Paternity Fraud and DNA Feat. Barr. Olamide Onifade & Okon Lagos | The Honest Bunch Podcast S05EP11

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[@Anda_banz]

The lawyer is speaking law and Okon is speaking morals. Both of them are right and I have learnt a lot from them. May God continue to bless the Honest Bunch

[@opeyemioshineye458]

He is speaking tradition.

[@charlesekpima8210]

She is not right, women divorce men for several reasons ,instead of a woman to cheating in her husband house she is free to divorce instead

[@victorsilver9170]

Did you also notice that when Okon started to talk, everybody was captivated about how intelligently he's speaking? This shows that you can never hide intelligence, it must surely be shown to the world one day😊

[@cypriann6926]

It takes intelligence to play the roles he plays, I’ve always known he’s a very smart person

[@ikechukwumamah6687]

You can hide intelligence but not foolishness. An intelligent person can pretend to be foolish but not the other way round

[@JCDEE-zb5zj]

Okon is a graduate of philosophy /logic, and that is not a joke

[@masculinityorientation790]

​@@cypriann6926 Facts.

[@rootsrags9404]

What most people don’t know is that Okon of Lagos is actually quite an intellectual despite his movie roles and I’m eager to find out more about his candid 😊nature

[@olivergodspower100]

Truly

[@Cheeziebeddings]

I discovered this 2022, before the elections... man blew my mind

[@deyojames1728]

How do you know what people know or don't about Okon?

[@abisinuola150]

With all due respect, I believe Nedu does not listen to understand but to respond in a way to create sensationalism for all it’s worth.

[@oluwaseunakerele7065]

This is not intelligence …..

[@AkinmolaAdewale]

Okon is loaded with a lot of wisdom

[@eminentcollins8054]

Okon too get sense abeg,make we clap for him pls 🤗🤗🤗🙌🙌🎉🎉🎉

[@victornyong6411]

Okon Lagos is truly deep and a great analyst. Super proud of you Sir!

[@aduola9048]

This podcast need to be a national podcast. The intellectual gathered here are indeed great

[@Wellington-bg2wk]

I like the lawyer. Standing on facts and not feelings. And i love that she stood her ground despite the noise.

[@JenchatMartins]

Standing on facts but she’s talking about doing DNA because it’ll hurt the feelings of the woman? What fact are you referring to please?

[@xandercage360]

Rewind and listen to okon again..this time with open mind

[@william1126]

Ndiara

[@Wellington-bg2wk]

@JenchatMartins she clearly saidngo ahead an do whatever test nut there's no need to inform the woman. Whether you like it or not, the question anybody is trying to answer with a DNA test is, "Is this really my child?" and there's is no other interpretation aside from the fact that at that point, you think that there is a possibility that your woman cheated in you. That's a fact and she said if you must do the test, don't involve the woman because you can't explain away the fact that you think there's a possibility that she has cheated on you. Calm down and watch it, and if you like when you marry your own, twll your wife to do dna test and whatever the result is, whether gokd or bad, goodluck. People on KZbin won't he there to enjoy or suffer with you. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

[@eastenderirl7607]

Are u kidding me? Someone that can not even understand that paternity fraud is fraud.

[@munakanu1015]

The lawyer spoke facts , the law does not care about your emotions, she wasn't invited here to tell you what you want to hear, she spoke facts, the truth no dey too sweet

[@odionpeter4017]

She was emotional when asked about making a law to deter women from DNA paternity fraud,even as much as doing DNA immediately the child is born and she was saying it would cause trust issues.. is the supposed to be emotional?

[@kinsoulbiafra324]

So far She have not Legal Spoken b4 I finish I will keep Responding

[@elijahabey2324]

% fact

[@georgeeml]

Your not a good listener, She is the one with emotion

[@ambassadordreams9254]

What laws? are traditional laws not laws

[@rescuefamilyTv]

Okon is so sound and making sense...norms and traditions has been watered down...

[@dumapepple2442]

My first time watching Okon speak outside the space of acting. Thanks to Honest Bunch Podcast crew.

[@Mfadaray]

Please and please, honest bunch podcast crew, make una dey update your episodes on spotify. Pls, for us that love listening to you as we drive. Abeg, biko, ejo, dan allah.

[@damioke6212]

Honesty!!! I Hope they see this. they hardly update their episodes on streaming platforms

[@babyfirst5158]

I had to subscribe for KZbin premium for this exact reason

[@stmuyiz]

I listen to it on mobile KZbin with minimal view while driving...

