty from present time. I have to tell him to take a shower, brush his teeth and shave. He fights with me cause he doesn’t want to do it and I have to go to the bathroom with him so he can wash his hands 😔 he’s 85 and my mom is 84 so me and my girlfriend who is a caregiver takes care of them. When my dad says he has to go pee he gets paper to wipe his but thinking he pooped and he didn’t 😔 He’s very repetitive saying things like where am I at and why do you got to leave and I would tell him I don’t live with you anymore and the more you tell him he doesn’t get it. Also I’ve taken him to my place lots of times and says things like I’ve never been here before who’s place is this etc.. It’s heartbreaking 💔 seeing my dad like this 😢

[@BambuCare]

Thanks for sharing! It can definitely can be heartbreaking to witness. Your dad is lucky to have you to care for him as he goes through his journey though. Even you watching this video to understand more says a lot about you and shows that you care! 💜 Bambu Care ( letsbambu.com ) has tons of resources if you are ever needing more support along your journey caring for your dad - and we are always accepting requests :)

[@cleliaparnell8743]

Bless you...😊

[@hjsimons]

Well done Bre'anna. Thanks!

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Thanks for watching!

[@debbiel9194]

Thank you for explaining these different stages so well. It was very helpful and I am sharing this video with my family members

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome. That's wonderful to hear! If any of you are in need of additional support, you are more than welcome to join our free support community Bambu Care Champions letsbambu.com/champions

[@elizabethmayrose8521]

Your videos have helped me so much. God bless you. You are amazing!

[@BambuCare]

Aww you are welcome! If you ever need a support community along your care journey you are more than welcome to join us in the Bambu Care Champions community - it’s free! We’d love to have you! 💜 letsbambu.com/champions

[@catherinegiordano4830]

Very good communicator. Easy to understand. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you!!💜

[@nicolemartin3037]

Very informative, and this from a heath care worker...thank you, keep up the good work, this disease is so often misunderstand .

[@BambuCare]

Very glad to hear! Thank you, will do! :)

[@stephencarroll230]

My wife is 56 with early onset Alzheimer’s, and seems to fit exactly into stage 6. You described some of her behaviors and abilities exactly. She is happy and totally healthy now (not even a cavity), but I dread the next stage. I assume that is when a nursing home becomes the best option. Thank you!

[@BambuCare]

I hope your wife is still happy and healthy! For some a nursing home will be the best option, but for others with the right home setup and support, potentially from outside caregivers to lessen the demand on the family, people tend to do better at home, especially if agitation or aggression isn’t an issue. It all depends!

[@maryfrenzke5075]

Stephen... So sorry. So young. My husband is in early stage 7. I have just started having a nursing assistant come in 3 days a week for a couple of hours each day. 2-3 hours. I have had him evaluated twice for hospice. I was told they can take him on in 2-3 months. I hope to keep him at home.

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[@nightly522]

This is a really clear video. Thank you for sharing this great information

[@BambuCare]

You are very welcome! 💜

[@vandafromvald4512]

Very informative and helpful.Thank you so very much.What a wonderful communication skill inside of a young professional.❤

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I’m glad it was helpful!

[@MikeCTRVLR]

This is a wonderful presentation! Your teaching style is perfect! 💕 I suggest that you also look at the three stage approach. My wife is on the alpha-synuclein spectrum (MSA, LEWY, PDD, PD, PSP) and the symptoms can bounce randomly between stages.

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! & yes, I’m familiar. I actually talk about both staging models in our dementia care book. Thanks for watching!

[@delorese.harrington5373]

Thank you so very much! You have made this very clear!

[@BambuCare]

You're very welcome! I’m happy to hear that!

