It's Time To Man Up

Patrick Romero and Jesse Budd go to the University of Utah to continue their interviewing.

[@fookard]

step 1. be attractive step 2. don't be unattractive

[@simonsilva250]

hey u there

[@themanhimself436]

forgot the step where u ask them out

[@poziloynazist]

bro, you was blackpilled 10 years ago…

[@What_is_a_freaking_handle_bro]

​@@poziloynazistlmao

[@LOL_MANN]

@@poziloynazist It is not something new lol, prefference for conventionally attractive and tall men is old as humanity itself.

[@lubu523]

Chivalry is dead? Well what about lady like???

[@amzival6654]

🤚👌👌

[@Cola-42]

I don't think any lady like would even wear shorts. So yeah, long gone.

[@shadowstarspammy]

🎯

[@monkeykorns]

"I think guys are just more interested in being friends first and hanging out" Oh, honey...

[@Realtalk2389]

Oh honey, you have no idea about how men are😂😂😂

[@khushichauhan5765]

Tell me what you meannnnn

[@SaraGabrielaAlexandre]

Kkkkkkkk 😂

[@MoizRafay]

Women need to women up too

[@sophiacristina]

Its funny how they charge confidence on men even if they don't have it themselves...

[@Chironex_Fleckeri]

@@sophiacristina 👍 Exactly

[@elumiomerk4013]

@@Chironex_Fleckeri Is it a correct comparison though? I barely know any girls who are as socially challenged as guys, they may be lacking confidence before exams, or presentations or interviews or whatever, but my personal experience is that girls are more at place in social interactions than guys.

[@Realtalk2389]

@@elumiomerk4013 maybe you are right, but the point is even though if a girl likes a guy, she won't make the first move, she just gives the signal to a man that she likes him and expect him to make a first move and ask them out, A man has to make the first move if he likes a girl or a girl likes him both ways, Isn't that unfair, And I think that most of guys aren't asking girls out because they are afraid of rejection, In my opinion if a man likes a girl, and he wants to ask girl for a date he should ask her out, And if a girl likes a boy she should ask him out, and don't waste time on giving him signals that she likes him and wait for him to ask her out

[@ganjiraja9407]

-"Hey, Amy do you wanna go on a date tonight". -"I actually have stuff that i need to do sooo....".

[@amyl5250]

Invite her in advance 😅

[@vextys9853]

@@amyl5250 nice one

[@greekgod3299]

Ok Amy then I gonna jump alone in my testarosa and go have hummer with spaghettoni while drinking a lambrusco... wish you indeed a nice evening

[@TheGyroBarqusShow]

I think he means you darling, you should go with him, he will be alone forever if you don't.

[@delicious_seabass]

A moment of silence for the girl who got asked out zero times...

[@dazednconfused31337]

Shame I think she's cute

[@harrisonjohn4301]

@@dazednconfused31337 same! It made me really sad.

[@ruebene2223]

@D L It's not "probably" a lie. It's a lie.

[@yelezi7950]

It's a lie.

[@petermulinzi1288]

suffering from her cuteness everyone would assume she’s taken

[@squattingheads]

"has a man ever texted you to ask you out" -"yeah and it is awful" gillette: shows man approaching woman on street, women say "yeah thats not cool, thats harassment" ... ... what are we supposed to do then?

[@mohammadabdullah2848]

Stare at her 😂

[@dgbd9030]

work on ourselves. then we get asked out

[@zm4522]

We don’t have this problem in my country.. If I like a girl I will ask for her hand from her father to set up a first date this means I am serious about my intentions then if she likes me back we get engaged and that’s it

[@dgbd9030]

@@zm4522 what country? genuinely interested if i can marry my religion there holy shit.

[@zm4522]

pickelrick 1 what u mean marry your religion

[@TalhaFaisal1]

I think that guys are asking out fewer girls nowadays is because they would rather not risk getting a sexual assault charge on their record.