[@ifeanyiokonkwo7976]

I didn't know it was on Spotify o. Na so so ads KZbin dey use disturb me. Thanks for the update

[@oscianoroyalty2470]

It’s on iPhone podcast , you can listen to the audio there

[@madamexcellence]

Proud of you Okon. Akwaibomites are proud of you

[@user-uq7on9jk4f]

This lawyer is good, and she stands by her ideologies with valid arguments. Those criticizing her have not taken the time to listen to her. Great podcast indeed

[@opeyemioshineye458]

Okon always drifting to tradition! Idg?

[@bodeprime]

People that think and speak like Okon need to speak more. This is really refreshing to listen to.

[@imahmakanjuola1044]

Am really disappointed in this so called lawyer, why In God's name is she talking like this. Okon, my brother, well said. God bless you sir

[@paulgreene3037]

Thank you for bringing back Ime Bishop aka Okon Lagos. This shows that you guys listen to your audience. After bringing him last year before the elections, I personally requested for him to be back and here he is. He is a bag full of intelligence, last year's podcast that featured him was my favorite and this is now officially my number two. THANK YOU GUYS

[@BERRYXCHANGE1]

DNA is important Simple & short

[@eguono9057]

You can imagine a lawyer defending fraud

[@veegilmedia]

I am so dumbfounded at how brilliant Okon of Lagos is. Every argument he made was accompanied with factual points. You have my respect. This podcast was very enlightening and expository. Thank you to the host/

[@Iphie2019]

Okon is truly one of the best guests in this podcast. I always enjoy his contributions. Well done everyone 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼.

[@namprincewill7420]

INFORMATIVE PODCASTS LIKE THESE SHOULD BE PROTECTED.

[@estherideh]

It is fascinating to hear some points Mr.Okon spoke about here. As a Bible Teacher, it helped give insight to some events and consequences mentioned in the book of Leviticus. Bravo! Society was never designed for the structure of 'not my business' - as foreign as it sounds, an individual's decision can bring about the downfall of a whole society. It might not happen in a day but, the consequences will surely come. Life is sacred, humans are sacred and society is sacred. Our inability to see this sacredness and treat humanity at all levels as such will not extinguish the rule of seed and harvest time. What we sow, we are most likely to reap. Thank you for speaking truthfully and boldly.

[@ayatollahigboland4612]

DNA, in my opinion, should be mandatory and pass into law of the federal republic

[@5555GOD]

That’s tyranny, you can’t be mandating adults lol. Just encourage people to as supposed to mandating them.

[@Tonymagabush]

I agree with you, and paternity fraud should be criminalised.

[@eguono9057]

From this women own side you will know dey are very aware

[@EAiqay1845]

Excuse me, why does it have to be a legislation for stupid men to have sense, you don't need any law to have a DNA conducted in any child you have you don't. First of all have sense in selecting the kinda woman you associate with. I dont know what is wrong with men in short

[@chinnycynthia6209]

Please do invite Nezevill to your Programme,she is a very knowledgeable lawyer biko

[@user-ug7eb1eu3d]

Neze is in Canada and still nursing her baby girl. I don't think she has got the time as of now to fly into Nigeria and be on this honest bunch podcast. Perhaps in the future, that will be possible.

[@abisinuola150]

@@user-ug7eb1eu3dshe doesn’t have to fly,down, she can be in her house to do it.

[@chinnycynthia6209]

@@user-ug7eb1eu3d they can do it through zoom or must the person be present?

[@omobosedeanthony1010]

If you're a NEZEvillian you should know she's relocated to Canada... except maybe on zoom

[@chinnycynthia6209]

Oh yes I meant by Zoon dear.

[@oluwaseunabegunde9938]

This topic is best discussed with a seasoned Barrister like this woman on the show AND a medical practitioner who's a DNA analysis pundit. We need a medical perspective to this conversation.

