Pasta Theory 1/10/23 As Opposed to the Spoon Theory

[@madsiswatching]

lovely to see you posting even tho you’re unwell. hope you’re managing self care during ur hard days. sending love & light from the UK ❤️ ps love the hat!

[@fibrowarriors]

Thank you so much for your kind message. I hope you're doing okay yourself. Peace & love CJ ❤️

[@Felicity2121]

Yeah but wouldn’t you just save dirty dishes and only wash up once a day, that would save pasta.💕

[@Marcia_Toms]

I can really relate to this CJ. I can’t even walk down the garden or stand up long enough to wash up some days. I will pray for our friend here and thank you so much for this video xx

[@fibrowarriors]

Hello my friend. It's so lovely to hear from you. I'm so sorry you're struggling too. Sending you a gentle hug 🤗 much love ❤️

[@Marcia_Toms]

Hi CJ are you ok? Long time without seeing you and I’m a little worried. Sending my best wishes and hugs 🤗 xx

[@StopListenThink]

Hey CJ and puppy 🐶 how are you guys doing in UK 🇬🇧- ❤ I will pray for your friend

[@StopListenThink]

And you that God keeps you in his hands and healthy ❤

[@fibrowarriors]

Thank you so much gorgeous lady. One of our friends here on the group has had bad news. I appreciate the prayers for her and me. Sending you a gentle hug 🤗🙏❤️

[@StopListenThink]

@@fibrowarriors sure Will beautiful 💐💫

[@minwade5436]

Hi CJ you enquired abt me on Avid Gardeners Channel. I watched yr vlog on pasta/battery energy & was too tired to reply @ the time. Hope you & yr puppy are doing OK? I know yr wearing yr cap b/c you want to wash yr hair but too tired, I understand. I spent my day doing the “fairy jobs” then out for banking, shopping etc., picking up colonoscopy meds (Fri . 13th Oct.) after my recent week long hospital stay. I had to wait a month for things to settle down. I’ve got to follow a weird special diet & make “best friends with my bathroom” for 3 days prior to the procedure. The positive I take from my past month is I don’t have stomach/bowel cancer, just a 3rd autoimmune issue. My Consultant Rhuemy rang whilst I was in hospital saying “you already have a long list of issues & now another’s reared up”. It was so nice of her to call as it was her last day of work before a month’s holiday. I sat & averaged my surgeries, worked out 1 every 18 months of my life. I thought 2023 would be the year I missed a hospital stay but it wasn’t to be. I just asked that my next g/a keeps me under till they’ve finished, after waking up whilst the othopod was still replacing my hip. Yr pasta /AA battery analogy was very good. Everyday people get out of bed, jump in the shower, dress have brekkie & belt off to work or volunteer work depending upon age. I’ve tried so many times explaining to peeps what’s wrong “b/c I don’t look sick”, I don’t bother anymore & change the subject to how they are. I’m still missing my mini L/H Dachshund, he waited for me to come home fr hospital before a 2nd grand mal seizure. The sweet dog saw me through many surgeries & gave loads of cuddles. I owed him to gently cross OTRB @ 15 years & 10 months after such loyalty & love. I have his 1/2 brother but as with all siblings whether 2 or 4 legged we’re all different. Sending prayers & healing energies to all in need, take care of yourselves. Namaste 🙏🏻. Best wishes from Adelaide; South Australia🇦🇺💐

[@StopListenThink]

Hair takes three I have so much I just do it less often (I live with my elderly 84 year old mother and she consumes about eight of my energy daily) by the time that I get to take care of me. I am so exhausted I don’t wanna do anything in my. I believe my mother has more energy than me. I think she’s just being very narcissistic and mean. And I’ll explain she’ll sit there and enjoy her life like she’s the queen of the house in her royal throne. Get me this get me that go get the mail. I feel like her damn slave in it it’s just hard on me and I don’t wanna put her in a nursing home.

[@fibrowarriors]

I'm so sorry. I have a narcissistic mother. I had to move away from her in the end. She drained all my energy, so I completely understand where you're coming from. After what my mother did to me as a child there's no way I'd take care of her. She's 88 and still as demanding as ever. My aim is to create a support network for those of us who have/had a narcissistic mother. Would you be interested? ❤️🤗

[@StopListenThink]

@@fibrowarriors that would be nice - it’s hard sometimes even at my age (58) I feel inadequate she makes me feel inadequate they come from a different time and they’re very rude. She still shows signs of racist behavior at times. It’s embarrassing and all I can do is apologize to people.