[@thumbythumb]

Amen brother

[@Jayyy667]

yessir, and Ive been with enough at 35. Women have drastically changed into some weird internet hybrid. Around 2016 and 2017 it was no longer a good idea. Strange and unfortunate with whats being pushed in a supposed modern society. Social engineering to destroy a empire. It's happened to all of them throughout history starngely enough.

[@wolfieplays2wolf199]

Or the fear of rejection

[@stephenmason9527]

The girl who replied, "lazy" is right... but I think she's right for a different reason than she thinks. It just doesn't require as much effort to do anything anymore, that includes dating interactions. I also don't have to grab my bow and arrows and trek miles out into the wilderness to hunt or trap my dinner each day. Does that mean I'm lazy if I order a pizza delivery online instead OR is it convenient? Social media and other technology has made it a simpler task and there are also cultural considerations, you used to have to know a girl's family to ask her out a few generations ago. So the guy in the video who says he asks girls out by text message and that's he's received many positive responses...there's your answer. Less effort, but same desired result...

[@felipereis8570]

agree

[@HookemHorns972]

What's stopping these women from asking guys out? You wanna date so bad then you ask.

[@XlAnonymousUserlX]

Best comment ITT. If you see a guy you like but he won't come to you? Why don't you come to him? If women are allowed to break traditional female role in this day and age, why can't men break traditional male role by letting girls come to him occasionally.

[@RealityCheck6T9]

@@XlAnonymousUserlX we shouldn't want anyone breaking traditional gender roles. If they want to be asked out, they just need to keep looking as pretty as possible and not be argumentative.

[@wolfieplays2wolf199]

@@RealityCheck6T9 bruuh if they like the person so much why don't they do it because it's traditional that's like saying why don't black people work for white people it was traditional back in the day we don't want to break that traditional role

[@miguelpereida249]

Upload more videos man

[@ilovelamp22]

I really thought the last question of this video was going to be asking the women why don't they ask men out if they feel that way.

[@Imperatorius45]

If the girl likes the guy who is asking her out, it's romantic. If the girl doesn't like the guy who is asking her out, it's harassment. Since we don't know which guy we are until we ask you out we instead ask you to hang out until we can figure out if you want us to ask you out. If you don't like that than you can do one of two things. Stop treating any guy you don't like who asks you out like a sexual harassing predator, or ask the men out yourself. You've turned yourselves into land mines with hair triggers, of course we are terrified to approach you.

[@jonnylewis8304]

Ding, Ding, Ding, we have a winner. You are absolutely right. This is the correct answer to the old aged question.

[@y0vrs3lf]

My man, why did you stop making this type of videos!? Imma fly to Utah rn, I'll be the camera guy

[@BudderB0y2222]

How about *you* ask a guy out if you want him. Don't wait for life to happen for you, seize it and take control of it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

[@modest8930]

Nah guys should ask women out, but women shouldn't reject them, they should give them a chance.

[@Realtalk2389]

@@edwardadams1024 yeah, and women should also learn how to handle rejection

[@jukes4499]

@@modest8930 Do you have any idea how many millions of men would die for the experience of being asked out? And how literally zero of them would take it as harassment? And if the answer's no, 99% of guys know how to politely decline.

[@modest8930]

@@jukes4499 Idk I'm a traditionalist. I believe it should be men that courts women. I know we live in a matriarchal society and the roles have been reversed. However it's natural for men to pursue women, not the other way around. Women are the selectors, not the pursuers. Throughout history it has been this way and for good reason.

[@modest8930]

@Hell's favorite Salty Masshole You sound like a scorn woman. Go lift some weights and stop consuming so much soy.

[@gauravshinde6306]

bruh I was hopeful for a second. Then saw that it was from 2013.

[@brokencircle81]

I would love to see this remade in 2020.

[@EndlessVacuum]

Why don't women need to 'woman up'? Why is the onus on men? Whatever happened to equality?

[@amyl5250]

We do need to. Real femininity is getting lost just like chivalry is, sadly

[@PauliesWalnuts]

Because equality is not natural. Women have always had a secondary place in society, at least in successful civilizations.