[@iyiolaodumosu]

Thank you

[@ifeanyiinnocent3472]

In South africa there is a law for dna before issuing a birth certificate with the man's name. Why is Nigeria not leaning in that direction

[@CUBOFJUDAHTV]

Because of women like this 😂

[@brownlazarus8627]

Who pays for the DNA test? The cost of DNA test is on the high side, which is why we can't make sure law for either the parents or government to bear the burden. Our Government no dey offer free virginal delivery na DNA dey go come do free😂

[@eguono9057]

Terrible set of women​@@CUBOFJUDAHTV

[@ifeanyiinnocent3472]

The men pay for DNA test although it's subsidised for that purpose of the abridged birth certificate purpose. Some legislation can help work these things out even with the health insurance schemes too

[@moneymanakuh5234]

Nigeria is a useless emotional country they learn only bad things

[@stmuyiz]

Okon is so amazing and very intelligent. One thing I know is to defend abnormalities in this current trend is so easy, equipped with a lot of points BUT deep down, we know we can only defend it cos we are equally guilty and don't want to frown at or condemn for it. Thanks Okon, I want you more on this podcast.

[@raymondihemekwa1178]

Who else is listening to this with their headphones in 😂 Great convo

[@Aroswales]

Honest bunch podcast is what every youth of this country needs to start following like a disciple

[@VeoKingdomwealthofficial]

Indeed knowledge and intelligence is really attractive. Thank u sir Okon for blessing me with your bank of wisdom. U just made my night sir❤❤❤

[@samkeyzsamkeyz447]

Jesus!!!! I have so much love and respect for Okon, man is wise

[@LawalKoweey]

Thank you Mr okon for those words of wisdom, there were ways to check if there is a bastard in any household irrespective, and aside the usage of those things, ask yourself this question why in the first place will a child's paternity be something we won't be sure of if not that things are not in good state.

[@adekunlesodiq6506]

I swear to God... This is beautiful... Please keep bringing knowledge based discuss like this to the audience

[@enemifechukwu3315]

i love the logical perspective you guys spoke from, flashing back to to part one where you spoke on this topic shows how far you have grown as a team, so proud

[@olanrewajusamuel5861]

My Monday incomplete without the honest bunch

[@eriobunaelvis4511]

Okon be dropping words of wisdom.

[@OgbodoaniDavidugochukwu]

I love my country we are blessed and you people are improving our our intellectual senses.God bless you people for the ideas, knowledge and wisdom you people are displaying.

[@WanaBaddie]

Ezinne jollof! This your look on this episode is baddddd , nice one babe .

[@Mrmafi.]

If this lawyer represents you, Ajeh you go lose😂

[@AyoadeJoshua-hz3xs]

I swear

[@dannylegzy7074]

She's charge and bail lawyer. I bet with anyone. She's very incompetent.

[@greatking5032]

That girl can’t be a lawyer

[@kingacot4391]

Olodo lawyer😂

[@mrwacko507]

Watin be this😂😂😂

[@Santostephano]

Okon is actually loaded with brains , lovely podcast 💯

[@stanleyononogbo6527]

Great Convo! Imeh Bishop is packed full of knowledge. Before he said he studied philososphy, i had a guess that he would either be a philosopher or a sociologist. Props to the Barrister, she knows her stuff.

[@chimdi_mos_beat5014]

This is very educative show entertainment plus education . An A + show

[@ahadzierickosi]

I doubt it's 30% of women. If it was 30% of cases or DNA tests, that would be reasonable. This is because not every family is conducting a DNA test. I'm a Ghanaian living in Israel, and I really like your show. I learn a lot from the show. Kudos, keep it up.

[@francagoodworld7695]

Okon one very intelligent individual

[@chinnycynthia6209]

Absolutely 💯

[@anthonyoparaji2067]

Okon Lagos is actally a very bright and intelligent guy. Really sorry I have not imagined him in this light before. He is amazing

[@DoubleTeeOye]

Very interesting conversations. Thank you guys🎉

[@chidiroosevelt7233]

Even consultation self I won’t near your firm let alone high her as a lawyer. This lawyer nor be lawyer at all. And to Ada zuruezu, you are right on point, my love for you have tripled.

[@emmanuele.bassey7707]

😂 guy you harsh gan o😅

[@eminentcollins8054]

Wonder how his named bishop(okon) without being a clergyman 😂😂, knowledge choke, detailed information choke, word articulation choke, wisdom choke, experience choke,well cultured, brilliantly endowed,a figure father worthy of emulating, national treasure, man with high positive values and ability to learn positivity to the youngins Tnk you honest bunch,you guys are crest in what you guys does... One day this podcast would be recognised globally for job well done

[@stellamarrisodiah4768]

Both of the spoke well, 1 in law direct and the other traditionally, well done sir, well done ma, well done the honest bunch crew, great work and lessons learnt here.

[@Kr8tiva]

3:40AM and i am glued to this podcast. This very interesting and highly educative. Okon, Gosh!!!!! i am so impressed.