[@robinparkes988]

Excellent explanation. Thankyou 🇬🇧

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! ❤️

[@robinparkes988]

@@BambuCare My wife has been in stage 6 for some while now, I have always been her sole carer. there are signs that stage 7 is approaching. I had to take her into respite care yesterday with the help of our fantastic daughter. This 24 hour care has been taking such a massive toll on my health. We live in the UK where the mental health support is abysmal. Fortunately, our local authority, her Dr and the Admiral Nurse team have been fantastic. Thanks again for such a clear and easily understood explanation. I have not been in this situation before, stage 7 really frightens me for her

[@BambuCare]

@@robinparkes988 Thank you for sharing that! I'm glad that you are able to take respite for a little bit and that your daughter was able to help out! And, I can only imagine! Being the sole caregiver is an incredibly challenging role, and it's disheartening that mental health support and services often fall short globally. However, it's wonderful to know that your local authority, the doctor, and the admiral nurse team have provided some positive support along your caregiving journey. And thank you for being there for your wife throughout her journey as well! 💜

[@robinparkes988]

@@BambuCare I didn’t want keep bothering you with messages and replies, but I did forget to say, that I had shared your video with our daughter and 2 sons. They are all in their 40’s. but I wanted them to understand like me, how their mum may continue to decline over the coming months, so they are better prepared for whatever happens. That is how much I feel your video has helped us. Unfortunately too many people abuse the wonder of the internet and KZbin, but it can be such a wonderful tool. Thanks so much for

[@BambuCare]

Never a bother! I’m glad that you found the video helpful and shared it with your children! I love to hear it!

[@clairedaily945]

Excellent thank you

[@BambuCare]

You are very welcome ❤️

[@257rani]

I Love this very much, of how the stages are presented. Thanks 🇦🇺❤

[@BambuCare]

Glad to hear ❤️

[@cathyferguson1590]

Amazing video! One of the best I have seen really explaining so much. If my Mom scored a 12 on the 1-30 MMSE test is that stage 6 please?

[@BambuCare]

Aww, that's sweet! Thank you! There is really no great consensus on the MMSE test scoring, but she would probably be moderate to severe dementia per the test which would probably be about stage 5 to 6. I honestly would go by the presentation of symptoms more so than a score of a test. So for example, if your partner mainly needs reminders to get dressed or brush her teeth or shower and can remember the names of close family members pretty well then she's more than likely at 5. If she needs extensive assistance with her daily tasks like step-by-step instruction or partial/full physical assistance and has marked difficulty with speech and is forgetful when it comes to the names of close family members then she is likely at 6. Hope that clarifies a bit.

[@BettyAnn64]

It’s so hard to tell where mom is, she no longer uses the toilet, can no longer walk on her own, and drops her body weight when we get her next to her chair, she has no upper body control, she also leans to the right whenever we sit her in her chair. But she does talk to us, even though sometimes she forgets she is our mom, lots of memory talk. Sometimes she refuses food other times she eats like she hasn’t had food in days. Dementia is the worst thing I’ve ever seen and I’ve seen plenty in my 57 years. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

[@BambuCare]

Your mom is likely at the end of stage 6, beginning of stage 7 - but definitely late stages. The stages are not concrete stages as each individual will present differently, vary depending on the type of dementia, and symptoms fluctuate. Just know it’s not super important to exactly pinpoint what stage your loved one is in. It’s more to just have a understanding of how dementia progresses and what to expect so that you aren’t surprised and know what’s considered “normal” when it comes to dementia and it’s progressive nature. Many people don’t understand the terminal and progressive nature of dementia and therefore don’t take the necessary steps to plan ahead or get the proper resources and care involved such as palliative or hospice, until it’s far too late.

[@chrisjudd2747]

Thank you thank you thank you for your insights.... i feel like my mum is def level 6 . $ome days she's ok other days she thinks I'm her husband and my nephew is her baby

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome and thank you for sharing! Yes, seeing fluctuations is very common!

[@doloressandovalmartinez9642]

My husband is in stage 7, beginning to sleep during feeding times, still enjoys eating, taking more time to eat, up to one hour

[@BambuCare]

Thank you for sharing and thank you for taking care of your husband though I know it's not always easy! 💜

[@jh9391]

Good talk. Helpful. Thank you!

[@Woofersgalore]

Really helpful and clear. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

You are very welcome! Thank you for watching 💜

[@dinasmith2324]

Thank you very informative

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@drinajgb2437]

Excellent information. Thank you.

[@BambuCare]

You are very welcome!