[@abcde_ghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz2188]

Because women have other expectations.

[@oceanmachine1906]

Exactly

[@petermulinzi1288]

@@abcde_ghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz2188like wat honestly?? what do women do in the initial stages of a relationship to show interest??

[@64bit-]

it's not that we think we're gonna get rejected it's that we know we're gonna get rejected

[@nxtboyIII]

Hahaha

[@misterstaple]

my experience is that i cannot merely ask a girl out. She has to be impressed, whether it be through flirting, being funny, or doing something out of the ordinary. I see alot of girls who seem uncomfortable about the idea of dating me most likely it has to do with my first impression (something i'm not very good at). If i ask them to "hang out" they seem alot less fearful (just friends?) and generally say yes to that idea, Giving me a better shot at leaving a better impression.

[@Zykena]

Fantastic work, my friend! Keep the videos coming, they're always extremely insightful.

[@sachingahrana310]

Guys are intersted in being friends first. Lol

[@laststop3h]

No thanks ladies. Lose the entitled attitude and treat us like equals just like feminists told you that you should.

[@RealityCheck6T9]

So are you for feminism or against it Mr MGTOW?

[@amensbuildingjourney]

imagine him doing these videos in 2023

[@DustinLeroy]

can't say this guy isn't doing a good job there

[@loredelamore]

Yes he is being a good little simp white Knight.

[@maniadoc1]

Traditionally that has been the case. Girl are shy to be the first one to ask, no matter how advanced society has become but still one cannot change the inbuilt psychology.

[@youtubevids9449]

They want you to ask them in public so that they feel much better rejecting you in front of people. If Brad Pitt asked them on Facebook inbox they wouldn't consider it lame.

[@harrisonjohn4301]

A fellow art of manliness reader I see. So true

[@jonnylewis8304]

This is true for some girls. I see guys ask girls out and the girl would turn to her friend and laugh and say he just ask me out. Like as if.

[@ImSemtex]

1:44 W R O N G

[@Jacob1Jacob2]

@digital1911 lol fr

[@jaypritchett6846]

My husband and I met online (him Washington and me California) so we sorta text each other if we wanted to go out (come for a visit)One thing that got me was when he asked me to marry him lolWe were dating for a year and a half, but he was still really nervous. I told him he already knew I’d say yes so why was he so scared. He told me “I don’t know... I guess it’s guy thing” lol

[@alexsheppard8331]

@Hell's favorite NPC #69OU812 . exe Keep telling yourself that

[@NikkexD]

Man, you gotta do this shit more often! Love it :)

[@SAVSAV1212]

double standarts at it best

[@bhanujchaudhary6969]

This video was recorded in 2013!

[@Hyenak]

When they want equality of rights... there is no such thing like your responsibility. Deal with it... they want compliments much more than dates.

[@orangemancometh]

Lesson learned: what is easy is what usually should be avoided.

[@EndlessVacuum]

I see. So nature and evolution mean that exact 1:1 equality is not actually viable or possible? Interesting.

[@Thanason1c]

that's nature not equality bro. the key is moving to the lock, not the lock to the key ( if you got imagination you can guess what i am talking about )

[@MrJigarparmar]

Thanason1c excellent analogy bro

[@SAIL3NTAS]

do more of these kinds of vids:)

[@Nykoooo1]

i was waiting for the part where you ask them "do you ask guys to go on a date or do you just wait for them to show up?"

[@lanyihan]

Very encouraging

[@kenklein9120]

It's always been the guy's thing to ask the woman out. When I was still dating (a while back) I did have a few women ask me out, but that was still rare. If men want to date women, then ask them out. If you're a woman and you want to date a guy, then you might have to show a little interest to prod him.

[@voyageavecmoi6024]

2:10 "girls are Intimidating" Oh honey, you couldn't have guessed it more properly

[@Lenny-zn8hn]

I definitely wanna be friend first lmao. Not had good experience with this masterful strategy

[@YouDunnKnowTV]

Wow, genius.

[@guitarhero0000]

Preach brotha!