[@eriobunaelvis4511]

This lawyer fine sha ❤

[@fahadsheriff5783]

You need to bring in a northern Muslim on show they have a lot to contribute in all your episodes please do try.

[@ogoluwaoluwatobi2377]

Noted

[@biggerb01]

THE BEST PODCAST!!...Husband material you can say that again!

[@eminentcollins8054]

Ezinne,your too beautiful,keep sparkling and your natural beauty and great fashion sense I love your fashion sense ❤❤🎉🎉

[@oluwasanmiajala249]

In this episode it's only the lawyer and our Gen z mama that were actually speaking to the topic. Others drifted. From the start Okon talked almost out of contest. They should have brought in a doctor instead of Okon. A lawyer and a Doctor would have kept this podcast really on point.

[@oluwasanmiajala249]

Paternity fraud is when there is child who is not of the father and the father has no knowledge that he is fathering someone else's child.. Talk around this not where there is an agreement between the spouses on get a child via other means.

[@nonyeoray]

This woman is spilling fact !!

[@akandeeric1534]

Tears Roll out of my eyes listening to the last conversation on writting will, i breath soooooooooooooooo deep because it as not been easy during the raining, sunning and cold days. But what can we do, all is well

[@DarlAmet]

OkonLagos is so knowledgeable and objective.

[@olamidebright2045]

There was a price for shame back then, now shame is exalted. Bring shame back please

[@rapperholyvevo9637]

The truth is with the coming of blue films changes a lot of women(Virgins) , she fit don dey watch things ooh 😂 Watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

[@ifeanyimatthew6855]

I never knew Okon is filled with wisdom, God bless the honestbunch crew

[@timtigersmiles8361]

This is one of the most educative one I have watched 🎉

[@morayoalarape7857]

God bless Okon for that statement of over “200million”.

[@tochukwuiloka1074]

Sorry to say the lawyer is not sounding like a legal luminary. Okon is a wise man. Kudos to hnestbounch

[@odieteejiro2687]

I dey tell you

[@tochukwuiloka1074]

@@odieteejiro2687 Yes my dear

[@charlesogbonna1245]

OKon of Lagos took my breath away ....such a brilliant fellow wawoooo

[@ChrisAluminium]

@Honest bunch ..u guy's were always doing well and conversating reality 👍💯💕✅😊

[@gievosekreationz]

But dis discussion is outside the topic na. Na DNA issue una con dey talk, that's not directly partenity fraud. The fraud is when the woman lie about the husband being the father of the child but wetin una dey discuss na when both parents agree to having a child outside the normal way, that's not fraud because both parents agreed to do it.

[@eganachris8494]

DNA is a must ooh

[@babatundeatere8743]

Okon is very smart. First 1 min and I am listening to the whole podcast

[@Chilbuli_Baby]

Okon god bless you, You are unapologetically wise!!

[@bernardbrown8569]

Me and oga nedu just carry the same mentality for this case😂😂😂. Ndi a na-akogheri😂😂. Una just dey yarn dust in the name of excuses. The fact is paternity fraud is premeditated,women know it but always want to make it look like its ot their fault attimes.

[@chukwuegboanthony9758]

Okon actually brought balance to this conversation.

[@xeelvya]

56:36 Toun, thank you for this. I was confused at a point.

[@morayoalarape7857]

God bless Toun for explaining the concept of fraud.

[@mriyke4630]

I agree with okon.. what is obtainable in western cline isn't applicable in Nigeria.. we are guided by our cultural values reason why we have customary court... hence,we shouldn't do what will hurt tomorrow.. cuz some family people can be so funny

[@BibleAficionados]

Lawyer dey para 😅

[@franchescaasamoah3046]

Okon is a warehouse of wisdom. Man started talking n the whole place was quiet. U could fell d gems being dropped ❤

[@echopeter3280]

God bless u people i really enjoy this very program

[@seunsodade2151]

The truth is the the Law way bigger than tradition and sentiments. This lawyer VERY factual and grounded. That your point garner more people and voices doenst mean it is wisdom. Lets learn and not contend with every information

[@therealedmund7612]

This podcast dey educate pass some schools 😂😂

[@kingsley_Michael89]

The honest brunch u guys were so lively from beginning to the end I enjoyed your discussion I learnt alot from everyone you guys are lovely abeg ❤️❤️❤️

[@MrPerfect0910]

