Patrice O'Neal Girl Advice - "My Happiness is Paramount"

[@markmittens]

"I volunteer my love to my girl and if she doesn't appreciate it I take my free love away." Partice Oneal was brillant, so many men do things out of obligation and it's not appreciated. It makes men miserable and a shell of themselves, a lot of women don't value that loyalty and devotion so no one is happy.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

Doing anything out of obligation strangles your integrity

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

Yes, exactly.

[@pthompson2113]

And then you eat a Snickers bar but the wrapper goes on the counter next to the A2 screw.

[@whateverrowsyourboat595]

That "obligation" was instilled in me and im sure other guys at a Young age like 6 year's old or even younger like 4. Can anyone attest else to this?

[@afroprince5262]

@@whateverrowsyourboat595 absolutely, we’re basically taught to give women everything and ask for nothing

[@sednasix6608]

The most important lesson Patrice has taught me that was a blind spot I could not even articulate to myself is: protect your happiness. I have changed more in the past two months since having listened to all 12 episodes of Black Philip 3 times over and other O&A content than in years of trying. It just clicked when he talked you have to protect your own happiness.

[@monikaparmar2061]

You really hit the nail! Lots of advice given by Patrice comes down to the philosophy (or I maybe origins from it) you just mentioned- "Don't compromise on your happiness". I mean it is really simple and obvious thing people fail to comprehend in their short life they try to please women. Every other advice is just the things he does that to ensure that.

[@3v068]

I agree. I started to really take patrice's words into consideration for the past couple of months and so far, its been making me money, its been making me more time for myself, its been letting me do what I want despite things holding me back from doing other things I want, and its been FREEING. Its even easier to flirt with women now and to get rejected, and now I don't get so emtotionally invested and its GREAT. Men, listen to patrice. He knew all about life long before people started making these podcasts.

[@nickrod9393]

Amen

[@officiald1ne1]

I’ve just started myself my happiness is top priority

[@nickrod9393]

@@officiald1ne1 good bro

[@raphaelfrancis4509]

"My Happiness is Paramount," is something I will forever live by...

[@ghettotheorator]

Its like society shamed us, as men, from our happiness. Cus theres nothing wrong w/ what women want even if it makes the man unhappy...why is that ok?

[@shawnennels8493]

Bc now a days it’s only a problem in the relationship when she’s unhappy

[@joshuayettou3552]

@Mynigga Boosie BINGO!

[@noobnoob8922]

Its an tradition old as time. You always have to struggle for her love and put the lady before you. It's always been that way. You will always face it because it is what our social structure is built around. You can shut up or deny it Stop blaming society like a bitch.

[@TovenDo.O.Video-]

@@noobnoob8922 It's this kind of talk that has enslaved men for generations. Discussion is important. Get you head out of your ass.

[@afroprince5262]

Because we gave women the undeserved title of “queen“ and “goddess“ when in reality outside a child raring they contribute to society the least. I’m not saying you shouldn’t treat your woman good, or spoil her occasionally but we as a male society is spoiled and too much and now we have entitled brats on our hands. Not to say that the men of today are that much better

[@richk320]

To call Patrice the black Dr.Phil is an insult.Patrice O'neal is 100x smarter than Dr.Phil.Dr.Phil is a dufus!!

[@tommyfu9271]

well said

[@chadneumann2772]

Elliott I have to disagree with you...he's 500 X's smarter than Dr. Duf..I mean Phil

[@daquansbussy4288]

Dufus

[@42Keez]

You have to remember, at this time dr.phil was revolutionary on television. Us now knows he's full of shit, but at first, he was hot as a firecracker on terms of having things figured out to mass media

[@daquansbussy4288]

@@42Keez just like how people thinking getting relationship advice from Steve Harvey is a good idea lmao

[@TheMrlitemaster]

"that's fear and walking on eggshells" "GOOD" FUCKING GOLD

[@DipCityDerp]

Need to listen to this every day...

[@PoyTroy]

Everyday!

[@monketstyling]

Yes, need to wake up to this to start the day.

[@yaboykawz]

You dont already?