[@EliVanFleet]

That one blond girl with the red backpack is absolutely gorgeous.

[@funnystuff8307]

you need to make more videos man

[@behems007]

I don't get what's the problem with just simply hanging out. I mean i'll hang out with girls that i have a good impression of and she might be like someone i could date. But first i got to know the girl more or less. I mean become sort of friends, but also interested. And then i ask her out if i like her. It's just the thing i don't ask every girl out on a date, when i don't know her.

[@LutianoEryckson]

You were ahead of your time and why yt recommended this now? (Btw, thanks for the piece of advice)

[@Mrclassy46]

definetly

[@Tililweet]

how do you turn a gameboy into a microphone

[@Kerenaster]

true, true!

[@FateNightroad]

1:27 Very astute woman. And very true. Although in my case it's more like, I don't have a good reason to ask.

[@DormerStone]

awesome and inspiring lets do it fella's!

[@hern9897]

Raphael Dormer maybe tomorrow, the game is on today!

[@Hordalending]

OMG how did I end up here?

[@death710]

Equal rights equal fights 😳

[@kNowFixx]

😳😳😳😳😳😳

[@BinanceUSD]

Face to face means buy them dinner, drinks then 💀

[@benimo6]

@DenALTV true talk man and @patvicious1 PLEASE do more videos they are so interesting!!!

[@jamaloewenhertz5605]

King

[@Mik3Johnson]

Hahahaha! Yes, it's a mic with a wind break

[@wotdoesthisbuttondo]

Good bit of the old lifestyle guru routine going here without any overtouchy russell brand style yoga mats needed, nice one, should've asked the women how many of the guys creepily texting them were teachers/staff at the university?

[@nonammmmme]

AGREE actually get more refuses when use the word "date"

[@minichanz]

I think I broke all the thread rules here

[@stasarmandox]

15... yeah .. right...

[@meirsolomon5626]

The reason why the guys are not asking women out on dates is because they don't want the cops showing up at their door the morning after because the girl accused him of rape.

[@robotttts]

But what if guys also want to be asked out more?

[@christianlassen1577]

Get to know people face to face so you can ask them out face to face. IE, be social in person

[@gongoozleriam9783]

Lol I think she should have learned that from his other video about why guys and girls can't be just friends lol :)

[@eauwasser9137]

it's easy to say when you're not the one humiliated when the answer is no

[@gongoozleriam9783]

"Do nothing," I beg to differ. If you saw how big an effort most girls make to look and be good so they can be the type of girl guys would want to date you'd be shocked. Often when a girl is making this effort to be noticed or wanted/to "get a date," and they aren't getting asked they may wonder "Well what's wrong with me?" & this isn't at all the guys fault or anything it's just how many girls feel. So whether it's right or wrong that's probably 1 reason why the girls in the video are upset.

[@booldawg]

Blessed are the men who these women decide to bestow their attentions upon, dishing out the right to date them like it's the Gold Standard lol!

[@4lex11]

lol ill ask all of the in order o.O

[@ananyabhagat7052]

Ah just America 8 years ago.

[@ari-athbadminton0301]

And peoples are surprised why the confident chad or the bad boys get the pretty girls.. they come to girls with an approach that is rare to find, this de facto impresses them. That doesn't make them good partners tho, they're skilled in the first step and some even put all their charisma points into initiation.

[@amyl5250]

Why does the microphone look like a little mop?

[@GunTech]

Yep, it's time for women to man up and ask men on dates. Agree 100%

[@buddypatzbudpat5760]

I think that asking girls out over a text just spares yourself the humiliation in front of others. Well at least for me I would rather keep it between both of us

[@maniadoc1]

the girl with accent got asked 15 times :-)

[@nonammmmme]

...I thought its always hang out first, get a coffee and getting know each other. If its going well, then should be a date??! Or just ask for the date when u only know her name?

[@banzaijoe76]

PETA wants their animal back.

[@tylerthiessen9484]

Anyone know the woman at 0:24? She is gorgeous!

[@alexsheppard8331]

1:11 LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE!