When our learned Okon started with our african culture, it covered all the topics. Growing up, I knew my grand fathers late brothers wife who was given to my grand father to raise children for the brother... It happens also in the case of the man not being fertile, in that case theres an agreement and sometimes it is carried out btw family members... When this happens it is not a fraud anymore... Fraud is fraud

[@KT-ov4bz]

This lawyer woman needs to be checked

[@victorwhite9522]

Foolish talk

[@chrisjof8258]

God bless you.... She's not a virgin at age of 22yrs when she get married

[@oluwaseunabegunde9938]

Deity cole asks very intelligent questions

[@ogucheausa9149]

Good content , health and counselors should watch , in between Ezinne your hair dey alright 💥

[@egodindeche917]

I agree with Bishop. Communication helps you know what u miss and social media is the aproko partner.

[@Franklyn_Iyke]

How this woman is defending this DNA matter makes me only think she is somewhat guilty of this whole thing 😂😅😂... She just de vex me ajeh

[@sidneyervin8095]

The woman is a very big cheater

[@samuelkoleola739]

It is a woman bias🤷🏿‍♂️ but for the most part, she spoke more objectively on the issue which is laudable as a professional that she is. That is how the works.

[@elijahabey2324]

I think you did not understand the angle she is coming from, she is talking base on her profession, left to me the interviewers didnt give her room to talk base on her profession but on the angle of debate

[@otike-zz5mp]

She docking the main topic talking about the extreme minority killing the main subject they have to talk about the topic again and keep her out of it because she not interested in having a real conversation

[@user-mq1rz2qs6h]

i swear

[@acehighlights]

Okon is Sound, very sound.

[@templeblins9150]

I love this lawyer. ❤

[@djwhyk3lo_]

Okon brain dey work ooo😂😂😂

[@RachythePerfumegal]

You guys just hear without listening. This woman the lawyer is sound.

[@EmekaIgweshi-os6wb]

Na u no sound

[@charlesekpima8210]

You must be a woman, women think with emotions and they support other women irrespective of if the woman is right or wrong

[@EmiLawson]

Nawa oh.... This woman sef 😅😅

[@ogilifranklin2952]

Really bless watching this

[@da_divah]

Beautiful session 👌

[@muonekepromise8407]

This Barrister knows her Job, you might need to remove sentiment to actually understand her, nice one, kudos

[@wealthoro2783]

She is a good lawyer

[@imaleontv4991]

People are not ready to know law. We are too sentimental for law. Imagine an uncle asking for paternity for a child when the parent has not contested or have doubts. In the name of you married the family.

[@sassyrytha8696]

I agree

[@nelsonnfor9386]

I believe this women advised married women to go and sleep around with other men when they come to her for counseling..

[@Jrazybeatz]

Thanks you bro. I said the same thing!

[@RejoiceNeri]

Keep crying 😂😂

[@obinnasunday1127]

Honestly

[@elijahabey2324]

No she didn't say that, she is talking base on experience at her field you can't judge her by that a lot of woman fall out of marriage base on alot of things and sex in not excluded,

[@Officalkingoke]

That’s is truth especially we women, our body and hormones changes everyday .let just agree to disagree because our society is changing and lot of people are changing alone with it . This is my third best episode because everyone is coming from different angles. the lawyer is coming from her experience and her area of expertise . According to law of Nigeria even in USA , the only third parties that can ask for a DNA be done on a child can also be the grandparents, or legal guardian but they have to petition the court first especially if one parent is dead . They can’t force DNA done if the other parent don’t consent it , they have to petition the court especially when the dead person didn’t not accept the child . Okon is coming from our tradition as Nigerians and how a family should be structured if not these whole social media , my right , craziness going on . Very educated guys And both are right base on where they are coming from. 👏👏👏

[@chuksvale1]

This one go hot ooo....

[@fnm2156]

This lawyer shaaaa. Paternity fraud is women laden, whether conscious or not conscious.

[@Msenogift]

Most often than not, women know who is responsible for their pregnancy! I also don't think you need a law to determine the paternity of a child. A father is at liberty to carry out a DNA test on his kids.

[@andersonarhoroghene3997]

Wow i am shocked and impressed at the same time with Okon Eloquence and intellectual capacity, never use a movie role to judge a person.

[@ValentinaIgbinigun]

I love Okon "bad manner produce bad communication ". This man contributed to the conversation intellectual. 😅

[@ValentinaIgbinigun]

My kids are walking DNA they both took after my husband look wise. We are good here 😆