[@chadneumann2772]

@@yaboykawz HaHaHaHaHaHaHaHa! Well played sir

[@temanin1]

Still listening to this day 💪🏾

[@qwickben6690]

Patrice is that one dude who was able to figure out women

[@Astrotase]

My happiness is Paramount. Thank you Patrice

[@MegaMan-bs3oy]

YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE YOUR TIME AND LOVE! You get paid for your time its called a JOB! THERE is something worse then LOVE that a woman can take from a man and waste it is HIS TIME! EVERYONE in that room is a beta besides Patrice and boogie. YOU ARE NOT obligated to love anyone! WHY is this so shocking to these betas?! Opie and Ant are multi millionaires! They are stepped on by their girls?! come on! OHHH! NO! OHHHHHHHHH NO YOU DIDN'T! ALL these betas flipped out THE MAIN IS TELLING THE TRUTH! Its like as guys we are looked upon to be these beta weak men who melt and grovel over girls. NO! WE ARE MEN We have purpose WE HAVE GOALS AND LIVES! A woman is just a addition to that A WOMAN SHOULD NOT BE YOUR LIFE! A WOMAN IS A RESULT OF LIVING YOUR LIFE! WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY AND IN YOUR PURPOSE A WOMAN WILL FIND YOU! THEY FIND THAT ATTRACTIVE!

[@briandupre1494]

Withholding from yourself to make someone else happy just leads to resentment and dead wives.

[@Stranger_In_The_Alps]

Also leads to depression and poverty

[@3v068]

The MOMENT I knew Patrice knew what the fuck he was talking about was when my mom was talking to me about her relationship problems with my dad (theyre still married, theyre doing good) and he nailed everything on the head with my moms perspective and my dads perspective. Then it was reaffirmed when my mom told me that Patrice sounds bitter and butthurt, but when I challenged her notion and had a discussion about it, she couldnt argue her side anymore. She shut up. Wise beyond his years this man.

[@danielhuelsman76]

Can you give some more details, or is that memory too old now?

[@3v068]

@@danielhuelsman76 being honest, the memory is too old now. I personally do not agree with Patrice the way I did last year. There are things he says I agree with when it comes to men bettering themselves. He is however, still wrong with a lot of things that I have learned. Some of the money advice he gave me was pretty bad and I learned that the hard way.

[@3v068]

@@danielhuelsman76 I won't lie. These comments are pretty cringe now that I'm reading and reflecting off of them to a degree. I'm putting this guy on a pedistal when he wasn't exactly the best example.

[@danielhuelsman76]

@@3v068 What money advice?

[@swedish0spartans]

@@3v068 Hey, that just shows your growth and that you realize that Patrice's philosophy wasn't 100% correct for you. A lot of comments are just throwing love for Patrice but I really wish more people would point out what they disagree with, and /why/. Very lacking of in this fan club. I find a lot of his ideas interesting and worth putting to the test, but I also want to discuss which ones aren't.

[@tjhammer24]

Wake up every morning, pray if you so do, some reminder stoic quotes from the greats, and this clip of Patrice. "Daily bread"

[@Cybop-xd9mm]

You know, I’ve been on a bit of a binge for self help videos on KZbin because of a breakup. Watching drs, therapists, philosophers and all kinds of highly educated people say all of the same shit Patrice is saying. It’s really incredible

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

Patrice's high pitched laugh immediately makes me laugh!

[@noobnoob8922]

You might hate O&A constantly butting in. But their point of view is what society accepts. Hearing them and patrice at the same time really puts into perspective how sensible patrice is and how brainwashed we are.

[@mattsickonic8115]

We don’t deserve Patrice

[@guitarsANDcars39]

Nah, we NEED Patrice.

[@TheCubecrafer]

@@guitarsANDcars39 sry man he died 2011 rip

[@hugoarcada]

@@TheCubecrafer only a physical loss, his teachings are eternal.

[@TheCubecrafer]

@@hugoarcada papa bless patrice

[@Brian_tim]

Exactly. Patrice was the hero we need but not the one we deserve.

[@troyhughey4791]

Just like in Boxing, protect yourself at all times! Never forget gentlemen

[@95Everan]

I’m now realizing how small minded and pathetic Anthony is . He can’t fathom Patrice’s ideology and logic. All those guys are so soft and simp they couldn’t EVER do what Patrice is saying. I’m trying it in my relationship and we’re growing together and I’m happy 😊

[@dorpth]

A man whose game begins and ends at, "I HAVE A BIG HOUSE WITH A POOL! PLEASE GO OUT WITH ME!"