[@gmx1100]

It's up to you to hold her attention bro. People have a right to get bored

[@formerPapaGal]

My friend is such a cutie! Do not TEXT for a Date!

[@jsandy44]

this is the same university that LAWHF goes to

[@just444ful]

more more more

[@erskoo]

I would like to know how many guys these girls have asked out on a date. Equality goes both ways.

[@pratikpagare7877]

Why the fuck I am getting recommendations to this now

[@MKr-pf5ql]

I totally always ask the guy out, haha they're definitely nervous about "ruining the friendship" /"making it weird". if I like a guy or even a girl I let them know even if the feelings aren't mutual. At least its off your shoulders and the air is cleared. If they say yes awesome, if they say no, oh well dont pout about it move on. I will agree timing is everything and actually going out as opposed to "hanging out" works best. Lunch is safest, both breakfast and dinner are a little too personal (and usually more expensive for a first date), split the check or better yet, surprise him and YOU pay. YOU invited them out, YOU pay. Or if they invite you, YOU BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR OWN EXPENSES. Men aren't your personal wallet. Have fun, laugh, just enjoy each other's company and if it leads to romance and both of you are comfortable, go for it (safely). I hope that helped anyone, best wishes and be safe!

[@Mrclassy46]

1:14 that "4" girl is so beautiful.

[@jackfavvv0280]

This is 2018, do women still think you're lazy if you're not the one asking them out?

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 absolutely yes. The reason that women like for men to be the ones to 'make the move' is because it leaves them with the power in that particular moment. Once you declare your interest in someone by asking them out you are just left hanging on their response. It's a frightening feeling which every guy in this video acknowledged, you have to be willing to face rejection. Women don't want to ask so they don't get rejected. They feel as if they bide their time, they'll eventually get asked out. Considering every girl in the video, save one, was asked out within the last year...it's seems women can wait for the right moment instead of making it happen. Ask yourself this, how many guys, even really popular attractive successful guys do you know that women have asked out? It doesn't happen. Women will flirt and they have other ways to get a guy's attention, but they don't just ask.

[@jackfavvv0280]

So women want men to, 'make the move' because it leaves them with power. But if you think it about carefully, that's more like the absence of power because it pretty much indicates that they "won't" be able to do it due to there gender. And where as men, can. Women can wait, but there's no guarantee that it will happen. With technology on the rise(mainly dolls and "special" robots), men will find less and less reasons to ask a woman out. I wonder if by then women will change their way of thinking.

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 I wouldn't underestimate women if I were you. They know how to get a guy's attention without just asking, they're certainly not powerless. In fact, my point is that they have final say 'yes/no' when a guy does ask. And I personally don't think robots or anything like that is even a threat at all to women, for me there is no comparison to the real thing.

[@jackfavvv0280]

Like the women said in video, men are asking more and more vie text. Not sure how effectively they'll be able to do that like they can in person(getting a guys attention). Remember, social interaction has severely declined due to social media. So I wouldn't underestimate our technology that's inversely proportional to us being more and more lazy if I were you. I'd give it twenty more years.

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 I'd rather be the one underestimating some kind of technological sex robot revolution than the one underestimating 300,000 years of evolution and interpersonal romantic relationships...but that's just me.

[@wusenrob]

should have asked the men how many women asked them out

[@chriscodling6573]

Disrespecting men is only gonna make resent you more

[@jdr956]

People are their worst problem

[@kamalkumar7978]

Man does man-up. #meetoo intensifies.

[@shukailu6731]

1:20 cool girl

[@m4d_al3x]

i would totally ask these girls out, but i only know ones that are sooooo boring.

[@Mik3Johnson]

Uh? Serious? Man up bro, it's your responsibility... just is.

[@tycho8571]

Because they're getting older

[@minichanz]

"Call"? ... were you not listening?

[@seriouslyWeird]

that girl should stop saying "like"

[@Aerational]

Yeah of fucking course the people who have like zero fucking risk of getting their heart ripped out and smashed in front of their face think that it's "wussy".