[@jillevangeline]

Awe wish you were able to take care if my dad. Thanks for explaining I think he's in stage 6 or 7. Just had aspiration pneumonia, he's not eating, very agitated and confused

[@BambuCare]

Aww you are welcome. How is your dad now. Is he eating now? Has his agitation and confusion gotten any better?

[@jillevangeline]

@@BambuCare no he's actually In a transitional care unit nursing home for a couple weeks to get his strength back. Im worried about him. They did not put him on memory floor which surprises me. He's been agitated trying to leave, very mean and angry. The staff didn't know what to do..you'd they would have someone to call. One nurse said she might have to call the cops on my skinny little dad who is losing his mind. He finally called down after his tantrum but yeah its not going well! We are looking into a home care nurse. 🙏🙏

[@BambuCare]

That’s so sad. But, unfortunately, often the case. The staff, especially general staff just don’t have the proper training or patience. Hopefully he will do better once he’s back home and has a home care nurse like you mentioned. 🤞

[@JackSmith-om8kw]

Thankyou, this is helpful

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! I’m glad you found it helpful!

[@MrsGirija]

Very clearly explained

[@BambuCare]

Glad to hear!

[@tamisnowden8555]

Breanna this is excellent. My mom is stage 7. What is the typical life expectancy in this stage?

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I'm not a big fan of giving life expectancies because it really does depend, but according to the 7-stage model about 1.5 to 2.5 years. Some people progress quicker than others. Others progress much slower. It really depends and it also depends on the type of dementia. The 7-stage model was created with Alzheimer's disease in mind.

[@jenniferfitzpatrick4356]

Wonderful video, thank you so much!

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome! Thank you for watching :)

[@mstarr67]

Very well explained! Great 😊 job!

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! Glad it was helpful!

[@gertrudegweshe2359]

Thanks life saver

[@BambuCare]

Thanks for watching!

[@annie1561]

This helped me figure out what stage my mom is in, but it's definitely the clean version of things. It doesn't mention the delusional stuff, or the heartbreaking screaming and fighting. It's stripped away all dignity, before coming for her health. The very cruelest disease.

[@BambuCare]

I wouldn’t say it’s the “clean” version. This video is on the stages of dementia. Delusions, aggression, resistance to care, etc. can definitely be a part of the dementia journey, but they are not “mapped” to a specific stage. Everyone’s journey through dementia will look different. I do, however, talk about topics such as aggression and certain delusions on the What the Dementia podcast episodes on our channel and we’ve done a whole webinar on managing resistance to care. The most important thing to keep in mind is that all behavior is a form of communication. So, if you are seeing these behaviors in your mom you want to try to figure what she’s trying to communicate and what may be triggering her need to communicate those things.

[@debbieweahkee3820]

Thank you, very informative

[@BambuCare]

You are so welcome!

[@ladygemini1389]

Very interesting and informative

[@BambuCare]

Great to hear!

[@BambuCare]

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[@shahlamotlagh9967]

Hi, I just watched your video . Thanks, it was very helpful and informative. I think my husband's dementia is on stage 5. Do you think it is useful to show him this video of stages of dementia, or it's scare him and get more upset. I would appreciate to know more Thanks

[@BambuCare]

Thank you for watching@@shahlamotlagh9967! I would say no. In my opinion, there would be no good reason to show him this video. Please let me know if you have any follow-up questions.

[@robertgriffin742]

This explains my mother's dementia exactly you done a great job explaining it thanks so much

[@BambuCare]

@@robertgriffin742 you are welcome! Thanks for watching 💜

[@tinker8486]

Thank you. 🙏

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@margiehill6255]

simple easy and excellent.You can see you care. Could you psd do one one vascular dementia. I have early onset vascular dementia .am using Alzheimer’s meds there is no meds for vascular dementia

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! I’ve actually done a podcast on vascular dementia! anchor.fm/whatthedementia/episodes/041--Vascular-Dementia--Lack-of-Blood-Flow-Makes-The-Brain-Go-emiv8d hope you fine the information helpful! Take care

[@jeannehoffman1060]

Very helpful, thank you.

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@wildflowers477]

Thank you So much !