[@sickjuicysjamshack3580]

Maybe if he had listened to Patrice back then he wouldn't be having domestic violence charges right now lol

[@raisinsymone7653]

@@sickjuicysjamshack3580 which one? Opie or Anthony?

[@alib6936]

9:55 "That's fear and walking on egg shells" and how does this guy act in front of his girl? With fear of her leaving and on eggshells.. These dudes suck lol

[@juwanmarshall4003]

The fact that everyone didn’t believe in Patrice is crazy to me

[@devinplayseverything3764]

and then they went on to have the worst trouble with women

[@t.i.f.f3640]

Patrice is leading me out of pussy whipped land....thank you Sir, RIP

[@AceBanyon]

I find myself watching this exact video at least once a week

[@matthewbelmoh3283]

Patrice was ahead of his time. RIP

[@iiicuuubreathingfullyoohoohooh]

13:34 I like how quickly Steve was to answer Patrice’s genuine interest in his and her body language towards the film. Haha

[@papakeno1105]

These guys reminds me of my father. Some blue pilled guys just don't realize they live in the Matrix since they have played their roles well and never had to face the facts and do the journey wich comes from multiple heart breaks. My dad is 70 yrs old and has never had a single good advice for me about women and relations. Because he and my mom has been married since they were in their 20's. I have kids and have lost two adult long term relationships, and they are completely baffled over it. That's why I listen to Patrice every day (in periods) for the last year or so.

[@ZinfinityX]

My oh my, does anyone watch this show for its itemized broadcast dynamic? I don't care if those white dudes are rolling in it, because they don't take risks, they're not interesting. You've got two grown men in their safe world then you have Patrice who actually speaks from experience.

[@brousster]

Analog Signal you’re a fucking idiot. Pour and Anthony are notorious for breaking rules and saying what they think.

[@impactovernumbers5157]

SoA Montreal but not when it comes to their relationships with women which is the context of this conversation you fucking idiot.

[@michaelmyers8604]

RIP Patrice 🙏 The real pioneer!

[@tolloromassi99]

3:19 that laugh 😂😂😂😂

[@thomasandersen2534]

Epic laugh

[@PoyTroy]

This man changed my life and my horrible , miserable situation I had with my girl at the time. She ran everything. She was mean , crude, disrespectful, nasty , beautiful’ but ugly on the inside. And at the time I truly thought this is how marriage was suppose to be. Hearing this man , go in and really break all of this down. Changed me. Fast fwd now, I have girls galore. I’m honest with them. Upfront about my intentions and tell it like it is. Now I can’t get rid of them. They love it. Women need direction, and look up to a man that knows how to lead.

[@user-sc1es4wz4g]

He was a man. He had his role down pat. She follows then. Happy man happy woman.

[@jaradwinklepleck1769]

Imagine Patrice still with us and on Joey Diaz podcast all the time and obviously having his own podcast/show

[@theodoretheelder6248]

The fuk is wrong with Opie!?! What was so important that he had to cut Patrice off? When Patrice is talkin, you have the best material in the world. Why would you cut him off, who is more interesting than Patrice?

[@jameretief8327]

Because he has no self awareness on how he’s not the one people want to listen to.

[@bubblewrapvillain]

Opie is pure vaginal energy

[@dbillie985]

Why didn't this man have a podcast for himself. These recording's are gems

[@StraptownTrayD]

RIP TO THE LEGEND

[@ytJuice13]

Preach! Church! Tabernacle!!

[@SAM-ru4vx]

walking on egg shells? okay call it what you want i bought you some isotoner slippers with the fur in-lining.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

He was punishing her for stupid manipulative questions

[@kentondragon9263]

This is why..this is why...women took over cos for every 1 Patrice there are 2 idiots(simps) that let women walk over them because you wanna be "nice" and shit😐

[@thatboyunfazed99]

1 for every 2? Add two zeros to that 2 and you might be on the right track

[@MarbleStatueMillett]

He gets it.

[@KL-ry5tj]

This is great advice for both men and women.

[@MikeHuntBFPD]

"Patrice hit on alot of the things i was gonna say" 😂

[@ivomarcelosantossimoes2113]

Thank God for Patrice

[@smashitupkcco9073]

"Psh. Good. Fuck it." Patrice O'Neal

[@franksanmartin3776]

Genius!

[@shomarimonroe150]

Fantastic video

[@AngSco30]

Patrice O'Neal and Coach Corey Wayne speak a silly amount of sense.

[@santanah.6897]

Yessir 💯

[@dorpth]

5:03 who in the world was that emasculated square?

[@Onibyron]

@@dorpth haaaahhhhahahhahahha! I needed that.

[@tolloromassi99]

That mega simp made my skin crawl with his goofy question.

[@pthompson2113]

6:00 - Although I respect his viewpoint, that is not the highest form of love which is unconditional. That is why people get married...because it would be too easy to walk away the minute it becomes difficult or the other person becomes irritating.

[@Xeranx]

Love is wanting better for the other person. It would be great if it was unconditional, but it isn't. Unconditional is far more likely between parent and child than adults who grew up separate or in the same neighborhood and have their own ideas. Unconditional wanting or wishing of better for another is hard because that person can disappoint you or wrong you, either slightly, egregiously, or intentionally. This is why cordiality is what everyone is owed because you want it in return and that's what allows for the establishment of trust between people and that has the potential to lead to love which can then be either platonic or romantic. So this brings me to Patrice's stance on liking and loving. He says men should want their women to love them and women should want their men to like them. Men generally share and are more prone to love (wish for better for) the other person. So they're more likely to hold themselves to an obligation towards another because their behavior functions on what they think or how they feel about the other. Women want people to share things with them and are more prone to like the other person because of what they get. So there's no keeping a woman around if all she does is like you. What she thinks or how she feels about the other is dependent on said other. She's not involved and therefore not committed.

[@AyeYoZay]

Naww, married people can still easily walk away. Especially the women, who most of the time is actually benefited for leaving. Only difference is the man gets hurt more

[@pthompson2113]

@@AyeYoZay No they can't ... Divorce is a bitch and costs money time and energy. I don't know what planet you live on bud.

[@jameretief8327]

Patrice should have given his learnings as a speech from the Lincoln Monument as a man’s civil right movement speech!

[@bigbiyyy]

9:30 righteous is trueee

[@mallygeedkm]

The problem that these guys are having is that they are holding onto this idea of chivalry that men are supposed to do things for women no matter how miserable it makes them. Men are fed this 🐃💩 about going to the ends of the earth for your woman, protecting them, providing, holding yourself to a standard and that proves your love...even when your woman doesn't appreciate you or she completely emasculates you and that is just how love goes. ITS NOT!!! Men can take their offered love away if you're being $#!++y

[@kevinhamilton9920]

Can you imagine if he was alive today? Him and George Carlin would be the two I'd bring back. Listening to their takes on society today would be epic. Absolute gold.

[@dorpth]

Fucking Opie demanding they cut away from Patrice so they can do another dumb stunt game with one-note Twitchels.

[@venoymorgan7567]

These dudes not understanding what he’s trying to say

[@monketstyling]

Patrice understands women, Opey and Dopey are idiots trying to laugh at his truth.

[@cosmicsovereign9429]

I wonder how these dudes lives are now when it come to women

[@NickFouladi11]

Patrice died in 2011

[@cosmicsovereign9429]

@neema fouladi not him, but Oppie and Anthony and some of the radio cast

[@ThePunisher-mg5cy]

Genius.

[@pthompson2113]

3:20 - So explain why she felt inadequate Patrice. He dodged the hell out of that question.

[@r011ing_thunder6]

Patrice said along the lines of it’s good to have a girl who has low self esteem

[@finagobaby]

This is the worst I’ve heard opie and anthony I never wanted to get a time machine and yell at anybody this bad

[@lam1045]

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[@tyroniousyrownshoolacez2347]

Why is the Opie allowed to talk with men?

[@tod670]

Patrice and 5 simps

[@goo5976]

Patrice was cool, but he’s also a total douche. There are so many easier ways to get someone to not be able to manipulate you. Just ask them why that’s important to them when they ask a question that entraps you. This is all way too complicated