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome

[@gloriawaru7245]

Thank yoi

[@BambuCare]

You’re welcome!

[@sharonfox7322]

My Mother in Law is constantly accusing me of stealing her things. My husband searches her room and finds things hidden. She says the meanest things and I’m up at 5:45 am cooking her eggs,cutting fruit, heating her milk, just so she doesn’t cut or burn herself. I do as much as humanly possible, but she says that my husband feels guilty because his wife (me) keeps stealing from her. I’ve had it. After 3 years I want to run away. I never signed up for being her caretaker when she has been horrible and negative toward me for 31 years. End rant.😭

[@BambuCare]

I'm sorry Sharon, that sounds tough! I don't know if you are looking for advice or just wanting to vent. But, I hear you and can definitely understand the feelings of wanting to run away. Sending peace and light your way! 💜I know it's hard!

[@lionelroy4197]

Very good explanation and presentation. Thanks

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@tammystegall5130]

Very helpful!

[@BambuCare]

Great! So glad to hear!

[@johanneberube6682]

Thanks a lot 🌹

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@rosemarynduta3076]

Information great 👍🏿

[@BambuCare]

Thank you! Glad to hear

[@lindidischler1094]

Thank you

[@BambuCare]

You are welcome!

[@suziquestionable2845]

I don't know whether l have dementia or not, but l do meet many symptoms, like not beimg sure if the date, and constantly looking at my phone to check the day. I am in an independant living facility, and am usually late for the scheduled activities, not allowing myself enough time to get there, wearing appropriate clothes, allowing myself enough time to go down the elevator to where the activities are, like the exercise room, etc. On the weekends, when there are no planned activities, l prefer to not get dressed and just remain in my room, staying in bed, mostly, as l have no incentive to get up to do things. My cell phone is " my friend", and l use it til it needs charging. My only daughter is helpful at times when it's convenient for her to come for a brief visit, being an extremely busy person, and l am not a priority for her, it seems. One of the staff has been stealing what she wants from my room, during the 3 years l'vebeen here, and l have writteg down the many items that have gone missing, from change from a purse in my closet, a brass tray, a wedding gift from my parents, to antique ornaments, pens, letter weighing scale, postage stamps,a lrge Canadian flag, and tiny flag pins,also little flags,all in a box, along with two mugs with a red flag design on them, some clothing, nearly all my pretty silk scarves, some gloves, and winter scarves..a warm royal blue hat , that used to be my mother's and she had given it to me . A large box full of kitchen items, includind silver cuttlery, with the initial "B", my maiden name initial, a mixmaster with a large pyrex bowl, other things, like plates, bowls,drinking glasses, nonperishable foods, spices, a unique spice holder, for countertop that swivelled to see and choose the spice you want to use. Also, a top quality food processor, long handled spoons, lifters, etc. for stove use, cast iron frying pans,baking products. Plus more items all in a large cardboard box that said " kitchen", some lrish linen napkins, hand towells that l had embroidered the days of the week with flower designs, i various colors. These were " a work of art".

[@BambuCare]

It could be early stages of dementia, but it could be other things. Right now you are acutely aware of what’s going on and what you do and do not prefer. It’s not uncommon for staff members to steal from residents unfortunately so it’s not a far fetched idea. Do you by chance deal with feelings of anxiety or depression?

[@suziquestionable2845]

Yes, l do have feelings of anxiety and depression, in answer to your quesrion, Brianna.

[@lydiatamayo9702]

Good job 😂

[@nighthawk_predator1877]

I can see with my loved one that there are not clear cut divisions between these issues but the things you are saying are somewhat mixed up within the divisions.

[@BambuCare]

Yes, so I’m not sure if you watched part 1 where I discussed how to think about the stages. If not, here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/poLQdpWDbNeSoc0 But, most staging tools were created with Alzheimer’s disease in mind, so other dementias may present and progress a bit differently especially in the early stages. Also, the stages are not concrete stages, you will definitely see some mixing of the presentation of symptoms. Meaning your partner may have progressed past stage 4, but have presentations of things that would fall in line with both stage 5 and 6, for example. It’s just a general framework of the progression we often see in persons living with dementia. Let me know if you have any questions.